Why Work is Easier Than Love

[@RubberJunk1]

Dont forget that people do commit suicide after loosing their jobs, work can give people a strong sense of self and satisfaction in life.

[@RubberJunk1]

Sure.

[@derpderpcom]

+Tyler Raciti LMBO

[@thedevo01]

Tyler Raciti - I'm not convinced that you haven't misunderstood what I said. When did homosexuality get in the picture and what made you conclude that I'm conservative? I'm down for a civilized, healthy debate. : )

[@thedevo01]

Tyler Raciti - Ok.

[@thedevo01]

+RubberJunk1 - This kind of supports what the narrator talks about in the video; Losing that stable, simple, restrictive system in your life, being pushed into the unpredictable void takes its toll on us. Some are skilled to survive it, some are hypersensitive and / or anxious about it.

[@kill4fun123]

Things that are harder than love 1. Staying Content 2. Self-Overcoming 3. Megaman 3

[@Blaze8910]

+Colin Cobb 4.Dark Souls Oh wait no, I'm supposed to "Get Good."

[@derpderpcom]

#3 👌😂

[@deceptivepanther]

I like the way this philosophical observation is made without suggesting any particular course of action. Honesty is more useful than advice.

[@sweetbug44]

I mean, there really isn't a direct solution here. It's just kinda the trials and tribulations you're destined to have in comparison to the stressful-yet-safe environment of work. So... Yep.

[@deceptivepanther]

Hm; I think the video is saying rather more than it seems.

[@putopato9983]

+Ian P the choice of which "philosophy" they will communicate is already a suggestion or a drive

[@jojodelacroix]

+Ian P I don't know. Honestly I think that they paint a much prettier picture of working than love. It is places all the strengths of the workplace against all the weaknesses of love. It does not suggest that you should not love, but rather that work is a much more desirable life. I do think that +sweetbug44 has a point though. It mostly seems to be an observation of life since the two are not necessarily mutually exclusive, although you can definitely make them mutually exclusive, or allow one to be such a driving factor in life that basically only one of these aspects exist for you.

[@Ceallai]

+Puto Pato You're not wrong, but I've noticed that what they choose to communicate tends to be the opposite of mainstream ideas. The result is that we get a different perspective on a common issue, ultimately allowing more objectivity.

[@MarcoCrepaldi]

Love is an illusion, the illusion of not being alone.

[@tesla4008]

+Marco Crepaldi When the illusion is over, can I stand up and leave please?

[@dazza123401]

+Tesla did illusion cheated on you? If it did, such a bitch

[@dhidhi1000]

Love usually doesn't work because people have strong misconceptions about it.

[@themysticfedora]

+Dhiego Bersan There's a decent amount of truth to that. Going into a relationship with strong reservations about how you believe it /should/ be can absolutely negatively affect the relationship and bring it to an end when it wouldn't necessarily have to. It's good to avoid thinking the kind of thoughts along the line of clichés that you hear in Hollywood films, such as you shouldn't ever have to change yourself for your true love, etc. etc. It's all very subjective and situational, and a relationship between just two individuals has such amazing complexity to it that this video dedicated to the explanation of that is well deserved.

[@greentree3132]

yes

[@greentree3132]

yes, it's true. the misconceptions of akihabara and hollywood is real

[@NatalieH400]

dat animation, you guys put so much effort into all of your videos

[@gotbitwc7421]

+Natella ikr they are amazing

[@SimplyMayaBeauty]

I just want to give major props to the animators working for this channel. Each video is unique and beautiful to look at. Lovely.

[@Chrisallengallery]

Love is a fire. But whether it is going to warm your hearth or burn down your house, you can never tell.

[@bolivar1789]

I am teaching classical guitar in a German music school and one of my students is a butcher. I have never seen such stiff hands in my life before and I really had no idea at the beginning, about how this man would ever be able to play a single clean note...But turns out that he is such an enthusiastic, patient, curious and motivated ( and very funny! ) student, that after only three months now, he can play a few beautiful small pieces very well and it's getting better every week! He is very proud of himself! Me too, because it is a wonderful feeling to know that you could touch someone's life and add a little beautiful thing to it... This is nothing special about me though. All my colleagues have experiences like that: You have the most shy teenager who fears that he will never find a girlfriend, and after a few months, he gets drunk at a party, dares to play and sing a song, and one of the girls feels so touched that they get together:-) You have the most arrogant, rich, vain business man who is going through ego clashes probably every day, all day at work, and behaves the same horrible way during the lessons. But one day you finally make him understand that we are making music " together" and not playing one "against" the other, so he realises that it's alright to play wrong notes and make mistakes.... He becomes kinder...He may even transfer this attitude into other areas of his life and be an a bit more relaxed and nicer guy in the future... So this is how I feel about my work: you love what you are doing, you have the chance to improve yourself every single day by learning from students, colleagues etc..., you are doing something meaningful and you know that your efforts are never in vain. If you really try your best, then even the laziest, the least talented or the most disturbed and misbehaving student will learn something from the time you have spent together. It doesn't always have to be about the guitar, indeed it is always much more than that... It is about the relationship you build with that student. About giving him/ her a sense of worthiness ( no matter how they play), self confidence, teaching them to have patience, to focus properly, to enjoy and value every moment.There are so many beautiful things you can learn through music... That was the work part. And this is how I feel about romantic love: It is basically like gambling... You may put so much time, love, effort, hope, good will in a relationship and ultimately see that it was absolutely for nothing. Other than giving you a good lesson about life may be ( which is also quite something indeed... ) The lesson I have learnt is in this one line: " There is fiction in the space between you and me". ( This is from the song "Telling Stories", by Tracey Chapman ) Ultimately how you see that person and your relationship with him is your fiction, and than there is "his" fiction. So there isn't much "reality base" there to build something upon. You will never entirely know the other person, and what you think that you know may also be completely mistaken. I could get deeper and darker in this but I 'll skip that part. Here is a kind of happy ending: If you want to have children and build a family, don't panic. There are many professionals ( writers, philosophers, therapists) who can help you. And to give you hope,I must say that even I know some happily married couples. But if you don't want to have children, you may seriously consider NOT to move in together: This way you could keep your own silent, peaceful place on earth, you could reduce your expectations from your partner to a minimum and concentrate mainly on giving what you can.

[@CatOfTheCannals]

+Lua Veli like both what you write and what you play :D having myself, given lots of thoughts regarding these topics, I have come to feel like the biggest problem is how unrealistic our expectations may be towards love. even someone who expects to much of work will also be likely to be disappointed. perhaps a stoic approach can easen some pain and let us be surprised when things do turn out fine. right now I'm in a hurry and can't go into much more details but I can say that indeed, work has given me more satisfaction than amorous relationships. I'm curious about those darker insights that you mentioned. btw, School of life has covered an interesting topic which is friendship and monastic life. it left me wondering if it wouldn't be nice for us all to have more overall relationships and interdependences, so as to not fall apart when someone ends up not being what we expected or providing what we need. I believe that good friends can heal a broken heart. peace :)

[@jaharising9788]

...totally agree, and have to say that was beautifully put... I teach guitar sometimes myself and you're spot on,..a lot of the time it's you that goes away from a lesson having learned something new. As far as love goes, I think you're right here too,..If I've learned anything, it's that you'll never completely know or understand the one you're with...all you can really do is give as much as you can afford to a relationship without burning yourself out or giving so much that the other person feels it's o.k. to take advantage of you're kindness and affection, wether not they even realize they're doing it... if i may reply in kind; "she took the worry from your heart, but then again, she put trouble in trouble in your heart instead..*" ...guess it's a kind of trade-off,... risky business, that love game. . . ;-) (*Joan Armatrading-down to zero.)

[@bolivar1789]

+Carlos Giudice Hola Carlos. Sorry for my late reply. Thank you very much for reading and also for visiting my channel. I also happen to think that the most noble and profound form of love is friendship indeed. Since you said that you were interested in having more insights on the darker side of love, I wanted to recommend you an excellent book. It isn't just dark, but it is a book full of wisdom from an excellent psychoanalist from Argentina: Gabriel Rolon. I assume that you speak Spanish, huh? It is called " El Lado B del amor". I have read two more books by him, both of them are great too: Historias de Divan Historias Inconscientes I think you can order them by Amazon, from Argentina or Spain. But since it is always more expensive, I finally bought a Kindle, just because of this guy! If you want to have an idea just search for his name on youtube, there are excellent interviews with him too. Te mando mis mejores desoes.

[@bolivar1789]

+Jaha Rising Hello there! Thank you very much for reading and for your message. I wholeheartedly agree. Honestly, I think in love and in friendship there is nothing more beautiful than offering something to the other that can ease and even beautify his/ her life. But as you say, it is also important to know how much you are supposed to give. People think it is cold and calculated to think about this subject. But it really isn't. There is an excellent interview with the psychologist Adam Grant, on a podcast called " On Being with Krista Tippett". He wrote a book called " Give and Take"".On the interview he gives very valuable insights on this subject. Thank you very much for the wonderful song. I have just heard it. Best wishes!

[@jaharising9788]

+Lua Veli cool, thanks for the reply, ...and for the suggestion...I've found a few of A. Grant's talks online so I'll check him out...also subbed your YT channel...I share a lot of the same interests (ie; music/guitar, astronomy/science,) you have a lot of great content on there, so eh,...thanks again...see ya!

[@mertakn8674]

Even advanced quantum physics is easier than love...

[@jmelanierenee]

Mert Akın 😂😂😂

[@elleessssarrrghhh]

Advanced quantum physics IS love!

[@lututuka]

You can say that again.

[@saraklondon]

🤣 we prefer to know AQP, than understand people but we just aren't patient, we want it all now. Although if we try understand people, we could soon say love is just as easy as AQP, depends who you ask 😉 but love this comment 😊

[@cotes42]

I like that alarm clock sound much better than my current one!

[@ColoredStripes]

Much respect for this animation. I can tell it costed you guys like 3 million paper sheets

[@kenllacer]

No trees were harmed in the making of this skit.

[@VampireSquirrel]

You must have had much nicer experiences at work than I've ever had.

[@johnarmstrong5866]

+Rachel Evans (REvans) Sorry to hear that

[@stevel8430]

yea im watching this thinking what kind of job is he talking about . work is hidius . 10hs of hell . when he talks about livers slaming doors and calling each other idiots im thinking that sounds like work to me lol. Ive witnessed and been apart of vicious physical fights at work . All bosses do is shout and instill fear . How many times have you heard do x y z by 4 o'clock or you will be back in the dole cue. work is by my experience nothing but 50hrs of hell with the alternative being hunger .

[@VampireSquirrel]

Steve L +

[@RedNaraku]

same

[@jjhrkel]

Work is easier and more rewarding to me. Note: I am divorced.

[@EdwardScissorsHands1]

Now make a video of people that lack both.

[@tesla4008]

+Eduardo Felipe If you don't have love, then you do have a lot. Time to take care of yourself, sanity, etc.

[@1bgrant]

I find love easier than work. It's more honest, free, and enjoyable.

[@baryonyx31]

Because work doesn't drain all your fuckin' money

[@1kuaq]

+baryonyx31 true

[@logictruth1]

+baryonyx31 imagine if someone would pay you and your girlfriend to stay together. Wonder how that would go....

[@ar993094]

+baryonyx31 ohh fuck thats true

[@ar993094]

+John Smith not kidding

[@Ceallai]

+baryonyx31 Speak for yourself... I'm going to need a car, a haircut, new clothes, new make-up and some form of daycare before I even stand a chance of passing an interview. :(

[@JohnyBuzzkillKidd]

I lost my mum a year ago today to cancer. It was fast and aggressive. Close friends have tell me how strong I am to deal with it the way I have. This intentionally respectful platitude frustrates me. But it's not ever something you can ever respond to honestly. They don't like it. I've tried. "I appear strong because I have no desire to break down in front of you. If I want to feel sad I will go sit alone and allow myself to feel sad until I start to feel silly. There is a comfort in knowing that when you tell me my life experience is traumatic, you just haven't thought ahead to the inevitable loss of your own parents. It's a pain we all end up sharing one way or another." People are offended when you tell them you don't want to share and that their parents will one day die. There must be a way to fix this. I'd like it so that from now on, people don't offer their judgement or opinion on a set of events, they just give you a hug in silence. That's enough. No words needed. Infact! Remove all unnecessary verbal communications. If you don't feel like its been long enough or enough things have happened since you last saw each other to warrant a hug, then a polite nod of the head will do. "Hi how're ya" in passing also frustrates me. I never respond with the expected "fine thanks how are you?" but with "content". People talk too much these days and say nothing. Social media condolences for celebrities they've never met are another frustration. Anyone else feeling this or am I just broken?

[@Ceoxx346]

+Johny “Buzzkill” Kidd To keep it concise, you are absolutely not alone in your approach and thoughts in these situations.

[@eljaykayaye1186]

I usually cut people some slack, they don't know what to say or do to help. Unfortunately, grief process is pretty internal and alone. I had a friend who just later had me over , went about their social life, included me when I was there, let it go when I didn't want to join in. we never talked about what was wrong. I had another friend who was always on me , talking to me to intensely,..I needed both of them. Don't tell another person how to grieve or expect a quick fix!(That part's not 2 you shh!) There isn't one. You have to find your own way.. people are caring for you the best they know how. ♥

[@thatkidinthestripes]

I feel like I really needed this today. 🙂

[@genericscout5408]

Love is different for everyone. Some people don't care about getting messages like telepathy. Some people spend a long time to develop love.

[@ImagineWhy]

people/humams love is art not always a person soothing your inner child when it cries for acceptance and belonging. learn your expressions so you can emit what love is. find it in what you do.

[@anab3014]

what kind of relationship they describe? love lasts for weeks? expectations from one another? happy to leave the house monday morning? does the person who wrote it have ever been in a healthy relationship?

[@ananya.a04]

I often get that feeling while watching their videos about love and romantic relationships

[@aacoupledup386]

Love is work but the reward is far greater than any job could ever offer!

[@sridharvaishnava9003]

Love is hard when only one person is willing to put in the effort.

[@katzpajamas5123]

Lately, I've found myself in disagreement with the School of Life's philosophies. It is nice to see something that I can get on board with again. Experience has shown me that love is, indeed, more difficult than work.

[@YoNevNo]

Well it's not really that we try to communicate by just intuition all the time. Most of the trouble and frustration comes when we tell our partners what is reasonable and right and they simply don't do it, for EVER, or that they have their own sense of what is reasonable. And the frustration and anger continues even after we come meet half way but one party or the other just goes back to their old ways. This is not a simple matter that can be solve purely with communication. A lot of couples, if not all of them, go through this and this is the main reason why people divorce.

[@leepe6956]

This was an excellent video. I do agree with some of the commenters that said that not all jobs are the best experience. I think what still makes work a lot easier than love is that work still has an overall linear and rational pattern where love is chaotic and emotional.

[@fistoffries]

So basically, a romantic relationship is like having an impatient jerk as a boss. But seriously, they make some good points. Work is structured with clear expectations and it understood that there will be a learning curve, however, romantic relationships don't have to be the diametric opposite. What is being described in the video is immaturity and a lack of empathy for another person's flaws, in short, this is what relationships are like in our teens and early 20s. Most people do outgrow this and start picking up the skills to treat someone with respect and kindness.

[@ekkoloss123]

+Always Learnin' It works because women want douchebags

[@sentinusdeus]

+Colourme Swagger Some do, but definitely not all (and those who do, will not be the ones you want to be with anyway). This also becomes less and less when they get older. They will focus increasingly more on stability, status and kindness :)

[@ekkoloss123]

Sentinus Deus Older I don't want to wait to long menopause in females stuff

[@lindagelderman4338]

I am starting a new job next monday, I actually feel more relaxed about it now.

[@seahawk124]

"Love is a battlefield" - Pat Benatar

[@krokodyl1927]

"here's my heart" - Pat Benatar. Tremendous voice!!

[@FredHMusic-gr7nu]

I take the wisdom of this video into great consideration but this won't stop me pursuing a strong relationship with that special someone in my life!

[@MINDPLUNK]

You guys have been killing it lately. This is a channel that I like to share with my friends the most.

[@gaillewis5472]

The gravity of needing money makes people behave better at work than they ever would in a relationship. "We" take each other for granted, but your boss can and will replace you today.

[@dumfriesspearhead7398]

It's all about survival.

[@EllaBirt]

I am really surprised to find many of your videos are so pessimistic about love and relationships. There are many couples who understand how to empathize, communicate and consistently grow in awareness and love for one another.

[@bobpolo2964]

I think he's being slightly objective and speaking on behalf of the majority, not the minority of people who have well-functioning relationships. I've also witnessed people partaking in love-filled relationships. Pessimism is probably our natural disposition though. Focusing on the positive takes work, similar to building meaningful and long-lasting relationships.

[@EllaBirt]

+bob polo Yes, it does take dedicated and diligent work to have good relationships with one another. I certainly do see more dysfunction and unhappiness in relationships I've observed, but there is a continuum rather than polarities in relationships. I feel like the videos addressing relationships here are very polarized, and being that it is the school of life, I'd hope for a bit more of an objective perspective than that. Either way, when I watch these fun vids with my husband, we feel very grateful for what we have. We are one another's sweet spot, a reprieve from the world, and it is work - the type of work The School of Life addresses in their courses and products. I'd love to see this woven into their videos as well.

[@bobpolo2964]

Ella Birt You make a valid point about the channel's name, "The school of life." You'd think there'd be a broader view, more encompassing; but maybe the speaker's own personal experience with relationships colours the messages being conveyed. Personally, I dislike the Freudian undertones in some of these videos. We're not all repressed adults, craving sex with our parents. At least I'm not. Oh, and I'm happy to hear you're in a loving marriage. Take that general consensus!

[@ovechkin100]

ive been working for the same company now for 9 years. ive been single now for 3 years after a 3 year relationship while previously single for some time. yes work is A LOT easier than this

[@salvatore_slate]

Whether or not this guy is speaking truth, how can you doubt that voice?

[@davecom3]

Expectations = lower yours and work and love will be a helluva lot easier.

[@Ceallai]

I've noticed that when people say you shouldn't let someone change who you are, what they really mean is that you shouldn't let someone change what (or who) you like. I don't mind becoming more patient or less impulsive with the help of someone else, but if they tried to dictate what I like to wear, or listen to, or who I'm attracted to, that's not on.

[@agenericboringhomosapien8108]

Comment section of all your videos is just *chefs kiss*

[@TimoMeester]

Your videos keep amaze me. It's a habit of mine to watch some of them before going to sleep. Every time I do so, I feel mind blown. Thank you so much.

[@hermanchenwi5642]

School of life has officially become my best youtube channel

[@MelodySpin]

Am I the only one who finds love easier than work?

[@cellardoor199991]

Because work has a set of rules, regulations, procedures, time cards, etc. So people can follow and not fuck up. You know what to do , when to do it, and how to do it. LOVE isn't like that. Also, LOVE is mostly emotional not logical. So you get some fucking crazy shit happening.

[@Xolerys]

I think just a bit of logic should be part of love as well

[@cellardoor199991]

+Xolerys It SHOULD, but hardly is. Women never use their brains in social/relationship situations.

[@wardox3638]

+MR.X but, why are they like that?

[@cellardoor199991]

+Wardo X Physiology, genetics, and evolution. Nature hardwired them that way. Us guys are the opposite - we use our brains: Logic & Reasoning. Want to know what helped me with women? Read " How to Be A 3% Man" by Coach Corey Wayne and sub his channel. Everything is free! He's like Will Smith in Hitch. He changed my life.

[@cellardoor199991]

+Xolerys Women only use their brains when they get paid to like at work. Or studying for a test. Never anywhere else.

[@gamerN77]

Once again, you guys nailed it. I don't know if it's my Social Anxiety speaking (and no, I do not only pretend to have it because I'm 'shy') or the exact concept you're talking about in this video, but I'd much rather take my finals or present a topic I know a lot about in front of a large audience, than asking a girl out. Oddly enough, I experience work/school issues so much easier to deal with, than issues regarding relationships.

[@krokodyl1927]

"love don't pay no bills love kills ... " - Freddy Mercury

[@001111Brandon111100]

Each video I watch here makes me want to keep coming back and make sure that when I do, I pay full attention.

[@cocoexisting1589]

I think the difficulty of work is that exact attitude of needing to hide certain emotional facets. Love in that regard is easier because there's an acknowledgement of these emotions and it's the best way for authenticity to shine through, no matter what the consequence. Granted in work you're in control, but that doesn't make the process of doing any easier concerning the subjective constraints. Love may be a torrid thing, but having the space to just be makes it one of the easier activities to do. It's just the reality of responsibility that makes the love feel like work I suppose. End of the line, I don't think love (such a broad, absurd concept) can be set against the "work of our hands".

[@effingright3045]

I wish once, just once, I'd got work-related training. Everywhere I've ever worked I didn't have an effing clue what the fuck was going on at first and no one had any interest in filling me in. They were all perfectly happy to watch me flounder, hoping I'd fail.

[@Omarti1]

Not to sound too greedy or anything, but can we please have an art/architecture episode for Salvidor Dali

[@katzpajamas5123]

I second the notion

[@caustic576]

+Omar Ismail Or on the recent departure of Zaha Hadid, a video on her approach to architecture, her legacy?

[@awsh]

I don't know if I agree with the professionalism comment.... When I walked into the office yesterday my boss was shooting Nerf darts at a mini quad copter that my coworker that flying lol.

[@sallylemon5835]

why work easier than love. you pain, you gain you're cycling and mastering the speed you're hiking and mastering the slope you're stressed but that's how you gain satisfaction over getting the task done. you build skills and difficult things becomes more ease. just like working out, just like fasting. love? you fell in love, and deep. mellow in the beds of roses. fell, deep, weak. there are hell of ways need through to get back up again.

[@artistformerlyknownas7585]

my work is wholly unaware that people are incapable of improving if they feel threatened and humiliated. In fact, I would go so far as to say that my work behaves as a party in a romance, expecting their employees to read its collective mind and whims and know what it wants without being explicitly told. I am pretty sure all other works are similar, except, maybe Google. Idk?>

[@cassiewogsland9438]

This is my favorite animation of all the School of Life Videos so far.

[@bluchocolate123]

All these problems will be solved once the female robots come into full production. Let's just be patient for the next 6-10yrs and all will be fine.

[@dawna4185]

+bluchocolate123 ...hahah...funny

[@derpderpcom]

I think you mean male robots. Sperm is so much easier to harvest than eggs.

[@zixelira]

I like the concept that love is a skill, however, I think that the idea of the purpose of "lovers" is still abstract. E.g. (3:18) "utmost to improve those they care about, through their love". What is the implication of this statement? Should we imply that every lover is aware of that and is actually ready or willing to accept it? How is this improvement supposed to be? What should be improved, who decides that and when? If one of the lovers improves it mean a change in the person and therefore a direct impact on the relationship: does this "improvement" also mean an "improvement" back to the other lover? etc...

[@ivarlavins4165]

+Johanny Perez Sierra I think this teaching is meant for both sides and maybe not on the second day. Some examples. "Could you make this or that sometime for my dinner?" or "If you are going to pay the bills you can't be late." Or on the other side. "You forgot to take out the garbage."

[@JIYkp]

Wow, this so eloquently sums up what I have been noticing in my relationship recently.

[@RosesAndIvy]

Thank you for this video! I sometimes feel like a freak for finding relationships very complicated.

[@anthonydemetriou9335]

This is actually brilliant.

[@ladyi7609]

I've found it far easier to be successful at work than to be successful at love, and it only took me months to secure employment at my current employer vs. the years it's taken since the last time I was in a relationship.

[@Feyer7Death]

I love the animation style that the channel use, is very complex( but kinda simple) and realy beautiful to watch.

[@monasafey5838]

i agree in this video that we need to learn love , and that love is harder than work but at monday i am happy (in my case sunday ) noooo way and i believe that we should learn to regulate our emotion but living wihout it at allllll !!!!!

[@irynakalychak6821]

I just heard something I've known for years now, but was afaraid to admit. But simply knowing you lack all the necessary skills doesn't help. How to learn to be more patient? That is the real problem that takes a lifetime to solve:(

[@duckdudette]

This isn't particularly relevant to this particular video but your titles are probably the best click bait around both in terms of attention-grabbing and in being realistic representations of your content. This is in my opinion a very impressive show of the quality of work that you produce :)

[@robertgeorge2011]

liking the recent pro single stuff

[@liloo999]

Actualy I find working places very hard because of the things you describe, I prefer to work as a freelancer

[@SocuteRaptor]

Love is clearly easier than work. To make them love us back is the thing that is difficult. :(

[@smulanx3]

You should start a segment about composers - mozart, beethoven etc; the evolution of music.

[@EmperorZelos]

This...is what I have known for 5 years I need. I want someone to help me grow as a human being, make me greater today, than I was yesterday. It is waht I seek...yet cannot have......

[@dumfriesspearhead7398]

A bit late to the party.......but have you considered employing a life/business coach? Looking for what you want from a personal relationship might put too much pressure on it before it's really begun.

[@albatrossjim2524]

Stunning. In a good way.

[@chintanjadwani]

Beautiful! Can we get transcriptions of this video somewhere? I would love to sit down, take my time and read this.

[@ickkck1100]

Nice music at the end, it'd be cool if you added some sort of ending track to your videos.

[@wisdomofthecrowd9845]

Thanks School of Life! Your channel has been growing really fast! Well deserved! You even inspired me to start my own channel! I read many books and summarise the best of them in my videos!

[@terrymadeley]

Not just me then, that's a relief.

[@sgcustodio]

What a life changing small observation. thank you!!

[@razgarnett]

love your work it's so beautiful for a vietnamese like me to understand

[@dollface8187]

I must be living in a paradox. I find love with my husband and family and friends very easy. But i can't seem to even get a good interview for a " normal" job.

[@NotTonTon]

Best life advice: constant improvement on one self.

[@Heavy-metaaal]

What a true story.

[@Daimo83]

I thought the first half was a little rushed, but I like what you did with the ending which made it circular.

[@Bathna33]

This made me happy.

[@colehartel7206]

I've often had the experience of meeting someone I feel I could quite easily fall in love with, but unfortunately I'm at work at the time and so have to be professional. It's only the bills that have to be paid that make work easier than love in those situations! :(

[@armina551]

I really love this channel and the videos but I think someone has a really bad problem with his love life and I feel very sorry for that

[@Sepharite]

Love is a selfish process. The process in which two individuals find themselves in another person - their own flaws, their own beauty, and their own faith in themselves. When one finds utmost appreciation for one's self in another person, then they will love.

[@cannedyumyum]

Tfw I have neither love nor work

[@dannymaurice5543]

+The School of Life who hurt you? I feel like someone you loved really hurt you when you were younger? r u ok? u alright? im here if you wanna talk fam

[@DogAmongMen]

You lost me right away. But y'all are good at making opinions sound like general facts.

[@salameri6573]

Work is mostly by our hand. Or at least we find some logic when we do it. But when your happiness is attached with someone else its irrational and it gets frustrating and disappointing for not understanding the logic behind the need and vulnerability you have for that person.

[@TearDrop2727]

Love is easier than work for me.

[@YassineCherkaoui18]

hope the best for all your projects! great video

[@ridenhour1]

Thanks for the video. before finding your channel, i always looked down at philosophy and how it had no use in modern life. How wrong i was. I need answers to questions that can't be answered like, what is a meaningful life, will I be successful, and what is love and will I find it again. I still need rational thinking and facts, but I also need psychology.

[@vigneshoff]

and the workplace is filled or even lead by those people who suck at home life...

[@jessiicoool]

Fantastic!

[@dariofino2605]

Thank you, I needed it!

[@karthikkumar6861]

Great video as always. Love you SOL.

[@DarkMoonDroid]

LOL I dedicate this one to my Ex-husband. He had it so good.

[@Christopher_Gibbons]

Is it just me or have these videos taken a very gloomy disposition lately.

[@halloweeninthesea]

+Christopher Gibbons what's wrong with gloomy?

[@ConfuzzledTomato]

they've been "gloomy" all along

[@viljamtheninja]

+Christopher Gibbons I don't really think so. I'd just say realistic, as opposed to Hollywood-esque naitivé. Which is a good thing.

[@tesla4008]

+Christopher Gibbons They try to have a better representation of life. In case you didn't already know, it's not all peaches and cream like social media often pretends.

[@maaidevries1471]

I agree, my (creative) job is so much more fun and easy than my private and non-excisting love life...

[@Matandfun]

My work is so different to that description.

[@AudioDregs]

Really like the animation on this!

[@shindiregitasyali9248]

Wow I love this