These Christians Think You Are FAKING Your Sexuality

[@iNabber]

hey guys pls comment beans and like this video, 30,000 like goal? to boost a niche topic in the algorithm

[@alexlosttheirsanity]

beans ;00

[@Worms4brains]

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[@emelia2723]

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[@lukereadman366]

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[@lanamarie8861]

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[@UltraMarineBlue]

The part where they kept calling Demi "she" while explaining that they didn't want to be called "she" anymore was so enraging. With the friendly smile and everything, like they didn't know exactly what they were doing. Imagine calling yourself a good Christian while bullying someone like that, disgusting..

[@soundsofthesea11]

Exactly! Regardless of how you feel about identities and such, it gives you absolutely no right to misgender someone on purpose. As Christians they should know that one of the basic aspects of their religion is to respect others.

[@kokuhakuqiun4215]

If they respect Demi Lovato, they will respect Demi Lovato’s pronouns as they/them.

[@crackkillspuppies]

Wow, bullying sure has changed since I was a kid lol

[@kokuhakuqiun4215]

@@asum7213 that's a vice isn't it?

[@almosthuman616]

Really put me in the mood to go to their channel and purposely misgender both of them. I'm not gonna do it I'm not that mean but they're really such a horrible representation of modern day christians

[@JalynCommentary]

I hate People who try and Mask Hatred as Concern, It's so irritating

[@Lola_Nico]

Concern is a real thing when it comes to these topics, and we should be able to openly discuss these concerns. I just think a lot of these christians don’t have a good defence tbh. They use the Bible for defence when in reality, sconce is the only real defence.

[@Lola_Nico]

Science*

[@Mysnrnnr]

didnt you tell someone to kill themselves on twitter cause they criticised you?

[@longangrysausage3495]

@@Mysnrnnr lmaoo plsss

[@lolcandyyy]

Not surprisingly you are here, didn’t expect it but it makes sense. Hi

[@themaindweeb7500]

“My audience is *extremely* lonely and never get ANY bitches-“ No, no. He’s got a point.

[@ness2965]

like wtf man, he's right

[@beththedarkmage3359]

True, we all get men and nonbinary people 😎

[@SixtySecondYoga]

I read this as he said it!

[@sana_gamez_0-o340]

Yea cant disagree

[@_xV01Dx_]

Turns out my fiancé isn't real, ig. Goddamn it.

[@Ledybit]

When Morgan said that being non-binary means that a person identifies as she and he at the same time, I nearly popped a vein. It just shows how uneducated they both are. They don’t look further into things because stating their ‘justified’ opinions and as someone who’s in the LGBTQIA+ community, I’m deeply disappointed.

[@apollo4950]

the level of ignorance coming from them is mind-boggling.

[@lilmisskristy5467]

Using both he/she is either bi-gender or genderfluid ( as a genderfluid myself- I also use they/them) or possibly others things as well!

[@regularly_priced]

That’s just bigender lol

[@crashpaul4819]

exactly , these people need to do research at least if they are gonna hate . such ignorant people .

[@ilikebeingsmart]

I do some creative writing, and I called the character I was thinking of non-binary, but a quick Google search made me realize I was thinking more of gender fluid. It’s not that hard to educate yourself if you’re confused!

[@stylustechnology]

Indigenous people must be so tired because The non-binary and trans community hasn’t been new to them for 50,000 years plus now. We can track trans communities in every culture but they’ve actually embraced it, it’s a human universal it has been since the beginning of Time.

[@chaoticcatartist]

Exactly

[@avarose9392]

yup!!!

[@shiaseedsalad2726]

YES

[@ManuelaKarim]

I think about this all the time! Indigenous Pacific Islander/Samoan cultures have had third or non-binary genders for ages!! The Wayuu group of Colombia/venezuela also has had a third gender for ages!! In India as well there is a third gender I forget their name! And in Mexico too there are Muxes!! The issue is white, western Christian ideals that rely on these binaries to build their hierarchy that determines importance and respectability!!

[@candiedcockroaches]

And that’s why I always tie enbyphobia to the white supremacy that’s so deeply rooted in our society.

[@carly1386]

The fact that Morgan sat there defining what being nonbinary is while entirely not knowing what it is. Speaks volumes to how truly uneducated they are

[@chaoticawfulart4550]

Right?? Like, it’s literally in the name, “Nonbinary”. We don’t lean on either side AT ALL. That’s kinda the point lol

[@GothMermaidGamer]

The amount of times I said "That's not what nonbinary means" throughout this video smh

[@rosenrot234]

Or they're playing dumb so people watch their videos and comment

[@IONE_the_Enby]

'I feel like a man in this instance, or I feel feminine like this' Literally... not what non-binary means, but Morgan somehow stumbled into gender fluidity.

[@nenmaster5218]

Religion is Overdue to go Extinct. Harsh words, especially for those raised with the misconception that EVERYTHING is just taste and opinion and everyone may believe whatever they want, but no, actually, reality is kinda harsher. Atheist-Channel dont exist for no reason and Religion overall causes more problems than it solves, which is not hard, cause it solves Zero, but thats not even the point.

[@Ella-cg8he]

"Demi Lovato changed so much after leaving Disney" Yes, they grew up, you should try that too.

[@lex-jf3ng]

I LOVE THIS COMMENT

[@anthonykerr3509]

I wouldn’t say that, but their pronouns are they/them.

[@micah7608]

debatable..

[@Lvestfold4143]

I wouldn't say that they grew up. Demi is deeply troubled. Disney does that to their young stars.

[@Rissfleisch]

Disney is also an awful corporation who are very controlling of the image their stars give out, they were probably forced to stick to a code of conduct and dress code. It must have been liberating to leave. So many child stars of Disney are abused by the system. I suspect some of them even willfully get a NSFW image just so Disney will fire them because the big mouse reaaaaally hates non family friendly stuff xD

[@babystone42]

I don't like Trisha Paytas. I still call them by their respected pronouns. I don't like Nikita Dragun. But I still call her by her respected pronouns. I may not like these people, I may not like what they do, but they're still people, and I still respect their identities as they have chosen. Because that's what a decent human does. Respects people for who they are, and not respecting people conditionally.

[@sonn3nsyst3mffx]

preach sis

[@nt_partlycloudy21]

Exactly. Even if you don’t agree with someone’s actions, that doesn’t justify misgendering them.

[@shineinstars]

"but they deserve it !!! 😾😾" girl no. idc how much u dislike somebody, respect their identity.

[@kiralonely]

This. I despise Blair White tbh, but I will never misgender her to be spiteful. There is nothing in doing that, that will do me any good. It's a net negative at it's core, it only teaches people that they're allowed to misgender others as an insult. It's not just an insult to me, and I will treat it the same for many others. It's, agh. No. I hate it when people misgender people they don't like, just because they wanna be spicy or petty.

[@hydratedcow452]

if a trans person does something bad, it says nothing about their identity, so why would i go out of my way to disrespect it? people are way too quick to misgender someone after realizing theyre unlikable/bad. u dont do that to cis ppl. suspicious.

[@spiceupyourafterlife]

“I can’t imagine living life on *my* truth.” That’s the saddest thing I’ve ever heard!

[@lt.kainjiiva]

I don't know what truth she's living but I want nothing to do with it

[@wlk3607]

right

[@markostelioglanidis7867]

The saddest and the most confusing thing I have heard, indeed.

[@solus8685]

Deadass lmfao😭

[@RH-km5wj]

Before they met...she was a punky/pop singer....so...her truth was literally tossed away for him and his beliefs. Jacklyn Glenn did a video showing this. It's pretty upsetting.

[@klunkcow6532]

I get so angry when people say that people are faking it. It's so childish. Like how do you know what people are feeling and thinking? If someone says they're gay or non binary or anything, why does it have to be questioned? It's not even your business

[@gotit4cheap368]

Fr, when I came out as nonbin it was to a pop quiz and an interigation that ended with 'you can't be something you just heard about, I studied for 2 years to learn that I was Ace' like I just decided one day to be something for gay points and not have always been something but just had a word for it now

[@sillygooseontheloose]

My mom always says that and I am and it makes me so sad

[@acequeenofthedeck8431]

Next time that happens to me imma tell them they're faking being straight and see their reaction XD

[@justkittensbeingkittens5892]

@@gotit4cheap368 I thought I was just super weird for not finding anyone, except people who’s personalities I like, attractive. Turns out I’m demisexual. I looked it up one time bc a friend said that’s what she is and I was like O das me lol. Pretty cool to know I’m just not defective lol

[@gotit4cheap368]

@@justkittensbeingkittens5892 I hear stories like ours a lot, we've always been here we just are visible now with ways to describe ourselves. People think it's 'new' because they see so many of us but lol we've BEEN here the whole time

[@theblob4741]

Ya know what’s weird is that Morgan used to be “normal” like she wasn’t an extremist and made music videos with sexual undertones. Yet after she met Paul, her views and beliefs DRASTICALLY changed.

[@lyndora33864]

And Paul shames her for her past at every chance he gets.

[@Candicedickinsonllc]

@@lyndora33864 wow that’s awful . He sounds extremely controlling and judgmental

[@TotosTales]

@@Candicedickinsonllc he is from what I’ve seen. Also she apparently threw up at the altar when they got married and like…that can’t be a good sign? 🥴😅

[@meghansullivan6812]

I get big narcissist vibes from him. I also wouldn’t put it past him to be abusive :////

[@erin-3599]

he also won't let her take medication for either bipolar or bpd (can't remember which she has been diagnosed with) which is honestly part of the reason this has happened imo

[@slsthewriter1299]

Here's another point with putting pronouns in bios: …not everybody shows themselves on camera, therefore, it can be difficult to know a person's identity either way. It just. Helps. And honestly, I think that point has a better chance in getting through to these people because the only arguments that would be raised against it are blubbering spit machines.

[@osml]

And even if we can see them, we still can't be sure about their identities/pronouns. Gender identity =/= pronouns =/= gender expression. It's always better to put pronouns in your bio just in case (at least that's how I see it).

[@slsthewriter1299]

@@osml Fair enough, though I'd disagree with part of that. Gender identity is labeled through pronouns; language is just a bunch of labels in the end of the day, all so that people can understand what you're referencing. If gender identity can't be referenced by labels, then what's the point in identifying as any gender at all? (This isn't to say that gender and being able to label is the most important thing in the world, but that is what pronouns are, no?) Gender expression though, yeah I'd agree, because that's more on an individual basis and more so how people interpret their identity within the context of themselves. Hence why you can get variations in femininity versus masculinity regardless of gender. Though I digress. xD This talk is too complicated for my rat pea brain. Yeah, people should just put their pronouns in their bios. Lol

[@osml]

@@slsthewriter1299 I see where you are coming from. What I was saying was that even though someone might align with a female/feminine leaning gender identity they might still use non-feminine pronouns. Same with male/masculine and genderless/androgynous. Like myself, am non-binary, look feminine but still use all pronouns that equally make me happy. Hope that was understandable. But yeah, at the end of the day, just let people be themselves and live how they want to.

[@slsthewriter1299]

@@osml aH that's it. Lol. Yeah, I do agree with you. I have a bunch of friends who are non-binary (I'm just soft butch, lol). My biggest thing is that sex =/= gender. There's a correlation a lot of the time, since gender is a culture's interpretation of sex, but because people are highly social, we're more complicated than that, hence why not everyone is cis. Tis probably the doctor in me, but that is a pet peeve of mine. Lol. Female doesn't always mean woman, and male doesn't always mean man. That said, if you're including male and female within the definition of gender, then yeah I do agree with you 100%. But since I separate them, that's were we disagreed. Lol. But ye. Let people vibe.

[@laurencreates359]

i hate how she says that demi is trying to be like a man and a woman when the whole point of being non binary is that you are neither of the 2 binary genders shes refering to ITS IN THE WORD 🤦‍♀️ Edit: thank you for your insights in the replies I appreciate you all for taking the time to explain to me :) x

[@canopenerassociation]

EXACTLY PSSBH

[@gwenk903]

IKR that especially made me FURIOUS ohmygod

[@Misstborn]

ikr?? that video was just tiring tbh

[@Random_loaf_of_bread]

OMG yes! That made me so irritated-

[@Geoffrey454]

Yes although being non-binary is a spectrum and there are many non-binary identities. Some people do identify with both genders, and some are also gender fluid. Non-binary just means you don't fit in with the system which sees gender as a binary, so any identity which isn't either man or woman is a non-binary gender identity. :)

[@taylort3674]

Paul and Morgan be like "pronouns are so confusing!!" As though god being father, son, and holy spirit 3 in one and Jesus being god, but also not isn't confusing. As someone who's been in multiple highly religious schools, If you can grasp that god is 3 and one and Jesus is both god and not then you can grasp someone identifying as nonbinary.

[@bee4123]

SO TRUE christianity can get extremely complex in the finer details of its beliefs. like if u can memorize scripture, grasp complex concepts in christianity, and freaking algebra for god's sake, like you can grasp they/them pronouns honey 🙄

[@NefariousSpineLizard]

@@spooncrunchy Uh, what? Implying one knows what cisgender people are thinking at any given time..?

[@NefariousSpineLizard]

@@spooncrunchy You seem to be a cis person based on your comment, and I have no idea what's going on inside your head.

[@Eli_JK]

Exactly

[@kfkkfk7995]

At this point he's just admitting he doesn't have the brain capacity to process it

[@Tayispeachy]

As a Christian…the whole point of being a Christian is to be as “Christ like” as possible. Being judgmental is not anywhere in that description or remotely near where Christians were called to be. I recently experienced being called gay for just being artistic and expressing who I am with a different hair color then what is considered “normal”. And honestly the LGBTQ+ community is way more excepting then Christian community. I rather be around people who are going to build me up then people are going to judge me for just being me.

[@Dragon_prince90]

I appreciate religious people like you. I've seen more hatful Christians than anyone else. I've had a lot of bad religious people be dicks to me. Because I was queer as well as believed men and women were equal, they hated me.

[@moichibb]

People like you help me keep my faith. No religion should be filled with hatred and use scripture to control others.

[@michaelsperson4856]

It's the people honestly, not God or what he stands for

[@Tayispeachy]

@@Dragon_prince90 I’m sorry that those types of “Christians” have hurt you. I can sympathize deeply with you because of other Christians even treating me awful. I can’t imagine what you have gone through, but, just know I accept you and who you are as a fellow human being.

[@Dragon_prince90]

@@Tayispeachy Thank you. That is more than my family ever did. Accepting me is something they never did and idk if they ever will. I have been told awful things from them because of something I couldn't control and it made me hate myself for a while. So, it's really nice to see nice people like yourself.

[@gunsandroses896]

Fun fact: Hell won't ostracise you for being who you are. Also, it's wheelchair accessible.

[@roomy3759]

Why didn't you tell that earlier!!! I can't wait to vibe with my hommies even the one in a wheelchair!

[@daniellesmusicaladventures9700]

Sweet! I'll be in hell!

[@FlareStorms]

Hell yeah

[@calico_cy]

The ramp to Hell sounds more fun than the stairway to heaven

[@daniellesmusicaladventures9700]

@@calico_cy plus I can't access it.

[@michellebarnett3530]

i hate the fact that Morgan can say "you're exactly who god made you to be" and in the same breath put people down for being exactly who god made them to be.

[@eleanorcooke7136]

And having a tattoo

[@Stephen-Fox]

"You are exactly who God made you to be" - So why is Morgan telling people to pretend to be someone they are not?

[@TrinityTronos]

They said that like "As long as your heterosexual, cisgender, and make, you're good, but if you're not those things then be celibate and lonely, and no romance for you!" That's what it translates.

[@Sbevewagon4493]

A thing in another religion (or maybe mythology if it is no longer active) is that the god/gods made trans people to allow mortals to have the joys of creation like how they made wheat and not bread or grapes but not wine

[@thierryeubanks3586]

couldn't've said that better myself

[@thierryeubanks3586]

@@Sbevewagon4493 how intressting! thanks for the knowlage!

[@sharehappiness4667]

No we're not. We are all sinners and we need to repent and be reborn.

[@moobnoodle9136]

It makes my blood boil that they literally ACKNOWLEDGE their pronouns, then through the whole video refuse to use them. It’s not hard. Tell me your transphobic without telling me your transphobic

[@lilarose5265]

Give almost the same vibe as “I like trans people but don’t support them”

[@thierryeubanks3586]

@@lilarose5265 I know!

[@soap7686]

EXACTLY THEY'RE LITERALLY THREE LETTER WORDS IT ISN'T THAT HARD TO BE A DECENT PERSON

[@nenmaster5218]

Religion is Overdue to go Extinct. Harsh words, especially for those raised with the misconception that EVERYTHING is just taste and opinion and everyone may believe whatever they want, but no, actually, reality is kinda harsher. Atheist-Channel dont exist for no reason and Religion overall causes more problems than it solves, which is not hard, cause it solves Zero, but thats not even the point. Freedom is nice and all, but theres a Boarder too.

[@GACHAShadow-cb5kf]

Yeah. It's not that hard to use they/them pronouns plus pronouns have been taught in schools for ages. It's not a new thing.

[@supernaturalwitch5265]

“I just feel like we are seeing more and more- it’s just so common now.” Yes Morgan because people feel more comfortable expressing who they are as a person now.

[@Ace-mk8zf]

Morgan: “God made you exactly the way you’re supposed to be” Also Morgan: *has a tattoo*

[@princesssabeana9915]

Came here to point that out. I was raised Catholic. Tattoos are frowned upon. And she has a huge one right here on her arm for the world to see? I have tattoos, also I do not have a Christian KZbin channel preaching don't be LGBTQ+. Also god made you the way you are and don't change....... The hypocrisy is... Well typical catholic levels.

[@inksansbutangsty7984]

NEW FAVORITE PEOPLE

[@GooseVis56]

Also Morgan: wears shoes

[@IDoABitOfTrollin]

And God happened to make me gay... So Their point?

[@yjohnson3678]

Also Morgan: *judges other people’s decisions and beliefs despite the Bible saying deliberately not to do that*

[@showandtell1313]

“You are exactly who God made you as there is nothing u need to change” exactly Morgan , God made people lgbt + in His glory and wisdom. 🖤💜💖🙏

[@LenaBear1998]

Amen

[@cobalt2506]

precisely! Amen.

[@misscaptain5598]

If they'd taught this in church then I'd probably still be a Christian 💙🏳️‍🌈

[@Vesperad0]

@@misscaptain5598 Hopefully with newer generations being kinder towards 'different' people the churches will, but I have a feeling hate might weave itself deeper into religion/Christianity than it already has with fear tactics and what not. Then again the future is always uncertain, so there's nothing wrong with having hope, especially if you're one of the ones who wants to start the change 💜

[@toastedsquid]

@@Vesperad0 most of the new ones have no hope either they hide the hatred but aren’t very good at hiding it

[@bloodysovy8026]

It’s not about how “confusing” it’s is. It’s about how much it hurts me to be called my birth sex. It’s about the anxiety of keeping my desires hidden from my family, and being called disgusting or fucked up in the head. I get that, indirectly from my dad. I’m so scared of coming out to my family, and shit like this messes with me so much. These people have no right to speak on this the way they do, cause they’re not nonbinary or trans. Or even queer! They don’t understand and teach people this ignorance.

[@sexydoorframes]

I'm so sorry to hear that you're struggling. You don't deserve to be judged or be treated negatively. Make sure you're safe if you do come out or have a plan. There is nothing wrong with you, you're wonderful just the way you naturally are. Remember, you hopefully will not be under their roof forever. One day, you will be free and they won't be able to cage you up anymore. You are valid. ♡

[@staceyg798]

Sweet darling, im sorry to hear you have this anxiety. I hope you are able to one day love in a safe space an be surrounded by people that support you 🧡

[@tallestrat3831]

i’m sorry you have to go through that! you don’t deserve it at all!! you are very brave to just be dealing with this, and i wish the best for you! you valid, you’re loved, and i hope you have a wonderful week!!

[@odditynix]

I’m so sorry you’re going through this 💜 people fear what they do not understand, and they mock what they fear to mask their vulnerability. Surround yourself with the friends who make you feel loved and understood and accepted. I promise, that’s going to feel a lot better than valuing your family’s backwards mentality. Be safe, be strong 💜🏳️‍🌈

[@KatJonesCrochet]

Hi, I'm your mom now if you need that in your life

[@vannajade1216]

“You’re exactly who god made you to be” Cool, by that logic, god made me trans. These types of people try to hard to make up a reason for their hatred of us, it’s exhausting.

[@andiv_r]

THANK YOU

[@GENESIS_Ven]

Im not Christian but my theory about it if i was, would be god accidentally pressed the wrong buttons making some humans and we got assigned the wrong bodies

[@maddieb.4282]

@@GENESIS_Vengod according to Christians creates your entire life with design. He could just want you to experience a lesson or he likes diversity idk

[@606Pixels]

"when she left Disney" Y'all don't understand the hell kids go though because of Disney do you?

[@basiczachh3978]

literally

[@valkyriempress8224]

Yes!!! So glad someone said it. They compared her to other child actors…. Maybe there’s a connection to abuse is the industry. There’s a reason people leave Disney. But it has nothing… NOTHING to do with gender.

[@glacierwolf2155]

No one realizes how difficult being a child actor is. Everyone says it's the dream, but imagine going through the pressure of people judging you because you're young and do stupid stuff and having your privacy violated and the paparazzi up your ass anytime you go out into the public, not to mention any shady deals and actions your bosses could ask of you to do for them. It's one thing if your brain is fully developed and can handle the stress presented to you, it's entirely another thing developing anxiety, trauma, and PTSD from this experience because your guardians signed you up for this.

[@kiraaisling9603]

SA, bullying, being overworked, most of those kids were put into boxes and weren’t allowed to do anything that the world didn’t approve, if they ever messed up people attacked them.

[@MissSpaz]

That's exactly what I was thinking. Has Morgan ever thought that maybe the reason why they're going through all these "struggles" is because of shit they went through at Disney? Lmao

[@e.p.8866]

I'm sorry, I couldn't finish this video. I liked and I assume that, as always, you stood up for and advocated for the trans community. And I thank you for that. As a trans person, I'm so sick of people like Paul and Morgan discussing whether or not I deserve basic human rights and decency. Thank you as always, I appreciate you as an ally wholeheartedly

[@qualifiedtolove1027]

i gotchu, inabbers said trans rights!

[@hivemindedrodents8931]

I feel very safe watching his vids! He's defending our community really nicely

[@nessiebear91699]

felt the same way. hearing them misgender demi over and over was too much for me.

[@Luna-jd2ww]

Trans rights are human rights!! ❤️

[@nino96able]

😢😭 that comment broke my heart. Lemme give you a hug

[@weeaboobaby]

Paul and Morgan: Hugging can lead to sinful desires Catholics: *(LITERALLY have a part in Mass where the church-goers hug each other as a sign of peace)*

[@TheBloodofAges]

For real, keep these two away from children if this is their sentiment. Lmao.

[@cocolime6496]

ah but dontcha know that the catholic church is the agent of satan?

[@nolol3660]

Ya I remember doing that also for family members or people u love u give them a kiss on the cheek

[@cthulhutheendless1587]

Yea but they hate catholics

[@cthulhutheendless1587]

Also… that explains a lot

[@IsThatAShortJoke]

Asking someone to call you by your pronouns is no different from asking "Hey, you know that nickname you've been calling me? I've decided I want to go by my full name again."

[@julias3048]

It’s so sad to see fellow Christians disrespect people like this. Being Christian is about loving everyone and showing them respect, no matter what you believe or who you are!

[@airplanes8766]

Lol since the first comment is either a bot or promoter, I’m so happy most/some(?) Christians respect other community’s

[@sodorflubbs5000]

@Julia Those people only think they’re Christians. Believe me, with attitudes like that they’re definitely not Christian

[@Oultrepreu]

It's a cult mindset.

[@janycebrown4071]

They are behaving the opposite way of Jesus 😬

[@morri254]

i love the way they feign concern when theyre making those noises and being so disrespectful.. boo hoo.. i see pronouns in someones bio. im not christian, but i cant imagine any community would see this and want to identify with them. they make faith look like a cult and i think that is sad

[@darcygilbert1353]

As a non binary person, I love that Paul is having such trouble with non normative genders whilst wearing a purple and pink shirt with Disney’s Maid Marian on it…

[@sad_doggo2504]

Ah. That's what it is. Couldn't put my finger on it lol...

[@DangerNoodleReads]

Maid Marian would rip him to shreds for the horrible things he says while wearing her face

[@ThatGothicArtist]

Same though… furry representation. Gotta love how we squeeze in there.

[@demiifrost]

I am an ex-Christian, and I'm ashamed to say that for a period of time, when I started hearing about lgbtq+, nonbinary, and trans people... I wasn't sure what to think of it. I was surrounded by people who told me it was wrong and a sin to act like that. I even started believing it to a point... but I wasn't sure why we hated them so much, they were just doing their own thing. It wasn't anything I agreed with (at the time) but I didn't bother arguing about it either. For me, it just made sense that different people have different lives, so just let them live. It was when I learned more about all these communities and started understanding more, that I realized how wrong I was growing up. This is most of the reason I stopped believing in the church. (there's many other reasons too, but this is a big one) I haven't even come out to my parents yet as bisexual, because my dad has spoken so many times about how 'confused' the "lgbtqx-whatever" community is and how it's an illness. I once spoke up about my support for them, and his reaction was scary. Fck people who think like this, you are the reason so many people in the world don't feel safe.

[@chloeorr9880]

As someone who is ex-church, bi and also has anti-lgbt parents, I get it. I finally came out to my dad this year (I’m 24). I got lucky cause I’ve been slowly educating them through the years so my dad approached from a learning perspective which was awesome. It sucks that there’s so many people like this out in the world though. It’s like we got a taste of freedom during the Obama era only to go back to living in fear. I just got finished working a job with very closed minded people who were DISGUSTED with same sex relationships. Not to mention the new ucky baptist church whose creed is to eliminate every lgbt person on the planet 🤮.

[@clayslay1554]

Same. I came out to my Christian parents as trans the other day and now I have 6 months to move out

[@tsuritsa3105]

So, in veterinary medicine the default pronouns for a patient whose sex is undetermined for whatever reasons is they/them. Literally no one is confused by this. No one. Also can I just put it out there that Morgan's long drawn out manner of speaking absolutely makes me crazy? It's not what makes her a problematic person, of course. It's just a little pet peeve that sounds like nails on a chalkboard to me. But since she got on the subject of sympathizing with others I'm going to admit that I feel some element of pity for Morgan. In my opinion she acts like a little girl, purposefully. She seems to think that as a woman in a relationship she is required to put forth a childlike manner to meet some sort of standard in her brand of Christianity. Please note that this is a personal opinion, it is entirely subjective and I am not making a claim that it is 100%; it is only my perception of her behavior. I have no trouble believing that Paul and Morgan do not understand why someone might do some introspection and figure some things out about themselves. It seems to me that people like Paul and Morgan do not spend a great deal of time on self-reflection so I find it reasonable to think that they do not understand why anyone else would. I doubt they know much about the history of LGBTQIA people. Paul and Morgan are not the first people I have ever seen who appear to think that the number of people who -are- LGBTQIA is growing instead of recognizing that as society opens up people who already were LGBTQIA are willing to come forward and try to live their lives by their own lights. Many of these kinds of fundamentalist religious people seem to believe that trans and non-binary experiences are new in the world as opposed to having always been around and just not been accepted out into the open or discussed. It limits their ability to really understand the world around them in all its richness.

[@badpoisonnightshade]

I find it even funnier that Morgan says these things while having a typically gender-neutral name. Like if no one saw a thumbnail or heard of the Paul and Morgan show before they can just assume it's two guys on a podcast, thus misgendering her. Like if she cares so much about it, maybe a name change is in order so that no one will be confused and accidentally call her them or something horrendous like that.

[@msgen02]

How can someone have a name that’s both feminine and masculine?! It’s just so CoNfUsInG!!! Morgan is such a cOnFuSiNg name!!! America today is just so CoNfUsInG!!! I DON’T UNDERSTAND ANYTHING ANYMORE!!!!!!

[@jordanmacleod3688]

I find it hilarious that Morgan says it’s weird being asked to call a woman a she her but i guarantee that’s how she identifies. It’s just that right wing loonies like them just hear “pronoun” and automatically conclude it’s bad without even considering the possibility that they have pronouns. It’s just them responding to dog whistle tactics

[@empressmarowynn]

I just want to know why Morgan constantly looks and sounds like she's high. Like does she have to stay blitzed out of her mind in order to cope with how miserable she is in this relationship?

[@m25632]

Got it in one

[@apurva616]

If you watch her old videos from before she married Paul, it's kinda sad. She had so much more energy and a spark in her eyes. Now she kinda looks like a shell of who she used to be. I always thought she sounded like she slurs her words a bit.

[@pineappleink9232]

yesss I thought that as well lol

[@ussinussinongawd516]

@@m25632 ayy a fellow Macleod!

[@anxietex3201]

This is why people struggle coming out especially to internet because of people like this :/

[@iNabber]

exactly :(

[@thebluepig2282]

These types of people are the reason I haven’t come out yet, my family is also a reason.

[@daviddeadshot3578]

@@thebluepig2282 W for ur family

[@thebluepig2282]

@@daviddeadshot3578 I am scared they won’t accept me or they might not understand.

[@daviddeadshot3578]

@@emerson8917 u srsly don't see it?

[@Moszan]

"God made you exactly the way you're supposed to be." Me: Unless God's name is written with invisible ink, it's seen nowhere on my birth certificate. I was "created" by two people who thought raw-dogging was a good idea.

[@alwayslookingup70]

😂😂😂😂

[@moon_wei]

It certainly wasn't, was it? 💀💀💀

[@Truecrimeresearcher224]

Ha ha 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Pretty sure that's how everyone is made

[@Nixeu42]

@@Truecrimeresearcher224 I was going to quibble about people deliberately aiming for kids...but in that case,you are still technically correct. The best kind of correct. Well played.

[@tingtang_m]

LMAO

[@sinnamon8868]

“it’s tough, the world we live in is confusing” that’s a pretty complicated way of saying you don’t understand basic grammar

[@frogofalltime]

"the world we live in is confusing" says the people who think hugging is sexual???? Like...........ok

[@estinsidebottom]

@@frogofalltime I Wouldn't Be Surprised If They Thought Eye Contact Was Sexual "Because It Could Lead To Hugging"

[@mx.menacing]

As a Christian agender, pansexual person, I couldn't feel more attacked by their video. If my gender identity is a trend, then why has it been something I've been struggling with for 12 years before I even had access to the internet? Being called by the wrong pronouns is not something that a CIS person would understand. Feeling different on the inside, but knowing you don't match that in your biology, or how you present yourself, or how you are referred to, is not something that I would wish on anyone. Having to hide that kind of stuff, because you know you won't be accepted, all the while being hurt by the way that you are referred to is one of the worst feelings ever. They are both cishet, white, rich, skinny people. So high up the top that they can't even see the bottom.

[@cloththesupervillain6094]

Agender pansexual? Yo how can I learn to live in the same higher plane of existence as you (No offence meant)

[@Bird_God_]

I’m cis but sometimes people call me he instead of she. I know what you meant tho

[@vexusmorpheus932]

Fellow agender buddy:)

[@vexusmorpheus932]

@@binglenuts7036 why would they?

[@user-zl4cw3fd8u]

Hey! I have a genuine question since you’re an a gender person! What pronouns do you use? I know that it changes from each agender person, but what pronouns do you use? Hopefully this doesn’t come off as rude, I really don’t mean to be. Also I’m a fellow pan and I’m glad to see other pans :)

[@SixtySecondYoga]

This is giving me so many church camp trauma flashbacks! “It leads to something else” is their answer to everything: living together, kissing, touching anywhere that could be covered by a swimsuit, sexy clothes, it goes on and on!

[@ellemmenn2930]

Omg same, I went to private catholic school most of my life… took years of therapy to get over

[@chocomelo454]

Next thing you know they're gonna say lightly bumping into someone od the opposite gender leads to more.

[@xx_redwood_xx9737]

Literally like 90% of the body can be covered by a swimsuit what is this

[@shineinstars]

exisging can lead to something else but they still exist so

[@4amlibra]

As we all know, Jesus said “love thy neighbor… unless they are non-heteronormative, non-cis-gendered, or in any way different to you”.

[@alphaca3569]

how is Morgan saying that a person shouldn’t change themselves because god has made them to be that way when she has tattoos.. make it make sense

[@denaroth7296]

Leviticus 19:28 "You shall not make any cuttings in your flesh for the dead, nor tattoo any marks on you: I am the Lord". These people choose which parts of the Bible to follow and which parts to ignore.

[@beamccoy7028]

She got them before they were together. She also did covers of "secular music" before then too. It really seems like he could be brainwashing her, she's changed so much and its kinda sad

[@godhandninja]

@@denaroth7296 lol it's not that they chose what parts of the Bible they believe. They just understand in context to the other books.

[@godhandninja]

How is somebody changing themselves from being a man or a woman the same as getting a tattoo. Make that make sense

[@enriquesanchez9016]

@@godhandninja Yes they cherry pick what they want to believe, every right wing "christian" does. You guys are hateful hypocrites.

[@DeadFawn]

"You'll never feel fulfilled through labels" Actually I get a huge load of gender euphoria when people call me they/them, so I beg to differ.

[@jessummlee8866]

I'm a Christian and early on I didn't really understand gender identity. I've always been loving and accepting but I just didn't GET it. Then one day it hit me. So my name is Jessica. And I hate it. I don't feel like a Jessica. I'm Jess. I have an internal visceral reaction every time someone calls me Jessica. Sometimes I accidentally snap and say 'that's not my name!' My mum corrects people if they call me Jessica (I'm 30 now and she still does it for me). I'm considering legally changing it. That is how much it feels wrong. If I can feel so many emotions by being called the name I was assigned at birth - and for no real reason, there isn't a lot of trauma behind my distaste for it or anything - then I can only begin to imagine how people feel when they don't identify as the gender they were assigned at birth.

[@cozyrainydays6566]

Yessss Jess, we need people like you!!

[@Lily-yb8ou]

It's so frustrating hearing people who've done no research or have no stake in the conversation give their toxic opinions about peoples identities.

[@AG_KEMPER]

For a long time, I thought that everyone was lying about sexual attraction/drive. I wasn't feeling what my peers were describing, so they must be lying! Then, I realized that I'm ace as heck and that people can feel things that I don't feel. If I could realize that as a teenager, I think that P&M are capable of realizing that as adults. They just refuse to accept it.

[@etinarcadiaego7424]

I'm similar in many ways. I'm an ace that does have a libido and am pan in a way but I'm not attracted to most people regardless of sexuality, gender identity etc. Often I'm confused when they tell me someone attractive and they're nothing special in my opinion. It's like, "eh, I'm not seeing it!"

[@_meekio4844]

@Lotus I refuse to click on that link but why are you in every reply

[@gotit4cheap368]

So true, great comment

[@hope1365]

@@_meekio4844 I was asking that myself

[@anoni6108]

Same I still don't understand, I wonder how the others live and think, i just don't understand ( ꈨຶ ˙̫̮ ꈨຶ )

[@michaelinthebathroom]

They can comprehend someone who can walk on water and turn it into wine, who was born from a virgin woman and apparently has 9 lives. But somehow they can't understand the simple concept of pronouns.

[@coffeefoxstudios3687]

So true xd

[@spencerhawkins7872]

Bro this has me fuckin rolling 😂

[@spencerhawkins7872]

Like you couldn’t be more right like read them to filth! 💁🏻‍♂️😂

[@CountGOGO]

This comment is amazing ↑↑↑↑↑

[@sana_gamez_0-o340]

Exactly 💯💯💯 like bish they believe in something so crazy and cant understand pronouns

[@Jaimeschaos333]

as someone who’s transgender, those people are the reason i’m in therapy

[@coffeefoxstudios3687]

People like them are defebaitly a reason why I'm in therapy xd

[@childofgod1521]

I hope you are ok please don't be scared to express your self in front of others and if they don't approve of it DROP THEM you deserve better king/queen/royal n👑💅🙄🏳️‍🌈🌈

[@So_Indecisive]

@@childofgod1521 here are two gender neutral terms for king /queen, they are your majesty or your highness

[@childofgod1521]

@@So_Indecisive oh ok

[@deadchannel89]

I'm gonna be honest I don't know if it my parents\people or me but I question my gender alot was trans at one point but I'm questioning if I'm a real guy...

[@littlearies3862]

Everytime someone is like "God made you the way you were meant to be!!!!" my response is "I was a fetus and then born as a helpless baby... Was I meant to stay that way of I was 'made the way I'm meant to be?'" Also when they try saying my sexuality is a sin, I'm like "So, you demand purity but lacking any sexual attraction towards others is suddenly sinful? I thought lust was the sin?"

[@MzLuluZombi]

“You are exactly who God made you to be” God, 29 years ago: “I think I’ll make this Demi Lovato baby non-binary :)”

[@ontxtteredwxngs]

With a voice to make the angels weep

[@alexd9851]

Exactly what i was thinking. If God made you who you are meant to be and you identify as transgender or non-binary then God literally made you like that

[@chocomelo454]

@@alexd9851 god has a sick sense of humor confirmed.

[@benmemon]

@@alexd9851 god made me gay for kpop idols, EZ WIN. NOW NOBODY IS CONCERNED

[@lucilovette5030]

@@benmemon bro...

[@sunflowerplaysgames758]

watching you go after these two people for disrespecting nonbinary people is giving me life. i’m so tired of my pronouns being “hard” or “confusing” and i’m tired of being called “attention seeking” or “just following a trend” so thank you so much for this entire video

[@Nakia11798]

I'm sorry you go through that, but that's what's gonna happen when something IS a trend for edgy teens and young people. It's almost like you forget when people were faking being bi in the early 2010's to be unique and quirky. Now it's NB. Of course you're not faking it, but a lot of people are faking, or confused, and when it's obvious, they should be called out on that.

[@nephaelia]

@@Nakia11798 I don't think it's anyone's business to judge whether or not someone is "faking it." How hard is it to just use whatever pronouns they say they want to use, regardless of what you might think their intentions are? You could also just avoid them. As a nonbinary person and also a bisexual I couldn't give less of a fuck if someone ~fakes~ it as long as they're not hurting anyone. There are definitely trans and nonbinary people that I personally dislike (because of other aspects of them as people of course), but it costs $0 to not be an asshole and just use the pronouns they ask you to.

[@alyxwarner2984]

@@Nakia11798 when you think it's obvious someone is faking, take that thought and just keep it to yourself, it takes so little effort to not be a dick when you don't know anything about someone's personal life and identity

[@gillianc592]

Im sorry i don't see how its difficult to just ask someone excuse me what are your pronouns and please correct me if Im wrong. Everyone is entitled to be who they are and being Christian is no excuse my 77 year old Catholic mother can accept people as they are then to me theirs no excuse. I came out as bi to my mum and she said i don't care, i love you no matter what. She accepts people for who they are not what they are. At the end of the day we are all human and should accept each other in love not hate. Love to the LGBTQIA.

[@MG-yi8mz]

they give off such mean girl, bad vibes energy. the condescending laughs are something i’ve come to associate with every christian atp. there’s no type of hate like christian love rings truer every day

[@bloodieghostie]

It's called Holyer Than Thou, a thing that a lot of hyper religious people take on in their speech and tone.

[@zezous2608]

As a bisexual Christian It makes me sad people like this exist I love and respect you all. Have a good day folks 🏳️‍🌈

[@s0lastsummer7]

I'm going to start misgendering people who intentionally misgender people. Let's see how Morgan likes being referred to repeatedly as he/him. 🙃

[@Oliviagarry69420]

Call her they/them!!!! That’ll make her even more mad!!!

[@NotAnotherKuromi]

Lots of cis people wouldn't be so bothered about being misgendered though, they already struggle with empathy, so this might just make them continue to think misgendering is no big deal & ok.

[@fluffyopal2174]

i wouldn't, this makes misgendering out to be a joke. continue to respect peoples pronouns regardless of who they are.there is never an exception to misgendering. misgendering is never a joke

[@IDoABitOfTrollin]

It can work. But you gotta read the person first. My go to is if someone says "you look like (birth gender)" I say "Oh thank you! That's what im going for actually" It derails their brain so much

[@IDoABitOfTrollin]

@I Wish u dumb works in my experience. But keep hating

[@Therealbellagothh]

Grandma told me this “Opinions are like assholes, everyone’s got one, but that doesn’t mean everyone needs to be showing it”

[@shell9918]

some should........................?

[@Therealbellagothh]

@@shell9918 reread my comment. Not everyone. That does not mean everyone shouldn’t show an opinion. This is pertaining to people who dont have decent morals

[@alysiahansen6951]

Lol my mum says something similar “opinions are like assholes, some are full of shit”

[@solus8685]

@@Therealbellagothh I think they were saying how you basically implied that some _should_ show their butthole lmao

[@ashweeb33]

Technically no ones opinion should matter to anyone because they are subjective

[@hgpt3084]

For the record, I’m not faking being bi. And whoever reads this, you’re not faking your identity either. Love you ❤️

[@swiftpenny]

I needed to read something like this today. Sometimes I feel like I'm not "allowed" to be bi just because my partner is male and I have a preference towards males. Even more so I feel like I'm faking being demi. Especially because it looks like normal monogamy to the people who don't understand. Much love to you too, random internet stranger. ♡

[@sana_gamez_0-o340]

Im bi too letssss gooooo

[@LunarEleven]

She says it herself: *"I can't imagine living MY truth."* If they aren't living their truths, then what are they living? I really think the only ones faking who they are are Paul & Morgan. The way they act together is so disingenuous, I don't think either of them have lived a day of their life being whoever they are inside. I blame fear from how they were raised and brainwashed. It's sad.

[@studybee3887]

Thank you

[@Abyssal_Ethereal]

Aah- thank you so much- you didn’t say much but I really needed to hear this- I’m a young trans boy with no surgeries- and I still like some feminine clothing- But that doesn’t mean I’m not trans anymore, My guardians seem to think otherwise- so, thank you 🥺

[@gentletal5101]

"I feel bad for demi ever since she left Disney and became a rebel" That's literally every other person leaving Disney, that or they're dying for like no reason

[@NatuallyBlond14]

I find it hilarious she’s judging other people for pronouns when she has a tattoo, when many Christians think the Bible says no tattoos. Also Jesus said to love everyone, not just the people who still identify with the same gender you were born with.

[@wynngwynn]

the bible also says it's perfectly chill to kill people, enslave people and rape people so...you know. IDK if the bible is where we should get our morals lmao.

[@TotosTales]

@@wynngwynn fully agree - but I think the point OP was making is that P+M seem to get their morals from the Bible, so it’s hypocritical of them to then act immorally in the eyes of the book, not that everyone else should take morals from the Bible 😊😅

[@lonelypizzaslice4845]

Wish we could just not take morals from a book written by old, dead guys. They aint the most morally good people lmaoo

[@NatuallyBlond14]

Wasn’t saying you have to take morals from the Bible, more that she made an exception for herself but not LGBTQIA people, and the fact she doesn’t see this irony is laughable 😂

[@tiia9397]

@Samantha George yes, there isn't explicit denial on getting tattoos and such. However, many christians interpret that since humans are created on god's image and are thus supposed to be perfect, all permanent body modifications are bad since that 'messes up' the god's creation. That interpretation is common at least in church I was raised in.

[@stylustechnology]

Also… But tattoos are OK? When I used to go to church a long ass time ago that was another thing they said was sinful that now many Christians of our generation are embracing. Guess she’s got a lot of trauma.

[@ayayoshi7266]

Yeah. I thought any sort of body modification was against the Bible and they saw it as an insult to change the way god made them. Because when I got my first tattoos, my conservative Christian parents were outraged and forced me to go to church camp and really thought I was going to be ridiculed for them

[@blackqueen7226]

Yeah tattoos are a sin but some Christians pick and choose what sins they want to see and this is coming from a Christian

[@anneidevdl]

She literally explains what being non binary is and feels like (Albeit badly, but still) and in the same sentece goes ''That's so confusing!!1'' Like sis. U literally just explained u know what being non binary is. Now shut up and let the people live their lives.

[@geegeep]

I agree with your comment but I came here to say I like your hat

[@aniimako]

right!! and "I just don't get it" "I don't understand how someone could feel that way" okay?? all you have to understand is that they found a label that fits for them. what's the weird thing these people have with having to fully understand something to respect it?

[@strawberryfields6917]

It honestly is confusing though

[@Kotifilosofi]

You really hit the point with "does it really effect your life". Because it really doesn't. Nbs or anyone for that matter don't come out to make your life more difficult. We come out to express a thing about ourselves to make people better understand us. These people make it to be a bigger deal than it actually is.

[@ko-lq7vu]

the funniest is when they parade around their basic high school understanding of biology to try to invalidate trans people, yet they barely have a 9th grade english level understanding of pronouns

[@ko-lq7vu]

also, beans.

[@vexusmorpheus932]

Mate they barely have a 4th grade understanding of grammar (and I'm not even a native English speaker)

[@osml]

@@vexusmorpheus932 Same. I learnt English in 5th grade I think and when we got to gendered pronouns I was like "wtf is all this shit?".

[@beans7448]

no joke we probably learned about gendernutural pronouns in kindergarten (not even as used for nonbinary people just for general use) and it wasnt the least bit confusing

[@honeymeansmel]

On a side note, I wanted to say that, when I recently came out as non-binary to my mom, she said: “are you like Demi Lovato, then? It’s okay, my love. I don’t understand, but it’s okay.” Although she hasn’t asked me about my preferred pronouns or name, she understood it better because of them ☺️ These kind of examples of celebrities are important so people in more vulnerable positions like me can come out and at least be a bit understood.

[@Sophia-vk5bq]

Congrats! 🏳️‍🌈

[@honeymeansmel]

@@Sophia-vk5bq thank u sm 🥺

[@mysryuza]

You are fortunate

[@Lili-ib2rh]

Hey, she doesn't understand but she accepts you. That's openness, that means she can and is willing to learn. This is a victory in my book. Congratulations again and I hope we have more people like your mother.

[@honeymeansmel]

@@Lili-ib2rh I think so too!! She was really close minded the first time I came out as bisexual a few years ago, but now she is much better ☺️ like you said , she is learning and that’s a victory thank you so much

[@djungelsoda]

To all LGBTQIA+ people out there, I’m a christian and I love you so much for exactly who you are. Take care of yourselves ❤️🏳️‍🌈

[@okamiimizu3070]

Same here, I am religious and I am an ally for the LGBTQIA+

[@abpoet]

love the name

[@Minceraft69]

Thanks ass phantom, you too :)

[@stoopid2249]

Im muslim, i agree!

[@thiccratkween]

Me too, I'm religious and am part of the LGBTQIA+ community

[@Gutsknife]

As a nonbinary person hearing them misgender Demi over and over again hurt my SOUL

[@Megh2D]

Okay, who amongst us is going to tell Paul that Maid Marion was Robin's unmarried lover, dressed in drag, and was, arguably, a feminist? ... or maybe he knows?! Blink if you need help, Paul. It's not too late to turn your heart for good and seek forgiveness.

[@thebigragu9952]

People think Lady Marion is a man? Why?

[@oxitape1563]

I thought the whole point of Christianity was to be accepting and love everyone. Jesus would be so disappointed lmao.

[@sashas_buttercup]

That's why he left us and he's never coming back.

[@sweatymanballs1761]

EXACTLY!!! "Love thy neighbor" "treat others as you want to be treated" "love your enemies" just totally went out the window at this point.

[@sarahevans2331]

I was raised Christian and it specifically says that you should not be judging other people and that is up to God and God only they are literally sining which of course that’s what Christians are they only take parts that they like from the Bible but the things that say love your neighbor and don’t judge they don’t listen to that

[@holyspirittt]

@@sashas_buttercup lmao im actually crying😂🚶🏻‍♀️

[@womanface3684]

@@sashas_buttercup BRUH THIS COMMENT 😭😭😭 JAILLL

[@ThePunQueenHerself]

Their video gave me flashbacks to the times I told my mom I was asexual and she insisted I was just abstinent and saving myself for Christ and marriage... The lectures only drove me further away from Christianity and my mother and she couldn't see why. It's a shame these people have a platform to spew their garbage rhetoric on.

[@anobody4606]

I'm sorry you went through that.

[@hope1365]

I can definitely understand why you drove away from Christianity…but a real Christian will accept anyone no matter their sexuality I accept anyone and won’t judge their sexuality I’m very sorry you had to go through that, and no I’m not trying to get you closer to Christianity again but just know that there are allies to the LGBTQ+ community like I support you to the end

[@honeyskelli6279]

fraser, your content always makes me feel safe and comfortable. you're definitely one of my favorite KZbinrs!!

[@dakotahs.4185]

I don't think Morgan and Paul understand what it's like to look at yourself in the mirror and crying because you look like the gender you aren't. The days where I wore hoodies because I hated how I was presented afab. It makes me absolutely upset that they're incredibly stupid and don't respect pronouns.

[@cnacma]

They don’t care. They’re not just Christians, they’re far right extremists. If you watch their content (please don’t it’s terrible), the things they say aren’t even scriptural most of the time. Most of the time they’re regurgitating talking points from some of the most extreme far right talking heads in the country. They’re extreme right wing activists masquerading as Christians. Recently they made a video agaisnt masks and vaccines when that has NOTHING to do with Christianity. In fact that’s an anti Christian view point.

[@bloodysovy8026]

Dude, same man. Hoodies are a life saver tho

[@Xezian]

them saying that depression and suicide rates among lgbtq+ people are high right now, like that statistic is accurate but also your perspective changes when you realize that depression and suicide rates among lgbtq+ people are going down compared to what they used to be if my memory serves me correct a survey/study was done and it found that after same sex marriage was legalized in the U.S. suicide rates among highschool students overall dropped from 8.6% to 8.0%, and suicide rates among lgbtq+ teens dropped from 28% to 24%

[@deadchannel89]

Aren't the rates higher in southern red states if I'm not mistaken like mississippi could be wrong

[@GENESIS_Ven]

Exactly, the only reason lgbtq people tend to be more suicidal is because of people like them who invalidate us for simply being us, maybe just maybe its not cause were lgbtq, its because people cant accept us for some ungodly reason

[@giannaleng1897]

I don’t know if it registers in their coconut minds that persecuting people of the LGBTQ+ community by insisting they’re wrong, or bullying them or physically hurting them MIGHT be WHY the suicide and depression rates are high 😬? I don’t know man …🤷🏽‍♀️

[@Laura-st8uo]

Non binary doesn’t just mean both man and women. It can also mean someone doesn’t feel like they fall into the gender binary. Different people have different interpretations. It’s what they feel fits their identity the best - it’s really not confusing. Pretty dumb how Morgan used that as an argument.

[@darcygilbert1353]

Yep! I’m non binary and feel that I don’t fall into either gender, not both. Proof!

[@embarrassedcap]

yeah, for me I'd describe being non-binary as "neither" rather than "both a man and a woman".

[@nenmaster5218]

@@darcygilbert1353 Why not flag?

[@Oliver_420]

When they talked about Demi Lovato it physically hurt my ears every time they said “she” I mean it’s not that fucking difficult omg!

[@olivia-zh6ou]

These two will be the ones to say “yeah, I don’t have pronouns, I’m just a girl, or I’m just a boy.” He really said, “SHE is a they/them, and SHE is non-binary.” Like at this point, he doesn’t even make sense grammatically. And then she says “I really feel sorry for Demi, Disney really messed her up.” Like Disney and Demi’s substance use are the reasons why they are non-binary. Finding your true identity is not a result of these things, it is a result of taking time to really reflect on yourself and, maybe how you feel you would be best represented. For a lot of people, they just don’t feel like they fit into masculine or feminine pronouns, and it is their right to identify how they feel most comfortable. I’m so sick of people saying that you don’t get to decide how you identify, like it affects their lives in any way to meet or see someone who is trans and or non-binary. There are so many amazing and beautiful non-binary and trans Individuals, they are all lovely people. The only thing different between you and them, is that they know exactly who they are and have been able to find that person, despite living in the world that they live in. If your god preaches love for all, then act on that. Stop picking and choosing what your religious text says to further push your hateful beliefs onto people that didn’t ask for your opinion. Someone else’s gender isn’t going affect your life, and they need to realize that people aren’t always going to immediately present as male or female, when they may identify as a man or a woman. Wait until she finds out that people can identify as he/she/they, her brain will probably melt or something. Respect pronouns, respect people, stop demonizing them because they’re not the exact same as you. These people, Morgan specifically, need to calm down and administer themselves a nice, healthy reality check, and realize that they need to get with the times or get out of the way. Depression rates in LGBTQ+ community are up because of people like these two, and their harmful words.

[@platniumfoxx4976]

PERIODDDDDDDDDDD

[@winglessfairy564]

Wait, can someone clarify the he/she/they pronouns? I genuinely don’t understand that but I’d like to

[@luci4186]

@@winglessfairy564 as someone who uses he/she/they pronouns, i don’t mind being called any of them. but in the order they are in are usually the ones i prefer more than another pronoun. hopefully i explained that right 😅

[@olivia-zh6ou]

@@winglessfairy564 from what I understand, typically it means that they may identify as one more than the other on some days, and then sometimes people are just okay with being referred to as any or all of the three pronouns😁

[@coleminee]

@@winglessfairy564 like the other two said. I personally identify with he/they pronouns, so I’m comfortable with he/him or they/them, and for me I’m pretty equally comfortable with either, but some people put their most preferred first and list it that way, like the first person who replied

[@zephyrjordan1808]

As a bigender person, I’m not surprised, it’s just disappointing that people think that we’re “pretending” for “clout”.

[@oshaviolation]

hey, fellow bigender!

[@carlytrapasso]

What’s bigender?

[@ebox147]

You got over a 100 likes so it must me true!! /s

[@adabee7740]

@@carlytrapasso Hi, Bigender here-- for me its that I identify as male and female, but for some it can just be identifying as two genders. Hope this helps!

[@cabarettaximan6592]

hell yeah! :D

[@cherry.breath]

I don’t get how other people being who they are/loving who they love effects you. It’s human beings that are finally accepting who they are.

[@sluttyMapleSyrup]

_"Self-actualization only matters when it's the way I decide!¡1!"_

[@junglejin3096]

"You do know! That being a Christian..... IS A LABEL!" I love u lmao

[@the_randoms7742]

Paul looks so uncomfortable to the point where I genuinely wonder if he believes this. I mean, obviously he's said horrible things that can't be excused but the two of them just seem to have very different ways of 'acknowledging' this. Either way though, the stuff they're saying is extremely disgusting and dangerous to people who haven't come out yet

[@810h4z4r]

So weird seeing this after reading a bunch of comments saying he abuses her and that she was a different person before he came in her life, they both just seem like theyre not real and that nither of them really believe it. Theres no conviction like other people with these opinions

[@lyssmarie5175]

@@810h4z4r I figured Paul was more on the eh side, until I saw the comments. Christ, these people

[@yeehaw4135]

Fun fact for anyone that thing the singular they/them pronoun is grammatically incorrect: Shakespeare used the singular they/them to refer to any character that was unnamed and side characters that weren't part of the main cast. It was grammatically correct then and even if it wasn't grammar rules change all the time you don't speak like we did 300 years ago so why shouldn't we change the rules if it makes people happy? And why should we keep rules that oppress people? And don't try to say you've never said something like "oh someone dropped THEIR wallet" or "someone lost THEIR bag" don't act like you say she/he in everyday conversations

[@haleymacb6230]

Also I have my grandpa’s elementary dictionary from 1930 something and the definition for they/them literally says that 1. It is a pronoun and 2. It can be used to refer to someone of unknown gender. They are literally less progressive than a dictionary from a 1930s hickville school house in Saskatchewan

[@yeehaw4135]

@@haleymacb6230 exactly people love to deny facts when it becomes a matter of politics

[@anoni6108]

If you Wanne speak a dead language learn Latin, otherwise cope 🖐🏻😭 those people are so difficult and for what

[@sandgator]

They/them is recorded as far back as the 14th century as being used in the singular in English. People are just weird about it, because they all use those pronouns singularly without thinking about it.

[@pajamas_the_emo]

“you” used to be a plural term, that’s why it’s “you are” and not “you is”

[@dionemartins0212]

"People do this for attention! It gets them popularity!" Oh, yeah, like that one time that I commented that I'm genderfluid under a Powered By Rainbows video and a guy started arguing with me about what gender is and that it doesn't flow and that my sex wasn't assigned at birth it was observed. Yeah. No, this is what I wanted. I wanted the _attention_

[@Fionacle]

They don’t deserve that cute little dog

[@minminhyungie]

If God made everyone unique, then why are these "Christians" trying to force everyone into a cookie cutter version of themselves? God gave us these kinds of mindsets and identities and whatever because he wanted people to be themselves. These people that are so judgmental of a community that doesn't affect them? That's even going against their Lord's word (Luke 6-37). I'm not a Christian anymore, but even I feel that I know more about their God and his mercy than they do. And God gave us pronouns, let us use them.

[@twirlygirl0714]

well said!!!👏

[@georgehutter339]

Because they are attempting to use their religion as an excuse to be trash.

[@meghansullivan6812]

Exactly!!!

[@bikerbabe966]

Well said. Yes the Bible also says "And why do you look at the speck in your brother’s eye, but do not consider the plank in your own eye?" Matthew 7:3. Basically saying why judge what someone else is doing when you are sinning as well.

[@minminhyungie]

@@bikerbabe966 I mean, yeah. Everyone's a sinner, but why judge others' sins (though being gay or trans isn't a sin) when you have your own to repent for?

[@TRexRAWWR1]

"I just feel like we're-" and some people FEEL like they're non-binary, respect their feelings an identity. On a good note my dad is warming up to they/them as pronouns. He struggled wrapping his head around them but he's getting used to it :)

[@Trees...]

🎉 Yay a supportive parent! :)

[@spicymcchickpea953]

Yay! So happy for you

[@winglessfairy564]

Your dads awesome

[@BrankoVT]

Places where Paul or Morgan used "they" or variants as a singular pronoun (let me know if I missed some): 11:39 (Paul: 3) 16:46 (Morgan: 2) 21:19 (Paul: 1) Final score Paul: 4 Morgan: 2

[@wut-dah_7212]

If someone's happy, healthy and with a consenting person(s) of age, then it's absolutely nobodies concern and not up for debate. If you're threatened by what someone wants to be called then you should ask yourself why it matters to you so much.

[@OftenEllinor]

Imagine being so simple minded that pronouns are confusing to you....It really isn't difficult. I don't understand why it's so hard for so many people. It's not a new thing. Even calling a singular person "they/them", isn't new (believe it or not)! The only thing that is "new" is that people are starting to try to understand themselves better, realizing they can express and really allow themselves to be who they feel; they feel more comfortable with themselves. I think it's beautiful that people are allowing themselves to really explore and find themselves instead of hiding and putting themselves into a box 💚

[@BooksandBuns]

Even neopronouns ain't as new as conservatives like to make them out to be

[@shadow24-]

I always find it funny when these people are like "Pronouns aren't real! If I ever hear my kid using one of em labels I'll disown them >:(" or some dumb shit like that, as if they didn't just use a pronoun. Like damn, glad my 1st grade class taught me what words to address myself and others with

[@I_AM_HYDRAA]

I am non binary and some neo pronouns i just won’t use I will just use there name. One some neo pronouns I can’t seem to memorize and also some sound like pet names almost

[@indigotrails353]

literally Shakespeare had characters with they them, the enby gang had been here before the binaries I dare say🤣

[@queenpuggles]

Ah yes, the well-known Bible quote; "Love thy neighbor, unless they have pronouns in their twitter bio"

[@staceyg798]

The "thy" in that quote looking a little to close to the pronoun "they" #sus (This is a joke)

[@queenpuggles]

@@staceyg798 😳 uh oh, I think God has been listening to too much Demi Lovato

[@nicothenecromancer]

@@queenpuggles I mean God is canonically outside the binds of gender sooo

[@misscaptain5598]

@@nicothenecromancer God, non-binary icon

[@Vesperad0]

@@nicothenecromancer God, our agender aroace noble that mainly uses masculine pronouns with a transgender son, who's also asexual but either panromantic or aromantic. Not to mention every human being created in God's image, meaning he doesn't only present as masculine but in every other way as well. Religion's a lot more fun when you look at it this way, at least to me. I've even heard of a story about a two-spirit friend who's came out as two-spirit to their father and he said "ah, so you share your gender with the gods above, huh?" Pretty sweet 😊

[@kaih2277]

Love how they admitted to not even knowing what being non-binary is yet felt qualified enough to speak on it and be taken seriously

[@versetopping534]

I am honestly super super grateful for your channel, I have been living under a rock my whole life and only this year have I consumed so much more useless knowledge on celebrity icons then I would ever have needed in all my life ❤ thank you Fraiser :3c 😊

[@lovejulietdaisy]

same!! i love watching commentary youtubers to gain pointless knowledge so that i know whats going on :3 and i love your pfp!!! i want to watch steven universe again 😭

[@laurenreigelsberger]

Their conservative Christians with tattoos? Sounds like picking and choosing to me.

[@sexydoorframes]

Morgan was a completely different person before she met Paul. She was an average young women, living her life and made videos with sexual undercurrents etc. She did a lot of things she wouldn't dare to do today. And I don't believe she saved herself for marriage. So Paul uses this as a weapon and shames her everytime someone, herself or him bring up her past. They also make out that everything she did was SO bad, when none of it really was. She also shames herself.

[@mister_cherio6631]

I love how people who say they/them pronouns are confusing, use them all the time exhibit A: "who left their keys here?"

[@bloodieghostie]

I've been using they/them pronouns for my nb friend and my transphobic mother doesn't notice.

[@iknowthatyouregayfireflies9992]

Also, it's easier to just say they/them than like he or she.

[@Nixeu42]

More to the point, momentary confusion isn't so big a deal as to be deliberately impolite. I get a brief moment of confusion every once in a while if it's plural or singular when presented without contextual clues, mostly when reading a particular webcomic...and then I'm like, "oh, right" and move on with my day. Similarly, I get confused when authors overuse any pronoun without context, and go through the exact same thing. Communication has flaws. Deal with it.

[@morganpannell5683]

You are literally the reason I've been able to fully accept myself as pansexual. I had such bad internal homophobia because of were I live and my family. As a child I was taught gay was a bad word and so much more. Thank you , love you even if you will not see this💗💛💙

[@etinarcadiaego7424]

I'd say I'm pan because I am attracted to all genders but I also strongly dislike most humans. I'm an asexual who still likes to get freaky every once and awhile. My gender identity can be mostly fluid though I identity as male like 90 percent of the time. I do enjoy crossdressing.

[@leonrehn3888]

I know you don't know me, and I dunno if you need to hear this, but I'm so proud of you for coming out to yourself and accepting yourself. Congratulations for stepping into how you identify! 🤍

[@leo_oel1168]

SAME!! i’ve now realized i’m a lesbian but when i thought i was bi (this is not to say that bi ppl don’t exist or that it’s a transition phase whatsoever they are 100% valid) but i had such sever internalized biphobia

[@daviddeadshot3578]

Why do humans wanna be pans bruh you wanna be an item that can't move itself

[@izzyshyperfixations]

@@daviddeadshot3578 That’s not... what pansexual is...

[@maygreenfield6177]

TO BE HONEST, Morgan has more than likely said "I'm not like other girls" more than once in her life 🤭

[@emmy_platinum]

I like putting these on in the background while I do homework or play the Sims, and every so often I have to stop everything I'm doing, stare at the video, rewind it, and listen again. It's like a real life record scratch moment

[@jaileneespinosa5631]

I also do this 😂😂 or play it on my way to work or something and Sometimes I’m like “whattttttt!!”

[@hyde3155]

the amount of misgendering they threw towards demi made me feel misgendered like its really not that hard to use they/them for a person if they ask you to.

[@eclipsed_oracle6818]

As a he/they, I gotta say I felt the same way. It’s not hard to respect people.

[@EmilyCouturiere]

My homophobic mom does the same thing. I had a trans friend who used he/him pronouns. But hadnt had top surgery yet. My mom would call him she atleast 10+ times every time he was over. I would correct her every time. Still, she would act like she couldnt remember. Like, how fucking hard is it to remember.

[@studybee3887]

I feel like it's kinda ok if there aren't any official non binary pronouns in the language (I'm German and i get always missgendered, since they/them pronouns don't exist in German) But if these pronouns exist, then there is no reason to missgender sb. Even if these poeple hate demi, that's not a reason to missgender sb. If Im mad at my brother, I'm not using she /her pronouns for him. So why do that with an enby? Or any other pronouns?

[@jaydasturzaker9642]

We should all do a divergent style pronoun ceremony. "Here comes daisy originally from the she/her community, oh what's this she is going towards the they/them area. Wow good for them"

[@poke-talia268]

Why does this sound like the narration of the kitten bowl?

[@juliennealynah]

Thank you so much for this, it’s so upsetting hearing people think that queer people come out for attention. I was so scared to come out and even now, I hear homophobic comments from people that I didn’t come out to and it hurts like a BITCH Edit: there’s no hate stronger than christian love :,)

[@squidylose-river]

Literally makes me so uncomfortable that Paul & Morgan know Demi’s pronouns and then purposely emphasised their misgendering of them, like YOU KNOW WHAT YOU’RE DOING IS WRONG. Ahhh it’s so invalidating and harmful to Demi and others, myself included, who don’t fit into the gender binary. *Edit:* they/them is a pronoun not a persons identity lol, also love that literally 5 mins later Paul was like “oh yea when their career is going downhill” like that’s showing he obviously knows how to use they/them but just chooses to misgender people because he’s a dick lol.

[@Bionicbutter43]

God yes. As a nonbinary person myself it hurts to see.. but not uncommon

[@elisewhittaker8438]

“God made you who you were supposed to be.” Yeah. And he made me non binary dummy.

[@Eryna_]

No binery? Not a single biney?

[@lilarose5265]

@@Eryna_ *binary

[@Eryna_]

@@lilarose5265 not a single ounce of beany? no binrary? not an single bean?

[@Myrathosghost]

Im not the only one who sees Pauls shirt right? 🤔 Maid Marian the character most 90s straight boys, Lesbians & Bi/Pan people had a crush on, so….is this Paul admitting to being furry?! Also I feel like Morgan is upset at these people “living their truths” because she cant :/ because shes with Paul and her own Trauma has locked her into that because her “faith” & Paul were probably what she used to help “move on” from her Trauma

[@smirglepapier531]

Lol, didn't notice that XD As a pretty straight girl I admit that Maid Marian made me question my sexuality at a young age and as far as I know a lot of people feel the same. Maybe it is a stand of solidarity by Paul?🤔

[@lawrencelopez9839]

Maybe he's trying to say 'I'm being held against my will. Get me out of here.'