They are Living Their BEST LIFE 😔

[@leen894]

My ex being happy doesn’t bother me as much as the fact that 7 years later I’m still struggling with my happiness and loneliness.

[@pennyannvincent8831]

Me too!

[@anonlarson2875]

So sorry you are suffering. It is an opportunity to get close to Jesus. He loves you unconditionally! I have gone through this for over 20 years with an Ex Wife Narcissist who married a wealthy man and used our two children as pawns in her revenge.

[@user_abcxyzz]

Start by acknowledging what you are greatful for. Keep a journal. Add to it everyday. Find little things to be grateful for. They really add up and then you'll see how blessed you really are. Best of luck 🍀

[@mg0109]

To all of you that have experienced this I can empathize and truly relate to what you're saying and more so, what you're feeling. Yes, it's unrelenting and empty. Loneliness overwhelms us along with the sadness that cuts deep into our identity. That being said, recovering from this takes hard work and just doesn't go away on it's own. First, you have to accept that people aren't always what they want you to think they are. I know that sounds demure and downtrodden, but unfortunately it's part of life. Once you accept that then slowly you will need to put energy into yourself, and realize you are very special and unique. I know that being an empath isn't always what we'd like to think it would be, but once you start to heal...you will then learn to set boundaries. This my friends is the key to being happy....not only with your partner, but first and foremost...yourself. My weakness was based on my own lack of self worth and how I responded to my narc. Where I gained self respect and acceptance, was entering CBT counseling for 4 months. Basically it teaches you behavioral responses to "triggers". Now, it's not easy and involves a lot of homework. Gradually you will see a change in not only your personal relationships, but your interactions with friends, work, and family. After my discard, my narc hoovered and tried to love bomb me when her new supply wasn't what she thought it was months and months later. After patiently listening to her and realizing her love bombing was not real (as we all know) I sat down and looked at her in the eye and said calmly: "Theres two types of love in this world...theres unconditional love....and then there's everything else". I pulled my chair back...stood up...and left. For the first time she had nothing to say or condemn me for. All of you are treasures in this world....embrace that you are a gift and live your life to it's fullest.

[@desertSHAMAN616]

My ex and I have been separated for one month now. He wants nothing to do with me anymore and I am struggling with letting go. I'd been single for four years before this last relationship and fell in love with this guy. What is hard for me to accept is that someone can say they love you but as soon as you separate, the feelings are just gone. Thanks for this video.

[@venitagreer1404]

I feel the same way it been 8 months now he doesn't want anything to do with me either it crazy I was just in his life for 17 years and he walk around fake the whole time along with the family. He turn around got a new supply in April mommy was not in ground cold before I got discarded. I'm hurt because I didn't have no one to turn too like man to just to make me feel better all by myself for the holidays and last years around the whole family due to caring for his sick mother I satisfy my life and time to be their for him and show him I care. I do feel he living his best life with a newer supply I got life in the cold I'm still hurt frustrated mad and heartbroken I hope and pray I can live my best life for 2024.😢

[@frankdavf4599]

thats because is a lie.

[@nolaflyr9619]

Same here. Married 6yrs. Wife told me I love you before leaving for a work trip. Came home 3 days later to a different woman wanting a divorce. Never saw it coming. This video definitely helps. Going to keep watching again. Thank you!

[@AyeAsh444]

@@nolaflyr9619Wow No Soul. Sorry you went through that.

[@Rosie-wx2hc]

Me too. Met this girl at work in dec, broke up in April and few months later he’d moved in with her. 6 years over a few months

[@marymugford]

Abuse causes inflammation to the brain and i think we all know it gets your brain and body stuck in survival flight or fight. Id say it’s much deeper and more layered than our ego wanting revenge because we suffered. Our brains want to make sense of something so that it doesn’t happen again. Our brains seek to see justice as a result of injustice because thats the way we were fed that the world works and that is what we were fed to move on into safety: if someone is held responsible for doing bad, then the future is right and we dont have to fear that will happen again to the tribe. it’s not only ego - it’s ancient. it’s how the world works.

[@dodibenabba525]

They're actually just living life like they always did it was just you that thought they were actually loyal to you.

[@cameogutierrez3466]

🎯

[@drew8979]

This is why you should delete social media. I deleted all platforms because I realized its toxic and its too easy to peak into the past. Also, it's a huge distraction when you're working on your goals and therefore it serves no purpose for me.

[@Erica-wz8yv]

I deleted Instagram last year and I don’t miss it at all! It’s literally a waste of time.

[@YucaipaFreshly3746]

This is so true ❤

[@drebugsita]

He broke up with me. I simply blocked him. He got hurt. His problem. Then he decided we shouldn't be in touch anymore (only had seen each other a friend's wedding). Good riddance.

[@HeismyShepard]

I’m a big believer of ‘you reap what you sow.’ I don’t wish evil on anyone nor do I want anyone to suffer the way I have, but life has a way of being just and being an equalizer. It’s the law of nature.

[@chriswalls5831]

My best days are ahead

[@bobbysilver272]

Together for more than 31 years, she was the love of my life. As kids got older I sensed she was thinking more about her older years. I lost a business during covid and this strained things. I guess the timing was right for her to give up and start anew with a rich bachelor. So much for "through thick and thin" and working things out. We are all shocked except her. I was heartbroken for a few months until I realised she had fully moved on already and I had been in love with my own created illusion of her, not the real warts-and-all her.

[@PhiluntaySterling]

Sorry you had to go through that but your words of wisdom was well received by me thank you sir and you Are right my girl was no where near as perfect as I made her

[@HunkyMan777]

Women kick you when you are down - it is part of their nature

[@dlphelan7774]

2 years later after getting divorced and no contact I am still trying to figure out what happened. That has been the hardest part for me. Creating your own closure and facing the fact that you may never know the answers is not a easy thing to do. 2024 will be the year I finally let it all go I agree! Thks!

[@ylana4444]

Watched this video 4 times …focus your energy on where YOU want to go for 2024! Simply said.

[@reagalbeagle1]

My ex moved 2 blocks away and cut me off over something dumb I didn't even cause. It has eaten at me for a long time. I did block her on all social media because even though she's that close, I really don't want to know what she is doing. Love can be hard.

[@danbaker7640]

If they gotta post every day about how happy they are, you can bet that they are not. If someone was truly happy they would not have to flaunt it. That's why even when I check on my ex's social media every once in a while (everyone does it from time to time) it no longer saddens me. Especially the narc. "LOOK AT ME, I NEED SOMEONE ELSE TO MAKE ME HAPPY YAY!!!!" just screwing themselves in the long run when it all comes crashing down. There will be a day life handles it for me without even having to seek "revenge".

[@excelsiore457]

I second this

[@ChadOliver-b7y]

Stephanie the biggest thing that I am having a problem with is getting past the hurt that i feel.

[@Nick-su3vf]

My ex broke up four months ago. I broke up with her three years ago. She found somebody else for 2 1/2 years. Then she came back to me and then she broke up. She went back to her ex. I don’t care because she has mental illness with anxiety. She had insomnia and I have to get up in the middle of the night to make her hot milk. If I kept going, I will get sick. So she went back to her ex who has leukaemia and he is a sleeve to her rental illness. The blind leading the blind. I dodged a bullet here. Two weeks ago, she was rushed to emergency. Besides, having mental illness with anxiety, she has pre carditis for a year and a half from taking the COVID-19 vaccine On her social media profiles, she has pictures of her being happy with her boyfriend. That is an illusion . You are right on this.

[@davidpatterson2312]

I am a 56 year old Divorced man from Northern England. I have a lovely 12 year old daughter who lives with her mam. ( A Deputy Head teacher at a large Secondary School.) Divorced and/or heart broken British men are generally expected to say very little, work hard, "keep calm and carry on." Any emotional displays are frowned upon. The male suicide rate for men, under 45 years in the UK, is 4 x higher than the female equivalent group!! I go to the gym, take cold showers every day, nofap, and meditate (Huberman approach.) I am an engineer so, although I like the practical non emotional approach, it's great to have Stephanie Lyn explain the emotional side in a straightforward way. Stephanie Lyn is very down to earth, easy to understand. She doesn't use psycho gabble. I also like her direct approach which is refreshing when compared to some life coaches on KZbin and elsewhere. 😊

[@irenagaidelis5145]

I like listening to your videos,,i got dumped by a man who said he would always be there for me after 7 years,,,im a window too,,,i never ever thought he would abandon me,,,im having a lot of hard times when I think about it,,,thankyou for your videos,,,,

[@Coraline423]

Thanks for that video. This is really helpful ! My ex narcissist husband was sending me pictures of him and our kids of his holidays with his new wife he married after 2 months relation .And this was really painful : they went exactly in the same places than we used to go… Seems that they were living their best life while I am in a mess.

[@RoyalPineapple-dk2vg]

“Discipline where My Mind goes”-- Wow! That’s so true for everything! Happy, Joyful attitude despite circumstances helps too! If you’re a Christian, God first, trusting that God has the Best for you.

[@lorrainethomas1984]

I actually felt bad for my Narc ex he ended up in a mental ward. Homeless on the streets, addicted, etc. My empathy and compassion never wavered. Never went back though.

[@ChickenFromPopeyes]

My ex and I got married cause I was being deported and needed to stay in the country, soon after they cheated on me. They threatened to get me deported if ever left them. I forcefully stayed with them for 5 more years to complete my citizenship while being a heartbroken angry and bitter partner. As soon as I could, I left them. They immediately told me I was a terrible partner all these years and refused to talk to me all these months and literally posted a pic with their new “boo” in his penthouse with all his nice furniture clothes during the holidays and it destroyed me both mentally and emotionally. Now I’m stuck in circles asking myself the “why?” for almost two months now. Why did I have to suffer through all of this? Why didn’t they ever have any empathy or compassion?

[@sabianstringer2112]

Face the Now...Focus On Oneself.....Feel the Pain and Make the Change....YANA....God Bless Sabian

[@DarthVeach]

I should have been smarter to know that when we first started seeing each other and her divorce wasn't final yet, that it was probably only a matter of time before she gave her attention to or left me for someone else. Which she did multiple times over the years. We would try to fix / rekindle, but any time we hit a slump, that's when I would catch her lying about talking to some other guy. She is never truly happy. She gets what she wants or needs for a while and when that becomes routine, moves on. I wish I could get over her. She was a part of my life for the last 14 years

[@meggc4]

The timing of this video has me in tears. Every single word, its like you've been in my phone/house. Thank you so much!

[@danarchambault8723]

I dont go on social media with exes

[@james50227]

My ex was 10 years ago and I have been single since. If my ex is happy then I am happy for her. I still Love her and I have no jealousy or revenge in me. I have known her since my memory began. It does however hurt deeply that I have this type of Love and cannot do anything about it. for years I did hold it against her. But not anymore. It is like my Love evolved.

[@joguizas]

10 years thats a lot, how did you manage your singlehood, i want to now.

[@gameinglizard6984]

The sorry makes worse to be honest and 100% when they don’t even mean it or care about it.

[@Shazzie2223]

“Closure comes from yourself.” Love this. Healed from a painful breakup and this resonates with me immensely. Thanks for sharing your wisdom, Stephanie 🙏🏽

[@frankdavf4599]

The narcicist I was married with always, three days of each week accussed me of being sour to her, to be a killjoy and make her life too difficult when i was doing all the opposite. Then i knew narcs are always competing to be the best.

[@kimberle2008]

Facts!!! OMG! This is confirmation that I can be happy and he never will. 😭😭Thank you for this.

[@kimberlylewis4196]

I l8st the love of my life 4 years ago. Dated last year and found out he's a narcissist. He's now sleeping with my neighbor because I wouldn't sleep with him. She's slept with 3 guys in the neighborhood. They deserve each other and so thankful. He was surface level. No morals values and self absorbed.

[@Paraaronoid]

For me, I am really struggling with the bitterness of how one person can tear down what you spend your life building up for them. I was married for 20 years, together for 23 years. I'm an IT guy so I didn't really have a lot of life skills outside of coding. But over that time, I learned to build decks and fences, and whatever else we needed. I learned to pour concrete, drop vehicle transmissions, repair roofs. I learned to troubleshoot hot water heaters, furnaces that go out in -30C, washers and dryers that would go out at the worst possible time. I also learned how to calm fussy babies, change diapers, and help my daughters through problems at school...And none of that was good enough...And now, everything that I spent my existence on providing for gets torn down and I don't even know if I will be able to keep the house I did all of that stuff for. And on her way out she decided to cheat on me too.

[@pennyannvincent8831]

Dude I hear you. American, moved to France high tech, he drop kicked me after 21 years of marriage together. .. Zero retirement, 2.5 year horrific divorce battle...rules in this fairy tale country are not the same. It's too expensive for me to move back to the States...crazy heath care pricing and so on. Monsieur kept the IT job, we started 'my own' business which he actually ended up getting in the end. Spent the hols with his new Portuguese babe..none of the stepchildren ever called. So much for the fairytale life in France. I'm thinkin' of writing a Netflix piece😂😂😂 Hang in there it seems like you are a good guy. Happy 2024

[@KEPHALLE]

You could have become a jet plane pilot and brought her on trips worldwide, and it wouldn't have been enough anyway. On the other hand, the new dude might be completely incompetent at everything you have become proficient at, and still, she'd choose him... for now. It's not you, it has never been about you. You grew so much, you stepped outside your comfort zone time on time again and you are now a much better version of yourself and that's what you need to take away from this experience. For someone who's like your ex-wife, no one will ever be enough because they seek to fill emotional and psychological gaps in their personality that cannot be filled by the external sources they usually seek. Those lacks need to be processed from within: that's scary and challenging and narcissists tend to be mentally and emotionally lazy and fearful. As you took care of her needs, now learn to take care of your needs first, build yourself up again, improve more, and learn new stuff for the sake of your personal fulfillment. Down the line, you'll meet someone who'll appreciate you for who you are. PS: in the meantime, have some well-deserved fun while you can.

[@Paraaronoid]

@@KEPHALLE This is the nicest thing a stranger has ever said to me. Thank you for your VERY uplifting words, greatly appreciated.

[@KurlyGrl]

The way you have lived your life just proves that you are a loyal, caring, dedicated man who would do anything to make your woman and family happy and secure. You took it upon yourself to improve your circumstances and better yourself. All that work and dedication to make sure your family was well taken care of. She didn't deserve you. Never has. She was flat-out selfish. One day you will find the woman for you who will APPRECIATE all that you do. That day is coming, friend. I, too, was in a one-sided relationship. My husband of 22 years did nothing but bring home the paycheck. He never even tried to make me happy. Even though I worked full time, I still did all the "womanly" things. Took care of the children, kept the house, cooked, etc. I tried to make him happy, but nothing I did was ever enough. He found "happiness" in the arms of other women, yes, plural. Don’t even get me started on them. I never realized that he could never BE happy because he was miserable inside. I learned that was HIS problem Not mine. I filed for divorce, but it was the hardest thing I have ever done. Before our divorce was even final, he was in the process of moving her and her son to our state. They met when we lived in the north. Now that we are in the south, and they kept in touch all of these years, he moved her down here. Supposedly she was the best thing for him. That is what he told me. I was fully depressed for a year. Took the following year to start working on myself. Slowly got myself out of my funk. And now I can finally hold my head up high and smile at the world again. But come to learn that they now hate each other. And why? Because she can't make him happy, and he can't make her happy either. Oh, well. They are now just 2 miserable people. They got what they deserved. Each other. I say all this to say that what goes around comes around. I don't mean it with anger or resentment. Good never follows wickedness. People can't live their life in a bad way and expect the next person to come along and bring the sunshine. It NEVER works that way. Just keep YOUR head up. Your queen will come along. And she will bring you the sunshine. She will make you wonder how on earth you stayed in that relationship for as long as you did. She will show you what true love and respect means.

[@KEPHALLE]

@@Paraaronoid I went through something similar in many ways, so I feel you, my friend. I'm 40 now, and I'm back at square one not only on the relationship aspect, but on career and house too, and all of these aspects are directly or indirectly connected to the breakup and the choices I made during the relationship in order to step up to the game, a game that no matter my efforts I would ultimately lose. It's time to care and build yourself up. Don't expect anything from people, but expect to feel driven yet kind to yourself, to expect results and yet be patient, to train your mind, your body, and your spirit to elevate yourself to another plane. And never look back as far as circumstances allow.

[@ashleyrose9318]

My narcissistic ex just posted that he’s having a baby. It’s been just over a year since I went no contact. I don’t stalk him, but friends will send/show me things. I should’ve said I don’t want to see stuff before I found this out…

[@mattyjackwhite1]

Conscious doing while being in the present has really helped me stay focused and helps reduce the random negative thoughts!

[@kyerashandel4934]

I like that you mention 'energy' it is so important to pull back your energy. Not easy though. But what you focus on, will create more of the same. We get stuck on a cycle, the over-thinking and suffering are addictive. We see alcohol and sugar as physical addictions that are bad for us, but fail to see how our thoughts can be as harmful to both our mental and physical well-being. Write down a long list of the things that person did or said that hurt you. Keep it handy and read it lots, add to it every time you think of something else. It's a good reminder of why it failed and why this person was not right for you. We can use our energy to manifest better things.. with our thoughts and with our hearts. Focus on how you want to feel.. content, secure, peaceful, etc.. place yourself in that feeling often.

[@realopinion5765]

Thank you for saving my life 3 years ago! I am happy and single.

[@baileyamara]

thank you so much for this. i can’t stop stalking him. and he seems so happy and so free. he ghosted me after months of seeing each other everyday

[@MikeHalley]

Always tough during the holidays with breakups. Key to this is to let go and move on there not worth the energy.

[@mmm24ist]

Perfect message, perfect delivery, perfect time. I'm struggling with the very topic - she is happy why I'm still hurting badly. I wouldn't care, but we've got kids, and they tell me about her, and her new boyfriend that she was cheating on me for months. And now he is staying regularly at their house... I needed to hear the part when you talk how we might want them to be alone, to be hurt as we were/are. Yes, I feel this way when I hear about her and this guy. I'm not proud of it. Thank you for the message that it will not comfort me. You are right. It will not. I needed to hear this message.

[@stereofidelic67]

If they have to go on social media to state to the world and their dog "I'm living my best life right now" - you can guarantee, they're probably not.

[@MsNieshaBean]

This!!

[@legendary8838]

I don’t want my ex to suffer, but a part of me is kind of happy that she is happy. I just hate that. I’ve suffered so much emotionally since the divorce and she’s moved on remarried and my life has spiraled out of control. At this point I just wanna get my life back on track and live my life. I’m struggling with loneliness.

[@Indy__isnt_it]

If you lie to your SO constantly, as a narc, how can you ever be at ease with anyone, but by far, your own self? You have to put your own head alone on a pillow at night, every night, so happy i can do THIS without guilt or crap feelings how i treated people all day long.

[@johnconroy3180]

They're living their BEST life? Good for them. They're not? Oh, well. I wish good things for them. Truth is ~ I do not know. And now that that is settled... I'm done using my life force thinking on it, or caring about it. That would be self harm. I live MY best life every moment, starting this very moment. Because life is too short to do otherwise.💟♾

[@murraydennett3393]

The relational messes in society: seen in soaps, Days of Our Lives etc. Romanic narcissism caused by jealousy of smart people X2, vIQ, IQ.

[@steviemacc2745]

This was so timely. I was dumped by my fiancé. Found out she had been lying about a number of things. I came to see her Ma in the hospital after i found out she had leukemia. She couldn't even appreciate THAT, & after crying in my arms & hugging me several times in the hallway, she went right back on living like i didn't exist. I feel like a fool. 💯😔

[@animalboy71]

I love your channel, listening to you talk has a way of calming me down. Feeling much better than I was a few months ago. Thank you

[@JustaBelievernamedJohn]

I’m not stalking my ex, but from what I’ve heard, people who know us both, she does everything I used to ask her to do with everyone else now. Lots of people I know are very supportive of me and they say they see her acting a lot different than when we were together. They have been really doing their best to help me feel better about things since she left me. I am happy that my friends didn’t allow her to turn them against me. I do not want anyone to turn against her, shes really exposing her toxic traits a lot now though so it’s naturally happening.

[@TheMarshallMalone]

You are the best. At 9:35 you reminded me everything I need to know about moving forward in any situation. Energy is everything and if I’m wasting it on something that is no longer in my life, I am wasting my life. Thanks for these videos.

[@Dirshaun]

I think I may have inadvertently found a way to feel better. I went to church. So, I don't normally go to church because I'm not particularly religious. What I did know was that the people there would accept me without question and with compassion for why I was hurting. Having perfect strangers accept me did wonders. I think it was the validation by someone besides family and friends that I'm not the jerk she thinks I am. She left me a Dear John and let me tell you. It was only closure for her.

[@philipjohnson7090]

Key word you highlighted is * contented! Being contented is such a healthy way to feel when you recognise the people around you who are not content. It screems out or certainly did in my personal journey when I was experiencing this in a narcissist relationship

[@thatbemefool]

Comparison is a thief to the joys of life. People move on and we have to as well. Is it easy? NO! I don’t want anyone who doesn’t want to be with me. Does it hurt? YES but it’s life. Imagine if you invested as much energy in yourself instead of worrying about what your ex is doing! Life is way too short to be consumed with that foolishness. Trust me!

[@DuncanMacDougall]

As always thank you Steph. My mind gets it, my heart is getting there 🙏💛

[@michellemorkel5956]

Its a daily walk for me to work on myself and take the WIN What Is Necessary for me to have peace in my life by focussing on what i give my energy to

[@Yash0030]

Stephanie, I started watching your videos a couple weeks ago and it has helped me tremendously. Going through heartbreak from a narc. Now dealing with custody for our son. He’s really been difficult and is trying to do his best at hurting me again and again. Whenever he comes to pickup his son he’s always on the phone talking to someone and smiling and that just gets me to see how happy he is after everything he has done, cheating, lying, physical and emotionally abusive and the list goes on. Your videos are very helpful and everything I have a moment of sadness I listen to you.

[@kimberle2008]

I felt this. I'm sorry and best of luck.

[@Yash0030]

@@kimberle2008 thank you.

[@YiLuo-zk9kx]

Same with you, this is exactly what I used to go through, my ex would always look so glowing every time he came to pick up my kid, either with a new haircut or new glasses, everything about him was a declaration of war against you. It is really tough...

[@Yash0030]

@@YiLuo-zk9kx oh my, I thought it was only him. Yes new haircut, always wearing clothes and shoes I bought him too.

[@HollywoodStalksMe]

That’s Hollywood!! Wow this made me feel good cus I been fighting some Hollywood actors for obviously stalking me hence them copying all i do! And yet they stay on media with a huge smile yet your right their misery shines through

[@HollywoodStalksMe]

Bunch of narcissistic actors

[@christeledubosreischl4399]

It has been a year that I had to leave my villa and my teenagers inside. My ex had the money and the villa was give. during our wedding from a aunt...with his name on the house. I was housewife and had to leave with my own belongings and very few money. Right after the divorce his work colleague was officialised ( surgeon as well and no kids). I was devastated. He sees to be so happy with her. They have been planing this horrible divorce for a long time. He now does with her everything he never did with me (cause I was busy growing up the kids!!!). He doesn't care that the kids do not want to live with her. I am alone, struggling to survive.

[@sashad.7722]

My situation is when it was time to run because a person was aggressive, I couldn't accept it and kept providing excuses for his behaviour and frankly, I was very naive and immature myself. Now when I am ready to split, after numerous fights, depression, etc., he changed a lot. Well, we both changed. It might be second chance for us otherwise I hope I will know when it's time to finally separate. Don't want anybody to suffer including myself)

[@siphokaziluzipho4197]

Our exes are happy, the sooner we accept, the better. I dnt believe in karma. No one is out to punish anyone. He left me with our son, moved on to have a beautiful life. Blessed beyond measure. Me and my son are OK, through Christ.

[@brianoswald6970]

Right and totally not right. I am in the middle of a divorce and it's been a year. She is manipulative and has NPD. I have found someone ten times better. I have posted pictures of the new girl we are truly happy. You are good to go when your ok on your own and don't need the old person. I knew I was past her. You talk about manifesting ummm no. Energy and magnetic feelings is where it at.

[@agentkproductions08]

This is godly! Thank you!

[@karinaortiz1441]

Girl!!!lll thank you for this!!! I need me a strong women who is not afraid to talk harsh!!! I’m usually the one but sometimes you do need ppl like you in our life to help you knock that feeling off. You’re the best! Love you

[@steenkristensen6351]

Thanks Stephanie, and have a Nice Day 🙂

[@susananderson6882]

wow! this is so perfect timing for me!! Thank you soo much!! 🙏🥰

[@antonioaguirre2832]

Wow I’ll be the 1st to admit and this is my 2nd time listening to this I am or was the unhealthy person in my relationship, idk if it’s narcissistic or what although my ex did call me that before in all CAPS too! If I do identify with all these unhealthy characteristics how do I change I’m tired of loosing people because I don’t value them in the present moment then they leave me and I’m hurt! I want to change I’m sick and tired, every time I’m with someone I’m Al always looking for the next thing (female) everything you said is exactly the way I was in my last relationship. I want to change

[@courtneyyy9220]

Stay out of relationships and look into attachment theory and your detached/avoidant style.

[@RebelJones-wg7vz]

It’s my wish that nobody would have to suffer as I have..it took an enormous collaborative effort in order to inflict it.

[@leilagomulka5690]

It is what it is

[@gia4957]

Nailed it! 💯

[@daniellatan9016]

Sunshine, rainbows and dont forget the UNICORNS! Those who are struggling to find happiness are the most miserable people in the world

[@vinlpaul3]

Thank you so much!!! Going through my first break up & it was ROUGH. Your videos have helped me so much even before I started dating.

[@georgiachios1631]

Happy New Year Steph!! Your energy is contagious!!I love your videos. You have no idea how much you had help me.thank you very much!!!! .wishing you good health ,happiness and success in all your endeavors!!!

[@vincentross-vh2tl]

I have bern doing exactly what she said Revenge for months now I wish i could afford her coaching

[@natsdaley9615]

I'm not sure if my ex is a narcissist but I do know that he's toxic. Yet my desire to peek is overwhelming... 5 years divorced this year I know I'm in a better place happier... yet I still look -I must stop ✋️

[@amybostic1439]

I loved this but that last few minutes was amazing

[@ObservaDome]

Steph, U R So Amazing 👉 Both Inside & Out 👈

[@nwkanion]

I have heard that depressed people can be the best actors…..

[@Coraline423]

True

[@rainart7355]

Thank you for the words Stephanie! You really changed my life with your contents!

[@udyogkhadkaofficialchannel8807]

Happy New year in 2024. Happy new week Happy new month thank you sister great sagetion ❤❤

[@hydraulics]

I want them to be happy. Its not a zero sum game.

[@carlbartron]

I don't know I think pain is a great motivator if it wasn't for the pain I went through I wouldn't started on this journey of healing myself 9:48

[@nightrider4370]

My goodness she's gorgeous!

[@evensst.preuve9992]

Thank you, Stephanie I needed to hear this.

[@angelaschnettler5013]

Thank you, that was a really great reminder !

[@ainahaga]

I feel like he is thinking of me its annoying to have him in my brain when Im finally feeling better after 10 weeks no contact!

[@anonlarson2875]

My Mom just died. My Ex Wife married a rich man when we divorced, and poisoned my two children against me. My only daughter got married last January and I wasn't invited. Now my Mom has just died and she is supposedly coming to my mother's funeral? I live in a different state and I don't think I can go. When I was married to her and suffering, I got no empathy or compassion. She tested my loyalty with extreme cruelty when we were dating. She dumped her boyfriend to marry a wealthy guy. How do I wish this person well, but never have to see or deal with her again? It has been over 20 years and both children are grown. And how has she stayed married for 20 years? Her husband is unattractive physically, but successful in his career and wealthy.

[@nicholecornes1915]

Hell no they didn't suffer like we did.

[@NiceLadyProductions]

Thank you for consistently sharing your expertise for free via this KZbin channel. Your words stream out of you effortlessly because they are meant to be said by you. Your extremely helpful point of view and your wisdom is having a very BIG impact on people's lives. Know that. Love the authenticity and that you film from your car. Wishing you the 1 million subscribers that you will no doubt get.

[@chdk55christidonny6]

Stephanie Lyn, thanks for the advice to my mind and my heart. I needed you.

[@Gelato_21]

Thank you Stephanie! 🙏

[@markkillick4594]

I’ve just been through a 3 year relationship that’s caused a lot of damage to my mental health including a nervous breakdown, I’ve recently been love bombed again and then blocked and deleted again . Your advice across all the videos I have seen is absolutely amazing Stephanie , thank you 🙏

[@mekman4]

Thank you! Happy Nee Year!

[@PatriciaStowasser]

I am heartbroken and struggling to get on after my husband of 35 years (38 years together) cheated on me with a younger woman. His life is going on but mine isn’t 😢

[@alyonaakhremchyk]

This content is right on time. Thank you ❤️

[@basementcattiger]

Great sermon, Stephanie!!!

[@Swuup98]

you literally spoke my past 5 years of life. Thank you for your motivational message and pov. 😊

[@tonyg5132]

Her image was everything. She cared more about how she looked on social media vs how her own bf felt, her exes, anyone who was closer to her. At times it seemed like she was dating her BFF because she cared more about what she thought than any guy not just me

[@kmontagna1]

Thank you

[@janineplaatjies1404]

Thank you. Much appreciated 🙏.

[@anonlarson2875]

Celibacy before marriage is ine way to avoid toxic entanglement.

[@Chet73]

I agree

[@darthvader78441]

My ex got married 3 months after our "relationship" Ended. Not that it matters, he's a diagnosed untreated pwBPD. His marriage must be toxic. That's my closure, Stephanie

[@frankdavf4599]

it matters a lot!! You re better without her!

[@ylana4444]

Guarantee his marriage is toxic. I’m 4 yrs out of a BPD relationship and it was horrendous. It affected my physical health as well. You dodged a bullet. Therapy is life saving! Have a happy NY’s YAY!

[@bushraabdullah3208]

Mine did too, but idk if he is diagnosed with anything. I think he just never loved me :/

[@Rosie-wx2hc]

Me too, 3 months later mine moved in with his new 19 year old gf 🤢

[@darthvader78441]

@@Rosie-wx2hc my ex is 65 and married a 32 year old. What can they possibly have in common?

[@tonyg5132]

I only read the title but I hope she is.

[@irenagaidelis5145]

Meant to write a widow