Things I'm NOT doing in my 40's| Late 40's diary| Life after 40

[@indolilyindomitablelily7306]

Summary 1. I don't care about what people think of me. 2. Don't worry so much about appearance . 3. Stopped drinking alcohol, I'm conscious of what I eat 4. I stopped "people pleasing" 5. I don't ignore my health. 6. Quickly get out of a toxic relationship, cut off toxic people, set boundaries. 7. I stopped ignoring the red flags, I trust my gut feelings. 8. I stopped chasing what is trending, I buy classic, quality items that I like. . 9. "Let them" say what they want to say about me, I just want to have my peace

[@Bonakelephumo]

I always get excited when I come across women in my age group on YT. I'm an over 50 KZbinr from South Africa. Just subscribed

[@Milly_in_denmark]

@@Bonakelephumo Thank you 🙏 and welcome here 😊

[@milicahthairu1706]

You are so beautiful and calm. I feel peaceful listening to you. God bless you sister

[@Milly_in_denmark]

@@milicahthairu1706 Thank you 🙏 such kind words and may God bless you too😊

[@ola-gi6fx]

I’m turning 50 next year and I am now focused on myself mentally, physically and emotionally. I set boundaries with people and value positive relationships. Been separated for 4 years and finding myself along the way. Peace, peace, peace and peace.

[@Milly_in_denmark]

@@ola-gi6fx Amen to more peace. When I was looking for a partner, my nr 1 thing was peace. If he can’t give me peace I will give my self peace alone😊

[@KaHadebe]

I am in my early 30s preparing for my 40s and 50s. I appreciate your videos.

[@Milly_in_denmark]

That is awesome! 😊

[@lornalisa5974]

I appreciate your advice. I am 32, a dietician, I've been married for 13 years and with a 7 year old. We live in Copenhagen with my Danish husband and boy. So i definitely understand what you mean in all the different areas of life. I am also from uganda, but i am very conscious of whom i accept in my life. Good input once again. Have a beautiful day.

[@Milly_in_denmark]

@@lornalisa5974 oh you a are welcome me nice seeing a Ugandan in Denmark here. Hope winter is treating you kind.😊

[@kathrynduncan8773]

Milly. I discovered your channel last night and I am hooked. Really enjoying your natural vibe and positivity. Great range of videos...informative and entertaining. ❤

[@Milly_in_denmark]

@@kathrynduncan8773 wow! Thank you 🙏 so much I really loved the way you described the channel. You nailed it. Thank you and welcome to the community 😊

[@queenveepositivepalace7704]

You are such a natural in front of a camera, you are so calm. I'm starting my KZbin channel soon I am 47 years old and watching is really helping me❤

[@Milly_in_denmark]

@@queenveepositivepalace7704 Thank you 🙏. I think it gets better with time, but it’s funny talking to your self but I never think about it. Good luck with your channel 😊

[@makgwelesithole2151]

Milly I am glad I found your channel’ love your content and honestly at our age we must follow our hearts and take good care of ourselves ❤Oh i am also turning 50 next year! Love you from RSA🇿🇦

[@Milly_in_denmark]

@@makgwelesithole2151 Thank you 🙏 for joining the community and you are so right about following our hearts. We sometimes think of others instead of what we want.

[@dawnettethompson5825]

I am new and happy to find you. I was searching for a video on how to do head wraps and walla😂. I have subscribed and will stay. I am 55 but I am not grey on the head as yet , but down there 😂😂😂 . When I get my grays I will embrace them. I have always been natural. Locs and back. I love your hair and your black is beautiful. Keep sweet sister. Greetings from Jamaica.

[@Milly_in_denmark]

@@dawnettethompson5825 You is crazy 😂. Gray down there 😂. Thank you 🙏 for the support and hope you can at least learn the easy head wrap😊

[@SophiaKamauTVShow]

So much wisdom right there. I turned 50 in June and also my biggest realization moment started during COVID around 2020. Especially on the part of pleasing people, I'm done with that and I feel so much freedom.

[@Milly_in_denmark]

@@SophiaKamauTVShow Right? Especially pleasing people who don’t even appreciate you. And congratulations 🍾🎊🎉 on turning 50. We need to be celebrating because many don’t make it to this age.

[@diasporaconnecttanzania3521]

Your hair is looking marvelous Milly!

[@Milly_in_denmark]

@@diasporaconnecttanzania3521 Thank you 🙏. Hope TZ is treating you well.

[@diasporaconnecttanzania3521]

@@Milly_in_denmark I am in paradise. I will visit Uganda someday since I am in East Africa. I have visited Zambia and Kenya. I have heard great things about it!

[@sclement20]

All wise words & truthful thank you for sharing

[@Milly_in_denmark]

@@sclement20 You are welcome and thank you for watching.

[@queenveepositivepalace7704]

You look Gorgeous Queen❤

[@jillstar3467]

Congs, Milly. I have followed you from the start and impressed how much your channel has grown,inspired by your persistence. Wow! Congs upon you're wedding hun.

[@Milly_in_denmark]

@@jillstar3467 Thank you for being here for this long😊. I was honestly about to give it up, but kept going.

[@jillstar3467]

@@Milly_in_denmark I'm inspired not to give up :)

[@lilianopollo4447]

Happy I found your channel dear a lot of people are very insensitive and mean when they see some one who has embarrassed gray hair in my case even the people who are close to me call me grandma because I have gray hair you have really encouraged me thanks ❤

[@Milly_in_denmark]

@@lilianopollo4447 oh wow! That’s rude. Not that there is something wrong with being a grandma, but that’s using it in a negative way to hurt someone is so not okay. Sorry to hear that. Wear your gray hair with pride. You should hear how many compliments I get about my hair. I love it and wouldn’t have it any other way.

[@akinyiwambui]

Thank you Sis Milly for the encouragement.I started my 40's journey and I feel like I am in my 20's.I have just started seeing what your sharing now.Thank you for being ..lol...my online big sis...I am learning alot

[@Milly_in_denmark]

@@akinyiwambui Thank you beautiful. Glad I could help and will try to make videos to my younger self S I notice that I also have younger followers 😍

[@marythembekamatunzi4814]

I am so obsessed with your blogs as a result I am binge watching as I discovered your channel last week. I am all the from South Africa and in my 50s.

[@Milly_in_denmark]

@@marythembekamatunzi4814 helloooo Mary. Welcome here and I hope you enjoy the vlogs and thank you for the support.

[@marythembekamatunzi4814]

@@Milly_in_denmark 💞

[@Grace-rw7fy]

I will always love you. You've built a lot of confidence in me. Love your hair. ❤❤❤

[@nobledeeds2351]

I don't use to subscribe to KZbin channel, but you inspire a lot, when women get over 35 , we start fearing age, but you look so confident, and as a woman i like to see you. Please keep sharing with us.

[@Milly_in_denmark]

@@nobledeeds2351 ohhh! That is such a beautiful comment and very encouraging. Thank you so much. You made my day. Thank you 🙏 so much. Stay blessed 😊

[@christinerose5685]

You are an encouragement and an inspiration. Thank you. GOD bless and keep you. You look great. Keep shining.

[@Milly_in_denmark]

@@christinerose5685 Thank you Christine. I really appreciate 😊

[@EnjoyingYourLifeWithJesus]

You look beautiful Sis! I'm a new subscriber...found you a week ago! Yes, you are so right on all points! Keep giving us wisdom...Life Learner at 52 years old! God bless you Milly❤

[@Milly_in_denmark]

@@EnjoyingYourLifeWithJesus I can see you and thank you 🙏 for the support. I really appreciate.

[@amerudi111]

I am 46 and couldn't agree more 🎉

[@Milly_in_denmark]

@@amerudi111 Amen 🙏

[@DrRefiloeR]

Love it here ❤❤ wow your hair and beauty

[@Emillyleilahhomeandcooking]

How did I miss this video🤦🏽‍♀️ I guess it’s vacation time🤣 I love it. As a 50yr beautiful carefree woman I agree sis❣️ I love it❤️❤️❤️

[@Milly_in_denmark]

@@Emillyleilahhomeandcooking Noooo way you are 50 Emilly. I swear I thought you were 30 something. Ahhh! You are aging gracefully 😊

[@Emillyleilahhomeandcooking]

@@Milly_in_denmark whaaaat???Thanks sis but I’m turning 51 in September🇰🇪🇩🇰🎶💃🏾and loving it. You age like fine wine sis.❣️🥰Can’t wait to celebrate you here on your channel and Insta as you hit the 5th floor 🙏🏾💪🏾🥰

[@nyanjaunjeri1104]

I love your content. This video has alot of inspiration. Watching you from Kenya

[@Milly_in_denmark]

@@nyanjaunjeri1104 Thank you 🙏 so much and thank you for the support 😊

[@brendadickson9583]

I am happy I found you sis n you are wise❤❤n love your gorgeous hair

[@Milly_in_denmark]

@@brendadickson9583 Thank you 🙏

[@rahabnyaguthii1590]

Great video. Unfortunate about discussing only one thing with the doctor, because the body (and mind) is so interconnected.

[@Over50andMe]

You NAILED IT 👍👏🙌👍🤔❤️. Live your life girl NO STRESS 😎. Let them. I’m hooked.

[@Milly_in_denmark]

@@Over50andMe Thank you 🙏

[@BoitumeloLekalakala-s6j]

Hi Milly your lifestyle is amazing dear i just love it 🇿🇦

[@Milly_in_denmark]

@@BoitumeloLekalakala-s6j Thank you and thank you for the support

[@hauwamuhammad2162]

I just found you last week. Love your videos 😊

[@Milly_in_denmark]

@@hauwamuhammad2162 Welcome here and thank you for the support.

[@smilenovember7287]

Watching from South Sudan juba ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ I'm turning 50 next year November too. Happy birthday in advance 😅❤🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@Shanthairtouch22]

Thanks ❤ Watching this in my late 30's🎉🎉

[@lilagauchi3631]

Ur hair is absolutely beautiful.natural beauty all the way

[@Milly_in_denmark]

@@lilagauchi3631 Thank you for the kind words

[@liveyrdream]

Great video.

[@Milly_in_denmark]

@@liveyrdream Thank you 🙏

[@daphnemsianga9204]

Your hair is beautiful 😍 You look great 👍

[@Milly_in_denmark]

@@daphnemsianga9204 Thank you 😊

[@RRetreat]

Milly was white hair flatters you with your glowing skin. It complements you.

[@Milly_in_denmark]

@@RRetreat Thank you for the kind compliment 😊

[@marionekeverenge5562]

I agree totally...btw, i have same hair as yours...silver fox😅😂 ... challenge is getting products suitable for the hair

[@Milly_in_denmark]

@@marionekeverenge5562 Ahhh! That’s nice. I always love seeing other silver sister 😊

[@portiakhoza8309]

Loving this channel 🤍🤍🤍

[@Milly_in_denmark]

@@portiakhoza8309 Thank you 🙏

[@blessedhummingbird4]

You look incredible!

[@Milly_in_denmark]

@@blessedhummingbird4 Thank you 🙏 for the kind words 😍. Is that your daughter singing on your videos. What a nice voice!

[@RoselynKarugonjoSegawa1]

Looking beautiful!

[@Milly_in_denmark]

@@RoselynKarugonjoSegawa1 Thank you Rose😌

[@mirembehellen5387]

Thanks for talking about friends just at a time I'm considering to cut of one of my closest friends. We work in the same institution but she has occasionally insulted me. I'd given her a chance thinking she might change. I'm a non confrontational person and im thinking of writing her a message. We'v known each other for 20 years.

[@Milly_in_denmark]

@@mirembehellen5387 I think that’s what hurts most when you have known the person for a long time. It can be difficult, but you should follow your gut feeling. Maybe coffee and tell her how you feel. Words written can be misunderstood and words can be used against one. Hope you make the right choice for you.

[@elizabethbwalya438]

I like your hair 👌

[@Milly_in_denmark]

@@elizabethbwalya438 Thank you 🙏😊

[@fundiserame9531]

Hi Milly. Love the quality of your videos. Can you share what camera you are using?

[@Milly_in_denmark]

@@fundiserame9531 Thank you. I have different cameras, but my most used is the dji 3

[@fundiserame9531]

@ works perfectly. Thanks for sharing🌸

[@hilmandamonamupetami9894]

You look stunning. I love your beautiful grey hair. How do you beat hair shrinkage?

[@Milly_in_denmark]

@@hilmandamonamupetami9894 Thank you 🙏. It’s I braids most of the time and I think not using products with glycerin is key for me

[@chipashamoyo6435]

Your hair looks awesome

[@Milly_in_denmark]

Thank you 🙏

[@leocadieapo9492]

Trop belle 😍 cette couleur de cheveux vous va à ravir ❤

[@Milly_in_denmark]

@@leocadieapo9492 merci 😊

[@Ilovekenya780]

Haki hiyo nywele looks good for sure

[@Milly_in_denmark]

@@Ilovekenya780 Asente sana😊

[@darkhorse9277]

You look beautiful!!

[@Milly_in_denmark]

@@darkhorse9277 Thank you 🙏

[@uyaiumoren2030]

Please what leave in conditioner and hair cream/milk did you use to achieve your Afro ?

[@Milly_in_denmark]

@@uyaiumoren2030 I have made a tutorial on how I get the look, coming up soon and I will make a video on my favorite products very soon. Otherwise if you look in my playlist for beauty, I have a video in there with products I use.

[@alirosemarychewe8100]

I used to drink but now I am dropping out of it gradually. My body don't response to it anymore

[@Milly_in_denmark]

@@alirosemarychewe8100 we can’t party as we used to😊

[@elizabethchatora5407]

Milly 😂😂… am same age as you, not a single grey hair, am actually about to dye it grey. Am just searching how best to do it 🙈🙈🙈 I love grey hair but mine is not happening 🤣 Lovely video as usual …. Watching from Norway❤❤❤️

[@Milly_in_denmark]

@@elizabethchatora5407 . I honestly never thought people do dye their hair grey. But I’m learning and now I know why people ask me if I color the hair. Hopefully you find good color that won’t ruin your hair 😊

[@ellieb9781]

❤ all true!

[@marynyambura2171]

Hi gal .you look amazing enjoy watching your videos...I am actually your age mate .@ 49...I agree with totally our 😅I'm just smiling and feeling like you are taking about me..❤

[@Milly_in_denmark]

@@marynyambura2171 Thank you so much. I hope I don’t sound harsh 😇

[@Justgloryn]

Yes 37 here 🤚

[@jengrancha3713]

Had to share your channel with everyone I know 🙃🩵🩵

[@Milly_in_denmark]

@@jengrancha3713 Thank you 🙏.

[@homegrown-stuff]

❤❤❤

[@liveyrdream]

I love your hair, very beautiful.

[@Milly_in_denmark]

@@liveyrdream Thank you so much 😊

[@Justgloryn]

Yes nobody cares after all.I got a KZbin channel and was scared to post cz of wat pple would say 😢.Those pple dnt even care

[@Milly_in_denmark]

@@Justgloryn True

[@fortunapuscale8676]

Hi dear,how long it took your grays to grow completely, it's beautiful ❤

[@Milly_in_denmark]

@@fortunapuscale8676 Thank you but honestly I can’t say. Because I used to color my hair and then stopped. And slowly the color was gone and slowly I became gray. But in the back of my neck it’s very black on one part which is weird

[@kanyesigeimeli]

​@Milly_in_denmark you inspire me soo much am 28 years here your the auntie I needed ❤

[@LilianMuwanguzi]

Hello Milly am first to comment do you have trust agent to come and work in Denmark

[@RahmaSnow23]

You look great for your age

[@Milly_in_denmark]

@@RahmaSnow23 Thank you 🙏

[@Pulie_shaz_bw]

You are you age mate .I will be 50 next year August

[@MissQomfortable]

Are you 💯fluent in Danish?

[@Milly_in_denmark]

@@MissQomfortable Yes ma’am. I even have a get to know me video in danish.

[@diasporaconnecttanzania3521]

Milly there are many young people who color their hair the color of our hair. Grey! People ask me the same thing. They will say, did you color your hair, or You should color your hair. I cannot win with these people. LOL. I don't try!

[@Milly_in_denmark]

@@diasporaconnecttanzania3521 Right? Thw world had become so fake so everyone is fake 😂. I have also had women, Some African women ask me why I don’t color my hair? Like are you trying to tell me I look old?🤣. A Danish lady asked me once while at the gym, where did I do my Brazilian lift 🤣

[@mwanaidihassan5868]

You are camera is good whats its Brand Name

[@Milly_in_denmark]

@@mwanaidihassan5868 in this video used both the dji pocket 3 nd Sony a 7 4 because the Sony heated up and I went to dji and then I had to try to edit the videos so it looked almost the same.

[@mwanaidihassan5868]

@@Milly_in_denmark thank you ALOTS Mama. God bless you for the job you are doing. I always thinking about how people will think about me. Nice lesson

[@Milly_in_denmark]

@@mwanaidihassan5868 Don’t. We water so much time think about that and probably nobody cares😂 Just get started.

[@CAROS_FITNESS]

That statement "I don't care comes with a lot of experience and age" will all gonna get here 😅 U look beautiful for your age though 😊

[@Milly_in_denmark]

@@CAROS_FITNESS So true. I think it’s hard when you are younger. The older we get, the less we care. Thank you for watching 😊