THINGS I'VE GIVEN UP IN MY LIFE TO MAKE IT BETTER

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The Chap's Guide

Күн бұрын

In this video your host discusses the things in his life that he has given up to improve life quality and success..
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@DavidHalfordsLane
@DavidHalfordsLane 2 күн бұрын
Wise words, Ash. I’m a news junkie or at least used to be. I’m now more selective to avoid constant doom scrolling. Limit social media too. It’s mainly corrosive.
@rdcwild3023
@rdcwild3023 2 күн бұрын
Fully distracted by that terrifying cobweb on the door 🙀
@ColinRussell-o4l
@ColinRussell-o4l Күн бұрын
I run my own business and have been cycling to work, daily, for the past 36 years. Always makes me chuckle when new customers compliment me on the flash, sparkling Audi Q7 outside the office. That's owned by the office-clerk, who's going through the "this will impress other people" stage...😂 Great video, Ash - thanks!
@brianmccarthy1322
@brianmccarthy1322 2 күн бұрын
I gave up smoking 50 cigarettes per day at 30. At 40 I decided to drastically reduce my alcohol consumption. At 67 I decided to give up working and retired. Of the three I must admit that giving up trading my time for money has brought me the greatest reward. I am married and have 2 children and 2 grandchildren. I heard Dr. David Suzuki say that he endured the responsibility of raising children so that he could enjoy his grandchildren. I agree. Find happiness and joy in the simple things you do daily. Each day is a gift if you let it be so.
@kevinkrause5798
@kevinkrause5798 2 күн бұрын
I’m 5+ years totally free of the booze …best thing I ever did. 👍🏼 I appreciate your videos. Thanks, Ash!
@monkey39128
@monkey39128 2 күн бұрын
Well done! I'm about the same. Don't think I was an alcoholic, just got sick of waking up with a sore head. 😂
@thechairman74
@thechairman74 Күн бұрын
It's unfortunate that so many humans throughout history have had such a bad experience with alcohol. I think in the best circumstance, alcohol and the culture around it, collecting, sampling and enjoying the different kinds of drinks the world has to offer can be a great hobby. I enjoy drinking wines and spirits. Sometimes I do imbibe a bit too much, but less and less often. I consciously curtail my intake now, and I restrict myself to only drinking on certain days, or only a number of days per week. If I think, well, I'll have a drink today, but it wasn't supposed to be my day, I'll not drink on that other day. But I understand that this is something that some people just cannot control. It's not their own fault, to an extent, it's that there's something innate genetically that makes some of us more easily addicted. The best that we can do is identify that trait early enough so that it doesn't cause irreparable harm. If having to stop alcohol intake entirely is the remedy, that it must be done.
@maxine2798
@maxine2798 Күн бұрын
Well done. We all have a different experience with booze. I’m a drink or 2 a month person. Some months no drinks and some more. I do understand others have better and worse relationships with alcohol
@KlausKokholmPetersen
@KlausKokholmPetersen Күн бұрын
17 years. Best thing I ever did for myself.
@drumhead869
@drumhead869 Күн бұрын
Things which I gave up by age 41 Over spending and over buying, Phone addiction, Smoking, Anger, Sugar and Carbohydrates, Junk food, Overthinking. And Things which I am working on Spending quality time with my parents, Exercise, Drinking water, Money management, Acquiring Financial knowledge I learned many things from the chaps guide - moral compass , dressing better , grooming, presenting yourself , becoming a gentleman ,good manners , journalling , etiquettes etc etc ..
@TheChapsGuide
@TheChapsGuide Күн бұрын
Thank you sir.
@cliffhiggins730
@cliffhiggins730 Күн бұрын
I am a 55 year old dentist in America. I have been following you for a while. I believe this to be the most important and impactful video you have ever produced. I agree with your perspective 100%. Thank you for this great content!
@TheChapsGuide
@TheChapsGuide Күн бұрын
Thank you sir, that is much appreciated
@markwalsh6714
@markwalsh6714 Күн бұрын
It is amazing about the grip that social drinking has upon you. I gave up alcohol 700 days ago. Never going back to drinking. I sleep better and feel so much better and healthy. I have my weekends back to the full. No time is wasted.
@obaidrehmani6588
@obaidrehmani6588 2 күн бұрын
The art of letting go is always difficult to acquire. Once acquired, it brings immense peace and joy. Each one to their own!
@andrewdaydreamer5209
@andrewdaydreamer5209 2 күн бұрын
I'm 51. I used to have a very stressful job. I also suffer from chronic back pain. I used to drink to manage the stress and back pain. I gave up alcohol about 10 years ago because it was destroying my health. I also decided to change my career into something completely different. This year I also gave up caffeine. I now commit to trying to walk every day , get some exercise and spend time in nature. I'm now self employed and my own boss. I do not earn as much money but my life is so much better. I'm healthier, happier and a better husband and father.
@TheChapsGuide
@TheChapsGuide 2 күн бұрын
Bravo sir - you have achieved Chap Nirvana!!!
@alamore5084
@alamore5084 2 күн бұрын
You are much more well off in every respect now Sir. Rather than playing the pointless game of money and prestige. You will live much longer and have a richer life!
@wicked-witch-of-the-west
@wicked-witch-of-the-west 2 күн бұрын
Back pain is the worse, i suffer with it too. Good on you, sir
@JamesAlexander14
@JamesAlexander14 22 сағат бұрын
As Lao Tse once said “If you do not change direction, you may just end up where you are going!” For me, I gave up work, drink and bad diet all for serious health reasons and philosophical attitudes have guided me to a better life. From the Poetic Edda, ‘A man is wealthy, if he has food in the belly, a roof over his head and a fire in the hearth’. Meaning a life of simplicity and actively seeking a simple life, is all that a person needs.
@mungulor
@mungulor 2 күн бұрын
I love the idea of having a woodland retreat. I have lots of woodlands around me and maybe I should start making use of it
@monkey39128
@monkey39128 2 күн бұрын
Unfortunately the one near me is covered in dog muck. 🤢🤢
@9er..
@9er.. 2 күн бұрын
As a younger guy(43 now) I can’t tell you how much I appreciate the commonalities between your story and mine. It’s advice content like this that lots of men need to hear…. Especially nowadays.
@brunom6153
@brunom6153 12 сағат бұрын
Big hug from Portugal Ash !
@БелорусскийРусскийБостон
@БелорусскийРусскийБостон Күн бұрын
I’m actually going to save this video, so I could come back to it in the future, near and distant.
@sticksnstones5407
@sticksnstones5407 2 күн бұрын
I gave up sugar and carbs and feeling much better for it, mentally and physically.
@andrewdaydreamer5209
@andrewdaydreamer5209 Күн бұрын
@@sticksnstones5407 Well done. Sugar is one of the biggest problems in modern food.
@groove9tube
@groove9tube 2 күн бұрын
I got diagnosed with cancer this year (I’m fine). It kicked me in the ass but got my butt moving. It made me realize at age 69 that there’s not much time. So I’m writing a book and started a T shirt company. And I’m more fit now than probably anytime.
@TheChapsGuide
@TheChapsGuide Күн бұрын
Bravo sir. I hope you have continued good health.
@maxmusdan2484
@maxmusdan2484 2 күн бұрын
Ash, you are the chap's chap.
@philipklink5406
@philipklink5406 10 сағат бұрын
Thanks for sharing this Ash. Great advice even for us older chaps.
@petercottam2466
@petercottam2466 Күн бұрын
Thanks for the video and advice Ash. For me I have given up caring what people think about me , because I know what is in my heart and that GOD is with me. I love your videos because they are a true CHAPS GUIDE !!! Thanyou Ash for your inspiring tales.. A true C
@roccotarulli2464
@roccotarulli2464 Күн бұрын
Ash, Your words are a bit of wisdom in themselves. Well said.
@wicked-witch-of-the-west
@wicked-witch-of-the-west 2 күн бұрын
I come from humble beginnings. But i've worked hard, and at once upon a time I had two jobs. The first house that I bought, i decided to turn that into a rental property, and I am planning on picking up another rental property. The self worth this has given me. It has completely changed my life. I'm hoping to retire at 55, so 15 years time. Which with a few rental properties behind me, it will make me a very wealthy man. However I make the mistake constantly of not living ''for the now''. Thank-you for reminding me, Ash
@byN91
@byN91 Күн бұрын
Ash you got my respect with your view of material things
@NumanAlMadani-qr3nd
@NumanAlMadani-qr3nd 2 күн бұрын
Well done sir, your wisdom and maturity are a result and testament of experience, discipline and mindset. The positive progression in your life journey is commendable congratulations and best wishes. your content is very much appreciated. thank you for sharing your experience
@mickrotherham4954
@mickrotherham4954 2 күн бұрын
Thank you for the content and wise words Ash, it's interesting when we think of success we first think of material possessions rather than maybe how we are as people I.e being kind, loyal, loving, being there for your family and friends. Material possessions are useful/necessary to a point but a fine line to not cross when chasing more is not more, thanks Mike
@TyroneDaviesWELSHMAN
@TyroneDaviesWELSHMAN Күн бұрын
Great work letting go of alcohol Ash. I stopped 3.5 years ago for the same reasons as you did. I also grew up in the valleys where it was always expected for you to drink and drink heavily. All the bad things in my life, I can point directly to drink and there is a distinct thread of alcoholism in my family. It's hard but I recommend everyone to take a beat and enjoy alternatives. It doesn't have to be soft drinks at the bar. There are a wide variety of brews now that you can partake in and on many occasions, oblivious to the people you are sharing time with that you are not drinking alcohol. Indeed, you are your health too. Very wise words Sir. Keep up the great work!
@tomtucker83
@tomtucker83 2 күн бұрын
Lots of good advice. I do worry though that we are constantly advised to think of self first, self improvement and so on. In the past, team work and group activities made us a much more cohesive society who looked out for each other. I live in a village where most of the group activities, drama groups, sports clubs, scouts and others have ceased to exist because no one volunteers support any more.
@phililpb
@phililpb 14 минут бұрын
Do things to impress others in your 50s is a waste of time. But in your twenties it is far from a waste of effort it is essential and that’s why we all do it.
@jamieweir9609
@jamieweir9609 Күн бұрын
Great comments Ash. One minor thing I recommend. Get hold of a new outdoor table. I suggest you buy an Ash Wood one.
@67NewEngland
@67NewEngland 2 күн бұрын
- Wow Ash. This is a whole new level of insight for the channel. Love it. I am your age and have thought through exactly all these points you mentioned. I also learned to forgive myself for all my past actions and regrets. Keep up the good work.
@TheChapsGuide
@TheChapsGuide 2 күн бұрын
Thanks for sharing!!
@JoseCid_24
@JoseCid_24 2 күн бұрын
Another great video from one of the best channels on youtube. Thank you Sir for all the amazing videos.
@TheChapsGuide
@TheChapsGuide 2 күн бұрын
Glad you like them!
@philw4053
@philw4053 2 күн бұрын
Hey Ash. Another highly valuable contribution from your good self. If only more people had the benefit of your wise words. I see lots of comments about alcohol - so it's clear that's a factor in many peoples' lives. Your bit about materialism is entirely valid, but I guess we are all a little materialistic if we are honest with ourselves. Like all things, it's about moderation. Glad you are still giving your time to us 😊
@Yaris510
@Yaris510 Күн бұрын
"Who wants to live to be a hundred years of age, if you're a decrepit old wreck! I want to live to be a hundred years of age, but be fairly fit and sprightly for that age." You are, as ever, bang on the money, Ash
@martindoyle7077
@martindoyle7077 2 күн бұрын
Oak lodge it's a shed ash
@antonius_006
@antonius_006 Күн бұрын
Twilight Town, a Bonanza tv episode, helped me in my life journey .
@paul7233
@paul7233 2 күн бұрын
One thing I would add Ash is to indulge yourself with some things if they make you happy😊.Rather than omitting them from your life because they might seem shallow but realize that time is short so enjoy yourself within certain bounds as long as it doesn't damage your mental and physical health.Personally,clothes,a nice house,a few vintage watches,nice car etc. are just me.I enjoy these material things and wouldn't dream of apologizing for their inclusion in my life.Personal relationships and one's health are my priorities but some material things add joy to life.
@ProductionsFromBeyon
@ProductionsFromBeyon 2 күн бұрын
I never drank heavy, but ages 21-23 I probably had a beer a day every day; the really high calorie craft beers. Alcohol never ruled me, but moving from a daily drink to a monthly has saved my waistline and helped my wallet
@Valera_Scotland
@Valera_Scotland Күн бұрын
I'm 40 now...As they say, the hardest challenge is to know which bridges to burn, and which to cross... Giving something up, can often lead to transformation.... sometimes it leads to tough challenges, but in my experiences, (new job, moving country, ending relationships etc), it can lead to new chapters In terms of day to day, i no longer drink alcohol, don't smoke, and try to watch less tv (replaced by books).... also very slowly giving up all debt (4 more years before I'm debt free, apart from house) .... giving up dependancy on debt is life changing I would add one bonus - sugar and ultra processed food... I'm not there yet, but I'm trying
@TheChapsGuide
@TheChapsGuide Күн бұрын
Bravo sir. You are doing well on the journey. Good luck in your future endeavours
@Valera_Scotland
@Valera_Scotland Күн бұрын
​@@TheChapsGuide Ash thank you so much... and in terms of watches, I've discovered Sinn... wearing my EZM 3F with pleasure.... in my older years I'll have a Breguet or something of that level.. but enjoying this brutalist tool style. Practical and simple
@johnparnell8571
@johnparnell8571 18 сағат бұрын
Great content, Ash. Similar to you, I quit the rat race at the age of 51. As a single man with no family commitments, my mortgage paid off, no other debts, and money / investments behind me, I swapped a well paid job for a much simpler life, indulging in my various hobbies, and greeting each new day like you would a Saturday. I have never looked back and now that my various other pensions have all kicked in, I am all the more appreciative of those additional years of complete freedom that I have so enjoyed and will hopefully continue to do so for a few more years to come. My early retirement had been in the planning for quite some time, and at considerable sacrifice in terms of holidays and luxuries foregone. I only pressed ‘GO’ when all of my individual financial milestones had been achieved. I also had a plan B in the unlikely event things went pear-shaped. They didn’t.
@TheChapsGuide
@TheChapsGuide 17 сағат бұрын
Planning is the key to enjoying an early retirement. And it's well worth the effort!!!
@nicholasfox3670
@nicholasfox3670 2 күн бұрын
Well said.
@david.leikam
@david.leikam 2 күн бұрын
Bravo! 👏
@alamore5084
@alamore5084 2 күн бұрын
Cigarettes at 19, alcohol at 40. You don't need either to enjoy yourself! My regret is not ditching the booze much earlier. I get complimented regularly on how well I look now which NEVER happened to me when I was young. More time being present and able, money for coffees out whilst being a dapper chap💪
@richardpurvis8999
@richardpurvis8999 2 күн бұрын
Always expect the best from You and always get it. Thanks For the excellent advice. You Are one of the gems of the Internet.
@londonztoa6359
@londonztoa6359 2 күн бұрын
Good points here, each area you mention is worth an assessment. I’ve had to loose some boozy mates over the years, who always assumed I’d be free to sit in a pub for hours.. I do however feel a bit envious of Oak Lodge!
@supersonique001
@supersonique001 Күн бұрын
As a retired stockbroker we use to have an amusing saying for crazy clients : 'Money's only important if you don't die tomorrow!' LOL.
@thehunt226
@thehunt226 2 күн бұрын
I quit smoking after 25 years doing so. Best thing ever.
@alamore5084
@alamore5084 2 күн бұрын
Good for you Sir. I know firsthand how hard it is to do. Your lung capacity will improve enormously after doing so as well.💪
@thehunt226
@thehunt226 2 күн бұрын
@@alamore5084 I can attest to that, it´s been 5 years already... Just no comparison.
@Nobeone
@Nobeone 2 күн бұрын
I'm 41 and I have to say this was a very powerful video. I appreciate this wisdom and will definitely take it to heart and start implementing it.
@TheChapsGuide
@TheChapsGuide 2 күн бұрын
You are so welcome
@vevey75
@vevey75 2 күн бұрын
Great wisdom. As the saying goes health is wealth. I train with weights 2 to 3 times a week, as I noticed my parents' muscle and posture decline very quickly after they retired. I too like watches. I wish I could go to 3 watches maximum 😂 We live in a very commercial world with comparisons in are thoughts. I like to spend time in nature with people less fortunate than myself which is good for the soul.
@dvp36
@dvp36 55 минут бұрын
We are all victims of the corporate Machine to a greater or lesser extent , it’s very hard to avoid the constant manipulation of the modern world . One of the great problems is as human beings we are naturally followers and conformists. We often want to be just like the rest only a little bit better but rarely take a pause to ask if we are happy .. Agree , people constantly needing approval and looking to impress others in a very superficial manner is often a foundation of unhappiness.
@thatspiritualhumane
@thatspiritualhumane 2 күн бұрын
Excellent video dude !
@SaltStackActual
@SaltStackActual 2 күн бұрын
EXCELLENT STUFF! Keep it up. Young men need perspective and lessons.
@TheChapsGuide
@TheChapsGuide 2 күн бұрын
Thanks! Will do!
@salvatoreIII
@salvatoreIII Күн бұрын
Great tips as always. Thanks for sharing. I'd be curious to see that video about incomes streams you mentioned possibly doing.
@SidneAnderson-Ward
@SidneAnderson-Ward 2 күн бұрын
Excellent video, Ash! You’ve given me a lot to think about as well as confirmation that I’m heading in the right direction. Thank you for speaking the truth so effectively. Your wisdom and insight are very helpful. Thank you, Sir! 🫡
@TheChapsGuide
@TheChapsGuide 2 күн бұрын
Glad it was helpful!
@JonathanLewis-gf1lu
@JonathanLewis-gf1lu Күн бұрын
I gave up drinking as well this year because of depression. I have done some things like that as well. I work less I’m working 30 hours a week . I don’t do that as well I’m better as well
@edmundironside9435
@edmundironside9435 2 күн бұрын
Giving up masturbation (and pornography) has worked wonders for my life.
@JoeBeim
@JoeBeim Күн бұрын
You're saying everything I said years ago.
@richardwall2330
@richardwall2330 Күн бұрын
Goodmorning Sir from the South of France 🇫🇷 As per your normal form a grade A video ! Totally agree with everything you said a vital template for many to use. The cutting alcohol out and eating well are absolutely vital. Comparison is the thief of joy !!!!!
@DJunclepaul2nd
@DJunclepaul2nd Күн бұрын
Hello Ash.
@TheChapsGuide
@TheChapsGuide Күн бұрын
Hello!
@davidjarnot8548
@davidjarnot8548 Күн бұрын
Alcohol, smoking, drugs, TV license, driving (dangerous and expensive, also environment impact) some people need to do it but I can walk everywhere I want to go. There's a lot of pressure on people to get a car. My Dad has 4 kids and the second they all turn 17 they all need a car and driving lessons.
@NaNByZero
@NaNByZero Күн бұрын
True words! 🕐⚙️🍸
@rados5334
@rados5334 2 күн бұрын
Let's make a better world where those rites of passage do NOT involve young fellows having to obliterate their organisms with poison or do other stupid things...
@Neil-from-Oz
@Neil-from-Oz 2 күн бұрын
Much appreciated thoughts that you have offered and I am pondering. Thanks Ash.
@TheChapsGuide
@TheChapsGuide 2 күн бұрын
Glad it was helpful!
@p33l3r
@p33l3r 21 сағат бұрын
Cant beleive were into Oak Lodge season already! Cosy.
@johnbunton9177
@johnbunton9177 2 күн бұрын
Although a certain amount of money, and the material goods and opportunities it can provide, can make for a dignified, comfortable existence, beyond a certain point people begin to be owned by their possessions and can fall into the trap of expending vast amounts of energy in amassing material goods rather than in cultivating relationships with people. (We've all heard the anecdotes about the corporate executive, thrice divorced, who doesn't even know the names of his/her grandchildren.) As I used to say to my dear, departed mother, who had an unhealthy attachment to material things and the status they provided, "One place you'll never see a luggage rack is on a hearse."
@AMH-bl1ne
@AMH-bl1ne 2 күн бұрын
Hi Ash, Please sweep the cobwebs off the Oak Lodge door. It would make me feel better. Maybe you like the company? Haha. India Mark
@stevepowell3475
@stevepowell3475 2 күн бұрын
Excellent....
@TheChapsGuide
@TheChapsGuide 2 күн бұрын
Thanks a lot
@thechairman74
@thechairman74 Күн бұрын
I wouldn't say it's something that I consciously gave up because it was causing me harm or not helping, but simply as a consequence of not having time to do it, I just stopped doing it and really don't miss it. As we started having kids, it just became harder and harder to watch TV, and sports on TV, and I just don't do it anymore and don't miss it. I don't subscribe to any TV package either through cable or the Internet. I watch KZbin, I watch and collect films, and the occasional streaming series, but very few, but otherwise I don't "watch" TV anymore. I went years without any awareness of even what the local sports teams were doing. I wasn't even aware that my local NFL team, The Eagles were contending for the Super Bowl the year they won it until December. I was that oblivious, not intentionally so, but I just was so out of it that I wasn't even aware.
@nicodread3747
@nicodread3747 Күн бұрын
thx!
@fids54
@fids54 2 күн бұрын
What a wonderful video, spoken with candour about your experiences and choices. I can relate to the 'not comparing ourselves with others' straightaway. But being able to give free expression to one's creativity and not overcommitting oneself is a luxury most people do not have. They (we) are trapped in their own circumstances without an idea of a way out. But for those who have the luxury but not given adequate thought to it, this video could be an eye opener.
@bjartone-ip5cd
@bjartone-ip5cd Күн бұрын
Still wearing a nice blue-collared shirt in this video. 😀
@lynn5447
@lynn5447 2 күн бұрын
Great video. Wisdom!
@TheChapsGuide
@TheChapsGuide 2 күн бұрын
Thank you!
@djrudog1158
@djrudog1158 2 күн бұрын
Hi Ash....love your videos about oak Lodge and you ration packs from around the world....any more in the future ? Best wishes Grant
@TheChapsGuide
@TheChapsGuide 2 күн бұрын
Hopefully - I'm trying to find a new nation to try out for my next review video.
@crossxcats
@crossxcats 2 күн бұрын
I'm 50 for the most part retired and feel exactly the same way been working part time getting back into old hobby's
@daveporter6091
@daveporter6091 Күн бұрын
Another great video, thanks, Ash. Please do comment on your multiple sources of income. I think this provides so much more financial security than someone who relies upon a paycheck from one employer.
@jessebechtold2973
@jessebechtold2973 Күн бұрын
Reached 40 this year and apart from the occasional glass of wine or an even more rare gin and tonic alcohol is largely falling out of my life. Coffee so far is the biggest sin as far as diet goes and honestly I feel a lot cleaner on the inside if that makes any sense.
@JP31378
@JP31378 2 күн бұрын
Thank you.
@TheChapsGuide
@TheChapsGuide 2 күн бұрын
You're welcome!
@Santoshlv426
@Santoshlv426 Күн бұрын
I lament having to not having my Martini Rosso & Bianco every day, even though it used to be a few sips a night. Alas, nearing 50, I have to watch my sugar intake! Ageing is awful !
@daniell2217
@daniell2217 Күн бұрын
If I may add one - people you’ve outgrown. To be sure, old friends occupy a particularly special place. But, when the length of the relationship is the sole attribute while everything else (value system, outlook, ambition, etc.) increasingly diverges, it’s time to quit those people.
@TheChapsGuide
@TheChapsGuide Күн бұрын
Good shout sir.
@admtech69
@admtech69 2 күн бұрын
Everyone needs a winter retreat…
@w.adammandelbaum1805
@w.adammandelbaum1805 2 күн бұрын
It makes sense to give up things in a shed.
@gavinwhite9743
@gavinwhite9743 Күн бұрын
You are 68% through you life.. with average life expectancy of 79 in uk. More than 2 thirds. Halfway is in the rear view mirror, which you keep referring to lol. However, your approach is inspiring in many aspects. As for making your own luck, I put this down to attitude. You cannot choose your circumstances, but you can always choose your attitude that gives you power over whatever situation your are in. Do you sit and wail about life’s turn of events, or roll up your sleeves and deal with them. Those that face into them will have better outcomes, and be deemed lucky.
@TheChapsGuide
@TheChapsGuide Күн бұрын
My Dad is 93 and still powering on like a trooper - even life expectancy is down to mental attitude!
@GrumblingForesight
@GrumblingForesight 2 күн бұрын
Thanks for sharing this Ash. I’m in my 40s and realized that these 5 points you mentioned here are exactly how I feel nowadays. While I know I’m yet to be the best version of myself, I’m now no longer concerned about keeping up with the Joneses. I have grown a strong dislike for most things with noticeable brand logos on them. My Mercedes is now 10 years old and I simply don’t care about getting a newer one , Still cherish and enjoy it much as I did years ago. I have only 1 luxury watch that I practically wear and enjoy on a daily basis while actively hiding it under long sleeves most of the time. I am comfortable drinking in my own terms. I’ve got laid off, now running my own small business, and am happily rejecting offers as I am no longer chasing the numbers. It’s how I use what time I’ve got left that matters now.
@TheChapsGuide
@TheChapsGuide 2 күн бұрын
Master of your own destiny sir. Congratulations
@GrumblingForesight
@GrumblingForesight 2 күн бұрын
@@TheChapsGuide 🙏🙏🙏
@ronaldpoppe3774
@ronaldpoppe3774 19 сағат бұрын
I have given up alcohol and working 😉
@Txalo_Guerrero
@Txalo_Guerrero 19 сағат бұрын
💎
@gorgeousgeorge3947
@gorgeousgeorge3947 Күн бұрын
The sins of the flesh. I wondered for a moment where you were going!
@pyronals
@pyronals Күн бұрын
Unrelated, but that's a nice jacket. Would love to know the branding if you don't mind. 👌
@TheChapsGuide
@TheChapsGuide Күн бұрын
John Lewis own brand (Any Days) Utility Jacket - purchased this year for £45
@pyronals
@pyronals Күн бұрын
@@TheChapsGuide I appreciate it.
@johnorchin8567
@johnorchin8567 2 күн бұрын
I guess the question is can you put an old head on young shoulders, and more importantly would young people want to act like fifty year olds. Most of your viewers who are in agreement with you are of a similar age. Does one have to pass through all life’s chapters or can one skip some?
@markselby3542
@markselby3542 20 сағат бұрын
I want to give up procrastination. Can you help with a video?
@TheChapsGuide
@TheChapsGuide 19 сағат бұрын
Yes I can -
@byN91
@byN91 Күн бұрын
Hi ash, may i know your thoughts about expensive silk ties versus cheaper ones (also 100% silk)? Does the significant difference in price justified? Thank you
@TheChapsGuide
@TheChapsGuide Күн бұрын
Such a great question - merits a video response I think. I'll put it on the list. But in brief - I've had both and there are huge differences, but these days I would never, ever pay a huge amount for a tie. So many elite level ties are floating around on the 2nd hand market at silly prices, it would seem pointless to invest big money in a branded tie these days.
@byN91
@byN91 Күн бұрын
@@TheChapsGuide ok nice, looking forward for that video.
@kylec7924
@kylec7924 2 күн бұрын
Is there another oak lodge MRE review coming?
@TheChapsGuide
@TheChapsGuide 2 күн бұрын
I’m sure we can sort that out
@lindaabraham8715
@lindaabraham8715 Күн бұрын
I am 72, and I have lost everyone I knew in my youth, from parents, siblings, high school buddies, husbands and lovers. They shortened their lives unnecessarily. The major causes were smoking, alcohol, and all the dietary factors that contribute to heart disease. Your mid-fifties is the time to face facts... don't wait for a disaster. For example, one good friend did not smoke and had given up alcohol in his twenties, but maintained a steady diet of burgers, pizza, and processed meat... erectile dysfunction began at age 50 (a major alarm, which he blamed on his partner), and a stroke at age 59. He had never been overweight, never diabetic, but his carotid artery was clogged leading to paralysis of his arm. I could go on, but 'nuff said.
@kletts42
@kletts42 Күн бұрын
Is your shed bigger in the inside than on the outside?
@TheChapsGuide
@TheChapsGuide Күн бұрын
It feels like it - although that is just something to do with the time and relative dimension in space theory.
@kletts42
@kletts42 21 сағат бұрын
@@TheChapsGuide it looked like it from the video. Your chameleon circuit must be working.
@sparkyblazeup1
@sparkyblazeup1 Күн бұрын
No boss? What about the wife? LOL 😜
@ETE-w4b
@ETE-w4b Күн бұрын
A lot of your process of working on yourself sounds similar to Catholicism.
@TheChapsGuide
@TheChapsGuide Күн бұрын
No supernatural deity in my philosophy sir. Just sheer grit and determination.
@amadigidigaula771
@amadigidigaula771 16 сағат бұрын
No thanks. I rather die later tonight (and I’d have no regrets) than stop drinking and smoking. Who the hell wants to live for 100 years? No thanks again.
@phililpb
@phililpb 31 минут бұрын
Seems like you live your life just the same way as 90% of people that has ever lived. Ie you adjusted to changing circumstances. Nothing really groundbreaking here
@johntait491
@johntait491 2 күн бұрын
Wise words Ash. Regarding health testing, you should try an annual blood analysis test and also a CT Calcium Score Test. Both of these will indicate LDL (the bad) Cholesterol you have in your system. That's the stuff that builds up in the walls of your arteries, making them hard and narrow. And then the HDL level, the (good) cholesterol. That's the stuff that picks up excess cholesterol and takes it back to your liver for cleansing. Factor in all the exercise and your reasonably healthy eating and moderate alcohol intake, you should last for a couple of years yet..!! 😉
@TheChapsGuide
@TheChapsGuide Күн бұрын
Fingers crossed!
@healthyandwealthy5844
@healthyandwealthy5844 2 күн бұрын
caffeine. its an insidious drug.. Its hard to quit, harder than nicotine or alcohol but i go for it.
@e-remes7029
@e-remes7029 2 күн бұрын
Good morning Ash and the assembled Chappage Wise words indeed. I wish early retirement was a possibility. I am still ridiculously busy at 55. I can't think of anything to give up that won't impact on my life. In a few months I will, due to age, have an evening a week and a weekend a month back as I finish at my "second" job. More time for family or hobbies. 🫡
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