Things Not To Say To People With Cosmetic Procedures

[@qamzy90]

Breast reductions are not even cosmetic the nhs even covers it if needed because its physically straining and can cause chronic neck and back pain.

[@alongsigh]

Queen of Westeros oh honey, you are incorrect. Insurance refused to cover my breast reduction because they classified it as a cosmetic procedure so we paid out of pocket. It depends how big and how badly you’re suffering from pain etc.

[@HoudaOussous]

Insurance cover it in many countries in Europe

[@LB-zd5yh]

I need this done, but I'm scared 😩

[@kaelaleedaley]

What is deemed as a Cosmetic Procedure can vary wildly between Health Boards, usually depending on the level of funding available or debt the Board has. I had a "Cosmetic Procedure" in 2005 to remove a Sebaceous Cyst on my Jaw. It was getting bigger and had become painful so my GP said they could refer me to a Specialist but that it would be Private, as the Health Board was in debt and could not accept the cost at that time. I was able to have it removed Privately (thank Goodness) as it was going to get worse and was deeper than was expected which they discovered during surgery! I was blessed not to have any scarring but the cost was considerable x

[@debatingaftershock6816]

Queen of Westeros Haha It’s a mix You can just get removal or deflated.... but it’s definitely cosmetic. Every human getting a reduction wants the cosmetic surgery if honest... because so many surgeries of reductions that are not cosmetically trained are so very very scary afterwards. (In appearance and function) That being said, you totally are correct..... it’s a cosmetic surgery that is also medical. Some people just suffer and are in such pain or even so sick because of large breasts and really need it. I actually had internal damage and bleeding because my breasts were naturally too large, as well as daily pain. Soooooo operation deflation had to commence Haha

[@peachdreams5060]

Wow lilac hair and dark skin is such a beautiful combination

[@Ohitsaymarie]

Peach Dreams thank you 😭😍

[@karson4079]

@@Ohitsaymarie wow you actually replied to them! I think your beautiful by the way ❤

[@lizmowrey9866]

It really is!

[@whatsonhermind1768]

Yes I noticed her too!! So pretty

[@Ohitsaymarie]

Amelia Cassin thank you darling 💜

[@haruno21]

what not to say to people who DONT want children

[@EmmzyDee]

haruno21 THIS. PLEASE.

[@winterismyfavseason]

YeSS

[@iamlemon4679]

haruno21 that’s a good one to do

[@faultylog3713]

This would be good as am one of them

[@nangafubesi2154]

"You gonna have a lot of babies"... "five years down the line you'll be a mom".... "you still too young"... "what if your partner wants one with you"........ I JUST DON'T WANT A BABY

[@PoisonTheOgres]

I've had corrective ear surgery and everyone only told me "oh my god you look *soooo* much better now." That strangely really hurt. Like they were insulting old me. It felt like they were saying "you used to be *sooo* ugly", even though I know they probably didn't intend for it to sound like that.

[@michaelaelizabethx]

PoisonTheOgres that is EXACTLY how i feel when people tell me ive lost weight. all i think was, how fat was i before?

[@LittleFairySparkles]

I've also had ear surgery. I'm not offended at all actually, it makes me really happy because that means it was really worth the money.

[@lihilevy366]

michaelx especially when they used to tell you you looked fine before. Suddenly they say the difference is huge and I look great?

[@roselily9036]

PoisonTheOgres cause you were ugly before

[@madisonps6054]

I know how you feel. People always tell me things like "oh your ears are fine now don't be so silly" but when they look at younger pictures of me they snicker and call me dumbo. Like wow thanks

[@onionvalley]

Please do ”Things you should not say to people with lisps”

[@mariaangelicavillarraga2334]

olivia friberg what means lisps?

[@onionvalley]

Maria Angelica It’s when you can’t pronounce some letters, usually D, S, T and some more

[@mariaangelicavillarraga2334]

Ah! I never heard It. Thanks to reply me.

[@sararadley7189]

YESSS

[@theviewer6889]

I can get one right now "say photosynthesis" or some other s heavy word.

[@coolchick10xoxo]

A breast reduction is not cosmetic, its medical, the intense scars and risking issues with breastfeeding are not things that are fun to deal with, its something that helps a lot of women tremendously

[@barbarapires3277]

Things not to say to people with anxiety

[@thughandsome4452]

Calm down 😂

[@hailleyw5117]

I'm still waiting for that one! They do cosmetic procedures but not an anxiety disorder... (although I think they have done OCD).

[@JeremyTalksWitU]

“Omg same”

[@ericathesassyqueen8918]

Bárbara Pires omg yes I hate it when people are like oh yeh I have anxiety sometimes too uhhh it’s so annoying

[@nou-ci4tt]

If someone has anxiety, I doubt they'd be happy to be put online in a video for the whole world to see

[@deborahk5433]

as long as they are happy who are we to judge?

[@deborahk5433]

lol figured

[@me5969]

I agree to an extent but it feels like a lie to me. Plus it's the uncanny valley thing. We could probably accept it if it looked normal but it doesn't, thus it's creepy. Like fake tits and them big massive lips look.. Unsettling. People just look strange when they're made out of plastic and are out of proportion, like really round tits that don't move. That's why the entire country hates Essex because a tan (especially fake) just looks weird in a nation with no sun and the highest population of red heads.

[@Violka1987]

Who are we to judge? We are the people who are entitled to our opinions about others. ESPECIALLY when you put yourself out there like that. You will have an opinion about me writing this, therefore making a judgement. WE. ALL. JUDGE. GIRL. You don't have to tell people all your opinions, but you 100% get to have them. If my boss is disgustingly fat and I see her shove cakes and biscuits when she thinks nobody's looking while she also tells us how she's on diet, I get to judge her for her lies and hypocrisy. I even get to judge her for her terrible fashion choices where you see her jiggly belly hanging out and her cankles spilling out of her shoes. Sure, I'll never tell her, but I get to judge her.

[@2oohonest]

But you judge...so your point is?

[@deborahk5433]

Violka1987 that's fair. Their life their body I just commented and that's that .. Have a nice day dear 😊

[@marilia92]

I would never understand why it's okay to fix your teeth but anything else is "too vain".

[@norwestproductions1]

Fixing your teeth is relatively cheap and if not done can, in some cases, cause serious medical issues or pain. None of these procedures are necessary; they are purely aesthetic. However, fixing your teeth has the potential to spare you pain in your adult life. I’ll link some academic papers on the subject later.

[@marilia92]

...yeah that makes sense but you can't deny that a lot of people do it just for aesthetic purposes.

[@kse4707]

Aha, and the psychological pain which most people experience until they make the decision to undergo a cosmetic surgery doesn't count?

[@PHlophe]

Marylia has spoken lol!

[@justing7490]

Depends on what you mean by "fix your teeth" do you mean filling a cavity? That's done to slow degeneration. Not because of vanity. It's also a fact that a properly lined up teeth are more efficient at tearing and consuming food while minimizing the surface area exposed(again preventing degradation). Saline bags inserted under mammories don't help and can hinder breast milk production if preformed incorrectly(don't Google image search that)

[@Calicosylvanian]

This is cool. Please do a chronic illnesses one! Feel free to invite me lol

[@minseo8692]

Imi Anderson please include someone with chronic fatigue syndrome!

[@Calicosylvanian]

Dream catcher Is underrated exactly what I have! And yes I agree

[@SuperBiba1234]

And Crohn’s disease please!

[@icelysis3974]

Imi Anderson+ pls feel free to share some of your experiences in the comments :D

[@Calicosylvanian]

Ice Lysis Yes!

[@blacknyellowblacknyellow9362]

Things not to say to people who have self harmed

[@Will-ql6di]

Zoey Guacamole seconded

[@lizmowrey9866]

Yes please

[@elviralacour7838]

"youre just doing it for attention" "WHY WOULD YOU DOO THAAT??" "thats dumb" "okay edgelord"

[@momcompickmeupimscared8635]

@@elviralacour7838 i was actually doing it for attention :'(. The homeroom teacher told me that it was my fault because i was getting bullied

[@inbalbenbenishty6801]

@@momcompickmeupimscared8635 your homeroom teacher should NOT have said that. And doing it "for attention" is basically telling the world that you need help. It's not like you're faking it. It's wrong to shame people who have self harmed "for attention". But saying that everyone does it for that reason is not true, because there is a variety of reasons. Nobody should just assume why people who self harm do that. ♡

[@amileelynch7254]

Thank you SO much for having someone with a breast reduction on this😭❤️. I can’t tell you how negative and intrusive some people have been about mine and it means a lot to hear about this from other people! What you do in these series is so important on making people aware of and normalizing so many illnesses/conditions/states of being/etc.

[@hipporockamus3294]

Who is that guy with long hair ? Somebody can tell me ? Im obssessed

[@ecetabur9703]

tomás Ramos he has a youtube channel with his boyfriend. the channel is The Green Eyed Guys

[@Andizu1]

He looks like a woman with a beard...

[@ruscoeftw6632]

His name is Stampylongnose

[@jrudblom4428]

Things not to say to people with ADHD/ADD

[@MoliseMolly]

J rudblom they’ve already got one

[@moonbook12]

Molise Molly Larsen can you sand a link? please

[@saarlangeweg5022]

Cool profile picture!! Love greenday ❤️❤️

[@MoliseMolly]

Wops, Sorry, was buzzfeed 😬😬

[@hannahgal143]

Yes!! I get told my disability "isn't real" and just an excuse all the time...

[@lucygrieco3560]

The guy with the longish hair was gorgeous like what

[@AriaAsacura]

you can wear makeup, style your hair, get tattoos and dress in expensive clothes and people (generally) won't pull the 'youre so vain' 'beauty is on the inside' bullcrap but if you get a bit of lip filler or a nose job your appearance is suddenly the only thing people care about

[@hustle6850]

thats because it's a shit tonne of money, it's irreversable. makeup is temporary, so if it looks crap it isn't forever. but some of these look bad, and thats forever so its a bigger deal

[@AriaAsacura]

yer but its still not your business to go makin comments to someone lmao if they got a nose job and you hate it then thats your damage. and like tattoos are permanent too but i dont go telling my mate his tatts are shit bc theyre his and me makin a deal outta it is mad rude. also like folks naturally got bad looking faces and thats forever but im not out making a deal of it.

[@FeeOJLee]

For the makeup thing I can tell you they do. I love makeup . My parents wouldn't let me wear it until I was like 16/17. I always developed earlier than my peers so I got boobs and acne when I was in like the 4th/5th grade and so I wanted makeup to cover up the break outs but as i got older and saw how much fun it was it stopped being so much about the insecurity and became the new and fun world I found with makeup especially now that I can afford things and I honestly believe now that I can wear makeup people make me feel more ugly than I ever felt during puberty. The sneers and condescending 'you look better without' and 'why do you hate yourself' and 'you're paying to ruin your skin' literally makes me want to shrivel up and die. I found this fun way to experiment with something that I hated for so long and now that I'm finding joy it's being attacked because it makes me 'vain' but also 'insecure'

[@AriaAsacura]

Ok ye to be fair people do get super rude about makeup but there is also this big movement towards makeup as a form of self expression, but in some career fields women are punished for not wearing enough makeup. like im not saying people arent super rude bc they really are but there is more of a general acceptance towards 'you wear contour everyday to re-shape your face' and a lot ore hate towards 'you had fat removed from your cheeks to permanently change the shape of your face'

[@hustle6850]

i'm not saying i would go up to them and tell them that, but i couldn't lie to them and say i loved it if i met them.

[@sayan9566]

I was super insecure about my nose so I got a nose job and have never felt better !

[@karolinasmolarczyk949]

I am considering getting one but everyone around me apart from my best friend tell me that this is really vain and stupid but this is actually the only thing that bothers me about my looks and it's not like weight that i can just exercise and change that without surgery. Why do i have to feel unhappy about this one thing if i can save money and change it? Also, were you not scared of the result being not as you imagined?

[@d37gld54]

+smolarchick im 37 l spend my whole life wanting breast but everyone told me it was vain, l got them 2 years ago also got my teeth done and l wish l had did it while l was young and able to show it off, you go do it! its expensive but worth how you feel after

[@cenedictbumberbatch95]

smolarchick i can’t see anything odd with your nose in the profile pic. You look very pretty

[@no1chopperstan]

Saya N good on you! ❤️❤️

[@xyg6543]

Saya N, me too. Had mine done last November and have absolutely no regrets!

[@megangampell1412]

please do things not to say to type one diabetics!!

[@steffany4lyfe]

Megan Gampell yessss! "I heard cinnamon cures that", "so you can't eat sugar at all 😳!", "oh my nan has that", "why do you even need a diabetic alert dog, it's no big deal", "they can cure that now can't they?", "should you be eating that?", "can you inject me with insulin? I wanna get high", "DONT DO DRUGS IN PUBLIC", "it's just an excuse for a break and biscuit", "oh no I couldn't inject myself if I had that" - I could go on for DAYS

[@sophieharding3111]

Omg yes

[@glitzygirlx9084]

"Ew how can you inject yourself"

[@tessedenblack]

Yesssss!!!

[@zoobloo]

yes thats a good one

[@elysienne8475]

Can you please do "Things not to say to people with 'Invisible' disorders"

[@ceciliesrensen7709]

Oh yes, please. It's like people don't beleve you until you are dying in the street. And you are never even trying when you are actually giving your all.

[@MonsieurAshley]

This was great fun to be a part of! :)

[@Hassesbeya]

It was so nice to see u there aswell, I was like hey I recognise that guy, go Ash :D

[@rosegold973]

Things not to say to people with Crohn’s Disease

[@lynnx7187]

Rose Gold yes :)

[@rosegold973]

Lynn94 94 I hope they are able to do it! Do you have Crohn’s? I don’t know anyone with it and I always wish I could talk to someone about it :( lol

[@hailleyw5117]

My friend has Chron's. I am not sure if she has a KZbin account. She always hears stuff like eat this and you will be better. Her trigger foods are peppers and cabbage. She is still trying to find meds that work for her right now

[@lynnx7187]

Rose Gold I do have it

[@harton2759]

What about:looks like the shits hit the fan eh?

[@thatthingyouseeatthecorner5249]

I’m sorry but lip injections and cheek fillers never look good

[@classyundercutelectra4330]

That Thing You See At The Corner Of Your Eye Ikr

[@persephonesalinas5621]

That’s subjective

[@AC-qo8oq]

Good cheek filler, you’ll never know. Lip injections, I agree

[@user-yh8li2tm8g]

then don't get any?

[@satellitestargazer2770]

It looks good in moderation. When you do it too much they look like glossy duck lips

[@nap5142]

things not to say to people that wear wigs/wigs😂 invite me! lol

[@Ohitsaymarie]

KATXNAP 😂😂😂😂😭 now that would be a good one

[@nikkistahr7105]

😂😂😂😂😂😂..so is that your scalp? Oh no so where does your real hair start... Can i touch it? Do you have any real hair? How do you wash it? How do you get it to look so real? 😣😝😩😩😩..reallllllly? Go watch YT and learn to slay a lace wig damit lol😂😂😂😂😂

[@monyagrant617]

Omg yesssss

[@CircusMush]

Wigs/Wigs😂. ???

[@internationalrtg5602]

Why can't people just accept other people's personal choices without being judgemental pricks about it?

[@pinkscy2453]

International RTG because they’re human

[@internationalrtg5602]

Jack sabbath Haha

[@alannahllama]

👏👏👏

[@rossfernandes7728]

International RTG judging people is a normal human thing to do tho

[@antoinette-9379]

Welcome to earth

[@Leowuf]

Whoa a hair transplant didn't know that was a thing I suppose it's a good choice over going bald or having a big bald spot

[@Pluutoh]

Introvert Outside u wont go bald as a girl lol

[@elsabernard5748]

Axel Hansson You actually can! Female balding is a thing, especially if you have thin, unhealthy hair.

[@c.morganfree1970]

Lucy Towey Wow. Your family sounds insufferable. So are mine sometimes.

[@ge569]

you very much can, google androgenetic alopecia + alopecia totalis, androgenetic alopecia runs in my family and i've been loosing hair since puperty and there's nothing you can do against it, it sucks.

[@minksrule2196]

X 69 yes, all the anxiety that runs in my family and maybe some other genetic stuff caused everyone in my family to start losing their hair at around the age of 17 or 18, females included.

[@SelimxBradley]

We're in the age where enormous, allergic bee-sting looking lips are attractive. I still don't understand it

[@shaniasmith9999]

We're All Thieves It only looks like a bee allergy on white people or anyone who gets the injection. On black people it looks natural

[@sarahl3721]

eeerrrmmm....did you watch the video!?!?

[@SelimxBradley]

Shania Smith I'm talking about people who get the injection. Not people who naturally have big lips.

[@alicelovesminhyuk]

Just because it’s not attractive to you doesn’t mean it can’t be attractive to other people.

[@alicelovesminhyuk]

AceOfHearts It’s funny how you probably actually think that’s polite...

[@laurenoreilly7352]

Please do borderline personality disorder xxxx

[@im-at-home]

Lauren Boo x yeees please

[@StephanieStowers_stylist]

Lauren Boo x yes yes yes

[@JanisMollineau]

Yesss omg

[@ryanetaylor1577]

Yes please; there’s such a negative stigma around this in particular

[@siprincess718]

Yes please

[@lucypreece7581]

Things not to say to someone with Dyspraxia

[@ramenali]

i was going to type that!

[@L0lliGing3rPopz]

Little Miss Sunshine whata that?

[@Flyingwithoutmings]

Little Miss Sunshine seems like when I tell people they're like 'don't you mean you've got dyslexia' like, I think I know what I've got mate lmao

[@penelopeviews7335]

Yes please! I have dyspraxia and because of it, I can't ride a bike. People think that's so crazy. Along with the fact that I couldn't tie my own shoes until I was seven.

[@XSNimi]

Little Miss Sunshine my dyslexia just fucked me reading that fml

[@kylewarner2828]

1:43 "aren't are all insecure?" Uh no, we are not

[@itbetay8490]

“Hnnnnnng, not today, darling” 😂😂

[@chloedsouza8589]

"aren't we all insecure?" is the most sad and accurate thing I've ever heard. society is soul destroying :(

[@georgiasoaps]

I personally would never get any cosmetic procedures done, but I like to think I would never (consciously) judge anyone for it. Their body, their choice. And if it makes you love and accept yourself more, power to you. :)

[@meadowrae1491]

I got a breast lift because I was having crazy body dysmorphia about them after losing a lot of weight and breastfeeding for two years. I could feel them moving all the time and I felt like I have to wear super tight sports bras all the time. I'm genderqueer, as well, so I think that had a lot to do with it. I was hoping the lift would make my breasts smaller. It didn't, but I'm still glad I had it done because I'm more comfortable not wearing a bra now. I felt uncomfortable even in my own home before.

[@durpddurke4633]

Do "What Not To Say To People Who Have Pet Snakes/Spiders" *_Pleeaaasssseee_*

[@littlepumpkinseed]

Da Dragon Durp Yess!!

[@sourcherryscones9645]

Maybe ‘exotic’ pets?

[@LadyMiloue]

Omg I can think of sooooo many things! Like ''Ew you have dead mice in your freezer'' well yeah, I do need to feed my snake! or ''Are you afraid it's going to strangle you?'' My snake is not even big enough to kill an adult rat...

[@durpddurke4633]

LadyMiloue Honestly, keeping dead mice in a freezer isn't that different from keeping chicken or wet cat food. The only difference is the fact that the mice are fresh for the sneks

[@samranrexwal6847]

Da Dragon Durp mnnuskay

[@susanzurita2526]

"They're filling that up with flour" OMG😂😂😂

[@moonshi5846]

Things not to say to people with ocd or schizophrenia

[@moonshi5846]

Chili Women oh, thank you for letting me know! :)

[@emilypowell7275]

And an OCD one😊

[@haruno21]

both were done already! check them out

[@moonshi5846]

Emily Powell and Haruno21 thank you for letting me know, guys! :) will definitely watch them

[@TheBowen2011]

Those people spying on you spilt milk in the other room. 😂😂😂😂

[@genkill81]

The majority of cosmetic surgery for "beauty" end up looking horrible especially lips,they make me cringe.

[@genkill81]

Drew yay you get it lol. Good old Lucy says there obviously has to be something terribly wrong with Me, because I find inflated lips ugly. And doesn't seem to understand it's not the person I don't like it's the lips that look like balloons I don't like.

[@maiskjelby899]

It's the persons choice. Why does it matter to you?

[@marianna3253]

James I agree. Most of these people actually make me cringe, I don't know where they found such an ugly bunch lol

[@ocandro]

you only notice the failed ones, a good cosmetic surgery or fillers look like the person was born with the feature, the difference is well... cosmetic. And all these judgmental celebrities who claim to be "natural" simply have reasonable surgeons and dermatologists.

[@nataliaalfonso2662]

ocandro seriously, I was going to say. They sound like those people that say “I do t like girls wearing that much makeup. You look so much better last week without makeup than today with glitter and red lips.” Meanwhile the previous time they were referring Toni was in full foundation highlight contour blush, brows lip liners lipstick lip glosss... They were just in nude tones. Lmao.

[@miriamsulaiman9552]

Why do people care if someone has surgery done??? I have my lips done and planning for a boob and nose job. It's your own body you can do what you please!

[@mistypeaks1303]

Miriam Sulaiman If someone asks.. Just whatever you do.. Don't say it's natural.

[@lemonsmile2470]

People's justification for saying they hate plastic surgery is that it kills people, and I'm sitting here like lots of things kill people shut up.

[@beaco4960]

@@docrakidocraki8067 what about trans people?

[@charlizemontgomery7058]

I felt very bothered when they said people get all touchy because Im a person who also hates being touched espeically when Im walking or riding the bus RANDOM children just feel the need to touch all of my ear peircings. Like I dont know where their hands have been for all I know they could have been touching there....yeah there. But it's also a HUGE invasion of privacy, like half way through their question they're all ready all up there. Like if its my friends and its just quick hug before the next period its perfectly fine but I just dont like it if someone were to come up to any part and just touch it. Theres so many girls at my school who pinch each other's cheeks and adjust and open their bag without permission and it just... bothers me. This girl OMG she (I dont even know her btw) she goes in the front pocket of MY bag and takes out MY things! So I turn and snatch that right out of her hand and went "STOP!" Thanks for listening to my rants sisters!❤❤😍😍

[@plasticreplica]

I had a boob reduction and I am so happy because I finally feel like wholesome

[@fawnajohnson6130]

"Someone who is vain can also be really kind." My mom is 60. She still dyes her greying hair, shaves her legs, plucks her mustache, hides the fact she is missing a tooth, dresses to the nines, and ensures her kids look good as well. She also volunteers frequently, has financially helped friends/family who need to go to drug/alcohol/mental health treatment, (with my dad) adopted a group of 4 kids with FAS just so they could all grow up together, multiple foster kids and got everyone psyciatric care before herself (even though she definitly needed it more that some of us). I like to tease her about her vanity at times, but it has no bearing on her content of character

[@starwonderland14]

I can relate to this so much!! With people always asking "Why did you get surgery? " "you looked good before" "are you gonna get more?" ....like i didnt ask for your opinion. Let me live my life✌💁

[@formlesscorvid5336]

I'm planning on getting breast reductions for medical reasons. Back and spinal troubles. Plus I've been catcalled since 6th grade by adult men.

[@Samuel115s]

i want to get plastic surgery but the idea of surgery scares me and i'm not good with pain. I cringe even when i have to take a blood test or go to the dentist. you guys are VERY brave.

[@emilyelizabeth2454]

The girl with purple hair is gorgeous!!

[@marie-nm9jo]

I get you guys say who are we to judge, but I feel like I’m living in a dystopia. Soon everyone will get surgery and it will become the norm. Instead of embracing our flaws, which we all have, we’re becoming just like everyone else. We keep trying to please society’s standards of men and women that we forget how human we truly are in our natural state. I don’t want to normalize cosmetic surgery

[@ACDBunnie]

Some of us have our own beauty standards that don't match what society says it should be and we get cosmetic surgery to look like our own ideal. I think most people don't get that because most people don't have their own opinions about what beauty is and they just follow what society says. Besides, we don't embrace our flaws every time we wear make up or have a societal standard of beauty. It happens every time a "beautiful" person is chosen over an "ugly" person and I don't think that's going away anytime soon.

[@marie-nm9jo]

Attie Davis wearing makeup is nothing compared to cosmetic surgery. Surgery is serious and permanent. Makeup is not and most people wear it to express their creativity not because they’re insecure. I still think it’s wrong to get cosmetic surgery

[@Daisy-kg4ho]

marie molina Well I think it's wrong for you to judge. If the person is doing it for themselves, and they feel more comfortable in their skin after why does it matter?

[@marie-nm9jo]

No I just don’t want this to be normalized in society where people fall victim to beauty standards. I know it doesn’t affect me but if people keep normalizing this, soon everyone will want to get surgery and we will lose the true meaning of what it’s like to be a human here on this planet. Everyone is so materialistic nowadays and I have a right to dislike that

[@RVNess]

@@marie-nm9jo normalize it?! Yeah sure, like cosmetic surgery was so affordable that anyone would start getting them like it was grocery shopping, of all the things to worry about for fuck's sake...

[@Detritis]

Yes, we're all insecure but not enough to go through anaesthesia that could potentially kill you to change our image

[@aimeefasick2004]

Jealousy doesn't look good on you darling

[@clintonadinkrah]

Low self esteem is a major problem in 21st century society with social media playing a huge part. God help us

[@aliceevans5465]

Things not to say to people with glasses I always get Harry Potter 😂😭

[@Plantpuffbaby]

I actually applaud people who get these surgeries because they have the opportunity to improve themselves, and most times, people feel better about themselves.

[@tigergirl305]

A friend of mine recently got a nose job because the way her nose was structured was causing her breathing problems, so that's another thing to consider

[@bleu_rae]

Best decision I ever made for myself was getting a breast augmentation. The amount of times I’ve had to listen to people who I know spouting shit about how women who have boob jobs are so ‘self obsessed, vain, tacky and plastic looking’. As long as patients are making the decision for themselves just accept their choice and be happy for them!

[@paulac.munoztorres]

Getting cosmetic procedures is in my bucket list and what I couldn’t get would be “ Oh, but you looked well before.” AND? This is our bodies, is in our power to make the changes.

[@letsgethair]

So crazy how I can relate to this....I have done several plastic surgeries myself :D

[@AbsoluteBodyDominanceMatt]

haha Matt your last video is hilarious!

[@brucymr2706]

Man you look so good after your plastic surgeries

[@petekacvinsky679]

ur a cool guy

[@matejkacvinsky5065]

no way you have done 3 plastic surgeries OMG

[@rockstarlookingmen3979]

AGREED!!

[@Safire365]

I'm living for the purple hair! I'm getting a purple wig soon can't wait.

[@ByrdTheWyrd.]

What not to say to people with narcolepsy

[@tamazighthussain2699]

aren't we all insecure? no it depends we have things were not confident about but insecure means you're completely insecure in yourself and don't feel good enough .

[@CharcoalDove]

yay for youth workers who've had cosmetic surgery!

[@creativecookies_2492]

The guy with the long hair has an amazing jawline

[@pandydhillon5739]

The guy with the long hair is BEAUTIFUL.

[@sugas_lollipop4867]

I’m sorry to say but when the girl said “ No one needs airbags because you have two “ it killed me... the way she said it made it funny

[@windmacher]

I see an areola

[@ZombieBytes]

maxim menage i was looking for this comment xD

[@willowtorres8184]

ME TOO

[@nabzz7026]

Where?

[@niamhmcalister7659]

I had corrective ear surgery in primary school because my nickname was 'Dumbo'. 10 years later and I have never regretted it!

[@biolemmashem]

Things not to say to a sexworker or someone who has done sex work? Sorry if this has already been done but I thought it'd be interesting. I met a sex worker for the first time at a party in Melbourne (it's not illegal to work in a brothel) and I felt I made a fool of myself asking stupid questions that I should've thought through first!

[@feyflux]

They already have that video :)

[@bgroyal1714]

“You look so much better now.” or “you look so good.” = Gets offended for low key saying you looked ugly before the surgery. “You looked better before.” = gets offended doesnt say anything at all = gets offended because no one notices the change.

[@bettyasres1603]

Things not to say to someone with anxiety

[@missfrizzpop]

PLEASE do one for people with eczema. Never see anything in the media about it :(

[@johannapipoli8397]

Please do things not to say to people with auditory processing disorder or sensory integration disorder

[@kerkes430]

Johanna Pipoli yes pls

[@demarisoxman4600]

"Someone who's vain can still be really kind." It's really true. Vanity might not be a character trait we strive for, but it doesn't necessarily mean someone is selfish, rude, cruel, or uncaring.

[@2oohonest]

But people that do get this done are insecure, it doesn't necessarily have to be a bad thing but that's exactly what it is.

[@hailstormk9417]

_arekushisu2013 everybody’s insecure at one point or another

[@hellothereinternet]

The problem is... people are constantly feeling the need to change themselves and blaming it on media... but by getting more and more plastic surgery they’re just brushing their insecurities under the rug instead of facing them/accepting them and truly loving themselves - so they’ll never be comfortable because they’re always wanting more 🙄 what makes a person isn’t just how perfect something is... I agree with plastic surgery if it’s to help someone with something that maybe causing problems but lip fillers and bum implants are just flat out insecurities that people are avoiding.... It always catches up with them again anyways and they’ll never be truly happy until they’ve faced the problem 🤷🏻‍♀️

[@civanlfc4358]

Do one on Cholinergic Urticaria please

[@tieiatalks]

Over the years I had a mommy makeover, I do Botox and fillers. I’m almost 45 and it’s maintenance. I get facials and I take really good care of myself. Im open to a facelift when the time comes. None of these comments bother me. As long as I’m happy, who cares what anyone, especially someone rude enough to comment like this, then it’s worth it. Say I’m vain, it’s probably true, but I’m also really kind and I’m very loyal. Don’t judge! I’ve never had anyone say this to me. Good lord.

[@brunesmask2]

I feel like one thing is commenting things people can't help, which is horrible. However, I've never heard of anyone needing a boob job to survive medically, so comparing this to the nasty comments i.e. Hairy Woman get, which is another episode, is stupid, misleading and downright disrespectful! Shame on you, silly BBCthree

[@dianeaishamonday9125]

Kaia i can see a breast reduction being linked to quality of life. After boobs get a certain size, they start to affect spinal health and the ability to sleep at night.

[@biolemmashem]

Did BBC3 actually say that this "things not to say" series was exclusively about people with medical conditions that can't be helped? If so then I agree with you but if not then lighten up and let them be diverse.

[@brunesmask2]

SuperWhoLocked Browncoat Yup, I had to stop myself after the intro, then i watched further and saw the breast reduction thing. I agree with you completely, then again, that's medical - not cosmetic. She doesn't belong with the rest of these vain people.

[@karenleepickett]

I know someone who had breast reduction and it saved her life! She had breast cancer that was detected prior to the surgery. She was able to have both taken care of at the same time thankfully.

[@AyeofBeauty]

Ashley!

[@elliesdolls3573]

you look the best when you feel happy and if that means changing how you look then that’s ok because at the end of the day it only matters if you are happy with yourself 😊😊😊😊

[@ona907]

It’s fine but everything in moderation

[@ameliaalice.e]

Well done for having enough money to make yourself more beautiful, shame the majority of people can’t do that

[@jackie-pq8xy]

That man with the long brown hair is beautiful

[@emmanuelaadebisi5743]

Yesss

[@monyagrant617]

Does anyone have the name of the black girl with the purple hair? She’s so beautiful 😩

[@dennykiely6415]

What a waste of money

[@stuckfart]

When I get older, I want to get rid of my cleft chin. It makes me really insecure and I'll be happier once I get it done

[@maxsloan5828]

ooo the guy from The green eyed guys ! he’s nice

[@jaadaavila7305]

lady with the purple hair is so gorg

[@gihankanishka]

If you want to do it just do it Its your body your choice.

[@rfldss89]

To the girl asking why she shouldn't do plastic surgery: maybe you should reconsider the surgeries you've gone through our are thinking of undergoing since you clearly don't seem aware of the risks that surgery entails. Anaesthesiologists literally paralyse you, put you to sleep, remove all sense of poison and give you retrograde amnesia not without reason, and even Anaesthesia itself can be very dangerous. There's a reason why anaesthesiologists go through such thorough studies and are paid so much, even compared to other doctors.

[@butterflygirl141]

Well if it's that obvious...you probably didn't have a great plastic surgeon or you've overdone it.

[@elsarankin7404]

"If there's someone out there who isn't insecure about something, and is completely 100% happy please tell me, I'd like to meet them" oo! oo! Me!

[@luxtenebri3559]

is the guy with the blue eyes from Super Deluxe? lol

[@nataIiaaa]

This is such an amazing series that has really opened my eyes! Please could you do things not to say to someone with an eating disorder x

[@fuzzwuzz6541]

Things not to say to a human being!

[@petermillar5657]

fuzz Wuzz hello

[@animeandnaruto1cb]

My mom just had a boob job and a liposuction and I feel a bit akward about it. Like if I say she was always beautiful is kind of like questioning why she did this procedure in the first place. But if I compliment her is like reinforcing that she looks better with big boobs and skinnier and that she looks better than she did before. Personally I feel like she looked fine before and I dont understand it but I hope it makes her happy and that she feels beautiful now and doesnt feel like she needs more surgery. But honestly makes me feel akward and I just dont say anything to her about it. And sometimes she brings it up like that her boobs hurt cause she is still healing and I just kind of don't say anything. Honestly she looks proud of her surgery, all smiles. but I will rather she not have told me.

[@ham7464]

Wasn’t the girl with black hair on your face or mine

[@user-hs5et3cm5g]

I was thinking this!!!! I went back and checked and they both said they're gay and have the same name (Sasha), so I'm sure it's the same girl! kzbin.info/www/bejne/a6fdp4d_hKilbK8

[@quaketh6823]

Probably, ive been watching it so now this is in my reccomendations

[@TheSassa94]

Yes indeed!!

[@yipi9162]

same tattoos too

[@lmbarak]

Some people have cosmetic surgeries to correct physical issues, such as a deviated septum (nose) or back pain (breast reduction). Some people want to look different. As long as they are happy and healthy that's what it's all about.

[@disasterpiece1013]

Things not to say to people with Cerebral Hypoxia

[@fleek6319]

"yeah I also want to look good on the outside? That's not a crime?" Nailed it

[@Love.Protagonist]

Expected nicki minaj to be here

[@CloverRose]

I have 52 piercings (none below my neck) and 8 tattoos and I gets so many people tell me "you look better without them". It's my body and my rules. I'll decorate it however I want. I had nose surgery a few years ago. It was medically classed as cosmetic surgery because they had to change the shape of my nose. I had a deviated septum and a fracture on the side of my nose from breaking it about 8 years prior to getting surgery.

[@3uphoriaaaaa]

Things not to say to South Asians

[@4minutehyunajeonjjnhgykshn788]

TheMakeupLuver15 um that’s been there anyway

[@3uphoriaaaaa]

Pretty sure it hasn't...