Things to avoid if You must develop Yourself

[@solomonjohn1481]

Things to avoid 1. 3:46 Friendship that is not taking you anywhere 2. 4:01 church politics 3. 5:05 always weigh whatever men are doing with the word of God 4. 6:07 dont carry family matters on your head 5. 8:27 dont carry tribal matters on your head 6. 9:24 dont carey doctinal matter on your head 7. 11:18 dont destroy the body of Christ. Thank you Dr. Charles Apoki.

[@margaretnjoka5169]

Amen I totally agree don't fight for family ptoperties

[@TheLegend-uq1gz]

I like your points. To buttress your point, one wise person stated: Before you break your back for others, first & foremost, find out who will push you when you are in the wheelchair. Don’t kill yourself for people who don’t care about you.

[@CastleHassall]

Very good point.. i was in a relationship with a woman who told me she loved me... but when we were watching a film the guy in the film was injured and had to be looked after by his wife for the rest of his life my girlfriend asked me if i would look after her for the rest of her life if she was not able to move and i felt and said "yes of course! ..i love you" then i thought, hey i had better ask her the same question.. but when i asked her if she would look after me if i could not move she said no i should have thrown her out of my house immediately.. but i stupidly convinced myself it did not matter but later in our relationship she brutally did some terrible things that i still am traumatised by if someone tells you they would not make sure you are ok then please please please folks protect yourself and get away from them immediately no matter how nice it is to be with them they will not think twice about breaking you but

[@blessingpereye1258]

Life will ask you questions.... Be prepared!

[@4formation4mike-mike4matic]

the questioning is getting out of hand..lol..i prepared 4 it..but life is asking me too much question..life must be a police officer..

[@MrTrebor_]

I didn't prepare for life's questioning. It asked, I became dumb and because I couldn't answer her, appropriately, she knocked me hard. I'm a man who has tasted my own version of Biblical Job's misery; No I haven't lost anyone in my family to death but I lost every wealth I had. Everything burned to the ground. At this moment, whoever reads this, please pray to me for God's mercy and divine encounter meet someone that could take me out of this misery.

[@reelfarm]

I wonder why this video has not reached 100k views. This is what people pay millions to discover. God bless you sir.

[@drcharlesapoki]

Thanks so much please help share with others.

[@catherineumeike5830]

Because no be their yeye comedy skit

[@KeturaYisrael]

WOW! The journey of Great men has never been easy. Today I came to this channel not by chance, but destiny. May the Most High continue to bless you Super Abundantly.

[@festuswilliam9815]

@@KeturaYisraelexactly

[@CastleHassall]

it's a lot of views compared to some channels! ... Doctor Apoki i hope you don't mind me saying but i do a channel called "Potential Techniques" to try to help people get through crisis and to beat depression and to heal trauma and most of the videos getn one view every month.. but i keep doing them in case i can help one person get through a day that is close to beating them

[@Mavi_odes]

After we lost our Dad in 2015, I was a teenager then and the fifth born, we are six in numbers. our most elder brother who was suppose to manage the legacy and assist us, he failed and squandered every of our late dad’s properties including our dads car and a piece of land. He sold that land while my mum was still on her mourning attires. He mismanaged the fuel station and borrowed money with our house. Then, I was so angry and always want to fight him. One day, he cursed me while we where quarreling as usual and he said I will go to prison some day, and it actually happened I was imprisoned in one neighboring Africa country. I did one year, I came back home And returned to the same country the next year, after one month there, I bought a very big land very close to my late dad’s land that was sold by my eldest brother, and also mould a lot and lots of bricks to start my building. I even fenced the land. So, I really get your point Sir and I appreciate your kind. I love your speech and you make me laugh a lot especially when you are saying, I remain your friend Dr Charles Apoki. 😊😊😊😊😊😊❤

[@drcharlesapoki]

Great testimony.

[@enobongjackson2484]

Thank you Dr. I agree with you on carrying family problems on one's head. I've learnt my lesson the hard way. After all the sacrifices, some are really ingrates, who didn't seem to appreciate anything I did for them. I focus now on developing myself.

[@godsonnsofor1554]

How i i wish sumone told Me all this in my university days government really meed to include talks like this in our school curriculum . Nice one daddy u already have a staunch fan in me 💯

[@namwandimarkus8857]

I am a fan of Dr. APOKI. He spits wisdom. Much love from Namibia 🙏. Keep up the good content Dr.

[@chinaecheremezenma8720]

Thank you so much Dr. Charles Apoki, my mum introduced me to your channel. I have learnt it's wise to; ❤️‍🔥REFLECT more and DEVELOP myself, build my finances, my family, my mind and my capacity, because it's myself I would give a report of. ❤️‍🔥Also to focus on Christ, the Author and Finisher of our Faith. ❤️‍🔥Not to carry family, tribal and denominational/interdenominational matters on my head. I am super grateful sir😊

[@solomonjohn1481]

2:44 i don't stop i must finish anything i start -Dr Charles Apoki

[@doinglifewithkingwoman]

Be at peace with all men. This is my personal mantra

[@charlesotim2522]

Thank you for addressing these difficult and thorny African family issues. I completely agree with you.

[@DrPwol]

Any time I hear you, you talked like a father to me. You words come from a heart of love and a desire to see your listeners succeed and do well in life. Thank you sir.

[@ranjusranjus143]

1. Women 2. Women 3. Women Do your hustle, succeed, and women will follow you

[@Xenlacasa45]

Your my favorite channel for life advice now god bless you sir

[@sandrawithoutborders5631]

That’s is loaded with wisdom. I have been binge watching since I came across your channel this week.

[@emmihunters1803]

You’re always on points my father. Thank you always for the truth sir.

[@brightdominica1923]

You are a blessing to mankind

[@XQRobertz]

May Almighty Father in Heaven please kindly bless you Dr Apoki, You're wisdom is real top notch!! thanks a lot ❤

[@dorcas3966]

Am so blessed to listen to wisdom from your. Thanks Dr Charles

[@LillisM]

Thank you for sharing such profound wisdom, Sir. I didn't come across your channel through any recommendation but rather stumbled upon (or perhaps it was divine orchestration! ) Every point you made resonates deeply and touches a raw nerve within me. All the way from South Africa!!!🇿🇦

[@relaxingt1728]

Migwo sir. Thank you for always impacting my life.

[@drcharlesapoki]

Vrendo.

[@CoachCollo]

yes you are my friend a dad figure I never had man am learning alooooot from you. thanks

[@stephenkaloi5139]

Dr Apoki you are a blessing and God send in my season. I appreciate your speeches on this platform. Im becoming!!!

[@drcharlesapoki]

You are so welcome

[@namwandimarkus8857]

I am a fan of Dr Apoki. He spits wisdom. Keep up the good content Dr 🙏 . Much love from Namibia ❤

[@gentlegiant3683]

Dr. Apoki,this raw wisdom.Thank you very much sir.

[@yh6896]

I must thank you for your views on religion. ❤ from Canada

[@SenaJabulani-rr9fq]

The bottom line is don't try to impress others but yourself

[@HominisLupis]

I love you Dr. Charles, from India

[@gregorycanady2530]

Somehow, the words of this man speak to me ..................Religion balanced with common sense..........nothing demanded of me.

[@Anonymous121]

Beautiful message Mr dr Apoki my friend bless you and your family brother we love you over here in California ❤❤❤

[@blessingchukwu3967]

God bless you Sir.

[@okoteteprudence5970]

Good advice...

[@johnfamous6316]

100 years goes faster than I thought. I was under my granny at igbogbo ikorodu in 1984. Wasiu Ayinde K1 would performed at a night club named club 24 right across from Pa Awolowo UPN campaign Town Hall.

[@t.kayoung5304]

Thank You Dr. Charles Apoki .... Following from Cameroon

[@soglobalresources753]

Thank you sir You actually said everything right😊

[@dianakumwenda7976]

Powerful video.

[@timileyinagbaje4022]

Thank you sir

[@okhuosuyiosazee5556]

Powerful message ❤

[@amjentertainment1842]

MY adopted mentor,you videos are my morning tonic.Good message from a good man.thank u sir.. Chief Christopher Geoman

[@KeturaYisrael]

Dr Charles Apoki just came to your channel and subscribed. You're talking to me. Thank you!

[@graceasantewaatwumasi]

This is wisdom! Thank you for sharing Sir

[@nourishbmercy2148]

I loveeeeeeee listening to you. Thank you sir. I will love to meet you in person some day

[@drcharlesapoki]

Amen

[@anthonyomoko6433]

Grace and Peace to you, Dr. Akpoki! ✨️🙏 💛 Greetings from Delta State ❤🎉

[@uyordestiny8075]

Rational advice to us all. God bless you more sir 🙏. Best regards from Nkem Collections.

[@edwardaburuayi3296]

Wow. Dr. Charles is an asset. Keep it up Sir

[@VoliqueServices]

Life will ask me lots of questions. I will focus on developing myself first. Don't struggle property with siblings. Make it and buy property.

[@demelvah7236]

You are a blessing sir Keep teaching

[@gborowme]

Wise man

[@gborowme]

Good advice

[@gilbertwarui593]

Thank you Dr,for those great words⁹

[@drcharlesapoki]

You are very welcome

[@chisaraprisca-eo6bd]

I'm blessed to share in your words of wisdom sir.

[@drcharlesapoki]

I appreciate that

[@Marvin_Shandy]

Your guidance always hit home keep up the good work.

[@obinnanwakanma2059]

Thank you Dr Charles for being a blessing.

[@drcharlesapoki]

You are very welcome

[@africasvanguard]

Thank you Doc🔥🔥🔥

[@gayorwisdom75]

God bless you sir 🙏🏾❤️

[@byaikubofrancis1452]

Thank you very much papa for the advice am from Uganda

[@obieneonemi1980]

God bless u sir

[@sabi_doctor]

Brilliant sir

[@CJILMinistriesprotruth]

Wonderful and much needed counseling.

[@oriyomiomowale6572]

Baba, well done

[@CJILMinistriesprotruth]

Words etched in gold.

[@meneedwin8460]

I love you sir Charles Apoki ❤

[@sylvanascott1166]

💯Percent correct

[@Mr.Oct___]

Your words are wise & a boon. -Thank u.

[@lucienasone5751]

Wise man, you talk all the time but every phrase that comes out of your mouth is super important. We thank God for your wisdom and for the passion you have to share with others.

[@drcharlesapoki]

I appreciate that

[@felixa6997]

Very wise words sir

[@sylvesteruwadiae8825]

Nice one!

[@eghobrown]

thank sir

[@drcharlesapoki]

Welcome

[@userhome000]

Golden

[@ghostflxxer9171]

All Facts. Thank you for sharing your Wisdom.

[@gladunegbu4021]

So true my Papa

[@Beacons-of-Light-JustBeIT]

Great points. No need to fear GOD. God is in You. So Why Be Afraid of You Who Were Created in The Image of GOD.

[@drcharlesapoki]

Reverential fear.

[@GregoryValentineAnimations]

Very good.

[@chidij20]

Thank you 🙏🏽

[@Mathefusions18]

Thanks alot sir....but sir, how can one develop himself or her self ? Can you please elaborate a little more on it?

[@chantkressmyfavouriterockstar]

thank you

[@drcharlesapoki]

You're welcome

[@ngoziuche5159]

Thank U sir 🙏🙏

[@bryandutches2282]

I agree 💯

[@jabulanisena6288]

That's my man

[@FirstTen-w8q]

My bruhda!!

[@jerekclothing_Worldwide]

I love you sir ❤

[@virtualcreativecollaborations]

♥️ Beautiful Blessings

[@godsroseinbloomh3246]

Dr. Please tell me why and when you stopped practicing medicine?

[@drcharlesapoki]

I stopped in the year 2020. I had made up my mind in 1983 that I would not practice medicine beyond the age of 40, because I wanted to be a business man. I felt that for me to become a professor of medicine I won't be able to acqualise my visions for myself and my family.

[@godsroseinbloomh3246]

@DrCharlesApoki Thank you for your answer to my queries. I appreciate your transparency and willingness to share that personal information. I'm enjoying your videos and your titles are eye-catching. God bless. Keep up the good work. Again, thank you very much.

[@nazywamsie2304]

🙏🏻

[@mcdion6820]

Llive your life like you are alone in this world. No one dies for the other or will want to die because you are dead. You are on your own.

[@gmanjordan4154]

Dr. Charles, you tend to philosophically contradict yourself from other videos! 😂😂😂

[@drcharlesapoki]

@gmanjordan4154. Truths are parallel. God is love but God will people into hell. You must learn to compartmentalize truths. It takes intellectual maturity to do that.😂😂😂😂😂

[@vieopulente7268]

YOU ARE YOUR MAJOR PROJECT! YOU ARE YOUR MAJOR PROBLEM! YOU ARE YOUR MAJOR ASSET! -Dr. Apoki🎯

[@numberone4326]

You lied when you said that Jesus broke the scriptures. Let God be true, but every man, a liar. Do whatever you want, but please don't misinterpret scriptures to justify your ways. Jesus did not break the scriptures but fulfilled them. Regarding the issue of washing of hands before eating, that is a tradition of the Jews and not an ordinance given by God. Regarding the woman caught in adultery, those who wanted to stone the woman to death wanted to fulfil scriptures, no doubt, but by showing her mercy, Jesus showed love. And scriptures says all the laws are summed up in love. God is love. Again, regarding the keeping of the Sabbath, the Jews would readily rescue a donkey that fell into a ditch on a Sabbath day but frowned at Jesus for healing the sick on a Sabbath day. Between a donkey and a human being, which is more valuable to God? It is human, of course. But the Jews considered healing the sick a violation of the Sabbath but didn't think so about helping a beast of burden from a ditch. If at all Jesus violated anything, it is human traditions. But not God's ordinances or scriptures.

[@jmmanuelseale823]

My name my friend is not Jesus...it was never Jesus..that was the name of a slave ship ..and some white god..my name is jmmanuel(Manuel).in China it was issa..in India yuz assaf....there is something I would like you to share with your listeners..speak on meditation...please..most are so caught up in doing and having...but only a few in a state of being...which in fact is the state that both of these other states should emerge from ...I enjoy listening to you and find only one thing that is concerning..you are too focused on preparing for death..2000 years ago....all I ever spoke on was eternal life and that is immortality..I'm back in a body ..last one for ever.. indefinitely.. every day is that ..ever lasting..one day I will meet you before you leave that body and revitalize it and you will change your mind on death..peace always be with you my friend... jmmanuel..2024 feb

[@jeangray6863]

You're experiencing late midlife crisis. You're in mourning because you're getting older

[@ighorashekeh7465]

❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@chituruoji8939]

God bless you sir.

[@ifeanyiamah1711]

Thank you Sir

[@uzodikepaulinuschukwudi3696]

God bless you Sir 🙏

[@timileyinafolabi2842]

Thanks sir 🙏

[@drcharlesapoki]

Most welcome