THINGS WOMEN MUST NEVER DO FOR THE MAN THEY LOVE

[@mimo4856]

Me and my mum had a convo about prayer whilst married. She said it's hard for a woman to do her prayers when married. It confused initially but then I understood. She married a man who does not pray. So she would please him (iykyk) and miss her prayers, especially fajr prayers. Marry a man who prays because it should be more likely that you don't miss yours either. Do not compromise your Deen!

[@Sarafara7]

This could not be further from the truth and is honestly such a sexist comment. It is not hard for a woman to do her prayers. My mom married my dad when he never prayed and he began to grow closer to prayer overtime, eventually praying everything on time. My friend married a man who does not pray and started to pray after marriage. Another friend, same thing. Not everyone is on the same level of deen. We all flactuate. It’s okay to marry a man who struggles with prayer as long as you see that he tries. You are most likely not “perfect” either. Someone might deem you unfit for marriage. 🤷🏻‍♀️ I hope no one takes this comment seriously, so bad 🤦🏻‍♀️

[@mimo4856]

@@Sarafara7 everyone's situation is different. I'm not saying you should not marry a man who struggles with prayer but be conscious that if his life does not revolve around it, it can make your life harder to do acts of worship. Depends how submissive you really are and if your willing to compromise your Deen to satisfy your husband to please him instead.

[@Sarafara7]

@@mimo4856 If a woman is “submissive” to her husband in all ways were she forgoes her own identity, then she has major issues regarding her self worth. No human should ever submit to any person in such ways. Allah is always first, the husband doesn’t even compare. So, if a woman is not praying to “please her husband,” it’s her personal problem. To be affected by another’s lack of worship only reflects on the person, be it man or woman. I’m just saying your comment makes it sound like women are weak and will just change their relationship to Allah to “please their man” 🤔 this is false.

[@ZM-et7zt]

​@@Sarafara7I've seen it happen many times

[@Sarafara7]

@@ZM-et7zt then these women are not being raised right, unfortunately. This is not the Islamic way at all.

[@haesa4863]

I am single and these series about marriage, love, red flags, men and women is amazing. I am learning a lot. Thanks sis, I hope u continue doing this

[@naturallymelanated2508]

Salaam sister, I stopped praying because of a man, and now I'm trying to get back on track. I realized I had forgotten everything I had learned, so now I'm doing my best to do my 5 prayers and to learn how to pray again. I also asked for forgiveness. I know now that if I ask and stick with Allah, all will be answered and given Alhamdulilah

[@NafisasPearlz]

Absolutely. Keep your faith in Him strong, you can’t do without Allah

[@modouceesay3652]

Are you still with same man?

[@naturallymelanated2508]

@@modouceesay3652 no

[@naturallymelanated2508]

@@modouceesay3652 no

[@beachboy_boobybuilder]

Women never take responsibility for their own bad decisions. They always have to blame a man. She was the one who chose that man. She chose badly. She needs to take responsibility for her bad decisions.

[@cookingwithshanni]

Im not a Muslim sister but for sure your teachings are what to go by.

[@NafisasPearlz]

Thank you my dear. I’m great full for your support

[@noneofyourbuizness]

​@mariambannaga9026indeed ❤❤❤

[@narjisel8430]

Welcome sister ❤️

[@christianprints316]

Same here! I'm a Christian but her video was the bomb - I wish all women could watch it and take her points into account. It is THAT good 👍

[@christianprints316]

@mariambannaga9026 Amen to that!

[@kay8193]

SIS IS DROPPING GEMS, FOR FREE, For Freeeee! Dats IT 💁‍♀️ Literally left medical school for a stupid husband who left me two days before I was due for a C-section. Didn't even show up for the birth of our child. Don't give up your dreams sis! Listen to this sister !

[@mariamjacobs2721]

Asalaam Aleikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh. Please do not despair, there is always a light under the tunnel. Fainamal Usri Yusra Wainamaal usri yusra. Sweetheart you can can fulfill your dream by going back to Med school In Shaa Allah. Allah will ease your burden! In Shaa Allah!

[@datingandlifeadvicechannel7534]

Good advise some men are never satisfied and should be alone

[@InshasChoice]

*Some people should come with this warning above their head:* If you fall for me I'm gonna tear you apart. Valuable advice Nafisa! I think you should never dim your light; be yourself, set boundaries and value yourself. May Allah send us likeminded people!

[@mariamjacobs2721]

Amiin Amiin Amiin Thuma Amiin Yarab!

[@matixx00]

don't nullify yourself to fit someone else's standard or ideal type.. alhamdulillah Allah swt has made you unique why would you want to change that... 💕

[@habibahas13]

Help him grow up to who YOU are

[@sarhaaaaa]

This is gold. I've been with someone who discarded me when i placed boundaries to protect my mental health as he was all about "staying with his female friends" , knowing it was messing with my head , AFTER CATERING THE SAME FEMALES FOR 7 MONTHS , providing help with studies , making them food , being there , still when i asked for exclusivity AFTER TRYING TO ACCEPT IT (I couldn't) , and boom , left to rot with "you are manipulative , fabricating , toxic and controlling"

[@NafisasPearlz]

I’m so sorry to hear that. I hope you are in a better place now ❤

[@samia6888]

May Allah give you better than that person. You deserve so much better. I know exactly how that feels.

[@InshasChoice]

I'm so grateful that you are physically away from this being. Count your blessings. I'm sorry he treated you that way ❤

[@jamila114ever]

Hope your better definitely deserve more. Honestly It’s really hard to deal with someone who has female friends. It’s so hard to accept sharing his attention with other females who aren’t his family.

[@alhassanfirrdous7292]

Words are very powerful, don't say he "discarded you", say he run away or "he lost you"

[@JamesNyavotso-th8ny]

Some men are selfish and self centred because they think everything is about them, and they will manipulate woman to do things for them not minding the woman 's happiness as long as he e is happy himself. You are right dear about everything you have said ❤️

[@shx1906]

The one about sacrificing your dreams is so relatable! I almost married a guy a couple months ago, we were very compatible but I want to go abroad to teach and raise kids in a Muslim land, and he wanted to stay here (UK), i actually was open to compromising on this but ALHAMDULILAH he did not let me! And I’m so happy he didn’t because I wouldn’t have been completely happy. Thank you sister for your videos❤️

[@yoursnatchedwig2856]

Did yall left eachother

[@AishaAdelopo]

MashAllah

[@modouceesay3652]

Are you living with him?

[@yoursnatchedwig2856]

@@modouceesay3652 ofcourse she is not

[@modouceesay3652]

@@yoursnatchedwig2856 hi w did you know?

[@fowziaabdi2107]

A lady we met at a restaurant asked me what gym I go, she didn’t know me so I asked why and she told me her husband is telling her to loose weight and she feels low and doesn’t trust her body when the light is on and I felt bad for her. “DO NOT STARVE YOURSELF FOR A MAN” very true

[@MaryamAli-vd1xv]

Allah comes first. Allah u Akbar

[@NafisasPearlz]

Absolutely

[@freedom2112]

I dropped out off Medical University after 7 years of studying just 3 months before my final exams. I had big problems with my father regarding my deen and at that time I thought marriage is my only way out. So, I’ve been in marriage 10 years now with three children and I’m starving to come back to education, but my husband does not let me do that because the courses are all gender mixed. I’m starting to develop a deep sense of incompleteness and unhappiness. As he doesn’t seem to want to even look in this direction. I’m lost.

[@Oluwafunmmilola]

Wow. You're so full of wisdom sister. God bless you for spaeaking the truth. I am a Christian, i was having a conversation with a manupulative person sometime ago, he told me he preferred Muslim ladies because their religion taught them to please their men to their detriment and i told him thats a big lie because i know a lot of muslim and hijab sisters who aren't subservient to their husbands. Submissiveness doesn't mean women should loose themselves. I have learnt never to place any human above God. I do not have to please a man and displease God.

[@MadinaAhmed90]

The way I smile when you post 😊 it’s like yesss another pearl from our dear sis Nafisa ❤

[@NafisasPearlz]

Thank you dear ❤

[@pineappleoreo5349]

Guys that like and comment before watching the video, please gather here for a small meeting😂😂😂 Thanks sis Nafisa for these gems, may Allah bless you in the most unbelievable ways

[@mariaager1924]

I’m not Muslim but tons of wisdom!

[@GiannaMarie212]

I love your point about letting go of the guy whose ideal physicality of a woman isn’t who we are. A guy who I had talked to for awhile loved blue eyes on women, I even noticed he followed pages of babies with blue eyes on Instagram-so he was really into it. Recently I’ve given up hope on him and it’s actually been a relief. Now I can be open to a man who values who I am physically. Let this man find the blue eyed woman of his dreams! I’ll be ready for someone who loves and values my brown eyes even more than I do.

[@henashaikh3863]

Insha Allah, he'll value you for who you are. We all do eventually get old and even end up with medical issues. Also, let's not forget what pregnancy does to a woman's body.

[@GiannaMarie212]

@@henashaikh3863 Yes, surely the better parts of love are much more than purely physical. Thank you for the words of encouragement 🙏.

[@henashaikh3863]

@@GiannaMarie212 Hope you well in your journey of a blessed life and a succesful hereafter

[@BQ900]

Wow! My friends have it worse than I thought. Their husbands come home drunk. My husband is Muslim and he doesn’t drink alcohol. He’s always encouraged me to finish my degree and work if I want. On the other hand, he gets tired of listening to English and refuses to eat American food. 🤷🏻‍♀️❤️🇺🇸🇸🇦

[@BQ900]

@@SultanaBananaturkey and dressing, pie. I don’t mind. I got his mothers recipes and cook.

[@BQ900]

@@SultanaBananaI had to learn enough Arabic to get the recipes from his mom then translate into US measurements. We are not metric. Was difficult but had to be done! Americans don’t live on fries and hotdogs just like other ppl don’t live in rice and kebabs. US has fish, chicken, beef, salads, rice.

[@AllahsServant12]

Love love love these series! Please keep them coming! May Allah bless your work ❤

[@afrominded]

I just began this video but may Allah SWT bless you sister! These are things that all women need to hear and remember Machallah 🙂

[@chosen_333]

Stop playing with Nafisa!!!! I Love everything about everything you said, and at the end you most definitely dropped the mic, Period!!! Lol. Love you sis

[@Rajaas_Reading_Corner]

You give beautiful strong independant woman vibes. In the most halal way possible. I love it! Love your determination and strength. May Allah swt keep you safe and encourage you to make contributing content like this always!

[@SherifaNakalema]

I love your passion. Thank you, sister!

[@NafisasPearlz]

You are welcome

[@05_joyah.17]

Nafisa wins prettiest eyes on youtube award!

[@zuhuraabdi8989]

Motherhood has made my gal come with a bagger. MashaAllah much love habibty

[@mariamagibba-p6q]

Sister u are saying good things,I love your advice

[@larosenoirek2197]

4.2K views!!!! Common ladies you come on in here for golden advice but cannot push the like button???? Thank you for your advice love!

[@light3940]

MashaAllah sister great advice. Just one thing I’d like to add…it’s ok to sometimes CHANGE your dreams. Sometimes this happens naturally as we go through different life experiences. It doesn’t mean that we have “given up” necessarily…just that our dream has evolved or changed ❤

[@Vide_Shah]

Some people go into this airhead moment as I call it. where the mind starts racing about the future of being with a person they’ve just met or recently got into a relationship with this person. So they put all the might and power in making that airhead moment a reality. People are usually on their best behaviour when you first meet them. So looking at someone’s personality and looks is just scratching the surface. Looking deeper than the surface of the skin is important. Analysing where they want to be in life and what roles each of you would have in the relationship is more important. However some people don’t like to ask questions just in case it all falls apart or upset the other person’s feelings which could compromise the relationship overall. These individuals have low self esteem and lack confidence around relationships. You’re doing a great job with helping people around these sensitive issues.

[@tatienono]

I'm not a muslim. I hope you get even more visibility because this is beauty. You were probably born with it and I thank you for sharing it with the world through this kind of content. Much blessings to you, may God protect you always my Sister. 🤍

[@modouceesay3652]

Try search more about Islam

[@anujarahim8533]

Ma sha Allah Tabaarakkallah ❤ that was amazing, Alhamdulillah.. you said everything I wanted to tell my sisters.. most of the things I had experienced in my marital life..😢 jazaki Allahu khairan katheerah habibti 😊❤

[@aishalukindu7189]

Masha Allah Tabaarakkallah❤

[@TheAccountingAlchemist]

I'm always exited when a notification comes from KZbin and it's your channel. May Allah bless you and your family

[@NafisasPearlz]

Asalamdulilah for your support

[@Freedom_for_Palestina]

امين يا الله

[@Sandra_Q]

I wish I could put this video on a billboard.. Best advice!! 🖤

[@hajarichinti2301]

this sister is amazing in giving advises

[@martinaukoh2318]

Thank you so much..........I'm on silent mood with this dude.....no time to explain anything......

[@n.n9035]

Salam alaykum all, i was blind and didnt see red flags from the beginning.. im almost married now 9 yrs and having my 5th child, stuck overseas,no family, pretty much living at the mans mercy, Plz sisters beware of narcissistic traits that i never knew about. I plan to one day move on..get myself educated and just settle and take care of my children in a non toxic household even though were stuck in this country because he wont allow them to travel by law anyway

[@hafsaz_]

In which country are you living

[@umiix]

How can u tell if someone is narcissistic before getting married to them? Like what are some signs too look for?

[@n.n9035]

@@hafsaz_ Lebanon

[@n.n9035]

@umiix well now looking back sister, I had alot of red flags which I chose to ignore!! I was very young and naive and was told by many that u need to marry young, and that rushed me into things On the day of the k.k the sheikh told my wali that this man was married 2 times before me,which we had no knowledge of Another sign, he rushed into the marriage, after k.k he pressured me into consumating the marriage before leaving the house, he wanted kids straight away, he wasn't shy to tell me that he wanted a 2nd wife from our engagement, yes these may sound innocent to you all, but now after being with him for so long , I see that he is a man that knew what he wanted from the start and he played his game well A narcissistic person will make the spouses life revolve around them, that is my life now, I work for his business, of course work in the home and take care of my children which is good, but he will tell me how I am treated like a queen, but Really I have no freedom, I cannot even get him to take me to a store to get clothing, Another thing narcissistic people do is stone wall. My husband has done this form the beginning! I never understood this until I googled it! Google what stone walling is, if I ask him a question he will not answer it, I have to repeat maybe 5 times and if I'm lucky he will answer He tells me it's not my business where he comes and goes. Because he is the man. I Really do think this man has suffered from negligence and abuse as a child, but either way, his emotion and past physical violence towards me , just makes me want out. I want to speak to a sheikh to give me khula maybe after I give birth and he will have to put me in a house because I have no family here

[@n.n9035]

He makes his children feel like he should be treated like a king,, alot of narcissistic people will make false promises, hes always doing that. It gives u hope things will b better so u stay longer. Also I wanted to wear niqab one day and take my time with it, but then 1 day xame and he said if you show up to the house without wearing it you will have problems, So do not let any man make you feel intimidated!! Marriage should be loving, should bring the better person out in you, not make u worry,scared,upset... I wish I had someone to warn me about these types of men before .. He will make you feel as if you cannot find a man after him, they put your self worth down. When you argue, they will say anything to you like an enemy You should not feel like an enemy to your husband especially when all you do is be good to them So at the end of the day, there were not much signs BEFORE marriage because they are soooo good at acting!! He was sooo quite at my mother's house!! He made himself seem sweet ,, plz get to know the groom before kteb ktab ,, see how they are with the women in their family!! He upset his mother once and she said if he is like that with me how will he b with his wife?? Anyways when I wanted to leave he didn't allowed it.. he also made me feel threatened that no sheikh will help me because my problems arnt big enough so wish me luck 😪

[@isatukoroma2483]

Thanks sis is really in order ❤❤❤❤

[@zulaykhaibrahim8859]

Thank you for sharing the hard facts may Allah guide you 🙏

[@ΘΗΡΕΣΊΑΘΕΟΛΟΓΟΥ]

Excellent advice my sister

[@aishaegwa0]

Alhamdulillah for clicking watch. You just made my day with this inspiring and motivating video. I believe as women self love should be our number one aim in life because with that in place you can be who ever you want to be and achieve all your goals, and above all never forego worshipping Allah Almighty because He alone will never disappoint you in this Dunya. Ma shaa Allah for you sister Nafisa, for you are indeed a gem.

[@ladymallowyt]

I needed this video!!! Thank you so much for posting this. I really needed to hear the first 3 things. I've been married for almost 6 years now and have sacrificed a lot to keep us together. It's not been easy. Most of my reasons for sacrificing things for the sake of my marriage is because I don't want to anger Allah. Edit: I had a sign up on my dream board which is placed in front on my desk. The sign said 'Give up on what you want to do. Its never going to happened.' After watching your video i took down the sign and put up a new one which says 'YOU CAN DO IT. DONT GIVE UP'

[@NafisasPearlz]

Masha’Allah that is simply beautiful 😍 Also know that your efforts for your family will never go in vain insha’Allah but definitely do what makes you thrive as well because in the end you are in the driving seat of your life with Allah guiding you through 👌🏾

[@ladymallowyt]

@@NafisasPearlz thank you so much ❣️

[@anujarahim8533]

As any good Muslimah I too was worried about Allah's Anger..I thought that my sacrifices and compromises would be the ONLY THING THAT WOULD KEEP THE MARRIAGE GOING AND HENCE THE FAMILY TOGETHER..😢BUT I WAS WRONG , IT WAS ACTUALLY my lack of knowledge.. ie knowledge of deen, what exactly Allah Swt Expected from both men and women.. why Allah Swt Created 2 genders with 2 different set of purposes, duties and rights..etc and he was an outwardly practising Muslim too..!! By the time I acquired the knowledge it was too late and he had transgressed the limits of decent behaviour towards a spouse/a fellow human being..!! I couldn't even have a decent conversation with him.. Extremely egoistic, arrogant and stubborn attitude all coming from his INSECURITY FEELINGS..!! IT was a 23yrs old relationship, hence I tried my best to keep it together, from falling apart... but it wasn't getting anywhere, literally just going round and round in circles even after trying for a reconciliation.. in fact his insecurity, haste and greed became MORE AND MORE EVIDENT DURING THE RECONCILIATION PERIOD.. SUBHAN ALLAH. FINALLY I had to say goodbye to the relationship. Alhamdulillah, Allah Swt Freed me from the clutches of a NPD man

[@anujarahim8533]

I understood that in certain circumstances, we women have been given a chance, an opportunity and a responsibility/duty by Allah Swt, Ar Raheem, THE Especially Merciful Lord, to teach the men that MARRIAGE is a RELATIONSHIP NOT JUST FOR THE SAKE/BENEFIT OF THE WOMEN, RATHER IT IS FOR THE BENEFIT OF men as well.. Subhan Allah, these men act as if marriage is for the women alone.. if she wants it she can keep it with Non STOP SACRIFICES AND COMPROMISES.NA'OODUBILLAAH in fact women are better survivors than men even without a companion or family.. Subhan Allah but men need a spouse and family for his physical and emotional well-being.. but little do they realise it..May Allah Swt grant hidayah and hikmah to such narcissistic men, Aameen

[@ahkm655]

If 😅

[@DiamondNoor95]

Love the mic drop at the end 😎🔥🔥 you were spitting some fire girl!!!! Thank you for making all these wisdom-filled videos for us!!! May Allah reward & bless you in this dunya & akhirah

[@MuslimahTiktok]

Love your content, it has become my regular watching content.

[@NafisasPearlz]

Glad you enjoy it!

[@eneaarelag6437]

Iloveyou Sister.... So powerful words...I wish I should have known you before. But experience is a great teacher and I will take your advices as I go on with life. The new me.The confident me. The 'me who is guided by Allah not by the little knowledge that I acquired. '

[@NafisasPearlz]

Masha’Allah I’m so happy for you. With that attitude and the blessings of Allah you will go far insha’Allah 🤲🏾

[@mischeveusme]

Thank you for challenging and ensuring our integrity and dignity come first. A Meen

[@racilleashley9506]

AMEN. Tell HIM to GO and FIND HER - GO

[@FatoumattaKonteh-r8x]

Thank you for this please, Allah will always bless you . I will not give it up if he can’t help me grow .

[@husseinshafawu3483]

Masha Allah so much wisdom learnt ❤ Allah bless u for the advice given 🙏

[@shyro1316]

The problem is the man preferences change with time, he will be initially liking your look, your weight ، then , you're still thr same with same weight, then he wants her more fat or less fat, he might be ok with with your carrier then changes, it's not easy to make the right choice always.

[@hunny585]

Dropping gems without wasting time. JazakAllah khair

[@ubaidabraimah6311]

Ma Shaa Allah. I agree with you. keep up the good work. May Allah reward you.

[@MariamHidir]

Nafisa thank you so much for all your insightful and educative vidoes.Always looking foward to them ,May Allah increase you in wisdom and continue to preserve you for us ,Aaameen

[@NafisasPearlz]

Ameen Masha’Allah

[@Freedom_for_Palestina]

امين يا الله

[@bomesosikore2752]

Thank you sister you're doing a good thing. helping us

[@sherifaholuwatosin1041]

Ma shaa Allah, you have spoken well sis...May Allah reward you abundantly for this piece

[@emilym6214]

This is so good sister. Alhamdulilah Queen ❤

[@racilleashley9506]

There is a reason, that GOD wants me here.

[@gingerhalo123]

“Literally eating ice“ has me weak 🤣

[@Ukhti_Sady]

😂😅

[@alekewumumorayo3160]

Thanks a lot sis, May Almighty Allah bless you immensely Amin

[@achengagnes2575]

My dia l have loved your teaching

[@ifraaxaadan2365]

Nafisa please make your videos subtitles

[@racilleashley9506]

WOMEN you deserve to be HAPPY!

[@thebackyardfarmers_]

Alhamdulilah. Mashaa Allah. Love you for the sake of Allah. For all these beautiful tips.

[@KAhmed-wp5ui]

Dear Sister, You’re blessed and you are blessing us with your talks ❤

[@fatimaantiba3721]

You look very beautiful Nafisa, Allahuma Barik. May Allah reward you for your advice, ameen🤲🏿❤️

[@lejardinparadis]

Basically this is about people pleasing!

[@Nene-mb5ln]

I wonder how do you do to know what is in my brain in almost every thing you say. I am just speechless

[@hopeful-healing]

Thank you for sharing this.

[@shukrohomowumi1428]

Jazakumllhu khayr sis ❤️

[@Zaga33]

Thank you Jazaki Allah khayran

[@khadijatmusa7802]

I must commend you for passing this beneficial information to Muslim brothers and sisters out there, welldone ma.

[@AbdulazeezidayatMoromoke]

Ma sha Allah! This is my first time on your page i love this❤

[@noludweqwabe7011]

Wooooow❤ what a teaching, thanx my sister. Lots of women need to listen to this

[@hayonsanje2337]

May Allah continue to bless you sis. This is my first time watching your videos and I have learned a lot today. Am very impressed

[@aissadibaga5892]

Do you have a podcast sis? I’m loving listening you!

[@rchli1_]

I love your content so much! Keep it going ❤️❤️❤️💎💎💎

[@NafisasPearlz]

Thank you! Will do!

[@oseniyakubu3344]

Beautiful teachings Sister Nafisat. Keep it🔥. Allah will reward your effort. This is good Dawa. Very correct all you expouse on and they also affect we men. 👍

[@abdulrazakranda9570]

Assalamualaykum warahmatullahi wabarakatuhu sister Nafisah, can you make a video on a muslimahs dress code.

[@LoveCisse]

Nothing like a good tea time with Nafissa❤

[@stephenjoseph2985]

SISTER PLEASE DO A VIDEO ON THINGS MEN MUST NEVER DO FOR THE WOMAN THEY LOVE

[@mimmss6556]

Jazakallahu khairan my dear dear sis ❤ may Allah bless you abundantly. You really hit the nail on the head at the end, subhan'Allah. I will keep this in mind insha'Allah. May Allah SWT guide is all to what's best for us in this life and the akhira.

[@Aphrodite_aura]

Thanks a lot Sis for your advice. MashaAllah 🙏🏼

[@fatimatubah15]

Wow! This video is very very very much inspiring.

[@assemsultanova1617]

please turn subtitles on your videos thanks1

[@samiraelyahiaoui2918]

MaashAllah sister Nafisah, May Allah swt grant you Paradise for all your strong advices, its so true, everything is true, and so many women will sacrifice themselves ore their dien for the man the love...Allah swt comes first.

[@adelmamartinez4090]

I'm not a Muslim but what you've talked about is the truth.

[@lonaofficial9829]

Allahumma barik sister🎉

[@abdulrahimjalloh363]

Sister Nafisa, you hit a good point about sisters that stop wearing hijab because of their husbands. I know a sister who did so. I have tried telling her but she does not listen. Know she dress almost half naked because of her husband.

[@chawa8887]

jazakAllah khair , thanks ❤❤❤❤

[@cleartrueblue66]

Sister Nafisa you are a TREASURE mashallah! Always inspiring and encouraging us while holding us accountable too. Thank you from the bottom of my heart for being the big sister we all need!!♥️♥️

[@fatimaalamien8786]

Wow this was so eye opening . I needed to hear the truth.

[@ayindeabimbola692]

Beautiful! Brilliant ❤

[@saradigota7201]

Exactly this what im facing nowadays, i always wanted to marry young cuz its a sunnah, but all the guys i meet ask and tell nasty sexual things as show me your boobs, show me you without hijaab. Why hijab?take it off. All my life, am 33 now, unmarried,no kids, refusing such guys. i feel awfull for all i went trough. I even never heard such awfull words coming from non muslims, these men always were only muslim by name. This all was like mental abuse to me, cuz men should be protecters,maintainers and more respectfull over the women.

[@mameh.8116]

Keep holding on to your values. The right and good thing is coming for you!

[@BlueBlue23]

Where are you looking sister? Because there are good men out there alhamdulillah

[@saradigota7201]

@@mameh.8116 inshaAllah, thank u. we gotta grasp this evil of nowadays and protect the islamic households, ummah

[@saradigota7201]

@@BlueBlue23 im talking about the guys that aproach me on a daily,going to school,work,online socialmedia, everywhere, ''halal'' places though. Im not looking anywhere, the guy should aproach a girl first unless he really well known to be good husband material

[@BlueBlue23]

@@saradigota7201 is different to be approached in random situations to be approached with the specific intention of getting married. Men and women should be on the same page, looking for the same and being intentional about it.

[@Swed813]

Salam. Love this video. Would love your Islamic naseeha on the Andrew Tate culture that a lot of Muslim males are now following.

[@SandraStachowiczLtd]

Yeeeeeeeeees!

[@husnashahidd]

What's that?

[@SandraStachowiczLtd]

@@husnashahidd Andrew Tate is an influencer on masculinity A lot of Muslim men seem to worship him these days Except, his teachings deviate from what Islam teaches and a lot of it is actually downright toxic In a nutshell, there's too much focus on men's rights and not enough on men's duties

[@husnashahidd]

@@SandraStachowiczLtd O Alright. was unaware. Thanks for letting me know.

[@micho-K.2016]

I like the way you speak sis

[@sabrina4735]

For point 1, how do we balance between not acting dumb but also not nagging if that makes sense? I don’t act dumb per se but constantly feel as if im trying to show my intelligence and it might come off as nagging because im almost always right haha 😅 its very hard to stay quiet when you know something is wrong but at the same time no one wants a nagging wife

[@NafisasPearlz]

Yes I understand your point 😂 it can be hard to stay quiet but if it’s not a big issue then it’s really important for the woman to learn to bite her tongue otherwise she may make her husband resentful of her knowledge and feel like she is always leading and challenging his position.

[@zaynabyasmine8135]

​@@NafisasPearlz😂

[@TimTim__]

I was going to comment the same thing but couldn’t articulate my thoughts properly. Happy to find someone to resonate 😁 Solution I found is train myself to keep quiet

[@abionashakirat2239]

Am also the kind of person, but it should not be you will totally silent in all situation but to mention it as your own view of point or contribution, it shouldn't be you will always finalize your point.

[@Hafiz_Gaming12]

Thanks sis. You have said it all. Jazaakillaahu khairan

[@Sudio51Babe]

❤❤❤ golden!

[@Vide_Shah]

I’ve learned recently that there’s this game people play on each other. Who is more intelligent than who? This game needs to stop overall and ask yourself do you want a challenging relationship or a loving and supportive relationship? I’m a firm believer of equality being egalitarian. However I’ve found many people like to play mind games and most individuals coming from ethnic minorities are modelling their narcissistic parents which is a known fact.