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[@Denmosocial]

Everything in life is your fault. get to work stop complaining nobody cares

[@TigerTankIII]

You said 'bro' 50 times in your last upload but only said it once in this video, now you sound like an adult and your message is x1000 more authoritative

[@Denmosocial]

@@TigerTankIII i was in dad mode when I filmed it

[@TigerTankIII]

@@Denmosocial suits you

[@mikemckenzie4016]

It shouldn’t be thought of as your fault, but rather your burden to carry. Some people were born without legs or had abusive parents. Not their fault, life’s just tough like that. Judgement doesn’t need to enter into it. We all have our problems and we all have to make it work best we can with what we’ve got. Blame gets a man nowhere.

[@NoName50008]

10-4

[@Jon-lp6en]

The real failure in life in my opinion is never trying things that you love.

[@laurentiu.panait2536]

Indeed, the worst mistake you can do is avoiding taking action in talking to someone, to that girl on sight, and it leads to so much regret.

[@Denmosocial]

facts

[@aidanokeeffe7928]

Man, you are the only self-improvement guy I watch. You're not full of hate like Tate, you're not overly metaphorical like Peterson. You just give it straight, with a joke here and there. Good shit mate, you're the one.

[@NeroCloud]

I like peterson more then tate I feel peterson like a grandfather that means well just has a hard time talking to the youth sometimes

[@Szxp3xt]

@@NeroCloud Tate is like your uncle who was released from jail but also was in mental hospital.

[@NeroCloud]

@@Szxp3xt yea but tate does have some gold but you have to go through so much stuff just to find it. it hurts the head

[@iw_legendary_sayain2215]

I’m actually in a really uncomfortable position with my current job. Going door to door in sales for AT&T. I’m a self proclaimed introvert and it’s like I’m a fish out of water. I feel like this particular job is gonna help me numb out my anxiety. Or go talk to girls. I actually see this as a benefit simply because I’m getting rejected in terms of making sales. But I’m starting not to give af. And now I see this with going to out to talk with girls. “She said no, on to the next girl.” “They said no, on to the next door.” I’m actually excited to put this into practice with asking or cold approaching girls. I’m developing thick skin because of this profession. And I’m all for it! Even though I’m super sensitive but I simply don’t care what I encounter next. Because I’m getting used to rejection from potential customers. I’m starting to apply this in my personal life and I love it.

[@thelifewithnate]

Awesome mate! Glad to see you're taking lessons learned from your job and applying it to another part of your personal life. Props to you, door-to-door in sales is a tough gig and there's a lot of rejection.

[@LiGHTProductions]

Good luck to you, man!

[@Tristiam]

Have a smiliar experience I've been working 2 years + in call center and that helped me a lot on the every day basis. It's easier to approach when you have a work like that cold calling and cold approaches are similar.

[@sasapetroski981]

My friend sell books from door to door and he was in many bad situations, people are very nervous today

[@chanceinman]

Same boat. First time D2D sales. Money is the main reason of course but the social skills aspect is close second. Cant remember where I saw it but I saw a comment somewhere that said "sales is just confidence and social skill building that you happen to get paid for"

[@terrodar19]

100%. as a man is it our duty to become comfortable in discomfort

[@Fractorification]

This video really speaks to me. I’ve been having anxious episodes beating myself up for wondering where all the time went. But, it’s never too late. I can still put myself out there and accomplish the things I want.

[@dandaman9009]

I refuse to get rejected, I cannot take it, cannot, and I accept that I will have to take my own life when I’m old. I just can’t fix my dating life on my own, until I fix it, my suicidal tendencies will continue

[@qm266]

I am a stranger but I am here for you bro

[@thelifewithnate]

You have to be okay with being alone for a long period of time, mate! If you're not comfortable with yourself, how are going to approach others for dating? That being said, you need to eventually get out of your comfort zone.

[@HoangRoxXD]

You’re good bro just keep charging on. It’s tough but I believe in you. I was there before but it took many many small steps to be comfortable with socializing and enjoying life. If you need to talk let’s talk.

[@MAR2TV]

I needed to hear this, thank u Denmo 🙏✍️

[@dharmikboy11]

I needed a denmo video rn.. Thanks bro❤

[@nblastoise4479]

Embrace unconfortable situations to improve myself,ill see It that way,thank you for this great video.

[@icecreampaintjob1697]

Needed this today, thanks bro.

[@twomgsx3]

Dude another great video. Yes, you’ve made me realize i’ve slowed down. I should have been picked my ass up and kept on that route. 👏👏

[@-DankPanda-]

Daddy Denmo always coming in with the new vids Love watching them on my lunch break

[@trendy1035]

Bruh what 😂

[@gladdedanny9080]

Thanks denmo💪🏽

[@thelifewithnate]

Ah, I can relate to this a bunch with my current job right now at the moment. I really don't like what I'm doing for my main job, but I enjoy pursuing a bunch of creative hobbies and hoping to make those my day jobs. Its funny because its a constant cycle of this throughout my life: find a new job, love it at first, dislike, and then start applying for other opportunities once the contract is over. I'm in the midst of a cycle right now and its tough but I got to get out of here.

[@numericallion5349]

Valuable information! I like how you break it down

[@mordfustang1933]

Great video, I do have to say for some people we might’ve been more outgoing and friendly in our youth, I’ve had lots of friends and some girlfriends but negative reinforcement is a hell of a thing.

[@shivy.r97]

No matter how harsh you come across, I'd still rather listen to you than red pill content. Love this !

[@alexandru__tgx]

You are my favorite self improvement KZbinr. I'm just starting out with English content but one day I will be back and i will have a collab with you. Amen 🙏🏻

[@CGZYT]

Hey, Denmo! I'm 16 and in a bunch of college and harder classes at school where I get like 4 hours of homework a night and I have a job over the weekend and a girlfriend to give attention to, and I was wondering if you could make a video on how people like me can fit this kind of stuff in our busy schedule. Thanks bro, I love your videos.

[@zaynkarim303]

This video came at the right time yesterday I got rejected by 3 women and because of that today I didn't even approach one I was coping

[@Brendan-05]

Agree, but some people have crap starts to life that by the time you have levelled up, it’s too late. Hope young men learn from Denmo and become social. I’m 53 with no family, no friends and career has stalled. Saw that my boss has picked up that women at other companies we have business relationships with treat me very poorly and they have move me out of those relationships. Tried to get a girlfriend for the last 18 months using these lessons and not working. Ironically I’ve shown these videos to some men at work and they are feeling so much better and getting girls. Well I’ll keep trying but going to give up soon.

[@thelifewithnate]

What are some lessons you can teach the next generation about life and dating in general? As someone who is 53, you have an amazing opportunity to pass knowledge down to younger men who are in the same boat. Start a YT channel, document the journey, write an e-book, etc.

[@MMKnight_1]

This was not really caused by being afraid of uncomfort, rather due to lack of experience and knowledge, but I really regret not asking the girl I had a crush on out. I did approach her with no idea if she liked me or not, and tried to chat her up, and she literally threw signs at me indicating she liked me and I was even sure she liked me, but because I was a bonehead and thought we would be a couple by only talking, she lost interest. This was my first time ever getting out of my comfortzone. I learnt my lesson, but this will probably haunt me at times for the rest of my life

[@thelifewithnate]

Bro, do it! Ask that crush out, I got regrets from not doing that as well but at the same time time, you can't wait. It's like when a business opportunity shows up, jump on that, and see where it goes. Worst she can say is no.

[@MMKnight_1]

@@thelifewithnate Thing is, this wasnt the whole story. A month later she showed even more interest but I had gotten a bit anxious and was subconciously scared she would leave again, so although I talked with her and eventually asked her out, I had made some weak and desperate mistakes which sadly turned her off for good. Learnt alot from it tho

[@adlermann96]

glad I found your channel

[@kylebutler5098]

It's unbelievable how well this video fits my current life situation. I know I have to step out of the comfort zone, take risks and not fear rejection, but yet I am not able to approach a girl when I see her

[@Denmosocial]

I gotcha bro here to help

[@leongray5596]

Hey buddy, it would be fantastic if you'd make a video recommending your favorite books that you think everyone should read (Especially books about socializing). Actually, I'm surprised why you haven't done it already cuz I always get the impression that you read lots of books. BTW, I'm 19 and been following you from 2019 in your old channel. Miss pickup line videos so bad.

[@stevenwilson4083]

gotta do a video on 75 hard, the ultimate manifestation of everything jack talks about (yes, I completed it last year)

[@skage__255]

This shit struck my soul

[@tactusxii]

preach

[@donny9590]

I got told I looked four years younger. I started a retinol moisturizer regimen. It really does work lol

[@seanbrowne6778]

Denmo,I Have a Serious problem I literally find no girl attractive in real life so I don't have any motivation to approach them I dont know whats going on man i need help

[@amensoul1242]

12:38 he does that on a regilar base of a solid 4 5 times at day and i cant help myself wnyways half of the times but immtrying to follow qnd imporve but so slowly that im demotivated .. fr

[@LearnCompositionOnline]

Man i get what you mean, but i left the hell and don’t want DISCOMFORT NEVER AGAIN 😂

[@Crimson_Builder]

make a video on toxic relationships, manipulative people, narracists etc

[@amensoul1242]

3:00 bro ure right but lets asume i dont find a job i have no friends and girls from 10 years now how ro i starrt to get back to search a job and make friends again? Like .. i have no problems at talking to others but i cant be intresting cause i have no interest .. its hard .. when ure 33 ane u look back and u can only see a dark void tryng to reach u .. qnd cant run fast enought .. idk man i realy want to start to move but thw universe is like.. nah bro ure so late.. i think i will have to live .. may be other 7 years alone and at 40 i might look something like a human to someone else again..

[@iTzzproclan]

Where is the habit tracker that I can print and put it on a wall ?

[@Denmosocial]

in my free community under the classroom tab

[@andygomez6543]

Denmo bro can you do a vid on where to take girls on dates and the actual date itself

[@Denmosocial]

I have that in my socializer school

[@user-lp7vz9sz7x]

People stop running after girl run after your career and master it then you will find most beautiful girl even you don't see in your dream.want your Idol just look your favourite actress and actor.after they success in their field they are finding top girl which is not possible before so ya be focus into your goal and with god all your even none dream will come true.

[@user-lp7vz9sz7x]

@@TheeMostDangerousOne disagree just look success people in their field sportsman businessman and actor.

[@user-vc5se6ms5h]

What if you literally have 0 hobbies just start trying random things?

[@Denmosocial]

yes that is right

[@AdityaSingh-ot8vu]

In my case I avoid girls not because I don't like it because I am not abke to talk to girls my brain overthinks alot there are thoughts in my brain what if people will judge while talking talking girl at the gym what if girl scared of me that's why I don't approach girls but from inside it makes me feel sad . I dont know what to do 😢.

[@MCEdziits]

Do you ever feel yourself aging? Back - well hello my friend😅

[@TerenceStamina]

real

[@raunaqsingh3629]

❤❤

[@herps588]

The worst she can say is I have a boyfriend: "Eww" *laughs*

[@MarkHughes-fx9gn]

i am disable😂😂

[@user-uo3cu6fj8u]

Some of you on here should accept life for what it is. Don't wast your time chasing something you cannot attain. Learn to accept life and the fact of good looking people thriving and bad looking people who cannot thrive. Accept the pain deal with it shuve it down in your heart acknowledge reality but accept it

[@herps588]

Yay! My daily depression vid telling me about facing discomfort that will TOTALLY not traumatize me further (in which I will """DEFINITELY""" get any positive lessons!!!!)! LMAOOOOO

[@herps588]

Lmao fuck all the way off

[@jrdonaldson2053]

First

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[@dispergosum]

What a tool 😂

[@get_2nasty526]

It works😂