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@amnutter52205 жыл бұрын
"rather than trying to make a good impression, you're trying to create a good expression" Dang. That's good advice
@ashleyk57896 жыл бұрын
*lady looking at books in a bookstore* "do you like books?" lmao i lost it.
@YourCharismaCoach6 жыл бұрын
I aim to be creative
@AlfoncinaMatilda8 жыл бұрын
I thought the "do you like books" comment was hilarious! It was witty in its own right
@GovnaBuckingham7 жыл бұрын
indeed you just have to back it up with a smile to make it clear you were joking
@JessBess7 жыл бұрын
hahaha i know right! that was the funniest one, along with the spy
@renekrsnadasa146 жыл бұрын
So did I. I actually laughed so much because it's something I would say in such situations
@swisscheese95405 жыл бұрын
You need to read more books.
@anthonysmith12285 жыл бұрын
Bee Movie reference?
@HeavymetalHylian4 жыл бұрын
"do you like books" was funnier than all of the actual jokes
@YourCharismaCoach4 жыл бұрын
This is the way
@eclairz92757 жыл бұрын
"Wouldn't go up there mate, bit boring it's full of books." Ahahaha. :D
@shadowzzzzzz49226 жыл бұрын
I was dying when he said" I wouldn't go up there, it's filled with books"
@YourCharismaCoach6 жыл бұрын
Glad to see you are alive and well now
@CC-qg6zl2 жыл бұрын
@@YourCharismaCoach 😂
@stephenwalsh4481 Жыл бұрын
😂
@aleks2926 жыл бұрын
I think its sad I'm searching this
@YourCharismaCoach6 жыл бұрын
Not if you're trying to improve your life. That's commendable
@mitalivaidya85126 жыл бұрын
SAME
@manojkumargaranayak38215 жыл бұрын
YourCharismaCoach Please make video about how to develop communication and some fun joke that everyone will laugh please do this 😀? In confidence I am pretty low so I can learn from you and some different from many people that gonna help my life ?
@jeremysolterbeck67134 жыл бұрын
actually extremely witty well done
@FernandoAlbertoFloresLazo4 жыл бұрын
I think it's sad you searching this too. Jk :p
@delionking73717 жыл бұрын
Dictionary joke made my day.
@YourCharismaCoach7 жыл бұрын
This comment made mine!
@yeahohright30978 жыл бұрын
I love how your advice is more lighthearted and rooted in compassion rather than the lecherous vibe that pick up artist videos put out. Seriously, this is awesome!
@YourCharismaCoach8 жыл бұрын
+yeah oh right Thank you! Its good to be light hearted.
@the_contrarian7 жыл бұрын
And what about if one is actually stupid one is maybe also witty?
@dido.the.side.h06467 жыл бұрын
I don't think this guy really gets bookshops -"look around at all the bored looking people reading books"
@redsol36294 жыл бұрын
Wildonederer legit.
@hashimsama60752 жыл бұрын
I can see why you need help being more witty and playful lol
@roywhiteo58 жыл бұрын
step one of seeming more witty: sound british
@YourCharismaCoach8 жыл бұрын
+roywhiteo5 Huzzah!
@swisscheese95405 жыл бұрын
Or kill a brit
@andyricardez85365 жыл бұрын
,😍🤩
@ameliakingston16185 жыл бұрын
roywhiteo5 easy when you are British😂...I’m British.
@morbius7683 жыл бұрын
fuck i don't want to be witty anymore
@authenticlines3 жыл бұрын
That “Do you like books?” in a book store made me die of laughter 😂
@jayce38398 жыл бұрын
"do you like books"😂😂😂😂
@kobesnow86096 жыл бұрын
to be honest that could be funny to ask depending on your tone xD
@tiwiogunye6 жыл бұрын
*do you like books ?* i died 😂😂
@x7x7x337 жыл бұрын
Who else has offensive humor
@MattTheJoker5 жыл бұрын
Defo your mother... how are you son.
@CliffordStarks15 жыл бұрын
I don't have offensive humor as my channel shows, but I do find it funny 😂😂😂
@lunch72135 жыл бұрын
The best type of humor 😂
@natthekoala95535 жыл бұрын
Meeee
@alyssasanjorge29447 жыл бұрын
Does anyone else have a hard time understanding someone whispering in a British accent??
@YourCharismaCoach7 жыл бұрын
Tell me about it, I can't even hear myself think sometimes! ;-)
@MrSdsok7 жыл бұрын
Me
@carltube50287 жыл бұрын
Alyssa SanJorge I know I do!
@broccolinyu9116 жыл бұрын
its not that, the music's too loud
@Whoopdewhoo9 жыл бұрын
I really liked the dictionary one lol
@noneofyourbusiness9106 жыл бұрын
Me too. That made me chuckle.
@warrencurtis7442 Жыл бұрын
The world needs humor now more than ever.
@KarinKamryn6 ай бұрын
If I were at a book store and a guy came up beside me and asked if I liked books, that would honestly make me laugh. 😂
@anabessa81938 жыл бұрын
the dictionary one got me haha
@CaliToys7 жыл бұрын
It's really great, perfect
@calebsimmons73489 жыл бұрын
Hey Marcus, After discovering your videos tonight and watching several of them in continuation with(out) particular order, I wanted to stop and not only thank but encourage you to continue to deliver your insight, work and knowledge on the things you talk about. Your lessons delve into subjects that cover many different psychological fronts and I think it's important to note that with use of the internet you are distributing great understanding and all in all bettering the people who engage with your content. I only say this as this relates to me and I will accurately assume it applies to others. Please continue to be who you are.
@YourCharismaCoach9 жыл бұрын
Caleb Simmons Thanks for the support Caleb. More on the way soon
@josephbarberphotography6 жыл бұрын
'Expressing yourself' - right on! love it
@mesolithicman1642 жыл бұрын
If it's too clever, you run the risk of intimidating her. Don't ask a question or make an observation that doesn't leave room for a response.
@sirmanifesto28168 жыл бұрын
This was really good and helpful. I realized when my humor is too serious or unfunny or when to switch it up. Thank you!
@TrickyHarts9 жыл бұрын
I love this channel. The real-life aspect is fantastic; so entertaining and inspirational. Thank you :-)
@thefunnybuddy41385 жыл бұрын
"The Dictionary" sounds like a badass action spy film.
@FrostDriveX4 жыл бұрын
I watched this video ages ago, annd now I'm coming back to be re-inspired by this all over again. It's how I found this channel. mman I wish they still uploaded, their stuff was incredibly helpful!!!!
@YourCharismaCoach4 жыл бұрын
Thanks! We're still around and we here ya! We better make some more videos :-)
@EconExpo5 жыл бұрын
“PENNsylvania call and wants it’s pens back” is what I said in my college library. Then sat down in the table across and pulled out my pen collection to rewrite my notes. (I’m talking 15 different colored pens)
@jaredbamber24549 жыл бұрын
Great videos Marcus, thank you. They're really helping me a lot. I would really appreciate it if you could do a video exactly like this again in a bookstore, and make it about tips to add more excitement and energy to your facial expressions in conversation? (I really struggle with this, because I'm a really calm person and I think I project my conversations to be dull and boring, and I really need some tips on facial expressions and voice tonality to help me out). Thanks for your time.
@jeffrey45316 жыл бұрын
Book upside down. Flips over. That makes much more sense, unlike my life.
@YourCharismaCoach6 жыл бұрын
That's pretty funny! Definitely would have used in this video
@Rubbersoulful9 жыл бұрын
Good to see you back Marcus
@YourCharismaCoach9 жыл бұрын
Thank you! Good to be back!
@MemoBosqueVEVO9 жыл бұрын
Very useful! Please keep doing these videos :)
@Haymakermma Жыл бұрын
Bros in creative mode just using human experiments
@debraawe1968 Жыл бұрын
I really love who you are bro, and to think i could have found your content all of 7 years ago. really solid advice and steps, thank you
@Getoutyourcomfortzone9 жыл бұрын
Great stuff Marcus, agreed its all to do with whether you find it funny, and the vibe you have. The book upside down is a classic, have done that a few times and is definitely my fave :).
@ShayanQadir9 жыл бұрын
Fantastic content as always buddy! Keep em coming!
@Neo2266.6 жыл бұрын
I looked up “Witty Banter” and I got this
@born7invincible7 жыл бұрын
Thanks man! I did this about 20 years ago, whit a much older married woman and it worked! Then few years later the Game came along (pua's) and i got lost in this war of marketing between the routine guys and the so called naturals. This video is great man!
@Lavender_05u349 жыл бұрын
I love this! thank you marcus
@lord_of_the_greens9 жыл бұрын
Love these videos mate! Cheers from California
@user-xz1wy4to4o3 жыл бұрын
"Rather than creating a great impression, you're creating a great expression"
@stepanieshelton7726 Жыл бұрын
Honestly if someone asked me do you like books I would burst out laughing. I would fire back I can’t stand them I came here to glare into them so they know my hatred!
@YourCharismaCoach Жыл бұрын
That would be brilliant!
@candicepenland8 жыл бұрын
I love your videos! :) thanks so much for making these.
@YourCharismaCoach8 жыл бұрын
+muses&mustangs Thanks! More on the way!
@c7zr1795 жыл бұрын
The hardest part about this would be actually walking up and using the lines on the people.
@YourCharismaCoach5 жыл бұрын
We can teach you how to do it effortlessly. It really becomes very fun.
@c7zr1795 жыл бұрын
@@YourCharismaCoach Wow, thanks for the reply, dude. :) This was a great video by the way. I took notes and I'm actually gonna use it.
@YourCharismaCoach5 жыл бұрын
Great! Let me know how you get on with it.
@sakura111111111119 жыл бұрын
Way to go! I love this, especially that if a moment in which you could but didn't talk to somebody pases, later you find yourself in a similar situation and use the line or witty remark that you felt bad for not using in the first place. On a sidenote your videos have been getting better visual quality which is great. Thumbs up for more videos in the future! ^_^
@YourCharismaCoach9 жыл бұрын
More on the way
@alexandrefreitas25696 жыл бұрын
Hi Marcus, just passing by to say that you had here the best channel on this topic. I hope you resume your videos soon!
@YourCharismaCoach6 жыл бұрын
Thank you! My aim is to get more useful stuff out shortly. Hang in there!
@lvha19893 жыл бұрын
I see you, stealing all the words out of that book for free =))))))))))))
@hiyoryan39018 жыл бұрын
Nice video. Keep up the good work
@leornendeealdenglisc9 ай бұрын
Thank you for this video. I liked how you not only gave your advice but also put it into action. Subscribed, sir!
@YourCharismaCoach9 ай бұрын
Thanks! We better pull our thumb out and make some more videos!
@nyalimuir41032 ай бұрын
Great content. Fun viewing. Last sentence was brilliant! Look forward to experimenting 😂
@YourCharismaCoach2 ай бұрын
Please do! It'll often feel a bit awkward but push through that because the risk makes the reward!
@thegreatdeception56708 жыл бұрын
the dictionary line was a good one i havent seen before. ill try that next time im near a book store. thanks guy
@kevintio30677 жыл бұрын
The Great Deception what did he say? Haha I c
@WellRounded5 жыл бұрын
nice use of the four words of power in your videos
@martinalonzo28865 жыл бұрын
I see your digesting that book what flavor is it
@domr87969 жыл бұрын
brilliant
@maryannmccamon5345 жыл бұрын
I loved the package one. It's made me giggle
@YourCharismaCoach5 жыл бұрын
That’s the goal.
@guitar300k2 жыл бұрын
Really good advice, do you think thinking in my head works or have to write it down
@YourCharismaCoach2 жыл бұрын
Experiment! Writing tends to help the mind cement behaviours, so it's worth a try.
@samirandgina9 жыл бұрын
Great video Marcus, just next time please turn the music a bit down so I could hear the splendid charisma coming from your voice! 5Q + 5Q ..... ;)
@branden85284 ай бұрын
timeless
@Makiaveli017 жыл бұрын
Man once he put his lines to the test i couldn't understand a damn thing he was saying
@5DLit5 ай бұрын
I had to be patient watchin u.. funny for me....
@pimp80413 жыл бұрын
Iam investing in myself!
@jamesporter278810 ай бұрын
I wouldn't be able to force myself to say these things, maybe I'm too self conscious?
@YourCharismaCoach10 ай бұрын
It's always a risk to say something different. If yous ay it with a smile, you reduce the risk of it falling flat.
@jaytam17 жыл бұрын
its fine line between appearing idiotic and witty.....
@shivamthaman70816 жыл бұрын
not many people can look so cute in that cap not even cats but you do ;D
@daddyw17194 жыл бұрын
Over in Canada, making a witty joke to a random woman in a bookshop gets you labeled as a rapist.
@juanbanuelos42959 жыл бұрын
lol that dictionary one was good :) I like this advice
@zzulm4 жыл бұрын
That was entertaining
@kflashcarr8882 жыл бұрын
I come up with really silly shit to say in my head. I'd laugh at my own expense haha.
@lvolanteml5 жыл бұрын
Instructions unclear, brain has gooped out of head
@MoroccoUnfiltred6 жыл бұрын
The sound quality wasn't great, by I get your point thanks
@carolineballard51834 жыл бұрын
Delivery is key
@lunch72135 жыл бұрын
0:33 You could probably do something with the Kama Sutra on the top left shelf
@YourCharismaCoach5 жыл бұрын
Sure. You might like turning it upside down and remarking “There. That seems like the right position now.” With a smile. And see what happens.
@kimpachis88415 жыл бұрын
* be funny * Me: searches "how to be funny"
@pedro-ehlamaar80843 жыл бұрын
Some of these were funny and I’m stealing them
@BigGoblinMan5 жыл бұрын
3:25 made me laugh so hard
@pyukumuku-66453 жыл бұрын
I love trolling people but i dont do it enough. I should do it more
@metallijames9 жыл бұрын
You're telling me to go to a bookstore with the intent of talking to strangers, sit down with a pad of paper and a pen, observe people trying to privately shop, then develop a funny thing to say to them so they will like you and talk to you? This is straight out of the book of an intense sociopath.
@YourCharismaCoach9 жыл бұрын
It's not about making people like you. It's about developing more fun ways to interact with the world and the people in it.
@metallijames9 жыл бұрын
I see. Thank you for the reply! I was just joking, after all.
@devvv46167 жыл бұрын
it would be funny if you messed with people and get great reactions like how some pranksters like LAHWF, BigDaws etc. (they do simpler pranks like giving awkward compliments etc)
@avopeac63004 жыл бұрын
If people say you shouldn't judge a book by it's cover why is it that people are always looking at its backside?
@YourCharismaCoach4 жыл бұрын
That's sharp! Love it
@avopeac63004 жыл бұрын
@@YourCharismaCoach :) Love your video
@girlonfire54235 жыл бұрын
Your not supposed to plan out your conversations! 😂🤦♀️
@YourCharismaCoach5 жыл бұрын
You’re right. If you want to stay at your current level.
@perkuskamui6 жыл бұрын
was the sounds super low for anyone else, or just me? had my speakers turnt all the way up lol
@YourCharismaCoach6 жыл бұрын
I can't quite hear your speakers from here. Could you turn them up a bit more?
@delionking73717 жыл бұрын
It's finally here haha
@chukakaelo22756 жыл бұрын
How to be a creepy cringelord in the library :)
@YourCharismaCoach6 жыл бұрын
Maybe we should run with that title! ;-p
@johvanstewart3509 жыл бұрын
It's finally here!!!
@barrywhite362 жыл бұрын
I think being light hearted is great but way way better if it’s spontaneous. The canned and pre planned lines really felt awkward, forced and fake
@lunch72135 жыл бұрын
I’m supes antisocial and shy, hence why I’m here. Would you say that trying out the jokes in person is really vital in the beginning? Or is it unnecessary, since the purpose is to think faster (I am pretty sarcastic and dry tho)
@YourCharismaCoach5 жыл бұрын
Trying out the lines allows you to express yourself. That way you are not worrying about impressing anyone. Simply enjoying the things you’ve written down to try. You’re also going to get valuable feedback on what you’re doing by trying them out. If that’s too big a step right now, writing things down allows you to train that part of your mind to be flexible and witty when you want it most. Saying them out loud can be the next step you get to.
@Lonesch0lar5 жыл бұрын
Heres my attempts...id prob never say them because i feel like they are all dumb but these are what id write if i actually wrote something in a bookstore... Why are all these dvd cases full of papers? Excuse me do you know if they have any books in here? Hey can you help me? How do you turn on the audio book feature? *Hold book to ear* Excuse me sorry to bother you but im not a very good reader... Can you help me with this word? *Open book and point to the "a" in a sentence. Hey is that book your reading the one about the guy who interrupts the woman reading so she can put her number in his phone and take her out for coffee the next day? (Then give her your phone in the contacts section.... Kind of a pick up line i doubt would work but still counts right?) Dont you just love bookstores? I certainly do... Except for all the book...
@YourCharismaCoach5 жыл бұрын
These are great! As long as they make you happy, you’re winning. At this point, it doesn’t really matter how they react. The point is to express yourself and have fun. You’ll notice that many people “rejected” us at first. That’s to be expected. In some cases I’m breaking social norms. In others it is just unexpected and they are confused for a second. You can try these out and see what happens. Even if they are lame, you’ll learn something important. Go. Have fun!
@cameronandrews75049 жыл бұрын
👍
@damixcookingfantasy44414 жыл бұрын
Would be great to see the captions :(
@YourCharismaCoach4 жыл бұрын
I'll look into it
@anneofhearts9 жыл бұрын
lol
@Knowledge_Hunt3 жыл бұрын
The best joke was stealing those for free
@rositavargas98958 жыл бұрын
im a gemini so i must be okay
@snoozenaut Жыл бұрын
Some of these felt preplanned and cringe but most are very witty and funny 👍
@robygame42087 жыл бұрын
your audio is small
@jinduicer47222 жыл бұрын
I need more lame jokes my jokes are usually they miss or seriously crack ppl up but lame jokes everybody laughs either cuz it was actually funny or they don’t want to make u feel bad
@YourCharismaCoach2 жыл бұрын
Trick is to also deliver them with a smile so the other person knows your joking (although a dry delivery can also be fun!)
@Anushablueblood8 жыл бұрын
watching this made me think - why am i seeing this? have i become so lonely and jobless? Heck NO...
@naholm884 жыл бұрын
There's a lady reading a book...and also a guy picking his nose at 1:40...
@YourCharismaCoach4 жыл бұрын
Straight out of a Nick Park animation!
@EPIXFLATZ4 жыл бұрын
How about “that book is a dangerous one. Yeah yeah, I was reading it and then got a cut on my hand. Yep, page 87. Yeah, so I’m never going to cut vegetables and read books at the same time ever again.” Make a witty comment, make a paper cut expectation, then smash it with gold
@YourCharismaCoach4 жыл бұрын
I really like that idea of a book being dangerous. "Careful with that one mate, it sucks souls. I started reading it last week and 4 hours of my life vanished."
@laffy72046 жыл бұрын
Don't let the book about how to draw dogs and the books about how to draw cats together, there won't get together with all the scratching or whatnot. Was that british enough?