This got me so Frustrated that I delisted the item...

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ADHDave

ADHDave

Күн бұрын

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@maggiewhite0607
@maggiewhite0607 25 күн бұрын
I blocked a buyer who complained that I did not accept their offer. The item had only been listed a couple of days. And it was a lowball offer. I blocked them just on principle for being a jackass.
@macl9395
@macl9395 25 күн бұрын
For "customers" like that, I just block them. Problem solved and now I know they aren't going to do the same thing with a different item.
@tambou5022
@tambou5022 25 күн бұрын
If you're watching this...don't be that buyer.
@hiddentreasureskc
@hiddentreasureskc 25 күн бұрын
Dave, block these type! They never buy it!
@45vinyljunkie
@45vinyljunkie 25 күн бұрын
And if they do buy the item, they're not happy about something and complain.
@philipwise8291
@philipwise8291 25 күн бұрын
i usually block those buyers rather than continue to jump through hoops
@MosinFreak
@MosinFreak 25 күн бұрын
Same here. They're ALWAYS problem children and almost always ask for discounts. And it seems like it's usually the cheaper items that draw those types.
@brandonszlamczynski6636
@brandonszlamczynski6636 23 күн бұрын
same here, dont want to deal with the trouble down the line
@lurkingcaro
@lurkingcaro 25 күн бұрын
I would have done the same thing. I don't even answer questions anymore, cause those time wasters are rampant. My real buyers don't converse at all.
@ratchuk2023
@ratchuk2023 25 күн бұрын
Totally agree. I’ll answer once in a blue moon when I’ve missed important info. Otherwise I don’t answer any messages. They’re rarely genuine buyers, probably less than 1 in 100 in my experience
@k.y.6148
@k.y.6148 21 күн бұрын
I sell way more than I buy, so I understand, but with that policy, you have to be very sure to include ALL details that might matter in the listing. Many times when people ask a question, it's because I get in a hurry and miss something.
@gemeni-dreams
@gemeni-dreams 25 күн бұрын
I am so glad to hear that I am not the only one that will remove the item! After so many questions ⁉️ it's likely going to be an issue in the long run and a return for sure! Just My OPINION ✅
@nfranks7747
@nfranks7747 25 күн бұрын
Yes, if there is someone asking a lot of questions, then seller beware. What is even worse is when they are just asking a lot of general questions and not about a specific item.
@justdiane1875
@justdiane1875 25 күн бұрын
OMG... yes they are! i had one this weekend be all questiony with me where all their questions were answered in the description. always trust your instints on buyers
@wingzrule566
@wingzrule566 25 күн бұрын
Don't take it down - block the clown.
@YourNaplesRealtor
@YourNaplesRealtor 24 күн бұрын
I believe you have to end the listing and relist otherwise the buyer can still message you because of the original communications.
@Kelly-nd3cz
@Kelly-nd3cz 23 күн бұрын
@@YourNaplesRealtorcorrect
@PattyAnnPatrickThrifts
@PattyAnnPatrickThrifts 25 күн бұрын
We actually did that once before as well. The potential buyer became very aggressive in the messages back and forth and we just didn’t want to deal with it so we delisted the item for about a month then relisted and it sold at asking price within a week.
@darkwarrior478
@darkwarrior478 25 күн бұрын
Yes, that is true, they do become the ones that are abusive and leaves negatives, if they actually read then they will know the details.
@chrisf6765
@chrisf6765 25 күн бұрын
I think you did the right thing. And if you felt so inclined, you could even tell them you were, at the least, put off by the discount request AFTER you put in extra effort to test the item for a specific function and they said they'd buy it. I recently negotiated a discounted price and local pickup (in lieu of shipping) for a relatively fragile item I wanted. I was up front in asking for a discount, the seller was agreeable, and we had a seamless transaction.
@ShortCrypticTales
@ShortCrypticTales 25 күн бұрын
I would have raised the price by 5.00 then gave him a 5.00 discount🤣
@MitchBarker-lv2px
@MitchBarker-lv2px 25 күн бұрын
Absolutely, more questions = Greater percentage chance of returns. Therefore I get to a point that eventually I just block them. I have a canned response, I eventually send them: "It appears you are hoping to a find a practically new item at a used price. To insure that your purchase meets your expectations, I would suggest going ahead and purchasing new". - And then I block them 😊
@dash_rabbit
@dash_rabbit 25 күн бұрын
Noice!
@sewinghomegoodsmarymichaud8632
@sewinghomegoodsmarymichaud8632 25 күн бұрын
Thanks, Dave. I can't wait to get the warmer 😀
@kenblosser6434
@kenblosser6434 25 күн бұрын
I sold books, usually in lots. My description was usually "These are used books and may have some creasing to covers, yellowing pages, and names or numbers written inside. If any of the books are in worse condition, eg, torn or loose pages, heavy staining, etc, or heavy wear, I'll put a description on that book" (I always listed the books in the description). It wasn't often, but I'd still get questions. Are there torn pages? Are the books falling apart? I'd usually respond to please read my description. I don't list things that aren't wrong with the books. I usually didn't block them until they sent me more stupid questions.
@rachelo3548
@rachelo3548 25 күн бұрын
I block annoying people.
@skydmark
@skydmark 18 күн бұрын
I appreciate the Back Pain Podcast portion, a few years ago I messed up my back largely from having a desk job I think. You mentioned in another video about sitting on your foot, which I'm literally doing as I type this. I too suspect a bulging or herniated disc but the pain is super manageable especially when I stay mobile. All that to say, I hear you and good luck.
@heathersmenagerie8077
@heathersmenagerie8077 25 күн бұрын
I don't do any additional, because that don't buy, then asking for a discount would land them in blocked jail.
@cindydemanche3839
@cindydemanche3839 25 күн бұрын
Resolutions for me are to list daily, (I have a lot), spend time each day reading and working on crafts (crocheting now). Staying on track with my Ketogenic way of eating (4+ years now and down 100 lbs) and getting back to tracking macros to break a long stall!!
@thomasfrench2012
@thomasfrench2012 23 күн бұрын
I had an item for just under $20 that I put on sale at a whopping 50% off. Less than an hour later I get a message saying seven dollars. Nothing else, just that. I responded by thanking them for their interest, and saying that I had just put the item at 50% off, which was already a great price. And that I would accept nothing less than the current sale price, stating it to the penny. What happened? Two hours later I got a second message from them, eight dollars. At which point I was absolutely sure of what I had suspected before. Namely that I never wanted to sell them anything because I would only regret it. So on the block list they went, all for less than three dollars while already saving ten!
@MaryNewton-nu2cg
@MaryNewton-nu2cg 25 күн бұрын
So very true. The more questions it usually does not end well.
@billynaylor1254
@billynaylor1254 25 күн бұрын
I would have blocked too. People don’t appreciate the time, gas, and money it takes to get items to list.
@socalogp7296
@socalogp7296 24 күн бұрын
Great job Dave! You dodged a bullet for sure. Block the bidder and then relist. It will make them crazy that they can see the item but can no longer purchase it. 🤣✌
@pufles65
@pufles65 24 күн бұрын
Happy New Year Dave to you and your family! I hope your back is better real soon 💐🙏🎉🎊🍾
@Wendy-Go-0411
@Wendy-Go-0411 25 күн бұрын
I answer reasonable questions but if it goes beyond that...delist and block.
@patricksgarage9416
@patricksgarage9416 25 күн бұрын
just block the buyer
@emilybishop3773
@emilybishop3773 25 күн бұрын
I like to hear all of your pain problems. It makes me feel better about my own. I'm 43 and I feel your pain!
@thepokemondentist4677
@thepokemondentist4677 25 күн бұрын
After a few questions along with the discount question I block them
@rossoreilly2121
@rossoreilly2121 22 күн бұрын
The ones with the multiple questions seem to always be an issue for me. It’s usually on a cheaper item and they never buy it straight up.
@MikeMetco
@MikeMetco 25 күн бұрын
I had a Denon receiver listed for $35 parts only. Big sucker, very heavy. Guy from Poland messages me asking what state it was in. I followed his request and reported the results. He said shipping costs were prohibitive (true), and could I remove HDMI board and ship just that (like it was 2 screws to remove it- it wasnt) Sent him pictures. Told him I wasnt willing to take the time and risk to take it apart (Knowing the probable outcome), and to just take it whole or not at all. Thought I was done with him, but he messaged me one last time with another request. He asked if I could bring it to a friend of his in England who would be willing to remove the board. You cant make this stuff up. LOL MIke from NY
@kanon6362
@kanon6362 25 күн бұрын
...but England ia JUST ACROSS THE POND!! ;)
@findsanddeals
@findsanddeals 23 күн бұрын
I've blocked a buyer in cases like that, but then in some cases, I did actually take the item down as well. Relisted it a few days later, and sold it to someone else.
@nickythethriftygramma
@nickythethriftygramma 25 күн бұрын
I would have removed the item and relisted it for more money. Once they start being snarky it's a no for me.
@fldriverssmh380
@fldriverssmh380 25 күн бұрын
Just block that guy. He's a PITA, and you don't want him buying something else in retaliation.
@Kens-bin
@Kens-bin 25 күн бұрын
Just went through that, and I said, "Please buy from another seller .
@kathleenanderson4008
@kathleenanderson4008 25 күн бұрын
Sleep Number bed helped me.
@ShadowNTime
@ShadowNTime 24 күн бұрын
You did the right thing about that buyer.. and congrats to Tina!
@jeffball-th1mm
@jeffball-th1mm 25 күн бұрын
Been there... Done that several times...
@One-Eyed-Willys-Rich-Stuff
@One-Eyed-Willys-Rich-Stuff 25 күн бұрын
You just know when they receive the item they will say “oh you said you tested it and confirmed it did the thing, it doesn’t do the thing. I’m upset and I want compensation”
@twiddler5593
@twiddler5593 24 күн бұрын
Sounds like you have a bulging disc in the back. Two suggestions: get a velcro back brace to wear when you're going to be on your feet a while or lifting items. This gives your back some support and an opportunity to heal. Also, try the McKenzie Method exercises, specifically the one that is like a pushup from the hip up. This helps the bulging disc shift back into the correct position.
@joannb8195
@joannb8195 25 күн бұрын
Dave, buy a Copper Fit back brace. It saved me. As soon as I start feeling any type of pain, twinge, etc I wear the belt for a few days and it has saved me from my back going completely out where I can't function.
@breezeflippers
@breezeflippers 24 күн бұрын
I don’t generally block people. It’s just not in my nature. I have had a few that I thought would be problems but in the end, they became repeat customers. It’s really how you approach the whole issues. We can’t assume everyone is a jerk because they ask questions. There are some cautious consumers out there that just want to be sure they are getting what they are looking for and not being swindled. Still everyone runs their business different. I have maybe 4 people I have blocked in my years on eBay only because they were just “A”holes. Dave, I hope your back gets better! Happy New Years to you and your family!
@kksmith5160
@kksmith5160 23 күн бұрын
My dad had back issues. He did manual labor. He laid on the floor a lot for relief. He got a jury summons and he called them and told them he could come, IF he could lay on the floor. They said, no that’s ok. 😂
@Patricia-k1t7k
@Patricia-k1t7k 25 күн бұрын
Dave wykyk absolute truth
@elainetuck936
@elainetuck936 25 күн бұрын
I had a MK bag for sale and buyer started with a low ball offer, after politely declining this person continued with 5.00 increments. I became irritated and deleted the listing. I am keeping my bag and now I like it more than ever!
@carrieanneggert5186
@carrieanneggert5186 25 күн бұрын
You shouldn't worry about it. Your action wasn't any different than selling it for the full amount to someone that didn't ask any questions, except that it still needs to be sold down the line. It'll sell fine eventually. Just put it back up once you feel a good enough amount of time has passed.
@stephaniehall8179
@stephaniehall8179 25 күн бұрын
You can block them through ebay message, they added that option so they cant contact or purchase any items in your store.
@Shelby-o3l
@Shelby-o3l 25 күн бұрын
I love how you took control and just removed the item.. 😊
@rjolly87
@rjolly87 25 күн бұрын
The needy questions could swing either way in my opinion, but the discount contingency sends it over the edge for me. Block. Double block when they start raging about communication. Delisting also keeps them from using another account to bypass the block. You did better than I would have 😂
@aceofspades6920
@aceofspades6920 25 күн бұрын
I work retail & I agree the customers you bend over backwards for (Many Questions, Taking forever to buy) are normally the ones who end up returning, having an issue or something with items you did the right thing in my opinion.
@luvmuz40
@luvmuz40 25 күн бұрын
I agree that that problem buyer would have been a further problem after shipping to them. You did the right thing.
@WhatTheFlipDidIBuy
@WhatTheFlipDidIBuy 25 күн бұрын
When it comes to buyers asking questions, I just mostly ignore them. Usually, when I answer the questions, I don’t make the sale anyways. It’s always cheap stuff too. Had a $15 book and someone wanted more pictures of the interior, pictures of the spine to make sure there wasn’t any bend to it, and wanted to ensure there was no writing in the book at all. At that point, they can go buy the book brand new from B&N because I’m not doing all that work for a $15 book.
@sodacityflips
@sodacityflips 25 күн бұрын
I would, and have, done the exact same thing. If you aggravate me, we're done. Delist and relist later. I have no problem with that. Hope your back issue gets fixed, man. I'm at the age where I wake up with my back killing me, so I completely understand.
@joannethomas3609
@joannethomas3609 25 күн бұрын
I agree once the 1k question start.. I don't answer
@diankirkpatrick8162
@diankirkpatrick8162 18 күн бұрын
I'm with you, I don't put up with a lot of questions, I agree, they're not going to be happy once they get it and want another discount etc etc. Sad thing is these type of scammers hurts the good ones that actually is just asking but how do we tell the difference?
@lauramorgan4263
@lauramorgan4263 25 күн бұрын
I find that everytime I go through the trouble of answering multiple questions they never actually buy the item, even with an offer sent with the answer. I am always tempted to just not answer anymore, but I do.
@alphabella2050
@alphabella2050 25 күн бұрын
KT tape is a therapeutic tape that can be applied to the lower back to provide support and alleviate pain. Kinesiology tape. Google and photos of exact area and how to tape. Especially when you are moving things and working. Works
@dawnd9222
@dawnd9222 25 күн бұрын
Would have done the same thing. Anymore people get on my last nerve. For the most part I try to be accommodating but there is a point were I just have enough. If you had a bad feeling trust it. I have never had to block someone but I would if I needed to.
@HelenDickenson-xl9dl
@HelenDickenson-xl9dl 25 күн бұрын
Happy new year Dave and lots of love to u and your family xxxx❤❤❤❤
@Six_And_Twelve_String
@Six_And_Twelve_String 25 күн бұрын
I would have done the same take it down for a few weeks then re-list it back for $5.00 MORE!
@WhatTheFlipDidIBuy
@WhatTheFlipDidIBuy 25 күн бұрын
Rolfing sounds like what I do after I eat too much Taco Bell.
@kens976
@kens976 25 күн бұрын
For your back, you can always try to find a chiropractor that does something known as active release technique or ART... A lot of back problems are due to a tight psoas muscle works... Regarding the buyer, avoid those at all costs. 90% of time it will result in a return and you losing money. And block them.
@relicresells4884
@relicresells4884 17 күн бұрын
We all have bad insurance, even if you’re employed by a great company. Hence the intense debate.
@briansanderson827
@briansanderson827 25 күн бұрын
immediately block these guys - No one insults me and then gets to buy from me - after 5 years I have less than 100 of these guys - listen to Paige he has the best advice on these guys
@bethpenn8204
@bethpenn8204 25 күн бұрын
We sleep on exra firm mattress as well. We also replace ours frequently. We can't move in the mornings if it's not. Def not for everyone lol
@magicz0701
@magicz0701 25 күн бұрын
It happens to me on ebay and poshmark. I just ignore or block
@laurawelch3949
@laurawelch3949 25 күн бұрын
My experience with back pain...Chiropractor! My Chiropractor does ex-ray's on initial visit which show any misalignment as well as degenerative, bulging discs, and arthritis. Then, he will create a treatment plan. Research chiropractors in your area and read reviews. Also ask friends if they have any recommendations for one. Good luck and God Bless!!😊
@Bigbluecowboys
@Bigbluecowboys 24 күн бұрын
I once had the same thing happen to me, so I blocked the buyer after they got rudely upset that I would not accept the lowball offer, after taking time to answer all their questions. About ten minutes after blocking them, I received another message from that same individual under a new user name and account very aggressively upset that not only would I accept their offer, but how dare I block them. LOL so I also blocked that account LOL
@denisebeals289
@denisebeals289 25 күн бұрын
Dave, if it is muscle pain find someone who does Kinesiology tape, also known as Kinesio tape, KT tape, or k-tape, is a flexible, stretchy tape that can help with pain, swelling, and muscle support. I have had it done many times. The 1st time I had it done on my shoulder, I was able to lift my arm up with no issues. Worth a try.
@eleanorrouxel122
@eleanorrouxel122 25 күн бұрын
I think you gave that buyer enough consideration and time, that you did the right thing with taking it down!
@nfranks7747
@nfranks7747 25 күн бұрын
Block the buyer.
@random-acts-of-thrifting
@random-acts-of-thrifting 25 күн бұрын
Dave you’re a spring chicken still. 😂my dad always said “getting old ain’t for sissy’s. “ Happy new year.
@ThriftedSpirit
@ThriftedSpirit 25 күн бұрын
I'd prob block the person lol. Remember your back next time you call Kevin old. LOL I've done the same thing, wait for insurance and do what you can
@ced56
@ced56 24 күн бұрын
I would have not sold it to them. U did the right thing
@Riot_TownTCG
@Riot_TownTCG 25 күн бұрын
"Torn up in the back." Interesting
@eleanorrouxel122
@eleanorrouxel122 25 күн бұрын
My New Years resolution is to not talk to strangers.
@lucyElaine5656
@lucyElaine5656 24 күн бұрын
I understand what you mean about not having insurance. I was without for 1 1/2 years.
@lisabrown7085
@lisabrown7085 25 күн бұрын
Had a buyer want me to accept $70 on an item do they didn’t have to pay as much VAT.
@70Beeboy
@70Beeboy 24 күн бұрын
You handled correctly. Tell dude to piss off. It’s the reason I quit selling,lame people want it for nothing then will complain anyway. The one’s that would ask me about shipping (20 years ago,before calculated shipping) never bid on my items anyway. My theory is if shipping was $12 on a 50 year old chrome item from a classic car is gonna make a difference,you can’t afford it anyway.
@419SportsGuy
@419SportsGuy 25 күн бұрын
Don’t let a bad pre-sale experience impact your store. There are some real doozy of buyers out there. I typically will answer one to two questions and at that point I block them. I’m not gonna take down my inventory because that is lost money. Blocking the person Just loses me a potential headache.
@cathleenjones8973
@cathleenjones8973 25 күн бұрын
I have had the same experience with the needy customers
@lostworldvideogames
@lostworldvideogames 25 күн бұрын
I had a similar situation a while back and delisted the item. The person then went and ordered some other cheap items from my store and messaged me to tell me if I didn’t ship them they would leave negative feedback. I just block the person since that.
@kathleenanderson4008
@kathleenanderson4008 25 күн бұрын
I hate when they ask if you can better on shipping. I ask for their zip code and then pack and weigh. Then they disappear.
@ElectricCityPickin
@ElectricCityPickin 25 күн бұрын
I would have blocked them and left it listed
@adrianveteikis3658
@adrianveteikis3658 25 күн бұрын
I have delisted before in a similar situation
@etlnyr74
@etlnyr74 25 күн бұрын
you also need to get deep tissue massager in the injured area that really helps with recovery
@wcollins4191
@wcollins4191 25 күн бұрын
If it has more than three questions I generally get slower on response.
@rjolly87
@rjolly87 25 күн бұрын
For diet, I loved Keto, especially before getting treated for ADHD, especially since it helped my energy levels and reduced brain fog. I would start dropping carbs and roll in to keto before fasting. One demon at a time, and more stable blood sugar from keto contributes to fasting success
@bonniemck8987
@bonniemck8987 25 күн бұрын
I block those type too lol
@mediapicker2205
@mediapicker2205 25 күн бұрын
I would've blocked the buyer, especially once they complained about the communication. You should look at their feedback left for others to see how bad of a buyer they are.
@saladboy1841
@saladboy1841 24 күн бұрын
I don't know if it's just me but testing and responding to questions if not a hard job. I'd like to know what you think about roofing.
@FairLady107
@FairLady107 25 күн бұрын
I mean block seems like a good idea but can't they just get a guest account and buy it anyway?
@TheLakeTahoeFlipper
@TheLakeTahoeFlipper 24 күн бұрын
I would not have sold it to them either, and then I would block them.
@k.y.6148
@k.y.6148 21 күн бұрын
I can tell by the kind of questions they ask if they will be a problem after buying. Some people you can tell will never be happy, and do not want to take ANY risks. I block them! I also charge more shipping than I know it will cost, then refund excess amount over my expenses. I say this in my listings. Just wondering if you have any kind of inventory system so you can find sold items?
@alphabella2050
@alphabella2050 25 күн бұрын
Your skill is clearly filming and editing... No wonder, you are in the best way into good sound and AI is your BFF... 💙 I can't help but to call the three of you... The 3 D🩵CK'S 🤓 You need merch... thanks for the laughs.
@vandiggypvb
@vandiggypvb 25 күн бұрын
I would have blocked them way before took down the item. Most of the time, waaayyyy too many questions ends up being a problem. If anyone ever complains before the buy, 100% block
@pstep691
@pstep691 25 күн бұрын
I thought you said lobotomy certified. 😂 I had to go back and listen again.
@jasteimel79
@jasteimel79 25 күн бұрын
Me too!
@aprilmichele1647
@aprilmichele1647 25 күн бұрын
Same here lol
@donin99
@donin99 25 күн бұрын
Dave... you are finally learning
@dash_rabbit
@dash_rabbit 25 күн бұрын
Lolz, I've delisted, waited a couple days, blocked and relisted 2 weeks later just to get rid of a flaming 🚩 like that. 🤪
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