Mine started at least 33 years ago. It stops now. It stops now... I do it because: 1. Out of boredom 2. I am "better" and have all the answers (superiorty complex) 3. I am more experienced 4. I can change your life, which... gives me... unreal feelings. STOPS NOW!!!!!!
@dranthonyg Жыл бұрын
I hear you ☺️💪
@madamevampsilverkim92422 жыл бұрын
It is very probable that You have the complex because of your brother, and then you both have it because of some dysfunctional dynamics in childhood within your family. It's a coping mechanism. For me, it's a way to find connection with others. The problem is.. we don't always know what others really need, (besides basic body needs) and our help will be really unfitted... after time we will feel drained. In a relationship saviour will feel like is always saving everybody but no one helps or cares about him - it is toxic too :) It creates belief of being morally superior.
@dranthonyg2 жыл бұрын
I hear you! ☺️
@LokiturnedmeintoaFrog Жыл бұрын
What if helping others isn't guys main goal? What if it's the urge to just be seen and phrased as a hero?
@dranthonyg Жыл бұрын
Love this question! For me, there's definitely a need to be seen as someone who is doing good for others. And I've seen this can also be toxic for my relationships if I take it to an extreme. Lesson I learned is to be aware of those urges and unpack them to see where they're coming from ☺️
@LokiturnedmeintoaFrog Жыл бұрын
@@dranthonyg Thank you❤️
@Mangothewolfbat-bf9pt Жыл бұрын
I remember that I used to think about how people would react to what I do ALWAYS in positive light, and it annoys me a lot, I try to slap myself whenever it happens I hate it so much
@ranaal-khaled15492 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for sharing this! May I ask what happened to your interest/passion/career in music? Once again, thank you for this insightful video and beautiful storytelling
@dranthonyg2 жыл бұрын
Ty so much for the encouragement!!! I'll do a separate episode on my work in the performing arts soon! ☺️☺️☺️
@polak565654 ай бұрын
I had to save my mom from my father and it never really went away...
@dranthonyg4 ай бұрын
I'm really sorry to hear that. That sucks 😔
@kirsikka3752 Жыл бұрын
Is there any video or channel about how to cope as a savior's friend? Is there any hope for that relationship and on what terms?
@dranthonyg Жыл бұрын
This is an amazing question!!! I'm going to film some new videos next week and I'll put this at the top of my list!!! Ty! ☺️
@kirsikka3752 Жыл бұрын
@@dranthonyg Thank you very much! I met my friend when I was quitting my relationship with a narcissist. We got close very quickly. I thought that we are like dear sisters and helping each other and experiencing life together, we both had difficulties but also very good times together. Then she switched me to other, who is in tragic situation and I am healing/healed and I want to move on from being a victim of a narcissist.
@dranthonyg Жыл бұрын
@@kirsikka3752 that sounds really tough. I'm sorry that happened! You are strong!!! 💪💪💪
@zekeuchiha14492 жыл бұрын
Here you go 1k subs just for u
@farahk7139 Жыл бұрын
what is this dialect ? american ? anwys you're awesome
@dranthonyg Жыл бұрын
It is American! ☺️ Ty!!! 🤩🤩🤩
@Alphabet72 жыл бұрын
You have a nice voice you
@dranthonyg2 жыл бұрын
Ty!
@Chirokelley2 жыл бұрын
Not Savior Complex dear.
@fatenaljmmal27462 жыл бұрын
What it is then? 😢
@engineeredtruths89352 жыл бұрын
There is a spectrum. It's a cope for narcissistic abuse. People pleasing behaviour
@dranthonyg2 жыл бұрын
Ty for this ☺️ it's hard to put this sort of content out there. I appreciate your insights. I just did a follow-up video the other day if you're interested kzbin.info/www/bejne/jKbTpXhqpN54iNk
@TaxingIsThieving Жыл бұрын
There seems to be some confusion between saviour complex and hero syndrome.