This is no joke...

[@allinyourmind8710]

I've been focusing on myself and every single ex has come crawling back, and some of those connections ended in the worst possible way This is truth ❤

[@truthheals5723]

@@kriskumar3149stop waiting for them to come and doing it for them

[@godsfavcreator]

You still are looking for them and sounding like you are doing the work for them. get to the end state and know it'll happen @@kriskumar3149

[@allinyourmind8710]

​@@godsfavcreatoryes, exactly, I'm not focused on them at all, it just happened naturally when I remembered who I was and the things that make me happy

[@milefunelly]

Yes, it is. As soon as you become the Goddess you deserve to be (not narcissistic or egotistical) they ALL come back.

[@oatsandhoney786]

@@kriskumar3149stop thinking about them. if you were really doing you, they wouldn't cross your mind. it's crazy how easily you can forget people. don't make this hard

[@hemptressco]

Blocked SP bc he was showing up extremely subpar and at first I was sad but it’s nothing I identify with at the end of the day. I know my worth and value and I know how someone needs to show up. No reacting, no yelling.

[@matthewisthebest8152]

Me too love and 3p which I obvs dont accept in my new reality we’ve got this always number one 🙏❤️😊

[@IAm_DylanJames]

If she needs to block him right now because she does not like how hes showing up, she can take on an identity that he will find a way to show up and do whatever he needs to do to get her back. She's fearlessly living in the end of not putting up with BS and expecting him to step up, and in the meantime shes embodying someone that doesn't have to wait for that treatment. She chose to respond in that manner, as long as shes confident with what shes doing, can remain self-identified and know it into being without waiting.. im sure he'll remember an email address or find a way to put a message on her netflix screen name. He'll have to get creative : ) There's no limitation for how things can unfold, living in the end is taking on an identity. That new identity is going to respond, remove or organize itself however it sees fit. It's not about changing anyone outside of you or pacifying anything. If she wants to block him, he'll figure it out! She deserves that, sounds like she's coming into that realization more and more... @@redrumax

[@LoveLeeLirah]

Me Too babe. I just decided I'm done. I'm implementing everything Dylan has been saying lately. I feel like I have been missing out on a beautiful love that I'm giving myself lately because I was too busy focusing on other people to show up for me. This is a beautiful journey.

[@yourhighness_2]

Hi5! Did the same about six months back. Literally glowing up in my own way and gradually shifted all the focus and energy on myself.

[@suzannsez]

Same blocked him last night so over reacting to shenanigans when i create my own life. He knows what I want and expect if he wants to be in my life he knows what to do. Stepping into my queen era

[@Beauty777_]

I feel like I’m in Heaven with all these new posts from Dylan ❤️❤️

[@IAm_DylanJames]

I feel like im in heaven seeing your beautiful face and comment : )

[@Beauty777_]

❤️❤️

[@faviolalopez8951]

Same we need him 😢

[@Thekimberlynicole]

🎉🎉 exactly 😂

[@rae7302]

Literally!!! This is what I listen to when I do my cardio at the gym

[@mstempestous]

Just the statement “ I’m attracted to trustworthy people” helped me so much Thank you ❤️

[@misscleo_]

The part you said its attractive to turn a negative situation into something positive and not make it worse... I needed to hear that. I removed my SP from social media because I was being disrespected. Good thing I walked away in silence. Working on my self concept now.

[@milefunelly]

Dylan, you are on fire. I love your new energy. You’ve fully embodied *Baddie* and everyone can tell. The change in you is sooooo noticeable. I felt it from the moment you started posting again. 🥰 Thank you for changing my life, Dylan. You are FIRE!! *Purrrrrr* ❤️

[@IAm_DylanJames]

Thanks love

[@zanecliffo3685]

Í08iplm Put in

[@zanecliffo3685]

​@@IAm_DylanJames😊

[@SAMMIHODGES-o3o]

Yes!!!!

[@LouisaRubyDDD]

The part where you talked about a society with strong women and men taking responsibility for themselves was beautiful. Really puts into perspective how stepping into our best selves can make the world a better place. Thanks for making the world a better place Dylan! ❤️🌎

[@hersheykisseys]

Agreeeed

[@ariah457]

💯 it all starts with us!

[@anaisd3735]

❤❤❤❤

[@refiloemoremadi7169]

It's my birth month and I'm like fuck it,I'm getting my shit together and that's my birthday present. THANK YOU Dylan🥰

[@leannericher]

I have never seen teeth so white. You are the definition of glow up

[@ladameauxcamelias5054]

Same here 💥💥💥

[@Alomaaarr]

Ugh please never stop doing what you’re doing! I admire your work and you have no idea how much you’ve helped alot of us

[@Thebichoo]

You are the best of all bestest! I hope you make a video on boundaries when manifesting SP. Saying NO and not taking bread crumbles when they come not fully conformed can be hard at times.

[@rosebernard8926]

Its the confidence, love for ur audience and ofcourse the daddy hat for me

[@tiffanybp8320]

We told each other, you are my person. I met him when I was at my highest self, at that present moment. We both weren’t perfect people, but he was sent as a blessing in every way. I didn’t realize how to react to a healthy relationship because my inner child wasn’t heal. I’m the one lashing out now that it’s over & I needed to hear this to remind myself he doesn’t deserve that. He never did. I need to be self aware like I once was for both of us. The universe has been teaching me all these lessons and sending me videos like these. Thank you for being my reminder today. I hope I am blessed with a man just as great as him one day and I realize what I have next time around. & it is real.

[@NJay2000]

Oooooooooh when the daddy hat comes out, y’all better lurn 😅

[@nmania3]

I love this!! I get you. But for me if feels like im gaslighting myself if i act like I'm not bothered by someone not seeing my value or treating me right.. Its like im not acknowledging my inner child. It brings up triggers for the way i wasnt seen or valued when i was younger. Ive realized its not really about the the person but childhood wounds coming up. I wont cuss a person out like I used to bc i can read a person for filth lol( even though I want to) but now i just cry or journal instead and try to affirm my inner child and do affirmations. I like how you said by not address the person, youre showing the other person you respect yourself.

[@truthheals5723]

You’ll get to a point where you don’t feel like you’re gaslighting yourself and be so grounded in how you’re self recognized that anyone trying to come at you sideways will feel like flicking a fly off your shoulders

[@nmania3]

@@truthheals5723 I hope to be there very soon💫🙏🏾

[@underthesea713]

I relate to this. I understand the value in being self-assured and not bothered and everything Dylan teaches, but sometimes I feel like I should still be able to act a certain way and still get the love and treatment I deserve. I don’t want to feel like I’m always wrong for having a reaction, or a jealous moment or something like that. But I feel like I’m getting there slowly. I just basically want to live in a world where I can have my moments and people won’t leave as soon as I’m not being perfect.

[@LupitaVCoaching]

You have no idea how much I love you and appreciate what you do for you and what you do for me. I was struggling so bad. Once I noticed I wasn’t respecting myself it was sooo easy to let that person go and see how I connected with them in the first place. I’m soooo f*** upset with myself. I didn’t leave at first signs of disrespect. I decided to “make the best of it” NOOOOOO YOU don’t make the best of it!!!!!!! YOU LEAVE!!!!! First red flags you gotta pivot!!!! DO NOT SAY TO YOURSELF “oh well, f**** they aren’t who they say. I’ll just make the best of it” NO YOU F*** leave!!!!!!!! If you stay that is you not respecting yourself. You’re afraid to leave bc you’re going to feel disappointed, but YOU LEAVE DISAPPOINTED IN THEM not you!!! You leave bc that’s being respectful to you!!!! Don’t do what you always do. Decide to be that version of you NOW. and if it’s over, then be proud of yourself that you have decided to respect yourself or if they left thank the Universe/God that they were removed. Think back at all the times they disrespected you and you did it to you bc you stayed and vow never do that to you again. Bc you deserve exactly what you want!

[@lorenaholanda1504]

I love your posts. I am Brazilian but I speak english and I watch everything and I can understand. Love you, thank you for help me

[@sunrae51271]

I’ve never commented on your channel but want show love because you are the channel getting me through the toughest parts of my life this year. Thank you

[@cannedcondensedmilk]

"there's a lot of things going on in this world right now. and we have 2 choices, we can sit here and perpetuate all of these things, scrolling through tiktok looking at all this negative shit, being a part of the problem. or we can value ourselves, respect ourselves, rise above it, set a new example, set a new standard, know it into being, and be a part of the change. but it all comes down to making those internal changes first." - by far THE most profound part of this video

[@alejandraatencio5736]

Dylan you’ve truly changed the woman I am, through your videos, the sleep tapes, everything. Thank you❤

[@LaylaLux777]

Dylan you’re the only manifestation coach that I actually get and understand. Thank you so much for your videos.

[@charisma1349]

Thank you daddy ☺️ I have learned the hard way that at some point self respect must be more important than feelings.

[@dynamicdyke3693]

Decided to show up as the version of myself that values myself fully. Blocked my old SP because I didn’t feel valued and felt like a back up plan or a second choice. Said, enough of this! Decided it’s time to CHOOSE me and know that I DESERVE BETTER and not someone who makes me feel like I’m not valued! Fuck that! I value myself. I know you’re gonna be thinking about me because you didn’t value me! Im a GEM and I’m UNFORGETTABLE!! I love this version of myself.

[@jeremyandmary02]

I love your channel! You got life figured out and since I have put your practices in order, my life is shifting

[@IAm_DylanJames]

Im happy to hear I can help!!

[@CelinMonique]

Dylan your videos keep me afloat! ❤

[@IAm_DylanJames]

Happy to help boo

[@LPRN615]

I love these videos, you can manifest all you want, but you won’t be living your best life until you know your value and worth. You must love yourself first, respect yourself. And no one deserves to be treated like 💩.

[@ng-marc]

🎯 As an INFJ, patience with others is both an asset and a liability. Those who violate healthy boundaries deliberately and intentionally, walk themselves directly into a #DoorSlam Communicating boundaries and giving everyone an opportunity to reveal their character. Responding with compassion and unconditionally love regardless of others. Everyone is learning and growing on their own personal journey home. Fantastic channel. Thank you for sharing your gifts with us all. #Respect #Love #Gratitude

[@quantumbae]

Love this era of videos on self worth! Thank u king 👑

[@IAm_DylanJames]

: )

[@Phenomenal881]

we truly love and need it

[@thatvegassmile]

Thank you for posting so much for us ❤

[@IAm_DylanJames]

Of course : )

[@she-surrendered1234]

Dylan, today, I REALLY needed “Daddy” energy! Like the kind where you can just go curl up into your dad’s strong arms and cry it out. And he just holds you and reminds you that you’re beautiful and everything will be okay…. My dad and I aren’t on the best terms and we’ve never had that kind of bond but your videos give that energy! Your hat is suitable. 🙂 Thank you!!!

[@Magicalfluidprocess]

This is really insightful thanks Dylan , what a truly amazing guy you are , much love from Liverpool

[@IAm_DylanJames]

Aww. Thank you! You got this, too.

[@Magicalfluidprocess]

@@IAm_DylanJames Iv had a really tough time the last few months , you have been such a help , I really mean that 👍💙

[@anaisd3735]

Ahh i lived 1 year in liverpool . 😊😊😊😊

[@Magicalfluidprocess]

@@anaisd3735 good people nice place ( mostly 😄) 👍

[@anaisd3735]

@@Magicalfluidprocess yes definitely

[@MalenaW1111]

This was simply the most important video I have watched so far!! Such a powerful message ❤❤❤

[@acrosstheeuniverseeee]

just realized everything unfolded and the way i perceived it and even reacted is because bc i don’t feel enough or chosen, i thought it was a multititude of other things but i swear it came out my mouth literally saying “i’m not enough” without even realizing it … it’s so deep rooted . but now more than ever i wanna change the beliefs maybe when i know my worth i won’t even care about this person and when they do show up how i want i’ll prob won’t even care it’s really about you it may feel it’s not but it’s come back to beliefs dylan has never told us a lie

[@la_princesse_des_beauxarts]

THANK YOU DYLAN you’re elite 🌅⚡️

[@IAm_DylanJames]

[@FelicianaSimoncini-jv8op]

Thank you thank you thank you! You keep it real to the point where it just makes sense . With love from London 🇬🇧 ❤

[@yasmineswrld]

i’m so glad you started making videos ❤️

[@IAm_DylanJames]

[@haninboukhris8729]

thank you so much for the sleeping affirmations, i was trying to find good affirmations but they were so hard to find and yours are AMAZING seriously you're a life saver

[@ruchis2687]

That smile in the beginning though, ❤

[@poulinanolsehansen7600]

I like the tough love, sometimes we need to look at the hard truth before we can start making changes in life

[@Agiiii11]

Yes 🎉🎉🎉🎉 He post daily❤❤❤

[@IAm_DylanJames]

Ya'll asked where I was so what's good :o Tehe

[@Agiiii11]

AHaha 😂 Amazing come back 🔥🔥

[@carlap0zo]

So much wisdom ! Everything clicks in my brain so easily now ❤ thank you Dylan 🎉

[@branmerr]

I have been having a rough 24 hours. I needed this inspiration today in order to peacefully maintain the new boundaries I have recently established in a situation that has been difficult for me. Thank you for this! 💕 Be the change!

[@quirkyvixen]

Your wisdom , strength and clarity is such a force of powerful good in this world, Dylan. You have a profound mission. ❤ So inspired and grateful to you for the work you do to uplift society. I've been seeing huge shifts that I didn't think were possible, a few weeks ago , after I started listening to you and playing the overnight tapes. So very thankful. More power to you ❤

[@naturallybecoming831]

Thanks daddy you helped me understand more clearly why I don’t need to react or engage with a lot of the things I was still experiencing m. Just listening to you made me get emotional I’m starting to see how it feels to genuinely value and respect myself❤❤thanks for being an example for us

[@membering]

And again.... We love you, Dylan! ❤

[@micaelameneses2514]

Uh Dylan… minutes before you post this I had my moment of “that’s enough! I decide what I want to experience in my life!”. In that moment… oh boy. I really felt like a baddie. Deciding what I want and persist is self-love! I now realize that!! Nobody can mess with my reality! Bitch, I’m the motherfu**ing prize!

[@LadyRosaleee]

Literally SAME! What a gawddamn good feeling! ❤

[@jackiek4159]

I was literally just thinking of you and you posted! So blessed! 🙏💕✨

[@sparklingwater5198]

THE DADDY CAP IS BACKK

[@Cheese___puffs]

Dylan’s new Podcast make me feel like “ all is well!”❤🎉❤🎉

[@zanecliffo3685]

3 yrs later and i finaly understand everything is you pushed out. When u fpcus on u you work out how u feel bout urself why u want a relationship etc what u deserve want from one. Why do u want one etc then u will start showing up for urself. Then any negarivebehaviour from an sp u wont hope theyl change uv changed u dbt tolerate it they either come correct or ur out.

[@CG-wr4no]

It's on! Feeling the change!! Woooo

[@rehddbarbiee8262]

Starting by saying I absolutely love you and what you do for people you’re literally so amazing and genuine ❤ I’ve been trying to work on myself for years and I seen quite a bit of change but always got triggered and reverted back to my old ways and it became a cycle. I now started doing affirmation tapes while I sleep and my dreams went from bad to good and I’m a lot better with handling things that trigger me although I’m not perfect So my question is… is it better to listen to a smaller amount of affirmations on a loop in a sleep tape or does it not matter how many you put in there? I’ve seen a lot of other people saying if you listen to a lot of affirmations all at once it doesn’t work as great 😅

[@meganjohnson9540]

When you’re right, you’re right. Thanks for saying it in a way I could hear. Thank you!!

[@zeniascreativespace3890]

This is so true! Yes, the world is shifting and changing as always (I feel like it’s for the better) the most powerful thing we can do, though is live and show up as the example for the world we want to live in. I think that men and women and everyone of any identity can accomplish great things together by simply setting the standard and the example, creating massive change on a personal level and a society level. This hit very hard ❤ Be the change!

[@Tnc874]

I had to delete his number so i could really get a grasp on self soothing. Im new to this, and my subconscious has really been wrecking havoc. But either way, im working on my internal wiring. I see him at work a few times a week. We always speak if we cross paths. But i stopped calling and texting. He told me from the beginning that his dad had recently gotten sick and he had some family stuff. We arent even dating, just speaking. I know that there are things about me that he is attracted too. He compliments me on what im wearing or tells me my hair looks cute and stuff like that. The last time we had a conversation he mentioned us going to a movie and if i liked wine lol. I didnt ask when though.. maybe i should of. Im 100% sure that i am a good choice as a wife. I know how i am built as a woman. But this inner core wound is triggered af. So im glad i deleted his number. He will reach out eventually. I will get a date with him. He will get to experience me SOOO im focusing on me ❤. And if this doesn't go anywhere then its really his loss.

[@Lilahs_atenn]

Hey Dylan I know you been doing a lot of relationship vidoes but could you make a video on a good lifestyle like manifesting luxury need a good lecture

[@onesoullove1111]

Thank you Dylan this hit me hard being doing inner work and alot of resistance came up cuz I am starting to see this differently with my external reality and trust this

[@nenabishop4482]

Dylan I absolutely love you " This is So much needed for Us Women to Hear 🙏🏼" 🎉

[@melisakran2387]

Thank you so much for being there for us

[@kevNutella]

Dylan, can you do a video on forgiveness? Please

[@freshmintsky]

WHATTTT how what's the Nicky Pierre tea 😭 I LOVED them together. Pierre looks so so loving + soft for him

[@Antonia6826]

I would like to turn it around now. On solo vacation and want him back. I am not in contact with him right now.

[@dreambig911]

Can I just continue to persist in "I Am in my dream relationship" and assume the limiting beliefs will iron out themselves? Or do I need to become aware of the limiting beliefs I have around love , romance etc.? Sometimes it feels overwhelming to do that and feeds in to the story that it takes 'time'

[@sakyqueen]

🥰💖🙏been hanging out with your everyday, feels like listening to a bestie 😊🌞 You are the best, love your personality and energy, ty for making my world better 💖🥰🌟

[@raksh-rb]

Was watching all ur recent videos on loop.. n look another treat!! 😍❤️

[@IAm_DylanJames]

;)

[@dravenburfiend9759]

You are amazing Dylan ❤ It's time we change this world!

[@susansherman9929]

Amazing message. Thank you for what you bring to all of us.

[@Evolveyouawakened]

You are heaven sent i so love you 🥰🥰 you have taught me how to show up properly for me ...and not demand it from out there thank you

[@kchan1065]

Dylan, you’re smile makes me melt. Thank you for everything you do and I’m loving the new videos 🙏🏻❤️

[@oceanpearlss]

Thank you, deeply! lots of love Dylan, I am greatful for you and your messages

[@deepti9127]

Wow this is so spot on thank you so much. I know I’m on the right path ❤

[@KatherineElizabeth333]

I've been subscribed for around 2 years and I think this is my favourite video you've ever done...I especially loved what you were saying towards the end about how individual self-respect can influence society as a whole. Thank you for all that you do Dylan, you have helped me so much ❤❤❤

[@brandybarnes63]

Thank you for this. This spoke life into me❤

[@ivexoxo]

What should I do if my sp finally changed the way I want but I also want revenge while also wanting them? Should I let the past go and see his growth instead?

[@kanupriyamittal1998]

Harnessing self love, self-trust and humility within is the only type of revenge that is worth it, so go ahead and take this kind of a revenge!💛

[@godsfavcreator]

Wanting to get revenge and holding grudges will only keep you in a lower state of being. Just let go of the hate and resentment

[@ivexoxo]

@@kanupriyamittal1998 that was so sweet 🥺

[@misspriss8885]

@@kanupriyamittal1998love this 🥰

[@user-th3ez5sj9y]

Revenge ain’t worthy ! The best thing you can do for yourself is work on you, grow and mature

[@Ice_Walker]

Thank you!

[@breakthrough1019]

I so happy I stumbled on your channel Dylan you deserve all the recognition … you are helping me with self belief .. thank you

[@brookebenton8192]

Dylan, on time as always 💖🔥

[@dimaawad7725]

Thank you so much Dylan. I love you!💗

[@lunabaggins5522]

Dylan you are doing God’s work❤

[@amyhodapp784]

Thanks Dylan! I AGREE with everything you have to say and it's encouraging to hear this message.

[@phynekat]

Yasssssssss Dylan every day ❤❤❤

[@veraswart6129]

Your videos always show up exactly when I need it ♥️ thank you for sharing your light with this world

[@trenarichard9000]

This is the best video that I have seen in a long time heart❤

[@underthesea713]

Love you Dylan, thanks for everything 🫶🏻✨

[@Divine_Intentions]

Thank u boo

[@pemmylewis2861]

Love your vision very much!

[@LaDiam-jz2jk]

Thanks girl

[@mckennas3139]

This video is pure gold! Thank you!

[@kimchi-of8vk]

So thankful for you and your videos 🙏✨🌞

[@IAm_DylanJames]

Thank you for being here

[@EmilyGardu]

That face and that mindset: purrrrrr❤🔥

[@kimberleygaleano8044]

Thank you Dylan ❤❤❤

[@LAdreaming19]

So there is a 3p and i keep getting so jealous and having thoughts he likes her better, and thatbthey are close and he prioritises her and i want it to stop stop stop - its the thought of them being close it makes me feel i cant have him all to myself. It makes me feel sick and anxious and cry

[@benwags12]

Dylan, thank you for everything. The universe sent me your channel exactly when I needed it ♥️

[@thelovespiritualist]

So much gratitude to you Dylan. You're the inner voice that keeps me going❤❤

[@saaararararararararr]

Dylan u are slaying so hard! Appreciate your posts so much!!!

[@itsflyfo]

Dylan, how can one put their value into perspective? Are we all worth the same? Do we all deserve the best treatment? Isn't it egotistical/prideful in and of itself to think that? This is not rhetorical, I am genuinely personally seeking a healthy approach on this matter. Perhaps you could dedicate a video on this? Thanks!

[@truthheals5723]

That is exactly what he’s saying… women that value themselves properly will inspire and create change for men to value themselves properly and peacefully coexist with respect among each other. That is a self-identified and self-evaluated way of valuing yourself. You have to discover what you believe you’re worth.

[@CV99999]

Dylan out here as a LIGHT WORKER ✨ He is doing the world a service as a messenger, healer, mentor, coach to bring forth the best in ourselves, and thus society. Much love 🤍🤍🤍

[@ellefaitdesvideos1619]

We love you !!!!

[@kmbrlia]

I agree I love how you’re back with this content ✨ this is part of my daily motivation, thank u ❣️

[@user-hs3ez3sq6j]

Dylan, I have been so curious to ask you for a while - your background with the city skyline/buildings looks so beautiful, dreamy, futuristic and sci-fi esque. Are you still in the US or in a foreign country? x