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Coach Blac - Blacademic

Coach Blac - Blacademic

10 ай бұрын

This is the EXACT moment that your ex will choose to come back to you
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@blacademic
@blacademic 10 ай бұрын
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@kristinaldridge1712
@kristinaldridge1712 8 ай бұрын
What about a video when you're the dumper because your guy wasn't committing. Does no contact work to make them come back and up grade you?
@ronyjean-mary5582
@ronyjean-mary5582 7 ай бұрын
Should no contact continue through the holidays. What if they reach out to you? Ignore them? Help!!
@angealika
@angealika 2 ай бұрын
I appreciate your perspective, I feel there’s some extra relevance from you since my ex spent the first 30 years of his life in Nigeria. We were together 5.5 years, I finally went no contact a week ago. In hindsight I don’t know who broke up with who, it was messy and awful, I’m so confused.
@NanseaCarmichael
@NanseaCarmichael 10 ай бұрын
I'm back together with my ex after being broken up for a year. I tried for 2 months to stay connected, then went no contact for 6 months and worked on myself. When I finally felt strong enough I reached out to him and he was receptive. We started hanging out, talking and building a friendship. Four months after reconnecting he told me he wanted to get back together. The year we broke up was very difficult, but ended up being a blessing because I found my worth and value. Our relationship is better than ever. Please take the time to take care of yourself. Stay strong!
@bryan_832
@bryan_832 10 ай бұрын
Hey, big fan of your success story, is it ok if I ask you for some advice @nanseacarmichael
@undead600
@undead600 10 ай бұрын
That's a great thing, I'm in the same situation, girlfriend asked for a pause, she said she wants to start all over, we are separated since beginning of March, it was hell for 2 months, I know what I did wrong, we never had any fights but we matched a lot, both of us never had anyone matching in so many , I can't forget her and I hope she will be back sometime, never felt this in any of my previous relationships
@tonuma3537
@tonuma3537 10 ай бұрын
Did your ex had a rebound during the breakup? @ Nanseacarmichael
@brendonmccluskey665
@brendonmccluskey665 10 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing. I've been in no contact for almost four months, and it's been rough. I know I still have a lot of work to still do to better myself. Your story gives me a boost of hope that my ex and I have a chance of getting back together. Again, thank you for sharing.
@SVAsianPhilippinesGo6858
@SVAsianPhilippinesGo6858 9 ай бұрын
Aww I always appreciate happy endings like this. I'm glad it worked out for you guys. Best of luck to you both. I don't know if I would go back to an ex. They already showed you how much they "cared" when you needed them the most. I hope this time, it DOES last for you guys but I honestly don't know the success rate of second chance relationships. Just being realisitc.
@richardouellette4041
@richardouellette4041 10 ай бұрын
“Your ex right now is acting like a toddler” truer words have never been spoken 😅
@blacademic
@blacademic 10 ай бұрын
Haha trust me, I know
@CatwalkPurz
@CatwalkPurz 6 ай бұрын
@@blacademic😂
@ehiemobigoziem767
@ehiemobigoziem767 4 ай бұрын
😂it's the toddler that amuses me 😅, that's so true I guess I will strive it's been a month of no contact, thank you sir
@MG-gq2rs
@MG-gq2rs 3 ай бұрын
💯
@extisco1
@extisco1 10 ай бұрын
My ex and I went through separation and then broke up. We both had things going on that were affecting us and had a big loss in communication. No contact was done in both scenarios. She reached out. We started texting, met up in person and now working back to being better for eachother. She loves the way I have always treated her. All I can say is be patient and don't rush. It's hard but patience will pay off. Know your value and what you brought. If it was positive, things will come together within divine timing. Don't dwell on the past and work toward a better tomorrow. You can't move forward if you're constantly looking back. Be a better version of yourself going back and make sure they are doing the same. It takes two on all ends for it to work out.
@christianmarrero3205
@christianmarrero3205 9 ай бұрын
Thank you sir
@Sahdemir94
@Sahdemir94 4 ай бұрын
And what doe you think about toxic long relationships around 9 years with two children. Can this happen?
@alchemicalsoul
@alchemicalsoul 10 ай бұрын
This is brilliant. I walked away two weeks ago after being offered a placeholder situationship for the second time. I took a little over two weeks to immerse in the grief process. Today I'm singing again, I value my strength, I'm envisioning my future, and I feel content on my own. Walk my People. Walk away and have ZERO expectations except living life on your terms.
@Jakilyn
@Jakilyn 10 ай бұрын
🙌 My timeline & situation is very similar to yours. I admire your strength & hope I can get there too! ❤
@valentineamartey9717
@valentineamartey9717 10 ай бұрын
I did the same thing almost four months ago. Just a word of advice..at first you feel strong, but there will be times when you question your decision. Stay strong it's just your psyche trying to play tricks on you. Especially during the times when you feel lonely. Stay strong! You got his.
@alchemicalsoul
@alchemicalsoul 10 ай бұрын
@@valentineamartey9717 Thank you. I've already healed up. I'm focused on my business and moving toward financial abundance. I was the problem because I was allowing toxic behavior. I'm not a victim, and my life is my responsibility. Their behavior triggers the healing process. I'd been in it for 2 years to date on the 29th of Aug. This was the final chapter. Best to you on your journey.
@maryjaneaalston1959
@maryjaneaalston1959 10 ай бұрын
Omg..me 2 I would not accept a side chick place holder position,,I'm proud I said no I walked away
@taraminsalee6374
@taraminsalee6374 9 ай бұрын
1 and half a week for me. 🎉🎉❤
@latinsensationgurl27
@latinsensationgurl27 10 ай бұрын
Coach Blac is spot on!!! My ex came back after 3 months!! Strength and patience is 🔑 know your worth and keep it moving and you will be surprised what that does to you! ❤
@droflivelife
@droflivelife 10 ай бұрын
3 months into no contact with my dismissive avoidant ex. She's moved on and I'm dust to her. I've watch hundreds of these videos but I'm still traumatised.
@Sahdemir94
@Sahdemir94 4 ай бұрын
How long were you together?
@droflivelife
@droflivelife 4 ай бұрын
@BenderBekdemir hi we were formally together a year but also 6 months leading up to that we were best friends seeing each other every day. She was taking marriage, kids, rings a day before, I was taking to her family all the time. Any way, it's been 8 months. We had one chat, and she has no intention of getting back. I've also realised it's never going to happen. As hard as it was, life goes on. Took lots of healing.
@droflivelife
@droflivelife Ай бұрын
@TANGALOA292 thanks for reaching out. Yes after 5 months I touched base. She was polite and happy to hear from me, however even though she said she was still single, she had no intention of getting back. She said friends would be nice. I was not willing to go down that path again. It's 11 months now and the last couple I have healed a lot. I miss her but I'm no longer traumatised by it all. I'm happily getting on with life. I know now clearly she will most likely never have a long term relationship with a guy that treats her well. I think she is more comfortable with a guy that hangs with his mates and won't threaten her independence. I do wish her well.
@bebeface9822
@bebeface9822 10 ай бұрын
Mine literally came back yesterday 😅 we had a rocky relationship 6 years ago, he says he’s serious about finding a relationship and wants to give it another shot… I want to take things slow, he was my first love
@bebeface9822
@bebeface9822 10 ай бұрын
@@comparecards5688That is so kind of you, thank you 🥹💐
@Ericgodisgood
@Ericgodisgood 10 ай бұрын
Wow mine is stubborn man I wish she would come back I broke no contact she gave me blocked so I had a texting app she just ignored me she is done forever man I hate it
@SeymourKitty
@SeymourKitty 10 ай бұрын
Don't do it he's going to break your heart again. And it sounds like you're not over the first time you broke your heart.
@keithbrockway5759
@keithbrockway5759 10 ай бұрын
After how long apart?
@maxriley3888
@maxriley3888 10 ай бұрын
Youve been apart for 6 years? Or dated her for 6 years?
@morpheus3190
@morpheus3190 10 ай бұрын
Great analogy. I did so much for her to make her life better and easy and I guess she didn’t appreciate it. I retain my value and I am now thinking she doesn’t deserve me. I am realizing that she no longer has much value to me. No contact indefinitely at this point. Stay strong everyone!
@Mummabear543
@Mummabear543 10 ай бұрын
You stay strong too x
@dlyky
@dlyky 10 ай бұрын
She‘ll realize what she lost :)
@user-hh6mb9hr4b
@user-hh6mb9hr4b 9 ай бұрын
You forgot to add a disclaimer that this advice is not applicable to narcissistic/toxic relationships. Go no contact to protect your well being and don’t ever look back.
@its_riyo93
@its_riyo93 10 ай бұрын
Almost 80 days into NC. My ex girlfriend started dating someone new almost 1 month after breaking up with me and is now in a new relationship with her new supply. I can’t take her back any longer but my heart aches for the days we’ve spent together
@Justin11897
@Justin11897 10 ай бұрын
Be strong brother 😁🤝💯❤️💯
@mrwright5892
@mrwright5892 10 ай бұрын
That's somewhat the same thing I'm going thru and its messed up because I was overall really good to my ex but she wanted to be with someone instead of trying to fix what we had so I gotta let go and take time to heal and move on
@jasoncynowa
@jasoncynowa 10 ай бұрын
To: rohatkickboxer Would you be willing to chat with me please? Could really use someone to talk to like you because this exact thing happened to me too. Almost 3 year relationship and a month after breakup she found someone on Zoosk that lives 1 hour from her and I only lived 30 minutes. I'd love to talk to someone that I can 100% relate to. I'll give you my cell if you are okay with talking Thanks in advance and I'm sorry this happened to you also
@sherryldeduyo9574
@sherryldeduyo9574 10 ай бұрын
Let's all stay strong and take it one day at a time ❤
@mrwright5892
@mrwright5892 10 ай бұрын
Its just really hurtful that you can really love someone and would give them the world but once something doesn't go as planned they just mistreat you different and move on to the next
@oliviamoore5328
@oliviamoore5328 7 ай бұрын
I’ve invested so much and I’ve changed so much to comfort the person I love. I know they felt they did the same. I need to focus on my own health and well being regardless. I wish I could turn my brain off for a while, so tired ❤
@DanielRivera-hi3gn
@DanielRivera-hi3gn 10 ай бұрын
At this point I could careless because I've learned so much about myself and deep down inside I deserve so much better than how she treated me
@edwinhernandez5581
@edwinhernandez5581 10 ай бұрын
I AM WITH YOU ON THIS ONE. I FEEL THE SAME WAY AS YOU.
@DanielRivera-hi3gn
@DanielRivera-hi3gn 10 ай бұрын
@@edwinhernandez5581 I hope God puts the right woman in your life. I wish you the best
@edwinhernandez5581
@edwinhernandez5581 10 ай бұрын
THANX BROTHER, LOOKING FORWARD TO IT, GIR HAS NEVER FAILED ME.
@DanielRivera-hi3gn
@DanielRivera-hi3gn 10 ай бұрын
@@edwinhernandez5581 he knows what we are going through. Just stay positive and keep the faith
@andrecrispim3209
@andrecrispim3209 7 ай бұрын
Every one makes mistakes, don’t forget that.
@C-T3KG
@C-T3KG 4 ай бұрын
My ex told me she lost “those” feelings for me after 9 years.. she told me this in December. We have 3 kids together and still live in the same house. We don’t have any hard feelings against each other. She will get a new apartment in march.. and when the day comes I will focus on no contact because I still love here..
@kevunn101
@kevunn101 10 ай бұрын
Lol who would get back with their ex after they’ve dated and slept with someone else? Nah man couldn’t be me
@kasn452
@kasn452 7 ай бұрын
Straight up.
@Slomountainbiking
@Slomountainbiking 3 ай бұрын
Oh, I have a plan😂😂but it wont end well for her
@zayzayrob2904
@zayzayrob2904 3 ай бұрын
If you her body was the main attraction there was a problem.
@free2bme604
@free2bme604 2 ай бұрын
Right ! Nah pass
@sadiqua7
@sadiqua7 10 ай бұрын
I LOVE haggling! My mom is a pro and taught me well! But I will never haggle with an ex..they want to leave? Be gone. I have plenty of options. Yeah I wish he at least talked to me before he dipped, but the fact that he didn’t just makes the prospect of him returning worse imo. I don’t know if I have it in me to hear him out. Cowards can get less value people, I deserve a lot better than the way he did me. And I feel the way you end something should honor what you had and show integrity and care for the other person’s mental health unless something crazy happened to end things. It shows you’re selfish and that’s not a person I can entertain again without a lot of show and prove
@babyluvjr
@babyluvjr 10 ай бұрын
Well said.....well put....facts
@edwinhernandez5581
@edwinhernandez5581 10 ай бұрын
​@@Layla-hg4ux SAME THING HAPPENED TO ME WITH A SKANK
@welcometototalitarianism812
@welcometototalitarianism812 10 ай бұрын
Coach Blac, had to pause the video to make a comment. I NEED this. Thank you SO much. Keep them coming. I can't donate now but I hope to at a later point. I just wanted you to know that your words are encouraging and comforting me. I appreciate how you are pouring into us. I am finally coming out of a bad place. I just need to keep going. God bless you!
@ZanJd
@ZanJd 10 ай бұрын
This man’s advice really works me and my ex girlfriend just talked last night after about a month and we’re going to try again i know it seems impossible sometimes but it worked for me and I couldn’t be happier
@ADORABEL25
@ADORABEL25 9 ай бұрын
Ive lost him due to my ptsd 😭 he can’t handle it anymore.. I sometimes treat him so wrong.. we were best friends love him so much. He told me to work on myself
@beautifulparadise865
@beautifulparadise865 2 ай бұрын
I'm going thru the same, ptsd, 14 years of relationship. She took me in a discussion to reach an episode and left me recently.. I don't know what to do..
@Quanita11
@Quanita11 10 ай бұрын
I love how you broke this down
@roshawngreene7069
@roshawngreene7069 10 ай бұрын
Thank you for this message, Coach Black... I really needed to hear this today 💯✊🏾
@KevinMcClave
@KevinMcClave 8 ай бұрын
Your analogies are great, Coach. They really bring the concepts to life.
@rosalindclemons4529
@rosalindclemons4529 10 ай бұрын
This is great. I love this podcast. Excellent information. I'm going to listen to this one again
@truth7080
@truth7080 2 ай бұрын
Why do they always act like children after they break up with you?
@wakamanrashid
@wakamanrashid 10 ай бұрын
This was an immaculate breakdown. Analogies on point.
@erock1983
@erock1983 10 ай бұрын
Coach, you nailed it as usual!
@vinniem.2462
@vinniem.2462 10 ай бұрын
For me this was of your best messages. All of your videos are outstanding, but this one really struck home. "Never forget your value". I needed that today. Thank You, Coach Blacc..
@romo3418
@romo3418 4 ай бұрын
Mine is as well.. unfortunately I keep breaking no contact. Update?
@gloriamuzquiz1767
@gloriamuzquiz1767 10 ай бұрын
Soooooo helpful to hear. So well articulated. Thank you. I am proceeding with my life, KNOWING my value!
@jakeangermeier
@jakeangermeier 10 ай бұрын
Appreciate you for putting your knowledge, time, and heart into your videos. You have helped me get through, learn, and grow from some hard times 🙏
@user-mu9hw1kc2z
@user-mu9hw1kc2z 7 ай бұрын
Your voice is beautiful. So peaceful.❤
@undead600
@undead600 10 ай бұрын
Dude , coach , you're like a big brother I wish I had
@kellyjford1
@kellyjford1 10 ай бұрын
Man. This landed at the exact perfect time! Thank you!
@blacademic
@blacademic 10 ай бұрын
My pleasure 🙏
@miriamespinoza3766
@miriamespinoza3766 10 ай бұрын
Thank you for this perspective. I agree and the price bargaining was a common thing in my childhood. My parents are from the Caribbean islands and my mom was a pro at negotiating. 🙏❤️
@ashleywilliams3343
@ashleywilliams3343 6 ай бұрын
I love the analogies you give to illustrate your points. It really helps the concept of value even easier to understand. Thank you!
@I.E.I.E.
@I.E.I.E. 10 ай бұрын
Wow! What a POWERFUL and well explained/illustrated course of action. Thank you so much for helping me get back on the right course.
@captainbligh3894
@captainbligh3894 6 ай бұрын
A very calm voice with a concrete message of hope.
@o_The_Hitman
@o_The_Hitman 8 ай бұрын
Brotha! This is the best online dating advice video yet. No games played just facts! Appreciate this one. No science just true facts! They will know and miss what they left.
@hermosotino
@hermosotino 10 ай бұрын
I never said this to a man before but you are gem. Thank you for your humble advice and your father must be proud of you no matter where he is.
@alexsakyiama1769
@alexsakyiama1769 10 ай бұрын
Thank you so much. You have helped me a lot with my ex
@Adaeze.c.n
@Adaeze.c.n 8 ай бұрын
Awwww that shopping at a Nigerian market brought back memories for me 🇳🇬 ❤
@davidcole2530
@davidcole2530 2 ай бұрын
Thanks for all you do,I’m Nigerian as well brother,your channel really made a difference in my navigating this situation
@Heybighead2h
@Heybighead2h 10 ай бұрын
Great example … I’m a damn good negotiator. I can definitely win this!
@suele3474
@suele3474 3 ай бұрын
You have break it down to the most easiest to understand to learn. Thank you so much it’s very eye-opening.
@JenonCo
@JenonCo 10 ай бұрын
This one was well done 🎉 thank you
@eustacesmith9635
@eustacesmith9635 10 ай бұрын
Wow awesome u always on point coach black ❤
@aeb8799
@aeb8799 10 ай бұрын
One of the best videos and i have watched a lot
@terezavalencia2908
@terezavalencia2908 10 ай бұрын
It’s been like many months already. I don’t think he’s coming back. But my ex before this ex added me on facebook 5 years after we broke up. So, they do come back but it may take alot of time. He rejected me and broke me and now he is all alone wishing he had someone. Tables do turn.
@MethodiousMind
@MethodiousMind 8 ай бұрын
Aww, man. Sorry about your dad. RIP.
@BrendonGS
@BrendonGS 5 ай бұрын
Great content bro
@bryceoleski5680
@bryceoleski5680 3 ай бұрын
This analogy in the market was helpful.
@9parasqn656
@9parasqn656 10 ай бұрын
Excellent presentation. My hope has been waning after 10 months apart - but only 4 months NC I'm ashamed to say. Although I have every intention of never contacting my true love again, you have given me a ray of hope that I will hear from her once more. If not so be it, her loss.
@Alice30254
@Alice30254 10 ай бұрын
Ok so this was an Amazing video! Not even taking in my ex at the moment this was So inspiring to watch Coach!! You just made me feel so good lol .
@SuperDrumdrumdrum
@SuperDrumdrumdrum 5 ай бұрын
You are spot on, be good for yourself, magic happens ❤ trust! Look in your own mirror, fix it with love and joy..
@dannycolwell8028
@dannycolwell8028 9 ай бұрын
It’s hard because if I’m taking her word for it, our attraction or relationship was never an issue. It was her work being too draining and her not being able to fit me into her life.
@o_The_Hitman
@o_The_Hitman 8 ай бұрын
She’s an avoidant
@darrylholt4370
@darrylholt4370 10 ай бұрын
Thank You Coach 💯
@myriampatriciarobles
@myriampatriciarobles 9 ай бұрын
Great Video.
@user-nb8fs8cz9h
@user-nb8fs8cz9h 10 ай бұрын
Thank u for the encouragement
@christianmarrero3205
@christianmarrero3205 9 ай бұрын
Thank you this helped alot
@dantenewyork7380
@dantenewyork7380 10 ай бұрын
good analogy with the hundos and retention of value...main facet where it's not an equivalent is that the exes have enjoyed the hundreds and hundreds and hundreds and know - from their past - comparative value - they dont need to experience a monkey branch or rebound to know the value of those hundreds. whereas a stranger on the street may want to avid being conned or being part of a blooper. your pops sounds like a dope cat... wheeling and dealing at the bazaar to setting on fair market. that 'ancient' dance is fun...so long as it's done with mutual respect between buyer and seller and not that stereotypical stinginess that always feels offputting.
@s.aura.h8084
@s.aura.h8084 3 ай бұрын
Thank you for reminding me of my value and worth and how much I invested in the relationship 🙏
@jb3558
@jb3558 7 ай бұрын
this is good and it has worked for me
@picanhapapi
@picanhapapi 10 ай бұрын
Spittin bars
@larrypeeples-yk1rg
@larrypeeples-yk1rg 10 ай бұрын
They always come back
@zebclark9288
@zebclark9288 6 ай бұрын
Very good!
@thunderkat5282
@thunderkat5282 9 ай бұрын
Thank you!!!!!
@user-tc3zq7uy9m
@user-tc3zq7uy9m 7 ай бұрын
Wanna say Amen!!
@edwinhernandez5581
@edwinhernandez5581 10 ай бұрын
I LOVE YOU BROTHER.
@gloriamuzquiz1767
@gloriamuzquiz1767 10 ай бұрын
Thanks!
@peloi111
@peloi111 10 ай бұрын
We went on a 1 month vacation with my gf and it was full of fights and break ups make ups. She treats me with no respect and no appreciation, like if I had no value and she is the catch, even if I know it is completely the opposite. She behaves like this more often the last times, specially when she gets her period. I'm not perfect, I am very impatient, hard with words and cause a lot of arguments but I told her what I think, and she disrespected me even more. She told me to disappear for sometime and come back when I have a better attitude. Your videos are making me consider, that the only way to repair this or the only way forward is to walk away, because trying to fix it just seems to make things worse. If she is blind to all the benefits I bring into her life, she is spoiled.
@SonGoku-ti6xo
@SonGoku-ti6xo 9 ай бұрын
Rip to your dad brother 👊❤️
@sherryldeduyo9574
@sherryldeduyo9574 10 ай бұрын
Thank you Coach Blac, for a very helpful advice, specially in this stage I am healing. After all the cheating he has done, the lies he is denying consistently, I choose to walk away and forgive him even he doesn't ask, for my own peace. Stay strong beautiful hearts, we deserve the right love and it's out there, one day we will be happy and loved the way we all deserve. ❤
@edwinhernandez5581
@edwinhernandez5581 10 ай бұрын
THANK YOU, THAT'S ENCOURAGING
@sherryldeduyo9574
@sherryldeduyo9574 10 ай бұрын
@@edwinhernandez5581 you're very much welcome Edwin
@user-hv7rk8vk4v
@user-hv7rk8vk4v 4 ай бұрын
Amen
@beautyinsoul1055
@beautyinsoul1055 10 ай бұрын
Hi , I'm from India, I always watch ur videos, and I feel confident and comfortable after watching them , me & boyfriend were in A very good relationship for about a year, but slowly he lost interest, by mouth he say that he loves me but by behaviour I feel like he has no interest in me , and slowly there was very less concentration between us, and it's been 27days now he changed the job and dint try to call or msg me once , so I felt ignored and I also never tried to reach him ... I'm following the no contact rule, just waiting for the day if he realises my value and come back ...
@chrissharkey9644
@chrissharkey9644 8 ай бұрын
This is fantastic! Thank you
@valeriebyrd70
@valeriebyrd70 2 ай бұрын
I know what a Nigerian market place looks like - it’s a very crowded area where many people are out hustling or selling foods, clothing, and etc. in this open space and down this long uneven and broken street next to railroad tracks and wet puddles. I want to visit this place .
@christianmarrero3205
@christianmarrero3205 9 ай бұрын
I needed this, me and her where together for 3 years we really loved each other, I still do but I made a few mistakes and she gave me a couple chances for me to change, i was drinking and stop comunicating with her ,and a month ago she broke up with me and 2 weeks after she got into a rebound relationship I been begging her to give me one last chance this past three weeks , I'm starting to realize that I need to do NO CONTACT and work on myself I know its gonna be hard I miss her so much hopefully 1 day she reach out and things
@JerrymonkIII
@JerrymonkIII 10 ай бұрын
Real talk!
@jennifernixon563
@jennifernixon563 10 ай бұрын
Let's here it I'm ready 😂😅
@rietta1166
@rietta1166 10 ай бұрын
Thankyou ❤
@lisarichey7029
@lisarichey7029 2 ай бұрын
We both took each other for granted. I spoke to him cruely and he cheated and fell in love with the other woman. He was seeing someone 10 years before however I found out just recently. I believe deep down I could feel it. And I thought negative attention was better than no attention. He moved me out of our home to move her in.
@guillermosanchez6284
@guillermosanchez6284 10 ай бұрын
Exes don’t come back after a yr of breakup. Too much uncertainty
@Mae.628
@Mae.628 5 ай бұрын
The analogy is top tier! Just a day ago I left him, but we were already not together. I just made an agreement that we will stop the communication once the year ends (2023), to which he agreed, well sort of hahaha. July 2023 he broke up with me but we stayed in contact until November and 1st week of November we were in bad terms that lead him to hang up the video call and by then we stopped communicating. Around December he reached out and I was only able to read his msg 2 days after he sent it. By then that's when I decided about the agreement. He didn't want to since he want me to stay but not saying anything like wanting to get back together, but then I know better and I know I deserve better. His pride and ego eating him up. Strong connections was there. I was waiting for him to say the words, but his ego and pride tho.... So by the time the day came to an end, of course we both cried. His words and actions are telling me he wants me to say, but he didn't say anything that he wants me to. I wanted it to hear from him, but he didn't. So I left, blocked him on New Year. Heart breaking for real, cause I know he loves me still and so do I. But I wanted him to man up and say things, but he didn't.
@rw8907
@rw8907 10 ай бұрын
Coach Blac.. thank you so much for your guidance.. 🙏🏻 I was anxious after my break up and I found your videos and follow through your advice.. my ex broke up with me but kept calling me every night. Eventually I limit his access to contact me and I don’t contact him at all. He gets upset because he think he will never see me again.. wondering why he is upset when he is the one who break up with me?
@anthonyyoung4872
@anthonyyoung4872 10 ай бұрын
I don’t want them nomore for good now its to late
@chrisn4892
@chrisn4892 5 ай бұрын
M subscribing, l like this content. Also, m going through it
@nathanyoungblood6031
@nathanyoungblood6031 10 ай бұрын
Thank you coach. I hope everything is going good for you
@anaaviles6552
@anaaviles6552 6 ай бұрын
Letting go cordially,kindly, even if you deserve to be mad. I just asked him to please leave my key under the rug. It hurt, it took courage from my part. I deserve peace.
@be.spiritlove
@be.spiritlove 10 ай бұрын
Thanks 👍
@paria2582
@paria2582 6 ай бұрын
Thank you
@carlosazevedo8676
@carlosazevedo8676 10 ай бұрын
It's been a month yesterday and still no contact from her, I've been seeing her stories on Instagram and it seems she's doing great without me, it's been 13 years of relationship and it's being very difficult for me to get over this.
@vfletes1
@vfletes1 10 ай бұрын
Same here, 11 years and it's like it didn't matter at all. She left with someone else... It's a fck up feeling but, can't keep someone that doesn't want to be us willingly. Can't Force feelings on anyone...
@carlosazevedo8676
@carlosazevedo8676 10 ай бұрын
@@vfletes1 mine left because he said that our relationship was worn out, he said that he looks back and sees everything he didn't do because of me... and that my attitudes lately weren't the best, and the distance because I was ending a further course that will dictate my future for the rest of my life, it also helped towards the end of the relationship... I've been following the coach's advice, I haven't given her any contact, I haven't unfollowed her on Instagram nor she unfollowed me, and by the way she still has memories on her insta with me...
@remyd1984
@remyd1984 10 ай бұрын
You not meant to be watching her stories! You making contact! She knows you still there watching n waiting to be her next option
@Bblock150
@Bblock150 10 ай бұрын
Anybody can make themselves look great on Instagram. She knows your watching. Stop watching
@slavenpladou2319
@slavenpladou2319 10 ай бұрын
@@vfletes1Same here man. 10 years gone. She went with someone else instantly. They’re still hanging about. He’s just decorated her new house including our sons room. It’s so hard to know we were dropped so easily and so care free. I hate it.
@user-ic6tp8re6z
@user-ic6tp8re6z 5 ай бұрын
Day 5 of Limited contact with the mother of my kids I chased and begged for 2 months but when I found this channel literally 6 days ago it changed my whole aspect on things I have 3 kids with this girl been knowing her since I was 12 we are both 27 been on and off since we was kids and spent 6 years together and she cheated on me 😞 I never got any closure the moment she cheated she treated me like I never mattered she still is talking to the guy that she cheated on me with and honestly they can have eachother I just never wanted a broken family I met her March 2nd 2011 I was going to propose this year March 2nd 2024 but that changed keep yall heads up Kings and Queens Things get better let time run it’s course
@asotelo5432
@asotelo5432 2 ай бұрын
Same shit i’m going through man! 11 year relationship and we have 3 kids together. I was planning on proposing this year as well and it all went to shit at the end of January
@GiorgosYfa
@GiorgosYfa 5 ай бұрын
I tried to make her life easier without understanding the real things she wanted from me. For 9 straight months she kept trying to make me understand what to change but I didn't. I kicked her out instead. Went after her to fix things. I did. She still tried. And then she gave up blocked me. It's been 1 month. I don't think NC will help me
@pereapreala
@pereapreala 7 ай бұрын
my brother how far.. i love your videos..
@graysimpson1525
@graysimpson1525 3 ай бұрын
My ex and I broke up a month ago. It started off as a break and then she just had time to think about it and realized something. The reason why we broke up had nothing to do with us cheating on eachother or losing feelings, she was worried about her parents approval. I chased her and begged for 2 weeks and then I started no contact. Trying to stay strong and work on my self during this time and she will find her way back, because nothing affected our bond. But right now, we are not talking. We only see eachother at school.
@sheddyanikwe5094
@sheddyanikwe5094 10 ай бұрын
Never knew your from my country nigeria 🇳🇬
@lisarichey7029
@lisarichey7029 2 ай бұрын
I will always be sorry
@depressing_reap969
@depressing_reap969 6 ай бұрын
I want to improve myself, train it all, bring her back. Make her ask me, have me in her mind, and when she finally asks to get back together. I'm breaking HER heart as she did to mine.
@only1dimediva
@only1dimediva 6 ай бұрын
Hopefully, when you fully heal, you won't have this mindset, and you can just be at peace with the breakup and won't feel the need to seek revenge. Best of luck to you!
@harrisonsilva5434
@harrisonsilva5434 6 ай бұрын
😂
@Izaiahdokpa
@Izaiahdokpa 2 ай бұрын
Rip Papi!
@rosemarielawrence-ed5jz
@rosemarielawrence-ed5jz 8 ай бұрын
Thank u for genuine words of encouragement 🙏🏾
@Hijabi_girl1234
@Hijabi_girl1234 10 ай бұрын
I wish nc it will work coach nc
@yvonnemagliocco8507
@yvonnemagliocco8507 10 ай бұрын
I was with my bf for 6 YEARS, and he picked a fight with me on vacation in June and broke up with me. I’m heartbroken. He’s told me over and over that I’m the best gf he could’ve ever imagined and I’m one of the most amazing people he’s ever met. I loved him so much. He was pursued by someone else prior to our break up and questioned his love for me. So we are finished and he says he’d love for me to be his friend for now. He’s no longer with the other woman. He took full responsibility for everything that happened and said he desperately needs to work on himself. 💔
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