☘️ THIS Is Why You're Not Achieving Your Goals (& How To Fix It)

[@nedf8668]

Don't break promises to yourself. That's a good one. I do that all the time!

[@GlennMoto]

I once read a related article that said there's "Inspiration." And then there's "Implementation." Inspiration gives us such a good feeling. Implementation can be drudgery at times, so we dread it. We'd do well to get excited about it too.

[@shelleynichols9626]

I’m really loving the more chatty style of your videos in the last few months. Just wanted you to know ❤️

[@user-no7or5tf9v]

I really like the scenery. It is very relaxing serene. I really struggle with completing goals I have set for myself. I would really like to change that.

[@BriarCottage]

Thank you for this video. My work messed up everyone's schedule. The time I have off I am decluttering and organizing my home. I am trying to not stay in bed and sleep all day lol

[@deannaw9657]

Another video chocked full of awesome tips! (Although I think I'm going to have to rewatch it a few times to fully absorb the information!) This hits all the sweet spots in my logical brain! PS... I LOVE Jovi!! 🥰

[@rajeshwarihemmadi3229]

So timely for me when I am thinking of postponing a goal for n th number. I Find ur experiment of 3 hr timer video very helping to keep focus mentally even when attending to “distractions “ of multiple roles

[@ninsartcabinet]

Love the sweater! Such beautiful spring colors 🐣🌷 Great video as always.

[@edelinprogress]

I need to apply this advice to a few projects.❤

[@patriciamoore3166]

Thanks for this - I have ordered the book from my library! I need to reverse engineer my plan to move back to Ireland, just find it overwhelming to make decisions on the What, Where, and When part. The Who and Why parts I have figured out, thankfully! Sigh!

[@goodenoughgirl8102]

I am having the same dilemma, although my “future” move is only from GA to N.C. (USA). Lol. Even just the post covid insane real estate market alone is a lot to take in and think about. Esp since I know zilch about actually buying and selling a home or building or buying land etc. And even just learning the map up there, as I know nothing much about the area really. 🤯🤯

[@patriciamoore3166]

@@goodenoughgirl8102 best of luck with it. I am fortunate enough to be moving back to where most of my family is. In your case, how about doing a few weekend trips to various areas in NC to check them out? Gives you some info then and maybe find a realtor to work with. ☘️☘️☘️

[@goodenoughgirl8102]

@@patriciamoore3166 Lol. Thanks! Yeah my adult son is actually up there already (at school-NC State), so I’ve been back and forth a little bit already. I think that’s actually the next step tho. To actually sit down with local realtors. 😬 I’m still trying to clarity various areas around Raleigh but not right inside of Raleigh etc. Best of luck to you as well! I’m actually looking forward to moving AWAY from where most of my toxic fam is. 😅😅 I’ve done it before but I was a lot younger back then. Lol. And well you know. Just make it last this time and have better preparations in place.

[@RoryRita]

:Laura! I havent seen your videos in a while so I found you. How is your Dad? Are you back home? Hope you are and getting back to normal whatever that is!

[@HannahRainbow88]

Hi Laura, fab video as always, thank you 💗 This book seems like it ties in well (and has some overlap) with Gretchen Rubin's "Better Than Before" where she talks strategies (habit pairing, ease/difficulty, abstainers/moderaters etc) to make new habits easier to form... Have you read it/many of her books? (I think you'd like them - and her - too 😊)

[@goodenoughgirl8102]

Yah. For sure. Tenacity. Pacing. Patience. Finishing. Many goals are more like marathons and not sprints tho. And how you run a marathon is very diff than how you run a sprint race. What is hardest for me is the long term monotony of the grind. My mind just goes straight to “oh no. Not this...AGAIN.” It’s like a blah “time to make the donuts....” yet again. 🙄😅 Starts to feel like a rut or a forever hamster wheel. I start to feel tired and discouraged about ever getting there. I guess I have to admit that I stopped setting a lot of goals. It’s not that I just wander around aimlessly. I think for me, it’s more like a real need to sharpen quite a few of my axes first. And then perhaps I just kind of latched onto how my soul has to come first. Trauma healing. Mental health and training etc. I know not everyone is into Biblical things but one verse struck me as a kind of life motto. “Beloved, I would that you would prosper even as your SOUL prospers.” So I guess until I see the light at the end of this first tunnel, my singular focus is “soul work.” And it’s been a long road indeed tho. It is rather like committing to walking the entire Appalachian trial. So it’s no small undertaking. But what hit me from that one little sentence was how it seems that “prospering” (aka success) in any area of life all starts with the prospering of ones’ soul. To me if I don’t do it this way, it rather seems like putting the cart before the horses or like trying to build the house before I prep the land and build the foundation for the house. Well idk. Hopefully that makes at least some sense to someone. Lol. Well for me personally anyways, as I had to start from a very broken and lame place where even “walking” a few steps forward to anywhere for anything was a huge challenge that often seemed like three steps back over and over. Some types of abuse are truly soul crushing and there is just so much damage repair that must be done and it just affects all areas of life Bcuz as they say. The life is in the blood. (And I’ve been drained and poisoned). A crushed soul is a nasty set up for rampant, repetitive failure and one gets very used to having that label superglued to them after awhile and it’s hard and painful and takes awhile to rip it all off. So...goals. “Live another day without losing your mind.” And maybe “just survive one more day somehow. Don’t let anything ‘end’ you.” Just keep picking away at that superglue garbage/loser/failure label bit by bit. So far so good, as I’m still breathing. Lol. Bcuz when you know you can strongly relate to lyrics like “I’m a loser baby, so why don’t you kill me?” Then you know you’ve got a lot of work to do on that one thing before you can “do” anything else. And when you’ve lost everything, you’re just grateful that you can get anything at all. Any little scrap. Born and raised in the depths of hell and spending decades there. It’s a miracle just to be sitting here right now writing, breathing and feeling alive again. Now finally able to get daily little transfusions of hope into me again and driving the poison and venom out of me daily.

[@1012chart]

Wow! Excellent ideas thanks for breaking them down and making them easy to understand

[@cynthiabotsko2449]

Yes! ❤️♾️❤️ Love this😎 Thank you for talking about this!

[@jeanetteagain6631]

👏👍💕🙌thanks I was watching g your old videos and cleaning but I can’t sign so I piped in to comment and thank you

[@aryanm416]

This sense of being wronged is a simple awareness problem. We need to remember that all things are guided by reason-but that it is a vast and universal reason that we cannot always see. That the surprise hurricane was the result of a butterfly flapping its wings a hemisphere away or that misfortune we have experienced is simply the prelude to a pleasant and enviable future.

[@josephdaly2015]

The breakdown of all you said is something I don’t do 🤭 I want it to just happen. Have a great weekend. Mary, Joes wife 👏👍💪🤞🙏💐🐕‍🦺

[@JohnNathanShopper]

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[@jeanetteagain6631]

So im one of the the mystery unsubscribe that pops up i can’t sign into tv because them all my stuff will upload lol 😂we do t want that

[@jeanetteagain6631]

Ten things to remove right now that one ☝️

[@PhoebesWorldProductions]

cool, thank you.