☘️ How To TRANSFORM Your Life Before 2025... Just Like I Did! ✨

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@jilliedillie 2 ай бұрын

Lara, this is profound! I’m 70, live alone, and consistently overwhelmed with ‘so much needs doing’. I used to use a planner to document the tasks I accomplished that day. I realized - to whom did I think I had to prove I wasn’t lazy?!? Today you’ve inspired me to start with unsubbing emails. I routinely do that, but more show up uninvited and I think, oh that looks interesting, I’ll read that LATER. But I don’t. It’s time to get real about which ones I truly want and have energy to read. Thank you for sharing this wisdom. 🤗

@HowToGYST 2 ай бұрын

YESSS!!! I'm a serial unsubber these days.

@cynthiaschaal6379 2 ай бұрын

“It’s okay that an older version of me was working off of old programming, and I can upgrade anytime” - ahh the self acceptance and freedom of this mind shift! Thank you for this!

@jennyjenkins877 2 ай бұрын

That's the best analogy I've heard in a long time!

@HowToGYST 2 ай бұрын

It took me a long time to figure it out. It's really helped me forgive myself for a lot of past mistakes.

@SusanMcBrayer 2 ай бұрын

This is good work on your part and I appreciate your sharing it. I was your age 30 years ago and I remember the "mid-life" feelings of depression, etc., that hit me then. They're real. But at that time I had no life perspective and absolutely no idea how lucky I was. This is a good time for you to reinvent yourself and we can all do that no matter our ages. However, the older you get, you don't have as much freedom, so I would love for you to realize how very lucky you are. Older people are stuck with things we cannot change, no matter how much we would like to. Many older people are dealing with chronic pain, increased deafness, maybe cancer or some other horrible disease, maybe the dementia of a spouse or the loss of a spouse, etc. I know turning 40 is rough, but you are still so very young. Enjoy this time!

@toydollz Ай бұрын

That's really good. Starting your day on a positive note and being mindfully and deliberately positive. I love that.

@caramoonlynn 2 ай бұрын

I went after my master's Degree at 44 years old. It has been great. I don't use routines anymore. Just a chore spinner. It's the best! Go you!

@cathyblackhall5237 2 ай бұрын

You seem much calmer ,less frenetic and your skin and eyes have a glow to them😊

@HowToGYST 2 ай бұрын

Still plenty of chaos in here. 😂 But it's a lot more carefree and fun.

@ginaloschiavo7542 2 ай бұрын

I enjoy all your content but this topped the cake! I’ve learned that a lot of my systems aren’t working, my “to do” list is too long, and I lose the drive for goals I want to accomplish. This video really helped me evaluate myself and a better way that is more realistic. I remember you posted a video last November about having December as a trial run for New Year’s. I’m going to give it a try and incorporate your guidance from this video. Thank you! Wishing you peace and joy! 😊

@HowToGYST 2 ай бұрын

Yay! Yes, I do "Dry Run December" every year. A great way to try out a few new habits and get the ball rolling.

@judithbowtell8294 2 ай бұрын

Laura - this is the video I needed to see. I too have had a year clouded by depression and health issues, and having to pull out of all sorts of projects and plans for the year. I have been saying similar things to my clients (I am a career coach) for years, and have even written a program about creating your ideal working life - based on designing it based on your values, what you love doing, giving yourself space to grow. So I resonate with so much that you have said and recommend, especially about TO DO lists. May the end of the year be peaceful, calm, loving and fun - for all of us.

@toydollz Ай бұрын

Like all your other videos, I'll be watching this a few more times. Your videos always have so much good information in them. Thank you! 🎉

@EllaPurok Ай бұрын

This is great advice, and exactly what I have been searching for! I really feel a pull to restart my life again as I am also in my 40's now, and I am struggling to find my happiness. Not having any children, something feels like it is missing, but I haven't been able to figure out what that is.

@gemmavandenberg3379 2 ай бұрын

I have been following you for many years on YT, but oh my, I LOVE this shake up! Funnily enough, I totally relate to your journey and I am at the point of creating that new version of myself. I am 42 and have been anxious in some way or another for a very long time. The birth of my son 16 months ago made it a lot worse. And now, I feel like I am at neutral level after being very very down. For the first time in years I really feel that the restlessness isn't working at all. I am safe being relaxed and I am allowed and able to enjoy life as it is. Living from the heart. Thank you for sharing and being yourself Laura! ❤

@karenswanson3786 2 ай бұрын

Fantastic video. I have been feeling stuck and unmotivated for a while. Dreading every day by thinking I’m so far behind. Ironically most of my todos are self made. I’m retired and can spend my day as I please. Yet I felt guilty if I took time to do what I enjoy doing and stressed if I did what I felt I “should” be doing. It’s time to reevaluate, rethink and try something different. I watched this video and my ears pricked up. My mind screamed exactly, this is what you need. Thank you for going through your thought process in changing your life. I appreciate the guidance.

@bronwyntully6058 Ай бұрын

Dear Lara, I really needed this information!! I'm 71 will be 72 in Feb 2025 (in 2 months - Yikes) My only child is my 44 year old Son, who does help when he has time, bless him! I now live with a few aches and pains, never thought of this happening about 4 years ago There's no way I expect my son to 'be my carer' he has his own life to live !! He is a serious minimalist, has a great job and no children (yet) I live alone in a good size apartment, however I'm so very aware of 'my clutter' and I've been stuck for way to long! When my Son is here it drives him crazy and he just wants to throw out so much, which I understand. I get nowhere by myself! I live in Melbourne, Australia. I waiting for some 'home- help' , but they will only do a little, which I can mostly do myself Unfortunately, as I'm on an aged pension I regret I can't afford very much.

@Turtleneck07 2 ай бұрын

This was fantastic, and I think one of the most important videos you've made (and I've seen them all!). Thank you for being so open about your struggles and for giving us some new ideas and tools to make some life changes.

@HowToGYST 2 ай бұрын

You're an absolute gem. Thank you! 💖

@ElementalWhispers 2 ай бұрын

There are so many "shoulds" and "aught to's" but a lot dont really serve a purpose. One thing I found useful was asking myself "Where is this should coming from?" A lot of time I realized it was coming from me and I could just drop it.

@sarahsuetopka4748 2 ай бұрын

Oh girl, you just put all of my spinning thoughts into an organized fashion and really expressed in a way that lightens the load and simplifies the thought process. I love this idea, wiping the slate clean sounds so refreshing. Thank you for sharing.

@HowToGYST 2 ай бұрын

It's been a huge breath of fresh air for me.

@nedf8668 2 ай бұрын

Wow we must be on the same wavelength Laura! I did the same thing at the beginning of the year. I cut out all busy work type stuff from my to do list. For me, no more than three important things on my to do list for the day. Also I can't emphasize enough how slowing down makes life so much more enjoyable. Even unlikable tasks become calm and more easy to get done. Bonus: got rid of my smart watch. I realized it was making me feel bad at the end of the day when I didn't meet my steps, activity and sleep goals even though I had and otherwise productive and successful day. Up yours smartwatch! 😁

@HowToGYST 2 ай бұрын

Ah, WELL DONE!!! You've levelled up your life SO MUCH in the past few years. Proud of you. 🙌

@justforsomething 2 ай бұрын

I really like this video, I'm a couple of years off 40, and this makes sooo much sense.

@HowToGYST 2 ай бұрын

As someone who really wasn't looking forward to it at all, I can tell you that it's actually wonderful!

@WhatEmmaDidNextUK 2 ай бұрын

I love this! I’ve recently been doing something similar after realising at 45 that I am worthy and if things I do aren’t worthy of my time/energy/effort/money .. then they’re gone. It’s flipping refreshing! Haven’t felt this good, this liberated for a long time!! 💜💜

@HowToGYST 2 ай бұрын

Look at you gooooo! Spread those wings!

@jennyjenkins877 2 ай бұрын

I'm turning 50 next month so there will definitely be some reflecting and reevaluating. Like you said, though, it's not all that serious.

@nekonyan552 2 ай бұрын

Thank you for sharing your experience and for the reminder that we can give ourselves permission to slow down and be intentional of what we do in our day.

@Val_MH 2 ай бұрын

Laura, wonderful information and inspiration. I have been a subscriber since 2019. I am 70 and feeling life is short and options perhaps less. But, you are so on point to encourage transformation as needed to stay positive and make one's life the best it can be. One's health is very crucial. TY for sharing your journey! Aloha, Val :)

@HowToGYST 2 ай бұрын

Transformation can take place at any time, in big and small ways. ✨ Thanks so much for being a long-time subscriber. 💖

@dfrost7934 2 ай бұрын

Fun and hobbies on to do list!? I needed to hear that!! Thank you!!

@HowToGYST 2 ай бұрын

It's revolutionary!

@debdannish7722 2 ай бұрын

I so needed this. Thank you😊

@CocoNicole84 2 ай бұрын

I second this. ❤

@Debbiesdilemmas 2 ай бұрын

Me too🥰

@HowToGYST 2 ай бұрын

Thank you so much! 🥹

@kathypflaume4652 2 ай бұрын

Thanks for these positive thoughts. You do you.💜💜💜

@bonniewoodard2771 2 ай бұрын

Brilliant, thank YOU!!! Tough questions ... right now I feel I don't have answers but I'll try!! Again, thank you for opening the conversation to possibilities!!

@ACTS1979 2 ай бұрын

THANK YOU. Such a great inspirational video. I'm going through a rough season in life and the idea of just deleting my lists seems literally impossible. Not om 100 years I would have come up with that idea. Sending you love. Christina

@shaynaangers5691 2 ай бұрын

7:56 you got deep i love this so much❤❤❤

@HowToGYST 2 ай бұрын

SUCH a helpful exercise when my brain is full of "buts". 😅

@JaniceIsLearning 2 ай бұрын

Thank you for this video. I am going through a similar change with myself, so your points are helpful.

@SoMagicalMichele 2 ай бұрын

That's quite the reset. My birthday is Dec 1st so the timing seems rather nice. Thanks for sharing your journey.

@HowToGYST 2 ай бұрын

Early happy birthday to you! Hope it's a wonderful one.

@SoMagicalMichele 2 ай бұрын

@HowToGYST thank you!

@missfunk5 Ай бұрын

Just subscribed. I have only seen two of your videos, but l found them enjoyable, relatable and encouraging. Thank you.

@toydollz 2 ай бұрын

this is one of my alltime favorite vvideos. very inspiring 🎉

@HowToGYST 2 ай бұрын

Aw, thank you so much, friend! 💖

@sclarke4969 2 ай бұрын

A really valuable video, thank you ❤

@HowToGYST 2 ай бұрын

Yay! Thrilled you liked it.

@mca6763 2 ай бұрын

I'm so glad I found this video. I feel like I have just taken a long exhale and I'm ready to reset. You gave me the permission I didn't know I needed. Thank you!!

@HowToGYST 2 ай бұрын

This actually brought tears to my eyes. GO OUT THERE AND LIVE YOUR BEST LIFE. 🥹🥹🥹

@KathrynBoyce-pj1dq 2 ай бұрын

I love that you make time for the things that make you happy. There are lots of ideas here I will implement. Thanks for sharing as always ❤

@HowToGYST 2 ай бұрын

Aw, thanks so much, Kathryn. I make sure there's something fun on my list every day. 😊

@kimwells348 2 ай бұрын

You are so genuine and I love that about you! ❤Thank you for being such an inspiration!

@jillchris1857 2 ай бұрын

Very inspirational!

@HowToGYST 2 ай бұрын

Thank you! 🥰

@mamabubu6505 2 ай бұрын

Thank You for sharing your story 💐, deep video & very needed ❤

@Robug44 2 ай бұрын

Hi Laura, this has been very inspiring and encouraging. I’m keen to try your suggestions for myself. Many thanks, ‘Go You!’ ❤

@HowToGYST 2 ай бұрын

Yay! Here's to your transformation. 🥂

@edelinprogress Ай бұрын

Sending love and best wishes to you❤

@HowToGYST Ай бұрын

Thanks so much, Edel.

@rebeccablashock3829 2 ай бұрын

Great video! You are ny new spirit animal...thank you! 😊

@HowToGYST 2 ай бұрын

Absolutely HONOURED. 🥹

@josephdaly2015 2 ай бұрын

Omg thanks for all those thought provoking ideas. You are so brave to pretty much cut everything and do only what you want to do. Adding fun things to the list is absolutely genius. I will have to watch this again to see what I’d be comfortable doing (creature of habit and very slow to change). As always thank you so much. Have a wonderful week. Mary, Joes wife 🙇‍♀️👏💪👍🙏💐🐕‍🦺

@HowToGYST 2 ай бұрын

One small change at a time. When you see the impact, you'll never go back. 💖

@carriecobb8 2 ай бұрын

So interesting and so pleased it’s working for you, hooray! I have a couple of questions, do you still do the weekly / monthly etc resets that were mostly household chores type things? Then also, how do you deal with silent to do list stuff? I have so many things that every time I walk into a room, I’m like, oh I need to do that. Too many to just get them all done so I try and add them to a list but they still seem to stay in my head also, it’s very annoying 😄 I am slowly getting thru them. Thanks for sharing 😊

@HowToGYST 2 ай бұрын

Great questions! Yes, I still do my resets. Those have been hugely beneficial for me so the decision was made that they would stay. I did, however, edit them a bit to add or remove things. So they got a little upgrade. For silent to-do list stuff I have to say I'm barely noticing it anymore. A lot of it I've slowly chipped away at over the past year or so. It sounds incredibly cheesy but I've found this inner peace where if I see something that needs doing, I just know and accept that I'll get around to it at some stage. If it's a priority, I try do it that day or schedule it for later in the week, or the following week. Otherwise I just trust that its day will come.

@carriecobb8 2 ай бұрын

@ wow, I’m very impressed with the approach to the silent to do list! It seems like a beautiful balance of having structure with the resets and the letting go of the to do’s. Sounds amazing, you are my inspiration 😁

@PhoebesWorldProductions 2 ай бұрын

THank you for sharing all that. 😊👍🏻 I feel like I need a big change, too, but I don’t know if I’m ready to actually make the changes.

@HowToGYST 2 ай бұрын

That's fair. It can be daunting. Sometimes dipping a toe is the way to go. Or just resting and recharging if that's what's needed. 💖

@PhoebesWorldProductions 2 ай бұрын

*nods* that's good thinking. .... I have made SOME changes over the last few years (for example, I got my husband to cut my hair short, and have kept it short... (for most of my life I have had VERY long hair).... but it feels like I still need to change more.

@valmc9652 2 ай бұрын

Good for you Laura!!🌻🌻 What would a weekend without either a list or a planner be like for you? Like you lost them for a few days and had to make it up as you went along? Sent to you by a recovering list maker/ calendar junkie /planner and perfectionist

@HowToGYST 2 ай бұрын

Saturdays are always about doing whatever I please. I see where the mood takes me. Usually a bit of reading. And then Sundays are my reset days, so laundry, backing up devices, watering plants, etc. I do follow a list for that but I feel like, at this stage, I'd remember most of the list without looking at it so I'd just chip away at that. 🙂

@Monique-LI 2 ай бұрын

Really inspiring and helpful video. Thank you!

@unaprofa 2 ай бұрын

Congrats! You’ve been missed

@HowToGYST 2 ай бұрын

Had a lot of healing to do. But I'm baaaaack. 😁

@MicheleMaBelle67 2 ай бұрын

Liked and subscribed! 😊

@HowToGYST 2 ай бұрын

🥳🤩 Thank youuu!

@lindahebb4832 2 ай бұрын

Thank you

@HowToGYST 2 ай бұрын

You're welcome! I hope you found it helpful. 😊

@ashikime 2 ай бұрын

Great video! Just curious if you've always had the tongue ring and I'm just now noticing it? 😂

@HowToGYST 2 ай бұрын

I got it when I was 16 so I've had it for more than half my life. 😁

@ashikime 2 ай бұрын

@HowToGYST 🤣🤦‍♀️ I don't know how I've missed it this whole time! You're so cool 😎 😍

@radarwas 2 ай бұрын

Is the art behind you one of those movie paintings where each scene's color is depicted as a line? If so, what's the movie?

@HowToGYST 2 ай бұрын

It is! Die Hard. 😁

@radarwas 2 ай бұрын

Awesome! ♥ I have one for Pacific Rim.

@EvelynaGR 2 ай бұрын

I can't imagine how my life would be , if I ever cross all my to-dos... Maybe that's not the goal after all...

@CAGChannel1 2 ай бұрын

Does the painting above the bed bring joy? I’m just asking because, to me, it looks depressing. I understand everyone is different, so I’m just wondering. Are you trying to have less color in that room? I have heard that getting rid of color can help with sleep, so I’m just wondering if you have found that to be true. Also, your office is so colorful, so I’m just curious about the stark difference and assuming it’s a “ rev up” room vs. sleep room?

@HowToGYST 2 ай бұрын

The picture brings a LOT of joy. It has special significance for me and my husband.