This liberated me forever | financial, spiritual, sexual reclamation

[@haydeeserpas7394]

I'm so glad you shared how having money can create emotional and mental stability There's this narrative that having nothing will create a drive in you. Constantly worrying about survival is not fun or sexy

[@alexish8183]

Exactly

[@Ihvljvvlojvjuu]

I love how you said "I have not been able to keep myself safe from situations I didnt want to be in. I struggle to discern if I enjoy the intimate relationships I am having with men or if I just enjoy performing really well" Im shook. Thank you. Please expand if you would like. I am listening. This is magic. I feel so similar to you.

[@ghostie7790]

Girl.. men think everything is about them!! No matter what you do. You have to tell them your boundaries and expectations many many times!!

[@tesasianturi7993]

facts!

[@btsbwl7264]

100%%

[@emmebalzer1174]

I would love it if you made a podcast one day. I could sit here and listen to you just talk about all of your thoughts about things and the universe forever.

[@evaskelly2935]

Me too

[@christinaflutter5411]

I've been trying to lean into understand finances and saving and investing money at 24 and this was very grounding. It's something that intimidates me and I was never taught, but I know I can do it and it will benefit me in so many ways

[@lunar3n]

it’s sooo intimidating isn’t it!! i love budgeting but the investing and stocks and bonds stuff i try really hard to understand, and it’s still really confusing for me :/

[@RikkeGade]

Do you know about the company female invest?

[@greenmfs]

I loved the financial feminist podcast and book and feel like I know the basics now!!

[@ethereal4735]

does anyone feel ethically conflicted about stocks/investing because it feels like it contributes to wealth inequality and withstanding capitalistic structures? i’m not sure how to move through this block? bc i know investing is very beneficial

[@a.j.1819]

@@ethereal4735 i mean what else can you do except look out for yourself? you shouldn't feel ashamed to reap benefits even if you don't agree with the overall system. you not doing that won't help anyone in the long run

[@matthewgoetzka8855]

"I have so much power to do so much good." Imma keep those words with me because it's the truth. Even when I've felt helpless I looked for the the things I could control

[@elenamaree3289]

There is something so earnest, raw and open about your answers in this video and I deeply appreciate it. I've already written down some pointers and I'm only 5 minutes in. Thank-you so much for the shared advice, Hitomi. Lots of love to you x

[@PolliNinja]

Neville Goddard always said that our desires are God speaking to us, it's our conscience telling us "hey you are your desire, not this other thing you think". Thanks for repeating that.

[@matthewthompson0]

the fact that nobody talks about the book called Hidden Manifestation by Oliver Mercer speaks volumes about how people are stuck in a trance

[@lunar3n]

i appreciate so much your honesty about the nuances of relating with men as a feminine person, in friendship and in general. this is so needed, i feel like i’m getting a big sis talk validating suspicions i’ve had about my interactions with men and how i put myself at more risk of discomfort or danger. i just love the nuance, i love hearing women talk unapologetically about the realities of living in the world with men

[@shalenah]

feel this! i've been volunteering at a hostel that tends to be male dominant and it's teaching me a lot! but yeah always listen to your body over giving someone the benefit of the doubt!!

[@lunar3n]

@@shalenah oof i bet, we can only learn the intricacies of socializing w men through experience!! every year i’m wiser and more adept. also you are so beautiful!

[@yvwinter]

Financially supporting myself is so out of reach as a disabled person who can't work. No help out there and it's terrifying.

[@yvwinter]

@@UneakTershai That's a pseronal question.

[@MeGirl191]

Absolutely this

[@eloise3280]

This is so difficult. I sense that there is value in the perspective you hold - what would the help you need look like? The people we wish help from cannot know our needs or exactly what would benefit us....From within the problem a solution has the potential to be born. There has to be a way, and we must not give up...what if, we are the ones here to be the voice/channel the solution/pave the new way, to make it easier for others? Are we the ones that call in the miracle?

[@stephaniemclean2451]

When you said 'I can just appreciate their beauty without crossing any boundaries.' This one really rings with me. I don't know if it's like, in their masculine blood. It's interesting logic between Males and Females. I've followed you for YEARS Hitomi and I'm so humbled to see how much you've grown, how much we've all grown

[@ashleyfoskett6629]

I fucking loveeeee the end of this video, talking about your discernment with men! I've had the same realisations as of late. There's so much I wish I could get into with this. But I really just want to say thank you for speaking to this. And Im sorry for all the girls who have been put in unfortunate situations because of men's inability to control themselves.

[@amyloucanning]

hitomi!!! the way this video spoke to all the things ive been struggling with in my life since being unemployed post-grad! exactly exactly all i needed to hear, reminders to return to my self

[@An_Ka_Li]

I've also realized that I should guard and protect my feminine energy around men more. I can come of as very flirty (libra moon + asc. heyy) when I'm actually just being friendly and engaged in the interaction. At first it feelt kind of sad (it still sort of does sometimes tbh), but now I see it more as me creating a safe space for myself with clearer communication and boundaries. It feels very healing and respectful in a way.

[@eloise3280]

I have learnt that when men get very little friendly and engaged attention, they attach to it instantly when it comes. This could be the dynamic and for me it is helpful to not internalise the phenomon personally. Yes, protect yourself and also not judge you...people are hungry for kind connection and snatch that right up. Keep refining the discernment as you are, and take care not to let the feminine energy become suppressed again, it is great medicine.

[@gabsasusual]

Girl first of all your hair!! you are glowing! and also, thank you for always sharing your wisdom, very much appreciated

[@juliebelen36]

as a first generation person, thank you sm for making this video, especially the finance section. navigating the world of finances as first gen feels like you’re blindfolded at times, so your guidance about this topic means more than you know. ❤

[@i123456987654]

i'm so sorry that you had to do sex work underage or sex work at all...your parents have failed you but you're strong and you will not only survive but thrive we believe in you and don't give up you got this

[@milenapechura5978]

Every sentence that you say is another affirmation I write in my journal. Grateful for you, thank you!

[@suemiadaniya]

I so much appreciate protecting your sacred feminine energy even if that means switching outfits to a less sensual one, because it can be defying when we are always pushed with the idea that women should do/wear whatever they want, but having discernment to what to wear to certain situations or with certain people can be a beautiful way to protect and keeping us safe! ♥️

[@julien.6387]

Your content is so unique and amazing it's like a breath of fresh air, i love that you are not screaming at me and what you say actually makes me reflect rather than speaking loads of nothing. I also used to feel like a burden, my dad wasn't there for a good chunk of my childhood and I was afraid he would leave me. I would make him these appreciative origami and spend hours. ALSO your aura is so calming.

[@Amber88442]

what a hopeful message. thank you for the fresh perspective. it's so easy to fall into despair - the universe does support our existence and remembering that is a real comfort.

[@Marie-s6g]

Why is no one talking about book called “The Art of Seductive Power by Juliet Arden”? Just look at that energy, it's exactly what Hitomi embodies!

[@hanane9018]

Thank you for all your creations, you are a huge help, and a reminder to reconnect, rewind and relax, it will all work out just fine, it's such a blessing to be living at a time where we are just a click away from so much beauty and wisdom. So thank you Hitomi ❤️

[@kaylynhernandez19]

this video really grounded me in reality and the idea of being surrounded by love always. I am going through a breakup and it has been really hard for me to feel love and hope. I appreciate you sharing your wisdom with the world. It has helped me a much get through a lot of really difficult emotions, so thank you🌀💛

[@fedolive]

..was literally talking w/ my sister last night about financial stability and appreciating the life I lead even if I'm not where I'd like to be. It's where I am right now, and that's okay. thank you for sharing your experience and how you're living right now. I was in a not great mental space, but hearing that it's a process makes me feel okay.

[@jenniferbetancourt4478]

your words resonante with me more than i could possibly explain, youve been a consistent source of grounding and optimism in my life since i was 14 (24 this month!). i found ur channel when i was a vry depressed and vry traumatized young teen, and i feel so grateful to hear your words today and realize ive reached this point of having a consistent, strong, and healthy relationship with spirit, and that i get to commune with it regularly. i remember never believing i could get here when i first started watching. i got to meet you briefly, running into u at an event in la last year, u were so sweet to me and full of light and it felt like such a playful nudge from the universe that im on the right path :)

[@tolanister5447]

I am seeing you for the first time and this came at the right time because I couldn’t do anything because of finances like anything at all so I am trying to just control what I can and leave the rest to the universe to lead me. I have so many dreams to contribute to the world and I know I can do it I will keep trusting! Thank you hitomi❤️

[@Suboptimalconditions]

This has been so close to my heart ❤️ i feel this all on many levels. There is so much appreciation in my heart for you and your creative journey.

[@melissathibodeau5816]

This is one of my favourite episodes of yours. I'm saving it to play for my daughters. Thank you.

[@ashleygrayduncan]

So sweet that you've dreamed of helping your dad retire and then managed to do it, and so young!

[@nicoleabrukwe]

this video is pure gold, i definitely struggle with not taking things personal..i just feel everything so deeply even things i have no control over

[@tessawegner]

I recommand the book: The 4 agreements!

[@nicoleabrukwe]

@@tessawegner thank you, i will check it out 🙏

[@rtv59]

Maturity suits you very well. I always say that the best thing that ever happened to me was growing old. People always look me weird because of that. I think you understand. 😉😊

[@aliveganyoga]

If I am afraid to say no, that means I don't feel safe around that person. That hit hard. Love hearing your thoughts as always, lots of love and blessings Hitomi

[@Fatimasroots]

I’m so thankful for you bringing me to your sacred space. I appreciate you so much. Thank you for sharing !😊❤️❤️

[@mariarodrigues9022]

Literally perfect timing! I feel like I’m learning these lessons now, specially the one regarding sexuality. I felt exactly the same as you described and it seems as though I have released it now. However, I do feel like I went straight into the direct opposite of wanting to be a fantasy and now I just want to hide from men. Not great but I’m working through it. I’m grateful for you Hitomi, over 4 years I’ve been watching your videos and you’re such an inspiration for me. Thank you!

[@nnekaoflove]

these are gems and life codes, thank you sis 🙏🏾

[@lawriewatt6615]

This video gave me so many aha moments. Thank you for sharing your beautiful mind. This has left me feeling very calm and free as I feel I am no longer alone x

[@kerttuduhhin]

omg i just like love the way you speak, so like sophisticated and grounding

[@jeecaty6999]

Thanks a lot for talking about the financial aspect. I'm planning to move abroad soon and the only thing that truly worries me are finances. Needed this little advice of yours so yeah thanks a ton. Also one more request plz start a podcast soon I would love to listen to you more. Love you ❣

[@tanimakazi54]

You are so amazing. I have to listen to this video in bite-size pieces, so I can get the full impact of it all. My mind can't absorb all the gems of wisdom all at once. Adore you Hitomi!

[@brookecherrix9624]

Anytime I am feeling sad, lost, hopeless, etc... I find myself here. Thank you for creating this beautiful space Hitomi, I am endlessly grateful to find peace with your words. 🧘‍♀💛

[@abbywilner2]

what beautiful life knowledge to find on the internet! I will always watch, Hitomi :)

[@analicearmbruster6441]

not even a minute in and i’m already so voa to hear you talking about having so much stability/being rooted in your life (while i know you have also so much freedom)! it’s what i’m trying to create for myself ❤

[@emilyh7982]

sigh. what a deep breath of relief it is to listen to & resonate w your wisdom. I’ve been a subscriber for years now, and once in a while I struggle w envy sometimes when I witness your expression because I know I am wise & eloquent in my own way, but am not in certain stages such as sharing my wisdom & art. seeing the travel & visuals & aesthetics in your videos is usually super inspiring, but sometimes triggering. so I choose to take a break sometimes until I’ve made it thru the shadow period I’m in. lately, I’ve been in a deeply challenging place encountering death, family traumas, relationship questions-friendship & romance, healing sexual trauma, understanding my neurodivergence, identity/self, and financial/career upheaval. I’ve been climbing up into a contented & more peaceful wavelength though, and when I saw this video I didn’t even think, I just clicked. I’m doing chores, and decided to just listen-taking a break from the visuals as I’m still feeling vulnerable to outdated stories, and just receive audibly. (also I need to clean and if I sit down and start watching omg I may melt into the couch-ahem, adhd.) wow. every section was rich w transformative wisdom .. I’m not even fully finished w the video but the ‘I root my self worth in unchanging things’ ‘neutral thru hard times’ and ‘I am in allyship with my body’ sections were full of such strong medicine for me in this very moment. I do feel like you said that there’s so many daily miracles & things to be grateful for & signs from angels all the time. this video was one of them!! going to go back to listening (and cleaning lol) now. 🐉🌸

[@Melanie_elle_aime]

I'm so grateful for you sharing your light, I needed this one today and it's breathing new energy into me. Thank you earth angel!!

[@tvprzrk]

i can relate so much to your previous feeling of being the waste of space, i used to feel that way to love is all around us for sure, thank you so much for your sincerity

[@kaylaferguson6623]

Thank you for sharing Hitomi. You are appreciated ❤

[@だとゆい]

I swear your videos always come at the right time

[@chimeraktz]

you're the absolute best, so sweet and gentle and wholesome

[@Brittanyjacks]

God is always with me and that really supports me the most ❤

[@Lara-EmMoo]

18:23-18:30 - these words right here absolutely hit the nail on the head! I feel exactly the same 😅

[@evaskelly2935]

Thank you for your videos and presence, enjoyed listening 🪷

[@NZBeautiful]

Hitomi, so much wisdom and authentic vulnerability as always. Thank you for being here 🙏

[@katillack]

Thanks Hitomi. See you next week. ❤

[@alicia10387]

I appreciate you being so honest and candid on your channel.💗

[@Annettely]

Touched on the many key areas of a women’s life as a child and as an adult! Thank you this was so helpful and comforting

[@Scotty-Dont]

Damn. Finally some level headed, real financial experience/advice. I had a similar journey in some ways. Happy you’ve got some groundedness and abundance in your life

[@PeaceLoveJoye]

You're just amazing! Another great video filled with great knowledge! Sending Love and Light from Delaware

[@emilysharmony]

wow i loveee this video, love it like i love so many others of yours! i really resonate with every single point made in this video and know that if we ever met we would have a great conversation on it all! love you Hitomi, thank you for radiating so much love into this world 🥰💫

[@hunched_monk3279]

You are truly so mature and a fantastic person to draw lessons from. Very high emotional intelligence. As someone with low EQ I’m learning as much as I can from you in my less developed areas. However, I’m still being myself and you should do (e.g. no pressure!).

[@carmenpetralia7210]

I'm so grateful you exist. The unbiased, honest advice and experiences you share in just one video help me a lot. I've been watching your videos for years and think of you as my internet mommy lol. The acceptance I feel from somebody I don't know is wild. You're one of the only reasons I think the internet is socially worthwhile. Thank you Hitomi

[@marcosjoel374]

I’m a man, but I’m also in my feminine around men, and sighing and swaying in the wind minding my own business. But I don’t think that you should change the way you act around a man, like stopping yourself from being sensual, men also need to learn that just because we’re being feminine it doesn’t mean that we’re giving them social cues to be with us. But yes putting your boundaries up in order to let them know because they can’t pick up on the nuances is good~ I guess. I do the same to be honest. (I’m a man, who gets called princess, mermaid, fairy) in a positive way by other men~

[@elisanapoletano]

listening and looking at this video with my heart wide open as it resonates with me a lot x so thanks 🙏🏻 liberation for me is to connect with all the different aspects of reality (if we have to frame it) of this bodily soulful vessel of mine, the earth we are living on, relationships and so on…it all come piece by piece. may we always be lifelong students of life 🤲🏻

[@RubyClementi]

Thank you for sharing this wisdom Hitomi. You are a blessing🫶🏼

[@Angelasalchemy]

I'm more quiet on here but I watch every video of yours ❤. This one deeply resonated with me and literally was the advice I am seeking. Like I was on the edge of my seat waiting for you to say what I knew you were going to 😅 because of how connected and relatable. I am in a serious rough patch and it's been raw depression every day because of a series of traumatic events related to dating a narcissist like diagnosed bpd, for not even a month, and was incapable of leaving or for him to leave my apartment. He made it look like he lived with me and so when I called the police I ended up getting arrested. I now have to fight a guy who completed broke me and in every sense manipulated and lied and then continued to try tricking me into responding because of my bail conditions. I actually fell into the worst type of person I would say even sociopath without knowing. And getting myself out of this has been a horrible and almost lonely road. Because I've needed to start over completely like strip away that entire identity. So.. with giving all this info about me I hope it can serve some purpose. At least know you are speaking to real people who are lasting by your side through the inter webs.. love you. Thanks again ❤

[@destinycamille]

All of these notes hit so deeply with me. Thank you for reawakening us in our boundaries and sacred energy. 💛💛

[@davidbrown8730]

Thank you for sharing sentiments of love, happiness, beauty, and wisdom. ❤

[@wp7896]

I'm so proud of you, witnessing your evolution is beautiful. Praying that your journey towards healing in Truth continues to grow

[@dominicphillips5532]

Wow, this was really relatable, empowering and informative on a lot levels🙏🏾❤Thank you for sharing, deffo gonna have to listen back again at some point!💭

[@doralicebenedusi5752]

Your wisdom is pure light 🙏

[@sassy2221]

My kind of conversation. Thank u Hitomi. Beautiful😊

[@aliyahosuna3983]

wow thank you so much for sharing 💗 you reminded me that i am not alone. we are here to be, to break the cycle, lift up ourselves and the ones around us 💗

[@Sleepyprettyy]

Thank u hitomi! This is so helpful, im 21 and didnt realize there were ways to save for retirement like this!

[@rossroxas8977]

as a polymath and neurodivergent, everything is hard. working in the tech industry has some instability and even harder without a higher form of education. ive had to rebuild my credit from scratch, it took ten years. with inflation and unemployment, finances are pretty tough. meditation, loving yourself, loving everyone no matter what and let the universe and divinities lead the way to flow states ❤

[@naturalnoella]

Such a beautiful soul! Thank you for letting us into your world, your always a my reminder to get back to myself, no matter what others think ❤️

[@8wanda123]

girl I love everything u embody and share thank you for your realness. so many women inspired by you and your journey. much love ❤

[@myonefilmcamera]

I love hearing your thoughts! Often in awe of your words and wisdom 💕💕💕

[@LethsZC]

this video came in the right time ❤ gratitude

[@relativityboy]

Wow. The way you saw things as a child shows so much empathy! My own journey sounded very similar with regard to financial stress as a child. My thoughts then were "how do we get through this?" and "How do I learn from what they're doing so I don't have the same problems?" - but I don't think I felt like a burden much financially. It never occurred to me to "not be there".

[@yaoyaokx.7842]

You are such a beautiful soul 💗 inside out, always inspiring 🌞 thank you for putting this out there ,the information and the vibe in general feels very authentic and genuine ✨

You are such a wonderful human, thank you for being you so radiantly and also expressing your vulnerability and glory.

[@TechOutAdam]

I wish I were this beautiful. ❤ I joined a yoga studio 4 months ago. Honestly, I just needed something to do out of the fact I had a break up with a long, long term relationship so I was started all over again with friends and a new lifestyle. Finding something to attend frequently is such a life hack for having a better life of love and new friends ya'll have a connection with on similar interests.

[@mirandas444]

this is so so very relatable, beautiful, and important. much love to you for putting this out ✨💛🌞

[@paryaseo9036]

Wow this was a video full of deep and key content for everybody.thank u soooo much💎

[@tashaleveille9662]

Such a great video!! Ive been following you since the beginning and it fills my heart woth joy and inspiration to see how you have grown over the years. Keep sharing your light!!! 😊

[@NDtravelingmom]

People with money aren't the only ones entitled to having children. And hearing that there isn't enough money for all the things shouldn't be a negative. The things that matter do not cost money.

[@kapi253]

Thank you so much! You are right about the spiritual awakening being seen as feminine when it's often not. For me it was about making peace with my masculine and develop the hability to do hard things to provide sustenance and safety for myself. Cold plunges and weightlifting have been so beneficial for this aside from your usual spiritual practices like meditation, ritual, prayer and yoga

[@a.serett]

I love the quality on this video!!!!

[@tcreeses]

This was so beautiful, thank you for honesty and vulnerability and presence ❤

[@_..Izzy.._]

Ummm, the timing couldn't be any more perfect... :0🙏🏻

[@spiceysista]

Thank you always ❤ what a blessing to see this just before bed for some positive reaffirmations and lessons

[@hikingwithmatt]

You gave great financial advice, I had to find that information myself and there was a lot of overlap. Always love your perspective on life

[@briannagrumbo]

This was so refreshing and nice to hear, thank you!💓

[@JohnDoe-qu8ny]

Love 💕 you Hitomi 💕 thank you so much ♥️

[@catrinavaletine]

i absolutely love your sit down videos! i really resonated with this one and i loved hearing you talk about your experiences and how you've overcome challenges. I'm usually a silent watcher lol but this video really spoke to me, thank you for making it 🫶 I would love to see you make a podcast one day, your insight in videos like this really help me

[@claudiamoss7670]

I have always loved seeing your videos pop up on my timeline, Hitomi! Thank you humbly for all the information you shared in this video! Sending you love, great energy and appreciation always! ✨🤗✨☀️✨

[@kirang4162]

Thank you so much for sharing, i needed this. Sending you the biggest hug and love. Hope you receive it

[@kirakemmer2152]

I will probably be watching this video on repeat to help myself integrate and apply the insights I'm having into my life!🥰💪🏻

[@sunshinexrainyday]

Pure medicine ✨ Thank you for sharing goddess!