How to be an energetically attractive and confident lover

[@haleyparker1111]

Your videos used to be sooo triggering for me. I’m grateful to be at a space in life to receive your wisdom without filtering it through the lens of my own insecurities. You are a breath of fresh air on the internet and in the world, protect Hitomi at all costs!!

[@louisarck4252]

It was the same for me. I used to get kind of annoyed, but when I started questioning why I feel that way I realised it was my own insecurities. I love Hitomi now!

[@oliviaiturmendigamble]

I really relate to this!

[@milky7200]

universal experience i guess 🥲

[@louisarck4252]

Love and appreciation come to fruition in many strange ways that are hard to understand

[@Jordan-Marie]

sammmme!

[@isabellelittle932]

The existential kink is such a game changer. I’ve learned there’s always a comfort behind the negative feelings we create in our bodies, otherwise we wouldn’t keep feeling them. I ask “what benefit am I getting from this?” Ex: from feeling unworthy and playing small, I’m protecting myself from rejection and staying in my comfort zone. Then, “how can I meet this need in a more aligned way?”

[@newworldlord643]

I struggle with this to omg... I've realized my depression and sadness Has been the only consistent thing in my life. I crave consistency 😩 even if it's painful I guess

[@ciel.denuit]

yessss ! I also like to pretend I am my own experiment, like a scientist watching its mouse having a strange reaction, and trying to figure out why

[@jaetrnn6000]

You're completely right actually! Our feelings and thought patterns are made to be adaptive and protect us from harm. One thing to keep in mind however is they protect us in times when those dangers are or were present. Furthermore, at those times we probably lacked the capacity to deal with those challenges. As we progress and grow in life, we learn that in order to unlock the full potential or life, we have to gradually let down those walls that we built that once protected us. While they were adaptive for certain dangers, those dangers may no longer be present and the lingering responses prevent us from unlocking true happiness, fulfillment and contentment as well as confidence and empowerment in life. So what does this all mean? Don't feel like those thought patterns are forever. Our brains are neuroplastic and can 100% change over time with conscious effort. Keep going, keep trying and you will grow. Another thing to remember is that just because you may feel certain negative emotions, does not necessarily mean they're true. Therefore discovering that out minds and reality are two seperate things allow us to understand that 1. Things aren't as bad as they seem and 2. If we learnt that life can be negative, we can also balance or alter those perceptions into more positive ones. In that sense, your mind is an extremely powerful tool if you can hone and tame it. You have all the potential to make it happen.

[@Jadewonderland]

The algorithm just knew 😌

[@b2d.hvb1ts]

@@jaetrnn6000 Hi love, i know that 4 months passed since you wrote that comment, but i want you to know that you changed my perspective of life. I've never thought of that, thank you so much!! im so grateful for your comment. I hope youre having a nice day, i love you.

[@Bullie_mama]

“Love is embarrassing yourself enough to ask for it” ❤❤❤

[@isaiahturner7227]

Wow

[@Mari_ksw]

“Not rushing is the most secret thing you can do for yourself, plain ahead, leave earlier. If you rush, you miss the miracle” ❤

[@fantacyencephalon_jess]

the power we all hold to make someone and all things feel loved is such a beautiful gift we carry. I hope you all are so loved and that you share your love to all those you come across :) I love you all so so so much.

[@mysticmaidenmagic]

i love you !!!!!!!!

[@fantacyencephalon_jess]

I love you beautiful being ❤​@@mysticmaidenmagic

[@kissourdeath2will]

I love you💜

[@DJ-mv1ux]

first time listening to you - at first I felt judgmental thinking "another spiritual chick", and then I realized you were saying everything that I say, and many more amazing words, so much so that I needed a pen to write it all down. You helped me realize that I have been shaming myself for being a woman who wants this inner peace. I have been so afraid of being typecast as a "spiritual girly" that I was killing my own way to community

[@magdalenacygan9973]

girl!!!!!! thank you for that comment, it made me realize that I'm also afraid to embrace this parte of me that longs for the depth and connection with the Universe, I even used to call myself 'ezo-crazy/mad girl' (in translation from my language) while talking to other people that are not that much into spirituality beacuse I shamed myself for being her

[@LeelyCat]

The existential kink thing you were talking about reminds me of a passage from ”note from the Underground ” from dostoievski, we do like to beat ourselves, and there is something soothing and almost gratifying about self-loathing, it’s true that it is almost a kink...might as well embrace and acknowledge our inner sado-masochist, it is part of our shadow and the goal is to intergrate it. Very interesting

[@NERDS143]

This was such a higher level conversation and truly a marvelous way of shifting our minds into abundance and wholehearted living. More love is the medicine! Much gratitude for discussions like this.

[@elisanapoletano]

needed this 🤲🏻🙏🏻 so much. what I am realising is that if there is no enemy inside, whatever the enemy outside is, he/she/it cannot hurt you and this inner fire is what awakes our truest beauty and soul to shine. in a society made of masks, tearing them away is the biggest flex

[@oamahana]

So true❤

[@Green-vq8xj]

going on a first date tomorrow after a year long dating hiatus - this is the pep talks of all pep talks, thank you ❤

[@spacebar9733]

Omg go bestie !!!! ❤❤❤ I hope u have a lot of fun

[@shgd7665]

Good luck! Be yourself and you’ll attract who you’re meant to 💖

[@shiptowreck855]

i don't know why I clicked on this when I've purposefully built a life without intimacy, but this opened up a part of my mind I thought died years ago

[@freyaallen6324]

that's so beautiful

[@helion6260]

idk if you have the time to explain and don't feel obliged at all but why did you've purposefully built a life without intimacy ?

[@heartcenteredsoul]

you are so loved hitomi. the remembrance that you exist on the same planet makes my heart so much lighter n free ☀️

[@avavavavvava]

Dearest Hitomi, I used to be really scared and disturbed by your content for a reason I couldn't articulate. I think I was so afraid that that joy and deep self intimacy could never be for me. I thought that self intimacy and love would have to include self punishment. I had this idea that there was so much pain in me and I wasn't strong enough, didn't have the energy to feel through the avalanche of fear. I am rewatching your videos from a very new place. I left school and I'm terrified but I am finally free. I can finally hear you. Thank you, thank you, thank you.

[@LorenzoTarchi]

hi hitomi, everything you said completely reflected what i’ve been doing for the past month, so thank you for giving it a voice. in particular, i feel like when you take life as a “joke” (or in a more Indian way of intending it, you give space to the so-called “līla”) or as a “dance”, everyone who cares deeply for you immediately starts to align to you vibration and i think that’s amazing!

[@mrssomeone2143]

Bercanda in Indonesian, or guyon in Javanese

[@ladyfaye]

Wow wow. I'm going through a breakup currently and this felt so healing. I've also been in relationships/situationships pretty consistently since I was young and shifting into singlehood in my late 20's is going to be so life changing. I hope to use this experience to become more in tune with myself. This was exactly what I needed to hear

[@maartinabravo]

thank you being sharing the intimate parts of yourself hitomi! I'm so thankful for the wisdom you share, even though we are only 2 years apart it helps me grow and reflect on myself as well

[@subethiraahrumugam7980]

i literally felt the love radiating from you through this video and i immediately felt uplifted. thank you for being you! you’re an inspiration ❤

[@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool]

❤

[@noemibolanos6980]

infinitely grateful for your teachings toto. i've been watching you for about 3 years now and with each video i find your words sinking deeper and deeper into my being. thank you for being a conduit of light for all of humanity, and more so a friend to us all

[@The-Powertree-Alchemist]

I totally agree with the sexual part. There’s a negative notion revolving sex,pleasure and spirituality. The thing is, is that majority of people dont practice spiritual sex. Spiritual sex is where you use your spirit to take your body to experience a total dimension of love and creation. People who associate sex as 3D thing because they perceive sex as something they DO; after experiencing spirituality i came to understand that sex is somewhere you GO and that’s the difference. Our intentions play a huge part in the experiences we experience. I dare everyone to combine the beauty of their 3D Sacred element with their spirit and report back to me please. Love the video. Now let me continue watching 😅

[@rozaSkroza]

girl, every sentence is in the right place. you're channeling. thank you ❤

[@toddy7140]

I'm taking notes with pen and paper. I really need to work on non judgment a lot and increasing my curiosity. I love all these tips to redirect negative thinking and feeling.

[@jessalynsimone]

I’ve really been wanting to explore the sensuality I have within me without making others feel weirded out by the taboo of it all? I know sexuality isn’t taboo but not everyone is used to it. I want to explore that part of me so badly and give it the compassion to finally break free from the constraints it’s been under. I want to make love to life so badly without having negative thought surrounding it.

[@aspiringsiren]

maybe try joining spaces that are celebrating this if you can find them! groups that meet/dance events/healing workshops surrounding the topic of sensuality/sexuality. I've started working at a sex shop and it's been so healing and empowering for me to be in that community and environment :) I hope you find a space to explore this whether it is with others or within yourself🤍

[@cantonpop]

Thank you for your videos. Those about sexuality really empowered me a lot. K used to fill myself with guilt and shame whenever I thought about sex but now I’m completely ok talking about that with my current bf. We both found talking about it very useful in building our emotional and sexual bond. ❤ we definitely have grown much closer after being able to be intimate and vulnerable at the same time so… thanks !!!

[@estefvindas4747]

My dream is to be like you, in my own way of course✨🧚🏻‍♀️💖 but I just admire so much your wisdom, your authenticity and healed spirit It’s something I want for myself, and also I would love to share it with others like you I dont know how to do that yet

[@koneanani2921]

recently, your videos have been deeply resonating with me, I'm in a dark place right now, but trying to be graceful,,, and trying not to rush my changing self. Your words, though, will help guide me through this growth and transformation!! Thank you Hitomi

[@bellabella2311]

Love this Hitomi! I loved when you said that you never crave relationship because you have such a full life. I would like to see life that way, how do you do that ? Can you tell more about this mindset ? I find myself often craving relationship and would love to get better at being more immerse in self/life than others. I also liked that you are voluntary staying single and would love to know how you can stand on your decision to not have relationship while being intimate with others. I find myself struggling to keep the boundaries and standing on my decision to stay single when I am intimate with others or like someone.

[@zdealwis]

your videos always come at the perfect moment

[@audshannonn]

Hitomi, you are such a sacred soul here on earth. You move me with everything you speak on and you have helped me so much for the past like 4 or so years. I am so excited to be able to create a safe space and community. If anyone would like to start a group chat where we can speak on growing spiritually and connect personally, I would love that❤

[@marcelaifju7422]

I would also love this. Creating a safe space and a community to talk about our journeys would be so amazing!

[@yao3206]

I would love a chat like that, let me know if it ever happens :)

[@marinabarros883]

loved thatttt

[@nataliejakobsen1783]

I have rarely commented here on KZbin but thank you Hitomi. I am going through some extremely triggering self-doubt challenges in my romantic relationships and I was reluctant to watch this video as I thought it might trigger my fears on how not an attractive and confident lover I am. But you reminded me of the oneness of it all, that love goes beyond so much more than romance and that romance goes beyond so much more than just romantic partnerships. Thank you for grounding me again and putting some balm on my tired and scared heart.

[@colvillesomma]

I’ve been on this earth quite a long time and done a lot of different work with some very wise people and I have to tell you, you are really really gifted. And generous. Your ability to articulate these ideas authentically and clearly is incredible. ❤

[@dolletician]

I'm not sure how to word this but, the recent videos you've posted feel so different in the best way possible. Not to say that, your other videos are ingenuine, there's just a different kind of openness I feel from you. I feel more of your character is shining through, the energy of these videos feels like fresh morning air, like something that will make me laugh is about to happen. This could be just me also developing more perspective as I've been feeling so much about the transition of girlhood to womanhood. I feel connected to the way you embody womanhood. Lovely video!

[@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool]

This is so helpful and I am happy you are sharing ❤

[@mochipoyo]

what kind of practices really got you to this place of gratitude and oneness? these are all really great wisdom but feel like comsequences of your practices (and other infkuences) im interested in the "how" in your title :)

[@1297sopapia]

Does anyone have any book recommendations for non judgment and neutrality of emotions?

[@gaycat2882]

I love your way of expressing yourself, you should really start a podcast!

[@findthebliss]

ah you angel, this video just completely turned my day around. I love the practice of romancing every moment- felt consumed with dread, grief and loneliness a few minutes ago and this allowed me move to a place of excitement that I get to extract so much poetry and wisdom from these present emotions...and the idea of inviting eroticism into moments of overwhelm.. such an interesting perspective shift, thank you!!

[@kate-wo1pg]

I love you 😇

[@samal4]

Hitomi is a philosopher of our time. I wonder if she considers to put her life teachings in a book?

[@Xyz.1102]

I’d read every single one

[@Pammidhollaatme]

such a beautiful and helpful video for someone who is trying to better themselves and treat everyone with love and nonjudgement. Thank you so much Hitomi

[@MissesFateful]

11:00 This watered my eyes immediatley. I feel like this often in some capacity.

[@marty3456hgn]

3:59 I’m also a silly person but sometimes I feel childish when embracing that unserious side of me. I cause kids love it and I’ve always been told to pretend around children and not be myself cause that’s what adults do, but I’m working on accepting a new truth and letting go of that weird limiting noise. Why should I be cold when I’m full of warmth and acceptance and life?

[@ehecatlvidal8496]

Some of the stuff you say here remind me of Hesse's words in the Steppenwolf. I think he proposes very similar ways of being and of perceiving/experiencing life/reality. Pretty cool!

[@teaganw.8288]

you have taught me so much. finding home in myself and becoming a stale source of love for myself has been the biggest challenge but you model it beautifully. thank you so so much

[@razzerkatana]

Am I the only one who feels like she's a jar of honey? 😂 it might sound weird but every time I hear her talk about stuff its like she is emanating this loving sweetness 🤔

[@aqiqilo]

hello hitomi 💛 i would like to ask you how you stay connected to nature in such a big city as nyc? i dunno if you have already say it but i would really like to know - cities are slowly killing me, you are a beautiful soul, keep shining and teaching us how to 🫶🏻 thank you

[@Indudevidasi]

„Sacred silliness!“ I love that so much… maybe I will make some art with that theme…Thank you for this good video!!! You are putting so much work into it and I am so greatfull for that.🙏✌️😀

[@makellovelady7972]

I have a quick question- have you ever taken medication Hitomi? From your past videos talking about suicide attempts, severe depression to the place you are now I want to know how you did it. I’ve been recommended medication for years and I keep saying that I’m taking care of myself and balancing my hormones in a holistic way. Tips?

[@lgpeace]

Your sex advice is so healing for me. It’s something I care about a lot in my relationship but also struggle a LOT with feeling confident. I feel so embarrassed, even though I’ve been with my partner for 2+ years. I want to please him, too. Thank you!!

[@redpill3511]

My new life gonna cost me my old one

[@alicia10387]

Oh I needed this! I was just thinking about new friendships and how I want to be better!

[@Io-hx8dt]

Can you please explain how to embrace deep love and intimate emotions while not getting into a relationship ? ❤

[@CoolVictor2002]

I have never been in a relationship or kissed, at one point I felt like a loser because I couldn't court. and wanted to delete myself for it.

[@floralfaun]

What is the difference between revealing your shadows with someone early on vs traumabonding? Every toxic relationship I've had I had noticed a trend of traumabonding at the beginning which fueled bad attachments on both sides. So I'm very wary when it comes to opening up like that again now and I dont know where to draw that line.

[@raindownxx]

To me, the difference lays in responsibility and intention. As I reveal my shadows I intend to be clear, honest and vulnerable but ultimately they are my responsibility. I can say: "this is difficult and scary for me and you can help, but you can't "fix" me or my feelings, neither would I like you to try." Or: "I'm going through difficult emotions and would like to share, so that you can understand. Then I would like some time to resolve them." Traumabonding is more likely when we can't notice our triggers, when we don't pause when we're triggered and when we use the other person as a tool to emotionally regulate. Most importantly, it occurs when trauma is an excuse to hurt others or disrespect boundaries. This is never okay. What helped me over the years, whenever I was unsure, was to take things slowly. Ask for space, wait until the storm passes before engaging again. The right person will have patience and eventually the right time arrives.

[@teddybeartears88]

A trauma bond is only a bond with an abusive person so if you were abused by your parent or lover or friend and you feel indebted and worthless without them that is a trauma bond. It is a psychological phenomena not any relationship where you guys bond over shared trauma/past difficulties. Pls use the term correctly. If someone abused you and you feel attached to them, don’t want to leave the relationship and feel you are nothing with out them, THAT is a trauma bond. You were most likely just enmeshing with other codependent people because you bonded over SHARED trauma. That is NOT a trauma bond. It is also not going through a traumatic experience with someone else necessarily.

[@teddybeartears88]

@@raindownxx A trauma bond is only a bond with an abusive person so if you were abused by your parent or lover or friend and you feel indebted and worthless without them that is a trauma bond. It is a psychological phenomena not any relationship where you guys bond over shared trauma/past situations. Pls use the term correctly. There is no trauma bond if you shared your trauma too quickly with another person, they too have similar trauma and you guys enmesh because of that. That is simply codependency. It is also not going through a traumatic experience with someone else necessarily. The only correct del definition was in reference to using your trauma as an excuse to hurt others or violate boundaries

[@floralfaun]

@@teddybeartears88 I think I had dealt with a little bit of both then. Thank you for the clarity!

[@teddybeartears88]

⁠@@floralfaun😢🥺so sorry to hear that on both accounts but I’m glad I could provide clarification! Overall the advice about taking it slow from the other commenter is on point. Always make sure you are taking each step forward with whomever you are building a relationship. Check in on the step forward and if a step back is needed, you can always do that! I hope you find the people who will be tender with you. take care :)

[@Coco-pr3rz]

7:55 yes but why are they some people who aren't blessed? who suffer from lack of food or war?

[@alicet822]

Hi Hitomi, So simple - not rushing!!! This is the feeling that I crave often. Thank you for always sharing your wisdom. Can you make these videos into audios/podcasts? Would love to listen to your wisdom during my commutes.

[@michellegaudet3829]

I like your message- I just wanna add- in the existential kink/funk stuff- sometimes those spirals happen with health issues also. Pre or post migraines/ post seizures/ pre/during/post flu/ PMDD or hormone changes/ inflammation/dietary reactions/ etc So I guess I think when people are wondering why they might think a way- just to rule those out first

[@luademetal]

i really want to know how to judge less and be less competitive, i have such feeling of being better than everybody and i am willing to change that, because that emotion is draining me and it is very heavy. how can i start this journey?

[@F4R4DISE]

watching your videos always makes me remember myself

[@MichelleCalderwood]

Your messages are so pure and beautiful. I am inspired by your mind and soul. I feel joy knowing that you exist out there and are leading by example. Ugh love.

[@ozatanvi]

Hitomi, your vids have seriously brightened my 2023! 🌟 They've been my go-to on tough days, so thanks for always keeping it real. Sending good vibes for your mental, physical, and emotional well-being. Wishing you a fantastic New Year and lots of love this holiday season! 🎉💖 Excited for what 2024 brings! 🚀

[@cherryyy_0004]

Hitomi, you inspire and heal me with your words and give me peace and warmth. Thank you for sharing❤️🙏🏼

[@HikariBitesYou]

“I feel how life was meant to yolk me” wow I’m in tears. Thank you Hitomi ❤

[@brianacarstea956]

Hitomi, every video where you open up yourself this deeply is such a bless and brings me joy and hope about life. You are such an inspiration, thank you

[@e11ieadyson]

I feel like the hardest part for me is finding that community.. I did not have that in my blood line either yet in my environment it seems like I cannot find that trusting open loving community in other females :( But i do aim to cultivate that in myself!

[@natzuko9275]

You are WISE beyond your years Hitomi 🥺🥺😍😍♥️♥️ Thank you

[@popi5356]

this comes at the perfect time. I just started my first relationship with this boy that I really like. I asked him for his number on the last day of school and he walked me home. He's a kind soul, shy and very warm. Im also his first Girlfriend which at first scared me a little but then I started seeing it as a opportunity to teach not only him but myself how to love and appreciate. We cuddle a lot and like to just talk or admire each other in silence. We also just started kissing and we are both honestly very unexperienced which really makes me insecure tbh.. I really want to be more calm and stop spiralling because of my own insecurities. Do you have any advice on how to be a good kisser? A competent lover? Thank you for your energy and videos I am truly grateful for your openness and videos. And if you're reading this, thank you for your time :)

[@lovekittyforever]

Try to just experiment and experience things together, try kissing him in one way and ask both him and yourself "do we like that?" "Hmm maybe like this?" That's how you find out what you like. Don't be afraid to say what you don't like. But also be open to try and see if you like it :) good luck!

[@ChaiTogether]

lol in the big world indeed! ❤

[@ella9641]

i could listen to you talk for hours, you remind me of all the light inside me

[@thauriela6882]

oh I feel the same way

[@annaperschin3]

Thank you so much for this video

[@janagoes9851]

Romanticising makes me feel like a character from studio Ghibli ❤ But I wonder something, I have a friend who feels like she has to romanticise everything, and she feels worthless, guilty and shameful when she doesn't romanticise. Sometimes our conversations struggle because there is so much shame in the atmosphere when things are real, unmasked, ordinary. To me it feels like she cannot give her life value outside those romantic images. I'm talking about watching the sunrise, going for a midnight swim, dance in a jazzclub, pick flowers and make a bouquet, which are all amazing, but there is so much guilt when she isn't able to do these things. It pains me to see her struggle...

[@miraholgersson8825]

thank you for this hitomi. your videos feel so safe, inspiring and beautiful. thank you for being you!

[@lgobec1980]

Girl can you just write a book please thank you

[@jamila435]

Thank you for being so vulnerable. I could listen to you for hours. Thank you for sharing!

[@agitationfree5980]

dang this is some hot truth

[@mickael999able]

Hi, I am a long time youtube user and I have seen so much content in regards to your discussion topics. I want to say that you are really touching a deep part within myself in these videos. I have great appreciation and grattitude in knowing a channel like yours exist and that women like you exist. Thank you for what you are doing and for the deep work you have been doing for your own self. These are major keys which you have shared and I feel that I even got access to a deeper understanding of Love and attraction through this. Not only your words are great but your tone, energy and sensibility really empower them. Thank you!

[@Maedchenausdemmeer]

I‘m currently seeing someone that really sparks excitement inside of me while going through a friendship breakup at the same time. I really feel like the universe gives me love back because I was brave enough to let that person go. It is still really hard to make sense of that situation and trusting myself with this new relationship. I would really appreciate if you would talk about non-romantic breakups because its rarely picked up but a really important part of growing into to oneself.

[@ezekiel9647]

Please write a book

[@anyiawilson]

your videos havent been on my feed for a while, so grateful I saw you come up again much needed. Also girl so proud of you, YOUR SKIN LOOKS AMAZING!

[@kawwo1198]

woudl love to hear what does taking a break look like for you during sex? I'm sometimes worried about taking too long, just rushing in general I guess, to please and to show up perfectly and I wanna work on it so :) your examples/videos help immensly, for that I'm eternally grateful

[@s3rendip1ty_]

I already know this is gonna make my soul tingle with positiviy ♥

[@no4li0n]

this video is one im gonna re-watch many times, it is so rich and helpful. You really have a gift of making people (or atleast me) feel at peace, calmer and grounded. Thank you again Hitomi

[@jenfrance1906]

I hope to meet you one day! I’m 47 and learn so much rewiring by learning new sensual pathways I love and you have helped me define what I’m looking for Lovership 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

[@femeninafeliz]

OH MYLANTA! Babe I’m sitting here drawing Inspo because I want to start making videos on my healing journey. I rose up from a horribly dark place and want to help others who are going through something similar. Your video came up on my algorithm and I am about to do binge watch your channel. You’re AMAZING and so beautifully inspiring. Thank you for sharing this beauty with us. I hope you continue receiving an unmeasurable amount of blessings. New subscriber here, can’t wait to see more! P.S., in LOVE with your aesthetic 🥰😘

[@nicolejackson9102]

hi hitomi! thank you so much for this video it resonated with me a lot with where i am at in my journey currently. something you said in the last section on sexuality/sensuality really caught my interest where you said you sometimes find yourself struggling to be your authentic self around men. for as long as i remember i have had such a rocky relationship with men (not just romantically), and i have tried so many times to enter new relationships with love and an open heart only to feel like i cannot relate/connect at all. i was socialized heavily around women and when i hear you speak i feel 100% in tune with you. i love men so much, but just STRUGGLE soooo much. i have looked online for healthy/vulnerable sources to learn from but cant seem to find anything. it's usually quite toxic actually whenever it relates to men.... if you feel so inclined would you be open to speaking on this? (:

[@avadavampire6067]

please start a podcast

[@marissaalfieri6004]

thank you hitomi. i see all of my favorite parts of myself in you, and i think thats why i feel so connected to you and your story. youve mirrored so much of my own light & dark to me because of how vulnerable youve been. im so grateful to have your light even just through the internet heheh-youve guided me more than you could ever know!! sending you so much love always❤

[@LaurenOKane-kd5tw]

Binging hitomi is self care ✨

[@liana007]

It’s so hard for me right now because I dont have a comfort/safe space at this point in my life. I had to leave an unsafe environment where I had 3 dogs that were the only ones that held me together when I had no one to go to or a place where I felt home 🥲. I was on such a good path to self acceptance and love, having that space to truly be yourself and feel loved is so important. Thank you for sharing your insights ♥️

[@hacermepoliglota2845]

Dear Hitomi, I am very greatful. The way you look at life, the way you think and speak, aligns a lot with who I am. Listening to you gives me courage to stop hiding and instead go out and be authenic. Thank you. Really! 🙏

[@giuliazefferino7803]

Hi Hitomi, can I ask you, in your opinion, what is the difference between a relationship and feeling strong and deep love for someone? i'm struggling with this right now and i would like to expand my reflections, thxx

[@samanthacherry9207]

hi hitomi! I have questioned for a while how to ask someone if they want to make love when things start feeling spicy with someone lol

[@sarahroisin96]

Can you please make a podcast 💕 I love this wisdom

[@WhereDoIBegin-t9t]

How did I find you!?! I needed you my whole life.. thank you so much ❤ for literally everything. I’ve been binge watching you

[@jesspatterson333]

Thank you Hitomi for this chat❤ your videos and topics always come up in divine timing. Thank you for reminding me to be non-judgemental and fully accepting of “negative” feelings that sporadically arise. I am feeling so refreshed :)

[@bythewater1963]

So much of this is exactly what I need, so thoughtfully and beautifully said and it aligns with so many smaller things I’ve been working through already. I feel like you just tied is all together so digestibly, thank you!

[@naiaplanty5270]

Hitomi , you continuously bring me back to myself. Your words and presence show me how normal it is to have a full spectrum experience of life and how to unconditionally love ourselves through it. Thank you so much for sharing so vulnerably. It’s incredibly inspiring ! ✨❤️

[@user-xw4li3ew3p]

I don't comment often on videos but please keep doing what you are doing, please. You have such a lovely energy, I can feel it through your videos. I apsire to have your mindset, wisdom and power. Your videos are going to help a lot of people in this world and I hope it keeps spreading your positivity

[@mijamarovt4382]

yess i just sat down to watch something on youtube and i was hoping there'd be a new video!!:) and also ive been thinking about this topic the past few weeks

[@SpicyPumpkin001]

Wonderful words and inspirational. Thank you ❤

[@Highvibesgirl]

Love it! This is a synchronized message. I had just written an article last night that relates to everything you said in this video. 🌹🙏🏻

[@mimi-iy7jv]

i think your very brave for being able to acknowledge your shadows and feelings we have been taught to judge. i inspire to claim