This makes you unattractive to women 🤦‍♀️(how to tell and what to do about it)

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00:00 Intro
01:00 5 Signs you're being clingy
01:06 How to rebalance a relationship
01:55 #1 You keep your schedule open for them
02:41 #2 You constantly seek validation
03:47 #3 You're losing yourself in the relationship
04:27 #4 You ignore the red flags
05:59 #5 You lower your standards
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[@pohdiquesti]

Guys stay single and be safe…believe me…

[@juanderuano8969]

Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her

[@juanderuano8969]

Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach her?

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Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive

[@BrandenoidDestroyer]

A relationship of 7 years was ended last year April, she not only moved away but was craving to be with other guys at campus. I miss her but I'm better now than I was last year

[@seanmeehan9660]

Join a gym. Smash it

[@austinsummers8318]

Workout and focus on self improvement you’ll be fine

[@MatthewODuncan]

Your advice in this video is spot on. It took me a long time to learn these lessons on my own. I went through a toxic relationship in college and then a string of short poor relationships afterwards. Then one day I met a woman who was like no one else in my life. She was sweet, kind, fun, full of life, and shared a lot of my interests. But she had just gotten out of a very bad relationship herself and didn't want to get into a serious relationship. I had heard the "You're a great guy, but I just want to be friends," speech so much that my typical response would have been to say "okay" and not call her again. But I LIKED this woman so much, that I needed to have her in my life, even as just a friend. So that was what I focused on. Just being her friend. We were engaged less than a year later and have been married for over 25 years. My point is when I stopped chasing lovers and just focused on friendships, love found a way to be part of my life.

[@barthez_]

Good advice, but also very dangerous to fall in the friendzone of someone like this. Had the unluck to be in such situation. Before I knew she hooked up with another guy, because I was just a friend.

[@kstar2157]

Thank you Caitlin. I needed this advise right now. Lately I've caught myself being this way with a girl that I know there is no future with. She's beautiful, fun to be with, but way younger than me. And even tho we have our moments, I know it's not real. I sometimes find it hard to say no to her, and I need this slap in the face to remember that this isn't who I am. We all need to look out for number one, and avoid those who look at us as someone who is just there for them

[@CatServant]

I’ve been guilty of being needy in my current relationship. After my wife passed away, I had a hard time dealing with being alone, so I overcompensated. I think my GF and I have settled into a stable relationship now and we both genuinely enjoy our limited time together.

[@tony1007]

thanks caitlin! I really need to hear this!

[@BecomeConsciousNow]

Great video Caitlin. This is exactly why I'm scared to get into a relationship because having grown up in a dysfunctional environment and not feeling loved, my need to be liked by the other person makes relationships difficult. I have decided to remain single and focus on me and if someone comes along that is right I may entertain a relationship again. But I'm quite content being alone.

[@tiranezra9020]

Very helpful, and super important, especially to people that have already had trauma bond in their past and trying their best to make an amazing new relationship work

[@JacobCarlson-uq1my]

You are such a beautiful, positive, healing woman! I love your ear rings. Thankyou for you incredible woman.❤

[@kjaime7030]

Excellent advice all around, BUT not universal. I have a girlfriend who is SUPER clingy, and I've had to set boundaries to ensure I have enough time in the week to get the things done I need to. HOWEVEr, she is also someone who goes out of her way to do things for me that are the most thoughtful things of any woman I've ever dated, so she's definitebly a prize. So her clinginess is totally worth it for as far into the future as I can imagine. In fact, I would go as far as to say that she's the only person in my decades of dating that appears to love me as much as I love her, which is shown from her actions rather than just words. Hell, she even puts up with parts of my life that to some women would be major red flags that are understandable, even though it's true that I'm incredibly romantic and a patient and thoughtful yet adventurous lover who has ambitions and travel experience, etc.

[@brendanh8705]

I'm 42, never been in love because I've always thought I've got nothing to offer so i just try and make her happy, now that's a red flag. I'm screwed.

[@thomasdorsey3227]

I am loving the magical kitchen!! My trouble is this one woman in my life who happens to be an amazing chef 😀 Totally find myself being as you described even though I know better....

[@Mr-MH227]

Brilliant advice 👍

[@gbau92]

Thank you for this !!! 💙☮️

[@toddholen2762]

Just what I needed.

[@PrezidentHughes]

A girl recently came into my life and began to treat me better than any female in my life ever did (outside of my mom and extremely close cousins). My mind went "clingy" so fast, I had to deliberately force that feeling down. The more we interacted, she kept being empathetic towards me. It was a struggle. She definitely has "wife vibes" by the way she carries herself and how warm, amiable and agreeable she is. I'm trying hard to play my cards right.

[@themystery9219]

Thank you so much for this video I've learned so much that I will use to Improve my relationship

[@barthez_]

These don't be clingy advises often sound to me like: you're not allowed to fully and deeply love someone, but if you do don't show it. And god forbid you expect your partner to reflect any of these feelings. Do relationships really to have look like roommates who share one bank account and bed? I mean if I have to choose to go drink with a friend or spend the time with my girl, which I could not see for a few days because we work etc. of coarse I choose her. Or in any other hobby example, that I know I can do at any other point. Is that bad? Is it bad that I would like to hear "I love you" at least once a week, when I tell her that almost daily?

[@cniht]

Well one thing about your analogy at the end. You can be honest with your guy friends; you have to beat around the bush with her. And that's the primary issue/turn off with me.

[@davethebrahman9870]

It’s a shame, but women love dishonesty and pretence.

[@AugustdeChriox]

It's really helpful. I've been in a relationship like this before. It's clear that the other person can go up to 9 days without replying to me, but I'm unilaterally persistent. Now that my mind has stabilized, the next concern is, how to properly claim back the bills I paid in this unbalanced relationship to rebalance it? Or forget it?

[@AugustdeChriox]

It's sad to realize you're obsessed with the wrong person, but it's even more heartbreaking to realize you've foolishly paid more bills in exchange only for the other's stress and resentment towards yourself...

[@3Fs10]

Really very useful video ❤ Mam can y advise steps to improve my libido

[@bens52310]

Yes to all...

[@mandalorian-justice3726]

The worse red flag I was told was, she said what would I do if she cheated on me? She has been married, to the same man for 27 years now-He was a close friend. Yes-I seriously have trust issues. The last woman was pregnant with my child, and during a good night of sex, she had an orgasm and called me someone else's name-WTF! It was the guy, she was cheating on me with.

[@rusty2811]

You always have this option that we can come when we want. I have never had an opportunity to tell you when I want!🥰😋😘😉

[@benjaminphilpot4262]

Relationships are impossible

[@Mojo702]

The one who loves the least has the control. It's not about not loving that person, it's about acting as if that person isn't "the love of your life." It's all games and stupid, but it is what it is

[@srs1518]

Wish I had heard this 20 years ago...

[@davidsfamily8810]

I hate peoples who don’t respond within a reasonable time, again I won’t tolerate games at all

[@madcoolclips2800]

👌

[@svendhollander7065]

Power games

[@deskbreaker]

This is where I am, they can smell the desperation a mile away. I haven't had a lover in years and I don't know how to fix it. I only managed to pull like 2 or 3 dates all of last year and they went nowhere. You keep saying self-love like it's some magic bullet but I just don't understand it.

[@JunkionMarnot2005]

Yup……😔

[@evspaceman]

When we look through the rose-tinted glasses of love all red flags just look like flags

[@offairhead]

👍🏻

[@ranusmagnus656]

@11:11 Not very convincing anymore. I'm waiting for that person for decades ... and no one even wants to pretend to.

[@RobertSkene-qw3ob]

What about NERDY and NEEDY ?A double whammy😄🇨🇦

[@HL_YT555]

Nerds are in 💯

[@NoSenatorson]

This is strange. I was accused of not being available and not communicating enough. What’s the balance?

[@BCSchmerker]

+caitlinvictoriousx *As of 6 February 2024 I'm **_not_** in a romantic involvement.*

[@shotscallher007]

Cheat on her as you leave her in the desert that's what she's doing to you facts

[@kylewilliams9907]

Yea the only relationship I have like that is with the dog. And damn right I cling to her. It's all a joke, everyone dies alone.

[@jonasvaccaro7606]

So basically whatever you do, don't fall in love! If you fall in love you're going to keep your schedule open to her, loose your self in her, ignore her inperfections. Great advice. Lets all go through life and with the guard up and play games

[@immortalobelisk6302]

I see your point, but as someone that should have had stronger boundaries in the past there is a place for advice like this

[@borise4104]

yep. if you fell in love you must play those games. if you aren't - it comes naturally.

[@c-4839]

Indeed, life is brutal like that. One must learn subtility and bargaining beyond what they see offered. Like when you go buy something you convince the seller that the thing is nothing special perhaps mediocre at best to get a favorable lower price - save costs. On the other hand they work hard to convince you that you are getting the best deal and there is no way you can get a lower price. They get a reasonable mark up as a result - higher profits. I think intersexual dynamics are the same. Every person for themselves

[@skinnygumbo9555]

"Invest in yourself" what the hell does that mean in real terms?

[@davidshoyt1979]

Or the woman can’t handle a healthy relationship. There’s that too. More often tgg if an not it’s not the guy being “clingy” it’s the woman being emotionally incompetent

[@georgemurphy738]

How about nobody's a prize?

[@alejandromata825]

Nothing in the beginning of this video sounds respectable to me so far! First of all, don’t be clingy! But after that, if your energy changes and you do anything other than tell the other person to F off, you aren’t the prize either and you’d probably side skirt like that further down a relationship with something more important. That whole I’m too busy thing to hang out is for the birds, say what you really think and feel so it can be accepted and weighed appropriately!

[@kevinarns2185]

Hard to pay attention when your wearing a shirt like that. I didn’t hear a word you said. 😅

[@jnmc-vx4fw]

Nothing like having to play games and not be yourself. Maybe just maybe your with the wrong person? ….

[@christopherregister2246]

I don't do any kind of relationship I avoid all relationships I don't need human relationships the human life is pointless and meaningless

[@JohnDoe-fi8kc]

Yeah you're not going to tell women how bad it is. You're only going to tell men how bad it is. How bad they are I mean

[@davidsfamily8810]

Too many games That’s why I don’t date

[@banksofbarcelona3893]

As three fourths of water makes seven seas, your ideas impact us positively to several degrees!

[@skinnygumbo9555]

Let's not take the abundance mindset to extreme here. If one person were as good as another, there would be no toxic people. You are not attracted to everyone, so those you are attracted to are clearly in a different category. The idea that such people are super abundant is just wishful thinking

[@scottsmith1455]

You make it too complicated

[@zl707hp]

Guys stick with escorts and keep your real life separate from your sex life get what you need and want from the escorts and stay focused on your goals. Women these days just play games you don't have time for that sh¡t !!!