THIS MLM COACH JUST RUINED HER BUSINESS | GETS CALLED OUT BY OTHER MLM HUNS

[@mistakenlymidwest2460]

Lmao at Colleen saying she doesn’t understand people writing comments when she runs an entire account talking shit..

[@juliejo]

THIS RIGHT HERE

[@gemmateller1086]

Right!!!

[@LisaHarvey16]

Love it!!

[@shahadal-ward2557]

This is the new “Rachel Hollis, I can afford to hire a toilet-cleaning lady because I worked my a** off”… All while forgetting the privileges and the support system that she has… same vibe 🤦🏻‍♀️

[@juliejo]

OOP!! yes!!

[@Myella229]

That's who ex-husband died. She looked familiar but couldn't put a name to it. Rachel Hollis

[@kelleyatc]

That’s the exact vibe I got.

[@JordanS-ww4eu]

@@juliejoI really like you Julie you’re my best friend ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@JordanS-ww4eu]

@@juliejoyou’re very pretty as a blonde

[@mistakenlymidwest2460]

IF THESE WOMEN DONT GET RIHANNAS NAME OUT THEIR MOUTH

[@juliejo]

LOUDER FOR THE HUNS IN THAT BACK!!

[@martinal9319]

I think “no shame sales game” actually just means Colleen herself has no shame saying these outlandish things regardless of who it affects 🤣

[@kiterafrey]

She shamed people for not working pregnant, then to cover her butt then shamed Rhianna's performance by saying it was just her walking on the stage and lip syncing. IDK who this woman is, but I'll never follow her after this.

[@S-R-H]

She got her own name wrong, it should be ALL SHAME sales game.

[@juliejo]

YES! I agree lol

[@LisaHarvey16]

Love it!!

[@ErinBies]

15:33 the fact that she’s shaming people for commenting but earlier bragged about her engagement being through the roof is wilddddddddd!

[@floefloe8925]

I have always said this about Colleen. She wants us to think she is "not like other huns", but the toxic hustle culture, and her condescending, passive-aggressive tone tells a different story.

[@NotThatKate]

I’m right at the start, but Colleen’s comment had me immediately screaming “Rihanna has a personal assistant!” I could do everything preggers if I’d had infinite money and help, too. Instead, I leaned into being a potato. Which is what I think all pregnant people should have the choice to do if they want or need.

[@kbird6208]

Anyone would find things easier with, say, a personal chef that travels with them and makes whatever you want on demand. (He carries certain ingredients everywhere in case they aren't available and she wants something specific.)

[@georginakiersten8383]

I normally don't comment. But as someone who owns a real business I find Colleen basically talking down to her customers and then switching to a sales pitch to be foul as hell. This woman metric tons of audacity!

[@juliejo]

well thank you for commenting and I appreciate your perspective on this :)

[@Tranquileyess]

Colleen’s reaction to people disagreeing with her post was WILD. The fact that she started saying “you’re not my people .” “Unfollow me.” To her followers/customers and fans is funny, cause they weren’t even hating on her, they just didn’t like the way that the post pushed a toxic hustle culture. She’s definitely the type of person who thinks she’s always right & never needs feedback .

[@juliejo]

Yup!!! 👏👏

[@kiterafrey]

A small part of me hopes they take her up on that, I hope a massive amount of her followers unfollow her and her customers stop paying her. Malicious compliance is the best way to send a message sometimes.

[@mars4697]

Colleen does not appear to be empathetic at all. She can have an opinion all she wants but the fact she wouldn’t allow others to have a different opinion shows she has no desire to understand anyone else. I can’t believe that “working your business” is more important then living life. Colleen dear, I truly hope you see and learn a different way to love. The other thing that is astonishing to me is that through all this she feels that she is the leader and setting the example of how to live life. Yikes! Perspective is important, self reflection is imperative for a life that is full, joyful and balanced.

[@RabekahRandoms]

The way she back tracks sooooo hard when people give her push back! Like she really goes from “if Rihanna can do it pregnant so can you” to “Rihanna phoned it in at least she did it” 🙃 like what

[@hellygeer]

I noticed that too. Big ?

[@knmorris0202]

They acting like Rihanna never takes days off?

[@knitronics]

I'm amazed she has any followers left. Even taking the whole MLM vs antiMLM aspect out of it, her level of gaslighting in this situation is appalling. Like how many people need to tell you that you're wrong before you stop to consider that maybe you did/said something wrong?

[@LisaHarvey16]

She doesn't deserve any followers 🙂

[@kelleyatc]

I was thinking the same. She has already positioned herself in such a way (pro mlm), but then add this garbage on top of it- who willingly follows this nonsense.

[@wombatnumbat989]

She and JLW are the worst of all!! So smug and arrogant, so mean and belittling! Both of them not only prey on mlm victims, but re-victimize them by encouraging them to pay for additional training!

[@LisaHarvey16]

Yes. Totally agree!!

[@AmberB83]

17:50 the entire use of “panties in a wad” is such a childish thing to say and so rude! I had never heard of her until some of y’all shared this video. How does this even come off professional in any way for her? It’s gross.

[@willow3306]

It's definitely shaming

[@heather.carpenter19]

Colleen's reaction was disgusting 🤢🤮 She doubled down on shaming those who gave criticism regarding how her post came across. I don't care what her "intention" was. It's not how it came across.

[@LisaHarvey16]

Unless it's about working your biz Colleen has no time or empathy for you. The business should be your life!! That is gross.

[@heather.carpenter19]

@@LisaHarvey16 this is so true!

[@juliejo]

It was awful! I was like girl…. I thought you were “professional”

[@ajpthequeen]

💯! The gaslighting is strong with her!!

[@saraht3196]

the thing about “no shame” is that it’s purposefully NOT saying that she’s above shaming others. it’s saying that she HAS no shame, which allows her to express “tough love”, engage in shady business, and make these callous comments without a second thought. “do you have no shame?” is basically what i’m talking about. it’s supposed to be purposeful, not ironic.

[@juliejo]

Welp that’s the first I’ve heard of it put that way LOL

[@neonk2222]

You nailed it

[@clovis_the_spook]

Exactly, I was going to comment the same thing.

[@williamho2940]

Or simply put: "shameless"

[@saraht3196]

@@juliejo lolol and sorry if it came off harsh, i was just trying to find the right words to get the point across

[@ImKarlaJo]

I lost my fiancé unexpectedly in January. I do what I can to get through each day and get what needs to he done. Some days all I get done is ugly cry. I DARE her to come for me lol.

[@notalktoni4096]

I have many mental illnesses that can effect me day to day. I might have three or four good days followed by two or three bad days. I don’t work outside the home but I am an aspiring writer. There are days the home doesn’t get cleaned or meals made by me due to bad days. What she did was SHAME anyone that has days that are hard on us. SHAME ON HER!!!!

[@3cherrybonbon]

From a neurodivergent aspiring writer to another, I want to tell you that being kind to yourself truly is for the best and that I will be cheering for you! Our craft is a beautiful thing that can easily become draining as we continuously extract all of it from ourselves. We're quite strong for making it through these days and through the efforts to both survive and acknowledge all the liveliness that we have inside of us! I hope that today is one of these good days and that any Colleen's in your life will also find happiness, preferably far away from you.

[@deborahbryant7045]

Listening to her is enough for me not to ever want to be linked with her! Sorry Not sorry, I’m not HER people!!

[@_beegilly_]

As someone who is currently pregnant and had a very rough 1st trimester - her comment and doubling down is disgusting. I can't believe she felt it necessary to post this at all. CRINGE.

[@juliejo]

agreed. It is super cringe =!

[@jaxolantern93]

i LOVE seeing the individuals in mlms commenting on this. here's hoping they can overcome the cognitive dissonance no doubt occurring and understand that this toxicity is everywhere in their industry, not just with this one "bad apple."

[@saraliej6591]

Thanks for making this positive video - you gave credit where credit is due (i.e. to the mlm'ers who posted that Colleen is going too far on this one). You were respectful and well-balanced & I think that is awesome!!

[@juliejo]

Thanks so much! I appreciate that :)

[@Rznky]

What’s funny is I totally went to Colleen’s page on Monday in anticipation of an ignorant comment about Riri promoting her business on TV but I was shocked to see what she actually posted about it!💀🙊

[@juliejo]

An obvious SHUT YOUR MOUTH award winner that I forgot to mention. 🏆I encourage you to see the hundreds of comments from mlm women that have told her how they feel. So many told their experiences of a recent loss of a friend/family member, miscarriage, and critical illnesses. The way she reacted is shameful. What are your thoughts on it all? instagram.com/p/ComntGtOXy2/?

[@Pirategirl4nightwish]

My best friend has depression. Some days she can’t even respond to my texts due to it. It doesn’t bother me and I’m happy to hear from her when she’s in a good headspace. So no, not everyone can just “do it” no matter what. That second chick is ridiculous.

[@jamiefarnik5595]

Colleen making jokes about "triggering" people and dismissing that she hurt people is so in character. Between her and Jessie Lee I really feel you have to be some variety of bully and lacking in empathy and any kind of human decency to be a pro-MLM advocate. She loves to talk about how "anti-MLM is hating women" but she is deeply hateful and apparently unable to have a shred of compassion for her fellow humans.

[@ninimeggie4771]

Slightly off topic but as a teacher myself I'm so happy to hear that your teacher gave you grace about your test! That's definitely best practice, but many educators do not follow it

[@Humblebee413]

The hypocrisy of her using Rihanna having performed pregnant as an example of “motivation” one minute but then turning around and insulting the quality of her performance the next is just too much! Bless her hunny little heart 🤦🏻‍♀️😂

[@jardinosaur]

So sorry to hear about your family member. You're so fortunate to have a kind, understanding professor.

[@kylieclayton3713]

I had to take a day off last week because I was so tired (22 weeks pregnant). I didn't feel shame, I felt really proud of myself for recognizing what my body needed to support my baby. I used to glorify the hussle mindset, but now I prioritize my health and it has changed everything.

[@BeKind2AllKinds]

I’m shocked some Huns fought back! Good for them!!! 👏👏👏 Has Colleen even had kids?!

[@Sina-aka-potatosupreme]

Always vibeing with your title melody.

[@juliejo]

thanks! such a cool tune

[@kbird6208]

It gets stuck in my head for hours every. Single. Time. !

[@heather.carpenter19]

So colleen doesn't understand why people leave "anger" comments but she takes the time to make a video about it 🤔

[@carolsummers8734]

And if criticize what she posted, you are a "panty wadder".

[@heather.carpenter19]

@@carolsummers8734 yeap!

[@emilypaulson]

this gives me life. She went on the offense when she found that I was writing a book, trying to make sure I wasn't including people, "like here," even though....of course I am LOL. And she promptly blocked me.

[@heartsandpulseras]

I'm actually impressed by all three mlmers that called Colleen out!! Maybe more people are starting to get it? Someone pointing out that this attitude is what led them to burn out is not "ruining it" for others that find it inspirational. You can say you were inspired by Rihanna, great! Just don't make it seem like everyone can accomplish at the same level as her easily, all the time. 🤷‍♀️

[@carolsummers8734]

Let's imagine a popular singer has help in her life so that she can do a super bowl show when she is pregnant.

[@MissMichele4286]

Hopefully her post is an eye opener for ppl contemplating signing up for her "coaching", drives her down lines to leave or seek out something new.... she really is toxic, glad huns are noticing....

[@oceancitynutrition2125]

I’m 9 months pregnant and so thankful to have a job with designated hours and be off when I’m off 😅

[@juliejo]

Aww congrats! And yes! Rest up momma!

[@birb5306]

best wishes on a safe delivery & healthy baby!!!!

[@liftpanic]

This smacks so heavily of that old argument "we all have the same 24 hours in a day" which is completely false.

[@amybranam205]

I am sorry for your loss. Good message 🙏

[@morgie4378]

The fact that she called them angry as well. They are upset and feel alienated by her, and she can't even see it.

[@pris1378]

...if i got as much money as rihanna did for the superbowl show? i'd go to work bleeding out of every orifice.

[@AllLifeIsTravesty]

I love C*lleen mocks people for "wasting" their time writing "mean" comments when she's "wasting" her time to shame them and is constantly "wasting" her time responding and clapping back to the "haters". Also, I really feel she's out of touch in how current social media functions. These days if you get flagged for being toxic people might hate-watch you or whatever but they won't follow and, most importantly for her "biz", they will *not* get people to join you. The "omfg I'm so edgy" vibe isn't as acceptable or liked even on the internet anymore as it used to be, these days it's going to drive people away. Plus, she praises Rihanna first and then puts her down by saying she didn't even give her "best performance", so she just sounds like even more of a bully.

[@JRand5501]

Yeah…that lady backing up Colleen has totally missed the point.

[@Rinirinirinirin]

I lost it at "season of rest" 🤣 Do these people have a season for everything? I'm currently in my toilet season, I can only watch MLM huns from there.

[@jennmalentacchi]

This sounds like something Jessie would say

[@Ola_Stawinska]

Im pregnant right now, and at the very beginning i had trouble with sleeping. For few days in a row I slept for like three ir four hours, i would wake up at 2am and just couldn't fall asleep. After few days like this i was exhausted and no i wasn't able to work. One day I had to finish early and my husband took me home, so i could sleep. Everyone will experience pregnancy differently, one person will feel amaizing and the other will feel terrible. What Coleen did in her post is just disgusting.

[@jamifooshee5688]

That is just awful!! I would love to hear what Rihanna thinks!!

[@carmina722]

did colleen just say rihanna didnt put on a good performance....girl bye

[@beyourownsunshine5548]

Her comment about using your time to work your business, instead of leaving a comment on a video further support that one comment that said she’s out of touch with reality. Watching a video and leaving a comment is very different energy than doing work. And if you’re having a hard day mentally or physically or cognitively, sometimes you can’t focus on important tasks and you need that time to rest.

[@meganrae2508]

I’m pretty sure there’s a LOT that doesn’t compute in her brain…

[@Andrea11rinaldi]

She’s another JL minion

[@juliejo]

I am getting that vibe for sure.

[@MyPumpkinSpicedChaos]

I left doterra because I got pregnant and had morning sickness so bad that I couldn't be in the same room as my oils because they would trigger vomiting. As much as I wanted to "work my business" I just couldn't do it. My upline became so nasty about it and told me I wasn't trying hard enough because the oils would completely get rid of the nausea not make me sicker. Their rude attitudes to my very exhausted and sick issues completely turned me off. Just because Rhianna could do it, doesn't automatically mean everyone can do it.

[@annapruitt5546]

That is so frustrating. If you feel sick, you feel sick. Yeah, maybe the oils help some people feel better, but it made you more nauseous. They’re trying to deny you of your own experiences and tell you that cannot be possible, even though it’s clearly happening to you. It’s so rude and apathetic

[@this.is.mallory]

"No shame sales game" Literally every post in shaming.

[@helenr4300]

Before she posted the first comment, she too could have taken a few moments to reflect on her view; after all the comments when telling other people not to comment, she is again taking a bunch of time being 'angry' at people who she claims are 'angry' at her. Does she not have any mirrors at her house?

[@juliejo]

Such a Good comment! I agree

[@rebalove]

I had a stroke. What I could do before the stroke vs. what I can do now is VASTLY different. Her post/reaction is disgusting.

[@poetrymafia27]

It’s so difficult to manage your own expectations of your abilities after something like that. Wishing you the best.

[@HeyShayShay]

The sign literally on the wall behind you "you're allowed to take a break" 👍

[@chucklehead.smitty]

This was an epic fail on her part!

[@juliejo]

YES!! There were hundreds up people speaking up about it in her comments, and yet she chose to make fun of them and shame them..

[@chucklehead.smitty]

@@juliejo yep! The doubling down then trying to recruit to her coaching scam was disgusting.

[@Killasquidx3]

The issue is that she said “You’re not too busy or too tired to work your business today.” That statement invalidates, it does not motivate.

[@dancingappaloosa8926]

To me, Colleen falls into the same category that many people who call themselves "coaches" fall into... She claims to have all the answers to share with other people, but no one can ever teach her anything. She's someone who will just double-down on whatever opinion she has expressed without ever tempering that opinion or acknowledging other people's points. This is precisely the sort of person I am incapable of respecting. Like Jesse Lee, Colleen truly seems to believe her own press that all the people who follow her are just lowly minions who aren't working hard enough. It's just sad that this sort of approach actually hooks a lot of women in who really are ready to believe that there is something wrong with them and that they're just not trying or working hard enough. I would love for us to get to a place as women (as a group) where most of us can recognise that when someone tries to make us feel less than, the problem is with them not us. True constructive feedback/advice does not need to tear someone down.

[@angelxo13]

i’m sorry for your loss :( i love watching ur videos while going to bed u have such a nice voice and great energy

[@languageishard]

As someone with an autoimmune disorder that gives me random fevers, joint pain, and fatigue that make it hard to just exist, I hate this so much.

[@reidleblanc3140]

I'm just baffled Colleen doesn't understand every human being has different physical limits?? Like what?? Rihanna could have had a very easy time doing this show. That might have just been the kind of pregnancy she had. My mom renovated our entire house while pregnant. Sometimes it just goes that way. It doesn't mean she's some god who pushes through everything.

[@BetsyRene]

I've only ever watched you JJ on lives with Erin. Glad to catch a solo video of you! Loved the take on no shame sales game response. I cannot believe she posted the comments blasting her followers!

[@sammiinneb8642]

The side of Instagram talk that I'm on was all about this but it was talking about how women feel like they have to work or are forced to work while pregnant and after. How fathers don't get time off to help the mother or just bond with the child. So this...I don't have words cuz it makes me mad.

[@sionan7937]

I had a rough day at work today and then my 3 yo gave me absolute hell during dinner time. Currently in a burrito in bed while my dinner dishes sit untouched because yes, you CAN be too tired. Pregnant or not, mom or not, it doesn't matter. Life is hard sometimes. "It's chaos, be kind."

[@TheYazmanian]

So many validating, kind and comforting points you brought up. The shaming and comparing has to stop. It's so detrimental. We're all different with unique needs, strengths and limits. I hate being painted with a broad brush like that.

[@wawawhale49]

Those of us with *actual* high stress careers know how important it is to take care of yourself, pace yourself, and know your limits. Signed, A Public Defender

[@moinmoin1293]

love the pink eye-shadow!

[@heather.carpenter19]

I'm so happy she is getting called out for her toxic behavior 👏

[@emmatfink]

The girl who reacted is completely missing the point of the post. Colleen wasn't saying that Rihanna was an inspiration to show that you CAN do it even though you're pregnant. Colleen's post was saying that you're not allowed to NOT do it just because you're pregnant.

[@wewemcrhyne]

She even shamed Rhianna for not having a perfect performance.

[@kbird6208]

So she can take the time to blather anything she wants on social media, but commenting is a waste of time?

[@raeblair6166]

This person shamed mothers basically and has zero remorse. She is so blinded by greed, she does not see how she treats people. She's so 2010!

[@tokiobabe99]

Jj, I really like this video, and appreciate you arguing against people like Colleen. Also, for consideration as the most toxic mlm people, I would like to submit those women in WFABB who are talking about high value women versus low value women. I think they do give Colleen a good run.

[@several_goblins]

She promotes hustle culture because the more her downline hustles, the more money she makes, with no extra effort on her part

[@NyQuilDreamer]

Really like your point about emotions themselves not being bad. Well said.

[@natalydavies1766]

Love your videos by the way! Keep debunking these people's!

[@AmayAmes]

I used to be in an MLM, and I will say I had a decently good experience. There was some hustle culture and some fake it til you make it that was not healthy for me mentally. But I’ve never had a good feeling about the “noshamesalesgame” lady. She definitely is toxic and I started to see her posts as I was slowly leaving my mlm and they never felt right to me. This just brings a whole new side of it. If I would have seen this post when I was pregnant I would have flipped my lid. I was having major health scares with my baby when I was pregnant the entire time and I was going it alone thanks to 2020. Even if it was happening for me now I probably would have to had to do it alone now because my husband works. I’m proud of the people who are still in an mlm and are speaking out and if I see people using her posts again I will probably think twice about who they are as a person.

[@jessicabillhardt8776]

But her "job" for this account is to post angry things on the internet

[@juliejo]

trueeeeee

[@laurakatherine8349]

I haaaate the fact that she uses: you missed the point! Yeah okay, ma’am.

[@laurendower7421]

Such a good video. I thought your analysis of this situation was so well said and explained! (Also sorry for your loss! ❤)

[@lolo_was_here]

What I saw was that she responded to a lot of these people saying "you don't get it" as her incredible come back.

[@SkwithOv]

her name, no shame sales game, is only about her - SHE doesn't feel shame for what she's doing it doesn't say anything about not shaming others, which she seems to really enjoy

[@SkwithOv]

"i've never understood anyone who has the time or effort to write angry comments" yeah because you film yours

[@Emerald.She-Ra]

Colleen forgets that she'd be another normal 9 to 5 employee if it weren't for her downlines. Her comments, actions, and non-apologetic shaming were disgusting. I hope they leave her in droves.

[@kristieg2]

I think the most hilarious part - and Collen even said this - is that Rhianna hadn't performed live since 2018. So if Colleen is basing her argument on the pure surface level fact that Rhianna performed while pregnant, then she is essentially arguing that if Rhianna can perform once in five years while pregnant, then you can work your business too! (Obviously this ignores EVERYTHING that goes behind being a music artist but hopefully you get my drift).

[@theclowntown]

"they're pinterest quotes for mlm people" i giggled!

[@caitlynkline1817]

Also if Rihanna didn’t perform she would get fined soooo much money. She can’t just say I’ll do it next year, it’s called a contract

[@lawrencelopez9839]

I've associated the term boss babe with scammer at this point so I feel like calling Rihanna one is an insult now

[@m.teresa.r]

So commenting things that hurt her feelings is a waste of time, but she sure doesn't think it's a waste of time to receive positive comments...she is so disconnected.

[@kbird6208]

Colleen wasn't saying SHE was inspired. She's saying you are not allowed to NOT be.

[@birb5306]

does anyone else feel like Colleen’s face has evil vibes? like there’s nothing wrong with her appearance but something in her eyes is just wrong

[@kelleyatc]

Her calling those comments angry is so frustrating. None of the ones Julie read were angry. Constructive criticism and/or disagreeing w/ a post or perspective does not equal hate.

[@liftpanic]

Great content. She is so disrespectful. Why does she even have a following?

[@Caffeinatedown]

If I get pregnant again I’m not moving. I’m just gonna do the bare minimum. Not all pregnancies are the same. My first was high risk and I worked the whole time which was dumb AF. My next I’m taking the advice and putting my feet up. Rihanna is an athlete mentally, she’s physical and she’s healthy. I can’t compare.

[@stephaniemartinez7233]

Definitely shaming! She is so in her own privileged space she fails to think about what really goes on in life. This just sounds heartless.

[@theeclecticmemah]

Colleen, Colleen, Colleen! Stop shaming people and then shaming them again in your response! And to the lady at the end, I think you got - as they same in England - the wrong end of the stick!