THIS Tells People You Lack Confidence!!

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Josh Otusanya

Josh Otusanya

Күн бұрын

Watch this video to find out a habit that tells people you lack confidence!! #Shorts

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@luigiplush8755
@luigiplush8755 3 жыл бұрын
This guy is criminally underrated
@JoshuaOtusanya
@JoshuaOtusanya 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you! 🙏🏿
@sweetcrzyluv
@sweetcrzyluv 3 жыл бұрын
right!
@mananbansal4334
@mananbansal4334 3 жыл бұрын
@@JoshuaOtusanya the new year o
@sheeplegend1324
@sheeplegend1324 3 жыл бұрын
YOUR UNDER ARREST FOR BEING UNDDERATED "HOW CAN I GET ARRESTED FOR THAT?"
@jujhar.
@jujhar. 3 жыл бұрын
Fr
@yashkulshrestha4931
@yashkulshrestha4931 3 жыл бұрын
I think I need to work on something 😭
@JoshuaOtusanya
@JoshuaOtusanya 3 жыл бұрын
Don’t worry you’re not alone ❤️
@jjtpo69
@jjtpo69 Жыл бұрын
Me too💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀☠️☠️☠️💀☠️💀💀☠️💀☠️
@pguser
@pguser Жыл бұрын
☠️
@eeslagrakee1514
@eeslagrakee1514 Жыл бұрын
lol 😆
@adityasreejit6710
@adityasreejit6710 3 жыл бұрын
This is sooooo accurate. I do this all the time. I even do the thing at the end when I say "that was my idea"
@rahwameharie1155
@rahwameharie1155 Жыл бұрын
Same!!!!! Especially when answering a question😂
@niviiiii
@niviiiii 3 жыл бұрын
"That was my idea🥺", I felt that.
@amazinhaydz2032
@amazinhaydz2032 Жыл бұрын
Same
@Quietfire83
@Quietfire83 Жыл бұрын
A lack of confidence doesn't make someone a bad person or mean that others shouldn't take them seriously! People are so insensitive these days!
@superiorbeing8805
@superiorbeing8805 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for helping me notice this man. I do this all the time.
@shurikenn8941
@shurikenn8941 3 жыл бұрын
I do this like all the time. Especially in these kind of situations where I am giving suggestions and worried about being judged
@MarylnBowan-vg7te
@MarylnBowan-vg7te 11 ай бұрын
FACTS OVA FEELINGS. . Confidence Doesn't Change Who a Man is it Simply Reveals Who He is
@iidentifymyselfaschair8348
@iidentifymyselfaschair8348 3 жыл бұрын
Lets say you want to suggest something or give an idea, but you lack confidence and you think your suggestion/idea might be bad and others will judge you for it. Im not a psychologist or something, but i personally think that by asking a question with 2 options is more likely to have a negative answer told in a calm manner, rather than a hostile/judgemental one. For example 'Is seeing a movie a good idea or not?'
@shiulimondal179
@shiulimondal179 3 жыл бұрын
Bud its watching not seeing. Sorry if its sound rude just correcting it. 🤷‍♀️
@khromic
@khromic Жыл бұрын
My sister deals with this, but usually she speaks more clearly when i’m with her.
@CinthedemonYT
@CinthedemonYT 9 ай бұрын
This is definitely me. I lack so much confidence because people put me down. My bf said if we don’t work something out in the next 3 months he will break terms off with me.
@quaxmainiaclips
@quaxmainiaclips Жыл бұрын
“Guys I’m bored.” “Why?” “Because I dont follow Josh Otusanya”.
@rashed8437
@rashed8437 Жыл бұрын
Mwahaha
@t.m8370
@t.m8370 Жыл бұрын
I should indeed work on this.! Thank you sir 🙏❤️
@iqbalsiddiqui446
@iqbalsiddiqui446 Жыл бұрын
As a hesitant person full of lack of confidence, I felt that last sentence "That was MY idea" to the core.
@Trippypotato5665
@Trippypotato5665 Жыл бұрын
last expression really hits home.
@Alien_From_Another_Universe
@Alien_From_Another_Universe 3 жыл бұрын
You described me perfectly
@w1685
@w1685 3 жыл бұрын
Anyone else just stumble upon this guy and now you can’t stop watching him?
@davpro1792
@davpro1792 Жыл бұрын
Yess this shit litterally happend to me Today lol I swear youtube is spying on me and then giving me recommendations on things i hated happening to make me suffer... 🤣
@kingkoba5618
@kingkoba5618 3 жыл бұрын
This is me and it does get annoying when people say they cannot hear me. But I guess it is my fault. I might as well sleep more so I can be awake to not trail off in sentences. It would make me and others happy. I saw a video of your’s on sleep (4-7-9 trick). I will use it tonight.
@popaionut9647
@popaionut9647 3 жыл бұрын
How it went?
@kingkoba5618
@kingkoba5618 3 жыл бұрын
@@popaionut9647 I kept doing it and it did not work immediately but I slept good. These days I cannot sleep until 4 AM but it worked for me.
@popaionut9647
@popaionut9647 3 жыл бұрын
@@kingkoba5618 Good for you buddy
@kingkoba5618
@kingkoba5618 3 жыл бұрын
@@popaionut9647 thx
@sayosan2664
@sayosan2664 3 жыл бұрын
Bro so true This even happens during class sometimes when I'm not sure if my answer is correct so I say it like that but someone else says it and it was correct
@dkj7697
@dkj7697 3 жыл бұрын
Same
@monster12_4
@monster12_4 10 ай бұрын
That's me bro 😂
@icedy9821
@icedy9821 3 жыл бұрын
I do the exact thing and people won't talk to me because of that habit I don't know how to gain my confidence again 😕
@user-zq1fj6ij6y
@user-zq1fj6ij6y 3 жыл бұрын
Same😣
@riverivei
@riverivei 3 жыл бұрын
Just try and avoid that, that happened and btw your friends isn't helping you out, so just let yourself be you for now ;^;;
@shivanshgarewal2833
@shivanshgarewal2833 2 жыл бұрын
Just First ask yourself "is this idea effective or great? " And if ans is Yes then just say it, your friends aren't aliens right? So just Spit right on their face
@dimitra8569
@dimitra8569 3 жыл бұрын
i do this all the time, mostly because im not sure/anxious of how people will react, its bad
@VoidDweller86
@VoidDweller86 2 жыл бұрын
Well roundedness is what I have not "confidence"
@Gaminrayth
@Gaminrayth 3 жыл бұрын
Luv u jish thx for the tricks
@user-zq1fj6ij6y
@user-zq1fj6ij6y 3 жыл бұрын
Me who doesn't really suggest that much because I have low confidence and I hate to be rejected and not listened by people:🙍🏻‍♀️stop callin' me out
@doggy_4978
@doggy_4978 3 жыл бұрын
I know this dude at my school, he is made fun if a lot because he says the obvious and things other people think are stupid. When talking, a lot of times he trails off at the end of his sentences and he also has really bad social skills and many people think he is annoying. Me and my friend are trying to help him, but he is still lacking in the social skills department. I am talking to him and trying to start up conversations.
@Reallyker101
@Reallyker101 3 жыл бұрын
Is he a genius? Smart people have to "lower themselves" so to speak. When their talkin to other people they have to dumb it down so its understandable. Sometimes this leads to them saying something that seems really obvious. Does he often end his sentence with " no- nevermind"? Since no one understands his genius train of thought, he would probably rather just not talk, leading to lack of social skills. Just curious. I learned all that on the internet so im tryin to see if its real. He would be an INTP/INTJ(probably) on that personality test thingamajig.
@doggy_4978
@doggy_4978 3 жыл бұрын
@@Reallyker101 actuslly yes he does say nevermind at the end of his sentences - interesting 🤔
@Reallyker101
@Reallyker101 3 жыл бұрын
@@doggy_4978 oh really? Kool. Maybe he is a genius 👀
@HowToEverything-1
@HowToEverything-1 3 жыл бұрын
Love ur vidd
@JoshuaOtusanya
@JoshuaOtusanya 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much!
@jelly3810
@jelly3810 3 жыл бұрын
I do this ALOT
@cat-man5522
@cat-man5522 2 жыл бұрын
I have a friend who speaks EXACTLY like this and I always tell him not to do this .
@drdentall1678
@drdentall1678 2 жыл бұрын
This is so me !!!!!!
@AbdisamadAdam-yk9rg
@AbdisamadAdam-yk9rg 9 ай бұрын
Lack of confidence means thats theirs a obstacle
@srikarvetcha8894
@srikarvetcha8894 9 ай бұрын
It's just that we are too scared to complete or we feel too awkward about it.
@harisabdrashid8413
@harisabdrashid8413 3 жыл бұрын
me in early days of schools be like:
@manifestmeee
@manifestmeee 3 жыл бұрын
I can relate 😂
@speedjunkie21
@speedjunkie21 3 жыл бұрын
I actually do that when I'm stuttering
@johnwolf1616
@johnwolf1616 3 жыл бұрын
Same bro
@ivoost6547
@ivoost6547 3 жыл бұрын
@@johnwolf1616 same
@ewnoid2055
@ewnoid2055 3 жыл бұрын
well i dont understand people with no confidence, you cant enjoy life not talking to people
@tubetimppa7071
@tubetimppa7071 3 жыл бұрын
My friend does that sometimes
@HenryM_ANIMATOR
@HenryM_ANIMATOR Жыл бұрын
Literally me😂😂
@plaaxys
@plaaxys 3 жыл бұрын
When i show confidence people hate me for some reason
@sanashaikh370
@sanashaikh370 3 жыл бұрын
This happens to me all the time..... and i think everyone is just copying my idea...... please make a video aboit how we should build confidence
@pluckos5011
@pluckos5011 3 жыл бұрын
hahaha yeah totally that's low key a pet peeve of mine
@lakshraja4831
@lakshraja4831 3 жыл бұрын
That was exactly me
@A.iez.
@A.iez. 3 жыл бұрын
Ikr
@MINISCULE2
@MINISCULE2 3 жыл бұрын
i do this becouse i hate when im a talking with my friends and theres usualy one guy that can be easily irritated and when he gets irritated by someon he will just ask to put the person out of the groupchat who irrittated him (usualy me)
@kidnamedfinger9736
@kidnamedfinger9736 3 жыл бұрын
I could really feel the lack of that 'MEHEHEH' in this video ☹️
@shinkoxmh9113
@shinkoxmh9113 Жыл бұрын
Why is this so me? I do that all the time. I'm sick of myself for this
@doodles3669
@doodles3669 Жыл бұрын
Thats me but hey I'm just like that u need people like me in this world too
@mayurtaral1425
@mayurtaral1425 Жыл бұрын
That one friend 😢
@Sidtheriser07
@Sidtheriser07 Жыл бұрын
Ah yes this was personal 😂😂 I'm already working on it
@crazygeek6540
@crazygeek6540 3 жыл бұрын
It was funny at the end and u didn't laugh bro thats the main part
@gamerskabadshah2910
@gamerskabadshah2910 3 жыл бұрын
Yeahh dude I often do thus
@Eraeraeric
@Eraeraeric Жыл бұрын
My friend does this and I'm like bruh speak up we can't hear you 😂
@pgsari4318
@pgsari4318 Жыл бұрын
Bro saves my therapy bills ❤️
@le9038
@le9038 3 жыл бұрын
But people already know i don't lack confidence...
@ken-sh6hf
@ken-sh6hf Жыл бұрын
THIS WAS LITERALLY ME LAST NIGHT
@jujhar.
@jujhar. 3 жыл бұрын
My sibling does this afraid that they have a stupid answer
@jujhar.
@jujhar. 3 жыл бұрын
Atleast that's what I think
@amandine.l7983
@amandine.l7983 3 жыл бұрын
My entire life 😩😩😩
@kagura561
@kagura561 Жыл бұрын
yeah cuz literally you start expressing your idea, then u regret cuz you become anxious and worried that it's a stupid idea 💀
@ryantsyawaldriarsyahyunus3241
@ryantsyawaldriarsyahyunus3241 3 жыл бұрын
i did this my parents couldnt hear me so i go a little bit louder and they said "hey dont be so loud"
@sunnybunnybrawlstars
@sunnybunnybrawlstars Жыл бұрын
"I can't wait for school to start"💀
@isaacthomas9279
@isaacthomas9279 3 жыл бұрын
What about mumbling while talking to someone so that hav wot ask you to repeat yourself? Then do I lack confidence?
@adaminoob175
@adaminoob175 3 жыл бұрын
This is litteraly me in a different language tho lol
@prophecities
@prophecities 3 жыл бұрын
I guess I lack confidence then 😃
@sugarcrane7982
@sugarcrane7982 Жыл бұрын
Omg i lack confidence 🥲🥲 What should i do to have more cinfidence 😭😭
@hana.55ap
@hana.55ap 2 жыл бұрын
when teacher ask a question that i know and the person sits next to me shout my answer and he gets the credit. Me: That's my answer..
@dark_dj6239
@dark_dj6239 3 жыл бұрын
I do that
@hu__
@hu__ 3 жыл бұрын
That's my idea.... 😂😂
@GiftsAmimalsGiveUs
@GiftsAmimalsGiveUs Жыл бұрын
No its my energy level just got depleted right then and there. Talking takes a lot of energy. I be so confused how people keep it going. I talk for a little bit my voice starts going out and then I leave see you in a week or two.
@madmamad4213
@madmamad4213 3 жыл бұрын
Dude what should I do to fix this?
@ramauldramharack2138
@ramauldramharack2138 3 жыл бұрын
What happens in my family.
@BerryFoodie
@BerryFoodie 3 жыл бұрын
I do this sometimes 🚶‍♂️
@RKW48
@RKW48 3 жыл бұрын
Josh it's not a habit it's my personality
@halakhalaf5975
@halakhalaf5975 2 жыл бұрын
I am that in the class LOL
@Jun-Kyard
@Jun-Kyard 3 жыл бұрын
"That was my idea" Other Dude: I FOLLOW JOSH OTUSANYA NYEHEHE
@itzactually.starrr
@itzactually.starrr 10 ай бұрын
"that was my idea😥"
@yourfavbread11
@yourfavbread11 3 жыл бұрын
Ah I don’t need a trick to know I lack confidence
@samuellama7037
@samuellama7037 3 жыл бұрын
00:10
@perica1553
@perica1553 3 жыл бұрын
I talk too much so I'm most likely even overconfident a bit.
@herewegoagain9783
@herewegoagain9783 Жыл бұрын
THIS IS SO MEEE 💀💀💀💀💀💀, I changed btwww, this is mee like years ago
@nishkasrivastava1249
@nishkasrivastava1249 3 жыл бұрын
Ah- that actually makes sense-
@ryukendo7194
@ryukendo7194 Жыл бұрын
I've to buy more confidance
@splitbrace3639
@splitbrace3639 Жыл бұрын
that's me errtime 😹
@ShadowGarden_Shadow
@ShadowGarden_Shadow 3 жыл бұрын
@Josh Otusanya check my comment in your video on be more likeable in a job interview
@Joe-g2b7u
@Joe-g2b7u 3 жыл бұрын
personally i’ll trial off sometimes just because i realize i’m about to say something stupid
@justaguy4
@justaguy4 3 жыл бұрын
Oh nonono, I just suck at speaking
@samuellama7037
@samuellama7037 3 жыл бұрын
0:20
@tukangpintu9578
@tukangpintu9578 3 жыл бұрын
No laugh today... *MWAHAHA*
@shivanshgarewal2833
@shivanshgarewal2833 2 жыл бұрын
Ahh but what if You are saying something and they Interrupt you and start saying Their Ideas
@MR_DESTRUCTION177
@MR_DESTRUCTION177 2 жыл бұрын
I have NO confidence
@vaibhavsharma7286
@vaibhavsharma7286 Жыл бұрын
Why this guy always make videos on me!😥
@96_wali
@96_wali Жыл бұрын
Where is " i follow josh otusanya HA HA HA HA HA "
@mahnoorsharif705
@mahnoorsharif705 3 жыл бұрын
Been there
@dracomalfoy9098
@dracomalfoy9098 3 жыл бұрын
This is me. But I don't make friends
@focusedallday5620
@focusedallday5620 3 жыл бұрын
That or lowering your voice towards the end of the sentence.
@kevenmorales7619
@kevenmorales7619 2 жыл бұрын
Thats me
@lilpebbles4059
@lilpebbles4059 9 ай бұрын
I do the exact same thing over and over again and I never felt confident in my life being alive no that just isn't
@idealess718
@idealess718 3 жыл бұрын
I’m not quiet at all but this has happened so many times I literally can not show more confidence than that Ppl just ignore me Am I supposed to like hit them to notice me or what
@primeape6431
@primeape6431 Жыл бұрын
I am cringing so much cuz I saw myself HAHAHAH Fuuuuuu
@blackliver08
@blackliver08 Жыл бұрын
You mean habit. Are there anymore you can talk about?
@jennysaikia8034
@jennysaikia8034 3 жыл бұрын
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