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"Self confidence is super power. Once you start to believe in yourself, magic starts happening."

[@agilanvl5602]

Yes it is

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💯🤘

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Amazing 👍👍👍👍👍👍

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Absolutely 🙌🏼

[@desmnd3557]

So true ❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@loomonda18]

1.) 0:23 - Conquer their past: Confident people don't let their past dictate them, they try to understand & navigate through it. 2.) 1:45 - Construct a high value skill: When we have a high value skill, we tend to value ourselves & we don't let other people dictate our value. In the pursuit of mastery, you will have to overcome challenges, developing resilience - and now your confidence is not based on arrogance/cockiness, your confidence is based on your ability to deal with challenging situations. 3.) 3:45 - Constantly Learn: Learning gives you a sense of achievement/drive, and a feeling like you are moving forward toward something. Consistently learning can truly transform the way you feel about yourself, and you start to trust yourself. When you are able to connect the dots & apply what you are learning to your surroundings, this gives you a sense of confidence. 4.) 5:10 - Compassion: Have compassion for yourself, you don't need to be perfect all the time. Confidence shows that you are okay with not being perfect, and not having all of the answers. 5.) 6:42 - Calmly Respond: Confidence comes not from reacting fast, but from responding slowly. Confident people listen, process and then respond - and then when they speak, people listen. Less is more. Respond from the act/rhythm of love, not hate. Go at your own pace. 6.) 7:31 - Certainty: Confident people feel certainty around their likes and dislikes, and what works and does not work. Asking yourself what your true beliefs are and then you can act on that internal certainty, rather than external factors. 7.) 8:45 - Competent Preparation: Confident people practice, prepare and work. They plan, visualize and prepare their energy & mindset. This is why the practice of daily habits is so important. **& My own advice I've stumbled upon....trust yourself. xx

[@DREAMWORLD123]

Thankyou 😍

[@meghak2305]

Thank you

[@dhanyavijayan1599]

Thank you so much ❤️

[@yeskay9685]

Blink summary of this video - many thanks for your time and effort, well done 👍🏻

[@preeth7991]

Thank you

[@gurudra]

Life begins where fear ends 🙏

[@nousernamewhatsoever]

Life begins where fear is understood :)

[@nitakalisingh9445]

Well said!! Live your dreams,not your fears.

[@Fredyacares]

Fact

[@ganeshgaikwad3098]

Umbrella can't stop the rain, but can make you to stand in the rain. Confidence may not bring success, but give us power to face any challenge in life.

[@armishfatima7712]

Exactly my dear bro 😘

[@TheMindsJournal]

The moment you start to love and believe yourself, confidence will automatically generate.

[@user-fl7qp8gc5o]

Absolutely

[@alvinaas463]

But how do I do that?

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@@alvinaas463 Write about the things you like about yourself. What are the things that make you unique from others.

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[@anuragr7026]

Yes

[@-ISDF--KAVIRAJANV]

Summary. 1. Conquer your past 2. Construct a high value skill 3. Learn consistently 4. Compassionate 5. Calmly respond 6. Certainty 7. Competent preparation

[@thechancellor-]

To the *incredible person* seeing this, I wish you all the best in life❤ don't over blame yourself, accept things and go forward. Don't let others define what “success” is for you. Get up, learn the skills needed and get after it, all the keys to a happy life is in your hands. Keep pushing.

[@PRIYAJAY-SHETTY]

Name that incredible person because in this video Jay Shetty said raise confidence please name the person he or she will get confidence mark my words work on this chancellor to which university you are I am curious to know chancellor

[@sirbughunter]

Reflect positivity and truth. Ignore negativity and lies. ♥️

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💪😎

[@jessopedia-J]

Just forgive yourself for flaws if any...and start loving yourself...and very important smile..may seem simple..but it's powerful...my tip to confidence 😀

[@DemetriPanici]

*"Set your goals high, and don't stop till you get there." - Bo Jackson*

[@elenacarra5863]

Amen 💕🙏

[@karthigah_careerguru]

Start to feel comfortable and love yourself for who you are , where you are , what you have and what you don't have. Everything starts with you. You can use all the tips but until you feel comfortable for who you are nothing is going to work. Start the internal work now guys..

[@RL-234]

So sure that everyone who's watching this is looking forward to better his or herself. Let's better ourselves 💜

[@lantern2362]

"As long as you are taking steps every day, there will always be something to look forward to."

[@yaseensinsights]

“In order to conquer the past, we need to first understand it”. ‼️‼️ You might not be too proud of your past but your present self has so much potential and there are so many possibilities to what your future will look like. Keep working on you ❤️

[@manjitom6418]

Thanks for this Jay! 💜

[@rinjereh1404]

Jay Shetty is a daily gift from God, a day can't without listening to his podcast ❤they heal my soul and rewaken my spirit

[@britneyclisham8138]

Thank you! I needed this!

[@sajalmishra5186]

This man spreading a lot of good vibes to whole world.....😁

[@DiyTechHubOfficial]

Thank you for sharing jay 💐

[@sarahmcalister6803]

Always love listening to you Jay. Thank you for your great content / visdom 💚

[@MyPersonalCoachingClub]

Confidence is the best attire we will ever put on, and is a lovely quality to possess 👏👏

[@VincensiaSilviana]

From the deepest of my heart, Thank you Jay ❤️

[@justinawhyte373]

Thank you so much Jay, this means a lot right now❤❤❤

[@mayanlogos92]

Happy New Year! All the best to everyone & be your best!

[@motivationbaychannel6891]

The best and most beautiful things in the world cannot be seen or even touched. They must be felt with the heart.

[@gre3dy14]

Jay Shetty, listening and learning from you is one great thing for my. Thank you for you knowledge!

[@nilushanissanka2722]

This is absolute truth❤

[@yosoykibbles]

Hi, Jay! I’ve been listening to your Daily Jay at Calm and it is so impactful.. i guess because of the speed of how you deliver your wisdom. I just do feel like certain breaks or slower pace would sink more into the soul than fast paced like this. Thanks! Your videos and sharings are great and has impacted my life greatly! Thanks!

[@ksuman1763]

I’ll write all these things down and start working on it! Thank you jay for helping! :)

[@chetnasangwan2731]

Hey,Jay! This is a very helpful video. Thank you for your insight 😊🙏

[@bycreativedesigns]

Yes! Gaining confidence may be a battle but it's worth it✨

[@lala9156]

Wow. Love this. The most helpful video about build confidence

[@gennawitts3268]

You hit the nail on the head here. Especially in point 1, 4 & 5 for me. You’re helping others in such a relevant and impactful way. ❤ Thank you, sir!

[@diyadatta6]

Thank You 🌸

[@jnjnijl.]

simply, TOO AWESOME!!!! before watching this and after watching this I find a real difference!

[@poojajagtap7349]

Thank you...confidence like breathing..it required so much

[@vaishnavijamage4667]

Every single thing you explained.Its worth I lessened to it. Thank you!

[@prisijes3]

Thanks Jay. That was a wonderful pointers you have highlighted. I will put in to practice from now on.

[@calvinbaloyi4831]

Jay Shetty I'll apply all the steps in 2022 , thanks for your wisdom

[@Aakanksha2711]

I can find it already relatable and you gave good advice, more around the ground.

[@nellydaka752]

confidence is something you are not born with but you get to grow as you adventure into knowing different things....that includes knowing yourself

[@donnawebb6057]

You must first love yourself and used the God giver gift inside of you. Most importantly, use it for the honor and glory to God Almighty. Also having the fruit of the spirit ( Galatians 5 V 22- 23), Love, joy, peace, long-suffering, gentleness, goodness, faith, meekness and temperance. This is my definition of having confident and always that word LOVE.

[@45shubhamjaybhave4]

You're the inspiration man ❤️🥺

[@balkarsingh9250]

I love that the real factors are demonstrated. I have been gone through these all circumstances.

[@aizariazbutt3451]

This is the first time I came across someone who is not talking all ‘sugar and spice and everything nice’ about self-development and actually gives ả practical approach towards the elaborate process that it is. Thank you soo much! Shukar Allah that I landed at your channel.

[@abensteve132]

#3.Constantly learning!! 🔥🔥Works for me like mad!

[@user-nm7fj8fk1x]

Thank you for this I really wanted to hear this

[@ugendran.v1000]

Highly effective stuffs about self confidence . Explained well it in more Decipher way, Sir. 👍

[@kavindusenavirathne2352]

thanks for creating this kind of videos for us.

[@girishva3823]

Thanks Jay for the extremely useful tips. To come out of the past is most crucial step towards being super confident. One should consider past grief as a dream which is not true and over...the problem is we constantly remind ourselves of the pain we went through during the difficult times and that stops us to move ahead. Once we see past as past and be thankful that you have sailed through it , you will be confident.

[@girishva3823]

Knowledge and keeping on upgrading ourselves is one of the key factor of being confident. THANKS Jay for pointing out that high value skill accelerates and your suggestion to try learn new skill is a very good idea.

[@tejasthakar1153]

Love your work ❤️

[@jagoda6473]

Gain more positive experiences to be more confident 😁 I like this advice

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I Like the calmly respond one take time to make decisions

[@Milan-pr3qt]

Thank you I really needed this🥺

[@luciadasilva5474]

This is an extremely helpful video. I’m grateful for it ❤

[@nicolasmordechai139]

I discovered you in 2018 in a whatsapp group I don't have any regrets your videos help me a lot, thank you for sharing with us God bless you

[@Aakanksha2711]

Thankyou!

[@UmeshSingh-ix1gi]

Beautiful!!!

[@rrsam3515]

Jay this is profound.

[@gurleengill396]

Im a 10 aged boy. You have me in many ways. My favourite sports is cricket. You have helped my dad in learning all the stuff he need to know about life.

[@privateequityguy]

Believe in yourself. You are braver than you think and more talented than you know, and capable of more than you can imagine. *Keep putting in the work...*

[@wisbonlintalawriniang3093]

Thankyou so much sir 💞

[@brajagopal.tripathi]

This man spreading a lot of good vibes to whole world😍

[@akshatamhatre7036]

"Self confidence" is always great 🥰.

[@seekersaurabh]

Yes🙌🏻

[@vimalak]

It was awesome, thanks Jay :)

[@lailaniferreras5464]

I have low self esteem. As a college student , sometimes I cannot bring myself to be like others. Sometimes I'm wondering how could they do such things with so much confidence? , I used to write poems a lot but one day I woke up not feeling the same feelings I used to have whenever I'm holding a pen. That's why I decided to stop for now despite of hearing from others that I'm good and that they believe in my skills. It's funny on how other people believe in me but as an owner of my mind and body all I ever did was to doubt my capabilities. Thank you for this wonderful video Mr. Jay Shetty. I don't know what lies ahead of me but I'm looking forward to meet the better version of myself and maybe soon I'll find my way back into poems. ❤✨✨

[@ishabhargava1568]

This is so like my situation right now

[@sumitpal8842]

Hmm really that's true

[@user-io5lg5st6w]

It was hard for me to start journaling after I decided years ago that I’m not everyone’s golden writer child anymore. I’m taking my power back now and journaling daily (even if it’s just a few bullet points) to start taking an active role in changing my perception of myself. You can do it! After I learned how things that happened during my adolescent developmental period and other factors changed my response to the pressures of daily life in a negative way, I began with practicing mindfulness and a willingness to begin living in tune with and conscious of my behaviors and habits necessary to facilitate change. I’ve regressed back into old negative coping mechanisms many times but the more I educate myself, the more clarity I have and with clarity comes a greater ability to make good decisions for myself so that I can live a happy healthy life free from feeling inadequate or awkward or like a failure. I never was those things. I just didn’t have the tools I needed in my tool box to build myself into the confident, professional, loving, fun and helpful person I always wanted to be. I’m on that path now. I really hope you find your happiness and get your life back soon. You are worth it. 💙

[@lijinantony5846]

Thank you🙏

[@Manchestergirl54]

Great tips as always Jay.

[@shafihossain554]

Thanks, Jay, this video just popped up at the right time :)

[@pranavsood6176]

Thanku ..... I really need this ......❤️ I think confidence is something which actually helps you to pull out from your tough times ........ Truly appreciated Jay sir ..... For making such kind of videos and content for us ......❤️ To be honest it was really required for me.......... Thanku

[@amritasohtun4055]

Thank you so much for this video

[@authentic_pinkown4001]

Merci beaucoup monsieur Shetty... absolutely right and helpful👍👍👍❤

[@LiveMy_Dream_]

thankyou. amazing video

[@bentong6590]

Thanks man !!

[@Sujal-More]

Thanks A Million. Great Video made. I got Great Knowledge and it will help me.

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Thank Youuuuuu

[@limitless5331]

Its really wonderful suggestions to us sir..Thank you for your guidelines and motivation .

[@awaismanzoor6609]

If there was a double tap option then I must like this video twice. Much needed. Much helpful.

[@alpab3400]

Thanks Jay, I found answer to my question

[@anyangthiep8802]

Your message is very valuable. I take something that is useful and important away from it. Your eyes are very powerful

[@Fatima_316]

Your book "Think Like a Monk" is truly amazing. Thank you for all the amazing work you do for the world, you really inspire me and your sincerity is beautiful. You're a gem 💎

[@loumypereira7224]

Um livro excelente. Obrigada por ter referenciado aqui.

[@vasu_makes_lives_better]

Thank you

[@aifoehealthandwellness1]

This video gave me a new perspective on male enhancement-it's not just about physical changes but also mental and emotional well-being. The holistic approach is key, and I appreciate the depth of the discussion.

[@AdonaiRose7]

Ever grateful

[@daughterofzion2146]

I absolutely love to learn!😁

[@youthubh8061]

Your videos are awesome.

[@dv4036]

I know this is off topic but I love your eyes. Thanks for the tips ❤️❤️❤️

[@annaayoub551]

I love this!

[@elenacarra5863]

This video saved my life 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🌈 I believe in myself, I work really hard and I achieve my goals. Preparation and hard work are everything 💕

[@faryalali1630]

Amazing video I think this is what I was searching for.

[@gracejasinthpriyadarsini2489]

I love his speech very much my favourite speaker Jay genius

[@CJ-ml9jy]

Only thing is believe yourself and respect your feelings existence and feel superior from inside in every field

[@abdurrahmanshittu3209]

Thanks so much

[@simrankadyan5339]

May this new year be full of happiness and surprise.may all the 12 months of this year is filled with beautiful memories!... HÂPPY NEW YEAR 2022 To All !!!🥳🍫🍩🎂🍰🎊

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Love you Jay ❤️ Thank you🙏🏻

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I can't tell you how much I liked your video ,i always learn something from you thanks for creating this kind of video for us ,i really used to thing that confidence is something being first everytime but no completely wrong. confidence is being a serene person ,and absorbing more listening more ,and responding in a attractive way❤️❤️❤️

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Nice useful tips. thank you

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I call it calm control when I need to respond to situations

[@gracejasinthpriyadarsini2489]

My favourite speaker Jay genius

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sir i am from India and I read your book and really felt in love with it