This was a tough night. Dementia really sucks.

[@gwgwtsop]

He lost his memory but he really didnt lose his awesomeness. He must have been a great dad to you all . He still cares about not being a burden. Amazing person .

[@1butteri]

I really stinks-its a bloody mess-he cashed a lot of insurance checks ? Cerebral cortex was affected by an undetected mini stroke -maybe send him to a German neurologist to reconnect the cerebral cortex to the right brain hemisphere

[@judycampbell842]

Patience. How do you keep it together? Do you ever lose your patience?

[@1butteri]

@@judycampbell842 Thank You for your kind consideration and response-for an intellect and telepathic -the observation leaves me hypnotized depressed and with nervous system break downs-I frequently sleep for days at a time

[@necodiaz4199]

Hello there..your dad even he Lost his Memory but the love of his Kids his family still there in his Heart its Amazing ❤❤❤ all his worrys still there .. sending hugs frm US here .. God bless

[@TravelHall74]

I feel like he’s my dad I love the old timer what a wonderful generation my dad if alive would be 97

[@kgfes]

3:36 "... I got nothing to worry about because I can't remember anything. " He has a way of bluntly summarising things. That's a bombshell statement right there 😔

[@OboteOjok]

it got me too

[@mmcs4973]

I don't know who I feel worse for, dad who has totally lost the plot, or son who's patiently explaining it, over and over and over. My heart is with both of them 💓

[@tassymccormick]

Dementia is definitely worse on the loved ones, especially when they start to forget their own family.

[@heathernesbitt7749]

I say both , Its hard for the care taker , I care for my mom as she is slowly loosing herself .. Its so hard ..

[@vanessamccarthy7807]

I'd say both too. The early stages probably harder and more distressing for the patient as they still have enough capacity to know they are losing their memory and the later stages become increasingly difficult emotionally and physically for the caregiver (financially too quite often as families give up work to care for their loved one(s)). It can be quite frightening, isolating, frustrating and confusing for the patient too at the later stages.

[@edencelebrations7857]

​@@vanessamccarthy7807You are so so right. May Almighty God help us all, life is tough but we will all survive it in Jesus's name. May God bless Dan, Ed, Danielle and Mark. I Pray to God to give all of us the spirit of love and selflessness.

[@LPS-ww4wl]

Demrntia patients dont see anything wrong with themselves ... they are happy ... Its others that feel the hurt .. Im an ex careworker of many years . Have full respect for granddads family ❤

[@maddylit1643]

He might be struggling with memory loss, but his sense of humor is still there. God bless grandpa and his amazing family

[@mlwehberg]

My mom does this. It’s endless. By the time you answer the 4 questions it’s time to start over again. Dementia does absolutely suck! 😢

[@jennyjones2729]

my mother told me she doesnt know why she's using a walker.. i said because you have arthritis in your knees so bad (shes used this walker at least a decade). She told me the doctor was lying. then scooted off using her walker. sigh. Its like groundhog day. same thing everyday, all day, repeat again tomorrow.

[@mlwehberg]

@@jennyjones2729 oh it is. I tell people that unless they have been a caregiver, they have no idea. Im sorry for your mom but also for you

[@MasterofScrutiny]

My heart breaks for your dad and your family. Stay strong buddy. He seems to want to be doing something like work. Maybe he can make a garden?

[@janethefriend-awakened33]

@@jennyjones2729 i chuckled at the way you described it, but this must be really frustrating .

[@jennyjones2729]

@@janethefriend-awakened33 im glad you had a giggle. I find the funny in this awful disease, you HAVE to, some of it is preposterous, if you dont laugh you would be insane, its hysterical and so so ridiculous.

[@TinaLouise528]

You’ve learned patience . It’s frustrating, but I guarantee you. You will never regret this time you spent with your Dad. ❤

[@solidrock7998]

Being a dementia caregiver is like a never-ending game of "Who's On First." I am primarily caregiver for my grandparents (92 & 94), who both have end stage vascular dementia, and have been having this same convo for the past 4.5 years. Bless you and Mark!

[@Joyfully8888]

I LOVE Grandpa!! He says “I don’t have anything to worry about because I don’t remember anything!” He might have dementia, but he is quick with his zingers!!!! I love you Grandpa and you will be 92 this March 2024 ♥️🥰!! God Bless him!

[@skatebug6115]

Dad wants his car, house, control of his money and indepence!! Those are real concerns for the elderly who have spent an entire lifetime bring self-sufficient... No matter dementia or not, those thoughts are not going away because he knows he is not at home...we love you dad, stay healthy!😊

[@skatebug6115]

TYPO: should be "being self-sufficient"😊

[@winkwarren939]

What about independence lmao

[@sharonbartley808]

@@winkwarren939 Be kind. Typing fast causes errors.

[@lugwetunje3896]

Yes

[@suzannelacy8093]

@@skatebug6115 You must be bored because I have come across your spell checking on numerous occasions .

[@patrickmcnabb1998]

That’s tough brother. He’s so blessed to have you all. You’re doing the Lords work. Well done.

[@robbikarboski6266]

Lord's work is correct.This is how it is meant to be,care for us,later we care for them.

[@christinadacruz420]

Great family

[@grmajoy]

I wish all families caring for family members with memory loss would watch these video clips. You show how to normalize a conversation and be patient with duplicate questions very well.

[@likkit6376]

My Dad had it. Very sad and depressing to witness. I am now in the grips of its early stages.

[@Nan-59]

@@likkit6376 I’m sorry. That’s one thing I’m super scared of getting.

[@cynthacrawley4182]

Remembering how rough it was taking care of my Aunt. I was alone 24/7 with someone who did not recognize me as family. Could not recognize her home, this from a woman who made millions in the manufacturing business. A slow and painful process. Bless you all.

[@GgGg-xq5sz]

My parents are elderly and live with me. I’m the oldest of their 5 children. I’m widowed so my home was biggest and I live next door to my daughter and son in law and grandchildren so there is a lot of interaction and support. My brothers and sisters help as much as possible. When I saw your post I want to thank you. I know what a positive experience it has been for us. It does have its ups and downs but they took care of us as children it’s the least we can do for them. We are luckier then most that we are all in agreement and have their best interest at heart. Again thank you and your family for sharing.

[@genevieveaitola3541]

If this helps at all, I gave my Mom $500 in all 10s...to keep in her wallet. Kept her happy...Good luck 🤞

[@ashherdt5325]

He says "I don't have to worry about anything, because I can't remember anything"! He is so funny sometimes. He still has a great sense of humor and that is super important!!

[@lovelylori1085]

I'm so sorry he's struggling to understand where his memory has gone to. He's such a sweet man and thank God he has such a great family.

[@elgonm289]

Love it when Ed says " I have nothing to worry about because I can't remember anything" love this human being

[@debmeder7127]

He really worries about money !!! Bless his heart !!! I think it shows what he worried a lot about when he was younger !!! I pray about that for you !!!

[@bayborn510]

“I don’t have nothing to worry about because I can’t remember anything.” Lol Good job Son. You’re a blessing.

[@daniellerotchill1847]

Awe this breaks my heart, he's always worried about money and house and his check book. U r amazing for being there for ur dad and taking care of him

[@cindywhittemore7202]

That’s very typical.

[@bootnas]

@@cindywhittemore7202 Absolutely typical. Before my Mom died, it was almost unbearable.

[@cindywhittemore7202]

@@bootnas , my prayers for you. My brother and I are in the midst of this with our mom.

[@rondellschuyler7074]

@Cindy Whittemore Goverment needs to do more to help pharmaceutical companies to develope a cure.

[@lanamedcalf1561]

Don’t forget the car keys.

[@michellemann6362]

" I got nothing to worry about because I can't remember anything" God bless his heart 💜❤️🙏😊

[@JV-vr2js]

Dan, You’re a beautiful man to give such loving care to your father & with your honest responses to your father instead of treating Dad like he’s failing. Thank you Dan for you and Dad❤

[@cathryncoleman6460]

Wow, Grandpa is so kind. He is definitely a provider for his family. He always wants to make sure that he is financially responsible. I wish there was cure for this 😪. 🙏🏼

[@saquinamogne1587]

😪🙏

[@peaceglory5973]

Even worrying about the taxes.

[@athomewithmelissa]

That’s gotta be tough seeing your father experience this illness.Your father is blessed to have you.🙏🏻💝

[@gingersipes9609]

It is tough seeing people going through dementia, my parents went through it and my husband's parents went through it. It was tough and we were the care givers for all of them. It's especially tough when they can't remember your name and they think that your just the nice lady and man that takes care of them. Luckily neither set of parents became combative with us. We put an alarm on.our house when my dad and father in law lived with us so we knew if they tried going out at night. Good thing we did because ar 2 a.m. my dad tried to go outside.

[@faleisha81]

That pig sounds like a crying little puppy. I never understand why people have pigs for a house pet🤦🏾‍♀️🤷🏾‍♀️

[@ibless7349]

“I got nothing to worry about because I can't remember anything. " ❤ wow he has a way with words. Bless him

[@ArmstrongFam]

If I was 91 chilling in my sons garden & a pig rolls up, I'd know I'm gone 😂 Love you guys ❤

[@shay7090]

I love how you make dad feel reassured by repeatedly explaining to him and keeping him safe.

[@3x3mm]

Amazing reassurance but not surprising.

[@cynthiahendricks8113]

Yes you're right. Some people would lose patience n walk away. They continue to reassure him daily

[@susanmeyer2742]

I agree

[@christysbutterfly1612]

One thing I did when my grandma was surviving alz, was listen to her cues.. she would have moments when she'd ask for her purse, keys, etc. So I bought her a small clutch bag and bought 3 blank keys from Walmart. I made sure she had Kleenex, cherry chapstick and a few hard candy's in it. One of my favorite moments with her at this stage was taking her out for a walk with her wheelchair, and seeing her get her purse. ❤️

[@minoozolala]

That's beautiful. How kind and thoughtful.

[@barbrice721]

They remember what was most important to them. The necessaries of everyday life.

[@Nan-59]

We had blank keys, or old keys, for people in the Alzheimer’s unit in the nursing home I worked at. It’s a good idea to give them what they’re asking for actually. Like he could have a wallet with just a few things, odds and ends in it like you did with your mom. Good job on that.!

[@SwimDeeep]

@@Nan-59 I’ve read that he’s done a Q&A and said they don’t want to give him a fake checkbook cuz he will start to go in more of a loop. Same with the phone I believe

[@EllEss331]

@@SwimDeeep That makes sense. The loop just gets bigger with more things to trigger it.

[@mohnishtripathi1540]

Thank you so much Dan for being so humble and patient with your dad. Humanity still exists and your family is an example of it. God chose you guys to show people how to respect elderlies.

[@susanparker4550]

"I don't have anything to worry about because I can't remember anything!" made me laugh but in a way he is absolutely right 😂 ❤ x

[@LavenderRae19]

Grandpa feels like family to me. His frustration was tough to see. I feel for him. It must be maddening! Can’t imagine how this was for u Dan. My 💜 is with u guys. Please keep being the amazingly loving family that u are. Love u Grandpa! 🥰🥰🥰

[@blackstonemd1]

Yes he’s OUR cyber grandpa..!!! Dan and Danielle and Mark, although we don’t see much of Mark…you guys are all angels in my eyes..!! Thank you for taking such great care of OUR grandpa💜💜💜

[@brendasparkman2480]

I went thru this with my MOM she was 97 when she passed Lord if I had to do it all over again I would ♥️

[@billydow1971]

It breaks my heart to see such a wonderful man's mind deteriorate. Thank you for documenting and sharing. God bless.

[@carolynsteele1465]

"I have nothing to worry about because I can't remember anything." I can relate to that sometimes.

[@DrCasey]

He springs up really quickly for 90. Without the dementia he would be in perfect shape.

[@MsYingyang2]

My husband is 72 and has this terrible situation. Your father is amazing. He is 90. You and your brother are guardian angels. I admire you both.

[@marybethingberg2802]

My 72 yo husband also has dementia and progressive aphasia. Dan and Danielle sharing Grandpa has been a great help. Hang in there.

[@lindamatus4429]

In a couple weeks, my 90-year-old dad with dementia is coming to live with us. These videos are very helpful to me to get an idea of what I am in for. Thank you for posting!

[@lulabell79_31]

Try not to think of it in the "what I am in for" mindset, but rather how you can make the most of the time you have left with your father. Being in a good frame of mind, keeping a positive perspective, and caregiving for him out of love, are critical in remaining sain and avoiding resentment and bitterness which is crucial for maintaining your composure when caring for your father so that you don't take out your frustration on him. Remember he has NO CONTROL over what has happened to him or how he is behaving. No matter how much it may seem like he knows exactly what's going on or that he MUST BE doing things just to piss you off, take a deep breath and apply logic and reasoning and reassure yourself that he absolutely is NOT in control of his mind or his behavior. It can be tough, but the more you do your caregiver role out of love and kindness and honor, the greater the rewards will be and the easier the experience will be. Best of luck.

[@gailnalesnik473]

Treasure these days! My mom died from dementia. She went to being like your dad is now to forgetting who I was. And then to a wheelchair. Then she could no longer talk,it was all babbling. Heart braking. You are a wonderful son! As hard as it gets I still miss her so much.

[@LauraWilliams-rn9kc]

I can see the frustration on his face. I cannot imagine being in his shoes. Tough for everyone, but especially him.

[@janicemeeks3243]

People just don’t realize how terrible this disease is unless they have a loved one that has it. Continued prayers for Grandpa and your whole family ❤️

[@OFD]

My dad's 6 years in. It's very tough, and little changes make a huge difference. Bless you guys

[@patsysmothermon7861]

When the Dad stood up and looked strangely at the pet pig, I laughed & laughed. The Son is So Kind & Sweet to Him, answering the same questions over & Over. 🙏💙🦋

[@ld4687]

Ed says "there's nothing to worry about because I can't remember anything". That is the most rational statement I ever heard.

[@user-nh4uw2ji7o]

It is tough taking care of a parent with dementia. Mum lived with us for 18 months - very difficult but you love them so much. My heart goes out to you all.

[@Dustwitch]

OMG..this would make ME crazy. Dan, you have the patience of a saint. Poor Ed, living in an endless loop. I can't imagine what it is like for all of you. Praying and wishing you all the best.

[@pcooper1tgl]

I deal with this with my bio mom

[@saquinamogne1587]

Amen!

[@2legit2quit4u]

He is a saint. I would be nuts.

[@kimberlyanita1006]

Ummm Miss, Ed is just fine.

[@lizgillies3564]

Ahh your poor dad💔💔. It’s hard going you are doing a fabulous job looking after your dad. Such a hard thing to deal with you guys. You are all amazing ❤❤

[@pamelamoreno4657]

My mother was diagnosed with dementia on Tuesday. I went to get her some chicken for lunch. I came back with a note to take care of her little dog. She was heading to my brother in Texas. We lived in Colorado. That was 10AM. We had to put an all points bulletin for Texas, new Mexico, Arizona, and Colorado. We didn't know she was a runner. She passed in 2018 from this horrible disease. You and your brother are heroes. We had to disable mom's car. It was the saddest time in my life. Thank God he remembers you.🙏❣

[@soniadadivas6263]

My heart goes out to you Pamela. Just be patient and understanding. Your mom doesn’t know what she’s doing, never meant to hurt your feelings😂.

[@djLagwayEnjoyer]

I’m confused, she was diagnosed with dementia on Tuesday, but she died in 2018? I don’t understand

[@pamelamoreno4657]

@@djLagwayEnjoyer sorry for confusion. Dementia/alzheimers is a slow progressing disease. It is a multi year process. By the time we found out she was in end stage.

[@christines2787]

​@@pamelamoreno4657 That can happen. It's small stuff that gets brushed off. Then something happens and they are taken out of the environment they know and suddenly they can't cope.

[@kelliecurry1518]

Love your family ❤.Thank God he has you & brother that ❤s him.

[@jagadeeshsavan]

Your dad is a charming person. You are a good son.

[@TonayB-47]

Dan you Mark and your family are truly a blessing your dad is a gift to so many.

[@shapienails3067]

Think he tried to make a joke " I don't have to worry about anything, because I can't remember anything." Poor guy for 90 he looks really healthy, you never know what's going to happen in later life. Give yourself a pat on the shoulder & a high 5 for sticking by your Dad.👌👏❤

[@tonnasullivan9374]

We just moved my husband’s grandma from NY to KY with us. She’ll be 90 on Sept 1 and she’s in the beginning stages. My husband & I are watching your videos to help us prepare for what’s coming. You’ve helped a lot of people out there. Prayers to your family.

[@andreajones9822]

He said I don't have any thing to worry about, because I can't remember nothing, make a whole lot of sense to me. He still has his wit.

[@barbaragreen8608]

I worked as a nurse for 35 years and most of those years I worked on a Geriatric Med-Surg unit. Looking at these videos of your Dad brings back some of my fondest memories of my Geriatric clients. You father is simply adorable. I hope that he continues to have a blessed life moving forward. 😊

[@birdie4223]

This could happen to anyone of us unfortunately,Just glad this gentleman is taken care of with love and respect ❤

[@anniewuestefeld4575]

My mom is in her 80s and has been suffering with Dementia for the past 15 years. This disease is so cruel. I wish I could have conversations like this with my mom. I'm so very Blessed to have a husband and adult children who help me daily take care of my mom and dad. Thanks to our group effort we have been fortunate enough to keep her home with my dad. My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family. Nice to know we aren't alone!!

[@susanelder7192]

My sister lives in New Jersey and when I call her she’ll tell me the same thing over and over again and she always says did I call you or did you call me? I just have to stay calm answer her as best I can but it breaks my heart. She’s my older sister. she practically raised me because our parents were alcoholics. I am 78 years old and live in a nursing home and my biggest fear is getting dementia.

[@laurawalles5855]

You should do something about it like a brain scan and take memory u want ur mom to remember u rite so talk to the doctor

[@laurawalles5855]

@@susanelder7192 ur sister need a brain. Scan and take memory pills talk to the doctor

[@susanelder7192]

@@laurawalles5855 my sister lives in New Jersey with her husband, I live in a nursing home in Texas.

[@laurawalles5855]

@@susanelder7192 u look so sweet in the picture I hope everything works out for ur family

[@TrustGodandDoGood]

You’re so very patient with your Dad even when he is frustrated about not having the life he use to live. He seems like he was and is such an amazing dad.

[@SmartCard67]

Grandpa:” Nothing to worry about it because I can’t remember anything.”

[@susanmagee9654]

My heart breaks for all of you. Dan, you are so patient with your dad. Dementia surely does such!!

[@SunFlower-fy5xm]

Very hard for elderly to lose their independence. Blessings to you all!

[@kathygodbeaux4837]

This brings back so many memories of my dad - even his facial expressions are the same. We went through the same thing with his car but he was found in a parking lot of the local high school and brought home by the police which made him lose his car. You are so much more patient than I was.

[@sheilap9854]

I'm So Glad he Has his Children, Such A Dear Man, Continued Blessings to Him and his Family!!!!!

[@Snarky_Gurl]

This takes me right back to the last 4 years with my dad. I tried so hard to to keep my cool. However, there were those few times when I was at my wits end and he would say something so hurtful and off the wall that I would lose my patience. I felt so bad. Circumstances were much much different, and many other stressors, but it didn't happen often. I tried my very best and did what I promised which was to keep him out of a care facility. God Bless You & God Bless Your Dad ❤

[@joycebauer8838]

Another of us have been in the same place. You blow up then regroup and chances are they won't remember 10 minutes later!!!

[@laurijoemerick9188]

You are only human....don't be so hard on yourself Bless you

[@joshdiehl8737]

Yupp, you're not perfect, and that's ok. Being a caregiver is very hard. You do the best you can. I am sure you did a phenomenal job

[@bobbybrooks5846]

Your an honest person, but not a bad one. We all have bad days and by you not putting him in a nursing home shows your heart. Keep your headup because he's looking down on you

[@carolinepetal6708]

Somedays are painful for family members! So what do we do when we feel pain? ... We react and take care of ourselves first. It is sometimes necessary. God bless you for all your efforts in good times and in the worst of times.

[@jacquelinebarnard649]

He really misses his belongings. Car, house and most of all his memorie. You're not kidding dementia is a cruel disease must be hard to see him struggle with it . I know you probably hear how amazing you guys are but you truly are. Not only to your Dad but for the rest of the world aswell. There are other people out there going through the same thing. These videos are very educational. So thank you 😊 Love from Canada 🇨🇦

[@andromedab902]

Yes grandpa, INCOME TAX! the bane of our lives! Awesome man! Pray that with your family support, your sense of fitness of things, your patience & love for humanity, not excluding the appropriate meds, your memory will not so decline & keep the dementia at bay. ❤

[@chaseme81871]

I have two Uncles going through this at the moment. One of them is almost to this point, he has his good days and his bad days. The other one is just beginning to forget stories of things that he has told people for years. he says his brain feels cloudy. It is very hard to watch. I love them both dearly and hate seeing this happen to them.

[@melissav13]

I completely understand. We just lost my mom on the 15th and my stepdad has dementia and it's a lot of work but it's not their fault and we have to do what we have to do. You guys are doing an amazing job. Keeping all this documented is not just memories for you, but it is helpful to others who aren't sure how to deal with it. God bless you all.

[@stephaniemeadows6796]

I just wanted to say thank you for sharing your story I don't feel so alone knowing I'm not the only one who has to go through taking care of someone with dementia and repeat myself multiple times a day

[@agd.6754]

He can't remember anything but affirms "I gotta pay income tax..." ... That's pretty brilliant ! A super citizen always remembering his duties...

[@QueenReina6419]

I remember my dad going through this. He would call up the bank and yell at them and ask them these questions over n over. I bet people that work at banks get calls like this daily.

[@jeanettedombroski3934]

AWWW He senses what is going on but doesn’t understand. He worries always about responsibility. Awwwww

[@pianofish5198]

Shared this with a friend going through this, he could completely relate and he really appreciated watching it.

[@debby891]

These are the tough days and why we are so grateful for the better days❤ You’re all an inspiration to so many of us caring for elderly parents

[@Saintsrockitall]

This is such a tragic disease. My mom passed in 2018 at 82. She had lived with us for 3 years. I sure miss her. Even the 30 times a day she said she was ready to go to her house and see my dad.

[@melissamartinez913]

It’s got to be so hard we can’t even imagine what he’s thinking! A man who’s taking care of these things all his life & then suddenly it’s gone & he doesn’t remember when or why! It’s so hard! And you are so patient & good with him! Don’t ever regret these times even when it’s so hard & you repeat yourself a million times! Just repeat it a million & 1! Just remember to take care of yourselves also and get some rejuvenation every so often! God Bless you all ❤

[@cherylluigs8984]

Your dad is just like my dad. My dad is 83 and 3 yrs ago I had to put him in the nursing home, as I am single and have no siblings that live nearby. Prior to moving to the nursing home, he started crying and telling me he knew what I was in for with him (both of his parents had Alzheimer’s and he was the primary responsible party for both of them). It was heartbreaking to hear him say that, and I know he was scared for what was going to happen. But we move on and do the best we can.

[@carolayala9868]

We had to do the same with our dad. It is so extremely heartbreaking to witness their struggle. They know their mind is failing them, and they keep trying to sort out the present situation over and over. I can't imagine how hard it is for them as they try to deal with the constant confusion.

[@soniasias6226]

Earlier I wrote a comment here and deleted because I want to try to keep positive. Nursing home decisions are the hardest. God Bless everyone with this hardship. Thank you for responding to the comment I deleted.

[@Gwaycee]

If he does not yet know the love of Jesus Christ, now's the time to let him know about it. Acts 2:37-39 tells us how to obtain eternal life for the soul.

[@moonchaser5457]

Reminds me so much of my dad,my dad was 77 when he passed, i miss him so much, as frustrating times got sometimes,i loved taking care of my father.

[@michaels.8663]

I'm in the process of selling my mom's car, after explaining the logic of it she agrees but when it comes up again she gets mad, what are you gonna sell it right out from under me!?, Then I explain it again and she agrees again, over and over and over... I feel ya man.

[@Dr.KarenJordison2820]

This man has always been so together and he knows its all falling apart, hes aware..My heart breaks for you all. He really is a Blessing and so are all of you that love and take care of him..

[@matzsuflex]

😢

[@jaclyncolasanti2753]

My Nana suffered from this, and it was hard to watch. She lived with us, and I think the worst part, and in the end, when she forgot who we were. Sending prayers to you and your family. 🙏🏻

[@DebUSA]

Watched on July 14, 2023 ~ My husband has short-term memory issues... I can so relate to the repetitive questions.

[@lyndaamery9696]

What a lovely man god bless you I know what it is like I worked in a dementia ward for 10 years and it was very upsetting at times but I loved each and everyone I looked after all the best a big hello from Queensland Australia 🇦🇺 🐨🦘

[@juliecoe5318]

This is so so sad . I lived with my husband with this disease. It's heart breaking. Blessings to you and your family members for loving this man .

[@kristinwise4580]

Dad is very blessed to have you and Mark and family who adore him. I can see why. Dad is good natured and stays that way because he has all of you who continue to assure him. What a wonderful family.

[@lbccarpediem]

Yes the long goodbye really sucks. A huge shout out to you and your brother for taking care of your father. ❤

[@BonnieInCalifornia]

He is so incredible smart. Thanks for sharing your life with us.

[@aliciajones-morgan7501]

My grandmother had dementia and I cherish every moment like you with your dad. Bless his heart and thank you for sharing him with us.

[@jennsikes9077]

I just lost my Mom last month to dementia. I know exactly how frustrating this can be but you will be so glad you took care of him.

[@sandraeggerstedt7930]

Bless your heart. It so difficult to watch his frustration at not knowing where things are. His fear of having no money, no control. On days such as this one, it leaves one so tired, exhausted. Sending Hugs.

[@ruthwayneperry3097]

We rarely see interaction with Mark, but working together you ,mark and your families seem to be doing a fantastic job with your Dad. Prayerfully dad stays this sweet and neither of you get too frustrated. Thank you for loving your Dad enough to take care of your him.

[@FreeArtsakh2024]

I thank God everyday that my ma didn't lose her memory; she was very sharp till the end. She used to remind me with my tasks, more like I was the one with memory problem! God bless you Dan. You are doing a 100 times better job than I did for my parents 😭

[@rosalielearned4752]

My Mom had dementia and he sounds like her. My sister took care of her until she passed. You and your brother are blessed by God to have love in your heart to care for him. You both are in my prayers.

[@tonyac2416]

They say those with dementia will focus on what they know. My pastors father would "fix" things around his home. Seems like Ed focuses on being independant with things like his house and money and car. He focuses on his family as he is always asking where Mark is and while we don't see it I imagine he asks about Dan when he is with Mark. This goes to show the two things about him is that he was always independent and taking care of others and he was/is a great father and grandfather as his family is always on his mind. May God bless you as you travel this hard road. ❤

[@lelanoel3499]

Bless his heart. Any of us could be in his shoes.

[@Julie-fh6oh]

We went through this with my mom. It was really, really hard. Your father is such a good man. I hate he has to go through this.

[@aprilpurvis8254]

The way you handle his memory loss is awesomeness!! Such a blessing that your family is able to help him the way you do.

[@janerainsford8996]

It’s so hard to see Grandpa suffer. You too. I’ve come to care for you all. Sometimes I cry while watching. ❤

[@marycrozier4990]

I used to work with dementia patients and we used to leave a pad in their rooms and we would fill in all the questions answers to their most asked questions and mark the top with INFORMATION FOR (PATIENTS NAME)!!They could never resist picking it up and reading it and sometimes even carried it around with them!! When they asked a question we would say check and see if it is on your INFORMATION SHEET and they would keep busy looking to find the answer and it cut down on repetitious questions! Also a sense of achievement to find the answers for themselves !! Example: Where his car is? Name of his bank. where his house went? Where he lives now? His age? Family members names and friends that visit? General info that he seems concerned about!! It is also very stressful to them that they feel they have to question constantly to feel orientated to what is going on around them!! Pretty much trial and error but may help a bit!! Make sure it is big clear letters and easy to see and read!! Have to say l love Grampa what a sweetheart he is!!!❤️ Good Luck!!!

[@lindaleidig8565]

He is so sweet!! Thank you for taking care of your father!!

[@debishaw9355]

Dementia is the long goodbye. It’s so hard, but you’re doing a great job…. You will look back later at these videos and be happy you did this! You and Mark!

[@prizvinyam8356]

I was a nurse before and I enjoyed looking after people who had dementia and for sure ‘dementia is the long goodbye’ .

[@lindaquinn-mcdowell3244]

This is not easy at all, went through this with my mum and my husbands friend. Everything that I am seeing on your videos happened to both friend and mum. Hard time both have passed one in July 2022 and the other in Oct 2022 cherish each moment with him, when they do pass I have found such a void in my life. Grief is real. He is very fortunate to have you both looking after him. God bless you all. Thanks for sharing your videos I am sure it is helping people to understand what Dementia is really like!! ❤ 😢

[@elijahmendoza1917]

Love the fact that you Dan- chose to let your dad live with you rather than put him in a senior care home.

[@AshleyD333]

Makes me very sad but you can tell he was a very nice man because he STILL IS . Once a doctor , always a doctor . God Bless him and all of you . ❤

[@eileenconaghan6009]

I went through this with my mom. I understand what you are going through. My mother was a very independent vibrant person, as your father is, and to see what this disease does to them is so difficult. You are handling their daily needs while morning the loss of the parent you knew. You are in my prayers and sending you the strength to continue doing the wonderful care of your dad.

[@HousesForSaleCairns]

Write it out for him on a card! You are 90 you have memory loss. You live… etc we love you… he can read it over!!!

[@SweetColo]

This is when it’s time for deflection. Time to get him interested in something other than what he’s working about. A walk, a chore, anything to distract him from this worry. I go through this with my mom daily. 😢