Listen to him! My ex didn't leave me, I stopped seeing him cause he felt like he loved someone else. I let him have that and went no contact. He was constantly calling me and I wouldn't answer until the last time, and I told him to never contact me again. He's now begging to get back, asking if he can come over and see me, and I told him no! Sir we're gonna stand on business, go be with that other girl you felt like you loved more thwn than me. It will take 4 women to equal 1 me. Make these people stand on what they created, don't take them back!
@jaydub73867 ай бұрын
1000%. No contact is to get myself back not my ex. He dumped me on Christmas Day. Why the hell would I want him back after that? Charchar7897 Good for you for taking out the trash. You are living no contact and took back your power.
@mercyhial96567 ай бұрын
Absolutely I have been going through same stage and its being 5 months we are not speaking with each other I have a strong feeling he is dating someone else and if he gonna come back I am not gonna take him he broke my trust It really hurts .... 😪😓
@neodistinct7 ай бұрын
You are a narcissist
@BennySa-w4k4 ай бұрын
I’m in the same boat that’s what my ex gf did. Today is day 30 of no contact. How you feeling now? How long did it take you to start feeling better?
@chynayucee9699Ай бұрын
@@charchar7897 Thank you for this comment. It made my day.
@Troy12-fitnessmodel7 ай бұрын
No contact is not for them...its for you
@PazGoldmanOfficial7 ай бұрын
Yes!!! 🙌🏽
@RichModz777 ай бұрын
After 6 months of being in no contact after being abruptly discarded, today I was on the verge of reaching out to my ex, but I came across this video and it stopped me from making a huge mistake and disrespecting myself, I truly thank you for this video #wisdom
@archangelelmo3 ай бұрын
@@RichModz77 did your ex ever reach out to you??
@RichModz773 ай бұрын
@@archangelelmo No she hasnt, it has now been 10 months since last I spoke to her and seen her, but I am now so healed and accepting of how I was done, I am just grateful for the wisdom I have acquired do to this experience.
@gogetta65322 ай бұрын
@@RichModz77she discarded you because she found out you cheated or found out you were talking to someone. I disappeared on my ex cuz I found out he was flirting with other girls.
@hgr.7857Ай бұрын
@@RichModz77 ✊💪💯
@thatphilguy70637 ай бұрын
Wisdom 💪 She left me for another man! I have lost 30 pounds since the break up 2 months ago 💪
@courtneyhall93687 ай бұрын
Same here brother! Busted my ass in the gym.
@garyaction71067 ай бұрын
EXCELLENT ADVICE ! I'm doing exactly what you said to do .. And it feels great... Just work on yourself .. Be the best you know you can be ...
@PazGoldmanOfficial7 ай бұрын
Yes!!! Good job my dear friend! Proud of you 👏🏽
@davidallahgod32177 ай бұрын
3 year relationship 3 year no contact straight after first day of breakup My two faced devious sibling who talks to my ex and is friends with my ex keeps reporting back to my ex about absolutely everything I'm doing, from who I dated and who I loved, where I live, how much money I make and have, my lifestyle, my car, everything!, and I've now cut my sibling out my life My social media has and always been private, so no one can snoop on my profile, because I'm like James Bond, or James bond wishes he was like me What you think of this coach?
@1111spiritualone7 ай бұрын
my ex was very toxic/controlling/manipulative/cheater. I did all these things but don’t want them back. They never begged me back because I didn’t chase and that’s what they wanted because there too messed up in the head and don’t like rejection. Don’t ever try to get a toxic ex back. the games they play will always be better than yours. they already seeing someone else when they leave
@justme95147 ай бұрын
@5:24 I'm crackin' up with laughter 😆 listening as I drive. Wait, wait she knocked on your fuckin' 🚪 door.... The way you dropped that part if the story was hilarious.
@theflippantfox2 ай бұрын
Found your channel a bit late and I made some mistakes in the past... I wasted 2.5 months waiting, crying and wasting my time. After watching your videos, I am going to work on myself and improve my life multifold. Love content ♥️
@Beans3007 ай бұрын
Great advice! I went no contact immediately but I still tried to play the social media game by posting a lot and it probably came across as trying too-hard to impress her. I'm still posting but my energy has definitely shifted from trying to make my ex regret breaking up with me, to just joyfully expressing myself to the world. Since my energy and focus shifted I've had multiple beautiful and high value women in my orbit reach out to ME to flirt, and one childhood friend even confess her love to me! And she's better than my ex in every way! I now am facing the difficult decision of CHOOSING which amazing woman I want to be with next hahaha
@djtiger157 ай бұрын
So shouldnt we post much?
@SherylJones-b5rАй бұрын
I have gone no contact and blocked my ex 6 weeks ago, because he told me that he was contemplating going back with his ex-wife. I broke up with him immediately, I told him that there is no 3rd chance, and I was moving on. He has not tried to reach out to me, it hurts because I feel he does not care but it is best to help me move on.
@martinhebblewhite46597 ай бұрын
Let's have a video on the universe .. energy .. vibration and how to harness its FULL potential ❤ And who the ex feels the disconnect from the deep bond we had
@mbettin20022 күн бұрын
Thank you Brother Paz. I will implement your WISDOM!!! Thank you!
@StefaniaGuerreschi7 ай бұрын
My ex wanted to take a break a month ago...and i really needed to hear this video...i did go no contact...now i must continuo working on myself...
@novanewstories14877 ай бұрын
Yessssss you turned your pain into power and now you are here helping us.Congratulations Bro.Am going through rebuilding future myself .Love ya.Glad I found your video this morning
@PazGoldmanOfficial6 ай бұрын
@@novanewstories1487 thank you for your acknowledgement my dear friend ! Much love ❤️
@druppydogdrew17 ай бұрын
This Is so true, its hard but well worth it.
@RG-882296 ай бұрын
Wisdom, thank you I needed this to get through my breakup
@PazGoldmanOfficial6 ай бұрын
@@RG-88229 thank you for your acknowledgement my dear friend
@1life2life7 ай бұрын
Coach Paz another amazing video brother. I’m at 2 of 3.
@PazGoldmanOfficial7 ай бұрын
Thank you so much my friend! What is the 3rd for you?
@miranana17 ай бұрын
Exactly the video I was looking for :) I will take and embrace that wisdom to my core.
@JoyHustles-cz3bn7 ай бұрын
I became a ghost....
@maricrisonil73247 ай бұрын
WISDOM........................why married man cheats even though some had a good responsible wife and a mother to their children at home?
@boxerwayne66607 ай бұрын
Some Men just want sex and more sex....wifey may not provide the sex as much and hubby will have sex with someone else without any attachments etc
@DailyOwO7 ай бұрын
W I S D O M advanced happy birthday brother.
@Skillspro147 ай бұрын
Thanks for the wisdom brother paz
@PazGoldmanOfficial6 ай бұрын
@@Skillspro14 thank you for your acknowledgement my dear friend
@haihai52937 ай бұрын
I got it 🙂Thanks for your videos!
@PazGoldmanOfficial7 ай бұрын
I’m glad to hear that you got it, my friend thank you for your acknowledgment. I really appreciate it.! Please feel free to ask me any question or give me video suggestions so I can serve you better in the future 🙏🏽
@haihai52937 ай бұрын
@@PazGoldmanOfficial Sorry but I don't have any smart suggestions. In my opinion everything was great. Greetings from Poland.
@balkee427 ай бұрын
My situation is hopeless. Girl left me cuz i took too long to give her a ring. Now shes in a 5month relationship with a new guy.
@boxerwayne66607 ай бұрын
Move on and apply the wisdom learned on the new one
@talkativenatasha2 ай бұрын
Go get your wife
@jessicajeter32652 ай бұрын
Wisdom!!! Thank you.
@DCDK2917 ай бұрын
Wisdom - thanks Paz peace and love❤
@PazGoldmanOfficial7 ай бұрын
Thank you so much, my dear friend, peace and love ✌🏽🤍
@raymondcopperfield8847 ай бұрын
Wisdom Lil Bro 🎉🎉🎉
@PazGoldmanOfficial6 ай бұрын
@@raymondcopperfield884 thank you for your acknowledgement my dear friend 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽💪🏽❤️
@raymondcopperfield8846 ай бұрын
@@PazGoldmanOfficial🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾💪💪💪
@rolienchiru2117 ай бұрын
This is amazing wisdom... It's worth than what I think.. God bless you❤
@mattconway8851Ай бұрын
Wisdom!!! You haveno idea how muc I love you, bro. I'm almost positive I'll be contacting you for some one-on-one sessions. You're the only coach that I've ever come across over the years that actually seems to get it, apply it, and teach it. Thank you!
@lily-rose41655 ай бұрын
Am new here. Iyoh... eei , I love u from South Africa 🇿🇦, great advice brother
@neodistinct7 ай бұрын
1 year no contact, after 10 years. She doesn't care.
@dastanrasul5 ай бұрын
You won
@neodistinct5 ай бұрын
@@dastanrasul yes. But only now understand it. 14 month later.
@melindapopham81027 ай бұрын
WISDOM!!!
@lijojake7 ай бұрын
Wisdom. Nice content brother
@PazGoldmanOfficial6 ай бұрын
@@lijojake thank you my dear friend!
@hokiedevil7 ай бұрын
No revenge. That is childish! Become more yourself. That is the person that attracted the ex to you initially. Revenge will create a crisis. You already have one of those! Why have two?
@PazGoldmanOfficial7 ай бұрын
Hola my friend, Have you watched the video? ;) This is exactly what I talked about :)
@timas86953 ай бұрын
Wisdom brother, thank you :)
@roseamey3703 ай бұрын
Loving your wisdom awsome, thanks so much for sharing.
@Ye80sАй бұрын
Your cat is affirming "meow" ❤
@wenslystoc34407 ай бұрын
I've been watch your videos lately, especially after the post you placed about the scars. Me and my ex broke up at the and of april. It took me untill second week of may to go full no contact. She broke it twice now in then. But still no meet up even tough she agreed to that last time. It won't matter anyway. Im not done doing the work quite yet. So i'm glad s we didn't meet up. On top of that you are so right mr goldman. Dumpers usualy dont do the work. We broke up 2 before. One from my end on wich i did not do the work. The second was mutual on wich we knew really neede to work on things. When you don't know where to start or if you actually don't know if you've healed enough getting back is the same as a rebound. No she broke up. Probably still not understanding what it is she actually needs to work on. And if that's the case why even bother trying again. Thank you for your wonderful content.
@RCL09217 ай бұрын
Wisdom my brother.
@kerriereid85606 ай бұрын
Wisdom . Thank you. I will start
@reginapartoza55295 ай бұрын
I love your cat❤ I am acatlover 😊 forget about the exes I am happy with my cats 🐈
@mattgcar847 ай бұрын
I went no contact and got a restraining order for 2 yrs i wont take her back
@rangerdanger107 ай бұрын
She can always take it back. That's perfect actually. Because when you think of breaking no contact you will go to jail. So makes it even easier to not do it. You now have a reason to not. Is what it is man. Live your life. She did you a favor. But the judge won't sign that unless she had legitimate reasons to present that.
@mattgcar847 ай бұрын
@@rangerdanger10 I got it on her
@mattgcar847 ай бұрын
@@rangerdanger10 I got it on her for 2 yrs
@mattgcar847 ай бұрын
I got the restraining order on her
@marcmini84287 ай бұрын
What to do if you are already ripped and in shape when she break up with you? 😅
@PazGoldmanOfficial7 ай бұрын
Get rich 🤑
@user810005 ай бұрын
got it boss #wisdom 🔥
@JayB-cj1jl7 ай бұрын
Wisdom!💪🏽👍🏽👏🏽
@yuggessundram30912 ай бұрын
100% true.
@silas2135 ай бұрын
My situation is horrible. I do no contact but I work with her and she's my boss. So I have to interact with her. After 7 years she left me and started a long distant relationship with her daughters father. Acted like I didn't exist. Are relationship was toxic because she is an alcoholic. She also lost her eldest daughter and never received help which I begged her to do. Lately she's been calling me drunk and acting suicidal. I ignore most calls but the suicidal ones and tell her to get help. I know I shouldn't care for her but 7 years is a long time and we went through a lot together. It's been a month and half since are breakup. Trying to stay strong and keep sane because I have to see and interact with her at work
@Vee-923 ай бұрын
@silas213 I am in the same position as you! My ex and I just broke up, 2 months ago now. We have been together for 10 years. He is my boss. I have to face the torture everyday of seeing him, it breaks me. Of course I still want him back, but he is very stubborn and likes to play victim. He accused me of cheating when I wasn't. I just got told by him last Friday he has met someone ( a past lover) has just reconnected with him and he says wanted to let me know himself before I see it. I don't want to see him in the office with this new woman. It's long distance for now their relationship, they traveling back and forth. He replaced me a month after a 10 year relationship, talk about a slap in the face. He blocked me everywhere, saying he is hurting and trying to be in a new relationship to move on from me. So I don't need to block him I guess, he beat me to it. I'm trying to find a new job, because I know I will break if I see him bring his new girlfriend in the office to flaunt her in front of me.
@mariefricchione4373 ай бұрын
YOU go for therapy for YOURSELF not for anyone else!😊
@beautifullyfatal64307 ай бұрын
Coach, can you do a video on complete radio silence and the impact it has on the dumper?
@PazGoldmanOfficial7 ай бұрын
I’ll do this today for you!
@judycraig99495 ай бұрын
Wisdom ❤thank you
@taraleightaracumming6726Ай бұрын
I left my boyfriend because he was treating me harshly. I was the hurt one, i wanted to get him back after dumping him.
@t.m.65797 ай бұрын
Hello, thank you for your video. How is it working if you still lived with them together and they now moving out since 2 weeks. He will be gone on wednesday. Is nc then starting wednesday? There will be some reaching out points for him, because he still have his fishtank here... etc. he wants to grab in the following weeks. Also I saw he bought alot of new stuff, planned a lot of trips... maybe he is to fully distracted to think of me. I would appreciate your opinion. Thanks!
@Hopeera-m1f9 күн бұрын
We go to the same class and same college. We are classmates. We see each other everyday. What should I do now?
@ginaferrer14953 ай бұрын
Wisdom💪🏻💪🏻💪🏻
@dcdidit5 ай бұрын
WISDOM!
@silkiar62977 ай бұрын
Wisdom 💪🏻
@TayronWolf7 ай бұрын
wisdom!
@joelg98044 ай бұрын
But if you have kids you can not go no contact….
@billaylward96897 ай бұрын
She told me I was too old, even though she knew my age when she chased me! I can’t change my age, but I can say that I’m in better shape than I’ve been in years. That said, my age is what it is. How do you work on that?
@Omnitrix87 ай бұрын
Don't let your age deter you. Look for someone else who will appreciate you. Just maintain the following 1.keep in shape 2. dress well. 3. Smell good 4 Display characters of a leader. 5. Have an abundance mindset. You'll be good!
@billaylward96897 ай бұрын
@@Omnitrix8 Thanks.
@ArmandoGonzalez-oy4zb6 ай бұрын
Hey brother how can I do no contact when we share a daughter?
@PazGoldmanOfficial6 ай бұрын
I made a video on it on my channel, please check it out to find out the answer 🙏🏽🤍 The name of the video is - no contact with child
@bloopperss7 ай бұрын
Hi sir! I've been following the no contact rule for 1 month now, but my friends and I often go out and they post pictures of us on social media. They're also common friends with my ex, so I'm sure my ex sees the posts. Is that okay? Btw my ex already with a monkey branch/rebound relationship.
@agataklimecka33467 ай бұрын
WISDOM
@PazGoldmanOfficial7 ай бұрын
THANK YOU 🙏🏽 🤍
@blastprosful3 ай бұрын
She monkey branched she does not care about me.
@magdasz19877 ай бұрын
Come on, stop with this narrow thinking. Sometimes its not about changing yourself, sometimes you just don’t fit with your partner anymore. Lets say they broke up cause they want to have kids and you don’t. How are you gonna fix this? Some things just have to end and why would you want someone to regret that they choose their own opinion?
@Al-jh2wy4 ай бұрын
If you want em back and heal then block em for couple months or once youve stopped caring and you dont get a dopamine hit wen finking of em then unblock but dont reach out, if you want to heal and you dont want em back at all then block and never unblock, if she reaches out n breadcrumbs you reblock for another couple mths, shell soon learn not to waste your time!
@Godlytoe717 ай бұрын
WISDOM 💰💰💸💰💰
@michboo119 күн бұрын
What if my ex is the other woman's rebound
@mickeyn7576 күн бұрын
@@michboo1 then they will split up
@AngelBaby_117 ай бұрын
Wisdom ❤
@jeroenscheltema71985 ай бұрын
Wisdom !!!
@aaronavila12556 ай бұрын
Wisdom!!!!!!!!!
@PazGoldmanOfficial6 ай бұрын
@@aaronavila1255 🙏🏽🤍
@amirsarwar12073 ай бұрын
Wisdom❤
@JenaFuentes-p1s6 ай бұрын
wisdom
@PazGoldmanOfficial6 ай бұрын
🙏🏽🤍
@williamskingsley33527 ай бұрын
Wisdom💪💪💪💪
@anthonybrown14317 ай бұрын
Poz I need your help!
@PazGoldmanOfficial7 ай бұрын
Send me a WhatsApp my friend wa.me/message/QT6HAT3EKLWDF1
@Melvina19757 ай бұрын
These demons are sooooooooo damn delusional, disrespectful, liars, cheaters, manipulators etc,..,,, I would really like to know why with all things considering ( and i'm a confident women who just happened to fall for a narcissist without knowing what he was before I met him) but why are we (empaths) always told we need to work on ourselves as if they changed who we are?? I'm still the same person and I did not let him break me! I just feel like when were told to work on ourselves after a break-up with a narc that we all of a sudden are weaklings and are damaged from being with complete demon/idiots! It's like they are getting credit for something!
@bodhi94645 ай бұрын
Hare Krishna ~ 🎶 🇦🇺🧡. energise your world from within.
@Yuusufabba7 ай бұрын
How you do with no contact when kids is involved?
@PazGoldmanOfficial7 ай бұрын
You must maintain contact for the sake of the child, so to do no contact with a child means that the only point of connection is the child and nothing more than that you don’t talk about anything else.,
@PazGoldmanOfficial7 ай бұрын
I’ll make a video on it today, check it out later 🙏🏽
@winterkai127 ай бұрын
This is correct what the coach said. Limited contact when it involves kids.
@MichaelCastillo-d1dАй бұрын
How do you go no contact when you share kids? I have to see her 4 times a week. I’ve heard people say be happy and nice to them but I want to just spit in her face that dirty monkey brancher.
@jaycole68246 ай бұрын
I fought for 5 years to keep the relationship afloat due to my love for her. Always compromising myself, to then become lost, to then be stabbed in the heart and be monkey branched upon. What a fool am I. I went radio silent. Yet, this is not about HER to regret me, it's for ME to grow and become that one that was regrettably tossed away if we ever even saw each other again. Hopefully we never do in public. But I want to be THE regret, not IN regret. Time to take my energy and power back to love myself. Thank you coach. I understand you.
@paradoxepiphanies35307 ай бұрын
Wisdom
@zahraaazim6487 ай бұрын
Wisdom
@gslleo2.0157 ай бұрын
I tried to contact till 1 month after breakup but now for over 2 months i am in no contact.Will it work. She is hanging out with new boys and group
@aylex19747 ай бұрын
Tu si jodes tus juegos me tienen cansada
@jasonrobinson18832 ай бұрын
My ex decided to leave me bc I voted for Trump 2024. Sure glad he won!