THREE KEYS TO A WOMAN DISCERNING A MAN by RC Blakes May 4, 2021

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[@Speakfaithandtruth]

“A man that’s treating you right, doesn’t have to apologize every week” Yessss!!!!! 🙌🏼

[@amandavil]

Jesus!!!

[@Joycelang2495]

Pastor RC Blake's you tickle me you promise u not gonna do,it again lord have mercy thats funny.💒💒🐴

[@chikFromMTL]

#ThatPart

[@wisesavedone2721]

💯💯💯

[@juditholoo3535]

So true

[@kendal4452]

My mom was a stay at home wife and my father worked. They had 9 kids. Was married until my mom passed on. He said he would never remarry, because my mom was the love of his life. He brought a blot for the both of them for he wanted to be bured with her. Later on, he passed. They had a wonderful marriage and I never heard them argue over anything. Men like my father are rare these days. So I'm single because I know what a real man does for his family and for his wife. I saw it. I have yet to meet a guy like my dad. I remember when my mom was sick. He painted her toe nails for her. My mom lacked nothing. I miss them both terribly.

[@clarissegomez9275]

Wow beautiful story 😊

[@smileyglitter852]

@Kendal, I hope the Lord sends you someone hun. Your father set a very high standard. Blessings sis.

[@MsErica-lp7oe]

May God bless you sweetheart and keep you may he bless you to find the man that he has for you and Jesus name amen and I'm so sorry for the loss of your parents may God give you peace in that area as well and restore your joy in Jesus name amen

[@godsproperty_]

😢 so sweet. Praise God ❤

[@kamilahdammit]

I wish I could’ve seen this love!!! Bless you!! Your time is coming. Your parents are watching over you❤

[@Godsgirl3286]

"Don't fall in love. Walk in love."

[@OG_Genesis216]

This is so good

[@debrajenkins9104]

That's something my Pastor taught.....'Walk In Love'👍🏽

[@rbeeydwan4479]

Aaaamen😊❤🎉

[@anabautista8071]

1. Language (Does his language build confidence in me, or does his language eradicate self-control?); 2. Energy (A safe man with the right energy will always make you feel safe, respected, seen, and heard) 3. Treatment (A man's treatment resets the expectations unconsciously)

[@ceciliawanjiku7933]

Thank you for waking up so many women from a sleep or comfort zone

[@jenniferbello3524]

❤

[@fancydani]

“A man will gradually treat you with less and less and unconsciously reset your expectations” my mouth dropped, this is too deep it resinates so much

[@tonyathreet3567]

Same! My ex. Wow I see things so clearly now.

[@veneshiaclovis446]

Truth !!!

[@shontasmith9362]

This right here is a mighty mighty word!!! Come on now Pastor!!!

[@banderson6470]

Narcissists favourite tool

[@tammydailey7425]

Good stuff!

[@zoraidacastro5403]

Go with your gut feeling. Your intuition, their energy.

[@Fan-qu8qy]

Amen!

[@renatajackson535]

This video is mind blowing! I told a guy literally a couple weeks ago that I needed to be seen, heard, and to feel safe. His response was the shrug emoji. I have been struggling with walking away knowing he’s not for me and Pastor Blakes posts this teaching tonight. Wow! I don’t believe in coincidences…that’s God speaking directly through Pastor Blakes. Time to walk away without doubting now. Thank you God and thanks Pastor Blakes! 🙌🏽💜

[@jewelleedwards]

Yes, leave that man all the way behind. Clearly he doesn't have what you need.

[@justicebeat2020]

There is this guy on FB professing to be a relationship coach for women seeking 6 figure men who is detrimental to the psyche of these women grasping for advisement. His presentation (language, energy, and treatment) is that of a man that hates women.

[@lyrisgreenidge-adams5941]

@@justicebeat2020 that sounds like Kevin

[@justicebeat2020]

@@lyrisgreenidge-adams5941 BINGO!!!

[@serinty5263]

Dont walk...run..his gonna waste ur time

[@carlissable]

Cheating is not a mistake...that takes effort and planning. That's a choice.

[@nahjacutler]

No ma'am, it is not!

[@edith324]

Its part of chosing what they want what makes them happy So let them do what they love to do lol

[@lisaariottiart]

When the package and the paper are pretty we can confuse our internal feelings of anxiety for excitement. Be discerning with your internal feelings as well. ❤️🙏🏻

[@miriamcastelan8450]

I’m agree with you !

[@keepcreationprocess]

Really,wow...Did he say this ?

[@Ladecov27]

I feel like you are teaching me everything my dad should have taught me. Thank you❤

[@sherryhornung5894]

I thought the same thing!

[@sparkykitty6870]

I thought my mom should have taught me this, at least what to look for/beware of.

[@madelinebigio7565]

My father or mother didn’t show me this she had no clue lol

[@bernadettekelly2772]

Thank you Sir ......

[@yvettedillard4130]

Yes I agree with you comment.

[@imanijx]

"Words are spiritual containers that carry good or bad intentions from one person’s heart to another’s." So powerful.

[@imanijx]

Bishop RC you are amazing. That point about a man being made from dust of the ground (externals) and women from the internals (Adam's rib)? Amazing insight. Thank you.

[@lisaedmonds9573]

Disrespect never gets better.

[@l.christinejones8164]

That's a whole word.

[@gigipeach7179]

Wow! I will remember this.

[@empresserica]

NevaEva

[@corinethorbourne2635]

Only thru a miracle..and the Lord is a miracle worker. But correct..can't joke w disrespect. Oh no.

[@LizaLavolta]

it gets worse...

[@jillanderson3445]

"Malicious heart hides behind loving lips"... Preach!

[@juditholoo3535]

Correctly put

[@janellamurphy4212]

YES!!!! AMEN!!!!!

[@Grand365]

That line was classic. #truth

[@allisonoinkoink7430]

Self love is what will save you

[@abigailbencosme8192]

💖🙌

[@Livelearnapply]

This

[@lorenparker7846]

Amen

[@josephrobertson4106]

Hope all is well with you and your family 🙏

[@portiajackson1778]

Thank you for this. I’m working on it after ending a relationship with a narcissist man.

[@zoejaiattoh1243]

I wish I heard these teachings while I was in my 20’s making all these mistakes.. I hope my younger sisters of the world 🌎 are actively listening and applying .. but better late than never, I am trying to straighten up my crown and be the woman I know I can be .. the Queen that I was called to be.

[@vikkara2043]

Me too 😓

[@KitaRenee]

Amen… Same here 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@micolow115]

God knew when you needed to hear it. Now we all have testimonies to help others. God is never wrong in His timing.

[@Coachbware]

Yass queen

[@Shellbelle1975]

Me.. im you.. I understand, im learning too, did the same.. no more! healthy blessings 🙏🏽

[@meme4389]

The talk every father should have with his daughter.

[@FUEGOSTARR]

Yesss!

[@lindaliterature2089]

My God! This is so POWERFUL!! “Pimped by words...” I wish someone had taught me this game in my 20s or 30s.

[@hardcopy5730]

Agree

[@wisesavedone2721]

Yesss!!💯💯💯

[@Westcocoa]

Amen!!! I've been saying the same thing!!!

[@misguidedpearls7456]

I hear you

[@rozsastojanovic4321]

Oh yeah

[@pdelcarmenb2915]

"You think he was sent from god, no he came straight from the devil!" Lol 😂 pastor this was funny but so true 😩

[@zoraidacastro5403]

Yup I ran into a narcissistic sociopath.

[@ElizabethFitTaylor]

🤣🤣🤣

[@faithcole2698]

Keep your standard up ladies... there is a King out there for you.👑

[@charlottemuller2233]

Far and few,if you can be alone it’s a lot less trouble!!! You take on there family and in-laws!!

[@lharper]

The King of all Kings will NEVER leave you nor forsake you, He is close to they broken-hearted. Give Him your whole heart first and foremost, for these days are truly evil and so many souls are being lured by sex to Hell and devoured. Lord, guard our hearts and give us wisdom, discernment, and courage to make decisions that honor You. Amen!

[@ulugomes5898]

🙏🏽 Amen 🙏🏽

[@fionagrant2023]

The only King is Jesus

[@deltaradiance9034]

A King can still break your heart

[@Sheriniqua]

Protect this man of God at all costs! 🙌🏽 His teachings are healing and guiding women all around the world. God bless you! 💕

[@shanae9594]

I totally agree!👏♥️👏

[@beckyjade8931]

When your spirit is agitated God is sending you a sign 🙏🙌

[@blacksongbird100]

Thank you for saying "You don't need to know why. You're not Sherlock Holmes" cz my inner Sherlock always wants to investigate. 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@kendradamm1428]

I know that feeling! The sick, anxious “something is not right here” feeling in the pit of my stomach...let me investigate. Sunglasses, girlfriends car, let’s ride....and even after I’ve figured out all of his passwords, etc, and have the PROOF he’s lying....🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️

[@blacksongbird100]

@@kendradamm1428 Ok?!!! STILL lying!!! Bruuuuh, go head on with the lies nie! Just confess. OR maybe I should just stick with the fact that I know something is wrong and disappear. 🤷🏿‍♀️

[@kendradamm1428]

@@blacksongbird100 So true! I am amazed by the strength of some women. For me, though, I struggled with that part of it. I wish I would have trusted my instincts and walked away instead of turning into a private investigator.

[@blacksongbird100]

@@kendradamm1428 I concur! I just watched this video 3 times back to back today and took notes the 3rd time. I'm going to break that need to investigate and learn to to trust my spirit.

[@keekee322]

I mean seriously when you want to know, It will have your anxiety all over the place! I hate it

[@carolynashford500]

I am 59 years old. I wish someone like you , sat down and gave me some lessons. How to protect myself. I thank God for the blessing. Once again thank you.

[@janellamurphy4212]

YES!!!!!! IN TOTAL AGREEMENT WITH YOU SIS!!!!!

[@traceylennon1204]

@Carolyn Ashford I'm also 59 same here!! 🙌🏾🙌🏾💯

[@DW-li1jn]

Its not too late. Have faith and prepare.

[@aliciam5832]

Same Carolyn. I’m 58 and wish I heard this years ago. So much wisdom!

[@claudettejackson9676]

Women needs to open their eyes and listen to a man who will say the wrong thing within minutes right there she should know what the man is all about. A woman should be so on a look out for the signs of what a man has to say she should know then weither she should take it further. But no they want you to tell them what to do and what to look for before they get used and abused. Well, isn't that something.

[@jennifersobel6155]

This man is seriously blowing my mind. Life-changing. It’s really hitting home and he’s helping me to really GET it. Thank you!

[@carolelliott2099]

Never ignore the energy of a man. That is so good--God is trying to tell you whether he's good for you or not! ❤💯

[@carlaarancibia2119]

“Disrespect never gets better…” 100 true and thank you for the reminder. May we never tolerate disrespect again.

[@lala5061]

Amen 🙏🏽

[@cindeed4422]

Discernment from God is very powerful. Listen to it and use it. Don’t ignore it. Thank you Pastor for a good word today. I was just SMH throughout because so much of it has happened to me even in the church! When you feel uneasy, God will never steer you wrong.

[@diana2101]

Thank you thank you

[@lindabest3184]

I also have encountered this in the Church, both women and men on a large scale who God reveled as wolves in sheep's clothing

[@helmahkengere671]

@@lindabest3184 x C a saw saw saw were wQ a saw was a z we m mmm

[@thebestindewest]

He never will

[@charlottemuller2233]

A lot of narcs in the church!!

[@dr.dermixgirlmd7479]

Sisters, remind the Lord of His Word next time you feel low: “For You created my inmost being; You knit me together in my mother’s womb. I praise You because I am fearfully and wonderfully made; Your works are wonderful, I know that full well.” Psalm 139:13-14

[@tylishajames1451]

Love this!

[@nostee4925]

Oh yes I'm fearfully and wonderfully made

[@nessparadis6948]

He doesn’t need to be reminded of that verse. He doesn’t forget but we do.

[@dr.dermixgirlmd7479]

@@nessparadis6948 He may not _need_ it but in Isaiah 43:26 He asks us to remind Him of His Word. When I began to pray the promises of the scriptures my prayer life really began to take on more power. “Put Me in remembrance; Let us contend together; State your case, that you may be acquitted.”

[@trogers418]

Amen ! Many great comments here. So encouraging !

[@ChristManifestee316]

“He will then start to gradually reset your expectations.” THIS!!!

[@Renee0784Harris]

I told a guy who was interested in me that he didn’t make me feel emotionally safe with him, he acted like I was speaking Chinese 😂 #BIGredflag

[@casperinsight3524]

I can relate, the X would talk to me in mock Chinese and say its like we're speaking two different languages

[@pkyrispkyris208]

Probably a narsassist. Don't give a damn.

[@stopstalkingmeitsstressful3644]

These dudes act like females

[@Luvurselffirst]

I told a guy, I was in a relationship with him while he is single. he said "and what's wrong with that"?

[@sesethubabalwamahanjana5064]

I am in my 20s and all I can say I am grateful to be here. God redirected me here

[@ritastevenson7380]

Bishop Blakes is teaching his Queens/daughters to getting ready for the clowns that are going to be on the hunt when Covid-19 is over. Thank you for your excellent teaching.

[@chikFromMTL]

For real

[@beeaboutabbabusiness8738]

There already, hunting for prey online be vigilant ,as wise as a serpent as harmful of a dove.

[@carolynr3764]

"Words are never just words." Wow. My abusive ex would go on a tirade for hours, name-calling me and belittling me and my hobbies and friends... if I expressed any anger about what he said to me, he'd say "they're just words, so what?" *sigh* Thank you RC for giving me the strength to get out of THAT relationship once and for all!

[@DivorcedSingleMomsHustles]

Had same experience. Glad he’s your ex

[@charmariah4766]

@@DivorcedSingleMomsHustles Me too!!!

[@shouston1413]

My ex would say, "Just listen to what I'm saying, not how I said it." Made little sense in the 70s and even less now.

[@charmariah4766]

@@shouston1413 This statement has manipulation written all over it.

[@juney18]

@@shouston1413 happy you got out of that,. He was an evil talker, purposely trying to wound you.

[@montanadeleon1]

44:07 I COMPLETELY disagree. It’s NEVER a mistake when a man cheats ….wether it’s ONE time or 4,5,6 times. It’s TOO man steps before the peen ends up in the vajayjay. Meaning that there are SO many opportunities to stop yourself BEFORE you get into the act if sex The attraction, exchanging numbers, reaching out, coordinating a place to meet, taking off your clothes, HOPEFULLY putting on a condom, etc. It’s TOO many opportunities to stop yourself but you CHOOSE to do the step, the next step, the next step and then BOOM…sex. You choose every time

[@stopstalkingmeitsstressful3644]

Exactly 💯 Just break up or get a divorce, sign a prenup, whatever, cheating is for dogs, both men, women. People can be so disgusting

[@knowtruth2773]

I agree.

[@princessjuanita1590]

You are so right. Never a mistake its a choice

[@AddictedTooYeshua]

Agree

[@AddictedTooYeshua]

@@godsbelove9 amen on that

[@millieempowers]

Thank you so much for this!! I’ve taken interest in this man recently .. very early stages of dating & my flesh wants him. He’s attractive, my TYPE . We had a nice date. He was respectful, complimented me, & a complete gentleman. But after the night I felt sooo overwhelmed unsettled by his words & actions.. & I had to put aside “the butterflies” & realized that I might need to run. Because his energy & words were slightly off.. Thank You for this!

[@Anewceen]

Good stuff Pastor, A man can only RUN GAME, it's up too us to peep it. We only get PLAYED IF we're willing to participate...God bless u.. You walked HEAVY TONIGHT...♥️🔥💯

[@JesusSaves77799]

I LOVE this sentence - “It’s not women’s liberation, it’s their incarceration.” EXACTLY!! Women have to protect and be SO careful with their sexuality and hearts - and make sure a man honors them and wants to wait for marriage. Thank you so much, Paster Blakes!! Exactly!!! God bless you, your family and this channel!! 🙏

[@coachnatishamommatish185]

Happy Sabbath @PastorDowell and my Israel sister's and brother's🙏🙏🙏🙏👑💃🤜💥🤛

[@leeshasha778]

I really want to beat myself, how much I have allowed my now ex do. I felt thev negative energy so many times, I ignored it. .. I didn't listen to my spirit.. Thanks for this teaching

[@AbsolutelyLinda555]

Spirit don’t lie 🥰

[@ilovehousemusic2637]

It does not sis!!

[@deeevansnola8178]

I met a guy who seems like a good guy when I first met him. Would buy me things but my discernment was telling me something was off with him. What prolonged the situation was he kept helping me buying my groceries, giving money, etc. But my discernment kept telling knocking at the door. Well I listened to.my spirit. Come to find out he was married, abusing and neglecting his wife. And when I found out I questioned him and a different person showed up. He talked to me so bad and said I had no right to ask him questions. Needless to say I changed my number good thing he never came to my house.

[@gratefulandblessed7194]

Honestly, it depends on what Spirits a person listens to. Not everyone is surrender to the Holy Spirit, and sometimes they will listen to their own demons. But yes, we should see the fruits of the spirit and have peace and safety with others.

[@zoejaiattoh1243]

I wish I had these teachings in my 20’s .. I’m learning so much and how naive , gullible I was .. I’m so grateful and this message hit home and felt like it was just for me.. and I’m able to walk in my Queendom!!

[@amaragrace94]

My biggest take aways: 1) L.E.T.: Really listen to his words using your mind and not only your heart, let your spirit discern his energy, and watch how he treats you. 2) Integrity is the integration of a man's words/promises with his actions. 3) When a man with integrity steps into your life, he may treat you in a way that baffles you because you've never been treated that way. Sometimes your consciousness is so broken that it almost turns you off to be treated so well. 4) Check any disrespect or maltreatment (intentional or not) instantly, the 1st time. If he cannot apologize, respect those boundaries, and not do it again, that is your queue to walk away. "Let that be the last time he sees you." Amen!🙏 My promise to myself is to never ever again allow myself to participate in the degradation of my own standards. I MUST show myself that respect. I promise to love and respect myself more than any man that comes into my life. God first, then me. That's the only way to have the mental/spiritual capacity to discern if this is the right man (at the right time) that God has intended for me.

[@gugumkhwanazi9482]

Ladies, we're do blessed to have pastor RC BLAKES and LISA BLAKES..❤

[@ladyzinada5341]

GOSH I THANK GOD FOR THIS MAN AND HIS BEAUTIFUL WIFE.

[@CommonSense365]

Just subject matter, 🙏

[@wandahorton9549]

I thank God for Your Teaching Bishop!!!!!!!😊😊😊

[@cathybabisha1986]

Lived this thank you so much really life changing !

[@customfittedinc]

Exactly

[@brendahaarsma6155]

Thank you so much! Praise God 🙏 for this beautiful lesson! Amen

[@MrDDUDLEY10]

That disrespect came hard and fast!!! Caught me completely off guard. and when I said I’m just going to exit left.... this fool had the nerve to be mad and go AWF!! I simply said “I’m not sure how I will handle the next time you want to try me, so I’ll gone and walk away” 😳 LOST IT.

[@jillwilliams7554]

@Light4you Am I missing a joke or something else about this comment? Why would her leaving not be a good sign?

[@alwaysaccurate8725]

✅✅✅✅✅✅✅✅✅✅✅✅

[@sallygilbert6906]

I listened and tears began to run down my face. Truth, so much Truth to my story..God help me and thank you Sir.

[@l.christinejones8164]

Sis, we have all been right there. Now, the sun is rising on a brand new day for us all. 💛

[@l.christinejones8164]

@@rcblaleajr3234 Scam no. Bye.

[@nicholerombo9132]

Everything he said rings truth in my situation...the manipulation for the passed 7 years. I'm getting a divorce...keep your head up.

[@awhxdiane3451]

@Sally every body plays a fool sometimes 🎶 your not alone. When we know better we will do better. It’s very important to know the word of God . We can’t do it alone! 🙌🏼

[@juney18]

@@nicholerombo9132 I hope your doing well through this divorce and mending, still learning. I’m trying to replay and learn all I was never taught (abuse). Modern ways shoved at us are actually demeaning to women. Get your Queen skills set on! I’m trying.

[@p.s.706]

NEVER ignore the energy of a man🙏🏾

[@RS-uv5hb]

“Words are Spiritual”…Powerful!

[@talentedt5080]

This is so true I am so grateful that my mom referenced me to start listening to you over a year ago and your messages sharing the knowledge with others is such a blessing. It has change my life as well as saved me when I was going through a very tough time in realizing the storm I was in🙏🏽💪🏽🎯

[@bunnyboo6295]

Your so bless to have a good mom to lead you to Blakes power messages.

[@thesethreethingspodcast2530]

This was great. i used to be the woman that was broken and fell for all of these horrible examples given here. Once I got well within myself, I now move as a Queen. We must do our work ladies and heal our brokenness, where ever it came from, parents, bad marriage, you dated a narcissist, molestation......get the healing help you need. . We are worth it!!! Thank you Mr. Blakes..

[@dominiquewyatt6704]

How

[@thesethreethingspodcast2530]

@@dominiquewyatt6704 therapy worked for me.

[@jessicarodriguez8657]

@@dominiquewyatt6704 by making a choice . It begin with that . Make a choice n walk on it .

[@talentedt5080]

I’ve learned from experiences and hard lessons to never ignore The energy that I feel from another person if it’s not gelling with me I know it’s a move on💯✌🏽🙅🏽‍♀️

[@tonyathreet3567]

Thank you Heavenly Father for leading me to Pastor Blakes. So many questions answered that was heavy on my heart. Thank you Pastor, thank you for caring for us women.

[@blueskies773]

Yes! Thank you Pastor Blakes for answering your Calling so we can recognize God’s intent for us in love!

[@daniellebenning5706]

I’m soo glad HE delivered me from those ppl, who seeked to destroy my self esteem and worth! (Unsuccessfully)I am now healed and very much aware! Sharing your message with my friends!

[@patriciawilliams5519]

NEVER IGNORE THE ENERGY!! THE HOLY SPIRIT WAS TRYING TO GET MY ATTENTION!! I'LL NEVER AGAIN OVERRIDE GOOD SENSE. FROM THE ONLY ONE IS GOOD!! My brother said No, he wants something! My other brother said, get rid of that crazy man! RED FLAGS🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩

[@Holistretch]

I’m just sitting here head nodding like, mmhmm. Mmhmm. Mhmm.. 💯

[@dr.dermixgirlmd7479]

Girl, me too. Mmmmhmm, yes sir.

[@BikiniBanana]

Haha, like totally. 👏

[@tinagalaviz2908]

Same

[@jomarysdemorizi8779]

Mmmmjuuum me too

[@cherylmcleod6088]

Bishop Blake is comedic entertaining as well but his message sermon is POWERFUL 💯👼🙏

[@empresserica]

Yes !!!

[@iamangela171]

And Serious

[@sexyava5280]

I love his teachings. He is a blessing

[@UnshakableSheLLC]

Very powerful!!

[@dr.dermixgirlmd7479]

It’s a gift, to make us laugh while he feeds our spirit.

[@Nurse.ifeoma]

A mans treatment resets your expectations unconsciously! Thank you for this word today pastor ❤️

[@blueskies773]

It so true. I had a first date recently with a man. It went really well at first. Then he overstepped boundaries physically, started negging me. Culturally speaking, people say negging is part of a culture. I let it go for a moment because I thought, okay, this is cultural-- NO I’m not accepting that! My life partner will NOT neg me. That will not be his character.

[@laurencharles6807]

This sermon is literally putting my broken pieces together. Sir you have spoken to experiences and brought my solution

[@kar3n35]

Thanks for this pastor. I been single few years at must i go on date. And analyze the men. So far nobody had more than 1 date cus i see red flags. I been taking it slow and giving men space and i do my thing. Im still single but at least im not being played. Thanks again for ur talks

[@phyllisdix7887]

Hi Phyllis

[@phyllisdix7887]

Think you

[@lashondaward2924]

Amen

[@gailrosenberg48]

What about a man who withholds words/language?. After the rapport-building and love-bombing comes withdrawl. Silence can communicate as well in a very destructive way.

[@brees5697]

Exactly. Narcissistic stonewalling, they know what they're doing. People can be addictions unfortunately, pushing and pulling, using love and intimacy as a tool.

[@brees5697]

Check out Dr. Ramani Durvursula on YT. (Spelling?)

[@ckl5801]

No joke! I’m done chasing after crumbs of love!

[@PassportBrosAndBlondeManWeaves]

Exactly and all of a sudden get lazy with all the things they did in the beginning it's all game

[@monicanapier9087]

Narcissistics love bomb to bring us in... then the silent treatment is a mind game to break you down! Your brain becomes bonded to the rejection w chemicals released by the brain by the addiction to rejection! These guys are sent by the devil to destroy us!!! I walked away from. A narcissistic guy n destroyed the devils work against me !!!

[@yahoskatijerino5137]

Thank you Pastor Blake! Our Heavenly Father knew I needed to hear this today, and no better conduit to deliver this message than you. Have a blessed week!

[@Recoverywithtamye]

Every time you feed me with your wisdom, I realize my own Father left me to starve to death.

[@Radience100]

The comments are so uplifting and life giving!

[@MsChantae]

What stood out to me (so far): *You won't know your head from your tail, up from down, you will have been divorced from everything that makes you who you are, and this man will have firm grip on your soul*

[@jo-anndisalvo7070]

I learned more today with this message then I have in all my 67 years. I appreciate you, thank you so much.

[@chandraanderson1903]

That's actually a form of witchcraft. My, Lord! It's great to just stay single, seek the Lord's face and draw closer to Him, learn yourself through reading the Word of God but, you've got to read it with the Lord's understanding, find out from the Lord what His perfect will is for your life, and be healed and delivered before even thinking about bringing someone else into the equation.

[@charlenedeshazier1414]

I don’t understand how there can be 300 dislikes on this amazing video.

[@tonyathreet3567]

People don’t like the truth sometimes

[@SD-yq4jn]

It’s all the men he’s talking about in this video 😂🤷🏽‍♀️

[@queenofqueens5460]

​@@SD-yq4jn I was thinking that

[@domking157]

Everyone doesn’t take change well! Shrug

[@ashlimo481]

We listen to words instead of paying attention to their actions that's the biggest problem

[@mistyjordan7147]

As a Narcisisist, they study us as women and us as women need to start studying these men so we can spot a narcissistic persinalities. So that we'll have a contious decision to avoid these men or women that wants to attached themselves to us on no good attentions.

[@gigipeach7179]

This is a terrible hidden spirit that is wreaking havoc on people’s lives. I pray to God we never accept anymore personalities like this in our lives.

[@mistyjordan7147]

@@gigipeach7179 Amen😇🙏💙💜💯

[@healed2011]

@@gigipeach7179 Amen.🙏🙌🏾

[@kdub3892]

Can't ignore his energy. Red flag bad energy everywhere on 1st date.

[@sharilyon5983]

Misty Jordan, spot on!

[@GodsLove911]

Kings always elevate the value of a Queen.

[@jillanderson3445]

No one taught me ANYTHING about finding a good man! Thank you Pastor for your videos and message. I am mid 50's and am just coming out of a relationship ( 7 years) based on lies, by a man who fooled me. I suffer from low self esteem and was so flattered that this man was interested in me, he said the right things, and gave me his ear and advise. Feel like a fool, and don't want to be in this position, ever again. Was divorced for years prior, and had given up on dating or finding a good man. ( ex husband broke me mentally) Heartbroken and deceived, so sad and depressed now, but I will get better , I hope.

[@juditholoo3535]

You are not alone dear. You have made the right decision!!! You will get over it and find the love of your dreams. Find yourself and keep God first

[@rhondachampagne8621]

Your worth is found in Almighty God not man. You're worthy by the Blood of Christ Jesus. Get that in your heart and it will be in your soul forever and nothing /no one will ever break you again. Praying for this revelation and encounter with God for you, sister.

[@beccareynolds4625]

Time alone and deep healing helps … 7 years single here and it does get better.

[@jandavis4584]

Have faith, pray, and remember the 3 things he taught from God. I've prayed for you and everyone else on here that needs it.

[@kingmemories352]

Seek therapy, and spend time doing something you really like that relieves stress. Prayers for your healing.🙏🏼

[@RealLadi228]

Boundaries shake things up immediately either respected or rejected.

[@karlabraun2029]

I wish I had heard this before I got married, it would have saved me years of hurt. We are now separated and he says he's changing, now I know what to watch for. Thanks so much. I need wisdom and strength to stand up to the narcissist. Amen.

[@TheRealHeavenlyHands]

Hi @Karla Braun how’s it going did you all work it out or did you stay separated. I’m currently dealing with on in marriage and considering separation

[@karlabraun2029]

@@TheRealHeavenlyHands we are still separated. Healing takes time, trust takes time. He doesn't want to change, he just wants me back without take responsibility so I am looking after myself and my emotional health. Going back would be a mistake.

[@Lala-ht8ps]

@@karlabraun2029 If it's not the spirit of Christ he will not change. Also if his intension is not to know Christ and to Love Christ, Run for your life.

[@TheRealHeavenlyHands]

@@karlabraun2029 I agree with you. You must protect your mental health because it’s draining going back and forth. I just became aware of the title of what my husband was operating in. I knew it wasn’t the Spirit of God but a demonic spirit. He’s operated in covertly for years but when he left to go see about his mom last year and didn’t communicate with me plans and only with his sisters and left this is when the children and I eyes were opened to this. Connecting to Bishop Blake’s and Lady Lisa Blake’s ministry on KZbin has been a strength giver to me towards Gods healing in my emotions. I made up my mind yesterday that I need to put space between us and he hasn’t been taking the counseling seriously but to try to win people over to his side. So I must do what is best for my children and I at this point. Praying for you. @RCBlakes sir can you please do some teaching on those who are already married to man who doesn’t take responsibility for his actions. Those men who work a job but isn’t willing to do whatever else did necessary to make sure his wife and children are good. I want to know my husband got me and that peace I don’t get from him. He looks at me to have him all the time.

[@ericaphillips4429]

This was legit one of the most incredible messages I have ever heard in my entire life!! You have blessed and changed my life pastor! Forever grateful ❤️

[@vintage-rosé007]

I'm going to OD on Bishop RC's videos till I get through this! God bless you and thank you for the encouragement ❤️

[@tnt3929]

Me too! He is helping me through a lot! I had a great dad.. but he never taught me anything about men and relationships. Since he and I are close in age.. he's more like a brother.

[@queensheenz8400]

I've been doing the same also 💯🙏

[@dr.dermixgirlmd7479]

Sis, remind the Lord of His Word next time you feel low: “For you created my inmost being; you knit me together in my mother’s womb. I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made; your works are wonderful, I know that full well.” Psalm 139:13-14

[@vintage-rosé007]

Thank you so much for all your support beautiful ladies ❤️

[@kmonette]

His messages got me through a very difficult break up. It's been a year and I am a happily single and healing ❤

[@genievebanner1308]

Thank you Bishop. This is for me .Long story short. I met my Husband when I was 22 yrs old , I’m now 48. He was wrong for me from the beginning. I was told by my Pastor to get away from him immediately. I felt it wasn’t right deep down inside. But oh no I have a hard head and don’t listen. Anyways he was a monster and still is . We have been separated for 6 yrs .. We have 4 children together.. . Three weeks ago with the strength and courage from God I finally walked away and this time I’ll NEVER look back..I gave my pearls to a swine.

[@deeevansnola8178]

Amen!!

[@crystalroget4649]

Lord have mercy, this is my story, too! Trying to get out this year after 21 years married to narcissist. Didn’t listen to elders when younger now paying for it. Have 2 almost grown children who keep encouraging me every day. I have made up my mind to do it this year! Pray for me!

[@genievebanner1308]

@@crystalroget4649 my Sister I pray that our Creator will give you courage and strength. It’s time to put you first. Time is just slipping away so swiftly.Don’t worry about the past ,please put it behind you . Start living..I was living in a PRISON WITH NO WALLS . I’m happy now . I’m FREE.. You will be too in the mighty name of our Creator.

[@tjohnson5760]

@@crystalroget4649 You can do it, your story is too familiar, I was married for 15 years to a narc also, I stayed because our daughter was younger, he emotionally, physically and financially abused me. Our daughter is 23 now and almost 9 months ago I demanded he leave it was very hard but he finally did. I’ve learned folks can tell you to leave but ONLY YOU can decide when YOU’VE had enough and only then will change happen. It wasn’t easy, my daughter & I both did therapy as time moves on it has gotten easier. You need to do this for you, so you are happier & find your peace. I 🙏🏽 God keeps you & gives you everlasting peace.

[@crystalroget4649]

@@tjohnson5760 Thank you for this encouragement!

[@Nic2Blk]

The movement now is to challenge the Energy part. Several men have posted memes calling intuition/discernment as being insecurity. Stay woke! 😏😂

[@beccareynolds4625]

Aghhhhhhhhh well that’s a red flag. They know we’re on to them.

[@nikkilong7377]

That energy is everything. I ignored it all the way through with my late husband. I reflect on my marriage to learn and understand. To do better in the future and make better choices. I remember how I felt throughout and had I paid attention to my instincts and that energy, I would have left in the beginning. We have to grow ladies. We're better than this! Love and light

[@mableleanhurd3175]

Pastor, You are so on Point. You have to pay attention to the Energy. And yes, the good energy will make you feel safe. God Bless you. This is some good good talk. I thank God for discernment. Continue to inform women of their value.

[@lashondaward2924]

Amen

[@anettegeminiwoman3973]

Waited 5 years for a commitment, he made promises he never kept , treated me like a doormat. I loved him very much but had to move on and leave , he broke my heart and now I´m soo sad and lonley. After listen to this video it felt a little bit easier to deal with. Thank you.

[@beccareynolds4625]

You aren’t lonely you are just alone. Go there, there are allot of answers in the solitude.

[@RealLadi228]

You can't love anyone more than yourself except for Christ

[@meewannabe2525]

RealLadi228 TEACH!!!! 🍵

[@nadiaa4127]

I really needed to hear this. I wish someone would have told me this when I was younger. Thank you for your wisdom you have enlightened me in so many ways.

[@Kayjames44]

Lord! This message came at the perfect time! I’m binge watching while at work! I needed this sermon🙏🏾🙌🏾💯‼️ Thank You 🙏🏾

[@LolitaStClair]

PASTOR RC BLAKE THIS LESSON WAS POWERFUL AND OUTSTANDING!!!!! THANK YOU AND PLEASE HAVE A BLESSED DAY!!!!!

[@judydesvignes9195]

Where my own dad never sat down with me, you,re the apostle that God has sent to me to open my eyes! Thank God for you🙏🙌

[@gabsilequeenethmhlanga1525]

Watching from South Africa. 🇿🇦🇿🇦 Thank you Pastor

[@sunshinesunflowerz1647]

Words are spells. Let no one cast any kind of spells to you or on your life - especially a no good ungodly man. 1: Take your time to discern the language of a man. 2: Experience a man’s energy - don’t ignore the energy of a man. 3: Observe a man’s treatment of you.

[@Pamela.B]

“Let no man deceive you...”. 2 Thessalonians 2:3 💖

[@charlottemuller2233]

How do we change the damage??

[@stopstalkingmeitsstressful3644]

A fake pastor treated me like crap, spread lies, and had me investigated. He used bad language, energy was like the devil cause he practices sorcery, and tried to treat me like crap. God is always watching. Continue to do good to others, don't let it make you bitter.

[@daijadorsey674]

Amen 🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@esmamirac6612]

With Utmost Love and respect as a Muslim woman I found your Lectures so profoundly life changing,moving,touching!!!!I can't leave here without giving my deepest Gratitude and appreciations!!!Salute to you !!!Your Lectures will stay with me forever and you will always be in my prayers..Least you willever know that how much ur wisdom changes woman's world!!!Sincerely Grateful!!!!

[@karenblueford9082]

Real TALK ❤❤ Don't rush into no relationship wait on God. Don't let no one be little you. They have you on the corner. Keep yourself Worth up ,always.

[@dressednola7595]

I shared this with my daughter....we just had this conversation today. Always on time🙏😍❤

[@kierakinsey5587]

THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOUUUUUUUU SO MUCH!!! This message came in at the perfect time. Ladies, if you've fallen for anything he mentioned in this video, it's okay! Just learn from your experience and learn from what he just taught us. I thank God for people like you who are using God's word to enlighten us in an area that we sometimes lack in. Thank you again. I pray that God continues to bless you 🙏🏿💕

[@audreyblack8564]

Good Evening Pastor Blakes from St. Louis, MO!!! I already gave your message a "like" because I already know it's going to be gooood!!! God bless you and your lovely wife Lisa and family!! Audrey Black 👑🥰😊

[@empresserica]

Me too ! Also from the STL !

[@michellejohn7470]

Yes. Listening from the C'bbean.

[@michoum115]

Me too! Am from St. Louis

[@rcblaleajr3234]

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[@gladysgulledge2726]

Oh how I wish you had been born during my youth. I’m learning from what you’re saying, except I’m 82 years young. I would love to meet some one at my age that has all the qualities you’re teaching to have as a companion. My husband passed two years ago and I’m still missing him. You are so helpful when a man come into my presence I will know how to use my discernment. Thank you for sharing so many great messages…

[@zyzy_the1diva164]

Omg pastor this is truly amazing! You have described my ex to the exact T…. I should have heard this in 2019 bc I would have known what was going on with him and how to get out but I was sooo deep inside the relationship I may not have listened or taken heed!!! It was all a game and I never saw it sitting right in my lap. God bless you Pastor RC Blakes! We love and appreciate all you do!!!

[@reinaquisha9418]

I had to rewind this blessing. I wish every woman would hear this🙏🏽

[@lindahickmon9768]

I’m glad you’re teaching this , they never taught us this in church and my Mom never taught me this , I thought if a man had sex with you that meant he wanted to be with you and loved you, I have learned a lot from you , my confidence is higher, thank u for teaching us the streets and bible, I love you and Lisa

[@stopstalkingmeitsstressful3644]

Shoooot, if a man sleep with you, he loves you LoL where they do that at? Where did you grow up?! I'm at loss for words...

[@kiito_s_World]

This is me. I thought so also

[@stopstalkingmeitsstressful3644]

@@kiito_s_World Oh I understand. My primary influence growing up were men, so, I never thought about that. My Dad told me in my single digits, that most men only want one thing. And to stay away!!

[@amaragrace94]

My very African parents didn't teach me a thing about men, good or bad. There was no sex talk, no this is what you should look for, this is how you should be treated, and if he doesn't treat you right you cut him off. Wasn't allowed to date at all. All we were told was you better not get pregnant. By the time I went to college, I had no clue how to interact with guys in a romantic way. I had crushes here and there, but I just avoided dating well into grad school. It made me so nervous because I had no clue what I was doing. All I had as an example was my narcissistic, child abusive dad and enabling workaholic mom. So my entry into dating was barely 2.5 years ago at the age of 24 when I finally got myself to download a dating app😅. It's certainly been a learning experience. With some soul searching and the help of lots of podcasts like this one, I now know what green and red flags to look for. Plus I have FINALLY started therapy. I'm hopeful for my future 🙏.

[@womanoffaith6293]

Good evening Pastor Blakes ! I really enjoy your delivery as you educate women in need of hearing it. You are an excellent teacher, because you make them really think💬👍🙏

[@houston10]

This message was profound and prolific. You are truly gifted and serving humanity with these life changing videos. Thank you so much🙏🏾

[@jordanellesse8708]

Thank you so much for what you do. I grew up around my dad and he was the perfect provider, but the emotional support and example of emotional treatment was not conducive for my romantic life in adulthood. So I thank you for being a teacher and commuting yourself to saving the lives of women who are lost in a world of wolves.

[@successchallenger3361]

"Words are spiritual"

[@jessyon6274]

God sent you to me at the exact right moment. I’m not sure why I am a amazed every time he comes through for me. God is SO GOOD! I have been dating a man who is great on paper, says all the right things when he needs to, but my soul is unsettled with him. He has overstepped the boundaries of respect when he gets angry and lashes out. He has said some hurtful things to me. He apologizes each time but I no longer feel safe going to him with concerns of our relationship. This was my confirmation of what I need to do. Thank you so much for being a beautiful messenger!

[@Limlani]

This is my exact situation. Your comment feels like confirmation in the spirit sister. This man apologises for all the things said.. but this is happening every week now and i did a mini fast (24 hours) but God was with me and when i spoke to this guy, the uneasiness in my spirit was incredible. I had asked God to reveal this man's heart to me and God was / is faithful. Thank You Jesus!!

[@deborahford1844]

Good evening sir. Tuning in live for the first time from Jamaica. I have been listening to your videos since the start of 2021 and I can truly say I am getting back my senses

[@leeallen1556]

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[@leeallen1556]

@@neemyers6869 i did too big up uself.

[@leeallen1556]

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[@neemyers6869]

@@leeallen1556 Amen

[@charlottemuller2233]

Some of those people can realy pray over there!!

[@rosalysmartinez2153]

This video is packed with so much revelation and wisdom from God.💯 It is so reassuring to me in many ways…. Actually, It shouldn’t be too hard to run the next guy through the LET test and see if he qualifies or not. That alone will save us a lot of time and pain. Lets be conscious , alert and tuned to the Holy Spirit. It’s never too late to start again; but if we want something different we most do something different! This is our time for ruling and reigning as queens! And queens only pairs with kings! ❤️👸🏻🌹

[@juneelle370]

Absolutely LOVE your words on language! It is so true. I love linguistics and have long seen words as spiritual, for good or ill, and described words as little energy and information packets passed to one another. Truly the field on linguistics needs a spiritual perspective as I’ve never heard anyone but myself describe it in this way (except for the Bible verses about the tongue)... words are so spiritual as they affect our SPIRIT and the spirit of others... and spirit reaches and teaches our psychology and physiology and even our physical health! Gonna listen to this one again. I hope you can really keep preaching on this language lesson because it’s the biggest way people hurt each other and even deceive themselves into rationalizing harm to others. It’s the biggest human problem in the big picture! 💜🌈🌏 THANK YOU for all the love and care and understanding you have of real relationships and all the warnings of deception of toxicityships! I wish the whole world could hear you!

[@aries3073]

I don’t know how..I was Guided to find you! But I feel his love! He loves me so much that he led me to you! I Truly needed this and dropped to my knees on how I feel you are speaking to me...I have a long road of healing and work to do. Thank you!😭🙏🏻