Tidy the Kitchen with Me (OH the mess, even after years of decluttering!)

Even afer years of decluttering and minimalism, the mess can still pile up. In this video, I talk through my emotions of tackling the kitchen counter mess when it gets bad.
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[@terryruiz7417]

We live in our HOMES...not in MUSEUMS. You have 3 children you homeschool, cook from scratch meals for 5 people, raise a lovely little garden, take care of a big house! You are absolutely amazing. Your home, full of warmth, love. A real home. Blessings, dear young woman.

[@denisebunker6674]

Please don’t listen to that type of criticism. Seriously you are doing a great job.

[@IreneFrchSchultz]

❤

[@doccox27]

Dear Erica, please upload a very short ‘short’ to let us all know you are OK. I love your videos and look for them every day xx

[@reginacornish3030]

I've been checking everyday. I pray everything's ok and that's it's just a busy season of life. We miss you Erica

[@amykotlarski9250]

Dear sweet Erica, you are the most sincere, real and honest person to visit...sending hugs and prayers.

[@efitz3397]

Going to bed to rest is self care and that comes before having a clean and tidy kitchen. By getting rest you are going to be the best Mother you can be, instead of being overly tired and grumpy. Great job making good choices. 😊

[@betsyc5123]

A good nights sleep is so important. Prioritize it!

[@jennyjenkins877]

I love this comment! I know I can't 100% count on having the energy to do an evening reset so my daily habit is to do what I can after dinner but not push it because I have a rock solid habit of catching up on dishes and resetting the kitchen after breakfast each day.

[@efitz3397]

@@jennyjenkins877 when my children were small I always stacked the dishes by the sink (no dishwasher) after dinner, we ate as a family. Then it was bath, books and bed. Not just for the children. Then I got up early filled the sink with hot water, soaked the dishes while I enjoyed a coffee. Then tidied up, it was my way to start the day. I had friends horrified by this but I needed my sleep and the start before the family was awake!

[@terriesselman2744]

I've missed your videos! Thank you for being authentic. When your children look back on their childhood one day they won't remember how clean their home was but how much they were loved and cherished. ❤️

[@sunnyside2656]

Great comment ❤

[@cathyc1806]

PLEASE don't let those negative commenters delay or minimize the videos you provide to those of us who actually appreciate them. Why is it that a few negatives can overshadow the positives. Thank you for not allowing those unhappy people to derail you.

[@stephanie1044]

Our brains are wired this way! Super useful when we needed to remember the dangers of sabre tooth tigers, not so great on social media.

[@kgghaddar1]

Missing you friend! I pray all is well🩷🙏🏼🩷. I see there are a lot of people in these comments encouraging you to not let haters bother you, I am so sorry about that, I had no idea. I’m thinking that might be why we haven’t seen you in so long 😢. Truly you are a bright sunshine part of my day, a place I can feel like someone actually gets me as a wife, mother, and woman, and especially a homeschooling mamma, we are a unique breed and we need each other to pray for one another and to support each other on this journey. Be assured of my prayers for you and your family no matter if you are on KZbin or not. Be well and may God bless you abundantly! 🩷🙏🏼🩷

[@lorihogg6604]

You are one of my favorite minimalist KZbinrs! Maybe my favorite. You are real, honest and authentic. I’ve woken up many times to a kitchen like that! Being w your family is the best and most important thing to do. They know you typically clean it up, so it’s not like they aren’t learning. I’m glad you share even the times you feel you’ve “failed”. It means you are human and means you’re very successful in another area at the moment a. K. A. Loving your family and yourself!

[@sashacerny8227]

Please let negative comments go over your head. You have came so far! Give yourself grace. No one has walked in your shoes. I love your videos!!! And I think your awesome and doing a phenomenal job!! 💕💕

[@dianarommel1862]

The Erica therapy session today was very impactful. Thank you for your words and wisdom.

[@phyllischavez6662]

Thank you Erica for your willingness to share yourself with us. Your kindness encouraging us to change & improve one step at a time. Blessing always.❤

[@michelewhite9956]

I felt compelled to comment today. Any negative comments are not worth the time it takes to read them. Please ignore, and continue making the fabulous content that the vast majority of us love! You are, and have been a favorite of mine for a long time. Your honest,vulnerability makes you so relatable! I love watching you and your family, and everytime I see a new video of yours is up, It brings a smile to my face, even before I watch it!! Please keep the inspiration coming for those of us who really love and benefit from it!!

[@sashacerny8227]

Amen!

[@voiceojane]

Dang, who are these people who NEVER have an imperfect, tired, messy day?? As you say, they’re not people I could relax and have fun with! You are so right about not losing yourself and what makes you happy. I did. I made little stabs here and there but I still have a huge amount of trouble answering that key question, and it’s distressing two decades down the line from your age. You’re doing great, enjoy that second coffee!

[@kimholt4795]

What I love about you is that you are very real and that makes you very relatable. Most of us don't have Pinterest looking homes because they aren't maintainable for most of us. You are just living life and working thru your daily "stuff". Thanks for sharing your life and your thoughts. You are very much appreciated :)

[@GeoffBenge-d3k]

Watching this I was impressed by how quickly you could put things away in their right places. You have the underlying organization in place that makes the reset possible. Good for you!

[@socalgal7830]

I've been struggling with mindset lately. Thanks for the encouragement and wisdom. Hugs for your day!

[@rebeccam1027]

I love your talk it through process. I know you’ll default to acceptance instead of shame as you keep working through the years. You guys have had such a tough time in recent years. Every day you wake up and start over, whether it’s cleaning or decluttering or planting or hanging with the fam is a gift and a miracle and a joy. Love that you always work to reframe. Say it with us: There’s No Shame, only Progress and Appreciation for Me!!❤️🤗 (I know acknowledging the thought and releasing it is effective. Another practice is to switch your word to guilt or a less charged word. Make up a word that makes you laugh and get ride of the self-imposed word shame from your vocab. Only give yourself compassion for your new normal and wake up to a brand new day to get things done. ☀️

[@eileenw8895]

Life happens. don’t let those negative people get you down. You’re doing a great job.

[@mariahwilson6505]

Thank you Erica ❤ I still use your questions when I’m looking at a new month - “How do I want to feel this month? How do I want to show up this month?” You are making important impact on our lives! Keep up the amazing work at being you ❤

[@jadadallas5891]

My mom wasn't the best housekeeper. Growing up, I know the house often cluttered and messy but we kids felt loved, safe, and home. Your kids may remember some of the messes or clutter (and I mean general life clutter -not borderline hoarding) but they will value the love and coziness.

[@helenknowles8616]

Keep smiling lovely lady, you are a beautiful soul bringing joy to so many of us watching your channel xxx ❤

[@andreawalker7138]

I don't comment often, but I just want to say you should never feel shame or regret. You have accomplished so much these last few years you should be proud! Failure, to me, means giving up completely and you have not done that. In the end, time with family and loved ones will count much more than whether the kitchen counter is clean. Every comment is helpful to your channel (even the mean ones). But please try to ignore the ones that are judge-y or hateful (Every channel has mean comments). FYI- I'm not a minimalist by any means, but I enjoy your videos. Blessings to you and your lovely family ❤️

[@sunnyskys2912]

I just wanted to say THANK YOU for putting yourself out there for people like me who needed to see its ok to throw the towel in when needed❤

[@barbaravoneitzen7367]

We have raised our family and it’s easy to keep in order. Don’t pick on yourself. You wear many hats😊

[@angelaolha7531]

The only thing to be ashamed of in life is sin. You have a sweet family and you are living life in your home. A messy kitchen is not something you need to be ashamed of, it is a reflection of beautiful moments spent with your family.

[@kristinestocker]

It's so easy for the kitchen to get away from you. I ran the dish washer, but hadn't unloaded it. Then had breakfast and lunch, so all of a sudden the sink was full of dishes, a pot, collander, Tupperware, etc. It happened so fast from clean to a mess.

[@kymshirley4850]

Erica, hope you are okay. Miss seeing your videos.

[@sharonsomers5513]

Everyone’s house looks like your kitchen once in awhile. I don’t know why people would criticize you. I have watched you for years,you have done a great job. I love how you keep it real.

[@gail7932]

Thank you for showing reality. Sometimes I feel like I’m not good enough when I look at these houses on KZbin and pintest.

[@lesliestanleyangles]

So true!! What great reminders ❤️ thanks for sharing your insights with us as we do this journey together 🥰

[@dianamarsden1933]

Erica, you are doing good! You show things as they really are, not camera ready. I like learning from your thought processes. Do not listen to the negative people! They are not happy with anything or any body. They just want to make people feel as bad as they do. You are good and we love you just the way you are. Please don’t let those people bother you or listen to them!

[@catherinemunson555]

I think and love how you always do some things for yourself. Always doing some reading/learning. Starting your vegetable garden, and now calligraphy. ❤

[@3TXSisters]

You don't know how happy it made me to see your kitchen like this! I have sometimes hit the wall and left the kitchen until the next morning. I hate it when I do, but it happens. If an organized, fastidious housekeeper like you can have a messy kitchen occasionally, there's hope for me! Take care, Linda 🦋

[@MDichoe]

Whenever there are more than 3 weeks between your videos, i'll get connected. I've been following you from the start. I hope you are well and will continue making videos despite the struggles of life❤ love from Denmark

[@rebeccam1027]

Thanks for all the very helpful decluttering videos over the years. You have been instrumental in how my house looks today. Your great strength is talking the process through so viewers could see they and envision it for themselves. If you could see my before and afters, you would pat yourself on the back😁 Thanks so much!👍🏻👏🏻 my life is completely different, in large part, because of your help. I look forward to more processing soon 😁

[@deannaw9657]

This was my situation the other day and I was aggravated and frustrated too. Once I spent some time picking up and cleaning, it looked better. Why do we do this to ourselves? We set such high expectations and when we fall short, we're ashamed. Thank you for the consistent reminders to stop and think about how unrealistic that kind of thinking is. You are real and wonderful, Erica. ❤

[@anitastocker7315]

NO negative comments from me, you prioritized rest and because of that you did a better job after you rested GOOD JOB!

[@jl1726]

I think in fairness to you, you are a minimalist living with 4 other people who may NOT be minimalists… so cut yourself some grace Erica until your whole family is on board with you. YOU have undoubtedly come a LONG way!!! I agree that the benefits of minimalism includes decluttering things to let experiences in as you free up time that was previously devoted to taking care of things. You are also a lifelong learner, and teaching your children about that too. Hang in there! I just got my certificate in Floral Design in my 60’s. It is never too late to learn.

[@janetmeyer7729]

Awww. You are a good mom and your family is happy. Don't let negative rub off on you. "perfect" is hard for a family to relax in and hard to maintain. Happiness and comfort are important.

[@johnwolfe2616]

Sue Wolfe- I grew up in a home that slowly became a collector's home. As a child, it was neat and tidy. Then, as my parents collected things, it became messy and I couldn't have anyone over. By the time I was in elementary school, I had basically no one to my home to play; no sleepovers, etc. because I was embarrassed. As I look it now, it probably was boredom on my father's part, as he was forced to retire young for health reasons. My mother was clinically depressed, but I didn't know that as a child. What I'm saying is, that as parents, we have a profound effect on our children and their mental health. I don't feel comfortable in a messy place, it makes me feel uncared for. That's just my experience. I do have places where things are out of place, but for the most part, I like it neat, but that's just me. Thank you for being open and vulnerable with us Erica. I know it's a difficult thing to do! 👏👍😉❤️❤️

[@christined2495]

I hope Erica and family are ok? I noticed NO videos in 4 weeks 🙏🙏🙏

[@elenaxleganus]

Are you and your family ok? No pressure by any means, just checking. ❤️

[@mareebryant3909]

Thank you for your videos Erica - your approach to minimalism, simple living & declutterring have had a profound impact on my life - my ability to work through my anxiety & my mission to be a happy, joyful mum & wife. Be kind to yours & know that there are so many grateful ladies out there who you have touched with your videos & thoughts. ❤️

[@josephdaly2015]

Erica you are doing great. You have a busy life. Remember you are human and thanks for reminding us that we are human too. Messes are what I call “ the lived in look” and believe me our house has plenty. Have a great week. Mary, Joes wife 🙇‍♀️👏💪👍🙏💐

[@aimtok]

People should keep on scrolling past if they come here to criticize you!!!! Be gone trolls!! Erica is with us in this journey of motherhood, keeping home and homeschool! So many of us are encouraged when we come to your channel! ❤️

[@kathybullmer8884]

Great video Erica! I am a 65 year old wife, momma of 4 adult children, grandma of 7 grandchildren, and Great grandma of 1 grandchild. I agree with you with make sure that you do things for yourself. It's so important to be God will and loving ourselves so that we can love others.

[@TS-lr7cy]

I wanted to thank you and let you know that just 30 seconds in I was motivated enough to pause the video and load the dishwasher. I know that sounds pathetic but I have such a hard time doing even simple tasks. I was feeling the shame you were talking about and it was paralyzing me. Hearing you speak on it helped me feel less alone. Now, on to the rest of the video!

[@jennyjenkins877]

This is so wonderful of you to share. Erica's goal with this channel is to help others who are dealing with the same struggles so I'm sure it's all worth it (even dealing with negativity) when the video touches people like us and provides some encouragement to do the thing. If doing the task is fine for you in comparison to just starting it, you might have the same Executive Functioning issue as me with *task initiation*. You're not "pathetic" if your brain lacks this skill. I used to call myself "lazy" until I found out I had this deficit, along with *time management* issues, which caused me to avoid tasks because I thought they'd take forever when, in reality, they might only take a few minutes. One way to hack your brain into getting started is to set a timer and just go for it. What helped me was habit stacking (from the book "Atomic Habits" by James Clear). I paired the task of catching up on dishes after I was done eating breakfast and already standing to take the dishes to the sink. Then, I make myself a nice caffeinated beverage as a reward!

[@angelicajones3958]

It's so nice to see you again. I've missed you. Take care of yourself.

[@KalicoKat1013]

Easy to be judgemental when sitting safely behind the keyboard! Thise people are missing something in their life so they pass judgement on others! You do you! Raise great kids, love yourself, family and life and if the kitchen is messy.. proof of a life well lived!!!!

[@aliceb4070]

Hey, we're all human doing the best we can. Don't let the negatives outweigh all the good that you do everyday. Thank you for sharing your world with the rest of us.

[@dimitiek]

Self awareness is the key to living a good life, as well as recognising how to change negative thoughts to positive ones. You have mastered both and that is gift you will pass on to your children and one of the most important things they can learn. You are also teaching them that it’s not a perfect world and that’s ok! I think you’re doing a wonderful job! ❤❤👏

[@bethstratton3391]

Erica, you have three children that are still fairly young and who demand a lot of your time. So why would you beat yourself up just because occasionally things don’t always get done the way you would like? The reality is that our homes are always going to get messy like this at points, if they didn’t, then we would all be moving towards perfection, and we all know there is no such thing as ‘true’ perfection, only our own internalised idea of what we aspire towards, right?! So just give yourself grace and love. You did a great job clearing up the mess and because you have practiced minimalism for a few years now, it took less than an hour to sort out, so good on you, Erica! Don’t let the inner critic, internalised anxiety and discomfort take control. Regards, me time as an adult, children past a certain age need to see their parents being independent of them, because like you say it teaches them a ‘can do’ attitude and an idea of what value having an ‘independent spirit’ can look like. Plus it reassures your kids that you can separate for periods of time from them and that they will be OK. It also makes them understand subconsciously that as a parent you won’t over step their boundaries and become pushy or start to live vicariously through them. A child seeing parents finding joy in doing things autonomously, and not just as part of the family group, underlines that the parent has their own values, wants, desires and needs. Plus, it demonstrates all kinds of things which your children can mirror and learn from as they get older, including: Individual endeavour, thoughtfulness for themselves and other from a different group, self care, creativity passion, determination, an adventurous heart etc.

[@beverlywentzel5950]

I am older with no children at home so I have now started diamond painting and working on puzzles and coloring and I am thinking about doing what they call a glue book or junk journal, oh yes, I also do counted cross stitch and I love reading books. I have so many different crafts that I wonder what I will do today! So, I think it is great you are finding time to get interested in something for yourself. Your children are young but the time will fly by and you will be glad you developed interest in things for yourself for the day when they leave home. Did I mention I LOVE watching you tube videos!!! That really takes up a lot of time and I learn so much about decluttering and watching ladies like yourself cleaning and enjoying life!

[@wyyeti4004]

We all miss your videos. You are a wonderful soul & an inspiration to many. You’ve accomplished so much through hard work, grief and perseverance. Please ignore the trolls. There are many out there now; some A.I. Wishing you and your family the best. Kind regards. :0)

[@lauriedunn6198]

I have a friend who visits often and recently learned she struggles with OCD and things looking perfect. I gasped as my home is cluttered, my counters often look like yours did this morning, but her response was no! Your house is so homey. Your authentic videos are so helpful and I have been here since the beginning...

[@shelleydavies1639]

I am still shocked that people make negative comments!!! You are doing something brave and interesting. Please don't let people effect you

[@ellielizhavenofbless945]

Hey Erica, don't be ashamed, give yourself grace. I've been with you from the start, do you remember what your kitchen counters looked like in the beginning? Mine looked the same, together we are making great progress.

[@sheriwerner6202]

Haters gonna hate. Don’t let that garbage get you down! Love you and how real you are. Totally relatable. Hugs ❤

[@mama-at-home]

Just watching this now and it is such a great mindset shift to work on for the new year! ❤

[@lrid3sc3nt]

I struggle to have the energy to clean after dinner. I use the power of body doubling and we all have after-dinner chores/tasks. It helps most days. Some days we leave it very cluttered. Last night was one of those times. Thank you for talking through your thoughts. Continue to love yourself, live slow and simple. I hope you're proud of yourself.

[@moniquebureau7958]

Needed this video today. Thank you ❤

[@jillc1910]

It’s interesting, I’m blessed to have access to a life coach from my employer. And in the first couple of sessions we talked about the shame, the embarrassment, related to having a clean home. I don’t think men tend to feel this way. I think we need to be nicer and kinder to ourselves thanks for all that you do for us.

[@SophiaRogers-go7fn]

So I am trying not to judge the ones unfairly judging you! You are amazing Erica! Thank you so much for being you and sharing it with us.

[@Billybadd41]

Ya you are doing great, screw haters, anyway please keep doing what you do, i personal ly love watching you clean and show us how you declutter

[@carynwood9158]

It's so easy to choose kindness. It boggles the mind why people can be so mean and opinionated online. If you don't have anything good to say, don't say anything at all! Kindergarten 101...

[@pameehanson3866]

In life we don’t need those negative comments 😮I have been long time follower and I learn new things you’ve learned and pass along on this journey to minimal living❤Please know that you have inspired me along the way and forever grateful 🎉

[@klarab84]

We are so hard on ourselves. We have to practice to not be that way. We can have a simple and minimized home, we can have routines and habits. But sometimes things happen and we are more busy, or more tired, or something in our day with schedule, activities, children, work etc changes and that affects our home and surrounding. But that's life, and that's ok. We just take some time another day and try and reset. But the reset isn't the goal. The goal is for the space to function so that we can keep using the space and living our lives. Much love to you for being so real here on KZbin!

[@sabrina22471]

Such a raw and honest video ❤ I also beat myself up when my counters look like that. And yet when I see yours I only think kind things. You are a great Mom, you can only do so much in a day, sometimes rest is more important than cleaning up. Why do we beat ourselves up and say things we would never say to someone else?

[@brendanbang6636]

You’re are doing such an incredible job.

[@simplyfunctional6451]

Hope you are doing well and having an relaxing fall! ❤

[@jadestan7524]

Thank you Erica ❤

[@kymshirley4850]

Erica, completely relate. Appreciate the journey of self acceptance and kindness. 🌼

[@liddfamily10]

I honestly don’t think it matters if you need to leave the kitchen at night don’t feel guilty. As long as we cleanup at our earliest convenience. One thing that has helped me recently is what Cas from Clutterbug says for everyone to sit down and have dinner together whenever you can and then for every family member to help cleanup after 😊

[@jeanettekvinlaug2772]

This video made me so happy.after watched videos from other channel saging things like " if it ever takes more than 5 minutes to tide at room you own too much", this made me relativt again. When even you have a big mess sometimes it is ok for meg too. Thank you. ❤

[@deb4375]

I’m sure many of us have been and will be in your place again. It’s good to see you work through this. Thank you for your videos!! I know it’s not easy to ignore the negative comments you get, but please try. Focus on all the positive comments.

[@rose-ww2he]

Miss you. Appreciate your homeschool techniques and sharing the curriculum you find helpful. Your home looks like lots of love and real life. Hope your husband is enjoying retirement from military - is he doing something else now? My husband retired from the military and has worked in many areas until he found his niche- LMFT at a family practice. Hope you all are doing well.

[@michaeldixon8838]

Thank you for being real and keeping it real, you are human! We need to see this as it is us! This is why we love your channel

[@tanyajohnston8262]

Wonderful video with wonderful thoughts and words, thank you

[@lesliec8069]

Thank you so much for this video. I really appreciate all that you have shared related to insights and steps for a more compassionate and supportive mindset. This is so very important. Your efforts help to enhance the daily life of others.

[@monaminchau4798]

We have a small 3-tier trolley in the kitchen that we use to collect dirty dishes while cooking and after meals. That keeps counters and sink clear, until we are ready to fill the dishwasher. It visually simplifies the kitchen chaos and takes the urgency out of doing dishes. Our kitchen is almost never perfect, and there is probably no need for it, either.

[@marieskee22]

I feel like success isn't having to tidy every night, it's doing it more nights than not doing it. Yes, life is messy. That's why we clean and give ourselves grace. 😀

[@lorriewittig9066]

I liked the smile with your cup of coffee after its all put away.

[@kimjohnston4428]

That was my favorite part too... her sweet smile enjoying her coffee!

[@juliecombs462]

Love the smile at the end! 😊

[@fbz2415]

Dear Erica, this is your home and you manage it as you like, you are doing a great job, you have gone a long way in your journey, please don't mind criticism. Felicitaciones lo estás haciendo muy bien, cariños

[@AnjelicaSchink]

I also am a homeschooling mom, I have 3 boys and have a toddler girl, sometimes it can be busy and messy despite the fact we are a minimal family. I always let my children have free access to arts and crafts materials.😅 I try to have them tidy up the living room and I take care of the kitchen before bed. Sometimes when it feels overwhelming and im tired I try to think of it in terms of "future me will be thankful that past me didn't leave it for myself" several years ago my husband said " that's tomorrow me's problem" and I thought I never want to leave a problem for my future self if I am capable to completing it now. I also try to remind myself while I'm washing the dishes for the 5th time of the day and cleaning up art strewn across the living room that it will be gone too soon and I will terribly miss these busy messy nights, sometimes that's enough to give me motivation when I feel I'm too tired to finish.

[@maryloumenning3487]

As a home schooling momma, I remember this stage. The house was pretty much always a mess. I told my husband, "you can either have a beautifully kept home OR you can have well-educated children, but you can't have both." It got better as they got older.

[@BrendaJBarNett]

Erica you would definitely feel relaxed at my house😂 Always little piles everywhere. But even though we are empty nesters, I feel shame because my health recently hasn't allowed me to do the tasks I always have accomplished❤

[@carlavallee3527]

You are amazing! And it’s impressive you can share on KZbin! I hope you never let those negative comments get you down. I was missing your posts on here and hope you are having a wonderful fall.

[@pattyfleming3393]

Thank you for sharing your true and honest self with us. I love all your advice and support you give us through your videos. ❤

[@simplyfunctional6451]

I’m so glad to see a video from you today! ❤ your my favorite KZbin momma! Your rocking it and I’m here for anything your up for sharing!

[@christineabercrombie5257]

Missing you Erica and your inspirational videos. Hope you and your family are doing ok. Sending hugs 🤗xx

[@stephanie1044]

So happy to have found this video! I thought the algorithm was messing with me so I searched for you. I love what you do. We are social animals so it is hard to ignore criticism. There has to be a hierarchy though, I think. The opinions of trusted people who truly know us - our close friends and family - should and do matter. But the comments of random strangers on the internet? Maybe not so much.

[@susanslemmer1840]

Erica, I love watching your videos. I love how honest you are about your day to day life and the real life messes you deal with. I hope you have a blessed day and can't wait to see your next video.

[@CobbManor2829]

Thank you for this. Lots of good nuggets of wisdom to hear. I loved your smile toward the end as you took a sip of coffee and admired what you just accomplished.

[@aimtok]

Love this! Saving in my best videos list!

[@13tharticleoffaith]

Miss you and your videos! I hope you and your family are getting a deserved break from KZbin. We’ll all be here for you when you’re ready to be back! I’m so sorry for the negative comments and feelings that have come into your life. Just remind yourself that you have so many viewers that may be silent but are very supportive of you and your family ❤Love from Cali

[@beachlover4413]

Love you Erica. You always make me feel better.

[@chrisdavis1754]

People in general feel empowered to be jerks these days. Don't let them get you down. A perfect home is staged for life. An imperfect home is experiencing life.

[@beckyrogers321]

This was a beautiful voice over!!