It is 2021 and your video has blessed me so much. I myself struggle with anxiety and I will be starting therapy soon! I too am christian and have for a long time filled my mind with legalistic teachings. I truly resonate with EVERYTHING you said in this video! May God bless you
@rossilauryn41163 жыл бұрын
hey girl, i love your channel sooo much. i’ve been looking for a good christian channel for so long lol, love your videos ❤️❤️❤️ thank youu
@BethThereseReacts4 жыл бұрын
The stigma around medication & counseling makes me sad. I’m with you, I take medication & believe every person can benefit from counseling! It’s not like Christians are expected to avoid the doctor, dentist etc and just “trust God” for healing. So why would mental health be any different?
@TiffanyDawn4 жыл бұрын
EXACTLY!! Thank you for sharing this!
@alexandria30044 жыл бұрын
I'm so glad you touched on this topic. I spent years struggled with mental health and had Christians discouraged meds. It was discouraging to my recovery and made it difficult. I believe God made counselors and psychiatrists to help us.
@TiffanyDawn4 жыл бұрын
I agree - God can use these resources to HELP us! It makes me so sad when they're discouraged in church circles. Really they're a gift from God to us!!
@hmalik24984 жыл бұрын
i'm 15 and about to go into counselling for being suicidal and some other stuff, and this was really encouraging and helped me stop worrying about everything. thank youuu
@nicoleyoshihara40114 жыл бұрын
@H Malik Good for you! You are loved and important and have so many cool things to look forward to! Things will get better ❤
@TiffanyDawn4 жыл бұрын
I'm so so glad this could encourage you - and I'm so glad you are going to get counseling! That takes so much courage, but it has made a world of difference for me! Praying for you! 🤗
@hmalik24984 жыл бұрын
@@TiffanyDawn thank you so much! i just finished my first session a few minutes ago, and it was awesome
@lindstheteacher16114 жыл бұрын
Thank you Tiffany. I feel like I have been getting caught up in legalism. The whole thing about you have to read your Bible for 30 minutes to check off a box really resonated with me. I also struggle with thoughts that I am not saved, or that God is waiting for me to screw up. That’s a lie and I appreciate you sharing that struggle. Furthermore, I struggle with anxiety and medication has helped me, thank you for saying that. Also, having a job has been monumental for my mental health.
@TiffanyDawn4 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for sharing this! It's so easy to struggle with all these legalistic thoughts of God - and it can be such a journey to break free from them! But it makes such a difference!
@rebeccaboschman12394 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for posting this! I felt so much shame for still struggling with PTSD from my experience with my autoimmune disorder and past relationships. Still struggling but trying to work towards healing!
@TiffanyDawn4 жыл бұрын
🤗🤗🤗 that is so awesome you’re continuing to work towards healing! It’s such a hard and long journey but along the way we learn SO much!!
@jessik67044 жыл бұрын
Thank you for addressing these issues and not being narrow-minded or ignorant. Very wise words! God works in and through you, thank you very much that you let the Holy Spirit guide you and share this with us. I appreciate your Videos. Greetings from Vienna, Austria. ❤
@TiffanyDawn4 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for this encouragement!! 🤗🤗🤗
@jessicavega3343 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this video!
@NicholeBump4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for making this video Tiffany!! I really hope one day that I can maintain the freedom mentally like it seems you have found in Him. I grew up in an extremely legalistic background so I definitely overcomplicate Jesus and just daily life as it is due to anxiety/depression/BPD. Thank you thank you thank you so much once again for opening up and being willing to dialogue about this topic!! So many people including myself are under-discipled because of being shamed for asking questions that you don’t have any problem answering! I know being a mom and a wifey has a lot of commitment to begin with so thank you for taking the time to minister to us! One day I honestly hope to do something like you are so I can bring freedom to others so they don’t have to have the same fears I did!!
@TiffanyDawn4 жыл бұрын
I can't tell you how much this comment means to me! Thank you so much for this encouragement! I love that you too want to bring freedom to others - it's so needed!! And it's such a process to even continue living in freedom ourselves - like you said, it's SO EASY to overcomplicate Jesus!
@fernicegoh34473 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for all your videos :')
@bkang4 жыл бұрын
You are so beautiful, inside and out 😘💖 Thank you for so openly sharing your struggles and your healing with us from a Christian perspective.....I think it’s often in the darkest moments, when our fears and doubts are the greatest, that we feel like those thoughts and feelings are too shameful to voice, and this is when so many end up falling away; not through or by any huge tragedy or calamity, but just through a slow and sad withdrawal as hearts are not truly seen or understood.....you know what I mean? But you see us. You understand us. And you’re so filled with grace and compassion, because you’re walking this too. I’m so thankful for you; for your friendship and your wise, strong, vulnerable and open-hearted leadership. Thank you 😘🙏🏻💖 xxxx
@TiffanyDawn4 жыл бұрын
That completely makes sense!! Thank you so much for how beautifully you explained that slow withdrawal of our hearts. And thank you so much for your encouragement - it means the world to me!! 🤗🤗
@bkang4 жыл бұрын
@@TiffanyDawn 😘💖 xxxx
@bkang3 жыл бұрын
@@stevemoore8008 Hi Steve! To be honest, whilst I’m a real talker in everyday life, and can chat even about the deep things until the cows come home lol, these deepest curiosities / doubts / sadnesses etc are the things that I still to this day do find difficult to discuss with people. For example, I might be able to bring myself to say, ‘Sometimes I feel overwhelmed at the thought of eternity....it just feels like a lot, you know? But I know that God will be there, and that everything will be ok!!’ ....this is expressing a half-anxiety, coupled with the ‘good’-sounding Christian catch-all to make me sound not as ‘bad’ as I think I might be perceived. But that’s unhelpful, because nobody out there is a mind reader you know?! And how are they supposed to take from that that what I REALLY mean is ‘Sometimes I feel overwhelmed at the thought of eternity.....because after losing my best friend to cancer back in 2017, I have been struggling with trying to get my mind around the fact that she’s there, and what that even means in reality. Her widow and sister claim to have been speaking to her, he says he had visions of her dancing with Jesus in his living room, and she told him that she has jobs in heaven - that she’s a worship leader and is always busy and in charge of a large group of people. And far be it from me to discredit his own personal spiritual walk, or the way that God might be ministering to him, or that any of it may or may not be true.....but for me, the thought of leaving this already-sometimes-overwhelming life, and then going to a place where I’ll be given MORE jobs and MORE responsibility, only this time I’ll be doing it without my loved ones or my husband there - because I was also told at that time that there is no marriage in heaven - sounds honestly just horrendous to me. And I find myself loathing the idea of heaven, and wishing that when I die, I could just be assimilated into the cosmos, at one with the fabric of the universe and the heart of God......at true peace forever and ever, with none of this very intense, intricate stuff you hear over and over about heaven......” Imagine me saying that in a Bible study group or over coffee at the end of church!! 😬😬 I sound like a LUNATIC for thinking such deep and philosophical thoughts, right?! And I also sound extremely heretical and faithless. But the reality is I don’t believe myself to be either. I’m just a girl who lost her friend and to whom life has been extremely hard over the past ten years. Who struggles with questions over what truly comes next, and how to find those answers. And I think that ALL of us have these moments where we have deep, confusing questions that need to be asked. Sometimes I think relief comes even from just asking those questions and talking them out, you know? So I think for me, finding even just one person with whom I can vent all my thoughts and worries and emotions to helps me a lot. Usually that’s my husband. It used to be my friend who passed, which is partly I think why I’ve struggled so much since she’s gone - we were each other’s mirror, we shone lights one each other’s hurts and fears and hopes and dreams, and we prayed together and encouraged one another always. So when she passed it was like.....an intensely empty, lonely feeling that I hadn’t anticipated could be so all-encompassing. So now I talk to my husband. Sometimes my parents. But I haven’t ever found a friend that I feel comfortable enough around to pour all this deepest stuff out to, because as a Christian, I do feel that these thoughts kind of discredit you as a person of faith. I don’t think it’s right!!! And probably most of the people I potentially could open up to wouldn’t be as shocked or weirded out as I think they might be! But just in case I do find myself keeping a lot of this deep inside. In conclusion, I am so sorry if my answer isn’t at all helpful 💔 Just know that you are not alone in your situation. My advice would be to try and find just one person that you think you can trust, and start with even just one thing that makes you feel anxious or icky or miserable when you think about it. Share it, honestly, without excusing your emotions by feeling like you have to end every sentence by reiterating that God is in control etc - He is not insecure about His relationship with us!! So we have the freedom to explore our faith knowing that He’s not going anywhere no matter what. And other people’s opinions, in the light of that, really do not matter 💖 This is one of the reasons I LOVE Tiffany’s videos (and Tiffany herself!). She isn’t afraid to go there, and she doesn’t think that having doubts, hurts or asking questions disqualifies us from being children of God. Sending you love and prayers today Steve. You are not alone. You are not evil. There is nothing wrong with you. And you are so eternally loved, questions, dark feelings, confusion and all. Find someone you can trust, and let it all out. And I’ll continue trying to do the same *hugs* xx
@LawmomLisa3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing, Tiffany! I needed this. I'm passionate about creating awareness on how Christianity can harm our mental health through just quoting scriptures and praying about it. I suffered immeasurably as a pastor's kid. And my dad being a senior person in church circles insulated the abuse I went through at home.
@dasiaharris47023 жыл бұрын
This was an amazing video. Thank you for your courage. A lot of these questions sound like traits of religious OCD. I would know as I am currently in the healing process. Professional help is necessary to heal.
@Ghost-yc4mc3 жыл бұрын
Love you so much 💗
@julainem.35424 жыл бұрын
Thank you SO much for this video Tiffany.......I related to almost every single one of these questions. I often feel like I should be giving God more time each day and it has to be the same time everyday, for a certain amount of time. So mentally exhausting. Thank you for clearing the cobwebs on this. 💜😌 #mentalhealthmatters also your hair is so pretty!!
@TiffanyDawn4 жыл бұрын
It really is mentally exhausting!! I agree!! I'm so glad this could encourage you! And thank you so much - it's so rare that I have time to do my hair lately, so that means a lot!
@lochtessmonsterxoxo4 жыл бұрын
This was so good and I could say so much about the ways it resonated with my own experience! I started taking medication for anxiety this year after a lifelong struggle with it and a lot of inner stigma, and it has legit changed my life for the better.
@TiffanyDawn4 жыл бұрын
I'm so glad you had the courage to start taking medication for the anxiety, and that it has helped!! It has made such a huge difference for me as well. So grateful for it!!
@theWordinRed4 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for covering this, answering so many of questions 💗 so much good stuff here
@TiffanyDawn4 жыл бұрын
Im so glad!! 🤗🤗🤗
@charajensen31864 жыл бұрын
I love this video! The parts where you talked about legality of the Christian faith and feeling like you need to go more for God really resonated with me. I was raised as a pastor's kid, and while I have amazing parents who taught me all about God's grace and mercy, I still somehow struggle with that legal mindset. It's something God's really been working with me on right now. I'd love to hear a more in depth story of how you walked through that and overcame that. I know it'd be super helpful for me personally 😊 By the way, you are hands down one of my favorite Christian youtubers and I refer everyone I know to your channel all the time. Thank you for what you do!
@zebrazippy4 жыл бұрын
Same, this!! I would love to hear a video on battling a legalistic Christian mindset. I'm not even part of a legalistic circle, but I really struggle with feeling the need to make the correct choices, check off boxes, and generally earn grace. I feel like I'm running this endless race to make enough good choices to become the person God expects me to be. Trying to break free of this mindset and allow myself to make mistakes feels like going against the grain of... something, I'm not sure what but something lol. Anyway, thank you both for letting me know I'm not alone in this struggle!
@TiffanyDawn4 жыл бұрын
It's SO HARD to walk through that legalistic mindset! I'm so glad you've been able to start on that journey too - it's so freeing!! And thank you for the encouragement - it means so much to me 🤗🤗
@TiffanyDawn4 жыл бұрын
You're definitely not alone in the struggle!! Now I'm going to have to start thinking about a video like this... 😍
@HPTFan4 жыл бұрын
Good video, Tiffany. My church, talked about mental health in November. It was about of how COVID affected everyone's mental health, technology, and the younger generation is getting hit the most. This is not a good year for my family and I. Especially December. The toughest month of my life. I know God is faithful. I praise Him for being with me when I gone through depression episodes. I hope you, your husband, your daughter are staying safe, and thank you. God loves you.
@TiffanyDawn4 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for sharing this piece of your story with us. You're so right - COVID has made this 1000x more difficult. I'm praying for you and your family right now!
@HPTFan4 жыл бұрын
@@TiffanyDawn You're welcome.
@meghanthestorygirl45814 жыл бұрын
This was amazing, Tiffany. Thank you so much!
@TiffanyDawn4 жыл бұрын
I'm so glad!! 🤗🤗
@assemospan44374 жыл бұрын
Thank you for talking about this, Tiffany! You are so amazing! Love from Kazakhstan
@TiffanyDawn4 жыл бұрын
Much love back to you!! ❤️❤️❤️
@katrinagiven2274 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing this! Your honesty is so encouraging!!
@TiffanyDawn4 жыл бұрын
I’m so glad it could encourage you!
@martinakukucova17354 жыл бұрын
Loved the video but I have to say this: How is your hair always so beautiful, healthy, shiny...wow
@TiffanyDawn4 жыл бұрын
Awwwww!!! I can’t tell you how much that means! I don’t often feel pretty while pregnant 😂🙈🙈 despite how encouraging my sweet husband is!
@hannahhtims4 жыл бұрын
I thought the exact same!!
@clarinetist184 жыл бұрын
I was about to comment the same thing! Tiffany's hair looks so pretty and voluminous. And her skin - radiant!
@sheenarowse46464 жыл бұрын
You are beautiful inside and out. There is nothing wrong about taking anti depressants I have been on them for a long time. It's ok to be not ok even as a Christian.
@TiffanyDawn4 жыл бұрын
YES - preach!! "It's okay to not be okay even as a Christian." 🙌
@shaneikamillsphillips1871 Жыл бұрын
Thanks so much for this video. All those questions is exactly what I'm struggling now with. I have anxiety, was put on meds but refused to take them cause I feel like if I take them then it means I don't trust God, my faith is weak etc. I'm really considering it now and still praying that God will lead me in the right path.
@margaretcrossmusic274 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for this video, Tiffany. The timing couldn't be better - I was just reading a collection of quotes from saints (I'm a Catholic) and they included this one from Padre Pio: "Pray, hope, and don't worry. Worry is useless. God is merciful and will hear your prayers." I know there's so much truth to that, but anxiety feels more complicated to me. I've come to a point now where I'd modify that quote to say "Pray, hope, and don't worry *alone*" - instead, bring the worry (inevitable for some of us) to God and counselors. There's also a great podcast on this topic called "St. Dymphna's Playbook" by a caring, down-to-earth Catholic therapist - I'd recommend it, it's taught me a lot!
@TiffanyDawn4 жыл бұрын
I love hearing how you'd modify that quote - beautiful!! Thank you for sharing these resources!!
@EleniWiebeMentalWellness4 жыл бұрын
God is so good to be our hope and provide us with tools and people to help us through our mental journeys. As a therapist who deals with anxiety so much I agree getting help is nothing to be ashamed of. Even therapists need therapists. I learnt through the years that it's a human struggle and yes everyone should see a counsellor. It's okay to get help to try to find out your triggers and that it can be healed instantly but if you aren't healed it doesn't mean God hates you or there's something wrong with you. If anyone experiences anxiety or depression and especially if it's affecting your life please remember that you're not alone please seek out help and know you're so loved by Jesus ❤️❤️🙌 you're gonna be okay💪
@TiffanyDawn4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing this!!
@emilywelsh53594 жыл бұрын
Thank you SO MUCH for making this video!! We need to talk about this more!
@TiffanyDawn4 жыл бұрын
YES!! We really do!!
@christagoodwin44764 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for posting this.
@TiffanyDawn4 жыл бұрын
🤗🤗🤗
@bethanyalter53153 жыл бұрын
I've enjoyed watching your videos the last few weeks. I've had anxiety and depression for many years. 2020 brought on some new struggles and challenges and I'm now looking into meds. I don't know if you can answer this question, but at one point, I thought I remember hearing about a 24/7 Christian crisis textline. Do you know if something like that exists? I've wanted something like that a few times in the last few months.
@hamsternellie59883 жыл бұрын
Thank You
@nachomom32834 жыл бұрын
Going thru this right now, thank you so much for this uplifting video.Gods timing is always perfect.
@TiffanyDawn4 жыл бұрын
I'm so glad it could encourage you!!
@sarag67104 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much this was needed. I struggle with mental health daily too. I want to seek counseling and know it’s a strength to seek help, but my dad is against medication and seeing someone and I feel like that has made it worse.
@TiffanyDawn4 жыл бұрын
I can imagine that would have made it worse! Having people we love and trust who don’t believe in seeking help is really really hard. I’m so glad you’re looking for help anyway - that takes even more courage! 🤗🤗❤️👌
@yolisamkhize61954 жыл бұрын
Off topic: your hair looks amazingly gorgeous 😍. Love you so much and appreciate all your videos💜.
@TiffanyDawn4 жыл бұрын
Awwww!!!! Thank you - that means so much!!
@peaceikemere95904 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for this video, I am currently struggling depression. I cry all the time especially in the evening. I feel like I'm going insane. I'm turning 18 this month and I really want all this depression and suicidal thoughts to go away.
@madidean53724 жыл бұрын
I am so sorry you’re feeling this way! I have felt that way as well (severe suicidal thoughts) and talking with my doctor helped soooo much, reaching out to someone and telling them how you feel is the first step! I will be praying for you 💖
@TiffanyDawn4 жыл бұрын
Madi thank you so much for sharing a little of your story here! It takes so much courage to reach out for help - I’m so glad you did and that it was able to help you!🤗🤗
@TiffanyDawn4 жыл бұрын
Peace my heart goes out to you!! When the depression is that overwhelming it’s especially really hard. I think reaching out to your dr and a counselor would be sooo helpful and important! It takes a lot of courage but is so worth it! Praying for you right now! 🤗🤗🤗
@peaceikemere95904 жыл бұрын
@@madidean5372 thank you so much 🥰
@peaceikemere95904 жыл бұрын
@@TiffanyDawn thank you so much 💖
@thedefenestrator29944 жыл бұрын
My therapist told me I should see a psychiatrist about my depression, and consider medication as a treatment to help me get the motivation to do the things I love and to build a habit. I really relate to this video and the topic. 2020 has brought something traumatic with it for every month, and I’ve had to completely rebuild my relationship with God after abandoning what we had before because it was riddled with religion and Dogma. This time I started from a place of honesty in my misery, and the constant struggle that has always been my life. And instead of playing “Pretend happy Christian, God will fix it all if you pray,” I’m saying God is here closer in the pain and trauma than ever before. I’m often angry with Him too, but I don’t hide it. He already knows so I should be honest for my sake. Even in the depression the only direction I find the motivation to follow is where I feel the Spirit points me, and that includes getting medication and professional help.
@TiffanyDawn4 жыл бұрын
Wow!!! This is so powerful - thank you for sharing this!! It sounds like this has been incredibly hard year but also a year of immense growth and also coming closer to God than ever before! How amazing! Thank you for giving us a glimpse of your story 🤗🤗🤗
@boarderdude11934 жыл бұрын
Your story resonates with me as well... from my therapist recommending a psychiatrist and possible medication, to 2020 being a traumatic year, to rebuilding and re-examining my relationship with God and making sure it’s as solid as I thought it was, and being convicted of sin along the way... God bless y’all!
@vegannature4 жыл бұрын
I overcame depression and anxiety about 10 months ago, both lasted several years, depression even started in my childhood. Two thoughts I'd like to share regarding the 4th chapter in this video: - I, too, struggled a lot with the "am I doing/praying enough?", even though I had a very long (2h) daily quiet time routine, I almost burned myself out on this. Until one day I came to a point where I just stopped all of it, prayer journaling, bible reading, study guides etc. It was Matthew 11:28 that opened my eyes. The verse says "and I will give you rest." not "here, read this new study guide, it'll help! Also, read 12 chapters minimum.". No! Jesus gives us rest, so I learned to rest in Him. It was really hard for me, because I am a very impatient person, but at some point a beautiful image was formed in my heart, of me resting in our Father's arms. This changed so much for me. I'm a single working mom and there are plenty of days I could feel guilty about not having enough time or energy for a long prayer, but I learned that (for me) those are the days I can just come to God and sit with Him and trust that He knows my heart without me talking. - the second thing is, there were times in my life I just couldn't motivate myself to do any bible reading, so I found an audio bible app, which I usually listened to on my way to work or when I was out for a walk. It also helped me a lot to learn bible verses during better times so I would remember them in worse days.
@TiffanyDawn4 жыл бұрын
This is sooo beautiful!! Thank you so so much for sharing this!
@ajoyfullsound4 жыл бұрын
This is very encouraging! Thank you Tiffany
@TiffanyDawn4 жыл бұрын
Oh I’m so glad!! 🤗🤗🤗
@emelinedesportes4 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for your encouragements. I have a question : When I'm really sad, I always feel "closer" to God but I also feel guilty of only coming "when I need help", and not when everything is okay. Can someone relate to that? Any advice?
@mollielandman57284 жыл бұрын
Hey Emeline! I feel like that's kinda what James 1:2-4 talks about (considering it pure joy when we experience trials). Because of our struggles, our faith grows and we grow closer with God. This has been true for me! If you think you're only feeling closer to God in tough times, I think it can be helpful to keep a prayer journal to kind of track how God has been faithfully answering your prayers. Then when the “good times” come, you have “evidence” of God’s faithfulness that will encourage you to praise Him more in those times. Also, even in the dark times, I think it can be healthy to still thank God and have an attitude of thankfulness. That way, when you’re in a better place, you will have practiced thankfulness before when you felt closer to the Lord, so those feelings of intimacy will likely carry over. I hope that makes sense! Praying that you are able to deepen your relationship with the Lord is all areas of your life, Emeline!☺️
@emelinedesportes4 жыл бұрын
@@mollielandman5728 Thank you so much Mollie, it's really kind, I'm going to try all this😊
@TiffanyDawn4 жыл бұрын
Emeline I definitely relate to your question! There has been something so special to me about some of the hard seasons I’ve walked through as they’ve brought me so much closer to God. It’s like in those moments I’m so aware of how much I need Him. And I absolutely love this advice Mollie! Thank you! ❤️❤️
@ljp94023 жыл бұрын
I struggle with legalism so PLEASE pray I undo this brainwashing
@imbibesyourlunae4 жыл бұрын
This is exactly what I needed first thing in the morning!
@TiffanyDawn4 жыл бұрын
Oh yay!! 🙌🙌🙌
@theotherway16394 жыл бұрын
There's a helpful mindfulness guide titled "30 Days to Reduce Depression" by Harper Daniels, found online...I recommend it. Pass it on!
@cjshine79844 жыл бұрын
Seeing time with God as an invitation. I love this. It takes away the have tos!
@TiffanyDawn4 жыл бұрын
YES exactly!!
@victorwabare83674 жыл бұрын
God bless you for this ma! 🙏🏽🙏🏽
@TiffanyDawn4 жыл бұрын
🤗🤗🤗
@jadenbarrett91474 жыл бұрын
If you touch on this tomorrow, I shall wait but! If not, I wanted to ask your opinion on struggling with mental health and getting into a new relationship. My friend gave me advice that I shouldn’t seek a relationship until I have a game plan on how to deal with my episodes so that if I’m with someone they can, a) know how to help me when those episodes come up and b) that I’m not becoming completely dependant on that person. Is it something you would recommend having figured out before you get into a relationship? I thought there was some wisdom in what my friend said but I wanted to know your opinion on the matter! Absolutely loved this video and can’t wait for the next one!!! 🥰
@TiffanyDawn4 жыл бұрын
SUCH a great question!! I mention this in tomorrow’s video but I’m actually writing an email all about dating and mental health! You can sign up to get it here: dedicated-architect-5242.ck.page/join-us?ck_subscriber_id=904822714 - just check the box about dating! 😍😍🤗🤗
@boarderdude11934 жыл бұрын
I’m a man who resonates with most of this video... thank you for speaking up Tiffany, it’s a real blessing :) by the way, if I may ask, what sort of legalism/legalistic circles did you struggle with, as you mentioned in the video? I ask because I sometimes feel I’m struggling with something similar.
@haleyklapp87974 жыл бұрын
I really struggle with anxiety about a pretty girl being somewhere I go too because my fiancé has noticed a lot of girls even when I’m around and it has really hurt me! Prayer and advice for me would be extremely appreciated! God bless!💕 I also just struggle with panic attacks and some past scars in general and recently some depression so that doesn’t help.
@aurelia34944 жыл бұрын
Hey, I'd really encourage you to seek help, from a licensed therapist or someone you trust (also, you can talk about it to your doctor first, then he might be able to give you some help with choosing a therapist). There is no shame in seeking help, it's not a weakness but a strength! Besides that meeting with friends, talking through it with your fiancé might help too bc other people can't read our minds ^^ Know that you are not alone. God loves you deeply and you are created, seen and wanted by him. You were fearfully and wonderfully made (Psalm 139) (sorry for my French-English writing 😅)
@haleyklapp87974 жыл бұрын
@@aurelia3494 thank you girl! I appreciate it! I’m not sure who to go to for therapy or that I’d have time to, but I have met with mentors and me and my fiancé do talk very openly about it all. It’s just still really painful and makes me anxious and I want freedom.
@TiffanyDawn4 жыл бұрын
That is so hard!! So hard to break out of too! I think it's awesome you've been able to talk about this with your fiance and mentors. This video talks about my own journey in this area - and maybe it can help you too in some way! kzbin.info/www/bejne/emGrg2WNqst2mJY
@lucias45604 жыл бұрын
really struggling with axiety during this last months, this video is refeshing. I hope really to find someone could help me. Thank you for sharing
@GeorgiEmbaid4 жыл бұрын
Looooved this video. Hugs from Venezuela
@TiffanyDawn4 жыл бұрын
Oh I’m so glad!! 🤗🤗🤗
@joyeeverett61964 жыл бұрын
I am mentally ill! Major depressive disorder and social anxiety disorder. I am also autistic and have ADHD. Thank youuu
@TiffanyDawn4 жыл бұрын
Much love to you!!
@Sherlock2454 жыл бұрын
Jesus did not die to free us from issue. Just look at jesus life filled with issues and the apostle too. If we believe he free us from all issue we been deveived.
@TiffanyDawn4 жыл бұрын
So true!! Like He said, we will all experience trouble in this world!
@sophieghaffari90064 жыл бұрын
The way l see it is yes, l should be happy because despite a sinful world l will have eternal life, but it’s just really hard for me to watch all the corruption! It’s extremely upsetting to see Christians persecuted in foreign countries and people burning their Bibles and murdering their unborn children. I’m a young teenager (l am baptized) so it’s just hard for me to watch because there’s not much l can do. Ugh! The world!
@Sherlock2454 жыл бұрын
You are not meant to change the world. Jesus never command us to do so. Israel as a nation was never changed when jesus was alive. Dont look out there look at ourselves and the church we go too. You will find many issues ignored so start there first. Start at looking at ourselves. How loving are we to our neighbors? If some gay came up to you will you invite him in to chat?
@sophieghaffari90064 жыл бұрын
@@Sherlock245 you make a good point
@Sherlock2454 жыл бұрын
@@sophieghaffari9006 no not me it was biblical teacher that helped know truth from error. Know how to interpret the bible. 😉 like have your heard of the teaching that if you have enough you be healed?? Or just be faithful and keep pouring in money on sunday and God will hear your prays???? Joel osteen teaching. I will post a link! By dr rc sproul he passed away but he was a professor that you actually fun to listen too. War with the world. kzbin.info/www/bejne/bHqmZZaKpM51rrs John 17:15 My prayer is not that you take them out of the world but that you protect them from the evil one. Listen at 6.42 Rc sproul ex claimed, oh how i wish we would listen!!! He also add on the doctrine of the pharisee address in luke. Salvation by segregation. Not even my pastor talks like him he is very spot on.
@sophieghaffari90064 жыл бұрын
@@Sherlock245 thank you so much! ☺️❤️
@hayleytearall4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for calling out the unlicensed "Christian counsellors" - it baffles me how it's even allowed to use that title if you're not licensed, so unethical! Definitely appreciate the need for spiritual support/mentoring/guidance etc but not under a medical term. Also, thanks for explaining how you don't need to see a Christian counsellor necessarily (depending on personal preferences) - how it doesn't make you a bad Christian. Really, Jesus died at Golgotha which means 'the place of the skull' (it also translates as 'cranium' which encases the brain) - he died literally where the brain would be if the hill he died on was a real man's skull. Also, Calvary means 'an intense time of emotional suffering/distress' - he didn't just physically suffer to pay the price for our physical 'death', but felt all the emotional distress to pay the price. He wants us healed. He showed it by dying where our brains would be on a hill - not our spirits or our hearts. In my opinion, he's showing us he LOVES us investing in our mental health because HE DID IT FIRST. What could be more Godly than delving into how God made our brains and seeking guidance and freedom?