I quit my dream job to build my dream life (my 6 month update)

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Tika Ghafar

Tika Ghafar

Күн бұрын

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@TikaGhafar
@TikaGhafar 17 күн бұрын
0:00 Intro 0:06 My story 4:16 Quitting my "dream job" 5:34 What I'm doing now 6:45 The downsides of leaving corporate & my struggles 10:11 My growth over the past 6 months 12:57 Money & not having stable income 17:05 Downgrading from banker to gym receptionist 20:11 My future plans 22:16 Emotional final thoughts
@moonlightxyz8728
@moonlightxyz8728 3 күн бұрын
Fellow Malaysian here. I left corporate 3 years ago at age 33 (was in Finance field too). It was depressing being stuck between upper management's expectations and subordinates' antics. I had no time or space for myself because I always put others first and prioritized my career. My mental health was at its worst. I resigned without a backup plan and started an Etsy shop and Amazon KDP. I lived extremely frugally for 2 years but still felt happier than ever. Now, in my 3rd year, things are improving financially. I haven’t changed countries yet, but maybe that’s a good idea when I feel more secure and confident in my life.
@IrenesWorld2024
@IrenesWorld2024 8 күн бұрын
That's bold and inspiring move! I recently took early retirement and started my own KZbin channel as well, so I can definitely relate. Wishing you all the best on this exciting new journey. Let's continue to pursue our dreams and create amazing contents❤
@ringotan5244
@ringotan5244 17 күн бұрын
Wow!!! You speak so well, teaching, marketer, translator, interpreter is of your option.
@meteechaloemkoon6478
@meteechaloemkoon6478 11 күн бұрын
I am so happy and rooting for you, Tika Ghafar. I hope you take off some day as you wish. I used to have a dream to go live overseas. I was once an exchange student and spent a year in Canada. That is one of my best experiences for sure. Now, I need to live with the reality and responsibility that I am proud of, to take care of my own family, my wife, and enjoy finding as much money as possible to clear off my beautiful and happy house. Good day! Tika
@RaizadaS97
@RaizadaS97 16 күн бұрын
Babe! I quit my horrific law firm job after 5 yrs in Bombay. I’m so so relieved that I started investing early and could do this tbh! So glad I could spend time with my friends and family guiltfree, have a a month in europe and am now thinking about my next steps (and next holiday). I too don’t have an answer for how long and that is perfectly fine :) relate hard on how many choices we made as corporate employees were because that is the limited time our corporate jobs allowed us to make. We didn’t actually make the best ones :) enjoy the journey and see you on every side of this! Hi-5!
@alikarimi8251
@alikarimi8251 17 күн бұрын
Sh!t, I just wrote my resignation letter and quit my job half way watching your video and God help me!
@lovedessyt
@lovedessyt 12 күн бұрын
Hi. I’m also a PM who just recently quit my job. The burnout and stress got the best of me and i finally decided to leave this high-paying job - which even let me work from home!!! Some people might say i’m crazy. But let me just tell you that your video ignited something within me and I now feel really inspired. There’s a comfort in knowing you are not alone in the same kind of journey and others feel the same. I wish you good luck and success!
@bianca8434
@bianca8434 11 күн бұрын
PM too that works from hoome and so so burnt out and I want to do the same and just quit but it’s terrifying!!
@lovedessyt
@lovedessyt 10 күн бұрын
@@bianca8434 it is indeed! i still am terrified, tbh. i think having sufficient backup / emergency fund is really important during these times. i'm sure you'll get through this, don't worry. ;)
@duanec.sutherland5292
@duanec.sutherland5292 16 күн бұрын
So done with 9-5, its Depressing!
@MoniqueJ-g2s
@MoniqueJ-g2s 16 күн бұрын
ikr i retired at 52 and honestly, I wish I’d done it sooner. The 9-to-5 grind always steals your freedom for a paycheck that barely scratches the surface. My advice? If you’re in your late 30s or early 40s, start saving for FIRE now (Financial Independence, Retire Early.) And if you’re in your 50s, invest smartly and break free from relying on your job. Market trends, like the Trump Effect, have made millions for many, including me. Stay focused, stay consistent, and remember financial freedom is within reach if you make it a priority.
@Nancy-1w
@Nancy-1w 16 күн бұрын
Exactly My point! The 9 to 5 grind is just not worth it the stress and low payoff. What specific steps did you take to break free?
@MoniqueJ-g2s
@MoniqueJ-g2s 16 күн бұрын
Working with Lorrie Greta Hillard , a financial advisor, was a game changer. She helped me refine my savings strategy, including retirement planning, and provided expert guidance on investments and budgeting to maximize my savings.
@Nancy-1w
@Nancy-1w 16 күн бұрын
Got it! Thanks for the tip! I was curious, so I looked up Lorrie
@Latonya-r.b
@Latonya-r.b 16 күн бұрын
I have 5 more years and I can’t wait!
@fromaudreykao
@fromaudreykao 11 күн бұрын
girl I'm vicariously traumatized by that seagull attack, sending you healing vibes 💖 I really enjoyed hearing your reflections over your experience in the past 6 months, I think it’s super admirable that you’re maintaining a positive outlook even when things don’t go to plan. I’m excited to see what’s in store for you this next 6 months 😊
@adventureseekers2708
@adventureseekers2708 9 күн бұрын
Girl,u’re so inspiring,thanks for your vlog😊
@ioana2739
@ioana2739 10 күн бұрын
Thank you for such an amazing video! I really like the way you talk about things. I also like the vibe of the video and that is a bit "chaotic", for the low attention spawn of people these days it feels nice to jump to other ideas in different filming settings, while maintaining the main line and feeling of the video :D Congratulations for what you do, you got a new subscriber! Looking forward to seeing your journey! Best of luck! 😃🤞🤗
@johnclark7973
@johnclark7973 15 күн бұрын
I am happy for you. Reminds me of myself many years ago. I can tell you from personal experience, you are doing the right thing and it is so incredibly worth it!!
@Natesha_Laree
@Natesha_Laree 16 күн бұрын
Melbourne looks sooo beautiful!!! I love that you're figuring things out as you go - that's exactly what I'm doing, and it has been quite the adventure! 😅 Sending love from the United States.
@EternalLoveAnkh
@EternalLoveAnkh 17 күн бұрын
This is a great video. I love all your videos. I actually have made several changes in my life, meaning I've had different chapters completely different than the previous. After high school, I went to college in GA for graphic design and video production. After I got my degree, I moved to MI where I got a job helping people with disabilities. I taught computer classes, did the website, and did the IT stuff for the organization. During that time, I also had a second job at a comic book store and I was in a relationship where I helped raise my girlfriend's two children from her previous relationship (and the father was not in the picture). That was so rewarding. Keep in mind I myself have a disability and use a wheelchair. Unfortunately, a few years later, we drifted apart (wanting different things in life), so we broke up and she moved out. I never saw the kids again, which is sad. Then, I dived more into my spirituality and traveled quite a bit. I became an extrovert... after my entire life being an introvert. I even wrote three books about self-empowerment and positivity. After writing my third book, I decided to leave my job at the organization after ten years and go back to school in GA to obtain a physics undergraduate degree. Towards the end, I realized I enjoyed the mathematics behind it better, so I got my Masters in math. And now, I'm going for my PhD in math, working on combinatorial number theory. It's very challenging, but I love it. RJ
@8thst1904
@8thst1904 16 күн бұрын
Great content for people who wants to “down grade” I’m learning to be frugal. There’s just things you don’t need!
@TheLouisZhao
@TheLouisZhao 15 күн бұрын
Wow that was an awesome intro! Well-edited and the B-rolls fit so perfectly
@misspoppylee
@misspoppylee 9 күн бұрын
I really love your video 😃
@yvonnelim3269
@yvonnelim3269 17 күн бұрын
Fellow Malaysian here in Melbourne and would love to grab a coffee or go for walks if you’re keen ☺️ love your videos!!
@raghaveniannadurai7840
@raghaveniannadurai7840 5 күн бұрын
I quit my job 6months ago and I can 💯 agree with what you said its hard in good way so much learning and unlearning
@mishka765
@mishka765 17 күн бұрын
You have a great thumbnail. It took you 10 minutes of video to gain a new fan! Im looking forward to see your journey ❤‍🔥
@VNLinhho
@VNLinhho 13 күн бұрын
It's crazy how this appears, because I relate to this so much.
@Yerevanwithme
@Yerevanwithme 14 күн бұрын
I did the same thing. In terms of changing country and I moved to Armenia. Where I again have corporate job but enjoy life waaaay more... so changing country or city is a real game changer.
@SigneJenson
@SigneJenson 17 күн бұрын
Love following your journey Tika 🙏 keep it up!
@nicolaansell6971
@nicolaansell6971 8 күн бұрын
Hope you enjoy Melbourne
@JeffreyKosgei
@JeffreyKosgei 17 күн бұрын
Always grateful for the content..thank you
@sarah_dixon
@sarah_dixon 16 күн бұрын
You just randomly popped up on my suggestions and let me just say! That seagull 🤣🤣Can't wait to see your content.
@xiangxiadang
@xiangxiadang 17 күн бұрын
Very inspiring to hear!
@handira
@handira 17 күн бұрын
Nice seagull, please feature it more next time 😂
@theserynaj
@theserynaj 13 күн бұрын
I'm 8.5 years into working 9-9, previously six, but recently five days a week, as a pharmacist (same place, never resigned). The hate holds a much higher proportion than the love for my job. It pays well & drains extremely well. I've been trying and trying and trying to quit and run away somewhere. But it's like a maze & I couldn't find my way out. So, if you're reading this, please just pray for all my skilled migration procedures to go through smoothly, and hopefully, I manage to escape this time. Cheers to my upcoming biggest prison break! 😂
@juliusnarte
@juliusnarte 17 күн бұрын
the botanical gardens is my favourite solitude spot!
@andrewharris6347
@andrewharris6347 11 күн бұрын
Ex-PM in corporate Australia … lost my high-paying PM job in IT last year and I’m going all in on KZbin … life is a journey and this stage is so much better And yeah I’m earning 20% of what I used to but have saved $8k at the same time … I’ve never had that much saved .. I used to spend it all. Your video resonates with me and my experience so much 👍🙏
@hibeni
@hibeni 17 күн бұрын
cool Video Tika
@adamkovaac
@adamkovaac 17 күн бұрын
great vid!
@Ameliabhavya
@Ameliabhavya 15 күн бұрын
I'm 45yrs old $19,000 weekly and I'm retired, this video have inspired me greatly in many ways that I remember my past of how I struggled with many things in life to be where I'm today!!❤
@JulietKatrina-m3u
@JulietKatrina-m3u 15 күн бұрын
Hello How're you earning such weekly? sometimes I feel down on myself because of low finances,but I still believe in God
@SomethingNick
@SomethingNick 17 күн бұрын
Curious what made you pick Melbourne over Sydney? I'm thinking of moving back to Oz but can't decide where to go!
@AnnaOlm-pm7sj
@AnnaOlm-pm7sj 11 күн бұрын
Hey Tika! What camera do you use for your KZbin videos?
@kirialuby
@kirialuby 6 күн бұрын
Heyy! What camera do you use?
@klfighter1
@klfighter1 17 күн бұрын
First 🙏
@fpl4172
@fpl4172 15 күн бұрын
How much savings did you have that you feel safe leaving ur corporate job?
@HaleySharapata
@HaleySharapata 8 күн бұрын
I am wanting to move to australia in 2025 but i have some questions.
@RoQGamingUniverse
@RoQGamingUniverse 16 күн бұрын
In this route, life will be against you like...just that seagull 😅. Anyway, great vid 👍.
@joyfullencounters
@joyfullencounters 14 күн бұрын
hahaha i miss my mechanical keyboard and double screens too :")
@MD-tr1yv
@MD-tr1yv 12 күн бұрын
24 aus is $15.26usd.
@alexmacgregor
@alexmacgregor 17 күн бұрын
Haha seagulls are a menace.
@nickdual
@nickdual 17 күн бұрын
If you prepare, have enough money, it will be successful, if not it will be the hell.
@JoBo301
@JoBo301 17 күн бұрын
The beauty of the journey is that it is not always mapped out before us, but we discover as we go on our way.
@Effortless.project
@Effortless.project 17 күн бұрын
please make text
@mart1n10601
@mart1n10601 17 күн бұрын
5:57 what do u mean by "short term business"? Congrats btw. healthy/balanecd live style >>>> stressful corporate job. Im learning that the hard way
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