Tiktok Teaches Me About Kinks (gideonmazzikin)

[@ArJayPtV]

pov: your partner’s hiding their abusive behaviour behind a dom/sub kink

[@LowkeyOmi88]

(Fake dom)

[@theafterparty2264]

why do you believe this guy is abusive and it’s not jsut the kink

[@Lena-xy8id]

@@theafterparty2264 experience

[@clumsiiconfidant5780]

@@theafterparty2264 i mean i don’t think people find it hot to be dragged out of a car

[@beefykeith48]

@@theafterparty2264 because there's no layer of trust and respect behind this, and there is no safety or illusion in the scenes. this is reality for him. this isn't play.

[@aurora8749]

People saying the first guy isn't scary has never been in a relationship with an abusive person. Even the nicest looking guys can be abusive and this guy is very likely an abuser since he's openly saying it's a kink.

[@user-pk4tl2fk3n]

He acts like my abusive dad, 5:29 was creepy af and exactly how my dad acted when he was mad

[@viola8856]

Its like a dom - sub relationship, they sign a contract and everything. It’s wild. A lot of people enjoy having people tell them what to do constantly and degradation… I guess if they enjoy it yknow? But a lot of it is definitely questionable and ik where you’re coming from, most of these clips are definitely abusive😭idk why he made them since they’re just abusive? And not how dom/sub relationships are

[@roxassora2706]

@@viola8856 But for those with a degradation kink, they know those things aren't true about themselves.

[@viola8856]

@@spaghet-lessbonesauce2479 I know bruh I literally said it’s not okay😭

[@viola8856]

@@roxassora2706 yeqh but I didn’t say anything about that? If the creepy dude in the video said anything about that I don’t rhink I watched the whole thing

[@spagheddie69]

Hello I’m vaguely part of the bdsm community and not a single thing this guy has done in these videos is “dom stuff” he’s acting like an abuser. If you’re with someone who treats you like this, whether as a bdsm partner or as a full on relationship, this isn’t dominance this is abuse. BDSM begins and ends with respect and consent.

[@clumsiiconfidant5780]

THIS^^^^^^^^

[@goblinjuice8293]

CONSENT AND RESPECT!!! preach!

[@shiannafoxx]

PREACH. Bdsm is all about consent and using "kinks" to hide behind abuse is disgusting and not at *all* tolerated in actual bdsm

[@binnaaesculapian5068]

Yeah exactly none of people I know who are doms behave like this. This is clearly abuse.

[@serenegenerally]

yeah no this definitely isn’t BDSM stuff, if anything it turns everyone off LMAO

[@oatmeallover4000]

Sexual kinks? More like domestic violence.

[@blackrosejinx5563]

Repeat after me, *”THERE IS A FINE LINE BETWEEN BDSM AND ABUSE. THIS IS NOT BDSM, THIS IS ABUSE.”*

[@caacker]

there isn’t a fine line?? there is a very large difference between bdsm and abuse

[@parkchimmin7913]

@@caacker Biggest difference is consent and mutual respect

[@Angel-lb3dw]

There is no fine line, my dude. There is a cliff between both, and that cliff starts with consent, respect and safety.

[@Em-bz6br]

We need a moment of silence for Walmart kid. He looked so uncomfortable💀

[@SajiSharma]

Fr dude had no ill intent

[@Pahahahshso]

I think that was his son 😭

[@froggy5748]

@@Pahahahshso NOOO PLEASE TELL ME ITS NOT HIS SON

[@TinyGhosty]

TW abuse: People like this normalize abuse by acting like as long as they don't hit their partner it is not assault but will do everything else. My ex was like this and thought shoving me into walls and onto the floor was not abuse because he did not cross that moral line in his mind. It also does not help that victim blamers will also act like these forms of abuse are not "actual abuse."

[@DIDDYPLANTHBNEARJBPLANFICONAO3]

For me it was someoen reltaed who used to grab things out of my hand till my wrists hurt or scratch my hands. Myh mom still trusts him & wife, who swung a mixer wire at me. I'm gonna expose them both if I ever let them near me, by hiring a bodyguard to help me expose them. I think his wife made an attempt on my mom's life & he knows

[@cyldavor991]

speaking from second hand experience guys like this aren't fun to date. they go from 0 to 100 and then never go back down. there's never any playfulness or flirting it's just someone that doesn't understand bdsm and/or is using BDSM as an excuse to be abusive.

[@AndrewTominac]

Yeah... this is not actual kinky stuff this is abuse.

[@hearts4hokke]

As an asexual lesbian, this scares me so much

[@SajiSharma]

I apologize for scarring you

[@bitch_wat2153]

Bro even as a bi trans boy this scares me too

[@oulafursson]

even as a person who enjoys weird power dynamics and domination play, THIS SHIT IS SCARY 💀

[@oulafursson]

like it's just abuse, not domination ☠️

[@lazy_panda8771]

as a straight woman, it will traumatise me to be with him.

[@R83145]

Yeah, this stuff is not hot and it's not kink. The POV should be labeled as "your partner is abusive and you're afraid to leave". This kind of stuff only teaches young people to normalize abuse and label it as "love".

[@boredandtired4112]

I was rocking with the 2010 Disney hoodie, but I respect the fit change

[@zsofi113]

I couldn’t stop looking at the word soaked in the middle of the hoodie

[@maxkemp5285]

@@zsofi113 welp, now I noticed it

[@tianasao]

Someone needs to explain to me who the target audience actually is and what the target audience is gaining from these videos, I need to know for science and closure.

[@SajiSharma]

Is it not clear? I am the target audience and i am gaining immense unparalleled knowledge from this content

[@ananyaneralla5382]

Men in the 50s and 60s who would smack their wives around? Men who would later be served Aqua Tofana by their wives?

[@Spoketlabolina]

@@colinmavrich7131 my view aswell, wasnt giving me brat vibes...but more confused woman who's trying to buy groceries, escape abuse and have friends...this aint bratty behaviour, its more trying to do normal things with an abusive partner. the fact he thinks this can be labeled as a kink or bdsm tells me how little knowledge he has of the bdsm community, he clearly has engaged in social events, met other verified doms or read about the basics. There are no self proclaimed doms, you earn that title trough good experiences with subs and being vauched for and accepted by other doms. anyone can practice domination but it doesn't make you a dom. this is a serious problem within the bdsm world cause it can seriously damage people and ruin their journey into bdsm which can be freeing and empowering. It also hurts the whole community since it makes people relate these abusers to the lifestyle. sad...he needs to be lectured by a real dom.

[@shiannafoxx]

@@AfalseNotfalseQueen No we don't. Abusers might tho. Please don't speak on something you have no knowledge about.

[@froggy5748]

@@ananyaneralla5382 ✨ auqa tofana ✨

[@duckyduckyducky209]

how is he not on a fbi list yet

[@SajiSharma]

Idk either hes pretty blatant with his crimes

[@yordy1348]

i cant tell if that guy is trying to play the role of an abusive boyfriend or if he’s trying to be that guy from 365 days and christian gray, but 10x worse

[@SajiSharma]

All i know is that he needs to go to jail

[@mariauq3932]

@@SajiSharma PERIODT!!!

[@yordy1348]

@@SajiSharma society if he was in jail would be a utopia

[@alex_ze_awsumyt5484]

I can imagine him saying "Are you lost babygirl?" and now I hate myself.

[@niamhcorrigan3972]

Tbf that's the same thing

[@SkiddlyBink]

"that's like shitting on his head without telling him" underrated

[@GL4SSHEART]

“Huh? Huh? Goddamn brat” Saji : *intense snickers* 🤣

[@atinchoudhary9085]

Wish I could go back to the time when I had no clue who this guy was

[@SajiSharma]

My apologies

[@princessofhell4639]

Ignorance is bliss

[@KuncanDastner]

yoooo standing up and holding the mic check

[@SajiSharma]

What can i say, took some inspiration from my favorite influences duncan standner

[@carysbebard3690]

I think in the brother one he was still playing the 'boyfriend' and the guy that grabbed him in the end was the 'brother' who was protecting his sister from this abusive shithead guy

[@urmom1st843]

I love how he was struggling to “be a dick” about the eating one. That’s so funny and comforting

[@DIDDYPLANTHBNEARJBPLANFICONAO3]

He might've realized he's helping his partner who wants to gain weight, or even he wasn't going to cross a line into messing with an anerxic partner

[@jneedsanap]

This isn’t BDSM or kink, this is just straight up abuse. Nothing about this is Dom/sub relationship material.

[@treyboyett4917]

As someone in an actual dom/sub relationship This is revolting

[@electromagnetic]

I was once told “black and blue, never do” as a fashion tip and I’ve always wondered if that was a “thing”

[@spagheddie69]

There are no rules you can wear anything, black and blue can totally work together. My prom dress was white with a black and blue pattern

[@shiannafoxx]

Whoever said that to you has never studied or even heard of color theory and it shows

[@froggy5748]

I’ve always found black and blue to be really pretty together, a deep blue matches it super well. I’ve never understood when people think it’s bad together lol

[@danicaalistoun7752]

I also know the " blue and green should never be seen, unless with something in-between" which is odd, cause I've seem some good blue/green combos. I think like all of these sayings are just bull....

[@godisdead6611]

I think that’s navy and black

[@purvinaik9001]

His videos should come with a trigger warning for people that have been in abusive relationships

[@michellegebert8280]

That man does NOT know how being a Dom/daddy works at all😭

[@kiralonely]

The fact I started laughing almost perfectly in sync to you at 13:26 has me laughing even harder tbh, istg-

[@zuzuwu.]

a second for the realisation and then the embarrassed laughter kicks in, I laughed at the same time 😭

[@kiralonely]

@@zuzuwu. It's just the perfect timing tbh, there's something so cathartic about feeling like you're genuinely laughing alongside a comedy yter you like to watch, lmao- but seriously, that timing is genuinely perfect, it's the perfect amount of time for it to process enough to laugh, I honestly have to wonder how many other people laughed along with us?

[@zuzuwu.]

@@kiralonely so so true, also I wonder too, whoever does should continue this as a chain lol

[@shiannafoxx]

@@zuzuwu. I laughed along as well

[@beltbreathing15thform78]

I screamed and ran away..

[@LordOfElysium]

That’s not a proper dom- He’s fifty shades level of “proper” representation.

[@lolhi3981]

I literally had to skip the dinner pov cuz of the second hand embarrassment 😭

[@dinonudle1474]

People on tiktok are really not scared that their boss looks them up

[@emilybradley3907]

i was with a guy like this. some men disguise abusive behavior as a kink. disgusting.

[@afterstorm777]

i’m sorry i hope you’re ok

[@styx_is_here7985]

The odds weren’t holding you back, they were protecting you

[@elliesherritt3666]

I would laugh at Gideon if I was in relationship with him I wouldn’t take him serious bro

[@TheFlyingKiwyGirl]

PSA: that's abuse, not kink. The BDSM community doesn't accept him ✨

[@notfamous13]

Wait when the fuck did he change into a button up shirt, boy you looking good

[@SajiSharma]

Why thank you

[@alienenthusiast]

God that last one is just vile, that's not even extreme bdsm shit, that's just domestic abuse. 🤢

[@niesamowiterayson4594]

THE MAGICCIAN'S ALLIANCCE-

[@SajiSharma]

Makes it all worth it

[@tylerwhite1322]

That’s 100% an Arrested Development reference, right?! Which would mean he’s vaguely self-aware, I hope?

[@mayateeemm5728]

bro the eating food tiktok actually scared me...ESPECIALLY when he banged the table like how is this supposed to be sexy foreplay youre just yelling at your partner (or whisper-yelling so u dont get kicked out of the restaurant)

[@mayateeemm5728]

the "pov youre trying to get me to buy you stuff" one starts with...tampons? in fact why is this in a grocery store? i thought this kind of scenario would be at like gucchi (but i guess you cant do angry bf pov tiktoks in that store)

[@mayateeemm5728]

i got to the last clip and im now considering this might just be a bit

[@DIDDYPLANTHBNEARJBPLANFICONAO3]

But the waiter still heard and spit on Gideon's food

[@jongkittae]

I know other people already said this but like my partner & I are into kink/bdsm and literally if either of us treated the other like this man is treating the Y/N actor,,,, we would not be together anymore lmao. this type of shit is THE BIGGEST RED FLAG,,, that is not kink that is ABUSE.

[@joutatheegg]

Im sorry but imagining these guys all fancily dressed all alone talking into a phone pretending thats its a woman is just so funny if you think about it

[@boomitscocosucker]

Don't bc the amount of times I've giggled out loud thinking about it bc it's so stupidly funny💀

[@andrewgarfieldshotlmao8538]

This guy is so underrated (I mean Saji, not the creepy tiktoker guy💀)

[@musikmuskat7864]

As a dom in a relationship this is so wrong on so many levels I really hope people don’t think this is how to treat your little/sub/etc

[@alynsak]

That first clip made me recoil in every way possible. I’ve been with someone like that and it’s not fun nor is it sexy. It’s scary. It just brings back memories of all the things my narcissistic ex said to me. If anyone acts like that in private or in public, they’re advanced actual psycho and you should get as far away from them as possible. I don’t know why he’s making this content. It’s actual abuse and there’s no way that anyone would think his videos are cool or attractive.

[@DIDDYPLANTHBNEARJBPLANFICONAO3]

Idk y ppl think anyone acting like this in private or public is normal, like my mom and her fam think my mom's DIL son are not psychos

[@abby.c0re]

12:04 HELP IM CRYINF THE 'EXPOSED FEET' TW 😭😭it was very much needed😟😟😟😟

[@laynepieri4214]

Love a man who will list vegetables and fruits.

[@futured8060]

After the “DESIRE 👹 you” I swear this has to be some sort of weird joke 😭

[@thatrandombean030]

NO, NOT WALMART! The sanctity of Wal-Mart has been ruined!!! (Wal-Mart is pretty much the only place he could get away with filming this crap though)

[@aj32769]

Okay so these are basically “how to be an abusive boyfriend” … got it

[@Shweetly]

How have I not seen your content until now?! Omg I cannot breathe 😭

[@heathersherr3904]

*wearing a black suit* YOU THINK BLUE IS GONNA MATCH

[@lethargicAilurophile]

STTTTTOOOOOP THESE FAKE FIGHT SCENES IN PUBLIC??? who is holding the camera ? I feel so bad for her ... Also wtf in the store is he buying her meow mix?💀

[@kiralonely]

When you said "your toes are ugly" because I'm barefoot on my bed cross-crossed with my cat in my lap, my eyes just went straight down to my one foot where I painted the nails and now I'm sad :( Just kidding. Also yes, only that foot's toenails are painted. It's painted white if you were curious, it actually turned out pretty well, knowing my tendency to ruin my nail polish really soon cause it takes a whole damn day, at least, to fully dry, after all the coats are on. ;-; And I'm impatient.

[@bringoutthet8212]

I'm very glad to know your feet are taken care of hahaha. But for real I know the struggle

[@kiralonely]

@@bringoutthet8212 Haha, exactly. If I get it on good, and it isn't immediately ruined, it'll last for a good like week. My hands on the other hand, last a week if I use specific paints and am extremely careful in certain regards, which is exhausting to do. It's hard enough keeping my nails short when in about a week they grow long enough to be considered mini claws >:( both my hair and nails grow too fast, and it's both a blessing and a curse, especially as I like to do punk haircuts with parts shaved down short. Feet are good cause I don't use them as much. Ring finger is my ideal finger for painting cause it suffers the least exertion in day-to-day activities and is least likely to actually get ruined, followed by pinky finger tbh. Sometimes the feet are tough though. I have two toes that twist in slightly cause I got crooked toes, and if I'm not careful, the nail touches the side of it's neighbor toe, and will smudge, which is a huge nuisance. Once it's vaguely dry it's not too much of a worry, unlike with my fingers where it's like, it has to be bone dry and hard as a rock to be "dry", but ugh, yeah. It's such a process, but they look nice and looking down to see one foot all pretty makes me happy sometimes haha. :)

[@bells6432]

you got noodle pool boy arms ~Saji 2021

[@s...5885]

Apparently this guy is grooming his gf

[@vlbarbara]

apparently i have a saji in a black shirt kink lol these tiktoks are honestly kinda scary though, especially when he gets physically violent, oof

[@elliejelly8815]

This dude seems abusive like, I’ve done some kink stuff and this ain’t it at all

[@nizi0]

When Saji referenced the oh so glorious movie 365 days I stood up (paused the video), teared up (sighed) and sang the Polish anthem (was disappointed that the movie's known internationally)

[@moonbee8488]

my new favourite channel hands down- amazing vid dude keep it up!!

[@SajiSharma]

Thank you!!!

[@NGSolaria]

🚶‍♂️As a submissive this shit scares me and it makes me CRINGE on the inside. Like physically cringe- I can't even.. Oml

[@aurora8749]

Also my boyfriend once barked at me when I asked him for a second pie pan around Thanksgiving and I said, "Oh! You are not my Daddy! Don't talk to me like that." The crazy thing is now I've been supporting him for four years.

[@onemore4567]

are you a girl? anyways, why did he..ba..bark at you 😭😭😭😭

[@DIDDYPLANTHBNEARJBPLANFICONAO3]

Leave him if he hasn't been taught to respect you

[@relighion]

?

[@DIDDYPLANTHBNEARJBPLANFICONAO3]

“You teach people how to treat you by what you allow, what you stop, and what you reinforce.” - Tony Gaskins.

[@caidalee1994]

The pearls are such a look!!!

[@embla1726]

we all know gideons a bottom

[@hamthehamster1892]

i'd rather separate every grain of sand at the beach by size and color than ever let a man talk to me like that

[@skibiditoiletfan101]

oh no oh no not this guy he's been in so many cringe compilations i cant dont do this to me Saji please im BEGGING YOU DONT DO THIS TO ME!!!!!

[@299meena]

Um so when did he ask for my consent? He's just unsettling

[@peekabooo999]

abusive men love to hide in the kink community and prey on people who don't know any better. his videos are disgusting.

[@basiliska]

13:12 that “oh god” took me out hahahaha

[@bbpltrgst]

u deserve so many more subs frl

[@SajiSharma]

Thank you! I’ll get there don’t worry

[@steffi9923]

thais dude getting angry just looks like a toddler throwing a fit

[@godisdead6611]

As somebody very into dom/sub stuff, these made me violently uncomfortable the only people he’s turning on w these videos is himself and other abusive men

[@Screw064]

This is actually that I cannot tell whether or not it’s satire but either way I’m laughing

[@elliesherritt3666]

POV : *me calling the police on Gideon* That would be the next tik tok for this guy

[@DIDDYPLANTHBNEARJBPLANFICONAO3]

The whole comment section would be calling the police on Gideon with you

[@keamogetswetabile3333]

I keep staring at that "tax info" file behind you to calm down after each tik tok snippet. This was hard to watch

[@RM-xw2xg]

WOAH.... I think I'm too young to watch this 😶 Hope you feel better soon Saji

[@savannahcranmer1097]

This man is a walking, unfortunately talking, ick

[@zeebeereacts8844]

These video's need trigger warnings. This guy is just.... Way too 'into his role' He makes me itch. In a fight or flight mode.

[@lordknightalex]

does that guy realise a scene should be like. agreed upon beforehand and *not in fucking public* hello??????

[@MyHannie123]

PLEASE COLLAB WITH JARVIS! That would trip people up.

[@chocolatedaisy]

Oh gawd the second hand embarrassment that he's recording these with other people around to see

[@z00merang18]

what's scarier is the fact that there's some ppl who finds these interesting and fun to watch

[@v0mit_gurl939]

9:04 bro,, those are TAMPONS. Those are highkey a necessity

[@megz._music1117]

This isn't a kink, this is abuse 😅

[@sidneyirwin6908]

Bro I’m wearing flip flops and it threw me off so much for you to say that in your example

[@peachtea1318]

Why did you have to bring my reading level into this. I thought we were just here to learn 🙁

[@Garden_hose]

His mustache killed my family and burnt down my house

[@NarissaraPiromrum]

As someone who experiment BDSM through roleplaying chat. It is indeed weird but also full of consent. What this gideon guy said is abuse. Straight up abuse.

[@justinwatson1510]

Please, no more videos about this guy. I think the second-hand embarrassment will un-alive me.

[@oceanpuddle6439]

This dude is literally teaching people to abuse their partners, how can tiktok think this is okay ???????

[@imnobody-whoareyou]

if you want a good resource for actual healthy bdsm relationships, kat blaque has great content on her channel

[@sunnythekitkat2651]

Evie Lupine as well

[@beth7935]

Yeah, Kat & Evie are both great.

[@basil5726]

I JUST CHECKED THE SUBS AGAIN I THOUGHT U HAD 20 k. why the FUK do u not have more??? this shit quality content. absoloustly immacualte. HUH??? i hope u hit 1 mill in the next year frfrfr

[@alaina6887]

Last one is a borderline hostage situation🧍🏻‍♀️and wtf did I just watch 😀

[@s_alsfx]

12:24 the way his eyes just 😳👀

[@coolgamer3000]

OK but why does tik tok allow this stuff on a platform full of children? 🤨

[@lunacy3]

I thought the guy was joking at first🤡

[@500sensationalsalads5]

Me too. Thought it was satire

[@TR-oc7hh]

AHHH I HATE THIS SO MUCH MY EARS MY EYES AHHHHH WHY DID I NHAVE TO SEE THIS

[@FirstnameLastname-zq4rt]

Not the magician’s alliance… Gob coded

[@bells6432]

Aww no more man bun :(

[@SajiSharma]

I might bring it back

[@TheDrumEquation]

D E S I R E

[@notfamous13]

Oh dear God

[@honeyberryblue7073]

this is not kink!!! this is abuse!!! holy shit!!! as a dom in a healthy d/s relationship this is so bad!!!

[@MM-ux7kp]

0:17 yo... back pain is the absolute worst. I hope it improved, i know this vid is old.