Tim Fletcher - What is Complex Trauma? | Luma & Bloom w Nic and Kate Ep. 34

[@Joshualuv13]

This man is honestly heaven sent ..he just knows so much about this topic.. incredibly insightful.

[@aciddiver1978]

God gave this man a gift of understanding and helping people suffering.

[@lumaandbloomofficial]

@@aciddiver1978 He sure did💕

[@susie5254]

A few years ago I finally figured out why I am severely triggered by being ignored. Listening to Tim in this video is the first time I've heard any professional spell out the being ignored thing that comes to us adults from our experience in childhood. This is the first time my trigger and analysis of the trigger was ever validated by another human being. You can imagine how grateful I am to Tim, and to you, Ladies, for doing this segment.

[@katrinat.3032]

I’m glad Tim is making tons of videos. All his knowledge should be put together in a trauma library.

[@lumaandbloomofficial]

@@katrinat.3032 we agree!!

[@rafeeqwarfield9690]

Tim is the best in the world at what he does

[@norahorgonyi4280]

Cant wait for part 2. One of my favourite interview with Tim. He is the best in this field.

[@lumaandbloomofficial]

@@norahorgonyi4280 thank you for watching💕 part 2 comes out tomorrow!!

[@LovingColorado598]

Tim Fletcher is the best

[@lumaandbloomofficial]

@@LovingColorado598 he really is!

[@ingridn222]

He shares one of the best definitions of spiritual abuse that I've ever heard! @32:15 Also I love the bit about how one needs to be authentic with safe people because that's where the healing happens @1:00:45 Thank you, Tim. Your work is legendary.

[@sue_c]

I love the explanation around spiritual abuse. 🙏🏽

[@breadgarlichouse]

3:45 is where it starts.....

[@thecattakenbycuriosity]

Good job girls - great guest

[@lumaandbloomofficial]

@@thecattakenbycuriosity 💕🫶

[@howdyhow2]

frfr

[@godzillamanstreb524]

This was awesome….thank you so much…..it’s hard to forget decades long abuse, but some forgiveness is definitely possible for me

[@lumaandbloomofficial]

Thank you for being here❤️‍🩹

[@user-hb5qs7sy2v]

Well done girls. This guy is great. Another at this standard with incredible success with healing trauma over some 35 years is Matthew Zoltan …be great to hear an interview with him

[@jaguarazul]

Wonderful interview 🥰👏👏

[@lumaandbloomofficial]

@@jaguarazul 💙💙

[@aciddiver1978]

This shows that experience far exceeds education.

[@nermeenali9769]

Thanks for Tim Fletcher

[@debbielewis5012]

That was explained so well thank you I got a lot out of it as I live with complex trauma 😊

[@lumaandbloomofficial]

We’re glad it was helpful! Thank you for being here💕

[@paul.delasaux]

Good job getting Tim on your channel. See if you can get Heidi Preibe next. ❤

[@sue_c]

Excellent interview!

[@lumaandbloomofficial]

@@sue_c thank you for watching☺️

[@jaredmayo5820]

If other people are rude its the best to stay to yourself

[@truthministry7462]

POWERFUL

[@lumaandbloomofficial]

@@truthministry7462 🫶

[@Lyrielonwind]

Great interview

[@lumaandbloomofficial]

@@Lyrielonwind 🥰

[@diahnhall45]

Casey was the number one baseball hitter with the most home runs all the years in baseball. He was sort stop and first baseman for years. Casey and Kyle made AllStars every year. Then when Casey was in 12 th grade he and Lonnie met a foreign guy and they sold extacy and Casey took extacy for a whole year I was told and I had no idea because I didn’t have a clue about it

[@cib252]

This guy is creating new trauma by making everyone realize they have this complex trauma issue.

[@marty4268]

greetingz from brit occupied ireland

[@Kemano24]

Tim says at one point the child may feel very abandoned without having to ever heard being rejected, when they realize their needs weren't met. I wonder how you differentiate between the real needs of a child and the possibly exaggerated desires?

[@silviacortes1433]

How can I contact him?

[@lumaandbloomofficial]

@@silviacortes1433 all his contact information is on his website! timfletcher.ca

[@jaredmayo5820]

They pick and choose who they like or who they dont like if there speaking to you than they care

[@jaredmayo5820]

Shes 😂not frozen she is basking in quiet time no drama,no stress its like basking is enjoying quiet

[@jaredmayo5820]

You dont just assume things about people and you cant figure everyone out if aquarius stays distant from you than lets say there quiet,they either hate you or you cause them stress in that case you can keep staying away cas there too nice to say they dont like you in most cases

[@jaredmayo5820]

If its a target 🎯 article i assume its about her,get a life and stop gang stalking shes not your lab rat experiment

[@jaredmayo5820]

Its not all that deep,some people like peace,bask in that peace and dont want others bothering there good mood or flow, aquarius ♒ Taurus ♉

[@jaredmayo5820]

Its trying to pick someones brain,how annoying