33 Things to Keep in Mind When Dating

[@letterhead99]

In case anybody wanted to keep this list as reference, I wrote it down: 33 Criteria - for yourself and for them! The person is: 1. Able to give and receive the 8 A’s (attachment, authenticity, autonomy - balance of togetherness & alone, attention, acceptance, appreciation, affection, allowing/encouraging). 2. Able to be present to themselves and to you. 3. Committed to consistently attach / share at a deep level. 4. Aware of their emotions, honest about their emotions and regularly process their emotions in healthy ways. 5. Truly want to understand you. 6. Healing their shame - love and accept themselves. 7. See themselves as equal, not superior or inferior. Have true humility. 8. Able to express their needs and desires. 9. Able to set a boundary and say no. 10. Trustworthy - keeps commitments & agreements. 11. Honesty 12. Actively doing things to keep growing. 13. Have other safe people in their life that they have deep conversations with. 14. Deepest passions and values mesh. Have a shared life purpose. 15. Able to handle conflict in healthy ways. 16. Follows a path of reconciliation, not retaliation, after hurt. 17. Able to own their failure. Doesn’t resort to gaslighting, blaming, minimizing, denying. 18. Doesn’t have a preconceived idea about what your role should be; wants you to become your authentic self. 19. Able to set boundaries with their own family and close friends. Don’t cave to pressure. 20. Doesn’t have other codependent relationships with family, friends, past relationships. Can say no to them. 21. Though it is important that they have other healthy relationships, it gradually becomes apparent that you are the highest priority. 22. Their values/priorities and definition of success/happiness. a. Work/rest/relationship balance b. Success of external world (job, money, looks) vs health of internal world 23. Doesn’t expect someone (you) to meet all their needs. 24. Has no active addictions. 25. Beware of extremisms or obsessions in politics, religious, ‘causes’. 26. Doesn’t operate by a rigid, black and white world view. 27. Isn’t only interested in sex; or doesn’t pay attention to you sexual needs and desires. 28. Manages money well - doesn’t have foolish debts or is impulsive with money. 29. What depth of caring characterizes their communication? Do they regularly share openly or are they quite guarded? 30. Doesn’t subtly disrespect you or put you down. 31. “RAM” - has the necessary emotional energy to handle the demands and triggers of an intimate relationship - triggers, stress, conflict, insecurities, hurts, fears. 32. Healing done of past major relationship wounds. a. Sexual abuse b. Past partner cheating on them or major relationship betrayal 33. Meets the approval of an important trio - your head, heart and gut. a. This means you don’t ignore red flags. b. The warmth you feel isn’t just oxytocin. c. It may be helpful to have a head/heart/gut report from someone else who you deeply trust.

[@BetterLoveMovement]

@@letterhead99 Thank you! This is helpful.🙂

[@Romy_880]

@@letterhead99 Thank you so much ❤

[@sharibrews9987]

Thank you!

[@Lizzchelle]

You’re awesome. This is so helpful!

[@Sylvieanjouben]

@@letterhead99 Thank you for your contribution !

[@user-ur2wd8du4z]

This list but directed to oneself it’s a great exercise. “Am I all this things myself?” “should I expect from someone the things I don’t even have?

[@frankk.777]

@@user-ur2wd8du4z I was thinking the same thing. Are we looking for perfection?

[@etaminniveous8438]

Indeed! I also thought about it while watching. I'm married and not looking for a relationship, but I will certainly use this list to check on myself.

[@gorunsko31]

@@etaminniveous8438married 48 years and now debating sharing it with my husband 😂 Decided to watch it in order to better support my recently divorced daughter in her dating challenge…

[@Savvynomad225]

I think one addiction that gets overlooked is alcohol. It’s so ubiquitous to drink alcohol, it seems to be subtly excused as an addiction with layers and layers of excuses. I think as part of the addiction check, it’s wise to see if the person can function at social events without any booze and that it doesn’t cause any strife to not have any.

[@ChrystalSafariRoy]

@@Savvynomad225 would you be open to new information about Alcohol effects? Moderate consumption actually causes an increase in GABA, a much needed neurotransmitter. Those who abuse alcohol don’t know this is why they get started. It’s the excess that’s the problem.

[@barbararemley3874]

@@Savvynomad225 Yet it is so destructive

[@recoveringsoul755]

Cigarettes too, even weed. "Legal" drugs. Coffee, sugar

[@naturalebeing]

I started dating a man about a month and a half ago and he constantly surprises me with how healthy and good he is. Like every time I go out on a limb saying or doing something that would've gotten me a toxic/negative reaction in my previous relationships, he does the complete opposite, he responds in a way that's soothing and reassuring. We went out for my birthday the other night and I saw some male friends and went to catch up with them, he ran into some people he knew. When I noticed he had finished talking to them and was close by, I went and said "hey, im sorry I walked away from you, you were talking to your friends so I thought id catch up with mine" he went, "what? don't apologize for that..." I went "okay sorry thats something I would've had to say in the past" and he goes, "I'm not your past." and went on to tell me that I should always feel comfortable doing my own thing so long as I stop by to give him a kiss on the cheek every once in a while, and to never worry about hugging male friends or anything like that. He knows I had a crazy jealous ex. I'm trying to keep my head on straight because it's still early, but I've never felt this way before. I've only dated abusive/toxic people I never really loved because they were toxic/abusive, it just felt safe and normal to me.

[@Amirisphere]

Honestly. Even though he's fine with you seeing past friends, be mindful of using his niceness to do more than he is not wanting to tell you he doesn't like. Out of respect for my guy, I would've at least told him I'm going to see some other guys (even if they're past friends) before leaving. Consider doing these with thought so you're not having to apologize to him for shit that can be prevented.

[@SviraSvi]

I'm really happy for you :)))

[@gosiatomicka6182]

OMG I experience exactly the same thing... It's so different and new.... Lovely yet scary

[@God-Love-Freedom]

Keep watching him. Anyone can pretend to be healthy for several months, especially if they’ve attended therapy.

[@SirenaSpades]

A month and half is not enough time to determine "how healthy and good" he is.

[@tammygress909]

Your voice is so calming. I would compare you to Mister Rogers. The way you speak about difficult topics with clear understanding and leadership is admirable. Thank you

[@jowaters7319]

So VERY HELPFUL that you advised us that a person can meet the initial checklist and still be a NARCISSIST!!!

[@marinakukso]

great video! and also: remember that one should be all of these things to their partner as well!

[@annemurphy8074]

My therapist asked me what was on my list for a relationship. My answer? "To not be hurt". I had been abused my entire life. My therapist asked, what about kindness, acceptance, consistency, respect, balanced well being, being seen and heard for "who you are". Did you experience any of these things in your relationships? I answered no to all of those questions for every relationship I had been in and I answered no around my family too. It was SHOCKING! Then I asked the questions towards myself and again it was NO and that was most shocking of all and I knew I had so much work to do.

[@sallyhemings2295]

This has been my experience too. I gave up on romantic relationships. The juice isn’t worth the squeeze for me.

[@andziagreen4922]

Tim you are a blessing for those of us who can't afford private therapies. God bless you and thank you again. Your videos are part of my weekly recovery sessions from multiple issues.

[@BlackNella]

This was so overwhelming. Made me feel like why even bother? How is it possible to know all of these things about someone before moving forward with them? In some instances you can only know what someone will share

[@Ameatamaru]

@@BlackNella Na, homie. Pay attention, have a hang with some healthy men on the scene (friends, family ect) and invite your suitor and see how he behaves. Ask the other men in your life their honest opinion.

[@nairbtj]

@@BlackNella I believe everything in life is a gamble and you’ll never truly know who can achieve this, but I think a lot of this can be achieved if the person you’re with has a growth mindset and is willing to put in the effort in becoming better

[@BetterLoveMovement]

Observation is KEY! And take your TIME. These things can’t be known in a month. It will take about 12 months to really know a person.

[@BetterLoveMovement]

@@AmeatamaruGreat suggestion!👌🏽

[@BlackNella]

@@Ameatamaru My life isn’t set up that way unfortunately, but I finally have peace and healing, which I’ve worked really hard for, so I think for me it’s better to just keep it that way. I wish everyone else the best on their journey though! Thanks homie!

[@babyshooz]

Tim Fletcher, you are the father figure I never had and didn't know I needed. As I embark on navigating the dating world though a new lens, thank you from the bottom of my heart for sharing your wisdom!

[@NattyByNature-]

This was really good. I’ll revisit every time I start dating.

[@hubertbross6725]

Lucky you, I should re-watch it weekly 😂

[@PeaceOwl]

Thank you very much for your thorough and generous content Tim. Your channel really is amazing. Wish you every success in 2025.

[@CatsandHobbits3]

Me listening to this list and realizing that this is everything I am not doing and my relationship is a dumpster fire rn as a result.

[@mining4goldmeister420]

Also, and the main issue with everyone who hasn't healed enough and done their inner work - there is a very good chance that they will be subconsciously attracted to the unhealthy person who triggers all their trauma wounds. A person needs to get to the place in their healing where they trust themselves first. They have safety that comes from inside them, from knowing who they are, who understands and has developed their core values, who has developed strong, healthy boundaries and knows those boundaries will keep them safe. They also need to teach themselves what a healthy, loving relationship looks like because there is a very great chance they never saw it growing up. They also need to sit down and start to identify (make a list of traits!) of what a emotionally mature male or female in an adult body looks like vs what a scared little boy or girl living in an adult body looks like. Sitting down and purposefully thinking that thru before you start dating again brings such clarity and focus to what will feel right and what will make our alarm bells go off. People should be healed enough where their inner man can recognize when their boundaries are being crossed because what they feel is right there, on the suface (not buried under years of trauma) warning of uncomfortable people who are bad for us. Also, clearly determine what your non-negotiable boundaries are as far as what is acceptable behavior and traits you will or will not tolerate from a significant other, and what are your negotiable boundaries that allow you to compromise, accept and overlook someone's behaviors. Use your non-negotiable boundaries as your guidepost and don't renege hoping things will change, or they will improve as you get to know them better.

[@arackelianarsen]

lm literally have a date with someone special tomorrow, perfect timing😊

[@sunrayrosin7181]

thank you again Tim Fletcher. Your react series has been one of , if not the number one, source of wisdom as a real resource in healing my own life and my relationships with my own children and the people in my life. I can’t express how valuable YOUR personal delivery style has been for so many people , especially me. Outstanding.

[@CrimsonWave89]

Thank you for this. I have prolonged grief from a situationship that really confused and hurt me. This video helps me see how unhealthy it was, even when he tried to fault me for everything.

[@audreyandrea460]

@@CrimsonWave89 Hi, same with me, with my former spiritual director. Sending you love and healing 🙏❤️

[@Claire5020GEN]

Tim, here’s a funny one --my sister worked at a church and when people called to ask if they could get married there, she was required to tell them that they could, if they attended a few sessions of marital counseling. Once when my sister informed a woman of that prerequisite, the lady said, “Oh honey, I’ve been married three times. I don’t need any counseling!”

[@YogawithAliBeale]

That's funny!

[@winniecash1654]

Oops. 😮

[@TheKrispyfort]

This is why I tell my kids that they should spend more time planning their marriages instead of their weddings before The Big Day.

[@BetterLoveMovement]

WOW‼️😑

[@cameronblake723]

Thankyou for all of your work, Tim

[@Michael-iw3ek]

Rule 1: expect to get rejected and receive friendly advice to take care of your own issues first. It's like getting a loan from the bank. The lonelier you feel, the more you need support, the more rejected you will get.

[@Savvynomad225]

It’s the irony hidden in the hero’s journey.

[@ristyp]

Great insight Tim. I would agree at large with your overall message. When people in the comments here say that theese traits are unatiable or rare I would like to point out that Tims words are not gospel. Theese are helpful tips to steer you in the right direction, not a checklist were every box is mandatory. A relationship is a discovery process that can only happen if you are both OPEN to it. Looking back at my own failed attempts at dating this rings true. People may have theese healthy traits, but they will only show or express this if they feel safe to do so. I had to heal and get to know myself at a much deeper level. Then I could see their perspective and fully realize how I drove them away. This was contrary to my victim story of abandonment. There is so much good in the world if we only dare to believe and see it. It starts with healing our self and understanding past relationships. Then healthy connection will happen by itself through prescense, honesty and openness. Please do not close your heart to the world, it deserves you. Others deserve you

[@pipermcpickles5283]

This is a great checklist and wonderful information, thank you!

[@SirenaSpades]

I have found you can weed out a narcissist in 6 weeks. They lovebomb, or act nice (in the case of coverts) for about a month. Then they can't withstand that behavior anymore, and their paranoia and desperation begins. It's up to you, to notice the signs. They could start acting very avoidant, or very nervous and not want to be with you in person. Things abnormal from the previous behavior. Start in with new dramas and chaos daily, all blamed on you. This is not normal behavior.

[@melissasmuse]

@@SirenaSpades if you grew up with narcissistic parents then spotting one when you’re young is increasingly hard. I dated for a year got married and then figured out he was a monster. From my experience they can pull the wool over your eyes for much longer than a few weeks.

[@TinaColby-bd7mb]

Yep. Always find out about family dynamics.

[@gentlejourney6503]

Thank you Tim Fletcher. This is really a very informational high quality talk. My first time watching.

[@chelseastrmserver2813]

This person you’re describing seems like a fairy tale character like Prince Charming. lol. Unfortunately it’s like the unicorn or the needle in the haystack. The important thing is being willing to learn and work continually on oneself. Nobody is perfect and I’m far from perfect and I don’t expect perfection from others.

[@anthill1510]

I agree with you that no-one is perfect. I also wanna point out: If it`s difficult to find somebody who fulfills most, and especially the important points on that list, staying single is the better option.

[@ADHD_zen]

Thank you for your content! I have a partner that makes me very, very happy. Finally. I was jokingly saying that I don’t know where the red flag is. He is so kind and patient and wonderful. Until I met his mom and understood the family dynamics and why he is so careful :) he has troubles asserting boundaries with her, but I made it quite clear that he has to learn it, because that is now my boundary towards him. He needs to grow and learn this, because I will not be happy as a partner in such situation, and I doubt he will be really happy going forward either, as she seems very… well, special. He does slowly come to the acknowledgement of some things perhaps not being very healthy and I am a bit worried if he will really do the work, or if he will rather chicken out and in that case it’s the end of us. He says he is trying. Which - he is. So I guess my question is - if our partner check other boxes in the question list but does have this troublesome relationship with their mother BUT are willing to work on it and actively try, it… should be all good, no? ❤

[@anthill1510]

Well, are you ok with how it`s going right now and the trajectory you can see for this, or not? You said he is actively changing things, is that enough and fast enough for you, or not? In the end your relationship is not a checklist, but a living thing that works for you and him, or it doesn`t. Think about what you expect him to do regarding his relationship with his mother and the timeframe. Than ask him how he would like the relationship with his mother to look like if it would be easy to get what he wants. Compare which outcomes you both want, talk about why you want these certain boundaries, etc. If possible, get a therapist or a mentor involved that he can talk to, so that you are not pushing him to set these boundaries. In the end it has to come from him and be on his terms. Be serious about what you expect and at least loosely hold to it. Set your own boundaries with him and her like "I will walk out of the room if she says this." or when he plans things with his mother instead of checking with your schedule first, plan things with your friends without checking with him first, etc. Just make yourself independant from what he does in connection to the problems with his mother. Also: If he has problems setting boundaries with her, how is he at setting boundaries with you? Have you talked to him about that? If he is bad at saying no or asking for what he needs that will lead to resentment in the long run in your relationship.

[@kelliearthur3427]

Thank you for this! Such a difficult proposition to trust enough to have safe, healthy intimate relationships. Though the opposite extreme of isolation lacks the richness of human experience in the absence of meaningful connection. It’s a difficult place to sit…both desiring and fearing intimate connection. Found this helpful for exploring what I truly want and need in these areas. Grateful for your service…it has helped me work through so many painful realizations. Happy New Year, and thanks for the thought stream. ❤️🌸🙏

[@helenfedorenko6419]

A really helpful checklist. I can say I have never been in a healthy relationship, and all my exes don't pass this checklist. Hope to find someone who will pass, because I know that I'm good in almost every aspect, and continue to self-grow.

[@pyrate1183]

Awesome, comprehensive advice, this is absolutely the dating/relationship advice I needed. I know this gets talked about a lot but can you define "values"? Generally I know what they are, I'm curious to hear other's thoughts or Fletcher's perspective!

[@reggaespiritdance]

❤❤ love this, not sure anyone would be dating if this list needed to be in place. Your thoughts are always so helpful. I love how you write your thoughts out so I can screen shot it for later review. You are the best

[@justinjames2805]

Wow. On point. WISH I knew something like this one year ago! Can confirm the specific importance of being present and self acceptance. Healing shame was what was unspoken

[@SandyCove143]

Great list!

[@PamelaK.Edmonson]

Thankyou, that was very good information.😊

[@Romy_880]

Immensely helpful 🙏 This is such a comprehensive list, I am taking physical notes.

[@rainbowbridge5259]

WOW, thats a super checklist 🎉

[@angierox6964]

Thank you! I'm saving this to my relationships playlist. I need all these reminders as I start dating again.

[@derjadebaum9159]

Many thanks for this video - it seems like a very mature and healthy view.

[@MindGymMeditations]

I hope this helps me overcome whatever is blocking me from seeing and finding my person

[@FlorenceLunsford-sk2nj]

Learning and growing l really need better boundaries clear boundaries

[@Lostrislostris00]

Dear Tim thank you very much for your videos. You helped me a lot❤❤❤ I have one request from you Can you please focus more on practical tools of healing instead of “why”s and “sign”s. There are a lof videos about why.. the causes of cptsd. I want to change and do something usefull. I am not a addict and i struggle to find help to change.

[@eklatist]

I don´t think I´ve ever met somebody like this.

[@madesozo]

They're out there but you should focus on being all that for you first!

[@eklatist]

@@madesozo How old are you?

[@MindGymMeditations]

Do you have any videos on teaching your nervous system to feel safe in a healthy relationship?

[@hazeloldham144]

This was so helpful... I have a date coming up

[@tahiyamarome]

I think this list should be looked at as a spectrum and it should be a list you can go over with them to see how you both land on these axis

[@TheKrispyfort]

H) expressing needs Did this and was accused of being emotionally manipulative Yeah, nah. They couldn't tell the difference, or didn't want to know the difference. Either way, yeah, nah.

[@carrie618]

Thank you for your content!

[@caroleminke6116]

Don’t dare plz until the trauma bond has been completely broken because you can’t get love outside yourself

[@bingoandtoto]

it is very important, as long as you are stuck in trauma bond, your damaged brain only can be activated by the narcissists who are toxic just like your caregiver.

[@carnigoth]

@@caroleminke6116 how do you tell if the trauma bond is broken?

[@donwalker117]

That's a really good question idk​@@carnigoth

[@orianam9835]

Nr 3 - the dating critria. People do mot realise that the success of their relation depends not on great sex but on how healthily they deal with any issue. Only time and situations will verify 😉 Good luck and wishing you all mastery of your own conflict resolution

[@ScallywagArtist]

I have so much dating experience that I turned it into a study and published a book on it and I can very accurately say that finding someone like this who is going to be of fit and of fertile age is going to have such low odds you're better off playing the lottery.

[@NattyByNature-]

Sadly it’s true but if I exist then others do. Not perfect but I strive to learn and grow daily.

[@musicmamma]

Exactly

[@andziagreen4922]

It gets really difficult from 40 onwards, so many men are broken, damaged from previous relationships or whole life and not doing any healing work, don't want to put any effort in creating commited relationship only friends with benefits or let's go with the flow type of approach. I'm celibate for last 2 years and healing as I don't want to attract any narcissist, avoidants or emotionally unavailable man like in my past.

[@orianam9835]

My great grandma who passed away before my birth was saying ' finding a good husband is like winning a lottery'. I always knew są was right

[@orianam9835]

@@andziagreen4922 I am celibate almost a year. I finally started refusing men which I do not feel are 80 or so percent right for me. Before I find it hard to let them go. Took me 36 years to realise what I was doing and it feels great to be able to choose and not feel guilty of eefusing them 😉

[@FlorenceLunsford-sk2nj]

Need to rethink this

[@novascotianinfj]

infj with cptsd here married to an infp with cptsd. it works

[@StormNelson-eh7nh]

What does infj and infp mean please?

[@The-Finisher]

@@StormNelson-eh7nhthose are Myers Briggs personality types.

[@laurenharper1510]

Thank you!

[@nevadatan7323]

Damn i can see why im such an obvious catch 😅🥴

[@PaulineMei-m1h]

Tim: some addiction can be visible. My questions: how about “healthy” addiction; exercise, food, etc. Second: how to find out about hidden addiction such as porn

[@MindGymMeditations]

Wow the RAM was a big one. It's why my ex broke things off with me.

[@winniecash1654]

After two divorces I decided staying single is ok.

[@FlorenceLunsford-sk2nj]

I had narcissist traits tendencies before it's hard sometimes l really need to rethink this 😊

[@hubertbross6725]

I'm so glad that this video got to me right now. It is really helpful. Thanks Tim!

[@FlorenceLunsford-sk2nj]

I need to get around the right type of people

[@Sylvieanjouben]

Too many things for me ! But thanks !

[@TheKrispyfort]

Ta, Tim 🙂

[@kkc6155]

Oh gosh. How many people on the face of the earth are all of these.

[@FlorenceLunsford-sk2nj]

I got a lot two be thankful for l seem little bit off

[@FlorenceLunsford-sk2nj]

I was just a hot start

[@FlorenceLunsford-sk2nj]

I need to work on better behavior

[@FlorenceLunsford-sk2nj]

I need a good tool kit 😊

[@smokingcrab2290]

The biggest issue I have with relationships in general is nothing ever lasts. Ever. People change. They leave. Forever isn't forever. Even marriage. Society as a whole is too broken

[@jessicagrace2817]

I'm not outgoing so I guess datings out for me?

[@chrleliu]

It's like finding a perfect person, in reality I don't see this as very realistic, there're always gonna be some flaws in everyone. Tim is good at listing it all out but honestly do you think it's realistic? He himself isn't doing all of that all the time either or even in a consistent basis for some of the things he mentioned

[@FlorenceLunsford-sk2nj]

I'm getting my dentures Monday

[@mariodebenedetti9276]

Wea are not meant to be enolved cause we dont know how to love in a healty way, i stay alone/casual sex, i dont want to break healty people

[@FlorenceLunsford-sk2nj]

I don't know how to handle conflict in a healthy way it was crazy when l was young ldk did l mean to do it when l was l don't what l was thinking 🤔

[@TheKrispyfort]

Am I ready or am I lonely? Or, am I bored? Or, am I scared?

[@FlorenceLunsford-sk2nj]

I need more self control l do lack alot of self control 😊

[@FlorenceLunsford-sk2nj]

Grow with my authentic self is hard

[@FlorenceLunsford-sk2nj]

I need a good tool kit

[@FlorenceLunsford-sk2nj]

I don't know how to own my crazy failures

[@FlorenceLunsford-sk2nj]

At least am meeting my own needs

[@lillith665]

Nope. Nope nope nope. Sworn off for life.

[@jennyjones-tw5hp]

⁠ same! An alcoholic gives up drinking because it ruins their lives. While I don’t have a drinking problem, dating has always ruined my life, so I think I’m good. I’ll just not do that.

[@dreamscape405]

Me too❤ I really don't want to be around people in general, let alone a relationship. That's too close for comfort. Take care❤

[@YogawithAliBeale]

sounds like me

[@FlorenceLunsford-sk2nj]

I don't own my failures

[@FlorenceLunsford-sk2nj]

I'm educationing myself l do seem little bit off

[@ktbiwk]

😂 Im here to find out if this is sarcastic, literal, or both. 😅

[@TheKrispyfort]

T) no codependent relationships Two of them would take it as the gravest of insults if an ex no longer wanted anything to do with them

[@FlorenceLunsford-sk2nj]

I feel like a butterfly cob web all over the place

[@FlorenceLunsford-sk2nj]

It's cold outside

[@aylen3322]

Ummm….. this feels like a type A search…. good luck finding ALL these things in any one single human😂

[@kristofferrobinhaug8029]

All the 3 people in the world who pass this list are about to get a lot of viewers asking them out😅

[@FlorenceLunsford-sk2nj]

I'm slow in education

[@jilross4892]

1. d, 2. c, 3. a, 4. g, 😅😊

[@FlorenceLunsford-sk2nj]

Idk why l ever called myself by that name

[@Invictus1970]

My covert narc ex girlfriend who's 40 with 2 kids will eventually fall flat on her face. She is in a rebound relationship and she is the biggest phony and mean and materialistic and all things bad.

[@sonyaparkin7841]

💚💚💚

[@FlorenceLunsford-sk2nj]

I don't understand why he isn't leaving me l don't understand

[@FlorenceLunsford-sk2nj]

I need to stop complaining so much my back hurts so much am going through menopause

[@zdrowyDuch]

33? Horror too much😂 i don't want to see a man anymore😂😂

[@desertboots4666]

Should have listened to my gut…

[@BecomeConsciousNow]

The number 1 thing is, being honest about your sexuality!! This is crucial, isn't it "TIM"?!!

[@FoundLamb]

Is there a story here? KZbin promotes … 😈

[@FoundLamb]

Cheese and rice. 33?! 🤦🏻‍♀️