"Tired of Being a Single Mother, Its Draining," Woman Complains She Has No Time, Father Isn't There

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Anton Daniels

Anton Daniels

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@AntonDaniels
@AntonDaniels 6 ай бұрын
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@Facts-Over-Feelings
@Facts-Over-Feelings 6 ай бұрын
I DONT ALWAYS AGREE WITH YOU BUT YOUR A BROTHER THATS STILL STANDS ON BUSINESS WITH A BLACK FAM. I RESPECT THAT. A GOOD EXAMPLE.
@misslove7698
@misslove7698 6 ай бұрын
We need to stop dating without purpose and making babies, this information needs to be talked about in the dating phase and prior to making and family. We move based on emotions and that's the worst injustice we can serve ourselves
@faithenichols6947
@faithenichols6947 6 ай бұрын
Whoever she is, she needs some words of encouragement. She seems very young. I'm 54 years old. I was 20 when I had my daughter. I never married or had any other children. I had a great support system, but I would never consider doing it again. She does need encouragement through the tough times and a reminder that they do grow up and to hang in there. Sometimes we learn lessons hard and this is one, but we must be accountable and persevere.
@Wil3TV
@Wil3TV 6 ай бұрын
You have a kitchen island?? And a Nanny in addition help from your family. 😮
@DJ-ll9hv
@DJ-ll9hv 6 ай бұрын
Call your baby daddy not the internet
@FA9082
@FA9082 6 ай бұрын
She picked a deadbeat as a dad for her kids and now she is a deadbeat mom 😂
@tigerbombster
@tigerbombster 6 ай бұрын
Bingo 🎯
@tigerbombster
@tigerbombster 6 ай бұрын
​@@FA9082maybe she doesn't know who the father is.
@DJ-ll9hv
@DJ-ll9hv 6 ай бұрын
@@tigerbombster she had that many men dropping off packages she can’t find the right man?? That’s sad as idk what
@MrT-nh6di
@MrT-nh6di 6 ай бұрын
Exactly
@welshhibby
@welshhibby 6 ай бұрын
“You let him hit raw, you had no second thoughts, now you a single mom, now you a single mom”🎼🎹🎤🎸🎷
@AmeerolisaRa-cw3qg
@AmeerolisaRa-cw3qg 6 ай бұрын
This needs more likes. ☝🏾
@tomare6479
@tomare6479 6 ай бұрын
She got two kids and two baby daddy We need all boys schools ASAP
@Pabone175
@Pabone175 6 ай бұрын
@@tomare6479why did I start singing it as I read it 😂😂😂😂😂
@Theyesman-gp9nc
@Theyesman-gp9nc 6 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@manoftomorrow5987
@manoftomorrow5987 6 ай бұрын
🎻
@raymamba1962
@raymamba1962 6 ай бұрын
Shes tired of being a mother. The streets are calling her
@DJWOLFLIVE
@DJWOLFLIVE 6 ай бұрын
@@raymamba1962 Facts. Likely why she’s crying about it in the first place.
@donellhorton8705
@donellhorton8705 6 ай бұрын
Damn…😂
@jimmystrokes34
@jimmystrokes34 6 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂
@emanualcarr7408
@emanualcarr7408 6 ай бұрын
Shes tired of being Black and wants to return to being White.
@BrotherRashid
@BrotherRashid 6 ай бұрын
💯
@DJWOLFLIVE
@DJWOLFLIVE 6 ай бұрын
This is exactly why don’t rush out to have kids with the first dude you fall in love with and not marry before you carry!!!!!
@LembeckIsStaying
@LembeckIsStaying 6 ай бұрын
They don't even fall in love, they get pregnant from the first pump now. Crazy.
@bigguy671
@bigguy671 6 ай бұрын
I agree. Having a child outside of marriage has become so normalized and routine no one thinks or cares about the consequenses.
@willierhone6244
@willierhone6244 6 ай бұрын
@@bigguy671 She's a pretty girl and most of them are, but I'm starting to believe that these women are breaking up with the baby daddy is because social media is telling them they all can do better and the not to settle with a man that can't pay all their bills. Now nobody is there for them, and the baby daddies don't trust them anymore.
@Xeyne098
@Xeyne098 6 ай бұрын
@@DJWOLFLIVE Fall in love😁....fall in lust, you mean.
@Xeyne098
@Xeyne098 6 ай бұрын
@@willierhone6244 she is available.
@AmberJailee
@AmberJailee 6 ай бұрын
She hates paying for her child. These are tears of I need a man to help me pay for my child and clean up the mess me and my baby father made!
@bootscooty
@bootscooty 6 ай бұрын
I got an eggplant for your starfish amber
@postmastersgt1670
@postmastersgt1670 6 ай бұрын
Another step crash dummy will fill her void its inevitable
@Xeyne098
@Xeyne098 6 ай бұрын
@@bootscooty 😯
@trapmuzik6708
@trapmuzik6708 6 ай бұрын
exactly if she's struggling I don't want to take on her problems to date so much more fun dating young women without children they can party all night long
@caitmatheny
@caitmatheny 6 ай бұрын
lol no boo… I make an abundance of money to care for my child and myself. Thanks for the input tho
@krisluvskev
@krisluvskev 6 ай бұрын
👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏 I love what he said, they married at 22. I got married at 23 my husband was 26, many of my friends at the time kept telling me that I was making a mistake, that I just wasted my parents money on an education...blah, blah, blah.... my husband and I wanted to buy a home and stabilize our finances before we started having children so that I could stay home with them. Five years later we had our first child, then our second. All those so called friends, who I don't hang out with, are still looking for a man, or have children out of wedlock. Wait no one of them I do still hang with but she is married. We talk about our old group and are happy we did it the right way. BLACK WOMEN KEEP YOUR LEGS CLOSED UNTIL YOU GET MARRIED. Then work together to achieve something valuable as a family.
@jnm-eh6qt
@jnm-eh6qt 6 ай бұрын
💯💯💯
@LuiggiChampan
@LuiggiChampan 6 ай бұрын
Too late for BW - they bussin it open rn as we speak.
@dreday5578
@dreday5578 6 ай бұрын
Most bw Don't believe in marriages ik several that would rather be baby mommas than wives
@formula112967
@formula112967 6 ай бұрын
You sound like you have good morals, but I don't think you understand......a lot of women today open their legs for welfare benefits and child support.
@HungLoMein
@HungLoMein 6 ай бұрын
​@LuiggiChampan 😂😂😂
@topdawg4314
@topdawg4314 6 ай бұрын
It's just unfortunate that the kids have no choice but to experience this
@DJ-ll9hv
@DJ-ll9hv 6 ай бұрын
Humanity is done
@malikwilson7387
@malikwilson7387 6 ай бұрын
@topdawg4314 this is why I support Step Dads 100 percent but yall don't like step dads yall rather disrespect step dads
@DJ-ll9hv
@DJ-ll9hv 6 ай бұрын
@@malikwilson7387 why be in a woman life who will always have you at minimum 2nd place? She can always disrespect you and so can the kid. What are you getting out of being a stepdad? A badge of honor and pat on the head? Then what happens when the real dad shows up and wants his kid even though you don’t agree? You bout to crash out over a kid that’s not even yours?
@jonathanmott7434
@jonathanmott7434 6 ай бұрын
​@@malikwilson7387simpanzee
@Tresse-dx2rh
@Tresse-dx2rh 6 ай бұрын
@@DJ-ll9hvoh please people are not a monolith even though they maybe in somewhat similar situations. Being a step parent can be an actual beautiful thing…ask me how I know. But y’all allow these KZbinrs to fill your heads up with hot air polluted with unhealthy gasses ( beliefs, thoughts, etc).
@Dre2011
@Dre2011 6 ай бұрын
You set up your camera, cried, then edited and posted this video 🤦🏾‍♂️
@itächiundrwrld777
@itächiundrwrld777 6 ай бұрын
😂😂😂
@Kanelive215
@Kanelive215 6 ай бұрын
Today's society..... All for likes...
@Soloman_1800
@Soloman_1800 6 ай бұрын
Smh
@jayeverything
@jayeverything 6 ай бұрын
🎶🎶🎵🎶
@akozzy9919
@akozzy9919 6 ай бұрын
Acting is mid
@MDENT313
@MDENT313 6 ай бұрын
Anytime women get on social media crying they're looking for attention. She could have did the video without crying
@bootscooty
@bootscooty 6 ай бұрын
And exactly what is this man in the yellow hat doing? Is he informing you or is he informing you so that he can get a little bit of attention
@WardenWyrd
@WardenWyrd 6 ай бұрын
@@bootscooty Social commentary makes you mad? You think people should say/do things in public but the public can't comment on it? Delusional.
@Atoz-q6x
@Atoz-q6x 6 ай бұрын
At least the children can pull this video up anytime they want and watch her complain about their existence.... What a nightmare
@ainke
@ainke 6 ай бұрын
All I am going to say to that woman is face your consequences.
@tottryship5608
@tottryship5608 6 ай бұрын
No give the kid up to a family.
@ainke
@ainke 6 ай бұрын
@@tottryship5608 as you know women are attached to their babies no matter what the circumstances are. So, I doubt she will give up her baby willingly.
@MrStCyrX
@MrStCyrX 6 ай бұрын
She could have had an abortion, but then you people would have chastised her for that.
@ainke
@ainke 6 ай бұрын
@@MrStCyrX Tbh, I am not against abortion when it is for emergency or life-threatening situation. But what she could do it her case is to give it up to adoption for other families who are stable but couldn't get a baby. Her ego wouldn't allow her to do that.
@desmondjefferson2127
@desmondjefferson2127 6 ай бұрын
🎯
@TomTheEGamer575
@TomTheEGamer575 6 ай бұрын
Pookie and Ray Ray effect 😂
@joegreen4333
@joegreen4333 6 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂facts
@kenneyp.9456
@kenneyp.9456 6 ай бұрын
Lol
@poopingwhilestanding5801
@poopingwhilestanding5801 6 ай бұрын
Or...Alpha Widow and she settled for Beta Bob and regretted her decision after she got a train run through her.
@laquishajackson624
@laquishajackson624 6 ай бұрын
In full effect lol
@RayNLA
@RayNLA 6 ай бұрын
Heyyyyyy
@tigerbombster
@tigerbombster 6 ай бұрын
Imagine most women fight with the fathers to be a single mother, most likely she is too prideful to ask the father.
@GoogleuserToday-oh9qf
@GoogleuserToday-oh9qf 6 ай бұрын
@tigerbombster the father doesn’t want to be bothered.
@Justjackson7
@Justjackson7 6 ай бұрын
@@GoogleuserToday-oh9qfI think both you guys are right
@odog76543
@odog76543 6 ай бұрын
​@GoogleuserToday-oh9qf how do you know that? You certainly do not. About a.week after I told my now exwife just arbitrarily took my 4 yyear old daughter and left the house while I was at work. There was no word, no talk, no discussion. Then when she got mad at me, she kept me from seeing the daughter to extort an apology out of me (for pointing out her cheating during the marriage). A lot of the women who complain about being a single mother won't tell you that they deliberately keep the child away from the father because of bitterness. We don't know if it's that situation, or it's one where she got pregnant by a fling who never even wanted to have a child in the first place.
@lyingdogfacedponysoldier5746
@lyingdogfacedponysoldier5746 6 ай бұрын
She doesn’t want to give him more time with the kid because that will mean less child support
@Dawgyjoe
@Dawgyjoe 6 ай бұрын
@@odog76543sorry about that bro
@INVICTUS3RD
@INVICTUS3RD 6 ай бұрын
She strikes me as a woman who blew past the man or men who would want to be present and contribute, if not marry. I believe she rejected that man for what she has now. I don't know her, but I get that vibe from her. She didn't want the good man. She wanted Disneyland. Enjoy the ride, sister.
@Soloman_1800
@Soloman_1800 6 ай бұрын
Exactly
@Fabrizio7171
@Fabrizio7171 6 ай бұрын
Like you enjoyed the chase and drama enjoy it now too
@desmondjefferson2127
@desmondjefferson2127 6 ай бұрын
I assume and feel the same. Too pretty to not have had A LOT of suitors
@INVICTUS3RD
@INVICTUS3RD 6 ай бұрын
@@desmondjefferson2127....pay attention: she comes off as a selfish person. It's all about her and how her child is in the way.
@GoatHolyfield
@GoatHolyfield 6 ай бұрын
None of these single mothers wanted a good man which is why they're single mother
@dondraper4890
@dondraper4890 6 ай бұрын
I never felt sorry for ANY parent. Choices you made. Now you have to deal with them.
@JayJay-jd3hp
@JayJay-jd3hp 6 ай бұрын
I hope she doesn’t hurt that child because of her selfishness
@Sheed96
@Sheed96 6 ай бұрын
faaacts, she looks like the type
@Ruthmarahill
@Ruthmarahill 6 ай бұрын
Yeah, sadly this is how that starts
@INVICTUS3RD
@INVICTUS3RD 6 ай бұрын
@@JayJay-jd3hp .....BULLSEYE!!! Very selfish vibes!!!
@desmondjefferson2127
@desmondjefferson2127 6 ай бұрын
.....wait for it! Also, we won't know the verbal and emotional abuse that child receives in it's life from her
@unc1221
@unc1221 6 ай бұрын
Too late.
@cassricardo1237
@cassricardo1237 6 ай бұрын
She spoiled the child now she cant leave the child anywhere
@odog76543
@odog76543 6 ай бұрын
Exactly! The child is also very young. 17 months?! She might need to have close family members babysit until the child gets older, to help the baby get used to being around people besides mommy.
@diogok9459
@diogok9459 6 ай бұрын
its still a baby, she is being quite cold making her baby look like a bad child, when the problem is herself.
@hassanrobinson3354
@hassanrobinson3354 6 ай бұрын
I have 2 daughter and I tell them that not to play house with these dudes, boyfriend because it would not end well . Having a caring for a child by your self because you got pregnant is like doing time in prison it a live long commitment until you die and you life will be difficult as hell so don't sleep around or don't let him in until he proves himself as worthy of your trust.
@unc1221
@unc1221 6 ай бұрын
Women can raise kids up to like age 8. After that they need men.
@akilahbrooklyn8236
@akilahbrooklyn8236 6 ай бұрын
Thank you! Someone had to say it. The child is SPOILED, plain and simple.
@chrishodge9437
@chrishodge9437 6 ай бұрын
Why are they coming on the internet? THERAPY IS NOT FREE!
@pokellaa
@pokellaa 6 ай бұрын
Lol
@zion_lion340
@zion_lion340 6 ай бұрын
FACTS
@Dansenpai8
@Dansenpai8 6 ай бұрын
Tik tok is not therapy
@Fabrizio7171
@Fabrizio7171 6 ай бұрын
For women it certainly is.
@Dansenpai8
@Dansenpai8 6 ай бұрын
@@Fabrizio7171 💯% facts
@nickmaestro
@nickmaestro 6 ай бұрын
We should have compassion, and at the same time call out this reckless behavior. I'm a single man, 36, no kids, never married, no debt and I caught all kinds of crap from women like this. I'm the bad guy for not sleeping around, being responsible and not putting myself in a position to where I wasn't ready for a relationship and possibly pop out a kid. But now these same women want to settle down with me as if I'm Captain Save a you know what. My mom was a single mother until she married my stepfather, who she committed adultery with. Do you know how painful that was to my father when they were married? I don't want to repeat that experience for me or my children. This problem is rampant, and hurts exponentially more in black communities. We gotta look in the mirror at some point and stop this foolishness.
@dred9174
@dred9174 6 ай бұрын
It's not we, it's them 54% of black men don't have kids all these single mothers are having kids with the same sorry criminals.
@formula112967
@formula112967 6 ай бұрын
You can say it...... Captain Save a ho!
@milliexxx6390
@milliexxx6390 6 ай бұрын
I would normally never comment, but i just have to commend you for wanting to break those cycles you mentioned . I know many guys who been in the same situation as you but give in to those cycles and refuse to change and become a victim rather than a victor. I know i dont know you but im proud of you and you are rare. God bless you in whatever you do and keep to that Is path and breaking those cycles its extremely admirable I just had to share. Take care. Peace and love
@milliexxx6390
@milliexxx6390 6 ай бұрын
@nickmastero
@Shay.bae92
@Shay.bae92 6 ай бұрын
👏🏾 👏🏾
@R_W_Goodson
@R_W_Goodson 6 ай бұрын
Solution: Give custody to his father.
@formula112967
@formula112967 6 ай бұрын
'Solution: Give custody to his father'......and give up her child support, welfare and section 8?......no way man!
@thankthelord4536
@thankthelord4536 6 ай бұрын
There are plenty of women who still keep their government benefits giving up a child. But they usually have more children of multiple men.
@housept2
@housept2 6 ай бұрын
@@formula112967 she's a loser. chances are her bd don't want nothin to do with that idiot jr. he came for cookie. not a child. when will they learn this???
@JocMiles
@JocMiles 6 ай бұрын
"No more crying to the internet - cause your on your own in the real world! Ain't it fun ain't fun liiiiiving in the Big World!" 😂😂😂😂😂
@HungLoMein
@HungLoMein 6 ай бұрын
Aint it Fun! 😂
@Jimmothyhalpert
@Jimmothyhalpert 6 ай бұрын
Oh no she can't get her nails done!??? ...bruh what are we doing.
@bootscooty
@bootscooty 6 ай бұрын
God forbid she want to do something for herself
@exquisite921
@exquisite921 6 ай бұрын
Sounds like she just wants to maintain herself
@marielyramos9628
@marielyramos9628 6 ай бұрын
Its called self care which is a great way to maintain ones mental health. What she can do is paint them herself at night when the kids go to bed, thats what i do lol you have to adapt somehow🤷‍♀️
@charlierlaflosstv
@charlierlaflosstv 6 ай бұрын
I’m married and it’s hard managing the home, rearing the kids, cooking and cleaning. My husband works most of the time and I help with his business however, I’m learning that you have to become selfless. If not you’re going to go crazy and that’s the problem in this society we are so self absorbed we don’t know how to die to self especially for our families. Having children is the ultimate form of self denial. It’s no longer about you!
@tommypearson9260
@tommypearson9260 6 ай бұрын
A lot of these single mothers push the other parent out then complain ,I don't give them sympathy ever a lot of them are Alienators.
@TerranceTaylor777
@TerranceTaylor777 6 ай бұрын
From a woman’s mouth at that. Mad respect 🫡 frfr and the sad reality is …. They push away the biological father, for whatever reason and be quick to bring other men around their child like the child/children is a trophy to another man… 🤦🏽‍♂️
@lewis20002000
@lewis20002000 6 ай бұрын
Well when you decide to have a child with someone that never provided, supported, have no resources, no job, anf never wanted a child,,,,well that bad choice of the other parent isn't much help to keep if she is going to have two people to take care of. My sister was in the same situation, so was one of my ex's. Have a baby for a bun, pookie or ray ray doesn't turn him into a helping parent all of a subben.
@Lanipsey2pacrunLA
@Lanipsey2pacrunLA 6 ай бұрын
Yep and I am a man
@Justjackson7
@Justjackson7 6 ай бұрын
And the crazy part is there not going to hold themselves accountable for the bad decisions they made there going to blame it on men
@tommypearson9260
@tommypearson9260 6 ай бұрын
@@lewis20002000 Women will flip on you even if you're not broke. It's in their nature to cause chaos.
@SupernovaX72
@SupernovaX72 6 ай бұрын
Her nails and toenails 😂🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️ If she can’t handle a toddler wait until her child is a teenager. This age is a cakewalk .
@unarmeduim2150
@unarmeduim2150 6 ай бұрын
she is complaining about cleaning. I believe our generation was not ready for the "real world" in the household
@nancyj795
@nancyj795 6 ай бұрын
Begs the question: Why is she a single mother? It's the worst financial decision a person can make for one.
@DivestedConfessions
@DivestedConfessions 6 ай бұрын
Because they expect their girlfriends aunties, cousins, and everybody to sacrifice
@leelohaskin7941
@leelohaskin7941 6 ай бұрын
​@@DivestedConfessionsor they expect that somehow they'll be different form the hundreds of thousands of not millions of women whose lives went the same way afterwards, she thinks she got a prize and that she'll keep him
@common_sense1567
@common_sense1567 6 ай бұрын
@@nancyj795 Why does everyone assume she chose that? Do you ever think the man left?
@nancyj795
@nancyj795 6 ай бұрын
@@common_sense1567 Probabilities strongly favor that he did. That begs another question. Actually, it answers one: why are AA at the bottom of the socioeconomic ladder.
@Beckonor
@Beckonor 6 ай бұрын
She choose Chad/Tyrone and got used. She should have chosen the nerdy, lowkey guys from the start.
@jnicemint
@jnicemint 6 ай бұрын
Thats not “crying”. That’s her survival technique.😒
@IDK3000-zb6bc
@IDK3000-zb6bc 6 ай бұрын
FACTS! She did this because a SIMP will find her
@Boseman7
@Boseman7 6 ай бұрын
Where Dat man at?? I don't feel bad because unless you or forced.You are a single mother by choice
@fudgematthew33
@fudgematthew33 6 ай бұрын
This is why men shouldn't sign up to be stepfathers. These single mothers aren't looking for love; they're looking for help.
@antoinepowell649
@antoinepowell649 6 ай бұрын
This is what happens when there no leader in your family
@reggiehammond6508
@reggiehammond6508 6 ай бұрын
My momma and grandma always say If a woman has a baby and she wants to go workout, party, need a baby sitter, and cry about not having time to herself she should have not had a baby
@Jamaine678
@Jamaine678 6 ай бұрын
I almost guarantee she has made the parenting situation toxic
@SlavicChic3
@SlavicChic3 5 ай бұрын
Learning that you are a girl dad explains a lot about the content you make and what you are trying to do and that is admirable
@Soloman_1800
@Soloman_1800 6 ай бұрын
I guarantee you that she will go back to her baby daddy and get pregnant by him second time and make another crying video in the car again smh
@RaySmith79
@RaySmith79 6 ай бұрын
Life is life, you will get over it.
@4macsproductions171
@4macsproductions171 6 ай бұрын
Self afflicted, & feel sorry!
@dartsiwinellis1976
@dartsiwinellis1976 6 ай бұрын
When she smoothed her hair and eyebrows while being so distraught, I couldn't believe this was all genuine. Social media.🙄
@macky1847
@macky1847 6 ай бұрын
I didn't see one tear drop, just whining loudly.
@dario7071
@dario7071 6 ай бұрын
Shot out to all the late night/early morning folks up grinding.
@TerranceTaylor777
@TerranceTaylor777 6 ай бұрын
Trucker gang! 🚛🚛🚛
@ericaphiladelphia9149
@ericaphiladelphia9149 6 ай бұрын
I am married. I absolutely cannot do whatever I want. I work and gotta work with my husband and his schedule to do things outside of work.
@kolboy757
@kolboy757 6 ай бұрын
If he ain’t an abuser, habitual cheater, or an addict she needs to go back to that man.
@TheTRADMOM
@TheTRADMOM 5 ай бұрын
Awesome advice.
@kolboy757
@kolboy757 5 ай бұрын
@@TheTRADMOM glad you agree
@goodgameproductionsllc
@goodgameproductionsllc 6 ай бұрын
The "other party" "complaining" that you're not being nice to them. That part was telling.💯💯
@rojo1124
@rojo1124 6 ай бұрын
???? I'm married and stay at home and you do have to sacrifice for your children. You brought the child in the world and the children need you. How you are comfortable giving ur children to strangers is foreign to me. It's normal for a child to want to be with you, especially if they are with strangers while you are at work all day. That's just how it works. There will come a time when they wont want to be with you and they wont have the proper attachment because they have been pawned off on others all their life. I dont get to do a lot because I'm a mother and I'm married. I made plenty of money, went to college, got my hair, nails, had a personal trainer, got massages, went out to eat at nice restaurants etc before I had children. That has all stopped, but it's been replaced with spending time with my beautiful family and traveling together as a family. Selfishness has had to go out the window. Now I focus on my family and have to keep myself up myself. My husband and my children come before me all the time because that's my role. Embrace it and be the best you can at it. Your children will benefit from it and ur family should be worth it.
@krisluvskev
@krisluvskev 6 ай бұрын
👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏 Love what you said. Your story is mine. My husband and I made the decision that once we started having children, I would stay home with them, and 5 years after we married and was more financially secure, we bought a home and started having children. Do I miss the free time I use to have sure sometimes, but I honestly can say I wouldn't trade this time with my family for all the money in the world. One day when our children are older I may go back to work who knows but for now my life is my kids and my husband and nothing, NOTHING is more important than that fact.
@LOLZHAHANOTFUNNY
@LOLZHAHANOTFUNNY 6 ай бұрын
I'm a brand new stay at home mom, literally a month ago I delivered our second child and it's time for me to resign. I needed to hear this pep talk because it will be easy to feel like my sacrifices aren't appreciated by society. But I know my little family needs and wants me just the way I am. I just need to be secure in my choice and thank God and my husband every day for this life.
@rhianna871
@rhianna871 6 ай бұрын
I just went back to work after being a sahm for 4 years. All of the responsibility of raising my children fell on me, of course aside from my husband playing with them after work and disciplining them. These women just don’t understand that being a mother is a 24/7/365 sacrifice. Your life is not about you anymore. She is crying about not being able to workout in a gym and get her nails done which are not necessities. There were things that I just couldn’t prioritize over my children because I was not going to dump them off on my mother because she did not birth them.
@rhianna871
@rhianna871 6 ай бұрын
@@LOLZHAHANOTFUNNY You are absolutely making the right choice. Most people do not understand and are convinced that sahms just sit at home looking pretty, eating Bon-Bons like Peg Bundy 🤣, but I know personally that is not true at all. God bless you and your family.
@laura4love111
@laura4love111 6 ай бұрын
Good point. Theres a difference here though you are married and have a husband to help you. He pays the bills. Imagine he left and you were doing it all on your own.
@StillCRob
@StillCRob 6 ай бұрын
He doesn't wanna be with strangers, he just wants to be with me... umm, that's normal
@akilahbrooklyn8236
@akilahbrooklyn8236 6 ай бұрын
The child is spoiled, something she did subconsciously, without being aware that over-coddling her child was going to lead to permanent codependency. My mother was a housewife. We were never spoiled, nor did we create 'dramatic' scenes of codependency when we were being watched by other family members.
@23WarinWest-El
@23WarinWest-El 6 ай бұрын
The outcome of short-term thinking. That's the difference between adults and children. Adults are long-term thinkers.
@uncle_ben_rices_nephew
@uncle_ben_rices_nephew 6 ай бұрын
I don’t understand. Why don’t majority of these women put these children up for adoption if they’re going to have them and then not want them over time?
@DivestedConfessions
@DivestedConfessions 6 ай бұрын
Because they expect the village also known as the women in their lives to dedicate their resources & time to help them raise their mistake
@bloodyredpill3027
@bloodyredpill3027 6 ай бұрын
@@DivestedConfessions🤣🤣🤣🤣💯💯💯💯
@tottryship5608
@tottryship5608 6 ай бұрын
Exactly. Women do not have to struggle like that. The issue is most people don't talk about that option. It's actually looked down upon for women.
@donnellevanhorn99
@donnellevanhorn99 6 ай бұрын
Food stamps,Housing,Playin games with the father, Controlling the situation,The list can go on n on,The real question is y have the child n the 1 st place
@Fabrizio7171
@Fabrizio7171 6 ай бұрын
@@DivestedConfessionsa thousand percent.
@anonymousgirl799
@anonymousgirl799 6 ай бұрын
Once they are here, they are here. I never wanted kids. I feel bad for babies and children, born under these circumstances to lousy parents.
@Tre38843
@Tre38843 6 ай бұрын
BUT WHY AREN’T THE MEN WITH ALL THE SWAG AND DRIP💧NOT HELPING THESE SINGLE MOTHERS THEY CREATED? 🤔🤔
@alphabogeyman7462
@alphabogeyman7462 6 ай бұрын
Bad boys don't stay with women, they 'hit it and quit it'.
@LembeckIsStaying
@LembeckIsStaying 6 ай бұрын
That's right up there with "why is water wet" and other cosmic questions.
@yayhayes
@yayhayes 6 ай бұрын
They ain’t shit
@GoatHolyfield
@GoatHolyfield 6 ай бұрын
I guess having "swag" has nothing to do with being a good father 😂
@formula112967
@formula112967 6 ай бұрын
'BUT WHY AREN’T THE MEN WITH ALL THE SWAG AND DRIP NOT HELPING THESE SINGLE MOTHERS THEY CREATED?' Have you heard the old saying 'Alpha fucks, beta bucks'?
@Kratos-of-Winterfell
@Kratos-of-Winterfell 6 ай бұрын
*Sets up camera. “Test, test. Okay.” *Hits record. “Being a single mother is so hard.”
@zerofuqs
@zerofuqs 6 ай бұрын
Play Glocktavius games, win Glocktavius prizes
@hardno123
@hardno123 6 ай бұрын
cga would be proud
@Coventry_Kiers_1984
@Coventry_Kiers_1984 6 ай бұрын
Coach Gang.
@Coventry_Kiers_1984
@Coventry_Kiers_1984 6 ай бұрын
@@hardno123Coach Gang!
@FreeKekistann
@FreeKekistann 6 ай бұрын
😂 love CGAs glocktavious name
@unc1221
@unc1221 6 ай бұрын
@@hardno123I came up with that on his stream but cool.
@Happy-ey6yu
@Happy-ey6yu 6 ай бұрын
I appreciate her honesty. I use videos like this as evidence when idiots ask me why I will never ruin my life for a man by having his child.
@yakman8681
@yakman8681 6 ай бұрын
Workout at home? It’s not that hard, and significantly easier for women most of the time.
@Soloman_1800
@Soloman_1800 6 ай бұрын
She wants other men’s attention fam smh
@rhianna871
@rhianna871 6 ай бұрын
Then there would be no point in the tied up shirt and tight shorts 🤣
@GoatHolyfield
@GoatHolyfield 6 ай бұрын
But how can she called men creeps if she workout at home
@Mamboouhhh12
@Mamboouhhh12 6 ай бұрын
I’m a Childfree man. Stuff like this is the reason why I don’t want to be a parent, people these days don’t stay together. Also, if our parents had problems they didn’t make it known to the public. I’ll leave it at this I take fatherhood seriously I don’t want to do it.
@636racer
@636racer 6 ай бұрын
she not even crying though, just talking in that high pitched voice
@NajaRants
@NajaRants 6 ай бұрын
Don't forget, not one single tear
@officialmfast
@officialmfast 6 ай бұрын
Everyday society shows me how strong my mom’s is and she had 3 with absent fathers.
@formula112967
@formula112967 6 ай бұрын
Can I guess what color you are?
@officialmfast
@officialmfast 6 ай бұрын
@@formula112967 yes
@SusanDerrick
@SusanDerrick 6 ай бұрын
I don't understand why you're bragging about it. Laying down with multiple men without marriage is nothing to be proud of.
@officialmfast
@officialmfast 6 ай бұрын
@@SusanDerrick she was married lol
@TheTRADMOM
@TheTRADMOM 5 ай бұрын
My mom had 7 of us-we all have the same father. Never a complaint. I have 5 humans, 3 with ex-husband and 2 with my current 11 years as of today, relationship and life is as beautiful as we make it together.
@ButHearMeOutTho
@ButHearMeOutTho 6 ай бұрын
since we got rid of sex before marriage, can we at least practice safe sex before marriage? SOMETHING.
@cjfrm3658
@cjfrm3658 6 ай бұрын
We haven't get rid of sex before marriage it's only tolerate in the West
@cjfrm3658
@cjfrm3658 6 ай бұрын
We haven't get rid of sex before marriage it's only tolerate in the West
@johnlawful2272
@johnlawful2272 6 ай бұрын
Sex education in school needs to come back
@cjfrm3658
@cjfrm3658 6 ай бұрын
@@johnlawful2272 What does that have with anything
@StevenSipes-y8u
@StevenSipes-y8u 6 ай бұрын
God bless you bro you been married for 20 years you are a blessing you and your wife keep preaching the truth brother even if they don’t want to hear it I’m proud of you and your wife.
@SedSays
@SedSays 6 ай бұрын
I can’t take crying videos seriously. How are you so upset but fixing your hair at the same time 😂😂
@obi.shinobi
@obi.shinobi 5 ай бұрын
🎶 you let him hit it raw, you didn't have second thought . . . Now you a single mom, now you a single mom"
@10di_livefree
@10di_livefree 6 ай бұрын
Rita is just always chilling 😂😂😂… Love it ❤️. Basking in her femininity. 😊
@illuminated_crown
@illuminated_crown 6 ай бұрын
That's the life good women have. Life is easier for them.
@itächiundrwrld777
@itächiundrwrld777 6 ай бұрын
Delusion
@sir1junior
@sir1junior 6 ай бұрын
🎶 You Let Him Hit It Raw... 🎶
@godsownson2469
@godsownson2469 6 ай бұрын
What Baffles me is that,this woman actually think people care about her problems? I hate to break it to her that " NOBODY CARES " deal with it
@cedg5634
@cedg5634 6 ай бұрын
Man we all dealing with something that's why it pays to keep your mistakes to a minimum instead of having to putthem off on other ppl.
@keokpala8562
@keokpala8562 6 ай бұрын
Right she need to know this;only ppl in her position or looking for attention on tik tok will fall for her nonsense.
@common_sense1567
@common_sense1567 6 ай бұрын
@@godsownson2469 You’re right, NOBODY CARES and that’s the #1 problem here.
@donmarleymall
@donmarleymall 5 ай бұрын
"Oh when the simps...come marching in....oh when the simps come marching in.😅😂
@STeroidsnicca
@STeroidsnicca Ай бұрын
O how I’m proud to not be in that number.
@ToddToTheBlack
@ToddToTheBlack 6 ай бұрын
Now how bet a great dude wants to date her, open to being a step dad, has his finances together, and she rejects him because she only dates "6 ft and over only".....
@snotice12
@snotice12 6 ай бұрын
"You let him hit it raw..."
@johnspann7240
@johnspann7240 6 ай бұрын
It's called being a parent sweetheart.
@candycrusher2024
@candycrusher2024 6 ай бұрын
Give the boy to his father
@fudgematthew33
@fudgematthew33 6 ай бұрын
She's gotta find him first.
@GoatHolyfield
@GoatHolyfield 6 ай бұрын
She can't pookie won't answer her calls😂
@fudgematthew33
@fudgematthew33 6 ай бұрын
@@GoatHolyfield you know he's got her blocked.
@mavrickwatts4030
@mavrickwatts4030 6 ай бұрын
This is a self inflicted wound and I see lots of women JUST LIKE THIS on my timeline with the same sentiments. She wasn't ready to be a mother, didn't pick her mate correctly, and now she's suffering for it. *Cut scene to single mother dating which will be it's own mess and another video from her.
@kengtachala1867
@kengtachala1867 6 ай бұрын
He shouldnt be with strangers!!!
@josephdouglas3399
@josephdouglas3399 6 ай бұрын
🤔 they're strong and independent, and educated, and equal to Men, and don't need no man, and their the mother and the father on Father's Day and mother's Day. and don't nobody be telling them what to do, they'll be all right. 🤔
@yawaydatruth6595
@yawaydatruth6595 6 ай бұрын
Listen speaking from experience leave them alone let them go back to bby daddy and work that ish out! You will lose everything if you deal with them long enough.
@Cafe_Es_Bueno
@Cafe_Es_Bueno 6 ай бұрын
Her child not being use to being with strangers... It can happen. However, as a parent its up to you to teach them better. Your child cant be with you 100% of the time. Fathers will set tones of stop babying your children.
@jokerdadon1405
@jokerdadon1405 6 ай бұрын
Gotta pick better partners to have kids with
@elstonkidd6494
@elstonkidd6494 6 ай бұрын
The situation is real, the tears are not. She cried, got over it, now keep going
@reddirtprincess
@reddirtprincess 6 ай бұрын
Not sure of her situation, but maybe being nicer to the other party and coming up with a system might help. Healthy coparenting situations do exist.
@lewis20002000
@lewis20002000 6 ай бұрын
My father married my mom when she got pregnant with me. No one is going to stop you from helping and/or supporting you child if you REALLY want to. FULL STOP.
@MomoTheDisciple
@MomoTheDisciple 6 ай бұрын
@@lewis20002000 Nah. I had a pregnancy scare once and offered to marry the woman and get us an apartment and she was talking crazy and wanted to be a single mom despite her being jobless and living in her dad's house in a different state. Some women cannot be helped and cannot be saved.
@lewis20002000
@lewis20002000 6 ай бұрын
@@MomoTheDisciple I understand, but those two guys in my story were just living off the women. The ex waned to marry me, but I was like WTF, I am not giving up my ability to move at my will for someone else's child. My sister moved on, but leaned her lesson. The guy died in a shot out.
@lacboiatl
@lacboiatl 6 ай бұрын
3:59 how you left her on pause is hilarious bro 🤣 😂 💀 😭 😆
@MrCaliyo
@MrCaliyo 6 ай бұрын
It's called being an adult 😅
@djaftermath4313
@djaftermath4313 6 ай бұрын
Consequences and trade-offs
@Nitty1st
@Nitty1st 6 ай бұрын
That’s How WE cry in Child Support Court 😢
@Godschosen537
@Godschosen537 6 ай бұрын
You made the choice to have a child. She just want to hang out and be loose.
@ItsMike81
@ItsMike81 6 ай бұрын
She needs to get with his Dad and get a custody agreement plan together so she can share the responsibilities of parenting time.
@formula112967
@formula112967 6 ай бұрын
They probably already discussed it, and she found out that 50/50 parenting would cease her fat bloated child support checks, and that put an end to that discussion.
@IntelligentInsights876
@IntelligentInsights876 6 ай бұрын
What a little girl.
@redplanetphotography2567
@redplanetphotography2567 6 ай бұрын
Modern women pick men horribly. 😮
@bootscooty
@bootscooty 6 ай бұрын
Most modern men are trash
@dancleary4101
@dancleary4101 6 ай бұрын
@@bootscooty that’s funny then why do we marry at a 30% higher rate than you?
@jimbobfisher8904
@jimbobfisher8904 6 ай бұрын
And expect us to feel bad and boohoo when they get what they deserve, passing up Mr right every chance they get 😂
@DexterBoyz1984
@DexterBoyz1984 6 ай бұрын
Who’s watching her kid now while she’s fake crying on the internet?
@_Kemi
@_Kemi 6 ай бұрын
She has a KZbin channel as well. I believe the father of her child was ‘abusive’ in some form and it got to the point she no longer felt safe around him. So she ended the relationship based off of that. She documents a lot but also doesn’t necessarily give all of the details.
@tyronelorenzovalentio3414
@tyronelorenzovalentio3414 6 ай бұрын
What’s her name
@tasham1673
@tasham1673 6 ай бұрын
The baby is so attached to her because she's mom but also maybe traumatized from abuse. They can't communicate by talking yet but can still feel and see. It don't sound like he has structure and his mom needs to get help spiritually and emotionally
@_Kemi
@_Kemi 6 ай бұрын
@@tyronelorenzovalentio3414 Caitlyn Brooke is her YT channel name.
@jasonhenry573
@jasonhenry573 6 ай бұрын
Allegedly
@deeLX11
@deeLX11 6 ай бұрын
*Speaking on behalf of the committee of Men. We do not care. Call his daddy. Not the Internet.*
@jihadkarriem3626
@jihadkarriem3626 6 ай бұрын
It only gets harder No compassion for her
@JLoOnTheTrackVP
@JLoOnTheTrackVP 6 ай бұрын
The Patreon Meet-Up was so lit 🔥🔥 Really great vibe, and it was great meeting you, Anton and everyone else! This is Javaris Logan #jloonthetrack
@whiteranger79
@whiteranger79 6 ай бұрын
How is there no 1 that willing to help? 🤔. Plenty of single mom to learn from! There plenty of them around you
@SusanDerrick
@SusanDerrick 6 ай бұрын
Yeah, that's the damn problem. There are too many single moms.
@BlackBiker1017
@BlackBiker1017 6 ай бұрын
I don't feel sorry for her... She made a decision now you deal with it... She's probably a nice woman but the rules don't change.
@smitht1988
@smitht1988 6 ай бұрын
I guarantee the father is someone she didn’t know and didn’t vet to make her mother let alone someone who didn’t care to make her a wife before making her a mother. This is why so many single successful men stay away from them because we see the poor decision making and reckless impulse behavior that single mothers engage in. We don’t need or want that in our lives.
@howardmighty6764
@howardmighty6764 6 ай бұрын
This is what they asked for.
@Rose-xc7wz
@Rose-xc7wz 6 ай бұрын
I was a single mom for 13 years. Yes it sucked but that is what you sign up for when you have a kid without being married. Grow up. She had help. I had day care for work and did the rest on my own. I screwed up a lot but I did what I had to.
@IWearACrown
@IWearACrown 6 ай бұрын
You can’t run the streets or even really date as a single parent with a teen at home. As a parent , you will feel guilty for always leaving them at home
@Rose-xc7wz
@Rose-xc7wz 6 ай бұрын
@IWearACrown That is how it is. There are consequences for decisions and most people these days aren't ready to take the consequences for those decisions they just want to do what they want and have no repercussions for them. That isn't life.
@justenbray
@justenbray 6 ай бұрын
No Tears
@rebelwithacause2229
@rebelwithacause2229 6 ай бұрын
She can do her own nails and toes to save money. 🙄 yes, it’s nice to have it done at the spa, but adulting requires sacrifices.
@lucki4mac
@lucki4mac 6 ай бұрын
Poor Single Mom...What a Shame...Such a Rant.🙄
@Charles_Muamba
@Charles_Muamba 6 ай бұрын
No one cares.
@ThatDude-vw7ge
@ThatDude-vw7ge 6 ай бұрын
i just feel bad for the kids
@rellcity11
@rellcity11 6 ай бұрын
U can workout at home
@benhu509
@benhu509 6 ай бұрын
Minimum requirement to date her: gotta be over 6ft have a six pack, make over $150k, drive a Mercedes and allow her go clubbing with her girlfriends.
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