I'm a 10 but... | Episode 60

[@winniemaina9952]

It's literally almost impossible to not love Murugi. I mean the gentleness and vulnerability and attentiveness as she listens before responding to Lyd is just 🥺. Definitely a 10!

[@belindarotich9232]

I agree Winnie I agree she's a force

[@fardosaali2818]

I totally agree. She’s an absolute 10!

[@lorrecco]

Lydia's make-up and entire look is really giving😍!

[@salomekamau5380]

Fire!!!

[@janetbungei5]

It's my favourite look !!!! It's giving everything!!!!

[@joycembuthia4694]

Lydia and Murugi deserve a TV show, If only Kenya could empower its citizens.

[@joykamene302]

Thank you ladies for being vulnerable with us, Imma share mine too! I'm a 10, but only talk about my issues after I have successfully solved them, I don't like asking for help/being vulnerable. Also a 10, but ghost people when feeling overwhelmed.

[@marykinyanjui5045]

This is me totally

[@lisakigenda1859]

Joy Kamene...I relate because sammmeee. To make it worse, I see no problem solving other people's issues but when it comes to mine...lemme sink solo. Eiii God help us!

[@nyaradhiambo]

Same

[@carolinemakena7243]

Wow! So me

[@christabelkendi522]

twiiiiiins

[@christinemunjiru1272]

I totally relate to you in terms of being an emotional wreck and also being afraid of my potential. I am highly intelligent and very much aware of my potential but i self- sabotage from a place of never feeling the need to prove anything to the world. I choose normal and simple because knowing more than others makes you lonely. My general persona and aura attracts and intimidates people without me even trying and i minimize myself alot just to avoid feeling like a threat to others. When it comes to emotions am a rollercoaster, i feel insanely deep it hurts...This episode means alot to me😊

[@Wabi_Sabi_]

I can totally relate, and the worst part is that others see the potential and try to sabotage it, and being seen as a constant threat is scary sometimes

[@jayneakinyi1992]

Totally relate.am highly intelligent, I intimidate alot of my potentials sometimes I just resort to staying too calm and now am boring so I end up lonely. Emotionally, am a whole wreck.

[@Taaa753]

Gosh, you just said exactly how I feel. Especially on intimidating people without even doing anything, now I think what if I do something what will happen they are already intimidated,. Gosh! Self sabotage. Definitely working on it

[@joymtenzi2646]

God I can totally relate

[@nasikekisiangani]

you describe my life word for word

[@liliynimohh7344]

"So attached to the outcome that's why you have to control every present moment.." That hit home

[@wanjikumelody]

In this episode Lydia is actually Murugi's marriage counselor 🤗

[@DorisNjeru24]

This is the video I never thought I needed. Especially when murugi mentions she's impatient and quick to anger!!! I've been struggling with this for the longest time.

[@millionairess9680]

You guys are a 10 for providing free therapy. I’m also a task oriented person, I like to get things done yesterday, while my husband is a tomorrow guy. Drove me crazy for a while but we are both finally at today…well most of the time.

[@wawiragichobi6141]

Girl I feel you sigh

[@bethgathoni1434]

I feel like Lyd is offering me free counseling session as I listen to her. This episode is both entertaining and enlightening. Ladies, keep the wonderful job! You are both definitely 10s in my books! 🙂

[@faithkhaemba6161]

So much wisdom here .That 50% mothering thing is my take home for today.

[@graceguya1682]

I am a 10 but I am afraid of my own potential. So relatable and deep. For me, its more of Im a 10 but I am not doing enough to rescue myself from a toxic mentally, and physically draining situation

[@alphamaxwell6753]

Everytime I listen to Lyd, she feels deeper than ever before!

[@lydiakyomaasiimwe2384]

This episode was therapy to me (took notes) 🤕. I will definitely come back to watch it again because it's too much to digest in one go. DEEP STUFF! Babes receive your flowers for a job welldone 💐

[@KaydeeErryern]

The talking part is true, I often see women speaking over their men. What I realized with my dad and older brother is that men speak differently than we do. They may start to speak then go silent, not because they are done talking but because they are processing what to say next. At this point, the woman assumes that he is done talking and goes on a rant. Then the poor guy is never actually able to speak his mind. This is one area that we as women need to be very mindful of. Anyway, this was a great video, enjoyed it as always.

[@thegodlyprincess_kenya]

First and foremost this was high value episode ❤️❤️rated 100/100. I love real and relatable content and Lydia tried to be slightly open in this episode too so congratulations Lydia👏🎉😂For Murugi real tea is always very expected from her😂😂. Zero filters. Anyway I am not even surprised at your weaknesses because I am rowing in the same damn boat with y'all infact I am the pilot of the boat😂and yho! We shall overcome. Women become better with age just like wine that's why grandmothers have perfect emotions, zero anxiety and everything is possible in their world because they have seen it all. We shall get there too. For now we live in the ghetto one day at a time. For todays TMI it was so triggering😂if my husband makes my life miserable like that after having a baby, I don't know what will become of me. Anyway, we'll cross the bridge when we get there😂 Cheers ladies now I have to wait for next Wednesday again😭

[@foodieonabudget4037]

These babes are definitely 10's . Inspired me to start my channel ❤️

[@flomaish9814]

I hope Lydia comes back and watches this episode, she was speaking to her future circumstances without even knowing it, the universe has a way of showing up for you even before time reveals itself.

[@rosekanyutu856]

Lydia’s makeup 😍😍😍😍

[@TheMajestiQFamily]

Lyd:I am a 10 but I am afraid of my own potential..I can relate 1000% woi kwanza the self sabotage

[@evawacu7712]

"The affirmation is amazing when you already know it, but a need if you don't" Lydia the wise one

[@estherkamau4193]

I love how Joan asked Lydia (how can I help) shows that she cares 😊

[@nashenesamo3681]

I have never been this consistent. I have never missed an episode. Thank you Murugi and Lydia for sharing your wisdom. Much love and success.

[@beatricesloan7063]

I can relate with Lydia about being sorry for existing, I am working to stop being sorry for everything. Love the conversation .

[@richauntie316]

This is why I have written affirmations on my mirrors and door way,to remind myself of my worth with or without the outsider's say .

[@lynnetirungu3021]

I really felt Lydia when she said she is afraid of her own potential. I have found myself self sabotaging aloot too....but I'm really learning to get away from that in all aspects of my life.

[@SeeShells79]

When Lydia said she is just waiting for the *pop* I laughed! I know that feeling. After 7 minutes my hips feel dislocated 😂

[@puritiepeters1998]

😂😂😂the accuracy

[@puritiepeters1998]

Also 7 minutes is too long 😂😂

[@sophiegathio4566]

Lydia looking good .please keep your recent make up artist she is doing a good job..and the wig looks so good on you..like an African Goddess

[@pearlowen5130]

I agree with Murugi that sometimes periods have an effect on the digestive system.

[@faithnairuko7351]

Me too.... especially day 1

[@fatmanasir6691]

Hey TMI. It's been a minute. Been offline, reinventing myself. Lyd, your eyes today are an eye sore. Murugi Team, I'm usually cautious when something good is on the horizon.This comes from a place of a lot of let downs&self sabotage. I'm a 10, too nice, self destructive. Especially when I'm at the peak of things. I know I am , but spiralling downhill. Lyd , you got it, BANG.!! That never ending hole.That is filled by just GOD&YOURSELF. You're deeep today. This pod cast is LIT.

[@vivwamocho5271]

I just voted for you guys in the pulse Kenya awards on the best in KZbin and Podcast influencers of the year and we are winning 🎉🎉❤️I also voted for Murugi Munyi as the Instagram influencer of the year...na ujibu dm yangu aki

[@bayhaedavile1495]

Have been listening through Google podcasts lakini with Murugi's expression lemme switch to KZbin 🤣🤣

[@maureenk5969]

I’m a 10 but I never sit to celebrate my wins I move on to the next ..but I wobble in my failures…

[@nishimwemahano1575]

Lydia is sooo smart ❤️❤️

[@silverwanjira]

Murugi I'm so happy you mentioned that first point,I'm a ten too but always ready to end it all and I don't recognize how long I took to build it..lol

[@audrey_chebet]

That starttttt, Lyd you are dramatic😂, We could see how Murugi was clenching. The shock in her eyesssss, yooohhhh. Okay, lemme now go watch the episode. Am sure I will loveeeee it. An avid Queen-betweener here

[@matildasang1138]

This was so refreshing to watch!! Both of you are a strong ten!!!!

[@dharmachanel565]

Hey ladies. I MUST commend both of you for literally unraveling your personalities under ' the lens' !!! This is so bold of you. I really loved the insights you have all shared on this particular episode touching on all the juicy adulthood topics that we sometimes shy away from. They will go a long way in empowering us to live a conscious life with the intention of becoming better. Cheers to the imperfect 10s that most of us are. So here I go...I totally relate with Lydia on: Am a 10 but I am terrified of my potential. also trying to shed off the habit of apologizing about anything and I can also relate with Murugi...wanting to do it ALL when better half seems to be slacking! Lydia has humbled us with the "Mothering" reference. Cheers to more fulfilling content...and you ladies look totally BOMB! I totally admire your connection...you are effortlessly in-sync with each other. Kudos!

[@thoughtsofgertrude8163]

This felt like a therapy session.😊 Thank you ladies.

[@audrey_chebet]

Myyyyy GOD. Heeeeeeehhhh. First of all, it's me lying to myself that i'll just watch maybe half the episode as I have my lunch, "when have you been able to do that ma'aaammm? Huuummmhhhh?" Anyway, safe to say, another episode that I thoroughly enjoyed and one that am for sure coming back to at least 3 times. I could relate so much with the "struggles" from both of you goddesses and now I have a date with myself to call me out so that I can actively start working on them. Okay, lemme get back to what I was meant to doing. Love you ladies😍😍

[@masentlelekwala9241]

You guys are just good for my soul..cant wait for the south Africa live podcast tour#manifasting.

[@RozzieKaruri]

Lydia, you are a natural "Therapist" !!!! That answer to Murugu on affirmation is out of this world ! So on point!

[@janetbungei5]

This is my most favourite of Lydia's facebeat 😍😍b This video gives us a moment of self introspection, because we all that a bag of chips a dip on the side. Regardless we learn to accept who are and try to adjust the crown where it can.

[@Sharon_Njoki.M]

Period farts belong to 1000 ways to die 😩 so Murugi it's not strange. We're still a 10 I hope 🥴

[@susannjonjo]

period farts kwanza preceded by rectal spasms usijaribu kuachilia in public 😂😂

[@susannjonjo]

problem is they're relieving 🤣

[@Sharon_Njoki.M]

🤣🤣 well put sista 🤌🏾

[@beloncekamz2821]

Lyd: I am a 10 but I'm afraid of my own potential",hiyo imeguza ndani ya roho🤦🏿‍♀️. Yes to VALIDATING OURSELVES😍 🔊🔊. Murugi's hair😍🔥

[@lindelwamsibi6540]

Y'all are a 10🎊🎊🎊💯🔥 top tier content all the time....100k is around the corner

[@gloriaacan9005]

Hi T.M.I, I loved this😊Mine is I'm a 10 but my default answer to any help I'm offered is no thank you, recently a friend kept insisting and it was at that point that it hit me how easily no rolls off my tongue when someone is trying to help. I'm rewiring and going on a challenge the rest of this month to say yes to help I'm offered at the first ask. It is going well so far and it is so interesting for me to catch myself about to say no and switch quickly to a yes please!

[@everlynemuriuki5466]

Murugi 7 minutes is a lot🙆....teach us your ways babe

[@sallymumba8595]

After 5 minutes am asking babe are you about to pop hahahaha🙈

[@alivizahhomely]

Difference between trauma and intuition. Wow, thanks ladies 🥰🥰🥰🥰

[@puritymburu79]

I'm a 10 but I've actually realized that when my relationship ends I'm always quick to replace him But I'm working on that I'm working on myself , so that I do not have to tolerate bullshit from my next partner More of I'm working on myself , for my future self

[@njerilaura7019]

Omg!😭 We need a watsapp group

[@Daisy-Ke]

This is exactly me since I became an adult.

[@puritymburu79]

@@Daisy-Ke good thing now we know better 🥺To love ourselves and put ourselves first ❤️

[@eberelilian7790]

This!🥺

[@RhodaAsande]

Between all the episodes and all the comments one thing I know is all my emotions and and feelings are valid and it makes me feel safe to see that on this boat I'm not alone!!you are all feeling the same way!!!wow 🥰 I just love this channel!

[@wendywangarew6379]

Almost broke my leg running to KZbin! This episode is not only funny but also brings about the aspect of being self aware

[@veronicawanjiku2715]

I feel so good after watching this! You guys are therapy itself 😍😍

[@livingrural_ke]

Girrrrlllls, you guys are two breaths of fresh air. Am 45 and you always make my days 😇

[@HeyPhonsi]

True Lydia says sorry all the time. For everything and anything. I thought I was the only one who noticed it.

[@slymwende_17]

Me too,I noticed kitambo

[@queensleyeghianruwa811]

I'm a 10 but I live with a mortal fear of running mad and being locked in an asylum

[@_jolissa_m]

About the difference between the trauma response and intuition, I agree with Lydia. My trauma response paralyzes me... I can't think of a better way to explain it but I can always tell... Intuition on the other hand feels pure...trusting.. I know that I can trust that this is right for me

[@salomekamau5380]

Khai Murugi...that is so me...that ending... confrontational...and the talking Lydia...Wooii, I am on my second comment and from now, I'm expressing restraint....

[@maggyjohn5643]

Btw i read somewhere that if you talk too much its the child in you trying to be heard,That means you never had enough attention when you were a child🤯🤯it was mind blowing for me coz its true

[@maggyjohn5643]

@@missashleyk33 Not everything is toxic, i said its true to me and mind blowing,thats why i wrote btw,it didn’t necessarily had to be applied to any of The TMI member

[@maggyjohn5643]

I talk a lot

[@marywanjiru6446]

I'm having my lunch at the office and Mukami is soo dramatic,That starting was everything

[@zuhuraminage1726]

I've learnt alooooot today...thank you for this episode babes💯

[@assum01]

The highlight of this episode was .......When Murugi asked Lyd how she can support her in dealing with her fear towards her potential....... This got me thinking of how many of us need to hear this same words coming from a genuine friend...........Murugi can be a great friend

[@yvonne355]

Im a 10 but lemmie tell you In betweeners , Im always on defence mode. Mimi mtu hawezi niambia anything if I know they're trying to dimine me or bully me ...or trying to come bad to either my sister's or my parents...Im loudest when it comes to fight for my rights...and it's so scary when around matatus or crowd of loud pple too....My mum don't like the character coz she says I might talk back to pple with anger issues and they might hurt me ....I'm working on it slowly thou... I'm I still a 10??

[@edinahkendi9871]

as long as you're trying to work on it..you still a 10 gurlll❤️❤️

[@rubyabuor646]

The moment when Joan asked how can I support you in that 🥺

[@miriammugo853]

I really felt it when Murugi spoke about being fast-paced . It is the bane of my existence.

[@esthermulu1229]

Ik ..I get triggered by slowness of other parties

[@RozzieKaruri]

This is my best episode yet! You guys are deep!

[@WakejiKamore1]

It's so scary how alike I am with Murugi... We are practically twins, apart from the period fart ... Hapo uko peke yako.. 😅😅😅😅

[@beatricemuringi4120]

Wow.... I resonated with Lydia when she says she is afraid of her own potential. For me it's not about having fewer pple at the top with me. It's that so much more will be demanded of me. "To whom much is given much is expected". I felt that so deeply. Coz there is so much that God has given to me and placed on my lap and I don't feel worthy of it all. So here I am sitting in self sabotage and imposter syndrome.

[@chikhuambali3737]

I’m here again😁,my first TMI video and I was hooked. So much love for you ladies ❤🥰

[@alanpierrers]

Lydia looks soo beautiful here, this make-up is living, even after these few years... consider redoing it!!!

[@irenek7032]

why am i laughing 2min after watching 😂😂...@.Joan ...am with you on this, when you hurt me we deal with that there and then i don't know how to move on...@Lydia have laughed so hard when you said you talk more than a normal person😂😂😂... don't worry gal we are twins sometimes i find have shared what i was not supposed to say🤦...the other day i was thinking maybe am single because i scare men away with my masculinity and this talking too much thing😂😂😂

[@shanizroselyn823]

I speak Lydia's baby into existence😂... Got excited for a minute 🤗

[@boitumelosephaka3702]

Very informative! Just loved this one.

[@faithnjoki1471]

Very emotional. Processing what I am feeling and thinking makes me feel like I am losing it. I'm a Pisces though so oh well, here we are. 😂

[@rachealmburu11]

I relate to being a 10 but afraid of my potential. I have this aura in me that gets me stealing the show every damn time I step in a room. There is this meeting I attend every Monday and I normally get lots of compliments. I normally feel bad about the people who come to the meeting and go without a compliment instead of being happy for the achievements I have. It's exhausting. I can't even celebrate my wins in peace

[@mwendenyaga91]

Have you tried getting some of these answers from yourself. 1. Do you get complimented for work you have done and achieved on your own? 2. Are you getting complimented for others work, like are you getting credit for other peoples work. 3. Do these compliments make you feel you are better than the rest of your team? 4. Why would you feel bad about you being complimented if you genuinely have this potential 5. How is your relationship with this team, you can imagine how they feel 😂 6. Do you love delegating duties or do you love doing everything on your own to get the said compliments. Perhaps these would help you navigate around your predicament. Love and light ❤️

[@esthermulu1229]

​@@mwendenyaga91u right...sis for a sis

[@njokibaraka9507]

YOU REALLY BLESS ME.❤❤

[@paulinewanjiku1746]

The best notification on Wednesday😍😍

[@deejaygatesh]

This episode was 💯🔥🔥the vulnerability the Connection Gaaadamn you did well TMI enjoyed 🥰

[@Buyeke]

My man also told me I give other people way more grace than I give him... I guess Murugi has a point and the balance should be to have boundaries that cut across. Wrong is wrong

[@tyembu]

That moment when they were questioning whether they talk on normal levels 😂😂😂😂.. I know what that feels like…

[@esthermulu1229]

Literally 😂I be talking to someone then out of nowhere I be like..." meenh I have talked alot ,,you talk" And the other party is like no... continue talking 😂😮

[@judithsunga1822]

Aww yeah I also say sorry all the time even when I shouldn’t be. But I hate when I say it when it wasn’t necessary

[@gracemumbi6219]

YES, PERIOD FARTS ARE POTENT! However, my diet greatly contributes to the intensity.

[@olgabianca8675]

Murugi munyi, my period farts and diarrhea are sooo bad you ain't alone

[@olphaonsare6030]

I never miss an episode. I love these two

[@isaacfarrow5373]

Thank you'll for being so open....

[@immaculategem]

The way this episode has called me out.. i did not see it coming 🤣🤣

[@gracethuku4555]

They say travel inwards. Dont always blame others..this is easy said than done..am an emotional wreck for sure..small thing am crying all over and my emotions have taken over..i relate with Jo on ending things..am an expert esp in friendships..i am working on it..what an episode

[@nashipaeharvey3560]

About fastness murugi I am with you I am that person I can't get to another thing if there's a pending thing damn it's difficult kwanza my hubby gets to me wooiii, 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️

[@kimberlyk2623]

The saying “sorry and it's ok” all the time is absolutely meee It definitely stems from people pleasing and not wanting to feel like an inconvenience

[@kirugarankatha]

Whoosh! 23:40 print Lydia's words on a t-shirt. Lyd you're so full of wisdom and I'm here for all of that and more.

[@carolynncarrie4882]

You guys are amazing I always keep on checking your page to see if you've posted Everytime

[@shaniceedah6163]

Lyd!!!!‼️for president 🙌🙌 she's so wise!!!!!

[@ednakiariethuku.mamasafi5480]

Loving the show. Hope to hear from murugi soonest

[@ruthmusau5190]

wooooow i have learnt alot from you gals....apo kwa *stop what yu doing and do what am saying* its me, the the masculine part i must improve

[@ndunge03]

Not me blushing and relating 🙄 Good stuff ladies😊

[@ndunge03]

Got a notebook midway😂😂

[@aggiemungai882]

The part for toning your feminine energy,I really want you to discuss more about it 🥺

[@salomekamau5380]

Murugi...it's true I noticed Lydia does that all the time, even to you when you two have opposing points. And you're not disagreeing but just having diabolically opposing views.

[@ceciliathamu7362]

I love u guys so much, I look forward to all ur new podcasts, I learn alot ❤️❤️❤️

[@wangecidason9107]

I'm also a Sorry Person Lyd and I love that about us

[@lilliankansiime]

I agree with Lydia on being a 10 and afraid of my potential 🙄🙄🙄. The self sabotage is not funny 😐, my fear of failure is real & intense. Thanks Murugi for the question 😘

[@richauntie316]

Same here lol it's scary

[@lilliankansiime]

@@richauntie316 we need to work on ourselves sis 🥰🥰🥰