TO ALL THE GIRLS (TATG) EP1 | THIS THING CALLED MARRIAGE

Hello D' Squad,
Welcome, to the very first episode of " To All The Girls" a series where us girls ​have honest, unscripted, real life conversations with my girls.
The aim is to express ourselves by sharing our individual experiences navigating life - expectations, disappointments, cultural biases and issues we all discuss in private group chats with our girlfriends.
I hope you enjoy this as much as I did!
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[@ZeeliciousFoods]

This conversation was everything!!!

[@Iamdodos]

Thanks boo

[@nhyira688owusuaa9]

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[@linnetmbotto7212]

I see you in many videos I watch... and I also follow your channel. Kinda have somethings in common sistergirl💁🏽‍♀️😜

[@Roselynoreoluwa]

The aesthetic guyss😍😍😍.. the color of everyone's outfit and hair just matches the aesthetic.. it was so calming🖤

[@Iamdodos]

Awww thanks so much

[@mesoa4032]

I noticed the monochrome dress code and I’m like it’s definitely Dodos. Love how different & real everyone’s views were

[@Iamdodos]

Hahaha funny enough everyone styled themselves lol, but yes there was a code *wink*

[@uzeziodharo6794]

Absolutely love that this conversation is from the perspective of women with different personalities and experiences. Weldone 👏🏾👏🏾

[@Iamdodos]

Yes because we are all so different and that’s the beauty of life, Glad you enjoyed it

[@oyindamolaadefehinti2162]

I love this vulnerable honest conversation, the dodos aesthetic, marriage is such a tiptoe topic in Nigeria and I love how you guys were brutally honest about it. I can’t wait for the other episodes.

[@Iamdodos]

Girl we really had to and there's much more where that came from, we'll go deeper in season 2

[@lotannaagbaegbu4238]

@@Iamdodos looking foward to season 2!!!!

[@wread12]

I love this! About time our young women stop thinking “Marriage” is everything!!!!

[@SeunOkimi]

I loved this. and goodness, you look so beautiful Dodos!!

[@Iamdodos]

Thanks so much hun 💚

[@abisodun]

I love this conversation, these are the kind of conversations i wish to have with my girls but I don't have a girl clique so this made me feel among. I was actually saying my thoughts out loud 🤣🤣

[@Iamdodos]

Lmaooo you got us babe

[@tshireletsoevechoma9046]

I absolutely loved every minute however there's a slight echo (I think individual mics would make it extra crisp) but it was overall awesome ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@Iamdodos]

Yes we actually had individual mics, something happened while editing bur next one will be better

[@nsudennenna7051]

Was going to say the same bit was an amazing conversation

[@tshireletsoevechoma9046]

@@nsudennenna7051 The slight echo can never take away the fact that it was an awesome conversation ❤️

[@adejumokemary5600]

This was soo fun to watch. Seeing Oroma on Instagram, I would never have imagined her as an open person. Very impressed at the way everyone shared the things we generally deem as personal. Derin also just climbed up my fave list.

[@chocolategbemz]

I don’t know why I felt like it wasn’t long enough. But I thoroughly enjoyed and I’m anticipating the next episode !

[@tomimebude8068]

The kind of content I want to see more of. Honest, vulnerable and clear. congratulations A, WELL DONE!

[@Iamdodos]

Thank you so much, I’m glad you enjoyed it

[@stephanieduru8701]

I love these raw conversations from women with different perspectives. I can't wait for the next episode honestly.

[@Iamdodos]

Thanks for watching

[@purplefaith.]

Issa whole production! Absolutely loved this conversation and I'm looking forward to the next. Well done!

[@Iamdodos]

Yaaay can’t wait too , it’s even lit

[@maryambenson5835]

Enjoyed this soo much 😍. The honesty, organic conservation.. love it!!

[@rivkuhcruz7127]

This conversation is really everything!!!!!!!!!👌I can't wait for the next episode!! Love it! 🖤

[@comfortdavid4423]

Absolutely loved this. It’s the way I force my partner to watch Dodo’s vlogs😂 now I feel bad cuz he definitely has to see this..we’ve been having arguments on marriage, love and respect on a gender perspective and this would clarify the feminine side for us. I see you responding to everybody’s comments, weldone sweet girl 😘btw I am Dodos in this group chat 😅

[@Iamdodos]

Lmaooo girl us women have been overlooked for too long now haba. So glad you enjoyed it and thanks for making bae watch my videos. I hope he enjoys this too lol

[@toluladele9059]

I’ve watched this twice already ! Loved the openness and the different perspectives. Looking forward to the other episodes.

[@Iamdodos]

Thank you for watching Tolu, see you next week

[@missdayoade]

Wow this was absolutely amazing! A breathe of fresh air. You all look incredible! So much love to you queens x

[@Olu_wakemi]

It’s everything for me. The space, discussion, the looks and smiles ❤️

[@olamiposii]

Loveeee this conversation. I can’t relate with everyone wanting to get married at 24/25 o. I always thought I’d get married at at least 30yo 😭

[@chimaraogini7690]

This was so beautiful to watch!! Please do more of this!! 👍

[@zoluchii]

God!!! I LOVE this video, needed this conversation... this is probably your best video content yet Dodos. Can't wait for the rest of the series.

[@Iamdodos]

Thank you so much 🥺😩

[@moyinjoseph689]

I totally enjoyed watching this and I'm glad that women are finally having this type of conversations. Welldone Dodos!

[@Iamdodos]

Thanks babe, glad you enjoyed it

[@lotannaagbaegbu4238]

Loved every minute of it!! I was just having this discussion with my friend 2weeks ago and it’s refreshing that you chose it as a topic because so many girls have had these discussions with either themselves or friends

[@Iamdodos]

TBH, all of this was birthed from having pockets of conversations like this with my friends.

[@Aotweets]

Absolutely loved this!! Looking forward to more open and honest conversations

[@emmanuelaameyaw2509]

Hey Dodos, thank you for starting a series for all girls. I am certain that it wasn't easy to speak on marriage, you and your guests touched upon different views from different girls viewpoint, I believe to a certain extent the opinion of most girls was represented apart from one, the christian girl. I am not judging or condemning but I was quite disappointed to see that you didn't speak on the christian girl perspective on marriage ( Jesus the groom and the church the bride) and how sacred yet special sex is. I am not saying that you should have preached to your guest or made s sermon, but I believe this conversation will have benefited that viewpoint too. Maybe you could have explored the idea that celibacy is out of obedience to God, and that although marriage is not for everyone, it is not necessary a secular idea that's why is hard for unbelievers to accept it. Ultimately what I am trying to say that these conversation was good but it sounded too generalised to one opinion, when actually if they were truly representing all girls views then we should hear different viewpoints, even the ones that others don't easily accept.

[@Iamdodos]

Thank you for watching and also for your comment which if I’m being honest is valid. However, it’s much easier to speak on something you know right? I personally don’t know much about celibacy so it’s not a subject I’m the best to speak on. I’ll take note of this for season 2 to find someone who’s well knowledgeable in that topic. Contrary to what you may think about it being a viewpoint many people don’t accept, I think a lot of “ Christians” are tired of being told about it mainly because that’s all they heard their lives especially from a place of religious standpoint at least for me. I also feel like a lot of people have been judged and condemned in the church because of what they have or haven’t done hence a-lot of people go around pretending even when they are doing it behind closed doors. I really want people to come as they are and I don’t want to pretend to be something I’m not or speak on something I didn’t practice. This journey of Christianity is a very singular one and may look different for everyone, I’m still in a place where the Holy Spirit has to convict me of certain things, so help me God.

[@anajadorcas5113]

I love the gisting vibeee. Especially when Tito stood up to get herself a drink! Love it❤❤

[@Iamdodos]

I know right super chilled

[@That_wandering_adventurer]

The smile on my face got bigger when I saw Tito 😍 can't wait for the next episode

[@Iamdodos]

Awwww

[@quinnetumukoro9654]

I really really loved this episode and honestly my notification button is on. It was very informative and i absolutely loved the vulnerability in expressing personal reactions to certain situations. I loved how vocal the lady to the left (first) spoke about her non - interest for marriage - most especially how comfortable she was when saying it. I loved every piece of it. Thanks Delta sister, DODOS😘😘😘😘 Looking forward to the next episode. yeeeeeeeeeh!!!!!

[@Iamdodos]

Glad you enjoyed it!

[@temmyojey]

I love the realness from you ladies😍. Our parents are not doing their part, when it comes to talking about marriage with us before getting into it. I honestly feel a woman should find herself first, before going into marriage. Looking forward to the next episode.

[@Iamdodos]

Honestly, they just let us go and find out for ourselves. Can’t wait for the next episode too

[@Oyebukola_Atanda]

I am in love with this!!! You rock Dodos! I'm rooting for you

[@GbekeAkinbo]

Loved this episode 💕💕, can’t wait for the next one.

[@Iamdodos]

Thanks so much next one is amazing.

[@Akoredeglobal]

OMG ! We needed this conversation. The transparency, originality, love it 👌

[@Iamdodos]

Thank you

[@BemiBadmus]

I totally love this conversation and i enjoyed it so much! looking forward to the next episode

[@Iamdodos]

Yaay thanks hun

[@BlexynOrji]

The content we didn’t know we needed… I love

[@theonlyadaku]

This is one of the best video i have seen on YT, enough information in one video. I love every discussion that was held here and i love you guys as well.

[@Iamdodos]

Thanks so much babe, glad you enjoyed every bit of it

[@kadiiM]

Keep doing these! I love it!

[@garnetachieng]

loved this so so much, can't wait for the next ones

[@Iamdodos]

Same , you’ll love them

[@matodzidavhana]

This is such a beautiful set up and conversation. You all looked stunning 🔥🔥

[@Iamdodos]

Thanks babe

[@EmeldaIkegwuonu]

I enjoyed every bit of it thoroughly. Such honest and real conversations with beautiful and intelligent women with a high sense of self

[@Iamdodos]

Thank you so much Emelda, it has been a journey and still is a journey to finding one’s self

[@linnetmbotto7212]

A tip for more audio quality videos; The room you are in is probably very big, it produces some form of echo and your voices spread they are not easily captured. By the way the room is elegant but it affects your audio quality , or invest on some echo reducing microphones. Comment out of ❤️

[@iamsharongibson]

I just love Derin 😂. My goals ❤️! I believe marriage is not for everyone

[@Atfirstlady]

I’ve watched this video immediately it dropped on Sunday but unfortunately I couldn’t comment with my television but now I watched again on my phone just to tell you(Iamdodos) how amazing of a video this is!…I love this🥰

[@AnitaOdiete]

I loved everything about this, from the unplanned monochrome coordination to the raw unfiltered conversation. It was perfect and completely relatable! Looking forward to more boo. Congratulations ❤️

[@Iamdodos]

Thanks boo, glad you loved it

[@gracebassey7198]

Very observant

[@cyrilchetachi]

Wow!! Just watching this for the First time and I enjoyed it, love the Conversation, and honestly I can Understand Derin, Marriage is a lot, Nice one, I love it

[@allshadesofojaay]

This was hilarious and beautiful... Always loved Tito's vibe

[@NaakuAllotey]

I really enjoyed this conversation. Can't wait for more episodes of tatg 💞

[@ebiyedarius5530]

It’s the honesty for me!!! Waiting for the next one

[@temitopeoketikun1379]

You all look beautiful and I’m so excited for this series. Love the wisdom shared

[@Iamdodos]

Thank you so much 💋💖

[@mirianchinazor]

Everything and more ....🔥🔥🔥🔥waiting for next week . Notification turned on

[@Iamdodos]

Yesss you mean waiting for tomorrow

[@u7617]

Love seeing my Nigerian sisters glowing and living their best life. Love the aesthetic. Nigeria is so full of culture 🔥👍👌🇳🇬

[@faridahdunmoye3493]

Can’t wait for the next one 😩❤️❤️loved loved loved it

[@Iamdodos]

Glad you did and thanks for watching

[@joyajala7457]

Oh my Gosh. Absolutely loved this. Thank you for the effort you put in to achieve this

[@Iamdodos]

Thank you so much, so glad you all love it

[@ohueprisca4629]

Loved every bit of this conversation 🥰

[@tshepang_gm]

Dodos is such a character, I love how she articulate herself

[@chidiijere9716]

I didn’t want this video to end😩 I was so immersed.

[@Iamdodos]

Awwwww next week babe

[@ISIK_94]

I genuinely enjoyed this. Very informative and fun.

[@donabakes2541]

I absolutely love love Oroma!! This conversation was so good

[@Iamdodos]

awww thanks

[@delaliadjagar225]

I loved that they shared their different views and it was done without arguments. I enjoyed this

[@nanaserwaa.]

This was very engaging. Looking forward to the next episode ☺️

[@Iamdodos]

Glad you enjoyed it

[@AdaNwaozor]

I love how down to earth dodos is, I absolutely enjoyed every bit of the conversation between the ladies ♥️

[@ntamieborty]

I can’t believe it took me this long to get here!!! Life how really been happening but I am so proud of you, Dodos!!! 💞💞

[@Fadererahasmoved]

Finally!!!!!! 🥰😍😍😍

[@Omadelly]

Absolutely love watching this 💕💕

[@Iamdodos]

Thank you so much for watching, I'm glad you enjoyed it.

[@franceswithajay]

This was so good, I enjoyed watching this. Looking forward to the next episode.

[@Iamdodos]

Me too

[@DrHunnay]

I totally enjoyed every second of this. Very entertaining and interesting to see various angles on marriage in these times. Well done Dodos

[@Iamdodos]

Thanks Hunnay ❤️

[@chibundoakupue]

This is such a wholesome conversation. Very warming to my heart. So many different persons and personalities as friends. I love it. I’m waiting for next week o.

[@Iamdodos]

Yaaay can’t wait

[@chibundoakupue]

@@Iamdodos I’m sorry but you replying my comment just made me so happy. Thank you. ❤️

[@hafsatharuna5814]

Absolutely smashed it! Such good and honest conversation.

[@Iamdodos]

The Girls were amazing, glad you loved it

[@Wendy-qt2ds]

Love this episode. Definitely on the look for more

[@Iamdodos]

Yaaay Thanks

[@graceygrace4172]

Loved this!! Can’t wait for moreeeeeeee

[@Iamdodos]

Thank you

[@ProspectsPlace]

This was really interesting man! Loved it!!

[@anuoluwaposhadamoro2824]

I enjoyed this thoroughly. Thank you guys. ❤️

[@ntamieborty]

Y’all are touching all topics!!! So interesting

[@toluadepoju7747]

this was so good!! thanks you so much for taking the time to set this conversation up and putting this goodness of conversation needed out!

[@Iamdodos]

Thank you so much

[@ilamosiivienagbor9518]

I thoroughly enjoyed this ❤️❤️

[@chisimdi]

Here to watch Derin and everyone else!!!❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@Iamdodos]

Hahaaa

[@oceedanugo]

absolutely loved it ! ❤

[@Iamdodos]

Glad you did

[@dianen8984]

I LOVE this! Like this was so refreshing

[@Iamdodos]

Thank you , glad it made you feel that way

[@badiiephakedi9027]

i really loved this . i’m 20 and i feel i relate to D more ❤️❤️❤️.

[@jekayinoluwajoyce7953]

I love you ladies so much!!!!! The conversation is amazing. I also thought I will be married at 25 and here I am, a second Master's degree in Women's studies, getting all the teachings that, "is marriage even worth it?'. Above all, I just want to be happy and yes, have kids😀

[@Cheryltheresa]

I absolutely loved this. All the sub-topics were on point!!!

[@Iamdodos]

thanks

[@alokamaugusta7968]

I love this conversation. Derin has always been my mentor tho. Thanks for this idea. We need more of this

[@mabotsechoshane]

Loved this conversation ❤️

[@ayobamiadelugba7141]

I was sceptical before I watched but it was really cool. I like that it was a chilled conversation and not an interview. Derin's opinion may not be a popular one because of the society we live in but I dig it. I subscribed which is rare for me. I am hoping future content will be this good or even better..lol

[@Herseasons]

Love seeing Nigerian women speak on topics most women are scared to speak on. I live for transparency and speaking your truth. Excited to watch more episodes from you ladies.

[@iamnelo4834]

I love this conversation, is really everything

[@oladipsbimpe8473]

I loveeee 🖤🖤 Derin is pure cruise Dodos ❤️❤️

[@Iamdodos]

Yaaayyy

[@olachekwas714]

I loveeeeeee thisss!!!

[@kaffy7934]

I can’t wait for another episode 😊😍

[@Iamdodos]

Same !!!

[@AngelAnosike]

Cant wait to watch more!!

[@Iamdodos]

Thanks babe

[@blessingbossman390]

I love that I stumbled upon this. Awesome conversation. Down to earth and sincere

[@ujunwaa]

Absolutely love this conversation...

[@Almondsncoffee]

Love love this! We need more of this🤍

[@Iamdodos]

thank you

[@medesetinuke5624]

I loved every bit of it!!!!!

[@damieolagunju595]

Screamed at Derin's confession😂 Absolutely enjoyed this💜

[@Iamdodos]

Lmao

[@iyanu.k]

Loved every second of this❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@Iamdodos]

Thank you so much 💋💃🏾

[@mss_maariam]

The aesthetic is 🔥🔥🔥

[@Iamdodos]

Haha thanks

[@ntamieborty]

You guys are amazing!!!

[@ngoziufere]

I loved this soooooi much!