"I'm not guilty, but let me tell you all the reasons I'm probably not innocent".
@phoenixrising6245 Жыл бұрын
......because I'm a "thinking man!"....Hilarious...
@kingjoe3rd5 ай бұрын
@@phoenixrising6245 these people basically believe that they are SO smart that their superior intellect will outwit any police officer they come across.
@Floppyearsmomma Жыл бұрын
Your deadpan kills me, Dr. Grande. Interestingly enough, I just watched the 48 Hours documentary on this case. You provided more facts in less than 20 minutes! This gives me more time to shop for antique pillowcases!
@MypronounIsKing Жыл бұрын
Because their goal is to keep you infront of a screen for an hour
@carolyncox7694 Жыл бұрын
😂lol
@ironicallyxiconic Жыл бұрын
@@MypronounIsKing for as many advertisements as they can fit in that time
@sacredcoaching7332 Жыл бұрын
Haha I just did as well.
@Seeker0fTruth Жыл бұрын
Oh interesting will check it out thanks
@tomnohmy1273 Жыл бұрын
My ex wife cheated alot. It sucked. Horrible part of my life. Eventually divorced her. Never once considered killing her or anyone.
@alexanderjimenez926 Жыл бұрын
Was that really love then?? *Joke
@tomnohmy1273 Жыл бұрын
@Alexander Jimenez at one point for sure, I can't believe I have even say this, I don't judge other people's relationships. Lives but ur killing it, lol
@alexanderjimenez926 Жыл бұрын
@@tomnohmy1273 ...cracks one hell of a drug
@SeatLeonMK2 Жыл бұрын
not once? its not your fault i mean its not nice that somebody you loved so much just rejects you when you tried your best …
@clintdenman3037 Жыл бұрын
Well nobody plays around without a reason.
@helpyourcattodrive Жыл бұрын
Walk away, people. Walk away. No spouse killing neccecary.
@aarondavis8943 Жыл бұрын
Why walk away when you're a genius who has the plan for a perfect crime, like this professor here?
@Lina_al_j Жыл бұрын
Exactly! I find it interesting how there are no comments about “home wreckers”. Other videos where a married man has an affair with a woman, she gets more hate than the killer himself. That is not the case here and i wonder why.
@alphaomega1351 Жыл бұрын
Negative 👎! The vow is till death 💀 do y'all part. 😶
@pro_154 Жыл бұрын
Tell that to the mother fucking cheater and not the person they've coerced
@pro_154 Жыл бұрын
@@alphaomega1351 they don't understand the serveity of vows. Not everyone's word is to be taken ambiguously
@sallywillis1448 Жыл бұрын
It's refreshing to hear terms like "New Age nonsense" and "lost in fantasy"!
@hmq9052 Жыл бұрын
It's baffling how this criminal mastermind was caught
@jaymike3302 Жыл бұрын
LOL
@mikenyny755 Жыл бұрын
(TIC)
@Aaron-kj8dv Жыл бұрын
I could see him seeing some cops at a gas station and walking up to them and starting a conversation like "hey fellas, crazy weather we're having here. I was up at the log cabin and doing a lot of manual labor, most of it digging and cutting stuff up. Anyway, my ex wife is missing and they still haven't found the body. Pretty crazy right?" and the cops just looking at him in shock.
@benwright6330 Жыл бұрын
Was he super surprised when nobody believed him?🤷
@WorldOfTess2024 Жыл бұрын
His brilliance is staggering.
@Popdoc21 Жыл бұрын
This guy was my professor at KSU back in 2000-01, I swear to God, I leaned over and told my friend Patrick - "This dude gives off creepy murderer vibes". My hand to God!
@thomasrussell467411 ай бұрын
Haha I do believe you, because look at the guy and your statement rings true!
@jane946911 ай бұрын
I believe you
@Popdoc2110 ай бұрын
It was Old English literature.
@Popdoc2110 ай бұрын
@@TaurusMoon-hu3pd basically. It was more like some Thor viking shit. Ye olde yaulp shit. The guy had a Forrest Gump Flat top and wore a too tight black tshirt every day. He seemed like a horror movie director- very serious, zero humor.
@godfreyofbouillon966 Жыл бұрын
So the guy agreed to be interviewed by police for 9 hours with no lawyer, then he not only agreed for them to search his house, and his car, and his computer, but he also pointed out to the evidence there so that police wouldn't accidentally miss it. At this point I am not sure which is higher, his IQ or his shoe size.
@joeytirado43415 ай бұрын
if he shut up completely he might have gotten away with it is the scary part...but the Lord works in mysterious ways
@lavona82042 ай бұрын
Sounds like he wanted to get caught
@karis7649 Жыл бұрын
Sounds like Tom was in fact the problem. Taking a lover isn’t a particularly mature or honest way to end a shitty marriage - but dating your students isn’t particularly honest or professional either & murdering someone because they’ve rejected you really takes the shittiness cake.
@LKre-vi5oq Жыл бұрын
Agree. Predatory behaviour on his behalf in going after a younger female student, didn't want children because he wanted to endlessly be the center of attention. Manipulative, neurotic as fuck, violent psychopath. Yes Carmen had an affair, followed quickly by a divorce. So what. If all the men who had affairs were murdered, there would be a lot less men in this world. His interview was bizarre. What an idiot.
@ember17945 ай бұрын
I so agree!
@bskee0013 ай бұрын
I thought they started dating after she was no longer his student.
@ember17943 ай бұрын
@@bskee001 That's what they would say, isn't it?
@Heracles_FE2 ай бұрын
There is a difference between rejection and betrayal. I am not excusing murder , but I often see people conflate betrayal with rejection , and there is a big difference.
@phil4986 Жыл бұрын
Tom Murray put a huge neon sign on himself saying "I DID IT!" by all the bizarre statements he made. The unreal amount of rage displayed in the murder shows this guy should never be free in public again. Thank you for the very detailed work you did on this, Dr. Grande
@pazuzuxx Жыл бұрын
You must understand his anger. She committed a very serious biblical crime. The biblical punishment for adultery is stoning 🪨 to death ☠️💀 😡💢 🔥
@JinJinDoe Жыл бұрын
@@pazuzuxx We don't live in the stone age anymore. Trying to excuse a MURDER done with poor emotional control with some biblical nonsense... There is crime and punishment established by the law. Has nothing to do with the bible.
@Aaron-kj8dv Жыл бұрын
"I'm a thinking man" then asks police if there's cameras in certain areas while writing down his alibi. I wonder if the police were confused by how obvious he was being or if they had the insight to go "just him talk and he'll tell us the details".
@MRFUCKOFF202 Жыл бұрын
@@JinJinDoe The law does is not a perfect representation of morality and does absolutely nothing to cheaters. They can do it in the most horrific way imaginable and walk away scot free. I think the anger is understandable, especially with the lack of justice, and is hard to have sympathy for a cheat. That said, it's clearly counterproductive as you likely end up in prison.
@pazuzuxx Жыл бұрын
@@JinJinDoe blasphemy!
@tracyking5945 Жыл бұрын
Dr. Grande zeroed in on euphoria in his analysis, which is the feeling many addicts say they prize most of all when doing drugs. Sadly, euphoria leaves you unaware of the dangers around you. Thank you Dr. Grande for bringing attention to the addictive nature of affairs and their potential for unforeseen deadly consequences. ❤️🌵
@agostinodublino1387 Жыл бұрын
I'm wondering if there's some grade of victim blaming in this particular video.... A woman should be free to feel euforia (because a lover, because wine, because whatever) without concerning about murderous husbands- because the only one to be wrong should be only the murder. I think.
@carriefawcett9990 Жыл бұрын
@@agostinodublino1387 I agree. There is no excuse for murder. Affairs or otherwise.
@overzealouseuthanasiast9731 Жыл бұрын
@@agostinodublino1387 Yeah, there's definitely an eyebrow raising "boys will be boys" angle brought up out of nowhere toward the end of this analysis.
@renx81 Жыл бұрын
@@agostinodublino1387 Why does everything have to be black or white? The fact that she got murdered for it does not excuse her infidelity. Different degrees of wrong, sure, but both actions are still wrong. And Dr. Grande was just explaining what he thought happened. Everything is labelled "victim blaming" these days, I'm frankly sick of it.
@MRFUCKOFF202 Жыл бұрын
@@agostinodublino1387 and that sounds like a degree of no responsibility culture
@elizabethhamm5320 Жыл бұрын
“If you enjoy this video please like and share”. I’ve watched you every day for a year and I haven’t come across a video that I don’t like. As an extra treat, you have made videos that I have requested in the comments section. You rock 😎
@JohnWayne-86ed Жыл бұрын
As a member of the antique pillowcase community it truly saddens me that a fellow collector could do such a thing😔
@nervesinapattern726111 ай бұрын
It’s for the best he’s in jail, he bleeds a lot! blood and antique pillowcases is a recipe for disaster.
@Absquatula Жыл бұрын
I know it's wrong to judge a book by its cover but this guy really gives off "crazy eyes" vibes
@zealandzen Жыл бұрын
I noticed that. I noticed that because I've never seen him do that before. He repeats the same phrases to be clear, but his eyes say the phrases should go without saying, imo
@mistrjt9213 Жыл бұрын
I also know it’s wrong to judge a book by its cover but his tiny mouth annoys me 😂
@Seeker0fTruth Жыл бұрын
@@mistrjt9213 the crazy eye/tiny mouth combo is visually distracting for sure. Definitely wouldn’t want to judge a person simply based on looks, but the story accompanying the visual makes me feel fine about calling him Crazy Eyes 🤣😅☠️
@Seeker0fTruth Жыл бұрын
@@yugenheorte6828 oh man too true! Grinch-y grin for sure!
@annika_panicka Жыл бұрын
@@zealandzen Are you talking about Dr. Grande? Lol. I think the original comment is about the perp, who definitely looks nuts in every pic.
@scarletohara6743 Жыл бұрын
What a powerful message, Dr. Grande, "Empathy can help you to remain alive." So true and really helpful. Thank you.
@LeanneFowler-ms5xc Жыл бұрын
Are you being fesisous?
@Lisargarza Жыл бұрын
Man, these folks sure bleed a lot. It’s a wonder they remained alive to have either affairs, murderous rages, suspicious google searches, or antique pillow case hunts.
@aarondavis8943 Жыл бұрын
I love how he preempted everything that appeared suspicious...which was quite a long list.
@nervesinapattern726111 ай бұрын
I wouldn’t trust them to own a antique pillowcase, blood is a nightmare to remove.
@pro_154 Жыл бұрын
The closing note on empathy gave me chills Never thought about it that way
@-Reagan Жыл бұрын
Uh oh
@quaver1239 Жыл бұрын
Thank you, Dr Grande. Very sad story. The little girl is scarred for life; this will emerge only as she grows older.
@IndyGuy65 Жыл бұрын
True.
@thelogicaldanger Жыл бұрын
Yes, essentially an orphan. Both her parents put their own selfish interests above their child.
@shitmandood Жыл бұрын
If his wife wasn’t cheating on him/leaving him, the homicide might never have occurred. Motive is everything. Although at the same time: how can you prove it wasn’t you if you have the motive? That’s the rub that always lands them in jail.
@nomadscavenger Жыл бұрын
@@shitmandood Prosecution nailed this guy not by providing enough evidence but by a convincing motive. Not what usually occurs in murder trials. (It's peculiar to me w/blood evidence no DNA could be categorically attributed to him? Isn't that strange? Not enough $ to get proper testing?) And, of course, lucking out in the jury pool, who had common sense. She was too young to be married to someone who wanted "separate bedrooms", older and unromantic. He essentially drove her away; only natural she wanted more children and a "normal" husband. Not necessary to judge her so harshly; obviously not a very smart girl - simple I'd say; and not experienced in life enough to recognize a secret "confirmed bachelor" at heart. The "thinking" man who likes antique pillowcases could be free now? And his avuncular professorial schitc/to "lover" at work or soon enough, and plenty of gullible needy girls waiting. It's been almost 20 yrs.? I hope he's found out who he really is in prison, perfect place to be reborn, isn't it?
@shitmandood Жыл бұрын
@@nomadscavenger Is he still alive? Maybe he used his PhD to survive prison.
@45kimmyb Жыл бұрын
😂 I work in a maximum security prison, I laughed so hard at the pillowcase/weapons comments. I had to rewind it and watch it again. Working in a prison changes you a lot and one aspect is definitely sense of humor.
@beaulieuc8910 Жыл бұрын
Haha, yes. you do need a sense of humour, you are so right. I hope you can get some space and have fun outside your work. Even though it changes you, thanks for your work.
@danielrn133 Жыл бұрын
The old "I was going to look at antique pillowcases" excuse.
@lindapiet2275 Жыл бұрын
How 2 people whom once loved each other lose so much respect for one another is just baffling to me…
@charlesiragui2473 Жыл бұрын
Maybe their love was shallow, immature, even narcissistic. They lacked any deep connection or empathy for each other. For instance, Tom didn't want a child but when his wife left him he wouldn't let go of the child.
@John3_16_ Жыл бұрын
People often confuse lust with love unfortunately.
@poindextertunes Жыл бұрын
unfortunately the majority of ppl irl are trash human beings 😢
@lmiller1413 Жыл бұрын
Get married. After a few years, it will become crystal clear.
@sylviaross5722 Жыл бұрын
Dr. Grande, you are a riot, especially when talking about the therapy job Carmen took & the antique pillowcases in prison. I was dying laughing.
@Monty-Zuma Жыл бұрын
Dr Grande is the smartest comedian ive ever seen!!!!
@Monty-Zuma Жыл бұрын
That "antiques weapon dealer" line had me literally laughing out loud!:)
@salemsrevenge Жыл бұрын
"I would never kill my wife in a uncouth manner!" (3 days before the police interview him) "Hey Siri , How long does it take for a woman name Carmen to decompose if I killed her with a knife from my kitchen, on a Wednesday when it's 60° , partly cloudy with a slight wind out of the south?"
@Back-handedLuck-ul7ms2 ай бұрын
Doesn't it make you wonder what is the most "couth" way to murder?
@Stalemarshmallow Жыл бұрын
I don’t know why his excuses are so funny to me: “I was cutting a pineapple” “I was looking for antique pillow cases” “I was researching a CSI script” “I picked a callous so I left blood behind” Just….lol
@iyalove9383 Жыл бұрын
Thank you Dr. Grande for all of the work you put into your case analysis..
@calreed4441 Жыл бұрын
I probably laughed too hard at the "antiques weapons dealer" comment
@frankpaya690 Жыл бұрын
@@calreed4441 But not at the antique "pillowcases" remark?
@calreed4441 Жыл бұрын
@@frankpaya690 oh, definitely that as well. Just so... random...
@earth0128 Жыл бұрын
Here here 🙌
@carolynsilvers9999 Жыл бұрын
Poor child. Orphaned so young....he didn't want a child at first but killed for full custody?
@Baysidemom2 Жыл бұрын
"definitely not for murder" I spit my drink out 😂😂😂
@IwishIwasshorter Жыл бұрын
Dr. Grande you kill me. Your deadpan sense of humor is priceless!
@alexandramail930 Жыл бұрын
I so loved the way you took the piss out of the 'antique pillowcases'. Love your work Dr!
@nightwood4379 Жыл бұрын
A thinking man? Inept reasoning and preposterous excuses from the homicidal professor revealed his guilt. He was a vindictive, jealous murderer. Thank you Dr. Grande for insightful thoughts on this tragic case.
@NaticzkaKaminskaHenryDolphin Жыл бұрын
I remember watching the 48 hours episode about this case years ago for the first time (it's a very old episode). And what immediately stood out to me were Tom's creepy eyes. He had an incredibly creepy, very cold look in his eyes, just look at him. I'd be afraid to be with him from the get-go. Some of us just have an intuition.
@sylviaross5722 Жыл бұрын
I watched that same show. He was a cold-blooded, narcissistic, creep, & I don't see what Carmen saw in him in the first place. I doubt if I'll ever get married again, but before I do, I'm going make him go to a psychiatrist & get a personality test.🤣😂
@rejaneoliveira5019 Жыл бұрын
Good points regarding the importance of having empathy. Infidelity is, in most cases, a self serving activity that presents lack of empathy not only for the spouses but also for the children and even the infidelity partner. Consequently, people betrayed in this manner may not be able to control their anger and may engage in criminal acts. In addition, as you eloquently put, she was certainly lost in a fantasy land which prevented her to think logically and placed her on a vulnerable position. Thank you for the excellent review. I hope you have a lovely Sunday, Dr. Grande.❤
@zenawarrior7442 Жыл бұрын
His explanations & excuses were silly, he talked his way into being guilty. Pillowcase & energy jokes were great. Thanks Dr G😊💛💛
@cottontails9003 Жыл бұрын
Hello my lovely friend /sister. Hope did your visit go with your mum. Can explain daughter death. The young man she was going out with bought a sports car (government trying to make into law no high powered cars for people on P plates) . She didn't tell me. On 10th January he took her for a drive lost control of the car went into a telegraph pole with the impact on her. Steve wasn't aware of who was coming to emergency department, when he saw young man immediately pulled sheet off to find lifeless body of of our daughter. The director of the emergency department came out of his office to see Steve had picked up our daughter's body and holding her like a baby.
@zenawarrior7442 Жыл бұрын
@@cottontails9003 Hello friend. Visit with Mum want well thanks although she's very confused & changeable with the advanced dementia 😪💟💟. Thanks for sharing about your daughter. That is awful & very hard 😔😢🩺🚗for him to find her that way. So sad...😿Sending a large hug to you all & lots of love💞 before I head to 🛏 🤍🤍💜💜💫🫂🌸🍶🌃🕖🌜🌏
@cottontails9003 Жыл бұрын
@@zenawarrior7442 Thank you my friend. It really hit Steve hard. You've probably been told this but some people with your mum condition still may remember things from their childhood. Sending love and lots of hugs to you both 😴😚❤💙💙💙💙💔🌷🌸🌹🍀✉🎇
@zenawarrior7442 Жыл бұрын
@@cottontails9003 Welcome. Yes sure it hit him hard😐Yes her memory is in and out but with aphasia too lost her speech overall. Good night & thank you🦋🦋💕💙💕💙💤💤xoxo
@cottontails9003 Жыл бұрын
@@zenawarrior7442 Thank you my friend. Have a great sleep. 😴 ❤💙💚💋🎋🎋🎋✉🎇
@mistrjt9213 Жыл бұрын
“I should have been more specific when I said I wanted to live in ‘Manhattan’”.
@2msvalkyrie5295 ай бұрын
Could be worse ? " Honey we're moving to Paris ! " Turns out to be Paris , Texas . !
@FindMeOnABeach Жыл бұрын
My sister is also an English Professor at Kansas State and worked with Tom. He used to bring his daughter in to work sometimes and she would play with my niece when they were little. My sister was shocked that Tom was guilty. Apparently he really loved his daughter, and Carmin was a total wack job. I think Tom did it, but I think he thought he was saving Ciara from her psycho mother. It's horribly sad that now she has no parents. Don't have affairs with students. Ever.
@dakalodk Жыл бұрын
I have no empathy for Carmin
@beaulieuc8910 Жыл бұрын
yes, a boundary was broken
@a.evelyn5498 Жыл бұрын
@Dakalo DK That’s a little harsh… she didn’t deserve to die. She deserved to be thrust back into reality & realize the error of her ways, most likely by moving to CA as she intended & *not* getting her daughter. But he should not have killed her. An affair & strange beliefs / behavior does not necessitate murder. If you believe so, you should go to therapy as you sound like you could be a danger to the public or the ones in your life if they were ever to do something to you that you consider killing as retaliation acceptable.
@Cinder_3116 ай бұрын
@a.evelyn5498 well said. The no empathy comment was unnecessarily cold and creepy.
@Cinder_3116 ай бұрын
@beaulieuc8910 that didn't necessitate murder.
@Mario-by2qz Жыл бұрын
Married narcissists can't tolerate feeling out of control of their human "property." 😢
@KathyBeen Жыл бұрын
Hi
@pro_154 Жыл бұрын
Emotionally immature ( read childish selfish people) shouldn't enter initmate relationships when they have impulse control issues, and are disloyal. It leads to the ire, frustration and eventual mental breakdown of the prioritizing party. If youre going to die behind that, remember no amount of ignoring your hand in initiation will save you.. Don't cheat on your partner folks, in all forms.
@KathyBeen Жыл бұрын
Hello
@beaulieuc8910 Жыл бұрын
I agree
@khil2811 ай бұрын
@@pro_154 This line of reasoning is so ridiculous to me, cheating is not the answer and isn't the mature response to a flagging relationship but which of us isn't immature sometimes, you don't know the situation between two people in a marriage, maybe the marriage was sexless and she was looking for a fling and it turned into something more, who the fuck knows, but the suggestion that she was the immature one when the other party literally murdered the mother of his child because his feelings and probably ego were hurt suggests a bit of a disconnection from reality
@psalmsreader7997 Жыл бұрын
It would seem that his worst nightmare came true when the girl he had hoped to dominate broke free. Just imagine the brutality of that murder. He is a cruel individual and probably was a very hard marker.
@robynmarler1951 Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂x
@losteva7913 Жыл бұрын
Great videos Dr. Grande! But the best part is always your sense of humour with this serious face!
@josephmassaro Жыл бұрын
Police: Tom, you've been extremely helpful, but we don't have enough to charge you. Could you give us a little bit more?
@beaulieuc8910 Жыл бұрын
Police always say this when a police officer looks like he has murdered his gf.... oh no evidence....
@manichairdo9265 Жыл бұрын
To think the murderer didn't want children but became a pro-active father. His police interview proves he was a whacky Professor. I'm not sure how Dr G got to describe Carmen as euphoric and in fantasy land unless it's thought she thought her troubles were over. Her daughter is an adult now. I hope she has fared well in life.
@stephenmartinez8772 Жыл бұрын
Did you notice how every time there's blood evidence they were doing something for their child and either cut themselves or got a nosebleed on the way
@BigZebraCom Жыл бұрын
Just a reminder I'm not diagnosing anybody; only speculating about what could be happening when someone with a terminal degree terminates someone like this.
@perrynn7173 Жыл бұрын
I've watched you're work and love you're sense of humour and no nonsense point of view. Greetings from the UK 🇬🇧. We appreciate you're very British sense of irony, lol. Anyway keep up the great content. Ps. Please try to find time to analyse some UK cases. Would greatly appreciate.
@KayBacci5 ай бұрын
Your work/sense of humour/ sense of irony, not 'you're', which means 'you are'. Having said that, I agree with you! I'm British, too.
@robertlivenmore1786 Жыл бұрын
With the bruises, cuts, and blood, he's done. If you're planning something nefarious, but sure not to use your phone, don't do any suspicious searches, don't go anywhere where there's a camera, and be sure you're smarter than the lead detective. Oh, and don't hire a "hitman."
@jaymike3302 Жыл бұрын
Murder by definition is illogical. Like no matter how careful this guy thinks he is...he's going to be the prime suspect.
@rogercroft3218 Жыл бұрын
I must remember to append the phrase “definitely not for murder” to all my searches.
@27lubbock Жыл бұрын
Oh man. You got me with the antique pillowcase prison group. 😆 (Should have seen it coming when you didn't pounce on the pillowcases when you first mentioned it.)
@danieledugre1837 Жыл бұрын
The subtle humour in these is amazing. The research is flawless.
@SewHappens Жыл бұрын
You Dr. Grande always hit the nail on the head! Your analogy is so accurate! Im praying for the families of the victims! This is just so very evil and their pain is unimaginable! Im praying also for all those traumatized kiddos and teachers! Their lives will forever be changed! So very sad!
@contentperfection Жыл бұрын
You are without a doubt the best creative on KZbin. I love your insight, humor, and analysis of every case you present.
@keithb3114 Жыл бұрын
It is mostly the promise of listening to this guys videos that gets me through the 4 hours of commuting
@beaulieuc8910 Жыл бұрын
hard to do with all the giggling at Dr G's jokes
@Flamsterette Жыл бұрын
After finally getting home from Peking duck (waited an hour for a bus that didn't show up - turns out there was a fire a block from the station), I can now relax and watch THIS video. Thank you for your analysis and dedication. Dr. Grande!
@BelleOfAmherst Жыл бұрын
Dr. G, HOW did you manage to deliver that line… “necessary due to all the hysterical laughing”?!!! 😂 I had to rewind that. I guess you need to maintain a sense of humor when analyzing one tragic case after another. TY for all you do to educate us. Have a lovely Sunday. 🌵😌
@phil4986 Жыл бұрын
Belle, I 100% agree. That absolutely killed me. 🤣Bravo Dr. Grande.
@mattpeters4700 Жыл бұрын
I had to rewind it too :D so gd funny
@BelleOfAmherst Жыл бұрын
@@phil4986 👏🏼
@BelleOfAmherst Жыл бұрын
@@mattpeters4700 👏🏼
@WhiteUnicorn82 Жыл бұрын
It's called the Carmen line, I believe.
@Direkin Жыл бұрын
The descriptiion of that energy therapy certainly caused hysterical laughter from me.
@jenanne31 Жыл бұрын
Again with the incredibly damning computer searches! I don't understand why some murderers use their home computers to search such topics. Haven't they heard of library computers? They may still get caught, but at least it's not quite as blatant. Thanks for another fascinating video, Dr. Grande!
@cottontails9003 Жыл бұрын
Great video. Thank you Dr Grande for the great content you upload . It would seem this situation, was over custody of the daughter. Your humour is pure gold, it always makes my day. Thank you Dr Grande. Brilliant analysis and informative topic
@preciousone9377 Жыл бұрын
Dr. Grande this story is no laughing matter, you always manage to make me lmao with your dry off the cuff humor…Antique weapons dealer bit is too funny!😂😂😂
@sufferedlearnedchanged Жыл бұрын
The antique weapons dealer.. had me crying. 😊
@alexandervosteen5986 Жыл бұрын
What a weird case and to be honest I would have expected better crime-planning skills from a college professor. But Doc, you have finally gained me as a patreon-supporter, so let me thank you again for the incredible work you do, and i wish you and your family all the best.
@triciashortridge2309 Жыл бұрын
Love the wit and deadpan you have been inserting into your analyses.
@jimcronin2043 Жыл бұрын
Given that the couple had entered into a power relationship, I wonder if the depriving of Tom's power led him to a homicidal obsession.
@loganstrait7503 Жыл бұрын
Just hearing you summarize the initial investigation it's hilarious how bad this dude's lies were. It's like a parody of a guilty person under investigation.
@mikelobrien Жыл бұрын
Excellent video, Dr. Grande! I hope everyone watched until the end for your wise lesson in self-preservation. Being empathetic and keeping a grip on reality can be a lifesaver!
@CharlesHess Жыл бұрын
The sound quality is so good! But where is he hiding the microphone??
@erikamccarthy1457 Жыл бұрын
3/26/23 Feel sorry for the daughter ❤️ Tom is where he belongs. Carmen, rip🌹💜
@koreo7318 Жыл бұрын
Proper growing on me this guy, the way he delivers the jabs so seriously is hilarious
@janetpattison8474 Жыл бұрын
Sad. 😢 Dad was out of control with an overwhelming desire for revenge, which blocks the ability to think rationally. And mom couldn’t see reality either about the state of mind of her ex. So their poor kid ends up with no parents. What a legacy. In general women seem to be incredibly naive about dangerous men, whether a stranger, an ex, or an acquaintance / date, or boyfriend.
@DarlynSmith-ib5cm Жыл бұрын
I agree with your analysis doctor Grande you are spot on. Infidelity in a marriage needs to be taken very seriously and the one who's committing the infidelity needs to take precautions. The true victim here is the daughter.
@ea8269 Жыл бұрын
Hello Dr Grande, good to see you.
@overzealouseuthanasiast9731 Жыл бұрын
"Officers, you're going to find a LOT of evidence that'll look like I'm the murderer, but I've got perfectly innocent explanation for each and every one. Honest!" "Sir, plz...we haven't told you why we're even here yet."
@Beth-sn9ipАй бұрын
Lol!
@damienruzco Жыл бұрын
He’s trying really hard not to laugh when he explains the healing methods😂 wonder how many takes that took
@nmartin5551 Жыл бұрын
It is amazing to me how many seemingly reasonable people go to “professional” meetings and decide that someone there is better than their spouse, in four days. And the delusion lasts long enough for them to leave their spouse, move, upset the entirety of their lives. A hook up is one thing. Don’t mistake it for something completely different.
@BucketHeadianHagg Жыл бұрын
Hi Dr Grande! I’ve missed you so much while I was out of town.. can’t wait to binge!
@jamesparlane9289 Жыл бұрын
University professors turn up here nearly as often as LDS preachers.
@beaulieuc8910 Жыл бұрын
haha, or cops
@davidroux7987 Жыл бұрын
Another gem of a video. One of my favourite channels! Greetings from the deep south. Of Africa 🌍.
@carriefawcett9990 Жыл бұрын
He deserved to be cheated on. Anyone who murders their spouse for cheating or any reason..DESERVES to be cheated on in the first place.
@jamese8508 Жыл бұрын
Suggestion: analyze the personality of Penn Law Prof Amy Wax, her controversial statements, and attempts to fire her.
@annettalucero2209 Жыл бұрын
The prison-pillowcase-business got me….
@oldhick9047 Жыл бұрын
Wow ! for once you actually can tell just by looking. Thanks Doc, your the best .
@mamaj4002 Жыл бұрын
Hi Dr. G! I found your analysis to be very informative👍👍. I especially like what you said about empathy in your final thoughts.. those are words of wisdom. Wishing you and your family a fabulous day!✌😎🌵
@earth0128 Жыл бұрын
As usual I learned something useful from Dr.Grande. Wise words and deadpan humour makes my day. Thank you for all your hard work. 👍
@jackiegrice714 Жыл бұрын
Wow. It’s amazing how overconfident Tom was. And incapable of keeping his mouth shut.
@kaseybrewer545 Жыл бұрын
I watched the 48 hours episode on this case the other day, and appreciate your take so much more! You gave more info on the crime than they did without all the extra and unnecessary drama. Thank you! In their version, he still came off as guilty, but the information you provided that they didn't, made it even more obvious. All the statements he made about why her blood would be found in his car, and house. And why his blood and DNA would be found! 😳😳😳 My favorite part of the whole thing is him trying to say he was writing a script for a CSI show. 🤦🏼♀️ Really? I don't buy that for a second. He is an arrogant man, and couldn't stand the fact that she cheated on him, and that he no longer had control over her. Thank you for sharing your perspective. I believe it's 100% accurate!
@lnc-to4ku Жыл бұрын
Another very thought-provoking video, Dr. Grande! ♡♡
@elizabethwarman9028 Жыл бұрын
Good evening Dr Grande, excellent analysis. As always I learn something new from your videos. Have a wonderful Sunday.
@TheVCHorseguy Жыл бұрын
Loving the deadpan humor. Keep it up. As for Tom, I hope the guy's attorney told him how stupid he was for taking with the police.
@artqueen691 Жыл бұрын
Thoroughly enjoyable. Thank you Dr. Grande.
@TheLurker1647 Жыл бұрын
He definitely seems very suspicious and probably guilty, but I don’t know if I’d be able to convict if I were on the jury without any hard evidence.
@bricksloth6920 Жыл бұрын
"HAVING FUN WITH THIS, FROM A CSI PERSPECTIVE." omg
@janelwood585 Жыл бұрын
I 💗 your tongue in cheek humor (vintage pillow cases)
@MakerInMotion Жыл бұрын
Antique pillow cases. Now that's worth a road trip!
@renee1961 Жыл бұрын
He's got an excuse for Everything!! His computer had a wealth of information!
@ND-or5so Жыл бұрын
Great video, Dr. Grande
@MypronounIsKing Жыл бұрын
Grande you’re one of the most genuine KZbinrs and I commend you for your fucking awesome daily posts, I literally look forward to your new uploads daily man. I hope you enjoy making these videos as much as we do watching them !!
@katiesimpson8517 Жыл бұрын
You & many others. Especially love the deadpan approach. Totally brings it home -huh?
@MypronounIsKing Жыл бұрын
@@katiesimpson8517 oh by a long shot the guys just fucking hilarious lmao the monotone voice everything about this dude is a brand
@kentbetts Жыл бұрын
An interesting case. One factor that I never considered is that when a professor marries a student, there is no guarantee that the student wife isn't a nutball. Second, if the man didn't want a child and the wife then wants to haul the child to another distant town, it should be good news, not a reason for a homicide. Perhaps after the child was born his aversion to parenthood changed.
@andreasrau2161 Жыл бұрын
Good morning, Dr. Grande! Love triangles never end well, especially when a romantic kook and a control freak is concerned. These two must have had a genetic tendency towards hemophilia, since they tend to bleed a lot and don't seem to be able to handle knives safely when "cooking" or cutting fruit. One wonders why Tom needed to kill Carmen, since they were already divorced and he never wanted to have a child in the first place, so why the problem with custody? Unless it was a matter of control. Thanks for sharing.
@brookiegremlin6660 Жыл бұрын
Dr. Grande will you do one about Shanaan Watts?
@brookiegremlin6660 Жыл бұрын
@mike mickel exactlyyyyy!!! (don't even get me started)
@HeKissedMe Жыл бұрын
Please do an analysis/investigation into the suspicious death of decorated Air Force Colonel Philip Michael Shue, a psychiatrist, who died in an “auto accident” after being tortured and chased. The case is bizarre, but I believe it’s solvable.
@TranslateToEnglish Жыл бұрын
It looks to me like those students will be getting a new professor.
@Swanky95472 Жыл бұрын
Tom should have lawyered up and not said a damn thing! He's probably be free today.