Mother and Son Stage Scene to Embarrass Cheating Wife | Lisa Carlson Case Analysis

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[@catblack4091]

The way you were describing the ancient relics of VCRs and answering machines made my night. On the serious side, how sad for those kids.

[@KinslayerOfDoom]

I feel like a dinosaur for not needing this explanation. Guess it's time for me to start laying eggs and start eating those zoomer mammals.

[@grimacemcdonald1]

He has to explain- millennials too lazy to Google it

[@k.e.therapy6239]

Dr. Grande you bring me so much joy

[@amantedelcane420]

@@KinslayerOfDoom Ikr. Growing up, we had a rotary phone and a B&W TV on which we would play pong on a console that was purchased at Radio Shack. When we stepped into the cable TV, color TV, touch-tone phone, VCR and Atari 2600 era, it was like 😲😲😲

[@ShAd0w_0f_a_D0uBt]

I appreciate that he called it a VCR instead of a "VHS player." That's a big pet peeve of mine when I hear people say that, especially young people who weren't even alive in the 20th century. Kidlets, we didn't say "VHS" or "VHS player" back then, we said video tape and VCR.

[@chunkyMunky329]

I must be getting old. I was surprised for a moment that Dr Grande needed to explain what a VCR is

[@zacharysherry2910]

Wait until you explain a "floppy disc" to your grandkids

[@chunkyMunky329]

@@zacharysherry2910 I think I will feel super old if I have to explain what a "Sega Dreamcast" is

[@rubyparchment5523]

Living arrangements with parents or 2-couples never, ever work out. Everyone becomes meddlesome to a high degree.

[@somerandomperson5521]

I wish people would talk about this more. My ex loved moving garbage people in on us. 2 couples, with kids under 5. They were both horrific. I've seldom seen living with family end well. It's just too much of an opportunity for boundaries to get bulldozed. Both those things are now on my dating lists, no excessive company, no family up in our business.

[@jbug1979]

OMG i can't believe he had to explain what a VCR is. i feel so old now.

[@sngray11]

Same! 😳

[@harrydemkee3580]

Exactly my first thought, now I feel so old but he was probably right to explain what a vcr was, there has been an entire generation since they were used 😮

[@nkmcfrln]

And then there's cassettes.

[@Flamsterette]

@@nkmcfrln Or mix CDs!

[@nkmcfrln]

@@Flamsterette Or liking your own comments.

[@MatchmeSydney]

7:24 Oh my God, we now have to explain what a VCR was for the young'uns. I'm so OLD 😥🥺😢😭😫

[@patooji446]

That's exactly what I thought. I am officially old. 😆

[@paulaschroder6270]

​@@patooji446 Me too ❣️😁

[@deecee901]

He shouldn't explain it. Let them look it up.

[@jekw23]

I remember when VCRs were in their prime and someone having to explain to me what Betamax was!!!! Anyone who knows what they are must feel ancient!!!

[@judybrown7601]

Me too!!!

[@lnc-to4ku]

I also have to add that I laughed so much when you so skillfully painted this whole picture when you said, "It sounds like they just went in with notebooks blazing, hoping to charge somebody with possession of a deadly diary." 😂

[@setheast2773]

I love his sarcasm. He's so good at this in every video he makes. This over very intelligent person.. definitely on my team

[@red_five3325]

Light Yagami: *(sweating nervously)*

[@lowrider81hd]

His humor is the best!

[@Tony_Cardoza]

​@@setheast2773Yeah, he's one of us. An intellectual, pro law and order, and a dry, non PC wit.

[@Catlily5]

Guess the dad forgot that you will really lose custody of your kids in prison.

[@isitoveryet9525]

Just like the mom forgot about her marriage vows 😬

[@phattyfresh]

@@isitoveryet9525 I think it’s really interesting and sad the amount of comments that are completely fine with murdering someone bc they cheated on you. Absolutely pathetic

[@ashleighsparkle8810]

@@isitoveryet9525 not like the other girls huh? Better hope you don’t get mixed up with the bad part of the 90 percent who do this.

[@bernice_anders]

@@ashleighsparkle8810 it's probably a guy in disguise

[@ashleighsparkle8810]

@@vinzen14 if you can’t figure it out, you have no knowledge in the statistics.

[@lynnehuff9659]

Gee, I am old! Dr Grande is explaining in detail what a VCR is.

[@leighblacklocke7190]

LOL

[@truckerprincess4383]

The vcr comment was hilarious 😂 I was born 1985 I still have a vcr and VHS tapes

[@tod3msn]

Unstable relationship and romantic entanglements outside the marriage equals lots of problems that can swiftly escalate to very serious legalities. Not every marriage where there is an affair gets crazy but introduce unstable personalities and you are setting the table for bad things happening that you never want in your life.

[@KoolT]

Amen. If life isn't hard enough, let's go have affairs and make it worse.

[@lostandfound5145]

I don’t think anyone participating in an affair could be described as “stable”. That is an inherently disordered and unstable thing to do

[@commonsense2680]

Well it clearly was not a "romantic" entanglement since that wife never loved her husband. She probably thought he was easy to manipulate and maybe thought he could earn enough money to satisfy her needs. God knows why they had kids. I don't understand why any redneck or impoverished person in poverty level has kids. The majority of them do not even want children, then cannot afford them and resent the kids then take out their anger on the kids. I just don't get it. I made a very hard decision when I was young in my profession to avoid having kids because my husband at the time was a mess and I had my own baggage that I never wanted to expose to my children (as my parents did to me and my brother). At this older age, I do miss the fact that I have no children, I always loved kids, but I think by the time I was able to deal with my demons I was too old to have kids so I believe I made the right sacrifice but still miss kids. I absolutely don't believe women (girls) who claim they don't know how to deal with the consequences of pregnancy in this day and age and in this generation of Internet etc. As young as 12 or 13 years old school girls are discussing sex and pregnancy. Firstly, they probably have their own mothers as role models on how to have babies at a young age and scam money from the government. Also, they all know about birth control, condoms, and abstinence but choose to ignore it. They know if they have sex they will likely get pregnancy especially without birth control, and have to be prepared for abortion (especially in the 1st trimester), giving birth then adoption, just plain leaving their new born at one of those shelter hospitals (terrible), giving birth and raising their child with government assistance or their family's assistance, getting married to or getting assistance from the birth father, talk to guidance counselor, etc. etc. In America, unlike some 3rd world countries, there are so many options, most importantly don't have sex and don't get pregnant. Why does our society treat pregnant girls like victims (I mean unless they are victims of rape etc.) when they clearly know what they are doing. If a girl gets pregnant and is totally unaware of how one gets pregnant (which I cannot believe) it is her parent's responsibility. I had the potential of being a young pregnant girl 40 years ago, and I knew exactly what to expect (even without telling my parents) and always managed to deal with any issues. Have people just gotten stupid?

[@lostandfound5145]

@@commonsense2680 if you’re dysfunctional then you’re not thinking with any logic. Those young women aren’t as smart and grounded and empathetic and responsible as you were. I rushed into marriage and had children before I realized my whole family was dysfunctional. I adore my children but I was not ready or capable of doing a good job when I began to have them. I rose to the occasion but it’s been an exhausting, painful process and I learned so quickly how insane it is that out culture does not take child rearing more seriously. It’s hard! I will tell you, though, I’ve never gotten free money for being a mom. And being a parent is insanely expensive. It has absolutely not been a way to survive without working a job! I’ve never had that luxury. The “living off the government” thing is only very inner city non-white people. There isn’t enough money to go around for anyone else. I’ve hit a dead end every time I’ve tried to get financial help. There’s nothing for it but really hard work and education. Nobody is having children for pay

[@mrjon75]

Listen here Uncle Elmer, cheating IS the doing of unstable people. All cheaters are liars, manipulators, and selfish, and when they have young kids it's disgusting.

[@mitimiti59]

Loved "it almost felt as if someone's holding a journal to my head"

[@jpc3603]

"Possession of a deadly diary" 🤣 that had me laughing! Seriously though, as if he asked a colleague how to alter/fabricate a document and as if they didn't think about how the videotape could be paused halfway through not run until it finished; not the most intelligent of cover ups. I really feel for the children in this case.

[@KoolT]

So now there are NO PARENTS to care for the children. Uncontrolled anger and emotional leads to danger

[@helpyourcattodrive]

I can already tell, this is a story that leaves me glad I’m single for life, no kids, and loving it.

[@b.t.s.agnomen1044]

I'm single, too. Wanna stay single together? ❤️

[@historicaustraliaadventures]

@@b.t.s.agnomen1044 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@PumaLyn]

Same here! Happily single and living with my cat.

[@kafusada1041]

All i know is John Cougar Mellencamp isn’t singing any ditties about those two 😂

[@pennsydude9723]

Exactly. I'll get a dog before I have children. 😆 js

[@mydailyangel]

PLEASE DON'T HOLD A JOURNAL TO MY HEAD!! 🤣🤣🤣

[@anjachan]

a mother should stay out of her grown up son business ...

[@Ioncandi]

Says no mother-in-law ever 🤣🤣

[@Ramona_93]

It is very rare in one of these videos that you discover everyone involved is the dumbest person involved in the case

[@bubbercakes528]

The only ones I feel sorry for are the children.

[@wandabrady2178]

What on earth happened to the children?

[@lisbetsoda4874]

The grandparents would have taken them. Not the accomplice bit Lisa's parents.

[@Mandrake42]

Dr Grande having to explain what a VCR is makes me feel old!

[@hectorortiz8224]

All part of his dry humor LOL. Geez, I feel old too BTW

[@DMuvvy]

They went in with “notebooks blazing”🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@red_five3325]

*Ryuk has entered the chat*

[@AnimalsMatterMorally]

"The Homicide Automatic Stopping Feature didn't come along until later." 😂😂😂 Good one, Dr. Grande!

[@loiskondo8349]

I always feel bad for the kids, both parents and a grandmother are unavailable. What a mess!

[@Menstral]

Don't worry, they're just going to repeat the same disastrous, since intelligence is 90% inherited

[@ashleighsparkle8810]

@@Menstralthat is false. At most 40 percent. A product of both nature and nurture and you are not born with a set IQ as the human brain is very shapeable.

[@darkcrystalmagik3369]

​@Menstrel if you think that ppl only make bad decisions & have dysfunctional family relationships bc of how intelligent they are or arent, & you're not still in grade school, you're not too bright either

[@EllaNonimato]

the unavailable one was their mother

[@lf9341]

Me too.

[@penelopehughes-jones5265]

“…holding a journal to their heads” - Sublime.👏👏🤣👏👏

[@roxannespahr2804]

I am running out of older Dr Grande videos to watch between each new one. 😭 I love these videos...he gets to the point and his analysis on each one is great. I don't get addicted to many channels but this is definitely one of them. To the point that when I wake up in the middle of the night, I have to watch his newest video before I fall back asleep. Like right now I believe it's close to 5 a.m. I usually wake up sooner but I'm grateful that no matter what time I wake up each night, I know there's always going to be a new video. ❤️

[@defundhollywood3259]

I love Dr Grande's older videos where he focuses on just the psychology, but I also love the newer videos that have the psychology with a true crime/pop culture twist. Honestly when something pops up in the news I'll wait for Dr Grande's video about it because he breaks everything down so neatly. But I think his explanations of personality disorders are the most valuable videos he's put out. I really, really appreciate his voice on the topic of BPD. I'm shocked you're running out of videos though... he has so many! 😆🤯

[@KoolT]

Maybe he can make new intros, and do reruns like GUNSMOKE.

[@zenawarrior7442]

Seems like ancient times with VCR's & answering machines💿☎️Good analysis for us. Thanks Dr G😊💜💜

[@cottontails9003]

Hello my friend. Got your messages last night, still don't know how to highlight. Love and hugs too you and your mum 😚❤💙💔🎋🎋🎋✉🎇

[@zenawarrior7442]

@@cottontails9003 Hello dear. I don't know how to highlight either nor do I get notifications but we find each other at night. Thank you for thoughts for Mum and I 🥰💖🤍👩‍❤️‍💋‍👩🌺🌼🌵🌃🌏🎋🕯

[@cottontails9003]

@@zenawarrior7442 Thank you my friend. It's always a pleasure. You have a beautiful sleep×××××××××××

[@zenawarrior7442]

@@cottontails9003 OK welcome friend, always a pleasure for me too...I will xoxo🛏❤❤xoxo

[@bedlambikes]

The clarification on what a VCR is was well appreciated for the iGen crowd! haha

[@cathyosullivan718]

This is really a sad and gross story! I notice when people are vindictive, it almost always backfires!

[@djg3996]

Yeah it really backfired for her. She ended up dead

[@phyllistouchstone7136]

@Cathy I totally agree

[@kafusada1041]

Boyfriend out of town, thank you for my Friday night entertainment, Dr Grande😂

[@chloecamille298]

Hey Dr. Grande just want to say you rock, you're definitely a workaholic but so grateful for your valuable input

[@dissidentfairy4264]

One of Lisa's biggest mistakes aside from her infidelity and marrying Daniel, was telling Daniel what her plan was. She should have kept her plans to herself. I've noticed that talking too much tends to get a lot of people killed.

[@dissidentfairy4264]

I agree that Lisa was bored and attention seeking, but I don't think the guy she traded Daniel in for looked any better. Her relationship with Daniel was a sad mix of Daniel being inexperienced and naively hoping for a faithful wife. At the same time he was dealing with her infidelity and as a double whammy she was cheating on him with his best friend. So the thought of her taking his children away was no doubt more than he could bear, the last straw, and I feel for him on that, but murder? As far as Lisa goes, who knows what her story was? Was she inexperienced like Daniel and thought maybe the grass was greener? Did she jump into a marriage too young? Did she marry the wrong guy just because they happened to work together? Was her mother-in-law a nightmare to deal with? Was Daniel a miserable husband? Who knows what led Lisa to her choices in life, but one thing is for certain, she didn't deserve to die.

[@JP-ht6nm]

i'm not 100% convinced that Daniel committed this murder. Lisa was an absolute cunt, and it doesn't seem too far fetched that there was someone else in her life that would want to murder her.

[@dwoodstwin]

So you wanted her to take his kids out of state without telling their father?

[@dissidentfairy4264]

@@dwoodstwin It would always be best to tell the father, best yet to stay in close proximity to the father, but if a woman feels threatened in some way and her life is on the line, then the wise thing would be to make her escape first. Obviously Lisa should have done it in this case, if she had, she'd still be alive.

[@dwoodstwin]

@@dissidentfairy4264 that’s called kidnapping. Further, they don’t say anywhere on this video that she was threatened or feared for her life before the incident.

[@ZYX84]

"🕷What tangled web we weave when first we practice to deceive."(edit) I know it's not verbatim. For as many KZbin videos that you produce and analyze there's always a form of deception somewhere in the mix. I suppose that's what makes this particular event so obviously doomed. For the connection between son and mother, who's to say what that was about. Very creepy. Thank you for your in-depth analysis and spot on verdict.❤ You know, at the end of the day, there's never a discussion as to the outcome of the offspring. So many children are involved in these horrific things. And this is what saddens me the most.

[@lnc-to4ku]

This may be very unpopular to say, but I believe Lisa played a very dangerous game in life. She blatantly stripped her husband of so much, and then the last straw was when she was going to rip their children away from him. Incredible video, Dr. Grande! Your videos are always the last and the best thing I like to watch before going to sleep! ♡♡

[@Heywood.Jablome]

It happens more often than you think. Gygynocentric society and family courts have eviscerated men for a couple of generations. Payback can be messy. 🤷‍♂️

[@isitoveryet9525]

@milkandcereal what an odd take. You’re just assuming this woman’s actions are valid, even though she cheated & had no problem taking her children away from their father

[@Davidbodyspam]

@milkandcereal what a narcissistic thing to say.

[@robinrubendunst869]

@@Heywood.Jablome poor men. They have it sooooo hard in society…

[@Kari.F.]

​@@isitoveryet9525 The word valid is not mentioned in the comment you responded to. People do all kinds of horrible things motivated by any number of kinds of weird reasons understandable only to them. That's a fact of human life. We all know that people's reasons for doing things don't have to be valid. I'm sure you have your reasons for accusing people of having opinions they never expressed. Are your REASONS for doing that particularly VALID? Nope. But you did it anyway, didn't you? See the difference between "reasons" and "valid reasons" now?

[@timewithoutconsequence4611]

It never ends well when lovers come into Dr. Grande’s stories.

[@johng4093]

Definitely not living happily ever after.

[@setheast2773]

I love how he illustrates a VCR how it works 👍

[@SaintSeja]

Ok, what she had with Sean is actually called an "affair". But in my eyes it was more like a new relationship. It's not like she kept it a secret from Daniel. He couldn't lose her because he had already lost her. The only else he could lose was his sons, so I guess that prompted him to kill their mother. What a great decision...

[@sharonhoyt2133]

No wonder the marriage didn't work...the husband never broke away from his mother.

[@TheSarah730]

Hi Dr grande, have you heard the case of Harrison Okene, the cook that survived in a boat that capsized? He was underwater in an air pocket for 3 days when divers recovering bodies discovered him.

[@deborahwinter5018]

Wow, should not have moved next to the in-laws! Crazy , crazy, crazy! Poor children, When do the adults ever consider them?

[@erikamccarthy1457]

3/11/23 A lot of circumstantial evidence, not enough hard proof!Funny, how you had to explain a VCR. I had to explain a busy signal, my son got a busy signal after calling my work then told me something was wrong with the phones it kept making a weird noise, before cell phones we had call waiting 1st time ever hearing busy😂 Never mind a typewriter! Lisa, rip🌹

[@catherinecarmichael3180]

Hi everyone!! Thank you for the upload Dr. Grande!

[@jimc.goodfellas226]

Hello friends

[@Hey___you]

Hi! I’m Catherine as well. 😃

[@patiencefullerton6250]

Hello Catherine! 💌

[@JT-lu8tm]

Loved the "wide variety of services" bit. Haha. Another fantastic analysis

[@Cyber_Kati_6744]

I can’t wait to see this! Tyvm Dr. Grande! 👏 Proud Patreon Supporter! ❤

[@Hey___you]

Here for the New Jersey bashing. 🤞🏻

[@sopheadutch6350]

You have me at: "The homicide automatic stop feature didn't come along until much later"🤣

[@sgueymard]

I'm always waiting for the funny comment Dr. Grandes says with such a straight face in his analysis! (Even though i'm French and do not know most cases / fully understand the stories) “...The vcr paused itself after the gun shot to ask: “Are You Ok?” 😆

[@shirleymurray157]

You rock, Doc!!!!!

[@red_five3325]

"They just went in with notebooks blazing hoping to charge someone with possession of a deadly diary." Light Yagami, is that you?

[@2000disneyland]

Informative. I had never heard of this case. So many poor decisions made with everyone involved. The children suffered the most.

[@Lady_Vengeance]

I’ve been cheated on by every partner I’ve ever been with. And I’ve watched family and friends lose their kids to horrible, cheating spouses. I’m not saying they were right to do it, but I understand.

[@HereTakeAFlower]

Ma'am your name sounds like an admission of guilt for a murder case

[@vixxxenfoxxx3660]

I agree. As a woman and mom I can't say too much for a father about to have his children ripped away but I can as someone who was a child in a similar situation. My mother was a retched woman. She constantly cheated on my dad, she never took care of my brother and I, she was an alcoholic & addict. She'd go partying for days at a time leaving my dad in a state of worry. When he finally had enough she went into court with tears in her eyes and the courts granted her full custody and let he take us from TX to WV. We were supposed to get every other holiday and summers but she never let it happen. She'd just refuse to go to TX for court when my dad fought it. My mom had a string of awful men, a few molested me. One put me in the ICU at 9 yrs old. I had a bad infection from rectal tearing. I even confessed to the doctor and law enforcement what happened. My dad came to WV to save me. The damn courts STILL sided with that witch. She told them I did to myself with a jumbo crayon for attention. As soon as I turned 16 I begged the courts to let me go live with my dad. I was refused because 'yiu need to be with your mom. Girls need their moms'. No, I needed a loving parent, not a drug addicted $lut that pimped her child out for $$$. Even today the courts still rule in favor of these awful types.

[@Lady_Vengeance]

@@vixxxenfoxxx3660 I’m so sorry for what happened to you. This seems to be more common across the country than people want to believe or admit. I truly hope you’ve managed to find a loving partner and begin to move on from the trauma.

[@vixxxenfoxxx3660]

@@Lady_Vengeance thank you, I doubt I ever fully get over it all but I've come very far. My dad got me into therapy as soon as I left for college. I'm now a Psych/ ER RN and use my past to help other survivors get help and be heard. I run a support group for survivors if SA. Luckily, I found an amazing man who is patient and understanding of my past and has continued to help me with everything. We recently got into fostering a few years ago and that has really helped me get through so much. If all goes well this Spring we'll be adopting two amazing kids that have been with us the past year. Maybe I just don't have as much time to think of it. Lol. Either way, I'm doing quite well. I just wish we have come farther in fathers getting more fair treatment in these custody situations. I

[@ashleighsparkle8810]

Uh no no excuse . I have also been cheated on. By my first. The one I trusted most. It ruined my views. Still I just wanted to flee. If you feel the need to follow this, please get help. That’s the best I can write on here.

[@dkelban]

When a person cheats and throws it their Spouse's face, and wants to take the children, they are playing a dangerous game...a good lesson for the morally challenged.

[@caymansalesperson8381]

Had a hard time trying to decide to ‘like’ this .but I like your unbiased evaluation, not the subject matter.

[@laurastuart3814]

Women who have young baby/children shouldn't be forced out to work due to financial reasons. One salary used to be enough to get by on.

[@vorynrosethorn903]

Of you double the workforce by putting women in it then you naturally halve wages.

[@Ioncandi]

But then you will be like me-no job skills and broke middle-aged woman.

[@henkbarnard1553]

Hopefully everyone remembers to put the safety one when handling a loaded diary

[@DigitalBrain22]

All your videos are wonderful and interesting. Thanks for your efforts, you have been doing a remarkable job.

[@jhoughjr1]

Marriages is kinda meaningless when people can just leave when they feel like it.

[@ren17x50]

People get married for a whole list of reasons. Love, boredom, insurance, escaping home, ignorance, insecurities, money, sex, forced and/or arranged, coerced, religious....it's just in our American culture we pretend it's always about love and dedication.

[@Mandrake42]

Yeah I thought the video being paused would come up. I mean its hard to do when you are dead.

[@lynnehuff9659]

hahahaha good one

[@alcala986]

This crime is told with more details on a crime show on Hulu about crimes that took place in the nineties. It's interesting how the way a story is told can really influence how much compassion people have for the victims. This crime is a reminder to pay a lot of attention to men who have enmeshed relationships with their parents. She married into a dysfunctional family and seemed to get isolated by it. Families like Jason's tend to thrive on control and lose it when they no longer have control. From the TV show it seems her parents have kept her memory alive for her kids.

[@MsSpace2003]

Am I the only one that was dying when the Dr. said the VCR would stop and say "is everything OK? Shall I continue?" Lol

[@helpyourcattodrive]

Sounds fascinating. Let’s do this. Thanks, Grande.❤

[@marlinfisher2529]

Dear Dr Grande a small break from internet access and my first click was on your channel. And I discovered an excellent analysis, with brilliant and unique dry humor. You've hit it out of the ballpark again. Cheers and thanks from Melbourne Australia.

[@nadinewhite993]

Some people really don't make the effort to live their best lives. It's like they put a lot of effort into making their lives as crap as possible. And then they throw children into the mix☹️

[@BlackStump172]

Neither parent cared for those children . They were possessions .

[@BlackStump172]

I see nothing unlikely about a son and mother conspiracy to murder a partner .

[@cottontails9003]

Brilliant analysis as always. Great video. Thank you Dr Grande. Have a great weekend with you and your family.

[@zenawarrior7442]

Hello friend...seeing you here again, sending hugs across the miles😊💟💞💫🙌 Goodnight 😴🦉🌷🍀🌙🌠💙💙

[@cottontails9003]

@@zenawarrior7442 It's crazy I'm on one continent, you're on another but we still communicate 😃❤💙💙💙💙💔🎋🎋🎋🎇

[@KoolT]

Are you the REAL EASTER BUNNY? INCOGNITO?

[@cottontails9003]

@@KoolT Whatever suits you! !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[@zenawarrior7442]

@@cottontails9003 I know crazy right?🌏😉😎When people want to communicate its not hard. We are 🍀 to be living in this tech age tho. Happy Sat my friend...I just got up😊🧡🧡🖐🐇🕊⚘️🧋☀️🍳💛💛

[@MisticStyles]

Thanks to Dr. Todd for ensuring I try and do my best to avoid 4D's: Distressing Document Drafting Dilemmas.

[@AromaBlue]

While cheating is pathetic and despicable, in this case I am empathetic to the victim. It's no wonder, she had no other escape from these evil losers.

[@michael-m]

Have a good weekend Doc

[@janinemccartha1811]

Hi Dr. Grande. I hope you read my comment. People don't get married if you're an insincere person. Leave reality to sincere high integrity people. Love your channel & rock on! Peace to you & your family as well. See you on the next video, Janine Smiley🙂😀😏😍😇👠👞👡🎓👢🎩💍💎👒👑

[@tomswift3835]

As I recall, VCRs didn't stay in PAUSE indefinitely. They'd start moving again after a minute or two. The problem is, of course, that the rotating video head would stay in the same place when paused, with eventual wear to the tape.

[@aprilcanipe2614]

Now nobody gets the kids..how is this outcome any better than divorce and joint custody? People get so caught up in emotions and all logic goes straight into the VCR

[@lonemaus562]

Better then her getting the kids . She didn’t work , she didn’t care for them , what’s worse then that ?

[@keysaysassah]

@@lonemaus562 then you take her to court? The odds may have not been in his favour as a man but that answer makes you sound like a psycho. This isn’t a win...it’s a loss for everyone, even though his wife was a horrible human being...now kids are orphaned

[@jenanne31]

What a tangled web! So interesting, as usual. I love the way you cut through all the confusing and contradictory information and come up with a reasonable conclusion. Thanks, Dr. Grande!

[@m.f.richardson1602]

Always interesting. Thank you Peace 💕🇺🇲

[@rejaneoliveira5019]

Thank you for sharing your thoughts, Dr. Grande! Have a wonderful weekend.❤

[@isatoro77]

I always get so tickled when you say some funny remarks. Great channel. Thank you

[@QuinctiliusVarus]

His deadpan delivery is perfect when describing people with questionable DNA.

[@stephenlyall7759]

If a diary is not here say I don’t know what is. It’s the worst sort. Especially when it’s the product of a meandering mind.

[@5954ldydi]

I remember this from way back. The in-laws especially the mother in-law was acting strange towards Lisa from the first time they moved on the property. There is a lot more to this story that was happening. Lisa husband's friend her so called "boy friend" was around to witness what was happening and also the husband confided in him. The mother in-law wanted the two kids -she was obsessed with them and had immense hate towards Lisa. Also the way she treated Lisa and continuously watched her was creepy. Eventually Lisa was in extreme fear for her two kids and herself and had a difficult time living on the parents property. The mother in-law would go inside their house whenever she wanted and didn't knock, etc. She would also take photos and use binoculars constantly as well as carry around a notebook to write down the time and note of what Lisa was doing. Lisa was in extreme fear for her life and her husband's friend offered to get her and the two kids away. He even knew things were not right. I believe that Lisa's mother in-law thought they were lovers and she constantly told her son that they were together and doing lewd things. Lisa did not have any family or friends to go to for help. They had made a well thought out orchestrated plan to get her and the kids out and away from the home. Unfortunately Lisa was correct that she was in danger apparently she didn't realize things were much worse than she could have imagined. Lisa needed to get her kids and leave a lot sooner than she did. That's a bit difficult if not impossible especially with two kids if you don't have any resources and/or assistance from family and friends. There may (I'm not entirely sure) have been a lifetime movie made about this heartbreaking case many years ago.

[@catherinecarmichael3180]

Love the new wooden 🌵

[@jamiehoover9348]

Thank you doc ! ✌🏻😎💯

[@gailkelly4651]

Catching up with you still. Thank you ❤️❤️

[@jimcronin2043]

The police should have performed gunshot residue tests. That might have resolved some questions unless the shooter wore gloves. I doubt that it was a "spur-of-the-moment thing. The grandmother's clothes could have been checked for Lisa's blood. I doubt that a corpse with a head wound could be rearranged without having any blood contact.

[@michelleroxy21]

and they let the children see their mother like that? crikey

[@cascadianrangers728]

Titles are getting better and better

[@nimsa2000]

Hello 👋 good Dr. Grande 😀

[@christa7773]

Carol and Daryl....I just couldn't get serious with someone whose name rhymes with mine. Call me petty but we'd just sound too much like a joke. Luckily for me, male names rhyming with "Christa" are awfully hard to come by.

[@robertprice5243]

....and my other brother ,Daryl.

[@FacelessFlesh666]

Mista Christa they can call him

[@TheBOG3]

Christopher always seems like it's pronounced like Christafer.

[@matthewroche5377]

Dr Grande, please talk about the way Garfield treats Odie and how it relates to his sexual sadism please

[@NotChefCook]

😂😂😂❤

[@defundhollywood3259]

If Dr Grande makes a video about Garfield and Odie he'd better release it on my birthday!!! (It's July 19, Dr Grande! 😉)

[@matthewroche5377]

@@defundhollywood3259 Dr Grande, do the right thing - Garfield video for the Cancers.

[@alcoholfree6381]

How ridiculous that a first-degree murder conviction could be overturned because the police took an incriminating journal when the search warrant was for a gun. That makes ZERO SENSE. The murderers had entered into plea agreements (Why was this done) It seems like a light sentence for taking someone’s life?

[@amantedelcane420]

Dr. Grande is a fascinating dude.

[@heartjoy]

talking VCR -- omigosh i love it

[@jessicablevins601]

Sickening staging the body like that. Seriously, what POS. Stealing her life and separating her from her children just not enough, huh? 😞

[@JP-ht6nm]

Well she was planning on taking his kids from him after f’ing his friend. Not defending the muderers but it was almost like she was trying to get killed

[@chrissyknowsitall5170]

I have lived in Tacoma my whole 52 yrs of life and never knew about this murder. What a horrible why to die. I can't believe these 2 are out of jail!!😡😡

[@mikenyny755]

Very enjoyable presentation. Why would anybody take a plea bargain if they were not guilty?

[@obviouslyurnotagolfer148]

You're a pretty funny guy Dr. Grande! 😂

[@MyEnemy]

What a mess. I feel bad for the kids.

[@fruitnoodle1]

So where were the kids when this took place? Maybe I missed something, but for people that were so concerned about her taking the kids away, they certainly didn't show much concern for them finding their mother in that state.

[@billsix]

great video as always, btw do you like cacti perchance?

[@jamesparlane9289]

Revenge is a dish best served cold.

[@darkviolet69]

The Homicidal Automatic Stopping Feature came later with dvds

[@halpyhal]

most of the ppl watching this know what a vcr is!!! lmfao even older genz!!! damn 💀

[@Skarbro]

“the homicide automatic stopping feature didn’t come along until later.” 😂👍🏻

[@MagdaleneDivine]

How kind of carol to keep the journal if Lisa's shortcomings

[@brnfrmjts05]

I used to fish at Lake Kapowsin when I was at Fort Lewis. Nice place.