The ONE THING You Should Do When Talking to Girls - Night Out With Todd

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Todd V Dating

Todd V Dating

Күн бұрын

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@ToddVDating
@ToddVDating Жыл бұрын
Hope you guys like the new video style. I was really happy with how it came out, but let me know. And the lessons for this bootcamp in Phoenix are definitely ones I see often with students, so there is a good chance it applies to you! This video was taken at one of my live bootcamps: www.toddvdating.com/coaching
@mr12aT
@mr12aT Жыл бұрын
👏
@chr1staki
@chr1staki Жыл бұрын
I like this style. First time I’ve seen you with your arms uncrossed 🙌
@Bloodcurling
@Bloodcurling Жыл бұрын
As long as this doesn't replace the standard videos, then this is a great addition
@scowlistic
@scowlistic Жыл бұрын
💥
@Roshea
@Roshea Жыл бұрын
I wish I had done a bootcamp/coaching back in 2014 during Todd’s old managements. The free tours & hotseats were godsend at the time. Phoenix is a fun town and a hotspot for some very beautiful young women compared to most of the east coast.
@MrAdversarie
@MrAdversarie Жыл бұрын
That’s what took my game to the next level is taking risks. It’s a mindset shift you have to consciously make. I went from sleeping with about 6 girls a year to like 30 just from making that small tweak. Women want you to lead them to the bedroom, it’s the burden you take on as a man. You can have the best verbal game but if you aren’t taking risks you’re not even in the game.
@oeckstei
@oeckstei Жыл бұрын
When taking a risk just feels like getting a cup of coffee then you’re doing it right. Practice !
@MrAdversarie
@MrAdversarie Жыл бұрын
@@oeckstei exactly brother, taking risks has to be the equivalent of just breathing. Because you have to get the job done
@brandonmiller2171
@brandonmiller2171 Жыл бұрын
I would love to learn how to do this successfully and learn to be more sexual in my game with women and not be boring. I'm actually a twenty-seven-year-old virgin and I would love to use this as a way to lose my virginity and get more women attracted to me and get more dates throughout the week since I haven't gotten a single date on any of the three dating apps that I pay for every month.
@javilo2797
@javilo2797 8 ай бұрын
What change?
@sauron9326
@sauron9326 Жыл бұрын
"basically you need to get to the point where you'd rather hear 'f**k off' than 'nice to meet you', because you have heard 'nice to meet you' too many damn times"... 👏👏
@ChicagoJ351
@ChicagoJ351 Жыл бұрын
Todd, anytime you can post videos of you coaching, that’s the best content In my view. It’s instructive and we don’t always need lots if technical details. Even if it’s just infield if you approaching and pointing out a simple concept to a student, that’s gold.
@franbatista9062
@franbatista9062 Жыл бұрын
The mentality is everything in order to take risks confidently. Remember a month ago I approached 2 hottest girls in the club, where they were about to leave with some random dude. Just approached Guy first, then entered the Set, conveyed Value and the girls stayed, while the guy left. Ended up hooking up with the hottest one that night, and another night before she left the country. Mindset and taking risks is paramount to get what you want!
@dethangell117
@dethangell117 Жыл бұрын
I like the new video style, it shows you how you guys prepare before going to a new set, and its interesting to see the reactions of your students.
@abunchofiguanaswithinterne2186
@abunchofiguanaswithinterne2186 Жыл бұрын
Was about to say the same thing, its also cool to see Todd teach differently when hes in state.
@OzHunter
@OzHunter Жыл бұрын
Seems like KZbin has eased, this is how videos used to be in the 2015-2018 era.
@adapt-or-die-trying
@adapt-or-die-trying Жыл бұрын
Wow, this looks badass. It’s like I’m there with Todd. I’ve always been curious as to what happens on these immersions.
@Paul-yk7ds
@Paul-yk7ds Жыл бұрын
I think this is gonna really sell a lot more people on doing an immersion with Todd. Kinda makes me want to.
@morganlilly4527
@morganlilly4527 Жыл бұрын
As a woman I love watching videos like this lol. I feel bad men have to think so hard about how to get us. We really are complex beings 😂
@JM-rr3qw
@JM-rr3qw 5 ай бұрын
I can see that you are keen to flatter yourself, but calm down, it's okay. Even girls suffer from social anxiety. And ugly girls have to put in more work than ugly guys. So let me rephrase it for you minus the sexism: humans can be complex beings.
@darkraft1020
@darkraft1020 5 ай бұрын
Yea, even harder if you're a guy who is a bit on the spectrum.
@robertweaver9058
@robertweaver9058 4 ай бұрын
Women are not complex just freaking insecure, emotional and constantly need male validation..
@arshie26
@arshie26 Жыл бұрын
LOVE the takeaway about taking risks! I feel like Todd's just kept on getting better game wise and coaching wise
@justinlemieux5189
@justinlemieux5189 Жыл бұрын
Yesterday I ran into a beautiful girl I used to work with 8 years younger than me (she's now 20) at a cafe, we gave each other a hug and went our own way to study/read, then a couch opened up and I said hey I'm going over here come sit with me when you're done (with a little grin), soon after that she did, she was a little shy and nervous but we were bantering back and forth and there was attraction, we made more small talk then she started hinting that she was available ("oh im home for break, ill be here for a while, i wish there was more to do, i love this area") and I just was like yeah it's a great area, I love going here and here have you been? - no no! I haven't been!... - oh... hey what are you doing tomorrow afternoon? there's this holiday thing I want to check out, you should come with me... - yeah okay! - cool I guess I can give you my number blah blah blah... she came over saw my place then I drove us, it was a great date, kept building attraction, very pretty girl used to being pretty and I just kept playing it cool, went back to my place and got physical and just kept leading the interaction where I wanted it to go and she let me, she liked teasing and giving some shit so I just would give it back like it didn't bother me... the point is that I could have just said it was great seeing you maybe we can hang out while you're home, or just did nothing and said goodbye, but I decided what I wanted and kept slowly moving my way towards that while not seeming too interested and making her come to me. I mean it also helped that we already knew each other from work but it was years since I last saw her and there is big age gap, but those are things I can either let hold me back as excuses or use them to my advantage. I feel like some of these few principles are almost all you need to have success in game. Taking risk also just shows confidence when it's delivered the right way like Todd said, most will respond positively and they want you to take that risk and you might have a few that just aren't feeling it... Playing to win, man you have to decide to go for it and get out of your head, the worst she can say is no and you're exactly where you were, the more risky thing is actually doing nothing if you think about it and doing nothing is a guaranteed loss. Todd is just such an expert at this that he can walk up any girl with the confidence that no matter what happens he's going to be fine, guys, you are the catch, you are the prize. You got this kings!
@Javasboi
@Javasboi Жыл бұрын
What happened? Did you close the deal and are you dating now?
@justinlemieux5189
@justinlemieux5189 Жыл бұрын
@@Javasboi we hung out and had fun and stay in touch but she's still in school so it would be a long distance thing. Still meeting and connecting with lots!
@Paul-yk7ds
@Paul-yk7ds Жыл бұрын
I truly feel like I'm watching an all-time great basketball coach or team captain talking to his players during time-outs
@RhetoricalMuse
@RhetoricalMuse Жыл бұрын
I'm 42. I remember Todd from back in the day More like Yoda now.
@KidLionMusic
@KidLionMusic 22 күн бұрын
"You've heard nice to meet you too many damn times" big oof, he's 100% right though. Its better to be polarising and have decisive wins and losses than to take the consolation prize "It was great meeting you" every time.
@TheLimitlessExperience
@TheLimitlessExperience Жыл бұрын
Yessir ingame footage is always the best. Todd is one of the only ones left still doing this
@abdul.arif2000
@abdul.arif2000 Жыл бұрын
2:35 I can’t decide whether I love you. I hate you is a dope line
@wrappedinblack8937
@wrappedinblack8937 Жыл бұрын
Todd's hair is so Nostalgic it reminds me of his hot seat in 2014
@nickp3949
@nickp3949 Жыл бұрын
Bro…girl at work was showing big signs of interest. Even rubbed my arm while teasing me. I asked her out next time I saw her and I got an “oh I’m gonna be very busy, but I’ll let you know” kind of thing. Literally makes no sense.
@CoolGobyFish
@CoolGobyFish Жыл бұрын
makes perfect sense, lots of girls flirt because they are bored or just wanted attention
@QMS9224
@QMS9224 Жыл бұрын
You escalated too quickly. Even if she thought she was using you, you can easily flip that around and get her to qualify to you. Or maybe it was genuine, either way you should have played the long game especially at work where she has consequences. You need to not ask if she wants to go out, but rather when are we going out because you are so sure of her answer before you even ask.
@polarbear3710
@polarbear3710 4 ай бұрын
No don't ask her when you are going out. That's giving her power and frame control. You should have asked what are you doing this time or that time and if she says she's busy don't ask her out at those times. If she says nothing just say hey cool we can go do this or that then.
@greytoeimp
@greytoeimp Жыл бұрын
Love the format of this video. Very exciting and informative!
@ToddVDating
@ToddVDating Жыл бұрын
Glad you enjoyed it!
@SuperCoon88
@SuperCoon88 Жыл бұрын
Love this style of video. It feels like an useful link between theory “lecture” style vids and pure infield vids.
@ToddVDating
@ToddVDating Жыл бұрын
Glad you liked it!
@mystery3129
@mystery3129 Жыл бұрын
for some reason i find it really entertaining seeing todds eyes looking around screening for hot girls haha
@wilsonhemingway3635
@wilsonhemingway3635 Жыл бұрын
Ciao from Finland! The style of the video is dope af! ^^ I'm afraid now i'm more and more interested into some bootcamp stuff from this point of view this video gave me Been watching your videos for 2+ years now and you have made a significant improvement to my life :> As a sales coach i find the stuff you create simply inspiring. Learning the game, getting to be my best self, enjoying the company of the women i want and overall learning to be succesful in life is such a blast
@prashunpcchakraborty70
@prashunpcchakraborty70 Жыл бұрын
I think this is the most complete night game mindset video. Great stuff.
@karantiwari9196
@karantiwari9196 Жыл бұрын
This video was awesome Todd. I was hooked from the first minute. More please!
@bbking006
@bbking006 Жыл бұрын
Great video - this is exactly what I need to work on. You have to convince yourself that not trying is a greater failure than anything else.
@adibhutani9977
@adibhutani9977 Жыл бұрын
Felt like I was part of the group. Won’t mind this style of videos
@gs8777
@gs8777 Жыл бұрын
This style is fantastic.
@justjames1111
@justjames1111 26 күн бұрын
Excellent video Todd.
@svenphil8879
@svenphil8879 Жыл бұрын
woo hoo some nightlife footage after ages, seems like Phoenix is lit
@danytalksmusic
@danytalksmusic Жыл бұрын
it's a dope place to meet girls. they're mostly laid back and friendly.
@joshspiker
@joshspiker Жыл бұрын
Eh, it used to be better. The girls are not laid back and friendly here; they're actually pretty stuck up. And it's actually Old Town Scottsdale in the video.
@xristoskostoulas9841
@xristoskostoulas9841 Жыл бұрын
So many lessons in such a short time Todd! Reallyyy nice job!!! Wish we have more of that
@Roj871
@Roj871 Жыл бұрын
Todd da 🐐
@smorzys
@smorzys Жыл бұрын
I love this new video style, gives us an idea of what you do on a bootcamp
@dragonninja598000
@dragonninja598000 Жыл бұрын
Crazy video. Loving the new style of video.
@snpz97x
@snpz97x Жыл бұрын
most valuable advise I've ever heard 11:41
@scowlistic
@scowlistic Жыл бұрын
🐐Status confirmed.
@tonyg4058
@tonyg4058 Жыл бұрын
Is this Scottsdale Todd? I'm from the UK I went to Phoenix back in 2018 and I couldn't get enough of it for some reason haha. I have been watching Scottsdale and Tempe videos the last few days wanting to go back and now I see this, maybe it's a sign I should sign up to your bootcamp lol. I am actually half interested. Will you be doing another bootcamp there?
@ToddVDating
@ToddVDating Жыл бұрын
Yes, it's on the schedule at: www.toddvdating.com/coaching
@kaizoku4life
@kaizoku4life Жыл бұрын
love the new video style! Thank you sir
@aromero9243
@aromero9243 Жыл бұрын
That complicated chess scenario where you must take a high risk is called the queen's gambit. That's at least one scenario of many high risk moves 😉
@l80sman104
@l80sman104 Жыл бұрын
Absolutely LOVE this video style!
@TheTurmericTrail
@TheTurmericTrail Жыл бұрын
Todd, the last of the Mohicans
@ece-57-sumitkumarpandey80
@ece-57-sumitkumarpandey80 Жыл бұрын
Amazing video! I learned alot.. thanks todd
@EmperorLVL999
@EmperorLVL999 Жыл бұрын
You should go on Fresh and Fit Podcast! They are very Pro Pickup! And they will help your bussiness!
@Colin_Lawlor_Audio
@Colin_Lawlor_Audio 4 ай бұрын
Todd: "I am introverted" Also Todd: (Loudest person outside the bar even louder than the women shouting....)
@kendawg44
@kendawg44 Жыл бұрын
Todd out here looking like a 1990s wrestler.
@neilo8b
@neilo8b Жыл бұрын
Todd's on point ,celebrate the failure,builds character,leave your ego at home,sometimes I wish I was single,starting over again it's fun
@cakeboss1721
@cakeboss1721 Жыл бұрын
It's literally middle game which is not being taught by any channels including this one . Is anyone else at the point where they can get numbers and attract them but then they flake?
@OzHunter
@OzHunter Жыл бұрын
It's just either building rapport or creating a massive FOMO via your social media. It really depends on your situation what's best though. if you are in town for the week, you should do high risk/high reward and volume. if you are playing home, you should focus on building a reputation in the venue. If it is the first part of the night, you'll likely get flaked as well.
@user-zm8gk6hv3y
@user-zm8gk6hv3y Жыл бұрын
Todd is the goat
@gouravthakur8094
@gouravthakur8094 Жыл бұрын
There's this friend of mine, we've been VERY good friends for a very long time. Now I want to escalate, I don't just want to be her friend zoned 'close-friend' could you make a video on how to build intimacy with your your friend, it'll really help me
@Paul-yk7ds
@Paul-yk7ds Жыл бұрын
Search Todd V friendzone here on KZbin and he's got a couple videos on topics like that.
@polarbear3710
@polarbear3710 4 ай бұрын
Just start putting premise into it. Make it man to woman. Like say wow I just noticed how sexy you really are. But use a push pull and right after say but it could never work were just to good of friends. Then just drop it and keep talking about what ever you were talking about before. And just keep using push pulls with premise. Then you are going to have to start taking risks and escalate. I can't decide if I love you or hate you. Sometimes I think we would be great together other times I think it would never work because of this or that thing. Eye contact 90, 10. Move 90% for the kiss let her go the other 10. Start touching her in certain ways and gage her response
@gouravthakur8094
@gouravthakur8094 4 ай бұрын
@@polarbear3710 It's been over a year already, and so many things have happened, I don't even remember the last time she crossed my mind until you posted this comment. Anyway, it was a great walk down memory lane, Thanks Stranger.
@polarbear3710
@polarbear3710 4 ай бұрын
Well that's good advice for next time. I'd also suggest to you put them in the friends zone for real however do it with premise make it man to woman and just say things with a push pull. Like when you see her in something hot like you look sexy in that, to bad were such good friends we don't wanna mess that up. Or I'm not looking to be in a relationship with a woman I just want friends, however continue to flirt with her, and tease her as well. Keep watching Todd!!!
@woodytaves5691
@woodytaves5691 Жыл бұрын
Great !
@Zsaqwes8
@Zsaqwes8 Жыл бұрын
On sort of the same topic can you make a video on being more decisive/bold?
@thegibbehhh9430
@thegibbehhh9430 Жыл бұрын
Random question: What's the name of that black jacket you wear? Looking for something like that myself.
@ethanz3837
@ethanz3837 Жыл бұрын
Saying one thing is underrated. “You want to bang?” Or “you want to go out?” “You’re hot” whatever line is easiest for you. Just say one thing. It’s easier. Society tries to push us into polite small talk. Nobody really wants that. It’s a terrible pressure I’ve dealt with a lot. Don’t be respectable. Don’t be polite. Being afraid of approaching sex, the one topic you both want to talk about, is, I’m assuming, self-sabotage. Just be honest and direct. If you’re not smooth and clever, just say it all in one sentence at the beginning.
@jeroenbauwens1986
@jeroenbauwens1986 Жыл бұрын
10:58 "No you're fine" am I crazy or was that a premise line for the waitress
@andrewjordan4811
@andrewjordan4811 Жыл бұрын
Goat
@stevenvicijan4338
@stevenvicijan4338 Жыл бұрын
At the Rising of the Sun
@RS-wp5xs
@RS-wp5xs Жыл бұрын
I gotta know : where exactly is this kind of environment ? It looks like a club scene but they are outside yet there are people chilling outside the club. Did you just go to a club only to stay outside and approach the people coming in or out?
@Nacho-zj6pw
@Nacho-zj6pw Жыл бұрын
Great video man. Do you plan to add more content to VGA at some point?
@justjames1111
@justjames1111 26 күн бұрын
Why
@rauln9273
@rauln9273 Жыл бұрын
Where is the video title 3 day method or something like that
@chr1staki
@chr1staki Жыл бұрын
Play to win 🏁 I like that
@mitotv6376
@mitotv6376 Жыл бұрын
Nice
@timgarrison8097
@timgarrison8097 Жыл бұрын
Those loud beeps super annoying for me. After a few of those in my ears I couldn't watch anymore
@SuperSymbiote1
@SuperSymbiote1 Жыл бұрын
Return of the long hair
@aymanhimself
@aymanhimself Жыл бұрын
Video looks old, am I right ?
@MuhammadMusthakeem
@MuhammadMusthakeem 3 ай бұрын
Focus on soul purification and you will automatic attract an alpha chaste keeper women for marriage when times comes. Don't waste time sinning through (PUA) it’s all fake deceptive and kills your spirit leaving you broken in the end. Research on quran and read it. God has revealed souls commandment for lasting happines. ✨
@alejandrofrade325
@alejandrofrade325 Жыл бұрын
Make noises?
@Trump-A-Bad-MF
@Trump-A-Bad-MF Жыл бұрын
Fart noises*
@Ry4nWTF
@Ry4nWTF Жыл бұрын
Its funny, going all out, like risking it with a wild take or being more cexual, its a big plus. But what then? You're still stuck at the club with chcik. Do you then ask lets go back to my place or what do you do?
@chrisjfox8715
@chrisjfox8715 9 ай бұрын
Keep pushing... Keep escalating the tension. Keep leading the interaction to the next place, whether it's some place else in the same club or some other club or somewhere else entirely. A girl agreeing to go elsewhere with you is a sign that she's willing to stick with you, but you can't know unless you ask/say so. Me personally, I'm not one for keeping the connection going in one place for too long. The sooner I can pull her elsewhere then out of wherever we are the better. Less need to drag out the encounter, more direct, shows you leading, and makes for meaningful feedback regarding how well she's responding to my lead.
@chrisjfox8715
@chrisjfox8715 9 ай бұрын
Granted of course there can be friends and other distractions to deal with, but that's part of the whole point of trying to pull sooner than later. Not instantly necessarily..but sooner than later. To answer your specific question tho, I'm not a "let's go back to my place guy" as much as I am a "let's go" / "we should head over to xyz" kinda guy...then heading wherever the wind blows as we head in that direction
@ibrahimshehu8677
@ibrahimshehu8677 Жыл бұрын
I understand that nowdays you cannot say anything anymore, but censor "sex" is a bit extreme, don't you think Todd?
@chrisjfox8715
@chrisjfox8715 9 ай бұрын
KZbin monetization issues
@RuyLopezCUH
@RuyLopezCUH Жыл бұрын
👑
@ashog1426
@ashog1426 Жыл бұрын
Hes my pick up guru lol
@bigboi4858
@bigboi4858 Жыл бұрын
W rizz
@Heeect00rrr
@Heeect00rrr Жыл бұрын
🤓
@toobalkain
@toobalkain Жыл бұрын
he's quite bold for a 50-year old chubby guy.
@mchammer3180
@mchammer3180 Жыл бұрын
todd v so old now its cringe seeing him game lol . sorry just being 1000
@ChicagoJ351
@ChicagoJ351 Жыл бұрын
“Cringe” is just social conditioning. It may seem strange to you, but it isn’t to many other people. We can’t all live our lives worried about what other people think.
@mchammer3180
@mchammer3180 Жыл бұрын
@@iyiyl ok damn i get no bitches lol
@user-zm8gk6hv3y
@user-zm8gk6hv3y Жыл бұрын
Think from first principles. Can Todd still close these girls? Absolutely. So his age is irrelevant
@mchammer3180
@mchammer3180 Жыл бұрын
@@ChicagoJ351 to mainstream narrative its just uhhhh and frowned upon. blame on todays woke era
@TheActionTourist
@TheActionTourist Жыл бұрын
Who fucking cares tbh, assuming its even true
@erdal0
@erdal0 2 ай бұрын
grown men running behind girls like they are 16
@DickTracy978
@DickTracy978 Жыл бұрын
I had a dream I went out last night it was great I was Todd’s wingman I always get 3 girls numbers everyday
@DickTracy978
@DickTracy978 Жыл бұрын
I look a lot better than Todd thanks for giving me my game
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