"Women Get Addicted To These Men" - Master Power, Sex & Get Ahead In Life | Justin Waller

[@TomBilyeu]

WARNING: I will never ask for your contact info in the comments section, that is someone impersonating me!

[@Kevin-kj5th]

Tom I love you but the uptalk at the end of your sentences kill my brain

[@sunflower-oo1ff]

I am much more with Justin Waller on everything….Tom’s wife is very masculine , it’s his choice, and like many guys of his age group very defensive of their wives or else….they will be facing something bad at home…. Sad situation, these women are running the show. 👎

[@GuidetteExpert]

Ew, man are not wired to sleep with as many women possible. It means the guy has 100baby mamas & 100 children with daddy issues. Because daddy is barley seen or gives them quality time. + He spread STD towards all of them. Evolution is never unfair. Men use it as an excuse for having bad character.

[@HunterHemingway]

⁠@@sunflower-oo1ffI tilt towards Justin as well…in fact his experience with monogamy & women really made me feel seen. However, Tom just has a different balance of masculine/feminine. I think you’re diminishing his value & power assuming she runs the show. He specifically is the deciding factor when both understand fully but disagree, this was stated somewhere around hour 1.5-2, along with he’s the leader of the family. The thing is understanding where your balance lies…Tom isn’t some pushover, he’d never be where he is if he was. Your attribution & likening him to the pushover feminized men who can’t stick up for themselves at home, seems off.

[@sunflower-oo1ff]

@@HunterHemingway you definitely have a point. 👍

[@jonamross9242]

Great to see a mature conversation between two men who have differing viewpoints, but can maintain mutual respect while disagreeing.

[@josephleonardoeamon6198]

This is what's missing in the world today. This is also where the most learning takes place.

[@chrishayes5755]

these guys are delusional about there being "no master plan".. lmfao.

[@cx_n1]

It’s truly disgusting, I would never give airtime to anyone who thinks it’s ok to shaft others. An absolute travesty

[@damiandewitt7865]

yes but its not 100% differing

[@60sekundenpolitik]

@@cx_n1 what are you talking about?

[@taralove1806]

I do agree with him when he mentioned how school holds boys down. I dealt with it when my son was in 5th grade (2002ish)...and his Language Arts 25-yo New Teacher gave him a C- on a project of his choosing. He chose Jerry Rice...made a poster board and wrote a report. I supported but he did the work. He knew his football career inside out, and was crushed with the "C-". I met with his young new 25-year-old teacher...she said that boys need to choose another figure other than sports...I said really, "So are girls being told they can no longer write about horses?" No answer, it didn't help it was a difficult year and definitely killed his enthusiasm about putting effort into a report.

[@bliss4383]

SAT scores have proven males do better in Math, while females do better in English. Males are more left-brain thinkers and females are more right-brained thinkers. Michael Gurian’s books are about Neuroscience, a topic in find fascinating. He’s here on YT. But I think in your case, the teacher didn’t know who the subject was, so that meant more work for her to research him for accuracy. And her youth/inexperience likely also played into it. And if I we’re you, I would have gone to bat for him, too. Most females, myself included, don’t take an interest in football unless the men in their lives do. I have no clue who Jim Rice is…lol. Females are more adaptable to men, but I’ve never heard of a man doing things females tend to enjoy, like making scrap books. There was one exception that I know about….Rosy Greer loved to knit!

[@999legend8]

Feminism has resulted in some female teachers being unfair to boys at school.

[@kristinapace]

Wow how the education system tried to demoralise my son he was a lovely young man enjoyed education and was an A+ student top score in yr 8 exams the yr 9 maths teacher was less knowledgeable than in him in subjects which drove the arrogance of the teacher to ridicule my sons dreams and aspirations he mooked him in class and made him sit in the middle of the class with all the students placed in a U shape around him he had a clicker and would click it in his face It took me 8months to get to the top of the food chain in tge edu hiracy system when I finally spoke with the principles they put the teacher through a youth interaction program Only to return to the school 6 months later with a bigger vendetta he ended up bashing a year11 student and got diss missed By that time my son lost all faith in male educators but luckily through sporting coaches and parent support he ended up home schooling He's now a apprentice Deisiel Macanick kicking goals

[@bliss4383]

@@kristinapace That teacher either had Narcissistic Personality Disorder or he was a full blown Psychopath. That kind of maltreatment to a child is evil. Your son, even though he’s grown, may benefit from some Trauma Informed Care to discuss any aftermath pain he may be holding inside. Men tend to do that because of the societal teachings of “take it like a man,” as if a male doesn’t feel pain, let alone show it. They are taught to bottle it. (Or they take out on others like the teacher did.) Eventually, they develop and/or die from stress-related illnesses. Stress causes all kinds of Auto-Immune Disorders, whereby the body turns on itself. Drs. Bessel van der Kolk and Gabor Mate are leading experts on Trauma.

[@Mr.LevelUp.]

That may have happened 20 years ago but this breaks my heart, honestly. Masculinity is being demonised to the extent where it’s almost like a societal subconscious to destroy anything that’s perceived as masculinity. Boys can’t grow up to be men and be the superhero’s of society and their families, it’s all being eradicated. My heart bleeds for my generation.

[@WashingtonAli1]

Probably the best conversation on the internet displaying how to have a conversation with nuance, respect and fun! A masterclass.

[@StewiethaChewie]

I can relate to this. My kids mom lost all respect for me after she got her nursing degree and makes more money then me. Sad part is I worked 3 jobs while in active addiction to support her while she was in school. But crap happens and it's time for me to turn the tables again.

[@husseinserunjjogi3036]

Broooooo, How did u get over this situation

[@chillinwithshawnb]

​@@husseinserunjjogi3036real talk

[@kaybrown7733]

​@husseinserunjjogi3036 Clearly he hasn't!

[@GoldKingsMan]

I knew a few nurses that seemed ok , and they were really into their guys and stayed had kids. Otherwise, nurses usually flakey.

[@corbin9612]

@@GoldKingsManfrom my mom who’s a nurse she said most female nurses value compassion over strength. Not how much you can give her but how much you can get your self. Speaking with lots of women in hospitals I’ve gotten alot of similar answers

[@TheGreekSneak]

This discussion was refreshing. Let's teach big media and politicians to communicate with us all in the same way.

[@jarenfromvenus]

Stop looking at the media.

[@marcchevrefils6660]

Haha ... politicians are rich puppets they will make it seem like they care, but they don't.

[@SrChalice]

Stop looking at politicians. It is time to turn away from them in order to get rid of them.

[@shelbysteiger6821]

Love how you guys didn’t agree on everything but really tried to understand the other person’s perspective.. great conversation! 😊

[@jacobtheanalyst]

Yes.

[@TomBilyeu]

Hey! Thanks for your comment. Listening to the other person and having diverse perspectives makes for a productive and interesting conversation. I'm glad you enjoyed the episode and appreciated the diverse perspectives! Best, Impact Theory Community Manager

[@chrisgrant8094]

This was an amazing talk. I just came across Justin in the last month, and have been watching impact theory for years. I was getting ready for a bit of a clash on some things, but this right here is what we need more of! 2 successful people, with open minds, going deeper on what could've been left at surface level topics and drill down to the core of where those beliefs are at their base, and come out with a mutual respect. Loved it!

[@Innerdiamond]

Two very different type of men. I'm more inclined towards Justine's type. He seems to have a different framework or moral structure than Tom. The head and the heart must lead!

[@shelbysteiger6821]

@@TomBilyeu Always great conversations! I listen to you most mornings, thank for all your content!

[@fireteamcharlie6537]

Tom, you really took me by surprise on this episode. I followed you a long time ago but coming back after a while, I’m shocked at your mind and how genuine you are. This was a very important conversation, and I’m grateful that both of you have had this opportunity to have this discussion.

[@cx_n1]

You love that Tom gave a guy his platform to continue try to influence more men to take advantage of womens unpaid labour and for more women to fall for this nonsense too?! Same as how feminism is ruining men and women make it harder for themselves MEN AND WOMEN ARE NOT MADE THE SAME PHYSICALLY men do not breast feed children or give birth or take untold time off from their careers to look after kids and nowadays the woman has to clear up after the guy too. I feel sorry for the internet generation and the brainwashing that occurs. People don’t know how to think for themselves and blindly believe things Misogynists or even feminists say

[@jimmyjamessac7171]

Tom is as sure as tomorrow

[@southernguru1455]

He is visibly very insecure. Body language, voice tone and all says everything

[@wesleyturner1979]

He nailed the issue with where we are as a culture, right off the bat. It’s really hard for me to struggle raising a family and go into debt with a normal career (I’m a plumber) and then see people living the dream that did nothing. It makes you want to give up and burn the whole system down. It’s failed us…

[@Arishem34]

What a beta male thought.

[@thedarkestknight8381]

Cause this world is all about luck people refuse to admit it

[@BenWilliams-up3pi]

Don't be a victim man. Plumber is great career, really important for us all, sexy as fuck to women, a man who is actually useful. Plus who goes round to their house in the daytime, all dirty - that's women's porn fantasy! Just don't let yourself get bitched up by your woman. They find any insecurity in you and drill it like a rogue dentist until they find the nerve, and that will bring you down. Get the hell away from her until you've got your pride back. It will come back, I guarantee. PS Casey man, your work is so valuable.

[@Looka12x]

dude, you are a plumber, you should be loaded...

[@OthelloBlaq]

This is a FANTASTIC example (in my opinion) of how men ARE being men! They both push each other on their ideas, personal philosophies and life standards. All the while seeking out the stone to build common ground and figuring out a way forward. It's not about the disagreement, it's IF there is something there that can be refined into a functional resource. I am so high right now! This isn't an echo chamber. Tom/ Justin y'all killed it, let's eat! 🍻 Cheers mates!!!

[@craigsmith2755]

Men work things out. Women just argue and complain.

[@jayarmstrong]

Perfectly said 👌

[@barreldreamz7852]

THESE TWO EXERCISED AND EXEMPLIFIED WHAT IT MEANS AND HOW TO HAVE DISCOURSE AND POSITIVE DISAGREEMENTS!!!! Two class acts and would love to see follow up podcasts between these two. 👏👏👏

[@terrybruton2964]

Yeah def. Its like swinging dicks but saying mine is doing the job.

[@Wonkyhorse1]

Tom getting in the social/political space is truly awsome. Nuanced, disagreeable but not needlessly and brilliant. Love it.

[@360bro36]

The problem is distraction and immediate gratification through validation

[@acurrentlook15]

This conversation showed the level of control and intelligence both these men have. Great interview by Tom respect. Justin is a G.

[@russellkite4191]

"You must work hard to garner a set of skills that allow you to serve yourself and other people in a way that you find exciting. If you do that and you are making progress towards getting better at helping people at something that you are excited about you will even in moments of grief (pain and suffering) have fulfillment." -Tom Self-fulfillment is the optimal neurological state. This is gold.

[@vibehighest]

dude, the way Tom handles this conversation is flawless. you can see the gap between the level of confidence and security of the two wowww!!!! Stay being you Tom

[@lebohangmoloi6721]

I don't necessarily think that there is a gap. I feel like these two people have a different way of viewing the world. Tom is more theoretical, and Justin is practical. Not to say one is better than the other but I personally relate to Justin. Also it will be much easier to apply the things he says to my life and get actual results.

[@johnmiller4045]

Man, you are a bot. For real! You like how Tom speaks? If Justin was not in the podcast I would never listen to it... Tom is BETA!

[@janetelamas4029]

I admired his honesty and showing how his values makes his life. They both show their vulnerabilities and their different views and respect to each other. Totally agreed about the media taking away the masculinity of men and how sex has become not a partnership or getting closer to another human being. So much to learn! Thank you for both🙏

[@bige857]

Great conversation lads! I love the respectful push back on each others opinions, one of the best conversations I've seen in a long time.

[@KateSalvadour]

Hello, can we get to know each other?

[@murumariesattigit9783]

This is sanitized redpill garbage talk. This simp spoils his daughters but you gonna believe he isn’t the same with his chic? I see through this nonsense, he’s a simp pretender.

[@tomare6479]

Love love love, you mist be one of the more ladilike

[@carloscoward2674]

This is by far one of the best conversations about masculinity between two men's. Respected to the maximum guy's

[@domehouse79]

Two men’s? 😅

[@Shipdacheese]

@@domehouse79 Two men's what? Also you missed 'guy's'

[@Nostrada-mus]

It's not. Listen to Andrew Tate with Patrick Bet David.

[@frick6946]

@kevinhasafappingproblemm were your fingers on the wrong keys?

[@andrewsmith3257]

Two very opposite men 😅

[@willdavis2964]

One amazing man-to-man conversation. Love the honesty and respect between these two.

[@Person0fColor]

@@GarfieldDonatello89 This is for guys who dont have a father or dont respect theirs.

[@GarfieldDonatello89]

@@Person0fColor beta and alpha big difference

[@MrQubez]

Best conversation between 2 man with disagreement about masculinity, truly amazing. I myself agree with Justin. But man how perfectly calm and concrete answeres as to their viewpoints they are giving is just amazing. I usually hate this topic because its just a scream festival saying: "I know better". These great man really listen and try to understand eachother and even if the other changes their view on a little point they are respecting it and change their view. These are the real man we need more of. I love it!❤

[@wadegaffney9104]

This is how conversations should be communicated! I love the different view points. If everyone thought and felt exactly the same there would be clones of yourself running around everywhere...

[@FroggoLoverThings]

I love how they communicate and clarify with each other, and acknowledge emotions and personal values, instead of pretending they’re hyper masculine men that are strong and feel nothing

[@SubstituteTeacherGarvey]

All people feel it’s just some choose not to show it often to most or are learning ways to communicate in a way they know how. It’s important to be patient with others especially those we don’t agree with or understand. Have a Great day good share btw

[@persnipoles]

Seeming 'Hyper strong and feel[ing] nothing' is consistent with: I will do, and won't dwell in what isn't doing. So, for example, that person is not necessarily interested in discussing feelings about the shed he hasn't finished. One affects, wants to affect, and has time for affecting -- less for, say, commiserating. If they seem a bit outside of that frame it's because, for one thing, they're diagnosing.

[@Thilosophocl3s]

These two have reached the age where their self-respect comes before pretty much everything else.

[@The_Man8719TwitchTV]

My North star: aim for perfection, and genuinely help those around you who are also aiming for the same

[@bradleycollins2858]

I too spent years in an environment that was brutal and shaped me into a man. It was called being an Airborne Ranger. All young men need to experience a huge challenge in their lives in order to become a monster and then to tame that monster through the implementation of personal values, goals, and service.

[@juniperk912]

Absolutely loved this! It's rare to hear people converse about masculinity without someone or myself getting too riled up. Usually someone ends up saying something that crosses a boundary or says something completely illogical and dumb. The respect, thought, articulation and tone of this entire conversation was what made it stand out. Much needed and appreciated. Thank you guys!

[@justawaitress8421]

That's why these two, whole very different, are still both MEN

[@dumitrulunga7336]

When I was 24, I was acting up to people who were older than me. I was disrespectful and they put me in my place with aggression and violence, it worked well enough for me to develop respect for other people and their right to a peaceful life free from my disturbance. So their aggression helped me learn to respect someone's boundaries. Too much violence would have been unnecessary, a little violence without harsh consequences at that age was just right to shift my trajectory on a path of humbleness and learning to become a better individual.

[@wildprodigy]

What was the lows of this violence and the highs?

[@CrextComicConsent]

You mean 2-4, right?

[@Mr.LevelUp.]

When I was 15 I punched a guys face for talking a whole lot of shit to my friend and my school in general. I identified with my school at the time because I guess it’s that tribal instinct to protect your territory that you represent. Safe to say after that punch he started being docile and humble and learnt to respect people

[@MarcusGreen-y7g]

Damn that’s pretty late to learn to respect boundaries

[@chrisf2636]

@@MarcusGreen-y7gI agree seems late, but we’re watching it across the US. And once it’s the real world versus siblings/parents/friends it can destroy lives. Jail time or someone else who doesn’t stop.

[@MarcusBourne-us3gs]

Civil grown up debate without emotion fuelled conflict although there were differences of opinion. Some of which could have been taken quite personally. Brilliant to see. Great episode. Respect to both gents.

[@BO_Knows143]

This is how you have an intelligent conversation,. They were not "married to their ideals," impeccable listening, and respect. I learned a lot from both Tom and Justin. I lean more toward Justin but Tom got me to think deeply about what I believe and why I believe it. Great interview brothers!

[@NikGoretoy]

Thank you Tom and Justin for being so open in this discussion. There are so many good thoughts and points that relate to real men in our day and age. Let's all grow and build to be the best men we can do that we can establish a new era of men who are unshaken. Let's go brothers!

[@jenniferbryn]

I have never listened to Mr. Waller and am very new to Impact Theory itself, but as an admirer of complex, respectful conversation, I wanted to thank you both for such an engaging podcast. I subscribed because I like the confidence of Mr. Bilyeu without defaulting to tiresome arrogance and aggression. Too many interviewers are pedaling cartoonish personalities for views. i think every person can benefit from listening to non-judgmental, open-minded conversation. That's where the true salesmanship of Mr. Bilyeu is so evident and yet still welcome. He's worth buying into as an influencer.

[@thezu9250]

Waller is a HORRIBLE toxic person. His energy is so disrespectful and fragile when interacting with women. These toxic dudes only act civil and respectful when talking to men.

[@coolkid24ism]

​@@thezu9250😂😂 you're a clown 🤡

[@TheCrazyCartModChannel]

My wife and I were listening to this together and we both agree wholeheartedly that the reason Justin wants other women is because he's not fulfilled in his relationship with his kids mother. My current wife is the only woman I have ever been with that I didn't also want other women. She's the real deal. We are a true team and we are each other's #1. When you meet the right person, you calm down and focus on who and what you've got. If you REALLY REALLY love someone, you give your entire self to them, not because you feel obligated, but because you cannot help it and you feel so grateful they are in your life and in your corner. You don't see other people as "options"... "I have incredible sexual discipline" and "I do it because it feels good" are contradictory statements. Justin spent the entire podcast trying to tell everyone what a good guy he is. I've never met a great person that felt the need to convince me of how great they are, but I've met a lot of narcissistic assholes that did 😉 Justin simply found a way to rationalize his behavior away, and now has a community of other men that support that lifestyle. Yes extreme feminism of today is toxic and hurting women, but it's also not healthy to Lord over women because you make a lot of money. That's not loving behavior. That's not a team attitude. That's not the way you'd want to be treated if the show were on the other foot, but narcissistic assholes thrive on this situation and behavior. There should be no gender war. All these problems are human problems and each side is framing the situation through an incredible biased lens.

[@Randarrradara]

True J Waller is a loser hahaha

[@seekerHuncho]

tell your wife where you went the other day

[@TheCrazyCartModChannel]

@@seekerHuncho she would appreciate that I was giving your mom some well deserved attention 😘

[@Techno_Tranceformer]

He typed this because his wife was next to him when commenting lol

[@christiancanan4057]

Did you purchase the first car you test drove and decided to keep it forever?

[@erikowings6729]

I had only seen shorts of him and wasn't sure how I felt about him. Whether he was a legit winner or just some internet personality creation to fill a niche. Great talk and great to see just a good dude spreading his own positive message!

[@Pauloajm15]

The Father vs Kid thing...that is a very interesting topic. I find I'm even more driven because I have kids. I find I'm capable of being disciplined even more. I found that being a parent (Dad) is the part of my life that I enjoy the most. Did I lose space? Time? yes. But that also happened when I got married. That is to me, besides the point. Kids further make me enjoy serving my family and being the last one to be served. Getting a compliment is enough. The other part is the relation...the love, the joy, the doubts, the coaching, the learning. But to me, the greatest thing is finding what makes them click and driving them towards unlocking their potential. Blank canvas...it's not about if they will make money if they will "successful"....! What I ask myself: did I make a good job at passing them good values and morals? Beyond that, did I steer them and helped them unlock their potential? That is what brings confidence, sparks drive, and paves their way into choices that make sense. The world is better off if people can use their talents!

[@herbythechef7624]

I feel the same as you. Much respect. We need more strong fathers out there. The only way we will raise good kids is by demonstration. And that means having a loving marriage as well. In my honest opinion

[@possle]

Wise words, completely relatable this end.

[@cardioandmanifest]

So very true, I think the aggression part is misunderstood sometimes by those who don't have children. As parents, we have to discipline however I think people

[@cardioandmanifest]

Think of the extreme end When they hear discipline or aggression. The role of the father is so important and it is because they are not soft like the mother. I never understood this until I had kids. I previously thought like Tom, like all of that is not necessary, however parenting theory and actually raising kids are two different things.

[@Pauloajm15]

@@cardioandmanifest and boys need to produce appropriate levels of testosterone. Sports and competition will include a level of aggression. Plus, it's good for kids to understand what makes them click but also what makes them get angry, so they have a chance early one to learn how to manage that anger and how to leverage from what makes them click.

[@KevinEckelmann]

An interview that all MEN need!!! Shout out to Tom and JWaller 2 real ones!!!

[@MehrStoff]

Justin has this calm and clear way to communicate. I wish I could be as calm and collected. Well, one more thing I have to work on...

[@ksalinas96]

Read the daily stoic

[@TheZGALa]

One of my favorite papers I wrote in grad school (MA in special education) was titled, The Condundrum of Too Many Choices, and even back then (20 years ago) it was clear that just creating more choice is not only not the point, it actually makes us less satisfied with what we choose. Too many choices is counterproductive to happiness and fulfillment, and probably productivity. We just need one, better choice, or, optimally, 3-5 choices is the sweet spot for humans.

[@changeforthebetter8369]

This! Have a plethora of options (choices) can easily bring about the feeling of “what if” with regards to the other choices that weren’t chosen especially if you are not getting the expected results after making a choice. Having limited options can put you in a mindset of “well, it was that or nothing. So whatever results I get, it is what it is.”

[@Yggdrasill8]

Now can you imagine how it is like for women who feel like they have many thousands of choices.

[@mentalboutcars]

It’s called the paradox of choice and was coined since a time when Ancient Greek philosophers like Aristotle and Socrates lived

[@ras-nts]

Who’s going to choose the 3-5 choices each person gets?

[@vladimirreyes5040]

It’s nice to see a genuine interaction w 2 people picking each others brain 🧠

[@1johnnyguns1]

Love how Justin stood his grown. The conversation was very telling. Justin looks down and then into your eyes. Tom looks all over the room searching and then back to you. Body language of Justin … confidence. Tom …unsure if this person will buy this information. Fascinating dynamics when two people are in a room.

[@ghost_trapz5932]

Tom is the type of guy that wants to say what makes everyone happy rather than what he actually believes. All the stuff he says are politically correct. You could say his content is filtered so he could pull more views

[@artanddesign8561]

That is the difference between a person who is set in his ways it’s his road or the highway and somebody who is looking for other answers, and who is not focused on his own line of thinking, that is the sign of an open person versus close minded

[@1johnnyguns1]

Or someone making it up as he goes along. Set in his ways😂. Someone sounds triggered

[@mrdev5281]

Body language of Justin is aggression. He will be a flash in the pan this was his 15minutes thanks to TB

[@Lakeyunleashed]

The body language transitioned throughout the course of the conversation, what you said makes no sense whats ur point. Are you looking at this as a battle or comparison, or are you trying to extract the most valuable information?

[@jesusjuarez4166]

The genuine deep emotion behind that first response. Brought a tear to my eye. 2:13:18

[@b_jwright24]

Thank you for this input. I’m 23 and I’m going through a pivotal point in my life rn and the advice that you two spread was phenomenal!

[@jefferybohner887]

Yes most definitely I hope you figure life out my guy real talk

[@eefangelina]

B e st advice: stop watch porn! Think of higher goal. Surve the earth. Find your passion. Focus on it and after that. Find a woman that compliment you, she will make you a better menn. In every way, let you grow.

[@shadf7902]

Youre just getting started out.

[@shadf7902]

​@@eefangelinadont lie to to the kid ffs.....

[@Chris-iu3vl]

5 things I wish I knew ( and applied ) at your age. 1. Alcohol is by far one of the worst drugs out there. Save your money your health and your time. Learn how to master being confident in social surroundings and with girls, without that drink. 2. Porn and masturbation is draining your energy and messing up your dopamine system.. It makes you weak and less motivated then you "could" be. 3. What you eat matters more than anything. Your body is your temple, learn about it and act accordingly. Only trust the advice of people who live like you want to live. One prime example of who not to trust. Bill Gates. Fu*k his medical advice, and his ati-meat / bug eating agenda. Keep your testosterone high and learn how to keep it like that. 4. Quality over quantity when it comes to friends. Cut off toxic people right away! Even family.. The only one to save is yourself. That's the best you can do for the world. Billions of humans, yet one humanity. Be - do - have! Be great, strive for greatness, and great things will be yours. You are the king of your own kingdom. Join forces with other kings and strive together. 5. Magic is real! Find your own version of "God". Praise the earth, the sun, the fire etc etc. They are beings just like us. But on a much larger scale. Karma is real. Study the mystics. There's levels to this game. "Know thyself" Be a Jedi and fight for the good and beautiful of this world. 6. *Bonus* Seek out awesome mentors / role models. In real life and also here on the tube. Fu*k whoever is on steroids and not being real about it. Don't do steroids. Since you're here watching this I know you already on to this. May the force be with you Jedi!

[@Joey_Carabetta]

One of the best interviews Tom and Justin have ever done. A must listen for every man. The flow, pushback and counters are superb. 89k views in 3 days - definitely underrated.

[@porkerpete7722]

500k now

[@heemcarchannel]

Needed this unc. Truthfully, ima do my best to not make it too long. Anyway, the past 3 years, I’ve been very depressed and dealt with heavy anxiety due to my past actions that disappointed the ones that mattered at the time. And I believed that, I would never amount to anything. Fortunately, a real life situation ( nothing deadly ) changed my way of thinking last year. For the better, and have done the best I can to be a better man/human being. Started my KZbin and rebranded my clothing brand. Most importantly, embracing who I am. And accepting the accountability and responsibility of my own inna real way. Point is: once I’ve done that, I slowly seen haters coming on a rise.

[@chrisblyskal3610]

We need more discourse like this. Two smart men. Hats off to Tom for helping set this up and asking great questions.

[@josephgentile9279]

@JWALLER bro as a son and a father who has been through child custody battles with 2 women I have children with, it broke my heart and made my eyes watery when you talked about what your dad went through. It also made me happy to hear that you laid off his house. I always give back to my my parents as much as I can even though it never feels like enough and that motivated me even more to do more for them. I’ve heard you on several different podcasts and believe you are a stand up guy. Keep up the good work.

[@GoldKingsMan]

I’ve seen family members go through the pre divorce, getting shouted at by the wife after few years to trying get custody of the kids ,it isn’t a great time for sure.

[@MayaGeeDaPrinter]

This has to be the most mentally stimulating discussion I have heard in a very long time. The way you guys respected each others position is just flawless. And Tom you are right on 99% of your points. 🤓

[@GrimFowler]

this was wholesome and educational as hell, this is like a class on how disagreeing sides can work together to an even better effect that agreeing sides

[@mrjimenez11]

The whole message boils down to men have to struggle to become great. Not all are guaranteed to be great just bc you struggle but you’re guaranteed to not be great if you never struggle.. just strive to be the best man you can be and forget about how hard it is and what the outcome is gonna be..

[@MixiestA]

@@KingCrab85 Depends what success means to you. For me its not to have millions, super cars and sht like that but to do what i want when i want. All in all if you want something really bad you will work for it if not thats also fine but dont complain.

[@yellowdrangon]

@mrjimenez That's feels like telling someone to play the lottery everyday and maybe if you're lucky with enough consistency you can win it's just very unlikely. Like who in their right mind would take that advice.

[@mrjimenez11]

@@yellowdrangon it’s a lot more likely than the lottery bud but you can cry and see how that works for ya

[@yellowdrangon]

@@mrjimenez11 I personally think your message is sh*t and it does inspire Men to become Great. You need both an inspiring and realistic message for men to realize their Greatest Potentials.

[@oooodaxteroooo]

33:30 Absolutely right. Someone put it into this simple formula: "Strong people create good times. Good times create weak people. Weak people create bad times. Bad times create strong people."

[@DerrielJTheriot]

Excellent discussion. This triggered a thought in my mind. A common misconception is that strength equals or requires aggression. True strength does not require aggression. The only way to be truly meek is to be strong. Strength means standing firm on the things that matter, but firmness should not turn to aggression. Sometimes the weak resort to aggression to make up for lack of strength. Aggression can be a way to create the faux impression of strength to those who are unable to see through the surface. Aggression can be a way to instill fear, but true strength instills respect without the need to resort to fear tactics. I think courage and humility are characteristics of the truly strong.

[@deandregilliam4968]

Agreed

[@TheCrazyCartModChannel]

The need to appear strong all the time is indeed a weakness. It's very obvious once you're on the other side

[@leonitas91]

This is by far one of the best interview/conversation I've seen on youtube so far, I love Tom's interview style.

[@roberthoffmann9198]

It's the 4th time I have listened by now, I love this one aswell!

[@Coach.ShelbyLynne]

finally an interview where two sides are actually not in full agreement. This was real and genuine, highly appreciated a bit of challenge in perspectives on this one.

[@mushroom11g55]

It's not a challenge, Tom is questioning a Chad about women, he should st.fu and take notes, and instead of giving Push BACK, he should start doing Push UPS. The rich D0rk

[@Coach.ShelbyLynne]

@@mushroom11g55 you sound broke

[@mushroom11g55]

@@Coach.ShelbyLynne why would I sound broke? Because I said "rich dork"? I said that because Tom is exactly what Andrew Tate warned us about becoming. A dork with money is just a rich dork, that's AS WELL as making money, we should be working on our bodies so we're not rich dorks like Tom, we should be Top Gs like Tates and Waller. I can't respect a man that can't do a single pull up, no matter how much money he has, he's a rich dork.

[@sirturdaloter141]

​@mushroom11g55 absolutely right. Humanity will not move on when you're only way to protect your wife and offspring is buy hiring a hit man. A man must be capable both physically and mentally of the most horrendous acts and thoughts a mind can conceive. Yet, he must be disciplined to not do it unless necessary.

[@pvtparker8288]

This is a two part comment🤓 1️⃣. I just gotta say I was almost speechless watching your video! I had almost forgot there are still impressive people in the world who have a true and unselfish message to share🙏 2️⃣. So I'm just going to say this real quick, I might have been dreaming about you since fantasy was a world in my vocabulary! I could listen to you for at least half of our conversations ! And your Dad jokes were on point, swear I thought a ( THAT'S WHAT SHE SAID ) comment was coming out your mouth any second.🤗

[@Matt.777]

Incredibly important conversation, thanks for having Justin on the podcast 💪🏻

[@eskedartam]

Civilization at its best! Such a beautiful conversation and so much value in it! Thank you Tom 🙏🏾

[@esairamirez6792]

Justin is so well spoken, conducts himself so well, truly admirable.

[@shangrila1559]

Admirable is a stretch but it was a great interview

[@esairamirez6792]

@@shangrila1559 you a hater bro

[@Christian021R]

@@esairamirez6792 OR you are glazing the man just a bit too much. In every way, truly

[@esairamirez6792]

@@Christian021R lmao agree to disagree homie, keep hating

[@Christian021R]

@@esairamirez6792 fair enough, keep glazing

[@richardharrison697]

Really enjoyed the little snippets of the podcast between all the adverts.

[@evanlorezca6329]

Tom’s interview style is far superior to every other podcaster is watched. Love that he challenges his guests ideals and beliefs to pull as much insight out as possible.

[@waltersantoni2964]

I would love to see him interview Tate.

[@tfkdandsvkc]

Love Tom for sure he is a great host

[@shana5300]

I totally agree with you

[@mushroom11g55]

Myron is the best Podcaster hands down. And Tom shouldn't be debating Waller about women, Tom doesn't know anything about women, he's a nerd. He said "as you get strong and look physically aesthetically pleasing you will feel awesome" meanwhile he looks handicapped like Stephen Hawking and he said "if my wife leaves me the first thing I have to do is get ripped" "I'm smaller now than i used to be" WRONG! YOU HAVE TO WORKOUT TOODAYYY! It's too late for Tom to get ripped as easily, he's gonna struggle, and he's only getting older unless he takes TRT. You can't get lazy, or complacent, you have to work out almost everyday. Tom should be taking notes instead of trying to give push back, he should be doing push UPS instead

[@jamesbenjamin5746]

what a conversation between two verry different guys but very humble. what a great collection of life stories.

[@gavinoliver4861]

It’s a big thing being a high value man and everything it comes with it. Especially when your a business owner who provides a stable environment for your staff along with a opportunity for them to progress themselves. Its a balance between the both and it’s such a hard dynamic to provide in this day in age

[@renepitts8680]

And then there's Justìn...

[@nickbondarenko8889]

Justin Waller seems like a good, genuine, kind hearted, authentic person. He is showing a great example for young men on how to love their life. It’s important for men to understand that life will present so many challenges and hardships but men have to stay strong and withstand this so that they can come out strong and achieve success. Whatever their success it may be.

[@JaRa-p9s]

Masculinity is necessary to guide little girls now a days into not being little ig models and only fan girls. It is needed Tom. You don't have children, do you know what children go through now a days that only a strong father can offer and be respected. ** I'm a female and I grew up with a strong father

[@NPFfumbi]

Yep. Needs to be a balance. Masculinity is def lacking

[@larrysummers8966]

Right, Tom is exactly the type of Man that's ruining America.

[@u2ooby]

People who don't have kids just will never understand the true joy of having a child...and IMO are missing out on one of the best things about life..

[@bagsflyfree7710]

I think people want to have kids but fear the woman will take them from him and the kid will be raised without a father figure. I'd say that's worse 😂

[@ayanna439]

Many women die from childbirth and/or suffered injuries & long-term complications. Why are you trying to convince women to have children in a corrupt system that PREYS on children? 🤬 You're not even allowed to "handle" predators when they violate your kid because it's against the law 🙄🤡 You made the choice to have kids now live in it but leave childfree women alone.

[@7ackass]

Most men don't have children and don't have direct influence on the success of that occurring in their lives. Sadly most people don't realize this especially in a depopulation era.

[@outlinehappiness]

I’ve been a long time viewer of Impact Theory and have only seen Justin on podcasts in the redpill space on a panel partially made up of women on OnlyFans. I was really surprised by this guest choice, but I definitely feel this was a platform that allowed for productive conversation, exploration of ideas, and personal philosophies. Tom you are incredible at meeting people on their level which always allows you to get the best from your guests. Thank you for dedicating yourself to providing this content.

[@realestatecoachestv]

I’m sure you enjoyed seeing a real man appear on a weak liberal man’s show huh?? Didn’t you see how tony looked small compare to him..

[@ChanteMcCormick]

I know so many high earning, 6-figure earning women, and none of them are on OnlyFans. It was so odd that he went straight to women earning more than men, but could only come up with OnlyFans as the reason why. Y'all don't know a female doctor, lawyer, etc? I live in the entertainment capital of the world and not one successful woman I know got there by way of OnlyFans. It's actually comical that he went straight to that!

[@peterwilliams6361]

Stocks are pretty unstable at the moment, but if you do the right math, you should be just fine. Bloomberg and other finance media have been recording cases of folks gaining over 250k just in a matter of weeks/couple months, so I think there are alot of wealth transfer in this downtime if you know where to look.

[@peterwilliams6361]

Such market uncertainties are the reason I don’t base my market judgements and decisions on rumours and here-says, got the best of me 2020 and had me holding worthless position in the market, I had to revamp my entire portfolio through the aid of an advisor, before I started seeing any significant results happens in my portfolio, been using the same advisor and I’ve scaled up 750k within 2 years,

[@peterwilliams6361]

Having a counselor is essential for portfolio diversification. My advisor ASHLEY AIRAGAHI who is easily searchable and has extensive knowledge of the financial markets.

[@u2ooby]

Great video...Tom hit it on the head about the social media influence on relationships and the screwed up dating scene

[@FreedomPlaya]

“Money is not going to change how you feel about yourself.” - Very interesting statement from Tom, when he shares about having a lot more decimal points in his bank account. “I still have the same insecurities I had 90 seconds ago.” Wow. While I am grateful for abundance, I too have experienced that when the stress of lack of money was gone, my mind was now worrying about different matters. Lol, as Moby said in an interview I watched with him, having gone from abject poverty into worldwide notoriety and abundance “There is no escaping the human condition.” I think the quest for meaning and for living a meaningful and fulfilling life Is the quest of this life experience.

[@ambition112]

0:00: 👫 The speaker believes that strong men are necessary for successful relationships and that men need to be the leaders in their households. 13:48: 👨‍👧‍👧 The speaker wants young men to have choice and be fulfilled in their relationships, emphasizing the importance of appreciation and protection. 25:45: 👨‍👩‍👧‍👦 The speaker believes that men are being suppressed in society and that young men are dissatisfied with the direction society is taking them. 39:11: 💡 The key to guiding young men is to help them become the best version of themselves, focusing on physical fitness, financial literacy, communication skills, and understanding female nature. 51:22: 🤔 The line between good and evil runs through every person's heart, and humans are capable of both. 1:04:56: 🤔 The speaker discusses his views on judgment, nature, and hypergamy, as well as his perspective on social media and relationships. 1:18:50: 👥 The speaker discusses the lack of discipline in society and the impact it has on people's choices, particularly in relationships and sexuality. 1:31:57: 👥 The speaker believes that the natural state of a woman is to be submissive and in a helping role, and that most women do not want the pressure and stress of work and decision-making. 1:47:31: 😮 The conversation discusses various topics including the importance of shared narratives, the role of Christianity in Western civilization, and the perception of Jordan Peterson's actions as hypocritical. 2:05:17: 😊 Jay Waller expresses his loyalty and admiration for Andrew Tate and discusses the importance of brotherhood and happiness in his life. 2:13:06: 💪 The speaker believes in being unapologetic about building a group of men that hold each other to a high standard, and that trust and loyalty are crucial in such relationships. 2:26:10: 💑 The speaker discusses his relationship with his wife, their commitment to each other, and their decision not to have children. 2:38:42: 👨‍👧‍👧 The speaker expresses his motivation and inspiration to work hard every day for his daughters and create a legacy for them, while also discussing his thoughts on fatherhood and the challenges of raising children in a wealthy family. 2:52:23: 🏗 From starting with a job to building a multi-million dollar steel building business, the journey involved getting a contractor's license, living frugally, building systems, and trusting employees. 3:04:58: 🔑 The speaker discusses the importance of trust in building relationships and its impact on business success. Recap by Tammy AI

[@Kloud9s]

You are awesome for this

[@bradchadington9068]

You’re a man of the people. Thank you!

[@D.A.N.....]

You're gonna go far bro I appreciate

[@gabriellamclellan1102]

Great Interview ...as usual.. you are the only long podcast I can actually listen to.. love your style..works for me..!

[@2amplants33]

Every relationship should be a partnership. And each one looks different. Both my husband and I grew up without fathers with very different outcomes. I BECAME the "man" of the house and he became the kindest most nurturing human I've ever met. And we have swapped "traditional" gender roles and it works so well for us. He's stronger physically, and I'm stronger emotionally by nature, but by having to take on these roles outside of our "nature" we are both more well rounded. we are mutually valued, respected and ultimately a stronger team. I am decisive and ambitious and he is grounding and observant. I have the space and power to do whatever I want to do but if he says a hard no.... I trust that he probably has a reason for our best interests. And I think that works both ways despite gender. as long as it is balanced, we'll communicated and consensual... go nuts.

[@yoyojuana2054]

And that's totally normal. Feminine men and masculine women exists, they can pair bond as well.

[@TheZGALa]

Brene Brown's work helped to demonstrate what I think is true about vulnerability ultimately being powerful. I think Tom comes off much sexier talking from the heart, relaxed back, than Justin getting tense and flexing over the table in defense of his friend.

[@TheIronglare]

I hardly comment, but his guy has a very old and conservative view that I just couldn't resist. This is the reason why many great and strong men feel peer pressure to have this facade of being rough and tough and lose control and respect within their inner circle.

[@Seriously_Shelby]

Great to see two people communicate and have peaceful convo with some ideas that dont agree. I agree with justin.

[@InnerAlchemy7944]

Great video! The amount of self-reflection I was able to obtain, i am very grateful! A dynamic conversation but way deeper than surface levels. I mean, there was something weird that i was just being lifted up by the back and forth. Tom i like how this channel always is elevating my Conscious.

[@DanielGomez-mh9sv]

I agree seeing 2 men completely different physically,mentally,emotionally and in everyother way agree in certain areas and disagree in other areas was great value! Thanks for sharing god bless! To all the brothers choose which path you want to take and make the best out of it! Goodluck

[@PepeCoinMania]

Only one is respectable

[@tarisaishumba2642]

Justin is a rare brother who can actually train you to become a better version of yourself.

[@MarcusVertex]

I don’t like how Tom speaks from a top position at Justin. Like he discovers more about life than him. But I, and a lot of people here I think, can feel how Justin is powerful, get his life, jobs, mental frame togheter, better than Tom does. From my opinion he’s boundet too much with his wife, saying that’s impossible they’ll divorce. But a mature male knows life is unfair and unpredictable, and he exposes himself on an incredible perspective struggle in the side of the business added to what might be the feelings side. I think Justin here was so patienced and mature to not overcome these believes yet to respect as well his interlocutor and he teaches us how to deal in that sotuation. Great interview

[@Toyotaamazon80series]

Tom definitely gets rear ended by his wife!

[@jiriesdawaherrealestate]

Feels so real. Such a mature conversation from these guys. Didn't notice it was 3 hours! Definitely stimulating discussion. More power !

[@mindtheprivacy]

What a way to converse! Between to accomplished human that do not wanna convince each other of anything and are just present glad to have met each other or maybe just present, open and curious.

[@syhlex]

This has been a good observation of two men having a healthy conversation. I appreciate the knowledge presented from both sides, and this aids in the journey. I will be forever grateful for this insight.

[@superdadswagg6530]

I had to turn it at 15:15 when I heard a grown man say "Let's talk about your energy changing when you said that" 😂😂😂

[@sofiemascaro1304]

I love this interview so much, thanks @tombilyeu and @justinwaller for your honesty, as a femenine monogamous woman I appreciate an honest guy that respectfully and calmly stands for what he believes instead of choosing living a hidden life. I really admire your brotherhood with Andrew and Tristan; say hi to them for me please. Honor, loyalty, integrity makes me admire and respect discipline men immensely because i know I'm protected and I can trust them. Keep guiding young guys to be men of value, and they will decide if they want to be monogamous or not when ready. I am a strong confident, sharp woman raised during this twisted gender role era, that realized very early that putting men down- feminizing them, and masculinizing women was not working at all. I wanted a strong loving masculine man in intelligent control that allowed me to be in my powerful feminine being and that can lower my attitude based in reactionary fellings when need it. It was challenging but so attractive and admiring. I didn't enjoy being masculine anymore and micro controlling everything...didn't feel right inside. It's not a competition, men and women complement each other. We women can do male roles...easily, we are amazing, but, we are not wired to do it, our levels of testosterone are way lower and we decay and age faster when hustling like a man. Our internal rhythms are completely different. On the other hand, men can stay at home yes, but after a while they feel emasculated. After 15 years of being a Relashionship Coach and listening to them, that was the #1 irreconcilable issue. I personally love being a mom, my kids are the most beautiful meaning in my life and they are being raised to be critical thinkers, succesful loving integral, kind human beings, while I have an online business that I enjoy creating and growing while guiding my clients as a relationship coach to honor gender roles and cherishing their partners to bring back strong families and society

[@TheManiHimself]

This sit down was a prime example of Theory vs Practical, justin being practical the arguements this guy is having is in my experience, not relatable but i dont have the findings to say he was wrong but every single thing justin say i can relate 110%

[@lebohangmoloi6721]

Nailed it brother...Justin is more realistic and relatable.

[@scottneith1]

I'm really enjoying the communication between these two. Definitely a healthy conversation

[@brandoncarle]

FANTASTIC🔥🔥🔥 appreciate you guys

[@everydaydr3am3r]

This is one amazing talk! ❤❤❤ This is, first of all, a lesson about how a conversation should take place in order to bring value instead of a ego combat 🙏👌

[@MarkDreamsPhilosophy]

I am sooooo glad to see jwaller blowing up...cuz his content and points of view have helped me alot..

[@cycsportapparel3350]

I've always loved watching Tom! I found out about him when he visited the Bahamas to speak at an OWN event. At first I misunderstood his guest today, Justin Waller, but this conversation helped me to understand him a bit more. As he said, he's not necessarily "Red Pill", but a genuine advocate for young men in the way that many people are not today. I think that's why he and even Andrew Tate are so misunderstood. In some ways what they say seems to be a conversation against women, but it's really a conversation about pushing men to become the optimal version of themselves. It just happens that much of that conversation involves women, because when it boils down to it, much of what drives men is their desire to connect in some way with the opposite sex. As everyone already has already said, this was a really great conversation.

[@JaRa-p9s]

Yes exactly. I'm a female and I agree with this mindset because it helps men be better versions of themselves and be able to be a quality man for a quality woman. In the end it's about self improvement.

[@nope3015]

Watching Tom resist the red pill and knowing what comes next in his relationship

[@ozb10]

Yeah its pretty crazy. Once exposed to this Truth, cant gi back

[@cardioandmanifest]

Justin is such a role model man!!! As a woman, wife, mother, business owner I absolutely love him and agree 100% with his theory/mindset. What a GENTLEMAN!!

[@sponkmcdonk3898]

You’d be okay being his 3rd gf?

[@cardioandmanifest]

@@sponkmcdonk3898 why would you ask that when I said I'm a wife? I don't understand why people try to ask questions meant to "trigger" someone just to put them up against a wall and judge them based off the hypothetical answer.

[@tulaloo6526]

The real question is, would you be okay with your daughter being his girlfriend and having children while entertainibg other women with his children?

[@TheTruthAintInYa]

What Justin needs to understand though you have kids to create a legacy not to tell them whose boss your kids won’t have to “get fresh” with you if that’s not how you raised them. It’s giving he just wants to be in full control and the powerhouse and no one can tell him he’s wrong

[@cardioandmanifest]

@@TheTruthAintInYa not sure if you have kids but they all get fresh, it's adolescence and inevitable. He said it from a parents point of view, kids need structure and need a father figure that they respect.

[@metoceedeelee]

This is one of my all time favorite interv iews/podcast. Tom Bilyeu is a masterful interviewer. Both intelligent thoughtful men who may disagree seeking to learn and express eachothers reasoning.

[@SquirrilahFish]

Watching podcasts like this makes me appreciate my wife so much. I'm a lucky guy. My discipline sucks (but is probably above average like everything else I've learned about myself) but I work HARD.

[@ljpinna3623]

Thanks Justin for stooping to this level for the sake of progress.

[@NavasGonzalo]

The problem is not between men and women, the problem comes from those who has inoculate polarization and confrontation between us.

[@jordankrush926]

This was fascinating to listen to. So many of my initial judgements disappeared. What a great lesson to have learned this afternoon. Thank you both for your honesty and real truth. This beautiful interaction was informative and uplifting. ❤

[@NickBuja]

Ohh dear what happen to you and who disappeared

[@BEYOUTOTHEFUL]

PLS HONEY DONT BE A FOOL AND FALL FOR THIS GUYS GAMES HE IS A MANSTER FOR SURE.. USE YR HEART AND THINK ABOUT WHAT HIS WIFE HS TO ENDURE. I FEEL VERY SRRY FOR HER , CAN YOU IMAGINE WHAT SHE FEELS WHEN HE IS WITH ALL THOSE OTHER WOMEN. COME ON GIRLFRIEND REALLY, THIS IS GOOD WITH YOU... WAKE UP XO ANGELA

[@jordankrush926]

@@NickBuja I certainly will not agree with everyone’s lifestyle choices. I was very focused and appreciative of two men with different perspectives discussing life. It’s interesting how you assumed I’m a follower of a particular ideal because I commented. I listened to these men discuss an array of topics, men who don’t necessarily see eye to eye. So many people fight, argue, and refuse to hold space for each other. The interview was a great reminder to hold the tongue and ask more questions even if one doesn’t agree.

[@funkspinna]

​@@BEYOUTOTHEFUL"Manster"? LOL. Relax, Karen.

[@C0d0ps]

“Manster” what in the heck.

[@МитићСтефан]

jwaller really out here changing lives

[@lliioonnheart9874]

Women only cheat for someone "higher" If shes in a superficial relationship. Her relationship is not even real, its just safety reasons, fear of being alone, convenient, etc If a woman really loves a man, she wont cheat. The mistake people believe is that, they think a woman is in love, because she is married and has kids to a man. But thats not true. So many women settle for guys they dont love, in fear of being alone, or he could have a good income, to look after her and the kids. Social media has opened the window for women to actually find someone out of there area. That their compatible with. But i agree with this chap. Women should be patient before rushing into a relationship in the first place. And it does disgust me also that they are having a double dip after deciding to settling down. To many people are not playing around when they should, in their 20's. This will give them wisdom and life experience in what they want in a partner. But most people now want to start families and get married in their 20's. But havent discovered who they are, what they like etc. So now they are essential playing around in their 30s, with husband and kids. I see it everywhere and it is disgusting. Marriage is not marriage anymore. People get married for the spectacle of the event. And the relief of not being alone anymore. Its doesnt mean anything now. Instant gratification fuels the generation now. If you get married and have babies, you are the attention for that moment. Than it wears off and then they realize......... shit!! i just hads kids and married someone that im not actually in love with. It was just the energy of the moment. But entitlement says..... Who cares that i married someone and that i have kids to this person, now is my time to find the real love of my life. SMH So many people double dipping after making life long commitments.

[@dwaynewalker7074]

At that 20 mins mark Justin said something that I have always had an issue with in my life. I'm not a yeller but if I am talking about something that I am passionate about I can get fired up but that does not mean that I am yelling. There are so many people that are unable to tell the difference so I end up just not talking to many people. Not because I don't want to but because being stoic in my interactions means that I have detached myself from the topic at hand and have started to view it from a neutral observers perspective. which can come off as cold and insensitive.

[@GUITARTIME2024]

The term yelling has been broadened to mean "speaking forcefully". Sad.

[@MrSenses33]

Justin. I don't know you personally. But you are an immense inspiration for me dude. I'm a young dude, a bit lost as we tend to be, and have never vibed with the whole hardcore red-pill scene. But your frame and message is so calm, collected and not something spread enough in the world we live in. Don't worry, we can see the full side of you, you showed us today. Found you because of Mr Tate, but you are the next level man.. no hate! Thank you both for this beautiful conversation!

[@insight7483]

I can't believe Tom thinks soical media is not destroying society

[@Foxstab]

I feel sorry and sad for you, boy. You've been taken for a ride by shrewd marketing department.

[@MrSenses33]

@@Foxstab Not to get overly complicated, But I did not say he is my role model. I have my parents for that. But considering who kids look up to nowadays. Rappers, drug dealers, and where everyone in politics is just spreading lies or purely curated stuff by some focusgroup. Justin is alot better than the alternative. A hardworking father and husband, who is atleast honest with what he thinks. Speaking of politics, another inspiration to me is actually Vivek Ramaswamy. And it is my belief that these guys, would serve as better inspiration figures for the vast majority of our youth today. Thats the gist of what I'm saying 😊.

[@Randomlycreatedbyme]

@@MrSenses33 I don’t know what youth you surround yourself with, perhaps you have spent to much time online and engaged in celebrity culture, the idea that someone like Waller would serve as a good role model just shows how low the bar has fallen. He’s a man child and an online grifter. Good luck and less naïveté, I’m sure in a few years you’ll look back and realize that following these people is just as useless as following rappers.

[@marc2638]

@@MrSenses33you know I was gonna leave a comment for you that wasn’t going to resonate with you because as you’ve said yourself you have never vibed with the red pill version of perspective,,,, what I want to leave with is after having read that second comment of yours in time you’ll see what’s really happening and you’ll become the man that you’re exactly suppose to be, point here is,,,,, I think you’ll turn out just fine

[@luisherrera1981]

Masterfully-navigated interview Tom, great work.