GOODBYES BEFORE JAPAN! | DALEY DIARIES WEEK 34/49 I Tom Daley

Being a parent and an athlete that travels so much is always hard because I miss the little man so much! I am travelling for the first time in a year to a competition. A kind of bitter sweet moment.
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[@heikekurtz2085]

Parenting tip: ask him which stuffed animal you can take with you and take pictures of it on your trip - you could even write a diary about "animal's adventures in Japan" or something.

[@rosepetal34]

really lovely idea/ knowing tom he'd probably end up knitting / crocheting it little outfits too

[@booksmusicandcoffee]

Great idea!

[@peggyesquibel8353]

Fun idea!

[@lilylove3946]

I was just thinking something similar. Something that will smell like him also.

[@hattinah6176]

yes! Also you can hug the stuffed animal when you Facetime Lance and Robbie so it's like a remote hug.

[@juibelly2318]

a travel kettle for tea is probably the most British thing I've every heard 😂

[@Mattinspfldil]

Can’t imagine an American saying that 😅

[@melindayang4718]

@@Mattinspfldil unless it’s an Asian American who likes tea like me

[@mayukhidey]

India : hold my beer

[@khevnadesai8194]

@@mayukhidey I was just gonna say the same thing. 😀😀

[@larajhilton]

Why wouldn’t you! 😆

[@saanvithakur222]

Robbie's personality is THE most entertaining and adorable thing!!

[@kelelithabane2849]

Ain't it though😅💞

[@steffiejunius]

Advise from someone who grew up having a parent who traveled all the time: Call every single day with him (even if it's just so he hears your voice). and when you do get back: quality time has to be quality time ;) I was very fortunate that my dad took that to heart and always called in to tell us where he was and when on the weekends he was home, he made sure he spends time with his family and not work. My dad told me a few years ago he felt 'guilty' traveling so much for work. I told him he never should. He felt so present in my life as he always asked how I was doing and how I was feeling etc... Hope you can be there just as much for your adorable little man ;)

[@lilia3944]

Kind of late, but bringing something (little) home is also helpful. My mom used to be away half the weeks because she worked in another town, and she always had something with her when she came back: a tiny crotcheted animal, a single lolly, a pretty postcard (she's an art historian, so lots of church pictures), maybe even just a note or little sketch. None of that was really big, but just having something to look forward to was always great.

[@Letissiaskatetapes24]

I imagine it's different leaving Lance than it is leaving Robbie. You and Lance started off as a long distance couple and even when living together you both still traveled a lot for your jobs. So you both know how to handle that on every level. Robbie is your baby though and is growing and changing constantly. To leave him must be filled with so much emotion after so much time with him. Thanks for sharing this part of yourself Tom. Take care of yourself and have a safe trip to Japan. I can't wait to see you compete. Love to Lance and Robbie.

[@MrJacobrabbit]

Yes

[@peterfowke7818]

Yes agree

[@alexandraanderson4689]

Fully agree but additionally Robbie is only small and he probably doesn’t fully understand what’s happening so would be harder for him as Lance would understand why he’s leaving

[@hvasomhelst]

“You like margaritas?!?” I CACKLED 😂

[@danielmkubacki]

I have an idea Tom. Write a little note for Robbie for every day that you are away. Have Lance read them to Robbie. That way he will hear from his Papa every day.

[@fathimatasneem0457]

Robbie interrupting tom is epic !!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣#adorablebabyboy😍 . . Don't worry Tom. Time's gonna fly soon ! Best of luck ! Do ur best !

[@MoaandMore]

I live in Tokyo, Japan, and I’m waiting for you 🇯🇵❤️

[@enderwiggins8248]

Love your channel!!

[@guillerminavazquez2283]

Apenas t conocí y m enamoré. Que guapo 🤩😘

[@lindamoulton1560]

OMG the interactions with Robbie about the beverages were absolutely hilarious. Gotta love kids

[@Elizabeth.cunningham]

You’re such a good parent. My dad used to work abroad all the time, we literally just saw him at school holidays, it’s so refreshing to see you care so much about needing the connection still

[@keosh777]

I travelled for work 10 years when my children were young. It was part of our family dynamic. My twins are now 26. I am gay. We parents were the modern family before the tv show of same name. At significant locations, I would buy something interesting as a gift. (Maybe your hotel staff could help in that regard during restrictions). Once I bought my one daughter a plush frog. Unintended, but, I love it, she has developed a life long fascination with frogs. Bonus, both my daughters love to travel with one fascinated with all things Japanese, where I once ventured. You have a wonderful family unit. Even though not physically present you will still be parenting in some way imparting values to your son. All the best in your Japan competition.

[@Shelsight]

Love this story. My dad also travelled loads and would bring small presents or send postcards from each place... your kids will always remember that... :)

[@kelelithabane2849]

Robbie is sooo sophisticated, his choice of drinks, wow!!

[@amandamack8721]

When I was traveling for work I took a sock monkey with an my kids played "Where in the world is Sock Monkey?". I'd email clues and they had to guess where I was. It was awesome! And sock monkey always came home with a new outfit and cool stories to tell.

[@harriet4358]

That’s really nice of you to do that. When I was little (about 7 ~13 years old) my parents traveled a lot and I needed to live in my grandparents or my uncles house. I felt lonely, isolated, like I’m not part of their family and sometimes I felt like I was left behind, it’s a really hard time for me.

[@notliya]

the best dancer in this world

[@OxOx_XoXo1]

Yes

[@moshemordechaivanzuiden]

And then he spoke the legendary words "Couldn't keep a Straight face at that." Mattie, I'm so glad you're back.

[@lelandpeck4585]

tom your talking about leaving Robbie and Lance was really touching. You really will miss them, but think of the reunion once you're back in London. Hope your time in Japan will be great for you.

[@nisalsan5570]

That dance 🤣🤣 I can’t....

[@inurihettiarachchi9780]

Hi nisal!! We met again🤣🤣🤣🤣✋

[@t.c668]

My mom would take my little blanket from when I was a baby. She said it still had my scent and it was comforting

[@kerryward7339]

Thanks for taking the time to share a bit of your life and your beautiful family. A couple of suggestions from a traveling parent: 1. Write him at least one note while you are away telling him how you are missing him, any thoughts you had on that fun play date you had right before you left, what’s going through your mind, how your trip is going, how he’s just amazing you, etc. Take the note and compile it in a notebook or scrapbook for Robbie with all of the other ones you write when you travel. This will help you feel better on those days when you are trying to FaceTime and explain to him how much you miss him, but the wooden spoon from the kitchen is just way more interesting than you are at that moment. It will also give him a scrapbook later in life when he is old enough to understand that shows how much you love him and always thought of him when you were away. Throw in some postcards, hotel paper, event announcements, etc. of the place just for fun. Think about what it will say to him when he sees a note from his dad from the Olympics that talks about how much he was loved and missed at the moment you were preparing for that really big dive or standing on the podium. 2. Bring something back for him that is part of the place you are visiting (but is at his level). As a parent I had to make a conscious effort not to bring a toy back every time I go on a work trip, because my son will just expect it every time. Also, it just creates a lot of clutter in the house. However, my son is really into rocks, and leaves, and acorns, and sticks, etc. He is very excited to receive a rock from some place I’ve been. This is not to say that I never bring back a snow globe or something, but he really likes the rocks. We keep them in special boxes now (along with all of the other rocks he picks up). When he is done with his rock phase, we can put them in planters or return them to nature. Thanks again for sharing a bit of your life. I hope you have a blessed time in Tokyo!

[@joshuasavage244]

When I'm away from family sometimes I'll take a notebook with me. Then I'll collect little things to bring home inside it, like a scrapbook-even little everyday things like ticket stubs that might be fun little souvenirs for someone who's never travelled to that place. Also if I'm really missing someone I'll write a little journal entry to them. It can be really helpful for those times when I'm missing someone terribly but the time difference means they won't be awake, because I can imagine telling the story directly to them. Writing it out by hand feels more intimate to me-plus it takes longer, which can help when you need to make the time pass by!

[@thanhxuan5507]

Tom Daley I'm learning English thought his videos , the little family is really so cute

[@michelle_mitch_p]

You definitely speak for lots of us parents. The one tip is focus on how fab it will be when you come home xxx

[@libbyjones7290]

Good luck Tom, Robbie will be all the more excited when you return so he can give you big hugs.

[@sadubone]

good luck and best wishes.

[@sobelou]

It isn't only Matty. Who could keep a straight face with you dancing behind like that? 😘

[@amym276]

An idea for you , is to take some kids books and FaceTime robbie before his bedtime and read to him . It’ll help you feel close whilst far away

[@mikehauck9470]

Hey Tom, just wanted to wish you luck in Japan. I'm from the USA but love your diving and the story behind you. You're a remarkable person. I'll be watching so give em hell man.

[@felixdom9693]

How can this young man be so wise responsible and have done incredible thing in his life!! why tom daley is so perfect. so amazing knowing this talented man

[@AaronLover85]

Think it would have been a bit easier to leave Robbie and Lance if Covid wouldend have happend. Bc you are now used to being at home for so long. But think about how it is gone be to cuddle them when you get back home. Robbie is so funny with the drinks 😂

[@robertbottorff763]

I loved Robbie's comments on favorite drinks, so cute. I know it must be really hard to leave Robbie and Lance after being together so much this past year because of Covid. I know you are going to do an amazing job of diving, you are the BEST!! ❤👏

[@nancymanocha5472]

Your videos are good for my mental health!!! Stay in glory Tom Delay 🙏 🙌

[@hollybainbridge8072]

Love u Tom Lance and Robbie. Good luck Tom ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️

[@daylonmitchell6033]

Robbie is using his words. So precious!

[@abrahamsantana5315]

Tom, I been following you since the London 2012 Olympics and seen you comepete in 2012 and 2016, its hard to leave behind the ones you love, just use that as a fuel for you when you compete you do well, both your husband and son will be cheering for you and when you comeback you will have stories to tell Robbie and he will learn, love and appreciatte what you do, because the things you are doing like go to the Olympics and win medals you are part of a small group that gets to go and compete, plus all the experiences, so use that as a positive way, I wish all of the sucess in the world, Cheers from Mexico

[@60_Degrees_North]

I know how I feel when I go home from my neices and nephew, brother and sister in law. I ball every time. Your closing comments, made me well up for you. I could feel your pain. Keep your chins up Tom. 🇯🇵Good luck in Japan 👍🏼

[@jeffyoung8208]

Good Luck you guys! Peace and Safe Travels! 👍🏼

[@matildalynn6196]

Best of luck to you in Japan! You seem to be in such a good place with your balance of personal life with your training. I know you'll miss your family, but the big hug for Papa when you return will be the best thing ever. 💜

[@jeanwhite2236]

When I went away as a HSC trainer when my Kate was younger we had a set time every evening to talk. As Kate got older she knew when we could talk and when I was due back. We always planned an activity on my return. Have a good training time when you are away. Jean x

[@eddiegrm]

Yay Matty! Have a great day!

[@ehhjeep]

Being a parent no matter the job title is hard. Have a great trip and win big.

[@dena8665]

Awwww Robbe is the cutest ! Hope you have an amazing time at Japan 🇯🇵 and you’ll be back to Lance and Robbe sooner than you think Lovee you alll

[@catcatastrophetv6626]

You kick ass in JAPAN!!!!! ❤️😃

[@lauradavidson4240]

Wishing you safe travels to Japan, and a good competition ❤️ Leaving Robbie and Lance will be especially tough having been able to spend so much time together throughout lockdown 😢 But hopefully time will go fast and you’ll be back home before you know it 🙏👨‍👨‍👦🥰

[@BillPritchard]

You’re a good human, Tom!

[@stevebuck1737]

Best wishes on your upcoming competition . . Love to Lance, Robbie and Mattie.

[@lillie7124]

The thought of leaving your child and your partner after so long has to be hard. Well wishes to you and your family. Good luck Tom!

[@stephanklugel1442]

The best to you!! Tom in Japan for your Dives.. Tell Robbie and Lance, I said hello to them... 👋👋👋❤️❤️❤️✌️🤟

[@jamesbarry4324]

Best of luck in Japen. Be safe.

[@bobseeger342]

Good to see you again Tom 💙 love hearing Robbie's adorable voice 💙 your looking good Tom and wishing you the best of luck in Japan😆 love you guys and till next time be safe and healthy ♥️🤠

[@carolynellis5459]

Are you taking many knit/crochet projects with you to Japan? Can you show us what you’re making? Love the “Jake” blanket...what a happy little boy that was 🙂

[@serperior_vba8483]

GOLD!!!!!! CONGRATS 👏👏👏

[@fathimatasneem0457]

The dives are the best !!! Its soo amazing 👏 😍!!!!! Great work guys !!!

[@viceroyzh]

Your talking about leaving your family for your work reminded me of "Rocket Man" by Elton John.

[@harveyemm4865]

Good luck Tom.

[@nikkieugenemercado4638]

At 3:03 when he is packing his food he didn't expect to have a pantry filled with international food. Lmao

[@laurie1889]

i love seeing you dive its so satisfying😭

[@valerieschiano2959]

You packed your crochet and knitting 🧶 supplies, right? How many different projects do have going at the same time, or do you only do one at a time, from start to finish? How many do you hope to complete before your return from Japan?

[@ianheart4843]

It's so funny how Robbie resembles Lance so much in terms of teasing you. He really is the daddy son >

[@adam_reading]

Robbie is way too cute that he always tried to join Tom with the talking!

[@JCSol]

So great a video. Love seeing Mattie again

[@arthurmonteiro9788]

Hey Tom! It's been 34 weeks and I can say I love Daley Diaries. It has been great to dive in your life, family and thoughts. A question for Q&A: what is the most difficult part of diving for you?

[@Alex-lz7wb]

Best of luck to you, Tom!!

[@msz9523]

Best of luck at the World Cup, Tom! Woop woop, you got this!

[@Kari_B61ex]

Me in the future can DEFINITELY say that your decisions have paid off - Congratulations GOLD medal winning TOM.

[@fabulousf.2583]

You are the onliest person I look up to.❤️

[@cindykip]

Another wonderful video! So much respect for your honesty and inspiration. I know leaving your precious boys today will be hard but also exciting in a different way. We believe in you so much and know that you are ready for what the next few months will bring! Go and shine this trip and then you will be even more ready for August! Again SO much respect and gratitude to you and for you! We are so proud to support you and will be cheering you on all the way! Safe travels and we look forward to hearing all about your experiences to come. PS .. also it was great to see a glimpse of your sweet husband .. no doubt he is busy doing his thing but we miss hearing from him. Shine on TD!! 💙💪🏻💦

[@jerrywong4980]

Kettle 4 coffee and tea I think all hotels have this basic in each rooms and it's so sweet 2 hear robbie telling dad all the cocktails he really does not know what it means and good luck and success 4 your trip to Japan

[@dianatsuchiya6546]

Good luck in your competition, blessings to Robbie

[@susanjones7594]

Hi I’ve just started to watch your KZbin,now I can’t stop ,I think your lovely family are. amazing ,( I’m in my 70s ) you’ve done a wonderful job in the Olympics well done , 👏👏👏💫✨💫🇬🇧

[@prekshabharti8722]

Do you have a special skincare routine to protect your skin from chlorinated water? Lots of love!

[@kevinhoward9593]

Safe travels Tom, stay safe and healthy and of GOOD LUCK.

[@kellytyrrell1253]

Cherish your time together. Make it count.

[@louisechapman4009]

Safe travels

[@iamtheghostwriter100]

My goodness, you have a healthy safe trip. I’m sure will all be waiting for you to get home. Have fun and do your best.

[@rachelizabeth8917]

Good luck in Japan Tom, hope it all goes well ☺️ you will soon be back with Robbie and Lance ❤️ xx

[@vanessawood4009]

Hello Tom - will mixed synchro diving ever make it into the Olympics? I'm assuming it didn't get in for 2020 / 2021 since you haven't shown any practices or diving with Grace lately. Your videos are great!! It's nice to see Lance (and Matty) and to hear Robbie, as well. I'm hoping you have a successful trip to Japan!

[@cltransler]

This popped up on my feed this morning--I guess it's all about Tom and Matty today! Congratulations, gentlemen! You did it! So happy for you both!

[@carolinewieland8974]

Tom all the best for Tokyo to you and your team, especially staying healthy, Lance you and Robbie, have fun at home, I hope the time goes by quickly, that Robbie has his dad at home again and you have your husband.

[@carolinewieland8974]

@@tomdaley6463 Have fun again, many medals, come back healthy.

[@kaonashiyakuza]

When he said a "Kettle" i cracked Sooo UK

[@disstuff5336]

I loved the ballet shoes!!! Please, show us a little of your battle skills. God bless you and Lance a Robbie, all your family, and your diving family too. Safe travels!

[@chrolli247]

You are such a good person! Your love for your family really shines through! Best wishes!

[@davidandtom8238]

I think while your gone, you should knit or crochet something, anything for Robbie, with a Japanese flair. Best of Luck in Japan!!!

[@lyndahaggard6925]

Leaving is difficult but there are things that you can do to make it a little easier. Do video and call him as much as possible. In the future you might want to get a toy for each of you and the toys are special and will keep both of you safe. Robbie picks out the one you will carry and you will pick out the one Robbie will keep. Enjoy Japan and I hope you do well. Be safe.

[@mlguy8376]

Working at a consultancy is tough leaving the little one and my better half, and lockdown has been a blessing in terms of spending time with them. I am getting anxious having to do it again. No tips here - except make your return even better than the leaving :)!

[@blubird97c14]

If it isnt possible to physically talk to Robbie then you can make a video of you talking to him or reading to him, then later Lance can play it to him and he can do the same from his end. You can talk in person to Lance and have that back up for later to perk you up. Good luck in your competition.

[@MrJacobrabbit]

Safe travels and good luck 👍

[@nicholasbarry2392]

Tom good luck in Japan 🇯🇵♥

[@zigmarskleins8184]

Live and love. Live long life.

[@romico.]

気をつけてね！ がんばってください！

[@sophialewis5642]

Love Robbie’s voice!

[@yousraalami7367]

U lightin my day every day I just have to see ur face

[@edenwalsh1014]

😂😂😂😂Tom you're such a tarty farty! So funny that wiggle at the start!

[@danam5938]

Good luck Tom, in Japan. We’re all cheering you along ❤️

[@that1monk]

i have no idea how that diving doesn't make you crazy dizzy. *edit omb you spin so much and so fast

[@chrisboot2468]

If Lance likes Rose wine, try and get him some pink port. Fabulous from the fridge!!

[@SwatiSharma-gd6pt]

Hey congrats tom & Matty. For gold in synchro Congratulations lance & Robbie.

[@NattyBright92]

My dad was in the US Navy my whole childhood and it was so hard when my dad would deploy and when he had a tour. It has affected my relationship with my dad.

[@georgesofield4596]

You truly are a well rounded person!

[@brianeduardo1234]

Keep safe and hope the games go ahead