The 'Selfish' Years: Finding Yourself, Dealing With Fear & Building Intimate Relationships

[@lizd6886]

I have a dream to see a TMS talk show + have Courtney and Renée on Forbes 30 under 30

[@bangibabs]

Me too🥰🙏🏾🙌🏾 they are amazing

[@zezezanotti9165]

I was literally thinking the same thing before reading the comments❤️✨They Deserve it✨

[@neema_]

Ikr 🙌🏽

[@bitchdontplaywitme4798]

Same they deserve everything ❤️💕🫶🏾

[@destnyluxurie]

Wow that’s amazing! See visions for others!

[@lakynshaw4857]

When she said, “I’m going to consider my own emotions and desires before I make a decision.” I had to stop what I was doing and write that down because I don’t think I’ve ever checked in with myself first. Pouring from an empty cup was normalized since childhood. Sending love to anyone else that is going through their selfishness journey! 😘❤️❤️

[@sweetandsimple.]

Courtney: You need to be willing to give parts of your heart to other people. You have to be vulnerable. Me: no. No. NO. NOOOOO!

[@kianalaboriel6595]

LMAOOOOOOOOO felt this

[@phathuasante]

😂😂😂

[@miyane447]

No cuz being vulnerable is something i’ll do with 1 person on 1.000.000 people and i STAY BY THAT

[@ChimangoMwandira]

i struggle with giving from an empty pot 😢 .. i feel guilty when i don't help out sometimes , then i find myself in a deficit . but lately I've been trying to put myself first , for once bought something for myself and it helped boost my esteem . i was so proud of myself

[@audiannichealing]

Proud of you, praying with you

[@CandaceJDunkley]

"While. It's a good thing to give it's even better when you give with intention." I love the part about self-trust. It's such an important part of the moves we make in many areas of life. Great question from the sister and love the insight ladies! ~Candace

[@kuki1053]

I am unshackling myself from the bondage of perfectionism in Jesus name!!! LOL

[@AudAkos]

Amen 🙏🏽🙏🏽

[@hxnnxh.y]

came at the right time!!

[@333pinacolada]

Sooo true - what do I desire? Idk I’ve been living for and protecting my siblings for so long idk what my dreams are without considering someone else in that decision

[@deebestest100]

Commenting as I go! I haven’t been here for a while, hey guys!

[@_Jarima_]

Clock work and it’s always a topic I need! I love it here!🤩♥️

[@EmaniMone]

This episode was so hard to watch and listen to because I am the giver who continues to give until I have nothing. It’s something I have been actively working on and it’s so hard. Building boundaries and keeping them is so difficult. But thank you for the confirmation of what I already knew was true and the reassurance to keep going.

[@bangibabs]

Your discussions are always encouraging 💝🙏🏾 thank you ladies

[@billiont.1857]

I love every single one of your podcasts but I tell you this read me for absolute filth. WHEWWW chilayyyy! Like I am so afraid to confront these things about myself that I genuinely wanted to turn this off. Thank y’all for this work, thank y’all for opening something inside of me, I’m ready to change no matter how uncomfortable. 🪷

[@llorzz]

this podcast has honestly become one of my Sunday staples🙌🏿🙌🏿 Always look forward to getting that notif!

[@Marvelous_M]

This came at the best time. ♥️

[@missjamerica6461]

Same for me!

[@Thatsjustkendra]

The TMS podcast is always exactly what I need ❤️

[@xongilemasungwini2882]

I literally just checked if there was an upload and then you uploaded immediately after!

[@PaigeForbes242]

This topic was so necessary and timely. Wow.

[@queenkgr4413]

My new favorite podcast and KZbin channel! You’re killing it ladies and your videos are like a warm hug!! I love it here !!!

[@ANa-qt7tt]

this was the best thing i've EVER watched in my life. you guys are so articulate, i aspire to be like you!

[@tomysisters]

Made our day! Thank you so much ❤️

[@cosmic_user]

happy to be here. thank you, ladies.

[@photinisociety]

wow, this video is a great help. some real enlightening and confronting shit right here. thank you.

[@michellemolefi5191]

Literally after work I'm here🥺❤

[@kianalaboriel6595]

I am a new subscriber to your channel hi ❤ Thank you for discussing about this topic and giving good advice on it Lmao this was something I needed to hear because right now this is the year where I have decided to put myself first and get rid of those that weren't beneficial for me. At first it was very difficult to make that big move because I thought that was a selfish move :( However, I realized that it is important to set boundaries and get rid of those that are not making you happy. Once I finally put my foot down, it really felt good to get rid of that big rock off my shoulders Lmao if that makes sense 😂 Right now I am currently still trying to figure myself out and trying to get out my comfort zone (getting to know new people) but its hard because I still have some type of trust issues and some type of fear cause of the past traumatic events I have dealt with.

[@___Neona]

Ooouuu Renee? Those curls sis 😍👌

[@sydney.josieee]

You guys are too good👏🏽👏🏽

[@nomnesti]

Thank you for sharing this

[@faithmzk]

Powerful

[@audiannichealing]

Wonderful

[@krysiepredeoux]

I feel guilty for expressing myself when I feel a way about things I am very self conscious. How do I stop this form of low self esteem

[@HealASista]

Whewwwwwwwwwwww If you don’t allow yourself to feel scared you’ll never do anything revolutionary WOOOOOWWWWWWW AW WORDDDDD HUNTY!

[@xongilemasungwini2882]

Just like that I am first!

[@tandiweabigail1214]

What won't fade is your regret😂

[@leboganglebane8893]

@33:25 Courtney why were you speaking directly to me 🥲