Will his new relationship fail?

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Tony Gaskins

Tony Gaskins

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@motherp5291
@motherp5291 4 жыл бұрын
I love these teachings ..... and I ordered my tee cause I like to hear TG say caveat and nuance!
@TonyGaskins
@TonyGaskins 4 жыл бұрын
I sure appreciate your support more than you know! You’re a member of the blessed tribe and ordering a ugly T-shirt from me. Thats real support and it’s those of you like that who keep me going!!
@coachnatishamommatish144
@coachnatishamommatish144 4 жыл бұрын
Amen
@anointedstilettos
@anointedstilettos 4 жыл бұрын
What color did you purchase?
@motherp5291
@motherp5291 4 жыл бұрын
Anointed Stilettos I got the black
@anointedstilettos
@anointedstilettos 4 жыл бұрын
@@motherp5291 Thank you. I was looking at them and I was going to get the white, but when I clicked it, there were no words on it.
@flaviafiaes747
@flaviafiaes747 4 жыл бұрын
Ladies if he can leave YOU he can Leave HER.
@christinewarren8134
@christinewarren8134 4 жыл бұрын
Facts all day
@mdclkc911
@mdclkc911 4 жыл бұрын
True story💯🎯😢
@tlashai
@tlashai 4 жыл бұрын
Amen
@yessi4113
@yessi4113 4 жыл бұрын
🗣🗣🗣‼️
@shanteli5970
@shanteli5970 3 жыл бұрын
🙌🏾💯👏🏾
@LaShawn_Jeanette
@LaShawn_Jeanette 4 жыл бұрын
“If he walked out on you, never take him back”👍🏾
@journalistjude.ginuwinesqueen
@journalistjude.ginuwinesqueen 4 жыл бұрын
I toldl that to all of my FRIENDS way before I watched this video!!!
@nashonharris7805
@nashonharris7805 4 жыл бұрын
Elle Jaye I did that mistake now I’m paying hard for it
@11216mel
@11216mel 4 жыл бұрын
Elle Jaye period
@iloveangelmonroe4864
@iloveangelmonroe4864 4 жыл бұрын
Noted
@rosannehill-morris2072
@rosannehill-morris2072 3 жыл бұрын
Not even if Moses came in the room with him. 👎🏾
@karajohnson5741
@karajohnson5741 4 жыл бұрын
If a man cheated on you, broke up with you cordially, broke up with you disrespectfully, ghosted you, left you for dead. The common pattern is he left!! The best thing you can do is truly heal and move on! Wondering if things with his new bae will work out is none of our business. Snooping, creeping, social media crawling is obsession on what cannot be controlled. Control your future by moving on, embrace your present no longer having his presence in your life.
@siobhandupont
@siobhandupont 4 жыл бұрын
Beautifully said. Thank you
@cheftabthecook
@cheftabthecook 4 жыл бұрын
I love how you put this
@tanitrarobinson7477
@tanitrarobinson7477 4 жыл бұрын
Absolutely unapologetically and relentlessly!
@nikkirowland
@nikkirowland 4 жыл бұрын
👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
@remainhumble6654
@remainhumble6654 4 жыл бұрын
Amen...Well said
@kandice9727
@kandice9727 4 жыл бұрын
I know it's hard to face the truth of being alone. But Tony is right. Men will find everything wrong with you and when they cross the fence they realize that either she is the same as you or she will have her own issues. Everyone has issues!!! Why do women think that just because a man leaves then he has something better? Girl unless you are crazy then this is just not the case sweetie. This is a trauma bond he tries to get you to think less of yourself and it works with a lot of women. Stop doing this to yourself and ask yourself WHY would you want a Man that devalues, disrespects, mentally and emotionally abused you, wastes your time on purpose and still tries to ruin you after the relationship is over? You are smarter than this. He will try to make it work with the other women because he has no other choice when you MOVE ON with your life. Listen to Tony because he knows what he's talking about. You don't want or need that man so stop playing yourself. You look stupid and useless to him when you act like you need him. You don't need him! You are smarter than you let on, it's time to prove that. It doesn't matter what you look like to him. When you let him know you're forreal and live as an individual... They CANNOT handle that. Idc what he says or tells you. Men are weaker in the mind than you think.
@kaicigavin5050
@kaicigavin5050 4 жыл бұрын
Great Answer. Love This ❤️
@Zee-jv1nb
@Zee-jv1nb 4 жыл бұрын
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾💯
@9500mm
@9500mm 4 жыл бұрын
✌️so right. You put it into the perfect words
@queenofthesouth4205
@queenofthesouth4205 4 жыл бұрын
Let the church say Amen
@pjSoCal23
@pjSoCal23 4 жыл бұрын
If you are a great woman, he will never have something better.
@crystalwagner2775
@crystalwagner2775 4 жыл бұрын
People reap what they sow don't worry.
@adoringgalore5636
@adoringgalore5636 4 жыл бұрын
“Your husband will never let you go”👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
@kaicigavin5050
@kaicigavin5050 4 жыл бұрын
Wow on that frfr!!! 💯💥
@shawandabeasley142
@shawandabeasley142 4 жыл бұрын
That is not true at all, my husband left me and his family for a married woman
@adoringgalore5636
@adoringgalore5636 4 жыл бұрын
Shawanda Beasley Im talking about a man who sees u as his wife before he married u. Not one in an actual marriage
@aprilnicole8096
@aprilnicole8096 4 жыл бұрын
Shawanda Beasley wow for a married woman!!!. Smh. How would that work out 🙄
@shawandabeasley142
@shawandabeasley142 4 жыл бұрын
@@aprilnicole8096 Im wondering the same thing, and shes been married for 20 years with a son with her husband, God bless them both, because God doesn't bless mess or sin
@lizzylewis5793
@lizzylewis5793 4 жыл бұрын
Ladies you have to let that pain and hurt go...sometimes your rejection was for your protection. That man was not God's best. Sometimes God will remove people out of your life that were no good for you even if the removal was painful but it works out for your good in the end. Focus on your healing, your mind, body, and soul (Brain, Brand, and Body) and God will do the rest, be blessed!🙏
@sheilaverdell1370
@sheilaverdell1370 4 жыл бұрын
Ms Lizzy...If I May, very well 'articulated'. I can agree with you '100%'. We, as women, must learn from our painful heart experiences and move forward. Seek God first. Bless you.
@nickbry7357
@nickbry7357 4 жыл бұрын
Amen
@Itchpls
@Itchpls 4 жыл бұрын
Amen
@chynadoll77cyn59
@chynadoll77cyn59 4 жыл бұрын
Yes that’s how I’m looking at it , no toxic peace , in my home.
@nontobekomncwabe4976
@nontobekomncwabe4976 4 жыл бұрын
In 2018 I was in a relationship I thought was God's will for me. Towards the end of that year, my ex broke up with me. It was painful but I'm glad he's out of my life. We attend the same church, I really thought he was a good man until he showed me his true colors. He didn't deserve me but I've healed and happily single whilst waiting for my God sent mate.
@natashax7157
@natashax7157 4 жыл бұрын
When i caught my man cheating i sent him right back to her ...he came to my house saying he dont want her...he wants me ...i gave him the morning breath with the silky bonnet and said its OVER....he was kicking it with her for weeks all because he didn't have no where to go...and still txting me ....this June will be 2 yrs of being single. Sad thing about this we have 3 kids together...but i will never go back...I prayed for marriage...prayed and cried...it was GOD that told me to put on my clothers and walk 25mins down the street where u will catch yr man holding hands with another woman...Now I understood why God didn't answer that prayer.
@annamayyy9771
@annamayyy9771 4 жыл бұрын
You did well. You should never give anyone the satisfaction of thinking they can have u after they mess up!!6
@sheilaverdell1370
@sheilaverdell1370 4 жыл бұрын
Ms. Natasha...'Thank' God for your revelation. Your 'children' are yours and a blessing.
@vixenmmh
@vixenmmh 4 жыл бұрын
I'm at 5 years single. I caught my man when our miracle baby girl was 2.5 months old in and out of the hospital sick. He moved in with her. 2.5 years later she called the police on him saying crazy things. He had to get out and was kind of homeless. Karma.
@erica8657
@erica8657 4 жыл бұрын
You did good lady. Stay strong 💪🏽. 5 years single for me
@gg6162
@gg6162 4 жыл бұрын
Maybe this is what's going on with my relationship, I've been with my man for 8 years & he refuses to marry me! Tells me he's happy with me but immediately treats me like shit when the topic of marriage comes up, now I'm horrible and could never do right. But wasn't you just happy though? Rinse & repeat. The other day he asked me to never ever bring up marriage again bc I'll never be for him. But continued on with the relationship acting happy as ever once that conversation was over. I've cried and prayed to God countless times for this man to see the light and marry me. & God always blesses me within reasonable means. But maybe the reason he won't bless me with this is bc he knows it's not right for me. Which must be the reason why my relationship is slowly going downhill to a point of no return. Slowly but surely. Sometimes, God not giving us what we asked for IS the blessing
@Mirror_My_Ambition
@Mirror_My_Ambition 4 жыл бұрын
The only question that should be asked is: WILL YOUR NEXT RELATIONSHIP FAIL because you're STUCK in the past or will you take your lessons, blessings and new found love for self to your NEXT. That's ALL that matters.
@safaalodat6019
@safaalodat6019 4 жыл бұрын
Wise words sister thats why its important to watch the Game Film and work on yourself,forever!
@FeelingFitFabFun
@FeelingFitFabFun 4 жыл бұрын
THIS is what I want to know!
@Sharice_
@Sharice_ 4 жыл бұрын
Amen!
@StephaniesWorld7
@StephaniesWorld7 4 жыл бұрын
Amen 🙏🏽
@sabreezyfearless7084
@sabreezyfearless7084 3 жыл бұрын
AMEN🙌🏿👏🏿👏🏿💯
@shan4145
@shan4145 4 жыл бұрын
To all the the young girls and all the ladies... if you are in a toxic relationship and he’s disrespecting you it’s better to leave so u can have peace. Yes, it will be painful but trust me you will be able to breath again and find yourself. Don’t be afraid to seek help to get through it. There is light in the end of a dark place . You will cry at times but it’s ok . The longer you stay with a man the longer it will take for you to heal. Please leave ladies
@queenofthesouth4205
@queenofthesouth4205 4 жыл бұрын
Yes save yourself from toxic relationships you deserve to be happy and respected.
@fathimanaushad5181
@fathimanaushad5181 4 жыл бұрын
Icant
@juliejones4446
@juliejones4446 4 жыл бұрын
Agree
@tru_kru_bahbee24
@tru_kru_bahbee24 2 жыл бұрын
So true sis
@33watch55
@33watch55 4 жыл бұрын
If he let you go, he is not your husband
@jalanamatthews6301
@jalanamatthews6301 4 жыл бұрын
Everything that glitters ain’t gold! It may seem legit but time tells everything. Get you someone who wouldn’t dream of hurting you.
@chantehowe7798
@chantehowe7798 3 жыл бұрын
I put my ex out because he kep talkkng to other women on the internet one time I caught him on his phone then I forgave him took him back and he did it again this time it felt extremely different he started distancing himself then he started not coming home staying at work I couldn't deal with it nomore the lies the secrets it was to much he had to go and now he is in a full blown relationship with a woman right after we broke up he never get hid kids its a living nightmare
@simplyart24
@simplyart24 4 жыл бұрын
This was too real, but very honest, people don't want to water their own grass, they want the fantasy.
@sunshinegoddess1074
@sunshinegoddess1074 4 жыл бұрын
REMEMBER -- TAKES 28 DAYS TO BREAK ANY HABIT.
@missmarymack3457
@missmarymack3457 4 жыл бұрын
Sunshine Goddess I thought it was 21
@beefaye18
@beefaye18 3 жыл бұрын
Yeah....some ppl say 30 days
@denissesuarez2002
@denissesuarez2002 Жыл бұрын
Thanks 👍🏼
@chrisparker6249
@chrisparker6249 4 жыл бұрын
Does it really matter if an ex's next relationship pass or fail...or does your sanity, peace, happiness, self love and worth outweigh the possibility?! We have to stop reaching for what has been removed and uprooted from our lives. Thank God and know that a door to who you deserve will open in time.
@ashleyrhae1554
@ashleyrhae1554 4 жыл бұрын
AMEN!!!!🤘🏽
@jennifersalinas716
@jennifersalinas716 4 жыл бұрын
Good advice
@TonyaNicole7
@TonyaNicole7 4 жыл бұрын
Awesome advice!!! Who cares if it pass or fail I got my peace back I could care less of his future
@lashawnward340
@lashawnward340 3 жыл бұрын
We want them to fail.. Sorry, misery loves company. EVERYBODY KNOWS THAT, LOL.. 😆 🤣 😂
@jnenewilliams1127
@jnenewilliams1127 3 жыл бұрын
Facts, well said !!!
@lovemyself9125
@lovemyself9125 4 жыл бұрын
I don't like to compete with other women in a relationship. I will rather him leave me alone. If he cheat he letting me know I am not what he need so no point of keeping me.
@Meisha12273229
@Meisha12273229 4 жыл бұрын
💥💥💥💥🙌🙌🙌
@pooh4025
@pooh4025 4 жыл бұрын
I don't understand why Tony doesn't have a million subscribers yet 🤯
@pooh4025
@pooh4025 4 жыл бұрын
@Joyful n Blessed if he was doing pranks he would.
@nickab2691
@nickab2691 4 жыл бұрын
I was just saying that!!!! Things with value attract but a few.
@journalistjude.ginuwinesqueen
@journalistjude.ginuwinesqueen 4 жыл бұрын
JESUS gives us what we need! Maybe a million subscribers don't need to hear him!
@confidence7048
@confidence7048 3 жыл бұрын
Facts
@pooh4025
@pooh4025 4 жыл бұрын
This video was funny and truthful. My ex lost his house,dog,income and the best wife in the world. I know he regrets it but he has too much pride/ego to admit it. I just keep living my happy life because I know God has a exceptional man for me who will see my worth . ***Prayer changes things.
@AllThingsTiffanyTV
@AllThingsTiffanyTV 4 жыл бұрын
Kiia bath & body yesssss
@CaramelKissez
@CaramelKissez 4 жыл бұрын
That's right luv🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
@SonicandTail
@SonicandTail 4 жыл бұрын
Couldn't agree with you more.
@lashawnward340
@lashawnward340 3 жыл бұрын
Believe you me, He/She does Regret it 100%
@pooh4025
@pooh4025 3 жыл бұрын
@@lashawnward340 I definitely know he does
@mareelovely
@mareelovely 4 жыл бұрын
One of my favorite lines from one of my favorite movies - She Devil - 'Men who burn hot for a mistress cool off fast when that mistress starts acting like a wife.'
@Shae_3
@Shae_3 4 жыл бұрын
Yep!!!!
@lyfesaquarium
@lyfesaquarium 4 жыл бұрын
Lol 😂
@tinab4999
@tinab4999 4 жыл бұрын
I commute one hour to work and one hour from work to home 5 days a week. I pray and talk to God every single morning on my way to work, and I listen to a Tony Gaskins video every single evening on my way home after work. I must admit I have seen a difference in the way I think and act when it comes to men and relationships. I’m doing the work but with God and the wisdom of Tony Gaskins in which I believe God has lead to many of us....I am improving in life....He’s preparing me for my husband.
@mrzsanders7460
@mrzsanders7460 4 жыл бұрын
I feel you. I just stumbled across his videos about a week ago. Came just in time. Good info so far.
@Ms_Sharpie
@Ms_Sharpie 4 жыл бұрын
The lyrics from an Old School song said it best, "The sweetest woman in the world can be the meanest woman in the world, if you make her that way."
@kikinyte6806
@kikinyte6806 4 жыл бұрын
SINGS 🎤🎤🎤It's a thin line....... Between love and hate 👏🎶🎶🎶🎶
@SA-uu1iy
@SA-uu1iy 4 жыл бұрын
Yes!!
@northernroots6807
@northernroots6807 4 жыл бұрын
She gone fool you one day.
@PhoenixOakley3
@PhoenixOakley3 4 жыл бұрын
H town thin line between love and hate.
@michellebattle6356
@michellebattle6356 4 жыл бұрын
The wrong man can cause such brokeness in spirit..The right man will value a woman's worth Be Blessed
@Bgrace15
@Bgrace15 4 жыл бұрын
This video is the closure some of us were looking for. No need to sit down for a chit chat chot and rehash painful memories. Thank you Tony❤️
@felishapittman2778
@felishapittman2778 4 жыл бұрын
I agree 1000%
@apralfaith87
@apralfaith87 4 жыл бұрын
Amen sis!!!! I totally agree!
@sibel3795
@sibel3795 4 жыл бұрын
My ex of 22yrs did this to me he made me look crazy, told everyone I was crazy because he was acting suspicious and he kept calling me crazy and psycho while he was living a double life with so many woman.
@sheilaverdell1370
@sheilaverdell1370 4 жыл бұрын
Tony, personally, I could 'never' be in competition with any woman. 'My' self 'worth' is too important to me as well as too God. Blessings
@Bgrace15
@Bgrace15 4 жыл бұрын
😂 😂 😂 😂 I'm laughing so hard 🤣My situation was the first example....whew chilee.. He's regretting his life right now. But may God bless that adulterous marriage, I guess 😕🤷🏾‍♀️ real talk... We has women have to stop asking these questions and just MOVE ON! Even when my ex hub came back with an apology (when he was having problems) with the mistress he divorced me for. I encouraged him to make it work! Good riddance to bad rubbish. You made your bed, lay in it.
@tappiechan
@tappiechan 4 жыл бұрын
Honeeeeeey! Encouraging him to make it work with the mistress is a class & grace POWER MOVE.
@CaramelKissez
@CaramelKissez 4 жыл бұрын
This was so deep. I admire your strength luv🙏🏽🙏🏽
@terricaray1461
@terricaray1461 4 жыл бұрын
Bl15 Grace preach that one .keep it moving
@aprilnicole8096
@aprilnicole8096 4 жыл бұрын
Bl15 Grace 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
@Bgrace15
@Bgrace15 4 жыл бұрын
@@tappiechan Oh yes. Tony is so right. They don't deserve us after they leave. My ex left that 2hr conversation saying "the man who gets you will have the best version of you and its my loss. You're such a beautiful person." and he is right. 👏🏾 Never looking back!
@cheftabthecook
@cheftabthecook 4 жыл бұрын
Love yourself ladies treat yourself selfcare know your worth....And if you get weak don't beat yourself up. Remember you are only human. Pray for strength pray forgiveness...you deserve the best.
@kelseyblinn2706
@kelseyblinn2706 4 жыл бұрын
"Aint nobody want to be in a garbage can with trash but other trash" 😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣 "M I S E R A B L E" I'm dead🤣💀 P.S Tony, you take me to work everyday... what I mean by that is I get in my car on my commute to and from work everyday and I say out loud "Okay Tony, take me to work!" and I play your videos!! I've come a loonnnnggggg way since finding you. I wish I could blast your videos on a loud speaker and every media platform known to man! If all us women stop accepting less then the men have no choice but to grow!!!
@queenofthesouth4205
@queenofthesouth4205 4 жыл бұрын
I just fainted ....Tony is too funny!!
@AllThingsTiffanyTV
@AllThingsTiffanyTV 4 жыл бұрын
Holllereddddddd 😂😂😂
@justwalkinit
@justwalkinit 4 жыл бұрын
Long pause…… and then stares directly into the camera 😳🤣😂
@missmarymack3457
@missmarymack3457 4 жыл бұрын
Kelsey Blinn yes Lord
@roxyweatherspoon897
@roxyweatherspoon897 4 жыл бұрын
I listen to him while I'm at work and its making me a better woman
@felishapittman2778
@felishapittman2778 4 жыл бұрын
😔this video confirmed so many things that I experienced while married. My ex did everything in the video Tony mentioned. If yall only knew my story. I should be in jail...crazy house or dead! But by the grace of God I am here. I still have moments but I'm here.
@MsLibra-fo8tw
@MsLibra-fo8tw 4 жыл бұрын
I was there too very heartbroken u are not alone....keep God first, stay prayed up let God guide your thoughts and foot steps...you will see the light at the end of the tunnel.. Trust me. Im shining now and you will too. Be bless🙏🏽💪
@AE-106
@AE-106 4 жыл бұрын
Amen! (God's grace) No matter what, God's got you! NEVER EVER let the Enemy tell you otherwise. ❤
@ruthwells3990
@ruthwells3990 4 жыл бұрын
Felisha Pittman if you still standing after a war, you are a true soldier and Gods’ grace protects you. Stay well and be blessed!!!!!
@starblossom1370
@starblossom1370 4 жыл бұрын
U are not alone 😘. We live, learn, & grow!!🦋 Can't get fooled or be a fool again... ✨🌸
@cpoeticjustice5724
@cpoeticjustice5724 4 жыл бұрын
Because truth is not always popular.....but in time as more people get tired of being tired they will be running to these videos.....just like we are ...God bless
@iloveangelmonroe4864
@iloveangelmonroe4864 4 жыл бұрын
I have to accept that he is not my husband!!!! Detoxing away 🙏🏾
@boosiechic1
@boosiechic1 4 жыл бұрын
Quote of the day " If you get complacent, you get replaced" Love this!
@9500mm
@9500mm 4 жыл бұрын
Anyone who doesn’t take the time to work on themselves and jumps from one thing to another without self reflecting and actions to be and do better for next time will not find a fulfilling relationship. They are void filling and afraid to face the truths. Going too fast in the beginning is a huge red flag and I missed that a lot. Now I can see that it takes time to get to know someone and grow a healthy relationship. I steer clear from any guys who want to do anything too fast cause I feel like it is coming from a place of desperation and too much hopefulness without true intentions to make it work. I think it all starts with creating a life you love and want while loving and valuing yourself first so when these people walk into your life you are not dependent on them and you do not feel like you need a relationship.
@tanitrarobinson7477
@tanitrarobinson7477 4 жыл бұрын
Unapologetically and relentlessly YES and when one reaches this it's hard for them understand why or how you're already healed and whole.....you are then on another level that they cant even fathom. .
@rosepedal3140
@rosepedal3140 4 жыл бұрын
Marissa M this is very true my husband wanted to rush and marry me long story short he divorced me and made excuse to leave and didn't want it to work anymore... he used me
@MissShauntae
@MissShauntae 4 жыл бұрын
Tony knows all our secrets lol. The 5 for $20 under wear and Love potion perfume from Victoria secrets and don't forget the cucumber melon at Bath and body works. Omg this is too funny.
@cheftabthecook
@cheftabthecook 4 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣
@MissShauntae
@MissShauntae 4 жыл бұрын
@@simplyme8671 Yes girl they have went up. I got an email for 10 for $35 yesterday lol I guess I better run and act on this sell
@Shae_3
@Shae_3 4 жыл бұрын
If he leaves and you still worried if his next relationship will fail he will be back to use you bcuz you’re still stuck and he knows it even if he just want to call n “talk.”
@Metaphysicalmindspace777
@Metaphysicalmindspace777 4 жыл бұрын
I was thinking “Don’t take the person back” also if they abandoned you. That’s how you set yourself up to be used and abused.
@southerncharm8740
@southerncharm8740 4 жыл бұрын
Although I left since he cheated.. I always wanted an apology for the pain, especially when I found out that he started a family when I couldn't get him to do anything with me. Realized I had to focus on me & that I left for a reason so my happy will happen too. Life goes on and you'll be fine.
@3D3LIA
@3D3LIA 4 жыл бұрын
southern charm87 wow!! that must have been tough. How are you handling everything and feeling?
@Melzee620
@Melzee620 4 жыл бұрын
You truly do not know how much I needed this! My husband walked out on me for a woman that was giving him money/wtc. About 3 weeks ago....He is holding me in his back pocket....and making me miserable! I am hurt, but I am trying to be strong! Again, thank you!
@genevasanders1883
@genevasanders1883 4 жыл бұрын
Let that man go. Holding on you're blocking your own Blessing. The relationship has run its course. BE BLESSED 🙏🙏🙏🙏
@mixedindian8355
@mixedindian8355 4 жыл бұрын
The comedy, realness, and knowledge is unmatched. 😂😂You going to have a Steve Harvey platform WATCH!!!!! 🙏
@kimberlybarry6286
@kimberlybarry6286 4 жыл бұрын
This video is on point. Everything you than said has happened to me. I was left for another woman. He came back but l realized it will never work again.
@vchild
@vchild 4 жыл бұрын
My ex hubby left me with two kids in 04 for the other woman. They're still together and married! I'm finally healed from it. Realizing that! He wasn't the man for me. I was too good for him. Don't know if he's happy but our kids are we co parent and that's all I can do. Thank you Tony
@lavishbyvicky8146
@lavishbyvicky8146 4 жыл бұрын
So sorry my husband left me with a 3month old baby and his been cheating and became so rude and disrespectful stay strong God Is in Control
@lashawnward340
@lashawnward340 3 жыл бұрын
@@lavishbyvicky8146 Bless u and the Baby..🥰
@redmoonzvr6540
@redmoonzvr6540 4 жыл бұрын
This man is hilarious 😭😭😭😭
@sherrewebb1632
@sherrewebb1632 4 жыл бұрын
Riight!!! I said the same thing in my comment. Hilarious
@beereal6289
@beereal6289 4 жыл бұрын
Wam bam thank you maam 😃😃😃😃
@beereal6289
@beereal6289 4 жыл бұрын
Poopareee 😂😂😂😂
@wisdom6041
@wisdom6041 4 жыл бұрын
And I don’t think he even KNOWS how funny he is! 🤣
@GodsChosen321
@GodsChosen321 4 жыл бұрын
Imagine Girl totally agree , I was in tears laughing at him😆😆🤣🤣
@1cindy8552
@1cindy8552 4 жыл бұрын
Detoxing as you speak Tony! I’ve been guilty of fixating on my ex’s social media even though he moved on with another young lady. I’ve made the decision to delete all photos and messages we had, even shredded photographs I had of us. Now I’m praying and putting in the work to better myself and I just wanted to thank you for your videos. God bless!
@Rightousbleavher
@Rightousbleavher 4 жыл бұрын
I love the way you teach!!!! I remember when I use to listen to other relationships coaches (men) on KZbin.... But when I came across you last year the depth and your teaching can nobody match!!!!! I bless God for you!!!!!
@jennastewart6354
@jennastewart6354 3 жыл бұрын
My husband did this to me while pregnant I'm still healing 🙏🏽 My real king gone come through when the time is right I'm patient with and my body mind and spirit .
@seabiscuit2948
@seabiscuit2948 4 жыл бұрын
Man, these scenarios Tony be coming up with from the top of his head be COMICAL!! He say anyTHANG! 😂😂
@Denise_Cocoa
@Denise_Cocoa 4 жыл бұрын
My only concern is if MY next relationship is going to last. So I take time to heal, learn, and improve and see what, if anything, I can do differently in the next relationship because we all have room to grow. That’s my only concern. Let it go, heal, and move on to greatness!
@kimberlybarry6286
@kimberlybarry6286 4 жыл бұрын
Tony you are the man, God had blessed you with so much wisdom/insight.
@lakeishaslovingteachings6704
@lakeishaslovingteachings6704 4 жыл бұрын
Omg I love this!!! My ex just did this to me and he finally came back to me confessing about him and her. Come to find out she played him and went back to her ex 😂 I decided not to take him back and I bet he feel stupid now 🤣
@cocopuss718
@cocopuss718 4 жыл бұрын
Lawwwwd.. Dem boys done kicked Tony out the fraternity... Spilling all the tea.. 🤣😂😂😂🤣
@lashawnward340
@lashawnward340 3 жыл бұрын
We need the 🍵 Tea, lol... 🤩😍🥰
@lifeinthetreehouse
@lifeinthetreehouse 4 жыл бұрын
Gotta be my new motto, you worried about the wrong thing. Worry about your well being and improve.
@cyn928
@cyn928 3 жыл бұрын
I'm half crying and half dying laughing listening to this video. A message I really needed to hear. Painful, but I'm so glad you could also deliver humor with the facts.
@tmichellem1734
@tmichellem1734 4 жыл бұрын
I’m over here cracking up but where is the lie??? Nothing but facts 🤣🤣🤣🤣
@queenofthesouth4205
@queenofthesouth4205 4 жыл бұрын
💯
@montricec8795
@montricec8795 4 жыл бұрын
I'm cracking up 😂😂😂😂
@treneiceselles2705
@treneiceselles2705 4 жыл бұрын
I think its sad that we care so much about his new relationship FAILING... move on and stop looking back over your shoulder ladies... you gotta move on! Be strong enough to step into the unknown without that trash bag of man. He's gone so GOOD RIDDANCE to him!!
@mzeye
@mzeye 4 жыл бұрын
True
@Kashay_Brinkley
@Kashay_Brinkley 4 жыл бұрын
He is speaking the truth 🙌🏾 Glory to God
@heidicassa2735
@heidicassa2735 4 жыл бұрын
My husband left me about a month in a half. Went to his baby momma but continued to go be with her. Everytime things get frustrating here at home. I'm finally going to be strong and let him go. I cant thank your videos helping me through this situation
@safaalodat6019
@safaalodat6019 4 жыл бұрын
Tony,im a muslim lady,i find your advice beyond hilarious and soooo candid,i truly am thankful for the voice of sanity your provide women who are intelligent or wanting to become intelligent in their relationships with men.God Bless your work.
@latonyabell9551
@latonyabell9551 4 жыл бұрын
Never compete, wasted time and life. When u know who u are, the real you speaks up and say WE CAN'T DO THIS! IF the YOU don't speak up, listen to Tony and work on yourself..your identity and self worth.
@misha9856
@misha9856 4 жыл бұрын
And that's when the karma begin once they try to compete for a dusty low life that wanted to cheat in the first place 💯
@michelletiaraharris
@michelletiaraharris 3 жыл бұрын
This is why I don't compete!!! But now the guy is telling me that his gf wants to know about me and that most of their conversations are about me. Why am I such a hot topic? Why she so concerned about me and who I am and what I look like? I haven't asked one question about her since he told me she wanted him back. I stepped aside and let him have who he wanted or thinks he wants. He knows I'm in love with him but he also knows I don't compete EVER!!!!
@latonyabell9551
@latonyabell9551 3 жыл бұрын
People play too much sis, I can't!
@boosiechic1
@boosiechic1 4 жыл бұрын
So glad I got to catch this because I'm out on spring break!! "You pick boogers" took me out!!!! And Tony must know alot of people not bathing everyday🤣Geesh!
@mojadah10
@mojadah10 4 жыл бұрын
Picking boogers, leaving tampons in the toilet.... she nasty. 😆
@mixedindian8355
@mixedindian8355 4 жыл бұрын
Y’all I’m in my office ROLLING 🤣🤣😌
@confidence7048
@confidence7048 3 жыл бұрын
Looool
@sharij915
@sharij915 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you Mr. Tony for the message! I thank God, my ex ended the relationship and I am not looking back. I LOVE MYSELF AND KNOW MY WORTH! Mr. Tony you have been a blessing in so many lives. Be blessed!♥🔥
@tejuanahardison7516
@tejuanahardison7516 4 жыл бұрын
God is always on time. I literally have been so down since Tony has been away enjoying his birthday but I click on here and there’s a new video uploaded!!!!
@queenofthesouth4205
@queenofthesouth4205 4 жыл бұрын
Go back and look at his older videos....he has a huge collection. Be blessed my sister
@tejuanahardison7516
@tejuanahardison7516 4 жыл бұрын
Queen of the South thank you sister, that’s exactly what I did lol
@survivorship4290
@survivorship4290 4 жыл бұрын
"Lust can't build a relationship. Lust can't sustain a relationship."
@ashleygoodrich3294
@ashleygoodrich3294 4 жыл бұрын
I’m so Thankful for you Mr Gaskins. I stayed off my Back and dodge a bullet! This Grown just I was dealing with JUST kept Lying and got another women Pregnant. Wow I can Now move on peacefully.... GOODBYE TOXICITY ✌🏽
@kaicigavin5050
@kaicigavin5050 4 жыл бұрын
Tony you make me laugh so hard it don't make no sense..You a clown... Such a Godsend on so Many Levels.. Be Blessed Brother. ... 💜💙💯💥🔥🙌🏽🤣🤣🙏🏾
@alisianaaxxx4443
@alisianaaxxx4443 4 жыл бұрын
He said cucumber melon & I almost threw my phone
@saka543
@saka543 4 жыл бұрын
About to give herself an asthma attack lol
@marilynking527
@marilynking527 4 жыл бұрын
Nali Double U 😂😂😂
@alisianaaxxx4443
@alisianaaxxx4443 4 жыл бұрын
saka543 it was so specific ! like what he know about cucumber melon & love spell !
@queenofthesouth4205
@queenofthesouth4205 4 жыл бұрын
Yessssss🤣🤣🤣🤣
@charismahouse1039
@charismahouse1039 4 жыл бұрын
Leave all that alone. He/She is a ex for a reason. Who cares what they do work on you.
@phaedink12
@phaedink12 4 жыл бұрын
She knew about me all along. They went into this with eyes wide open. I got hit with the surprise. I thought that he would choose me. He kept lying to me all along. The lies kept building until I had to leave to respect myself.
@conniekirventhecomebackque1445
@conniekirventhecomebackque1445 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for the counseling sessions & really good, sound advice. The content in these youtube videos are so on point. This particular one certainly describes my previous situation & subsequent dating issues after my divorce because I had no insight into the mind & "savagery" of some men. I also didn't fully understand my worth as a woman despite being a woman of God. Part of my naivete came from being new to the dating game after having been married for over 10 years. Glory be to God for the lessons. I took time to heal despite the dating mistakes which I take full responsibility for because I dated way too soon & allowed people into my life while ignoring the yellow/red lights. The current man in my life continues to show love in every way despite what we've both been through in previous marriage & relationships. Now I'm in a healthy forfilling relationship. Be blessed
@latishamuse1637
@latishamuse1637 4 жыл бұрын
No coming back 😂🤣 I’m sooo damn happy... Thanks for this video!!!👍🏽
@raginasmith604
@raginasmith604 4 жыл бұрын
This whole video blessed me but that last 10 minutes was GOLD! You literally gave a doable plan for moving on and focusing forward. I hope ya'll are listening.
@ne-etnash5523
@ne-etnash5523 4 жыл бұрын
I have watched hundreds of videos in the last year and a half and this one has been the most profound and resonated so much with me, incredibly accurate in the events of my husband giving up on me and our marriage and what happened after. The grass wasn't greener and he has had numerous failed relationships since. He now is full of hatred towards me, because I never took him back. Thank you for your teachings, I am not a religious person but I thank the lord for sending you to us to help us heal. Your incredibly funny as well 🤣🤣 I listened, learned and laughed. Thank you sir 🙏
@saphinawest
@saphinawest 4 жыл бұрын
“You let go of your draws that got the string hangin off the side” 😂😂😂😫
@luluhen72
@luluhen72 2 жыл бұрын
SIR NO DISRESPECT TO UR BEAUTIFUL WIFE. I LOVE U....I WENT FROM FEELING KINDA DOWN when I selected ur video. Been on my own road to recovery & wondering how it was with the new. TO LAUGHING MY BUTT OFF. I love it yeah they got each other full time!!! While he still sneaks to call my phone through out the day (Jackazz just called). CLOWNNNNNNNNNN! Of course I have his AZZ blocked...but my phone will still show me who called. Sir, I love u for being my brother in Christ. Thank your wife for being a very secure woman to support u on this journey! YALL ROCK‼️‼️♥️PS: BayBay now it's her time to cry.... HE'S THE DEVIL'S SON...IN A CUTE FUN SMILING PACKAGE!! She really have my sympathy in advance
@feliciabatson9886
@feliciabatson9886 4 жыл бұрын
OMG! You are sooooo funny I am in stitches 😂😂😂. This message is so true I love it. Stay Blessed Always 😊
@lynnjones644
@lynnjones644 4 жыл бұрын
My ex left me for the girl he’s married to now! They been together over 10 years now, but they can’t stand me at all. You’d think they have the best relationship EVER, no lie! I say God bless them...
@godgiven1003
@godgiven1003 4 жыл бұрын
Lynn Jones. Why they hate you? Did u guys had kids?
@KerrysKitchen1999
@KerrysKitchen1999 2 жыл бұрын
How are things with them now?
@DynamicallyDC
@DynamicallyDC 4 жыл бұрын
"I made a mistake!! I didnt realize how good of a woman you were, oh my goodness, I done walked into a booboo storm." This woman was raised in a barn.🤣🤣 Facts Tony, A true example of when the grass ain't greener!! 🙌🏽
@gino6658
@gino6658 4 жыл бұрын
“You can’t even fall Asleep you smelling so strong” 😂😂
@HeEmpressMe
@HeEmpressMe 4 жыл бұрын
They say the grass ain’t greener on the other side & it’s cheaper to keep her.
@pooh4025
@pooh4025 4 жыл бұрын
That part..too bad he found out the hard way.
@chynadoll77cyn59
@chynadoll77cyn59 4 жыл бұрын
It’s only greener on the other side when you water it.
@missmarymack3457
@missmarymack3457 4 жыл бұрын
Empress * the grass looks greener always because it’s being watered. Agreed
@Meisha12273229
@Meisha12273229 4 жыл бұрын
To prevent homelessness and insecurity !
@pamelamincey3526
@pamelamincey3526 3 жыл бұрын
Still watching a lot of your videos after a year! Sometimes for a refresher when I’m weak. Thank you so much Mr. Gaskin for helping all of us women that are receptive to listen and healing!
@shawandabeasley142
@shawandabeasley142 4 жыл бұрын
Yes its going to fail, my ex husband left me and his family for a married woman, and she is still married, he told so many lies on me, to justify he is sleeping with a married woman, im letting go and letting God, anything based on lies and dishonesty will not last
@lorettawhite2790
@lorettawhite2790 4 жыл бұрын
Like the old saying goes" you can't expect to be happy while causing someone else misery" meaning, his situation is not going to work! You reap what you sow!!! He is probably wishing a million times that he stayed with you!! Trust me, I grew up in this. My daddy left my mama for his cousin's wife in 1987-1988. He divorced my mom and married her in 1990. That marriage didn't work, and then he remarried again in 1997 and that one didn't work either. Now after all of these years, my dad still tells us to this day that he wished that he stayed with my mama. We forgave him, but he made his bed, and he gotta lye down in it.
@shawandabeasley142
@shawandabeasley142 4 жыл бұрын
@@lorettawhite2790 Yes u are absolutely right and she willingly pursued a married man, but its ok, God doesn't bless mess or sin, u will reap what you sow in this life
@KimmieJ1920_LNC
@KimmieJ1920_LNC 4 жыл бұрын
Funny how that works...our stories are almost identical
@bobate6030
@bobate6030 4 жыл бұрын
@@KimmieJ1920_LNC same here
@ulricka2131
@ulricka2131 4 жыл бұрын
Tony, thank you for service rendered to Humanity. Much respect bro🙏🏾
@notnsecure137
@notnsecure137 4 жыл бұрын
Tony, I am up here at work about to bust out in laughter, these folks gon think I am crazy! Video spot on though, be blessed!
@sharikjohnson5820
@sharikjohnson5820 4 жыл бұрын
@Tony Gaskins your videos have really helped me I really appreciate you sharing the truth and not scratching the surface like the other men trying to give women advice. You are also genuinely funny.
@adoringgalore5636
@adoringgalore5636 4 жыл бұрын
Tony u need to be an actor!
@zoraidacastro5403
@zoraidacastro5403 4 жыл бұрын
He would be an excellent comedian, has plenty of material!!!
@kikinyte6806
@kikinyte6806 4 жыл бұрын
Tony....you schooled us too-day..... This one was 💯.... I cracked up a few times but the message was deep
@LaShawn_Jeanette
@LaShawn_Jeanette 4 жыл бұрын
The first 30 minutes was the story of my life🤦🏽‍♀️. What doesn’t kill you makes you stronger💪🏽
@b.tabati911
@b.tabati911 4 жыл бұрын
God Bless you too Tony!!! Telling it like it is ... Bringing freedom and liberty!!! Awesome. 🙏🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼
@Frugalicious101
@Frugalicious101 4 жыл бұрын
Let me tell you I done fell up on this man videos about a month ago and listen to him to and from work which takes about 45 minutes. Oooooo weeee when I tell you!!! I’ve gotten so many useful nuggets.. point blank period! You and your wife are a blessing. Thank you
@RealityCheck1980
@RealityCheck1980 4 жыл бұрын
Tony AGAIN is right...I couldn't figure out why my 'depressed' husband was now sleeping on the sofa....I found out later he was cheating and texting another woman, and he was probably doing it after I went to sleep while he was sleeping on the couch...Look, I hate to be the example and speak from my own experience on a public platform, but all I'm saying is, this man clearly KNOWS what he is talking about.....
@Timwinful
@Timwinful 4 жыл бұрын
Tony can I just say... this is a very good video, in fact EXCELLENT! Your here giving the BEST ADVICE so people can do/be their best in life & relationships . Point Blank Period! Iam pretty sure God is smiling down on you. Your telling the truth, No lies but THE TRUTH. God Bless You 👍🏾
@kalhencoaching
@kalhencoaching 4 жыл бұрын
Loved the 3 B’s - Brain, Brand, Body. This approach has been working wonders
@thatgirlcocoa
@thatgirlcocoa 4 жыл бұрын
“If you get complacent, you will be replaced “ 🙌🏾
@nikkirowland
@nikkirowland 4 жыл бұрын
“You was lovin him for them brown toes” 💀😩😭😂😂😂
@lams8415
@lams8415 4 жыл бұрын
LMAO, I swear you should be a comedian 😂😂😂
@culluts2755
@culluts2755 4 жыл бұрын
Did you hear when he said "oh no, now I have irritable bowel syndrome" 😂😂😂😂
@emilybrooke8145
@emilybrooke8145 2 жыл бұрын
Whew!!! These comments are EVERYTHING. So much advice! Love it!
@miajesq
@miajesq 4 жыл бұрын
Cracking up at my desk 🤣😭 this real talk tho! I appreciate your videos!
@candanceiam6080
@candanceiam6080 4 жыл бұрын
This is to REAL... The Lies A Man will tell once it’s over..it’s unbelievable especially when he’s the 1 that’s 100% WRONG. In my situation Cheating is not the worst part it gets much deeper, I’m gonna right a 📚 someday my life is A Real Lifetime Movie!! 👍🏽Good Video as usual
@chynadoll77cyn59
@chynadoll77cyn59 4 жыл бұрын
Facts ! But the sad part is that, most women will believe that man.
@candanceiam6080
@candanceiam6080 4 жыл бұрын
Exactly! I always wanna know why it didn’t work before, especially if you that person was really invested in the relationship🤔🤔
@chynadoll77cyn59
@chynadoll77cyn59 4 жыл бұрын
Candance I Am Me too I always want to know what happened. Especially when you have four baby mamas and five kids. You mean to tell me all those women were karzy . Yea smh ok ! I’m looking at him side eye 👁. Then I saw the patterns and his character. One relationship to the next relationship.
@christinewarren8134
@christinewarren8134 4 жыл бұрын
Girl when you said cheating was not the worse part. Well damn (Gucci mane voice) what really went down??
@christinewarren8134
@christinewarren8134 4 жыл бұрын
@@chynadoll77cyn59 min to sis
@keldrawilson07
@keldrawilson07 4 жыл бұрын
Beautiful! Thank you. I got so much out of this truly. I mean you really break things down from beginning to end, that is a blessing. I was in a relationship off and on for 7 years with a guy that I feel has never sincerely been true to me. More recently I chose to completely cut things off and block him because I believe he was cheating on me. Of course he denied it but I could tell even though I did not physically catch him in the act. His behaviors were very erratic a times, he would turn his location off, he began to be extremely verbally disrespectful. This has been a cycle of his. Although, I truly cared for him and I believe there are soul ties there, mustered the strength to cut it off for good the other day. It definitely hurts and I am trying my best to work through my own emotions and feelings about my decision because it is not what I wanted to do. I knew that if I did not put an end to the toxicity it would continue. Some days I don’t even feel like getting out of bed because I feel so hurt behind everything. Yes, I still think about him. Thank you, for giving a raw, unbiased, real perspective of what it really is. Truly, this giving me the strength to stand firm in the decision I made to walk away. I have to know my worth before and stand firm on a foundation that doesn’t accept any individual to diminish, dishonor me and disrespect in such way! Especially the person I would even call my “man.” Thank you again.
@123gollc9
@123gollc9 4 жыл бұрын
Everything was going great until he got inconsistent. The only thing that makes since is his ex / baby mama came back around. That was an on- off relationship of 9 years.. it’s hurtful, I keep wondering if he’s with her however it’s a turn off to be with a man that can’t envision his future foreal. I saw your video on “is your relationship over” and that’s all I can think of .. they clearly have brokenup many of times over the 9 years.It’s not gonna work, he’s 36 if he wanted her he would be married to her... I will be okay.
@aprilnicole8096
@aprilnicole8096 4 жыл бұрын
A Brannon exactly
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