What a Good Single Man told me about most Women today!

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Tony Gaskins

Tony Gaskins

Жыл бұрын

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@QueenZeeT
@QueenZeeT Жыл бұрын
What you’re teaching is true story!!! 🙌🏽 After my divorce I decided to focus on me… spiritually, physically, mentally, emotionally and financially. I have been celibate for 11 yrs and there’s absolutely nothing wrong with me. With God all things are possible.
@yourstruly1984
@yourstruly1984 Жыл бұрын
11 years.. that's impressive. I've been abstaining for 4 years and focusing on myself as well. Much love n success to you sistar
@disapphire
@disapphire Жыл бұрын
Amen sister!
@YellowRoses10
@YellowRoses10 Жыл бұрын
Amen💕
@marilynking527
@marilynking527 Жыл бұрын
Yesss good job sis!
@jessicascreenwritingservices
@jessicascreenwritingservices Жыл бұрын
Great job sis! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
@charlenelawson8399
@charlenelawson8399 Жыл бұрын
My husband and I waited until we were married. Best decision I ever made. If he’s a godly man he will wait! 💗
@cuprunnethover2509
@cuprunnethover2509 Жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing! 🙌🙌
@tinyking11
@tinyking11 9 ай бұрын
🔥❤️❤️
@SoulBeauty1111
@SoulBeauty1111 5 ай бұрын
Love this!!! How long have you been married?
@22ValentineRosario
@22ValentineRosario Жыл бұрын
He needs to be saving himself as well. Women don’t want ran thru men either
@jessiegraz7520
@jessiegraz7520 Жыл бұрын
I am a virgin and so is my boyfriend we are waiting till marriage and dating right now. When you take care of your outside and inside people notice. 😊 God has the right person for you or god wants you single. But no one is perfect.
@Dr.K.Harris
@Dr.K.Harris Жыл бұрын
This is lovely!!! Stay steadfast, yall!
@myahill7475
@myahill7475 Жыл бұрын
❤❤❤😊
@StrengthDignity
@StrengthDignity Жыл бұрын
What a blessing ❤
@danilaroche1156
@danilaroche1156 Жыл бұрын
Do u think he's going to propose? What's he waiting for? I am so glad your both abstinent but I think he should propose.
@TheLovelysapphire
@TheLovelysapphire Жыл бұрын
Plan to get married within the next 6 months ( a year MAX). No need in waiting any longer. Get married soon so as not to fall into sexual sin. Or separate until you both are ready to go all the way. Blessings to you, 🙂
@JustDoRight
@JustDoRight Жыл бұрын
We're out here. I've raised my daughters to do the same. Save themselves for marriage. Go to school, build thier credit, save, work, and develop yourselves Spiritually in The Word of God, having a relationship with THEE. Already carrying themselves as wives if thats what they choose. 🙏🏽 So far, so good. 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
@doz6521
@doz6521 Жыл бұрын
That's beautiful, I intend to do the same but also ensure they develop healthy friendships with men who respect them to balance their lives. The men they marry will prove themselves a friend over time.
@MelenaSoleil
@MelenaSoleil Жыл бұрын
Unfortunately carrying yourself as a wife causes men to believe YOU'RE ALREADY MARRIED 😑 and they don't approach you. The ones that do approach you are approaching BECAUSE they think you're already married and are being predatory and devious cuz odds are they're taken themselves and they just looking for some playtime smdh
@JustDoRight
@JustDoRight Жыл бұрын
@@MelenaSoleil Not true. I'm speaking of evolved men, not predators.
@JustDoRight
@JustDoRight Жыл бұрын
@DOZ Amen. They will already be best friends before marriage.
@donnanavarro9693
@donnanavarro9693 4 ай бұрын
Talk about dedication. I’m so ecstatic that he’s shooting a video while pumping gas only Tony gaskets can do that. 🙏👍🏾
@Dr.K.Harris
@Dr.K.Harris Жыл бұрын
Tony is speaking 1000% truth! I also tell friends...you can make beauty modifications, but you can't change the core of anyone's character. 👏🏾
@JessSoReal
@JessSoReal Жыл бұрын
FACTS! The inner beauty shows on the exterior of a person.
@UnpredictableAri
@UnpredictableAri Жыл бұрын
I’m going to make a statement that is 100% truth, ladies you do NOT need a public page to get mens attention. My page is private and I have had nba and 2 other NFL athletes request me. Just from seeing my default picture. One of the NFL players that requested me, I went through his follow list, and he was ONLY following lowkey women with private pages. If they’re curious enough, they will follow. Some men like private women, mystery and women that don’t seem to be seeking attention. People are creeps nowadays and stalkers, and I have my family on my page so it’s staying private. Everything else tho , he is correct
@tracychromes7155
@tracychromes7155 Жыл бұрын
Does your default pic show face only?
@UnpredictableAri
@UnpredictableAri Жыл бұрын
@@tracychromes7155 it’s always face only
@quathetruth8314
@quathetruth8314 Жыл бұрын
But you just name dropped. Can’t respect it. You could have been discrete.
@UnpredictableAri
@UnpredictableAri Жыл бұрын
@@quathetruth8314 saying they followed needs to be discrete? I didn’t say they flew me out but ok.
@tracychromes7155
@tracychromes7155 Жыл бұрын
@@UnpredictableAri nice! And if its the same face as your profile poc, I can see why. Curious of how many followers/followings and activity/posting?
@kwoodson4232
@kwoodson4232 Жыл бұрын
Why do people think that women aren't visual?🤷🤔😒
@ebonyg9632
@ebonyg9632 3 ай бұрын
😂😂😂I know right it's weird when people think we are not visual. We are super visual we just don't speak on it too much or we do so with only people we trust... But oh yessss we are more visual than men.
@themiaparis
@themiaparis Ай бұрын
That skincare routine 😂😂😂😂
@rebekahjette6304
@rebekahjette6304 Жыл бұрын
Not all women want 6' tall men. I am 5' 6" and just wanted someone taller than myself. Kissable height is what I call it.
@kiaracouch9315
@kiaracouch9315 Жыл бұрын
Yes mam I'm 5'4" and my dude is 5'8" or 5'7" 😉 I told him I'm glad he not tall because when we get old I need someone I can help not somebody I gotta leave on the floor because he too damn big 🤣
@amaragrace94
@amaragrace94 Жыл бұрын
@@kiaracouch9315 lmaooo so true
@amaragrace94
@amaragrace94 Жыл бұрын
Same sis!
@rogers5622
@rogers5622 Жыл бұрын
Right. We all are not height exclusive 🤣
@basicinfo2022
@basicinfo2022 Жыл бұрын
I think it stems from hunter gatherer era when women needed tall built men to protect them but now with public security it is less important how physically in shape they are cause money is power now since they can hire guards and camera.
@rosemarymartinez6709
@rosemarymartinez6709 Жыл бұрын
“When you close your legs, you gotta ask yourself; Is this the hairstyle for me?” 😂😂 don’t stop with the honesty cause we need it.
@christineporter9914
@christineporter9914 Жыл бұрын
I receive this message to Save myself for marriage. I was tried by this man that's interested in me he wanted to lean in to kiss me I quickly Turned my face he was totally shock but he immediately told me that it's different for him what I did but the next day told me he truly Respect me. So am taken in these videos it's not in vain what you teaching and sacrificing your time away from your family Bro Tony. Am just praying I continue to stay strong I've been abstaining for 3 years now. It's real out here when we hear these messages and we will be put to the test.
@weareallone6148
@weareallone6148 Жыл бұрын
The Biggest Problem is: People imitate what everybody else is doing; regardless if it’s Wrong and they make it a Trend! No wonder, doom is everywhere! Don’t be followers, be Leaders instead!
@nekam.3216
@nekam.3216 Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much Tony Gaskins for teaching Queens in the world. We need more men like you in their purpose. I'm happily single at 46 & I've been abstinent since 2017. I never felt so whole, free, loved, respected & worthy. I'm not focusing on meeting a man, but I am open to it. I'm focusing on me & enjoying life in my singleness, until God blesses with my husband. God bless you, your family & everyone on here.
@junelockett5295
@junelockett5295 Жыл бұрын
Bless you as well sis...keep loving your self
@lifeisbeautiful9455
@lifeisbeautiful9455 Жыл бұрын
I know that’s right! I love myself too much!
@dublingirl1691
@dublingirl1691 Жыл бұрын
😂”Do I trim my nose hairers?” 🤣🤣 Tony is hilarious but tells the truth as he delivers his message.
@lisaappoh6484
@lisaappoh6484 Жыл бұрын
With all the fleshly desires you described. The MOST IMPORTANT is the HEART. So while Man is looking at the abs, the teeth, the face, etc. God will ALWAYS look at the HEART.
@nnena3631
@nnena3631 Жыл бұрын
I understand what's being said here and I agree with a lot but at some point we have to stop grooming women to be wives for men that don't want to be married. men need to teach men to value women and marriage.
@beac8238
@beac8238 Жыл бұрын
We’re not grooming women to be wives to men that don’t want marriage. We’re grooming women to be wives to attract men that want marriage. We have no control over a man. We only have control over ourselves.
@Brandiisbeloved
@Brandiisbeloved Жыл бұрын
Tony said do I have an hyaluronic acid. I can't 🤣
@lovelyone2508
@lovelyone2508 Жыл бұрын
He's so funny 🤣😂
@karenvanschalkwyk9593
@karenvanschalkwyk9593 Жыл бұрын
😂😂
@Brandiisbeloved
@Brandiisbeloved Жыл бұрын
I know I need to lose weight. That's what holding me back. I like to look good I know I'm pretty but a bit hefty. I love God,not Into hookups and waiting until marriage. Its just I like to eat. But I've been seeking God to help me with this problem and taking the steps to make some changes
@yvettecook9870
@yvettecook9870 Жыл бұрын
You've taken the first, big step, which is acknowledging what YOU want to change. Not for a man, but better health. Also note that the right man will love you just as you are!
@danilaroche1156
@danilaroche1156 Жыл бұрын
I'm glad your self aware. Join a gym or if not go walking. I lost a great deal of weight just walking. Pray about what your eating. Drink plenty water.
@lillianbrandon3679
@lillianbrandon3679 Жыл бұрын
I’d really like to hear from more men respecting their bodies by abstaining. It seems rare.
@journey2greatness766
@journey2greatness766 Жыл бұрын
Wealthy people have a budget. It just may be higher than others, but they still have one. Therefore, they stay rich. Wealthy people have temperance and limits on what they do. They have self-control.
@jasminehill6312
@jasminehill6312 Жыл бұрын
Does anyone ever tell men to keep their legs closed ??? Women are always told that but men have free range to do whatever they want and then go after the women who have been celibate 🤔🤔. And I appreciate the examples of the 3 men that Tony gave however I’m a therapist with a lot of Black female clients and things are different.
@lovelyone2508
@lovelyone2508 Жыл бұрын
Yes, he does as well. Check out his other videos 😊 I get what you mean though. Marc The Messenger on here does too.
@user-rx7uh9mg4f
@user-rx7uh9mg4f Жыл бұрын
​@Square Peg Same thing is starting to happen with Muslim men. They go after belly dancers and good practicing Muslim women are left standing behind.
@anjijack5392
@anjijack5392 Жыл бұрын
​@Square Peg That has been my #1 experience. I met & married twice. Both of whom I had met in church & they cheated. Ugh!
@mamat1213
@mamat1213 Жыл бұрын
Like I tell my elementary students, you can only worry about yourself… sure society is skewed a certain way but if YOU decide not to give up the goods then it doesn’t matter what a man decides to do or not do 🤷🏽‍♀️
@amaragrace94
@amaragrace94 Жыл бұрын
@@lovelyone2508 Agreed. I follow both of them. People need to stop following pages that don't preach the truth. Those of us practicing abstinence are in the minority. Everybody isn't about Jesus. Pray for them but your focus should be on the ones that are actually walking in the word.
@tamaramichelle4326
@tamaramichelle4326 Жыл бұрын
That’s why reality is all women will not have the perfect body … so some of the good men will have to be flexible unless they want to spend on cosmetic surgery! Our hormones are impacting this generation of women in ways we never seen before! Al women need to strive for the best healthy version!
@katrinajames85
@katrinajames85 Жыл бұрын
All the unqualified dating coaches has ruined dating seriously Dating is really simple I don't understand why everybody is making it so hard today just be the best u you can be and when you find someone u like and that truly likes u date them if it ends in marriage great if not keep dating.
@katrinajames85
@katrinajames85 Жыл бұрын
@Gina Maria absolutely it's really very simple
@christianhenry4173
@christianhenry4173 Жыл бұрын
@@ginmaria117 nothing works outside the bibles morals. And I'm not saying be religious. But I never seem success for women approaching men or pursuing men when it's supposed t9 be the other way around. I haven't much success in dating someone unequally yoked. A spiritual man needs a Godly spiritual woman who has the same beliefs
@christianhenry4173
@christianhenry4173 Жыл бұрын
@@ginmaria117 incorrect. Read the book of Timothy. The bible calls that a silly woman. Never once in any biblical information did women approach their husbands. Not even Ruth. Boaz saw Ruth as a worker in his fields and he found that she had favor with God. It's absolute foolishness to me women today believe they can approach or initiate marriage. That is not a feminine roll that's a masculine roll. Men being leaders is not a form of slavery or anything. It's supposed to Be God first, husband 2nd, Wife 3rd then children or whole family. And Jesus is in between Husband and his Father. The problem today is people forgot God and they go after their own lust or will.
@katrinajames85
@katrinajames85 Жыл бұрын
@@ginmaria117 exactly 💯
@katrinajames85
@katrinajames85 Жыл бұрын
@christian henry you do know the Bible was used for oppression and you do know it is man made and has been revised so many times things taken out things put in. We have the 10 commandments and lobe thy neighbor should be enough you think?
@HealThyLivingQueen
@HealThyLivingQueen Жыл бұрын
Man TONY!! You speaking straight facts. My mouth is on the floor. 😂 I been so focused working on me and my brand while getting my degrees not even worried about a man and BOOM… The Good Lord done sent me a GOOD ONE!!! Ayyyy ♥️🙏🏾
@spokenpoet5074
@spokenpoet5074 Жыл бұрын
I truly agree. I'm 58 soon to be 59 in July and I've been single and celibate for over 5 plus years now and refuse to settle . I'm enjoying my life regardless of being single and I'm a chef so I stay busy and want to start a channel for older women who are single and this world tried to tell you that you need to be desperate. Hell naw.. wait wait until you meet the right guy. At my age we've been married, grown children and have had enough sexto last us .
@Shepraise808
@Shepraise808 Жыл бұрын
Thank you Tony! Leveling up physically, mentally, spiritually and financially!!!! Putting myself out there to be found by a Godly Man.
@slimchica1
@slimchica1 Жыл бұрын
Yes I agree with you about leveling up in those areas, but also about putting myself out there.
@godseed79
@godseed79 Жыл бұрын
I still think it's important to have physical attraction. Just because someone's heart is right doesn't mean he's the right fit for me. Aesthetics is part of personality and I don't want to have to push him to work out and eat right, groom properly, and dress nice... I want him to want that on his own.
@user-mb9jx5tx9y
@user-mb9jx5tx9y Жыл бұрын
Exactlyyyyyy
@karahill5739
@karahill5739 Жыл бұрын
People so quick to say it’s what’s on the inside that counts as if looks are not important. You only see the outside first. If they are not attractive to you how will you know what is inside? And just because they may be attractive doesn’t mean they have good qualities. What you see is what you get. If they’re fat or sloppy when you meet them you accept them as they are. What reason would they change? So I wholeheartedly agree with you!!!
@mmhnma
@mmhnma Жыл бұрын
Facts
@missraemarie7410
@missraemarie7410 Жыл бұрын
😆😆 don't no body know who you areee, ruh!! He makes me laugh but true words.
@Terryon1219
@Terryon1219 Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@amaragrace94
@amaragrace94 Жыл бұрын
AMEN AMEN AMEN! Legs closed for 1.5 yrs praise God🙌! HIT THE GYM LADIES (arms, back, core, legs, cardio) 3-5 days a week 30-60 mins. Eat healthy. Choose classy/ modest but form fitting and flattering to your shape, cute/subtle sexy outfits; jewelry, a nice fragrance, and you don't need over the top makeup and nails (put effort into your skin), put effort into your natural hair/protective styles. My church is multicultural and more casual attire but I KNOW I looked good this morning fully covered. Dress how you want to be perceived. You don't know who is looking (i.e. possible future husband).
@user-mb9jx5tx9y
@user-mb9jx5tx9y Жыл бұрын
Guys actually like women who dress look simple
@fayolasaunders6342
@fayolasaunders6342 Жыл бұрын
Yes thank you, these tips are great. I really need to work on looking after my skin
@Iamfree33
@Iamfree33 Жыл бұрын
I am abstaining and focusing on myself. Yet, I have met men that say my standards are too high because I don’t do “friends with benefits” or “situationships” 🤷🏽‍♀️
@basicinfo2022
@basicinfo2022 Жыл бұрын
They are trying to manipulate you out of your standards and boundaries by saying that so you settle for them. If they cant meet it, then they shouldn't be giving you advice lol
@kelinadeclouet6917
@kelinadeclouet6917 Жыл бұрын
As a young woman who didn’t grow up with a father figure in her life, I really admire these videos I’m not a part of your coaching, but watching your videos are enough for me. You’ve really opened my eyes and showed me how I really should operate , not only as a young woman, but a human being I watch all your videos back to back. They fulfill different parts of my life and answers that I’ve always wanted to know. It doesn’t matter what you talk about. I understand everything, you speaking nothing but the truth and I admire you for that! Thank you tony ! And god bless you and your family ❤
@tarahbruno3793
@tarahbruno3793 Жыл бұрын
Focus on yourself ladies! The man that God has will see you. Don’t let the devil make you feel like virtue and all the “ old” school values are no longer important , when in fact most of those qualities make you shine amongst the dust.side note: let the cartoon lashes go!
@jadajordantransitioningque6472
@jadajordantransitioningque6472 Жыл бұрын
I agree! Pleeeeeease let them lashes go!!! 😂🦋
@jessicascreenwritingservices
@jessicascreenwritingservices Жыл бұрын
Not the cartoon lashes 😂
@basicinfo2022
@basicinfo2022 Жыл бұрын
👏👏👏
@lisasmith8202
@lisasmith8202 Жыл бұрын
😂
@famika34567
@famika34567 Жыл бұрын
I agree that women should stay woke but have standards, boundaries, and expectations, because most men are on a new level with lying and sending their fake representatives daily. Most men are looking for a preference so let's be honest about that, because how are the men you describe meeting a loose woman if they didn't put themselves in the company of that. #1 good women aren't always in the club. Good black women are doing the work, the truth is most black men are not looking for black women. Most men don't think they have to do anything to improve!! Black women should be broadening their love quest but, Vet with none regret. Its easy to talk both ways but its only one rule to honesty, loyalty, trust, and true love to follow.
@reneearmstead5116
@reneearmstead5116 Жыл бұрын
Thank you,very well stated No matter who's delivering the message, it's ALWAYS a double standard for BLACK WOMEN
@reneedavis7248
@reneedavis7248 Жыл бұрын
As long as I have two legs, two eyes and etc, I’m not worried about nothing. I’m happy and everything is functional. So what if I not the beauty standards of male creatures. Things could always be worse.
@hillmeli
@hillmeli Жыл бұрын
Tony, I just got out of a 9 year marriage that ended last year due to my husbands long time infidelity and adultery. A man from my job asked me out, he has been pursuing me for 4 years and I gave him a chance now that I'm in the process of a divorce. But, I realized he wants to sleep with me and I ended it. I am 40 years old and never got to have kids because my ex husband would deny me sex. He was into pornography. I know God has a GOOD MAN out here for me. I am putting God first because He knows my ❤️ and how I want to PLEASE HIM first. Even though I have seen my share of no good men, I still believe there are good men out there...and my heart is willing to cultivate something special. Meanwhile, working on myself and loving it.
@danilaroche1156
@danilaroche1156 Жыл бұрын
I'd advise you not to date until divorce is final. I applaud you for your stance for chastity. That's great. It's going to take time to heal. I pray you find peace & fulfillment in Christ Jesus.
@CalledUntoHoliness
@CalledUntoHoliness Жыл бұрын
My prayer is that the Lord will lead you in his perfect will. But pleaee do not make the mistake of getting into a second marriage that will be adultery in the sight of God. I will leave the scriptures here so thst you can prayerfully consider before making a decission. (Romans 7:2-4),(Mark 10:10-12),(1 Corinthians 7:10-11),(1 Corinthians 7:39). Take care.
@karahill5739
@karahill5739 Жыл бұрын
@@CalledUntoHoliness she is free to remarry. Her husband broke the covenant when he cheated. She is not bound to that marriage.
@CalledUntoHoliness
@CalledUntoHoliness Жыл бұрын
@@karahill5739 The scripture does not say that (Romans 7:2-4),(1 Corinthians 7:39),(Mark 10:10-11).
@karahill5739
@karahill5739 Жыл бұрын
@@CalledUntoHoliness well what about the scripture that says god hate a divorce except because of adultery or death? You should know that one. It’s Matthew 19:1-9. God hates a divorce between those he put together 1st off, but if they do divorce it can be because of sexual immorality. By the scriptures a woman is not allowed to remarry unless he committed adultery or dies.
@LaniElevate
@LaniElevate Жыл бұрын
Soooo true about the women that be living out loud with the Jezebel spirit. That’s part of the characteristic of that spirit - it’s attention seeking. All the more reason for genuine, authentic, God-fearing women to not be afraid of having a platform.
@khanna9626
@khanna9626 Жыл бұрын
I think alot of people don’t realize that Jezebel was married and was a queen and fought hard for her husband… she just served another God and that’s what made her demonized…
@anitam.williams4001
@anitam.williams4001 Жыл бұрын
😅 HE IS TIRED OF US 😅 Mr. G We need your help, don't leave us ! Please 😅
@Mandy4JC
@Mandy4JC Жыл бұрын
Thanks for your consistent obedience to The Lord! We grow when the truth is raw and real! All facts Tony, phew! A little token of my appreciation for all you do🙌🏾🙏🏾
@christineporter9914
@christineporter9914 Жыл бұрын
Thank you Bro Tony for this Timely message for us women waiting on a Godly Man 🙏🏾♥️🎯
@Essdotg1710
@Essdotg1710 Жыл бұрын
Amen Tony, thank you for this message 🙏🏾💕
@cinconizar7725
@cinconizar7725 Жыл бұрын
Whew!!!! Preach!!! Awesome message Tony!!!🙏🙏🙏
@Coolct
@Coolct Жыл бұрын
When Tony said he’s tired..😂😂it hard to be friends with a lot of females I sense the jezebel spirit and I can’t relate .
@sergiovela9961
@sergiovela9961 Жыл бұрын
What the hell is a “Jezebel spirit”?
@misssterling3094
@misssterling3094 Жыл бұрын
@@sergiovela9961 Queen Jezebel was an evil queen in the Bible. It is believed that her spirit is still alive.
@CalledUntoHoliness
@CalledUntoHoliness Жыл бұрын
When people say jezebel spirit they mean her attitude or conduct not the literal spirit of a dead woman.
@sergiovela9961
@sergiovela9961 Жыл бұрын
@@CalledUntoHoliness And what “conduct” was that?
@CalledUntoHoliness
@CalledUntoHoliness Жыл бұрын
@@sergiovela9961 the conduct of a seductress,controlling,manipulative and vain woman who controls her husband.
@babigreene3438
@babigreene3438 Жыл бұрын
This is really good🙌🏼
@estheri5944
@estheri5944 Жыл бұрын
I think a lot of times as women we forget how visual men are. The same way we don’t want to date a godly broke man is the same way men don’t want to date a godly out of shape woman.
@adarateranroldan
@adarateranroldan Жыл бұрын
That’s fine, but women’s weight is going to fluctuate throughout a relationship, especially if they’re having kids.
@estheri5944
@estheri5944 Жыл бұрын
@@adarateranroldan as a woman I understand but in the dating phase we have to present our best self. The same way a man’s finance will fluctuate during marriage but when he’s your husband there’s commitment and love (hopefully) holding you two together so you don’t leave him but if he was super broke from day one you wouldn’t pick him if you have any type of healthy self esteem. I know a lot of times it’s hard for us to hear these truths as women but that’s just how the world is.
@amaragrace94
@amaragrace94 Жыл бұрын
True 🙌 Can't be mad at the truth.
@amaragrace94
@amaragrace94 Жыл бұрын
@@adarateranroldan Of course it will fluctuate but if you are in shape (with lifting weights and cardio) and eat healthy before pregnancy, stay active during, and don't give in to every single craving, the weight should come off in 6 months to 1 year postpartum. Unless you are on medical bed rest during your pregrancy, you should still be exercising...just not as hardcore (yoga, lighter weights, and cardio). I have PCOS and weight loss is a lot harder but not impossible. Lost 30 lbs last year before I was even diagnosed. But I had to fight for them 30 lbs man😓. This year I'm going even harder and being more consistent. The part where Tony said you'll notice you're getting alot more attention is so true. I get my most approaches at the gym and I'm still trying to lose another 30 lbs this year. Nothing is easy, but if it's important to you, you will sacrifice the unhealthy habits to get to your goals. Discipline.
@marysmith6803
@marysmith6803 Жыл бұрын
Bbl’s are not the answer just hit that gym ladies
@brittanyelisejohnson7992
@brittanyelisejohnson7992 Жыл бұрын
So many great nuggets of truth!! Thank you TG!!
@chai848
@chai848 Жыл бұрын
Amen Mr. Gaskins. Excellent video and also enjoyed being brought along for the errands😊
@patriciarobertson2564
@patriciarobertson2564 Жыл бұрын
God Bless you Tony! Educate
@devondre79
@devondre79 Жыл бұрын
I am 29yr old and a virgin still waiting until marriage
@danilaroche1156
@danilaroche1156 Жыл бұрын
Thats wonderful!
@treneemcgee8060
@treneemcgee8060 Жыл бұрын
Amen! Women saving themselves until marriage exists too! We out here! Focusing, building and in God! SAVING OURSELVES! 🔥🔥
@3393eh
@3393eh Жыл бұрын
Tony!! Thank you for this message!! A whole lot of what you said was confirmation 🙌🏾
@pamelahicks1283
@pamelahicks1283 Жыл бұрын
Amen Tony thank you 😊
@Khadiner100
@Khadiner100 Жыл бұрын
Tony, you're speaking the truth. Thank you.
@chameljackson4512
@chameljackson4512 Жыл бұрын
Lol this hairstyle conversation. Funny and true
@beez2013
@beez2013 Жыл бұрын
The best n truthful and truthful video.thank you mr gaskins z.God bless you n your family
@deborahwhiteside4738
@deborahwhiteside4738 Жыл бұрын
Thanks! You are always so on point. Love your spirit. God bless you are your family. Be blessed!!
@imuniquedevoin
@imuniquedevoin Жыл бұрын
Real. Wisdom 🙏🏾
@crystalwoodyard8596
@crystalwoodyard8596 Жыл бұрын
Thank you Mr Gaskins. I am so glad I ve changed
@theQueen-xb3uo
@theQueen-xb3uo Жыл бұрын
🎉😎😎🎉thanks for this inspiring message stay Blessed🛐🛐
@DwlceAcosta
@DwlceAcosta Жыл бұрын
You really do be giving us the game. We need to start acting on what we are learning!
@sunrise_tea
@sunrise_tea Жыл бұрын
Such a good word, ty Brother.
@NurseMo337
@NurseMo337 Жыл бұрын
Yea this was for me today. Confirmation👍🏽
@angeladrain5088
@angeladrain5088 Жыл бұрын
I had to save this message, so many truths that will set you free. Thank you Tony!
@_essencefit
@_essencefit Жыл бұрын
Listening on my way to work and I am crying , you’re funny 😂 speaking straight facts , let us know !
@kadian225
@kadian225 Жыл бұрын
🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉 love this message!
@Jazmincortez_
@Jazmincortez_ Жыл бұрын
You’re funny!! Makes it fun to listen to 😂
@MikaisMika
@MikaisMika Жыл бұрын
Thanks Tony!
@AG81018
@AG81018 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for supporting my coffee shop habit and affirming my decision to make my IG public. I’m making it easier for my husband to find me 😂
@elianaisrael2757
@elianaisrael2757 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for the encouragement. I am going to contemplate going on-line. You nailed it! I didn't know there were other women like me that won't go on-line and we have no profiles. Thank you Tony!
@stephaniegoldman5830
@stephaniegoldman5830 Жыл бұрын
I love you Brother you make me laugh but it’s so true!
@taylortaylor1636
@taylortaylor1636 Жыл бұрын
Tony Gaskin, you are coaching and teaching good!!
@lifeandball
@lifeandball Жыл бұрын
May God keep blessing you
@sandeejaye7239
@sandeejaye7239 Жыл бұрын
This one blessed me Tony. Thank you for the real talk. I was weak at the milkshake comment
@Tahtiluv
@Tahtiluv Жыл бұрын
Can’t wait for your podcast Tony you’re about to kill it! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
@queenconscious2989
@queenconscious2989 Жыл бұрын
God bless this man!
@temekahatcher88
@temekahatcher88 Жыл бұрын
Dr. TONY THANK You for this Video this Blessed me sooo much!!! 🙏🏾 ❤
@SignedBlake
@SignedBlake Жыл бұрын
Love this - A couple months ago, I decided to just focus/ work on myself and start stepping out more; I wfh and am mainly in the house, trying out coworking spaces and cafes just for a change of scenery. I’ve done the reflection/ healing and just have a fresh zeal for life; the world is at my feet. If he finds me, he finds me and I’ll welcome him with open arms. But if not, I’ll just keep enjoying what I’ve been doing til the next chapter comes❤
@LoveAngel333
@LoveAngel333 Жыл бұрын
❤ same here
@queenshmoney
@queenshmoney Жыл бұрын
Tony!!!!!!!! You have been a great help a friend referred you and let me tell you I wish I heard this stuff 15-20 years ago but it’s never too late I have to get myself together!!!!
@francineblack7659
@francineblack7659 Жыл бұрын
Sir you are definitely sowing a seed into somebody's life today!!
@mmommo10
@mmommo10 Жыл бұрын
Big Brother, I loved the part saying "we can't stop it". we just gonna have to adjust. very peaceful words for me. thanks for all you do.
@ivanildabarbosa6605
@ivanildabarbosa6605 Жыл бұрын
Yesssssss preach! Let’s meet in the middle! 🙌🏽🙏🏽
@suebrown4040
@suebrown4040 Жыл бұрын
I thank God for you brother keep teaching us the game
@jo_vee
@jo_vee 9 ай бұрын
i really needed to hear this tonight
@caroleshannon6202
@caroleshannon6202 Жыл бұрын
Great info, inspiration and solutions. Blessings🙏
@karenvanschalkwyk9593
@karenvanschalkwyk9593 Жыл бұрын
The best! Thank you Tony, be blessed always 🙏
@emunique
@emunique Жыл бұрын
We can’t stop the music . Took me out at the gym 😂😂 this dude Tony man .
@victoryflavored7711
@victoryflavored7711 Жыл бұрын
Yes sir 16 years 🔒 Preach and teach 🎉
@Best-ThingYouNeverHad
@Best-ThingYouNeverHad Жыл бұрын
Get it Tony!
@azizabydesign
@azizabydesign Жыл бұрын
Thank you brother in Christ!!! You are greatly appreciated!!! You are speaking what I was recently thinking! I recently reposted a video that I made from last year and didn't realize how rough I was looking (was going through a rough patch).😆😂 I've spruced up since then but know I need to spruce up some more!!! Because if I want to date and want someone that looks upkept and fit I should be upkept and on point too. Will get it together!!!😆☺️😊 Thank you for the reminder, confirmation and encouragement...cuz I was also thinking "are there still good, godly men out there?!?" Yes, thank you Lord. God bless you Sir!🙏🏽💯✊🏽 Also, your female impersonations are hilarious!!!😆😂
@liviaserrano7856
@liviaserrano7856 Жыл бұрын
Tony!! An entire gem filled treasure trove! Amen!🙏🏽 Thank you & God bless you abundantly!!! 💕👑
@tamaramichelle4326
@tamaramichelle4326 Жыл бұрын
Get in the gym together 💪🏾
@KnollyJamesandJoJoOreo
@KnollyJamesandJoJoOreo Жыл бұрын
Instagram has become like a dating app. It’s disgusting
@princizzraven2000
@princizzraven2000 Жыл бұрын
Love these sobering messages. Always reinforcing the right mindset!
@dekeshalanee8618
@dekeshalanee8618 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing this very REAL perspective and filling in the gaps. Truth breaks down lies about how we view things that cause us to miss our blessings. 💜
@donnajeffreys8252
@donnajeffreys8252 Жыл бұрын
Had me laughing 🤣 good advice Tony
@DanielleStarr
@DanielleStarr Жыл бұрын
Yep everybody wants to give it up so bad. All they have to do is talk dirty or give a false sense of importance, approval. They fall in quick. Stop being with people of the opposite sex. Late at night. Temptation is stronger then you can handle.
@theresakingbell2957
@theresakingbell2957 Жыл бұрын
Hiyalana acid I seriously LOLd. Hyaluronic it's Hyaluronic. But you are speaking truth, sir.
@zoeyasher2086
@zoeyasher2086 Жыл бұрын
Man☝🏾😩, not one lie in this video♥️.
@auralitedivine
@auralitedivine Жыл бұрын
Alhamdulillah✨ Thank you Tony!!
@enatihaok3594
@enatihaok3594 Жыл бұрын
You are "TRANSFORMING" lives out here
@TheGiftedHermit
@TheGiftedHermit Жыл бұрын
T giving us free game Ladies!
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