Is He Using Me?

[@georgina4874]

SOUL TIES will keep you STUCK ON STUPID. 🤔🤔🤔Praying for baby girl to wise up😢😢😢😢

[@cedtriciasgymjourney9614]

Lord,Men are headaches😓

[@anointedstilettos]

She was the victim of a narcissist. There were so many red flags and she ignored them all.

[@Deefauxleatherdezign21]

Signs of a narrsarsist

[@patiencebright]

Girl. He is jealous. I experienced the same thing and he was my husband. I filed for divorce after 7 months. Run as fast as you can. He doesn't want you.

[@venusnepheteria7534]

This is not even red flags, it was sirens!!!!

[@amaj_lex]

Lmao

[@audreywright7788]

Damn straight. Ray Charles could see him coming! Don't put his name on ANYTHING. It's your home, make sure it stays that anyway. In fact anything to do with money. This guy is a headcase. Man, he could seriously give you IBS.

[@beautifulsoul7791]

😂😂😂😂😂😂 WELL SAID!!!!👏👏👏👏👏🙌🙌🙌🙌😘

[@Lovingmyselfthroughmyeyes]

He is not just using you... he has Been using you and dogging you from day one. Leave that loser and take care of your child and heal yourself

[@purplet72walker72]

The boyfriend is a narcissist and she is soul tied to him.

[@mariac5294]

PurpleT72 Walker : yes needs to break the soul tie he’s a narcissist. I pray that you received your deliverance and break every chain of bondage . 🙏

[@nahjacutler]

Is he really a narcissist or could it be that he knows she has not standards ?

[@mareelovely]

This is one of those letters that just stuns you. I keep saying...we have FAILED our daughters. There is something really wrong in how we are, as a collective, are raising our girl children. Culturally, something is broken.

[@lyndapeoples8127]

@@sashanoel167 ..I agree to a certain extent. There's a lot of truth to the old adage, "you can lead a 🐎 horse to water but you can't make him drink." We can spend time teaching our children by word and by example but ultimately, the final decision of their life choices will be decided by them. If ppl don't obey God's Word, how in the world do we expect them to always follow what we tell them to do that is right? It's not always because of something parents haven't done that things like those in the video take place.

[@sashanoel167]

@@lyndapeoples8127 I agree, all the teaching and living the example are only part of the equation. And yes, they make the final decision that seals the deal, but no offense to the young lady but those decisions are made by naive, immature, and most times uninformed before they even truly realize or understand the life long consequences they've opened themselves up to. Science states that the brain is not fully matured until around age 30. Oxitocin is a real thing, it is nothing to be taken lightly.most times it traps a girl OR woman before she realizes what has really happened to her. It can be triggered by long Intimate conversations, accepting little gifts, and seemingly harmless kindnesses. Anything that endears the young man in her eye. Those seemingly innocent gestures are like lightning a match to gasoline. I I think that is one if the reasons in bible times and the not too distant past marriages were arranged and court ships were established. To protect women young and old from making decisions based on hormones, emotions and some men who use these things to get from a girl or woman what they want. "Not all men " but some men. 😅

[@iamnicole303]

Absolutely!

[@GoogleUser-wy2vv]

AND OUR SONS...he will age without knowing his grandchildren. No legacy, no $, bad character...

[@missarabia1875]

So true

[@ambiebby1636]

Girl...really? At least she didn't refinance her house to put his name on the loan and deed...she wasn't dumb ENOUGH to do that. Glass half full...

[@BGlo55]

She needs to learn to love herself first.....

[@kittygalore2010]

This sounds like a Nightmare

[@stroNg2thaBoNe2thaMax]

She thought she was special. She's about to be another baby mama.

[@helena3631]

She thought she was doing better than the other baby mothers because she brought a house and taking care of her man.. now she is in the same predicament as the other women

[@bougiegal2074]

My God My God when will women learn. Stop ignoring the red flags.

[@namastewellness]

Abena Randolph UNDERSTATEMENT

[@ladennayoung2939]

They will learn when people rise up and show them the way. There is no point of having churches on almost every street corner. If the people that attend the church is not willing to show love. People do certain things because they are broken. They need to be prayed for, and they need to be shown the way. They don't need people putting their mouths on them in a negative way.

[@crystalstrong268]

Need standards we got to love God first in God will teach us how to love urself

[@cadmarbusinesssuite9155]

Amen

[@giftednanointedcrafts6650]

Crystal Strong Exactly Sis. Amen n Amen if the whole world thought like me and you knowing we must love God 1st. Our Society would be a much better and more Peaceful place! 🌞🌞🌞🌎🌏🌍🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@iamCandyJames]

she has forgotten what she deserves and who she is... Sis needs to learn how to love HERSELF, let him go and stop playing the victim....A Women’s intuition is so powerful if you have to ask Tony the question then you already no the answer...

[@erikalynch781]

She needs to learn how to love herself, so she can set standards. This should have been done a long time ago, but it's never too late to start loving yourself.

[@tlashai9902]

He's the problem and so is she.

[@ButterCookie1984]

Bingo

[@movingmountains4832]

I was 30 seconds into the letter and I'm already saying, GET OUT!!!! Put on your track shoes girl. Please! I speak from experience.

[@ashleyashloc23]

Look up dating a narcissistic. You cant change him. He will continue to treat you and all women like this if you allow it.

[@lifeventures6651]

More women must learn to separate emotions from logic. Everyone makes mistakes, but phew...to a certain extent.

[@DrCassie-Psy]

He's playing the game. He wants rights to her and her things but doesn't want her. He doesn't want her he wants HELP. He wants what she can provide but can't handle being with her? She trusted him with her body, her heart and he doesn't trust her. There's a WHOLE lot wrong with ALL of this. I'm so sorry she had to go through all this

[@ladyVictoriaB]

If a man does not invest in you financially and emotionally he doesn’t want you, you are in now not is Future wife,not is dream girl. Basically you’re like a rental home, When you are a mortgage then your investment.

[@Xwaterwicca]

My heart goes out for this girl

[@kriskay2k9]

I literally just wiped the sweat off my forehead from getting hot listening lol okay back to the show. Thank you for your wisdom Tony!!

[@melodieshekia]

God bless her heart ❤

[@ladyVictoriaB]

Yes woman he’s using you ,Are you desperate. Basically you’re free nanny.

[@cherh]

You know what I'm tied. Whew! 🤦🏾‍♀️ We have to do better. He was miss treating you and you "planned" to have a child with him. Like, seriously?! Women nowadays so desperate for love from a man that they will allow any & everything. Penis is not all that hell half of them can't last 15 minutes. Women have all the power yet they allow trash ass dudes like him to do disrespect them. You're a freaking BOSS! You paid cash for a house and allowed this scrub to treat you less than you deserve. Do better for your child who you now will have to raise alone. Smh. And Tony everything you said was the truth about shaking our heads...I almost turned it off cause I'm tired of hearing the same stuff from women. But I had to hear your thoughts lol

[@xtydivine]

oh my Lord, I’m praying for her and that child. WOWOWOWOW! I am shocked.

[@Wealthybaby]

Tony your like a big brother getting on to his little sisters. I love hearing you give honest no sugar coating advice. Man said you got “two musky men “ 😂🤣🤣 my brother cracks me up.

[@TheFactsofLife237]

🏃 DONT WALK! RUN FAST FOREST!

[@cherracannon7902]

Move on, dear? Your asking the questions because you already kno the answer. Hes not for you, hes IS using you. He has nothing to offer you but headaches and disappointments. For your sake and the sake of your baby, cut your ties. And dont look back. Give yourself a fresh start. Keep your head up you deserve so much better.

[@sylviagreenburg7679]

SO TRUE. BEEN THERE DONE THAT. KEEP WHAT YOU WORKED FOR IN YOUR NAME AND YOUR NAME ONLY. WHAT IN THE WORLD ARE YOU THINKING? HAVE YOUR BABY THEN GET CHILD SUPPORT. GET YOUR LIFE TOGETHER AND WAIT A FEW YEARS THEN YOU MIGHT BE READY FOR ANOTHER RELATIONSHIP. NEVER PUT YOUR TRUST OR FAITH IN ANY MAN. HE IS A MANIPULATOR , LIAR AND A USER. HOW DARE YOU EVEN THINK ANYTHING IS WRONG WITH YOU, OTHER THAN YOU ARE JUST TOO TRUSTING. LISTEN TO YOUR FAMILY. MOVE FAR AWAY.COM.

[@valarielavalis9176]

This woman is clueless. She needs common sense...

[@clarkclarke]

Why are people going to thearpy....this is ridiculous.... she needed advice???? she is not even listening to family and friends ...she should never have gotten pregnant .... And if she outs him in the house he will kick HER out ...how can she not see that ..??? crazy ..😬

[@joannaabrams240]

It comes back to loving yourself enough to not accept trash, believe for a future that is GOOD (filled with love even if it comes with challenges. She ignored red flags because she has gone so negative on herself. Now she has to teach the child how to be a whole adult.....this is sad....

[@nameless7550]

Point blank. He is using you.

[@AnnieinKC]

Tony, I was raised with 3 boys & a Marine Corps Master Sargeant dad. You are SO on point! He wants wife benefits, but you're not the wife.

[@deebrw52]

This is common sense he just never want you thank you Tony

[@crystalstrong268]

Yes speak Tony u got me on being unequally yoke I love this in u talking real on this hallelujah

[@pat4eva09]

😂😂 Hahaha @ "Two musky men!!!" A mess. Preach TonyG!!!

[@tameekaharris6425]

Toni you're a life coach beast and it's a blessing to hear your knowledge. Most times us women know what to do but the way you dissect it and break it down is amazing ❤

[@renitaa7148]

Do NOT put this man on your home! Get him outta there.

[@nicolec.5938]

Preach rev Tony 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 “ that rev tony part had me laughing “ 😆 but on a serious note a lot of women including my self has gotten into some foolish situations! But thank God for your Truthfulness ! In the past Men in my own family have given bad advice ! But im so glad you exist for the ladies 👌🏻💫🙏🏼

[@PositiveThoughtsEnergy52]

🤣🤣🤣you say he's a little Devil. So True 😡

[@chocodiamondjewels3403]

TOXIC CITY ,she needs to move away immediately!!! It's not gonna get better it will only get worse! For that child's safe GET AWAY FROM THAT MAN.

[@terisaharris725]

Too many red flags! He’s a manipulator! Run fast! He surely don’t love you at all! Run fast ma’am! Listen to Tony! Listen to him please! Love yourself more than that! He is sorry! You deserve better!

[@tomikacox360]

I don't think she did not want to pick up the son. I think she was letting the sons mother to be a mother but the father was being selfish by saying he doesnt want the mother to pick up the son but he wants his girlfriend to pick up the son instead so that he can see him everyday. That wouldnt be fair to the mother who also wants to see her son.

[@tumsesssysesssay]

Such a user 😐

[@stormyv.8890]

Y can't he pick up he's own son... It's his son! Not hers..

[@trinap.8904]

sounds like he is sleeping with the child's mom. Notice she moved into town, why? For all you know he was mad u didnt pick up the son because it would have interrupted their time together. He is living with you and taking advantage of you providing shelter.

[@redmoonzvr6540]

The diirrttty D😂😂😂

[@clarkclarke]

community peen

[@ladyvirtue650]

God Bless You Sir. I Thank God for you nd answering the call! You are helping Generations of families! Thanks for always speaking the Truth in Love! 🙏"We Got To Do Better"~Tony Gaskins~ ~Praise Jesus Always~

[@VintageAfro91]

Wow ladies please please please watch the red flags early and don’t be scared to walk away! I feel so bad for this woman. She clearly has a soul tie with this fool.

[@lyndapeoples8127]

There is a lot I could say regarding this young woman's situation but I'm refraining because of time. I wish I had time to read all of the comments in this forum. I believe she needs to work on her self-esteem and self-image. I had to learn the hard way that "ppl learn how to treat you by what you will tolerate." God has wonderful plans for her life and for her baby's life. I pray that she gets the counseling she needs. My heart goes out to her. Ladies and gentlemen, please don't ignore red flags! What you see is what you get!

[@jennifergregg2040]

Literally LOL @ Where do you live-- I'd like to buy real estate there.

[@venesiabrown414]

Be blessed you're a lifesaver you've helped me out a whole lot. And I just want to Thank you and God bless you.

[@lindahoward8833]

We just need to pray for her sisters even though we haven't been in that particular situation we have been in situations and thought we was foolish. 🙏

[@joannaabrams240]

Pray and get help. She doesn't know how valuable she is or love herself. She on purpose ignored red flags because she confused a vulture who throws her a "bone" every now and then. Now she has to teach a child how to be whole..... sad....

[@feliciapasley3133]

How do you break the chain of a soul tie from a narcissistic person?

[@tiasinclair9741]

One tried me had to check that , no. Cant accept just anything wanted me to spend money , he has grown and have younger children , and was trying to make me a baby Mother too no thanks let him go forever.w would not want him or what he cannot do or can do little to bad and sad but not to add a problem or stress or wasted time , he is not any responsible person . No yoke makes sense it feels good to be loved the right way .

[@allergictonarcs3097]

Yes he is indeed a Narcissist!!! A Covert Narcissist at that!!! I definitely went through some of the same situations. I got pregnant several of times. I got an abortion twice and had miscarriages the other times!! I truly believe it was a sign from God 🤷‍♀️!! I educated myself on Narcissist due to someone else knowing him and telling me he was one and I got myself out of that situation!!

[@margaretwince2748]

She should sell the house and move far away. You and the baby can start over. Get away from this excuse of a man.

[@georgina4874]

He needs to get saved. Baptized and washed in the blood.

[@vh7637]

Amen

[@A.D.8897]

It blows my mind when I hear stories of women making HUGE mistakes like that, REPEATEDLY. WOW...is the sex that important? Because, the man's actions and words show you, clearly, he ain't worth 2 cents, let alone your time... I just, WOW... Yeah, it has to be self-hate or an addiction or both. Men and women need to take accountability for their poor decisions and end the outward blame... Some of the stories I hear makes you question the sanity of people.

[@Xwaterwicca]

I will NEVER settle for a man who already has kids

[@chitown7110]

Me either. A single father wouldn't even be on my radar.

[@chocodiamondjewels3403]

Tony its a while now you did this video and things have not changed for many women WHY, because of SELF HATE and the thing is this, many of us dont realise that,we cant and will not have love until we love and value ourselves. I am seriously looking into this life coaching business because many women and men are in NEED of this service in order to live as how God intended us to live which is ABUNDANTLY. I found myself coaching a man on the bus the other day of the importance of setting good examples for his children(male and female) by being civil with their mother even though they are not together anymore and I thank you for being a light bearer in this world.

[@hscott4396]

HAVE YOUR BABY AND WALK AWAY. BUT YOU CAN RAISE THE BABY THO. BUT DONT LET HIM BACK IN. HE TOLD YOU THAT FROM THE START HE DONT WANT YOU THRU HIS ACTION. BUT TRUST ME BEING A SINGLE PARENT MYSELF. BUT BY THE GRACE OF GOD I DID IT. THEY ARE GROWN AND ON THERE OWN NOW. BUT MOST OF ALL THE MOST IMPORTANT THING IS 2 LOVE SELF FIRST. RIGHT IS RIGHT WRONG IS WRONG AND BULL STUFF IS BULL STUFF.

[@angeliquep8391]

I seen the red flags before she allowed herself to get pregnant....smh...It's situations like that is when we grow and learn.... I learned from many of my mistakes and I don't repeat after a lesson has been learned!! Now she is going to have to deal with that person for 18 years and I'm sure their parenting skills are going to cause conflict.... And as far as her telling him that the mother should be picking up his son not her because if I was the mother and he was telling her to pick him up then me and him would be arguing because I am the mother and no one should be picking up my son without MY PERMISSION.... She better do some praying!!

[@flameb8814]

Lady, he is doing you a favour by being with someone else

[@sehkanchance5360]

She gave me a straight headache.. I can't do I'm glad it's in your plate TONY, not mine.. SHE MAKE MY WANT TO FIGHT HER

[@swinter9900]

That man is a hater a jealous man who do not want to build with you for you both, he is destroying you as a woman and all that you have worked , please !!! please ,please, get away from this sick selfish, self centered evil no good dog of a man, Stand up for you and hold your head up high God will see you through this you must kick that devil out and let him stay out he is stinking up your life !!!!!, be Strong .

[@DayaTom]

" He need to be isolated! " :D

[@ladyVictoriaB]

I’m upset just listening to this....This man don’t want you,you have a low self-esteem that’s why you are with a man who treat you like a doormat

[@ButterCookie1984]

Tony, your response was ON POINT and very appropriate.👍

[@stroNg2thaBoNe2thaMax]

He sounds like a Narc.

[@joannhughes4992]

Tell it Tony Real Talk👌🏼

[@aureliapetty-owens6333]

One word... Sickening! Let us pray....💔🙏🏾❤

[@shaunettedennis2768]

I love how straight forward you are , I am a new subscriber. Very knowledgeable

[@aprilnicole8096]

*Isolated*. Key word! 👏🏽👏🏽

[@kikikiki3216]

Please don't marry the devil's child..run

[@OptimisticSeven]

Tony toooo funny , the congregation is going crazy

[@drislady]

I'm sorry but why are you having a baby with someone who doesn't want to be in the baby's life, you aren't married to and mistreated you?

[@silvermont331]

What a mess sister .. get him out of your life ! ASAP

[@QueenRonny]

Great advice, I receive it and thank you very much. 🙂

[@sharonfloyd3493]

She might need to get herself an African man like I did. They treat women like queens over there.

[@sophien4124]

Love this guy! So true!

[@simonewoodberry5053]

The red flags are there for a reason! We must Listen!

[@a.8774]

He is gaslighting her

[@LA.4.LIFE.76]

Preach Tony!

[@lalastaywoke]

Damn and she having a kid he don't want in her house wow wtf? Sad

[@denzelsviewpoints6018]

Wow! In the beginning I was so scared that she said she added his ass to the deeds. Why so women ignored the flags. He's a user and when all that benefits are gone he will disappear in tin air. Kick his ass out and from her explanation she's doing financially well by her self. Sad how men takes God's kindness for granted!

[@erikabrown6804]

In what way was he NOT using her??? But, you right. Hard to see your own forest for the trees.

[@ilciataracena-delcid5397]

That's a long question..With an easy answer get rid off him you have no respect for yourself ..

[@lhazel2]

He's emotionally abusive .. He's beyond a user .. He's not happy with himself I hope she left

[@lacyedesouza2144]

He needs to go immediately!! You can do bad all by yourself. He is not helping you at all. Move on!! Lean on God not man. He is abusive and manipulative. You will be better alone.

[@user-gu6vf3je1d]

Damn. You broke this jawn down! All self righteous about abortion but laid up with a dingy ninja. Ha! 😂

[@sheilamartin7561]

I Was there in that space for 2 years...Stuck on Stupid...

[@AnnieinKC]

I used to flip houses a lot. DON'T put him on your house. He can go out and get a refinance loan on it and disappear with the cash, leaving you to pay it. He's a narcissist and gaslighting you. Go to you tube dr ramani.

[@jlove8081]

Thank you🙏💕

[@ChaeThompson]

Her story is sad but I believe it can help other women and in turn make her stronger as well

[@Ginanotfromitaly]

She deserves anything that happens from this point forward.

[@serwaaaskew108]

You can do bad by yourself!

[@cadmarbusinesssuite9155]

I have listened to your assessment of the situation and I am here to offer a different perspective. I am fine with you shedding light on how her actions contributed to her demise but it lacked much grace to restore her, nor did it identify the key areas where culture, gender, and her environmental influences played a role. I felt that there was such a negative slant of judgment in your tone and that you as a life coach have a responsibility to do more than just point out people's faults but show them the pathway of redemption and hope (in context through Christ). Moreover, I implore you and all the men of God to not neglect your responsibility as well to bring leadership and be a covering. We must begin with God's design and purpose. When God created the man he created him to build, to think, and be a solid framework (a backbone of strength). When God created the woman he created her to emote, to expand, to nurture, and use her heart to bring a softness and balance of judgment. When both attributes are working hand and hand between men and women we complement one another and supplement our natural weaknesses that were built by design that through God's wisdom He would get the glory as our supreme Teacher. You must share with this woman what God's original intent is and give her the pathway to restoration. I Peter 3:7 God commands the man to dwell with the woman (wife) according to knowledge and to honor her as the weaker vessel. The woman is the weaker vessel because she is an expensive pearl of great price. God fashioned her as delicate, with extra complexities which you have ignored in your assessment but has placed the mantle of responsibility upon the man to cover and protect her. She is like fine china with her glory to be displayed on special occasions to entreat the people (consider Esther over Vashti). You can't solve a negative with a negative. Esteem this email respondent to her rightful place in God instead of just blaming her. I don't think we realize just how protective Our Heavenly Father is over women and how much honor and love he placed over them. He created a pathway for her always to be provided for and to abide under His provision. I Corinthians 7:37 - 38 gives us a window into the heart of God's love and care for women: " Nevertheless, he that standeth steadfast in his heart, having no necessity, but hath power over his own will, and has so decreed in his heart that he will keep his virgin, does well. So then he that gives her in marriage does well; but he that gives her not in marriage does better. Therefore, a man of great understanding, especially a man with the heart of a father, will always make sure that women are honored, covered, provided for, and that other men will esteem her highly. In response, God would provide a great reward for that man (consider Ruth and Boaz). You needed to bring this to light how the man that the woman is with depicts the state of man after the fall - not God's design which consequence is the result of the curse. Genesis 3:16 ...and thy desire shall be to thy husband and he shall rule over thee. I also took great umbrage at your insinuation that she despised or had resentment towards his son. Nothing in her response indicated this. You planted a bad seed in her thinking that will contribute towards her downward spiral even further. It was not her place to pick up her boyfriend's son from school. That is a boundary that she recognized and she needs to build from there. Moreover, how dare you even put the thought that just because she is living in a sinful state that it would not be a far reach for her to consider abortion since she is already violating God's commandments why should she take a stand against that rather than be tied to this man as a third baby's mama? Life is precious and you just gave her boyfriend a pass. We are imperfect beings that have a mixture of strengths and weaknesses which is why Jesus is the Lamb of God slain before the foundation of this world that through Him we might be saved. You were quite critical with your response because it is a place of your strength - not hers. The last area that I thought you got totally wrong and misidentified is the fact that the man that she is with is selfish, not needy. He is not with the 4th woman because he is a needy man. He simply lacks integrity. The pattern has already been established. Both this man and woman are following in the path of the curse when Adam fell (God called them both as the man and woman Adam). The iniquities have fallen generationally in both of their lives and from a negative standpoint, they are equally yoked in sin. Also, the PTSD that has never been dealt with as a result of slavery which purposely separated the man from the woman is also at work here.

[@prettybrowngirl9451]

I agree.

[@zanianarcisse1734]

I just listened to this, and agree with you. She is the victim of Narcissistic Abuse, and has been acting out of a state of trauma bonding. I pray that God Will Break this soul tie, and Remind her of who she is in His Sight, so she can rise to her rightful place as a Daughter of God.

[@jenniferhisepy1700]

Wow you go Coach Preachhhhh

[@Superlife1369]

@Cadmar Business Suite So you wanted him to sugar coat the mess?

[@robintruelove777]

Had me cryin

[@cleopatrafahm4564]

She probable buy tax lean homes..you can bid from 500..you might have to fix a little thou..but over all good advise

[@jennymoll442]

I’m guilty of not using protection with a few ex’s and a guy i’m with now, but now we use condoms. But I heard even condoms don’t work... He has a kid, I don’t see having kids as a bad thing, depending on who left who and if the guy is a good guy. Because some people are infertile and have to adopt, or marry a guy with a kid. And I don’t generalize, my uncle married someone with two daughters from a previous marriage, and my mom gave up a baby for adoption. But is it bad, if I say I can see him having another kid because he can barely pays his rent, and lost a job, but still find myself seeing him. I’ve heard of some wives being the bread winner, although. The thing is girls can get stuck and girls always have a reason for staying, like we know when the guys like us, but I guess we have to look at it from a outside perspective. Just because someone has feelings for you, don’t mean they are right for you. You have to think about the consequences, like; not going to a guys place (rape can happen), and not having sex with strugglers- you can get pregnant, IF you keep dating men like these. I’ve been told, most people are smart, but they don’t see how severe the outcomes are till their in them. Smart people learn from other peoples situations.

[@Wealthybaby]

Jenny Moll just be careful. I didn’t see anything wrong with it either. But in the long run, it backfired. Ended up becoming a step mom and mom shortly after. While I didn’t want either at the time. Like tony said write out your life as it is nice and read it out loud

[@jennymoll442]

Fancy Pants once you meet a guy who’s all take and never give, that’s a sign that they will cross over your boundaries and sign that your choices of guys your dating, are gonna leave you a single mom. Although- I doubt he’d ever plan for another kid, since he can’t afford it.

[@jennymoll442]

I also have to add that he seems very territorial and controlling. I can’t tell, if it’s overly territorial. I can see that as an outcome, although we havent’t done anything in a month because he’s been busy trying to get a job, but he says he wants to see me soon. Lately he calls a lot too and sometimes he says, “Babe. Why didn’t you answer your phone when I called you?”

[@livingbeyondvision4863]

You are so good at what you do! And funny, too!! Lol