Why Men Should Lead In Love

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[@rileysroom2090]

I wish more men listened and learned from you. The wisdom is real 💯💯💯

[@tahniquawilliams8013]

Brother Tony! Thank you

[@BYCDatingStoriesandAdvice]

Hello! I have a lot of videos on my channel about Christian relationships, please check it out if you have time!! 🙏🏽

[@davidtaylor-ev5cj]

So Quiet Storm if your Man woke up every morning and cooked for you. At lunch and brought lunch he, prepared. You get home he cooked Dinner. You'd insult him by asking are you a chef? I'm confused. Love make you want to give and show your love. It's an action word....

[@elijjdudidjdhdbdhdhdjsksne4934]

This is why none of your girls will have mens. This whole comment section is a bunch of women justifying why they aren’t married by using a guy who is that smart to bash man. Hahah go.

[@adoringgalore5636]

Exactly. He’s the real deal

[@opheliamyall2554]

Wish many more men thought like you. It's all about accepting responsibility.

[@theythinkidontknow1975]

They all have a mountain of excuses

[@Silque.Blaque.TheOriginal]

All I can say is "Lord Have Mercy"! Thank you for understanding women.

[@jasonsanchez6595]

God bless you brother , dam that was real . I’m in tears

[@karenkendrick3128]

Tony, your wife is one blessed woman to have a man like you who loves by the word of God! She truly took the last one lol! God bless you and your ministry!

[@InsuranceDealer]

I sware

[@deidrafrazier278]

The devil is a liar! You wouldn't even be here if a woman didn't sacrifice her body for your life - boy.

[@elijjdudidjdhdbdhdhdjsksne4934]

Deidra Frazier I wouldn’t be here if my dad didn’t have with her two so yea. Woman can’t have a child by themselves. And she didn’t scarified her body to give me life, I was born and she still had her body and still does.

[@deidrafrazier278]

Know that bringing you here impacted her body irreversibly for the rest of her life. And unless you want a future of test tube babies - we bring life...and nurture...and love. Anything a woman loves, she nurtures, it/they GROW. And your dad could spit his seed all day long, the only thing that brought you LIFE was your mother's body incubating you for 9 mns. You got oxygen, food, and warmth so you could sit on your computer and type about how you're superior. I need you to look up God Complex because that's what your original comment embodies. Women are humbled all day long by the 'L's we have to take because of this 'loss of sacred' territory. Men are supposed to love, protect, and lead - not abuse and deny responsibility, and use. Tell your mom what you commented today and watch her smile like Mona Lisa. She may even bust out in stomach aching laughter.

[@elijjdudidjdhdbdhdhdjsksne4934]

Deidra Frazier Mother’s don’t nurture, and men sure do lead and follow. You should submit and shut up and stop talking. Men are constantly trying to to lead and they do lead, I don’t know what your talking about. Men are awesome and they do what their supposed to, and woman need to step and nurture these boys. Single mothers children turn to be criminals far more than single fathers children do so woman need to really step up because they suck. And your paragraph format really is weird and mixed-up. And ya that comment was great with a God complex or whatever, and my mom saw the comment when I was typing it and she loved it. And if it wasn’t for feminist like you constantly suppress men and tell them you can’t lead, and men shouldn’t be leaders, and it’s all your fault. My mom had all us three kids by c-section, and she can’t have a child on her own. By herself she can still do nothing and make a baby.

[@ShelleyG1014]

Thank you Tony. You set me free because I no longer have to wonder what to look for or how to make him like me, etc.

[@BYCDatingStoriesandAdvice]

Michele G Hello! I have a lot of videos on my channel about Christian relationships, please check it out if you have time!! 🙏🏽

[@ceritacarter4337]

Wow!!! That is so good for you to Say as a Man. You are a Wise Man. I’ve been married to my husband for 35 years (faithfully) & The Body of Christ needs more Teachings from Christian Men, like this. No more Excuses & Take Initiatives!!! It’s a Necessary Teaching that African American Christian men Need to hear. It’s rarely Taught by the Preachers. I Applaud You, Brother, for allowing God’s love to cause you to be so Transparent. I’ll pass this forward. 🙌🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

[@toniexum1126]

Wish I had a brother...husband and males friends with a good heart and mind!

[@nubianqueenyada]

Love this message. Unfortunately, I don't think the majority of men are ready.

[@GoddessRena214]

Yada - I sent this message to my boyfriend and he said Tony was all over the place. I asked him to tell me how or show me.. guess what.. he couldn’t! So I’m sitting here next to him now playing it as loud as possible just to see if he’s interested, attentive and open! He’s literally looking for his phone or remote to distract him from this message. I can tell this message isn’t something that he wants to hear. I’m glad I’m able to see his reaction and response in living color today. It’s disappointing and very unsettling to see this take place. On the flip side, I’m moving out 10/18 because he hasn’t been right in 10yrs! I’m giving up and I’m moving on...

[@jenniferl5456]

@@GoddessRena214 Good for you!!!

[@anointedstilettos]

"If it's meant to be it's up to me." Thank you for this Tony.

[@DsCompilations]

Amen!

[@user-dp5qi8cz1n]

Its about me being in right standard with God - God fearing man ....every woman should be blessed with a God fearing man.

[@contrinadurant9846]

Where are the men leaders? I don't want to lead. I will support him wholeheartedly. Just be the man. Is that asking too much?

[@larkford4460]

Contrina Durant where are you? I rarely meet women like you

[@theythinkidontknow1975]

I agree I’m married and I am the leader and wife...I’ve grown to be completely tired of being in a role that God has not created me to be in...married over 20 years and as of yet has this man been the man of the house,the leader in my life...I’ve lost respect for him because he’d rather choose to cook than to choose to correct....the whole house will have fallen if it weren’t for me...my daughter gets away with murder....I have a 27 yr old daughter who lives with us drives our car and don’t cook or clean...he says absolutely nothing to her ...I do it all and if there’s a day when I can’t do it it’s a problem...he acts like he’s scared to tell her to keep her space and her child’s space clean...I’m burned out from explaining how I want my home so now I sit back and do what she does absolutely nothing...if she can Netflix and chill so can I....

[@Miranda9Bella]

Last 2 minutes, very critical..and the bit about the way the father loves the mother is a child's 1st introduction to love, very powerful also..

[@brittanyfyi]

The fact that you really know both men & women well is amazing. I loved when you said, somewhat verbatim, “are you a sex doll? Women don’t even be wanting sex everyday due to maybe cramps, or a small headache or just tired in general” which is absolutely true. I can listen to your podcasts all day. I’m really into relationships as well & the more wisdom i hear you speak the more it inspires me. Don’t ever stop what you’re doing 🙏🏽 God bless you and your wife.

[@missshannonsunshine]

brittany jalisa We still do it because then they’ll turn it around on us and use it as an excuse to cheat. I’ve gotten that from other men sooo many times. Disgusting.

[@miamonique_]

Any man who doesn’t understand this is not a Man whose compassionate enough and strong enough to deserve a woman’s all.

[@elp1246]

Good REMINDER teaching! I haven't been this THIRSTY, DUMB, and DESPERATE for a lonnnnnnnnnnnnnng time! When you KNOW BETTER, you DO BETTER!

[@glitterboxglitterbox1939]

El P when you say thirsty do u mean your horny than?

[@lindahastings3684]

Excellent analogy of the fathers treatment and love of the mother , teaches the daughter what a responsible , loving man she should be with.

[@palmtreemrs]

This is the realest video ever!!

[@BYCDatingStoriesandAdvice]

palmtreemrs Hello! I have a lot of videos on my channel about Christian relationships, please check it out if you have time!! 🙏🏽

[@boldandcourageous4176]

I cant imagine bleeding for 5 days and not dying! 🤣😂😂😂😂👏👏

[@kiwthebeauty]

And guess what I do and I am sick of it as a woman. We don’t have a choice lol

[@queenana9]

When you teach and heal a female, you teach and heal a community.. Men will be taught through you teaching women. Keep it up Tony Ase’

[@larkford4460]

Queen Ana are you that foolish? Look at history, our condition is the way it is because of women. It takes a man to lead by example and demonstrate qualities of a man to teach other men. Dad is Destiny, Father of Nations. Women are the nurtures and givers of life. So he should be teaching men instead of making videos for women.

[@rellconnects4695]

I needed to hear this and I agree growing up in a household with both parents but the leading in love was not displayed so for years I loved the wrong ways hurting with intentions on loving but I wasn’t loving the right way and the pain sent me to journeys on how to love proper because I wasn’t shown that example growing up

[@sonyayoung263]

You not a simp, you are a wise, critically thinking, real, strong, Black man. May God continue to bless your wife, you and your two boys. You are a blessing, especially to those of us that never had a father growing up. Thank you!

[@alaya3410]

A woman should never look for a man in my opinion. God is the one who sends women their husband if they allow God to and wait on God.

[@hmblf687]

I love Tony and Sheri Gaskins! They are a great examples what operating from your purpose looks like which is why they're such a blessing!

[@shymultimedia]

LET’S MAKE THIS VIDEO VIRAL!!! Send this to your family members, your friends, colleagues! Post on Facebook, Instagram, Twitter! Tony is explains the exact way God has intended relationships, and we have to spread the good word, this might reach the right man, woman or FAMILY in need...GOD BLESS ALL!!!

[@larenzapious502]

Already shared!!!

[@wealthylaharoi1698]

Yes!

[@diamondstarr7388]

I love that I found you !!! Your an amazing man Thank you for your videos How understanding and logical you are with life. Amen

[@adrianzamarripa4759]

My God i have never heard a man speak the way you do, its very refreshing my brother. You give me hope that there are still good hearted men of God out there. I never had a good example of a good man, only my grandpa but he passed when i was 5 yrs old. God bless you and keep on preaching the truth!❤👑✌📿

[@iishalanae]

LMAO What cha daddy did??? 🤣 Right Tony preach

[@bariirvin2101]

Go on boi with your bad self speak that word! Love to see people having WISDOM especially at an early age. God bless you and your wife/family!

[@NAJErEa91]

THAT SHIRT FRESH UNCLE TONE! 💯💯💯

[@lamarmurrell1254]

You have to be a spiritual centered man to receive this message. Lead will love not fear or control. Women will usually reciprocate, but dont focus on them. Focus on what we as men suppose to do regardless of the woman actions. Lose expectations and let the God in you rule.

[@titusmkingule6648]

Thanks T, I'm from Tanzania East Africa , here waives cook three times a day and men are kings who never go wrong what they believe is what is right n it has to be respected n obeyed, Here is my home n have started coaching to eradicate controlling habit in my country, thank you Tony.

[@dr.dermixgirlmd7479]

*Wow... **11:00**-**14:00** just washed over my spirit like a healing balm. Thank you!* It’s time to finally break the soul-tie with a man who isn’t pouring into me that which I am created to receive and multiply. Time to create room for my Ephesians 5 husband.

[@Difficult000]

Amen !!! This one covers us like a warm blanket Amen !!! To analyze so accurately the natural qualities of the Man comes from the highest Wisdom keep showing Almighty your face Be Blessed.

[@neq2x]

“What cha momma did for ya?” HA!!! 😂💀 I’m DEAD

[@shararose7170]

She receives his love, embrace it, hold it and then multiplies it and reciprocate it. It will only become greater and more magnificent!!! #TRUISMS on so many levels!!!

[@robertnelson4570]

Amen. The last 5 minutes of your video very very deep.

[@shymultimedia]

In my life I’ve only heard two men talk like you did in this video, and that’s YOU and a God fearing man at church. Both of y’all shed light for me...God has truly touched you two with the true way relationships light to be, THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR YOUR WORDS! 🙏🏿

[@BYCDatingStoriesandAdvice]

shymultimedia Hello! I have a lot of videos on my channel about Christian relationships, please check it out if you have time!! 🙏🏽

[@my2bears]

‘I can’t imagine bleeding for 5 days and not dying ‘ 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@thespiritledchristian]

One of your most important videos yet!

[@Ohvee1100cc]

Say no more, my boi!!!!! 👏👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾

[@chitown6101]

May the creator continue to bless you and your family. Thank you

[@deidrafrazier278]

"Whatcha daddy did?" Dead serious. Ha Ha Ha! Tony; you're hilarious on top of wise. Ha ha ha ha....

[@Withlovekailey]

This video is worth a million dollars, actually it’s priceless. There was so much wisdom in it that world needs to know. Thank you so much Mr.Tony

[@TalkEssence]

Do men who need to hear this even listen to this info? Some men Ive met dont even have the mind nor humility to click on and listen to something like this. Anyway. I do think some women begin to learn to humble out and make wiser decisions by hearing your vids. Keep encouraging and teaching.

[@larenzapious502]

I do

[@janicawren6039]

So many men claim to be men but arent really prepared to lead a woman. I will submit for the right one 🎯

[@CrochetExpressway]

My favorite video of yours ever. It makes so much sense.

[@njabz7]

Your videos are life. Such a blessing to hear truth in this manner. Stay blessed up, Tony

[@jenifermiles1152]

Tony, thank you for all your help. I’ve been learning from you for about 6 months now, and your ministry has saved my life.

[@aml8760]

One of your best videos of all time. Be blessed. Thank you.

[@SLBMcMillan]

Real good information and makes a lot of sense! Thank you!

[@Laquanna764]

This is soooo good!! 💯💯💯THANK GOD FOR YOUR GIFT SIR!!👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@Breezy0520]

That was an excellent message. Thank you 🙏🏾 you broke it down so eloquently and as a woman I appreciate the fact that you understand so of our challenges. It makes me open up even more to want to understand the challenges that men face. So real and so uplifting

[@NatureChannel11366]

This is beautiful Tony. You are correct in all.

[@debrahmerriweather6551]

This is soooo on point! It has also confirmed some things that I'm going to be in prayer about next month! Thanks

[@adrienejones6353]

Thank You Sir!! God Bless You 💜🙏🏾💜🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@BYCDatingStoriesandAdvice]

Adriene Jones Hello! I have a lot of videos on my channel about Christian relationships, please check it out if you have time!! 🙏🏽

[@KishaDebP]

Boy Tony Gaskins I love you. Keep preaching and teaching MOG.

[@cheekscheeks5840]

Guilty being a wife and no title smh

[@TeddieBear1968]

So beautifully said..

[@tameekaharris6425]

Tony I don't care what nobody say about you, you be dropping jewels and for free!! Lol this is what's good about social media. I'm learning and taking heed. ❤❤❤

[@lethiamcphee1032]

God bless you for this video!! You really helped me to see that I deserve better, and to not settle for less when I deserve so much more!!🙏🙌

[@BYCDatingStoriesandAdvice]

Blessed Diva Hello! I have a lot of videos on my channel about Christian relationships, please check it out if you have time!! 🙏🏽

[@april-townsend613]

Wow just hits on sooooo many points!!!!! #keepliftinglove ❤️❤️👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

[@199119911989]

So true, we respond to what they give us. Narcissism is real outhere. God bless your ministry.

[@ebonymccullum8720]

Thank u for the knowledge from a grown real man u are👌💯

[@TLL33752]

This is such a great video!!! I love how you explain how a man loving a woman heals her!!!

[@voyageurdumonde9483]

"Stanking Musty!" I cannot with his vocabulary and accent! Cudos mate!Be blessed!

[@sherryclarke3895]

Thanks for all your hard work

[@missvictorious4359]

Stay blessed and keep pushing that knowledge from the heart!! 🙏💜💜💯

[@eslcindy]

TALK TONY!!!!! Your messages will reach their intended audiences! Thank you.

[@Angelica123]

I like and agree with everything you say! You are a real man 🙏🏻

[@thegirlcode9453]

I really appreciate the information that you provided in the video.

[@iamtroyjones]

Respect!

[@wealthylaharoi1698]

God bless and increase you Tony. May your generation reap bountifuly from the UNIQUE ministry seeds you are sowing. Phew! This is something.

[@gma904]

This right here was priceless. Right to the end.

[@taurusgirl9714]

This is wisdom. And yes, there are other men out there to address the issues that complaining men have, they are called "women haters" sometimes they refer to themselves as "Alphas." And there are a bunch of them on KZbin teaching men how to further use, and damage women.Though they call themselves Alphas, they really aren't-they are Omegas--comparing themselves to women, and because many did not have a father to teach them differently, they believe that they should be treated, and spoken to the same as women--even by other men. Now, I am NOT saying that there aren't men out there who have been hurt by women, but the statistics don't feature those stories. This is just meant to distract and try to appropriate help from where it is really needed. And unfortunately, as you also pointed out, a lot of us women buy in. I don't know if this is because some of us believe that the "it happens to men too" attitude will show us as more supportive and understanding, and thus, more attractive to men (It does not to the RIGHT kind of man; just makes us look dense) or if there is a true deficit in self-esteem that won't allow some of us to fully accept the focus and attention that we deserve. Regardless, please keep teaching-- thank you kindly.

[@BYCDatingStoriesandAdvice]

Taurus Girl Hello! I have a lot of videos on my channel about Christian relationships, please check it out if you have time!! 🙏🏽

[@genesisdiaz3204]

Taurus Girl girl you are so right! It sad to see so many males agree w those “alpha male” channels. Do they want to be single for the rest of their lives???

[@simonewoodberry5053]

Amen, Thank you, love this!

[@angellesmith7585]

Thanks for sharing!!!! Great lessons!!! Blessings!!

[@EssenceofGod5657]

Wow...you are so wise Bro....all men need to get this!....thank you..God bless you❤️✌🏾

[@wendydrummond2338]

Thank you so much Tony for this input it is heartwarming and encouraging I hope to meet a man with this same view. God bless you and your family and ministry and country love from Wendy Drummond from Adelaide South Australia

[@minstreldeboorah]

Be blessed bro 🙏🏽

[@melvamoore2685]

I respect you and appreciate this video

[@HK80sbabii]

This needs a part 2. This was a really good topic that is not discussed enough!

[@colabtv]

I needed this.

[@patriciarobertson2564]

This is so true to LIFE Tony! KNOWLEDGE to be shared... 💞

[@teresaballangarry8827]

Thank you, Tony you speak with a lot of love, 🥰

[@itsstillsunnyable]

OMG Tony... I wish all men could truly understand what you just spoke. I thank God for your words and your videos on YT. Much Love, Brother.

[@DivaDivine88]

Yesss... 🤗🚿 WASH ME WITH YOUR LOVE!!! That part right there tho 💯👌🏾❤️🙏🏽!!

[@yolandathomas2887]

Some of them only fake like they have God as if God don't really know them.

[@Authenticleatrice]

Very well said 🙌🏾

[@rachellebrown7082]

Thank You. God Bless

[@lisamcpherson7027]

God bless everything you said

[@yolandalytle4459]

💣💣 Message Tony!🎉 I have never heard about love in this way & I have been in church my entire life! As growing up & even now, my father has never told me the word "NO" or has never yelled or cussed at me! So now in my marriage of 3 years I struggle with this because my husband is not at all the same. I am very used to how my father treats me! Great message, very insightful 🙂

[@thebeautyambassador5200]

Tony you are the real deal be blessed.

[@rachellebrown9701]

I love how you speak very highly of your wife no matter her shape size mind etc. and respects her to the fullest that’s something rear in todays world, men of today world as you can see from the comments of men sent to you, appear to always be thinking of themselves, you continue to be a role model and yes your massage has meaning and debts to it, God honors, Big Bro. God Bless

[@cytinachavis9157]

Speak brother. I knew some man somewhere actually understood us women. Thank you.

[@daniquelakelsanders]

I wish more men thought like you. God bless you. ❤️

[@destanisdestiny]

Speak 🗣🙌🏽

[@luvroxie4589]

Thank God for you...keeping it real...thank you...🙏

[@BettyblacksS]

Thank u I truly appreciate u.

[@444LAAH]

You are hilarious. Good sense of humor. Educational laugh!