The #1 Mistake Women Make When Evaluating a Man!

[@victoriaxox0]

Someone who is reckless with themselves will be reckless with YOU 💯🎯‼️

[@glendanesmith]

That sums up the video right there & its true!

[@Realness4sho]

💯

[@Ginab3001]

Amen👏🏼

[@LadyAngela678]

Drugs, Alcoholism, Cigarettes, and Gambling are deal breakers for me. Can’t do it!

[@jessicascreenwritingservices]

Right! When I worked retail I noticed that a lot of men regardless of age or race were heavily addicted to gambling and cigarettes. Some men would gamble daily and buy 5 plus packs of cigarettes

[@staciadavis-5p1cac93]

Preach Sister!

[@ClowneryAtItsFinest]

Gambling keeps u broke…aske me how I know! 😂

[@LadyAngela678]

@@ClowneryAtItsFinest The House always wins!! Stop giving away money girl!

[@ClowneryAtItsFinest]

@@LadyAngela678 NOT my money! HIS (my old sneaky link) was always taken. A few times I had to PayPal him gas money to get back and forth to work. After the 2nd time, I ghosted out. He was so fine, it hurt my feelings to let him go.

[@thedopeconversationspodcast]

As a man, I co-sign this.

[@Queen._sam_]

I made a video about this. No woman that’s following God, should be with a man that’s smoking weed.

[@mdavi21]

But they sexin ???

[@akilahbatyah6505]

Another subtle way of evaluating a man is seeing if they admire toxic famous people. For example there is a rapper bragged about date grape in one of his songs about 10 years ago. Now men that seem to have good sense want his validation and his co-sign in Atlanta. Even men with daughters. There is a rapper that passed a way, that said “…if you gotta a daughter older than 15, ima grape her.” There’s another rapper that’s talked about all kinds of poison and smurder in his music yet he is still lauded because he’s a high earner and famous. Many black men talk about him like he’s a godly priest. Also the movies, do they laugh about the “eat the cake Anna Mae” scene? Do they laugh about when they heard that Mike Tyson beat Robin Givens and her Moma? Do they think it’s funny when a woman gets pimped?

[@eac-guy7272]

This is true. The person I was once involved with watched a lot of Andrew Tate. FnF,and Kevin Samuel's video and believed that only women can be adulterers. He also believed that even if a man goes outside his marriage and has sex with a woman as long as he comes home it's not cheating and he still loves his wife. He said it was a man's biology and SHOULD BE ACCEPTED.

[@akilahbatyah6505]

@@eac-guy7272 People are lost. If I found out a person of interest listened to them, it would be a definite no for me.

[@quinntheqt4281]

If I hear a man describe himself as an alpha or a sigma or exposes that he is a K.S. protégé or mentions "being on his purpose..." I'm like "Next!!" As in "Check, please..." ☝🏽 😄

[@akilahbatyah6505]

@@quinntheqt4281 Cancel the appetizers!🤣

[@quinntheqt4281]

@Akilah BatYAH Girl!! Purse over the shoulder and heels clicking - with the quickness! Like whew! That was close! 😄

[@eesynopsis7393]

Spot on about weed. Quit 3 months ago and I cannot begin to describe the difference in my life. When I was smoking, I was an absolute mess. Coughing up stuff, anxiety ridden, mood swings like crazy, exhausted, hormonally imbalanced. I have never felt more clear and healthy since quitting. I am at peace

[@marilynking527]

I feel like this when I drink coffee. It’s crazy how so many things can throw our hormones off

[@evasccl7846]

I am so proud of you 🙌

[@Michellemybell739]

Yes, that is wonderful that you stopped smoking weed. I’m proud of you was well and don’t know you --be blessed.❤❤

[@cuprunnethover2509]

Congratulations! I am glad you got off of it!

[@dunnomyname6588]

you must vet your potential partner but there are exception to the rule. some men don't smoke or drink. But his addictive habit is getting head or cheating to stroke his ego. The down low life is real. And most of the men be married.

[@tamaramichelle4326]

I’ve been on this for awhile and trying to tell ladies! I’m interested in high character and integrity! Those are the two things on my list! The Bible calls for us to look at a Prudent man!!

[@Jasmyne444]

Agreed

[@ericawhitfield7876]

Yes 🙌🏾 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾ma’am. If I find out that a man doesn’t have a relationship with God, then I 🏃🏾‍♀️🏃🏾‍♀️🏃🏾‍♀️🏃🏾‍♀️. I’m too old to be praying for a man to change, and I’m very active in my home Church. Do you know that I have met men that have ridiculed me because I’m trying to live a Christian lifestyle😮? Simply put, if he wanted to have a relationship with God, then he would.

[@Mssweet25]

I can't even kiss a man that smokes. So that's not going to work for me. Yuck.

[@MissPetrina1]

Often, women cannot do the math when it comes to connecting the dots about men's behaviors. Thank you Tony Gaskins 🙏🏾

[@Queen._sam_]

For the people saying weed is legal. Prostitution is legal some places also. It’s still sin! Fornication

[@gapeach7814]

Exactly. Alcohol is also legal but it will kill you if you abuse it. Just bc it's legal doesn't mean it's good for you.

[@JoannA-sweetly]

They are subject to bondage of stupidity with weed, prostitution enables child rape- yeah sin!

[@ericawhitfield7876]

That’s right Sis.❣️❣️All things are lawful for me but not expedient!! Paul said this in Corinthians.

[@tweetyb421]

Undisciplined = Reckless = I’m good…👍🏽

[@tamaramichelle4326]

Weed also impacts sperm count!

[@Queen._sam_]

Weed causes pneumonia also. Weed also falls under (not being sober minded). The Bible says to have a sober mindset.

[@sherriflemming3218]

Causes cognitive impairment psychosis and COPD.

[@CeeceeH1819]

💯

[@nitaboo1208]

Only if you smoking out of tobacco wrapa

[@joiagenae]

You're 100% right about the weed TG. I've had to let many men go bc I'm not for that. A drug is a drug. Ppl say it's normal but it's not! I've also heard several men say smoking caused their ED and these were men under 30. Weed is dangerous. Point blank period!

[@simplyameeraj]

I’ve heard that as well.

[@Coolct]

I don’t even go in dates with them if they tell me they smoke anything!!

[@toriyt2714]

The guys I dated who smoked couldn’t hold an erection. The guys I dated who did not had no issues. Maybe a coincidence 🤷🏾‍♀️. I don’t think so though.

[@Mindsetolympics]

Yeah I don’t mess with smokers either. I used to, when I didn’t know any different. A bf smoked in front of me before and I froze up man 😩 so uncomfortable and digsuted.

[@tabi-kat1313]

There is more it can cause according to research! Reduced fertility in women, higher rates of mental illness/schizophrenia after long term use. When weed first became popular in the us during the hippie era the strains were much more mild than today. Over time we have created stronger and stronger strains with higher THC content. And if u buy it on the street no telling what it's mixed with

[@lizzylewis5793]

Like Tony always say let character be a man's currency!

[@Poeticvibez13]

Weed it makes men have more estrogen and have less testosterone. It also affects there memory.

[@MissPetrina1]

This probably explains why low sperm count is found in men who smoke weed. Just yet another problem with it.

[@sherriflemming3218]

Self destructive impulsive novelty seeking or seeks sensory stimulation constantly. People will reveal themselves and show you who they are. Tony is correct about vices. (Addictions). Judging character is key. Behavior not words. Damaged and self destructive people harm others.

[@ninakyleen116]

That’s why you have to pray for God’s wisdom and discernment, because a man whom doesn’t have no respect for himself…He surely want have any for you…

[@hsneed8879]

This why you must be prayer up. We need the spirit of discernment. Help us Lord God!

[@nikkyshamz2696]

😂😂😂 Tony said we gon use words. Tony makes my day. I stay cracking up you hear me. God bless you Tony.

[@love7loyalty-MHA]

And.. what makes it extra funny because he be dead serious and nit trying to be funny 😂

[@nikkyshamz2696]

@@love7loyalty-MHA right😅😅😅. Exactly

[@nikkyshamz2696]

@@dublingirl1691 facts. Awesome combination

[@cuprunnethover2509]

Very very true! No one wakes up in the morning and is a cocaine addict or crack addict. It starts little by little. Smoking weed not only kills your brain cells that you will not ever get back. It also leads to other stronger drug usuage. Its only a matter of time! I wish women would realize that you cannot change a man. If that person does not want to change, you are not going to accomplish that feat!

[@love7loyalty-MHA]

"A lot them watching this video" when I tell you I died laughingggggg 😂😂😂😂. We love it here, Uncle Tony

[@WandersNotLost]

Followed by the intentional **blink, blink** 😂

[@Queen._sam_]

I don’t think 🤔 you know how many good points you made in this video! We really have to pay attention to these thing BIG TIME!

[@toriyt2714]

All I know is vices exacerbates depression. This is being studied more and more. People who have vices because they’re depressed and then the vice makes them more depressed and then they lean more on the vice. It’s a never ending cycle.

[@rtphotos4691]

Exactly right.

[@lilyjohnson1411]

Facts

[@jellygurl27]

Tony! Nothing but God allowed me to watch this video. I always had a list of non-negotibles of what I want in a husband and smoking is on that list. I hate the smell of weed and I also hate the smell of cigarettes. I do not want to come home to a stinky house. I recently met a man who was nice and funny, but after checking his socials I see all his vices. He's 38. You think after a certain age people would quit this stuff. Thanks because you made me see things clearly. It is so important for you to continue your life coach work.

[@cynthiareynolds1941]

I can’t stand smoking! I right there with you

[@siriusakari6729]

I just love how you are unashamedly improving your vocabulary and looking up the definitions 🤣🤣🤣. And the jokes Lawd 'Who shot Johnny and forgot to kill him?' 😂

[@autumnleaves6383]

Any man that is addicted to any “vice” that is non conducive spells hidden unresolved trauma that he “chooses” to not deal with, but will instead drown himself into a temporary feeling of false bravado. 🏃🏽‍♀️

[@-uniqueamari]

BOOM.

[@MissPetrina1]

So true it is self-medication. Often men are very traumatised and can hide it well with corporate success. One trap women fall into is materialism. They can't see past the man's wallet and don't even know what they're getting into.

[@remiem-iw7uk]

Food addiction/obsession is a huge stronghold for both genders!

[@susanarsoniadou]

So right...Look at the leaf and you know the tree...

[@toriyt2714]

You’re right Tony I always see women make the argument well nothing guarantees a man is going to be good to you. I be like okay so just don’t have any standards then!?People will use any excuse to do what they want to do.

[@antoinettesherrod]

Very insightful and true Tony we as women have to use discernment in men.

[@truthtimetarot]

Tony scares me so much smh.. it's like someone telling a scary campfire story. Then going to beg terrified. 😮❤ I do appreciate everything you do, jokes aside. I listen to every word you say all the way thru.

[@Itsnurselo2you]

This is so true , i almost bamboozled myself into believing he was changed until I asked him if he was still playing with “hangela” and he said yea I hadn’t been getting none but im confused bc “hangela” causes you to have “ED” so if he continues to do something that’s harming his sexual organ he gon definitely keep hurting me and I snapped right out of it .

[@dlegrand81]

This message right here, I just sat and soaked in it. I didn't know how much truth was in this until I got still and reflected over some of the men I entertained and yes a few smoked weed. I've never smoked a day in my life, but the men who smoked weed or blunts they weren't the most honest and did a few other things that didn't settle right with me and of course it didn't work out. Brother Tony I appreciate all the wisdom that you share as I elevate and learn. You were on point with this message. 💯

[@HoneyBlonde26]

Thank you so much Tony for this video! Honestly, I never associated a man's vice with his character. I'm single, not dating. Once I start dating again, I will definitely pay attention. Thank you for always incorporating your humor. 😂

[@donnajeffreys8252]

A demonic predator knows that a child is easy to trick

[@TheGoodLifeStarterPack]

Thank you, again, Tony for getting in the weeds on this subject. The frauds are quite creative and committed to their cause, so I appreciate you sharing these insights on vetting 🙌🏾

[@joycewatt8289]

5:51 I wholeheartedly agree! So many people UNDERESTIMATE the power and destruction of weed. I take FULL accountability because I was unwise and got into a situation-ship with a man who smoked weed. What should have been a non negotiable for me but I did not follow my own conscience. It ended horribly and he came close to taking my life. As I look back at that experience I saw ALL the red flags 🚩 that were present because when he smoked he was a different person. It was like dealing with Dr. Jekyl and Mr. Hyde literally. It was Narcissism on a whole nother level!

[@starbright2683]

Thank you for this insight. Things can be right in front of our faces, yet we are unable to deduce what these things mean.

[@niyavernice]

MEEELLIONS! It’s not a funny conversation but I can’t help but laugh at Tony. Thank you for sharing this wisdom with us Tony! God bless! 😊🙏🏾

[@ladyempire5921]

The knowledge God is using you to share has been such a blessing to me.

[@royliechaVb]

I meet a guy he say he smoke occasionally & I sips lean I was like naw he not it & I feel like he lied bout some we was discussing he backed away when I questioned it, so did I backed away and evaluated a lil more without saying anything else to him I seen enough & I was like in my head he exactly what & who I think he is!

[@Eraseyourmemory1]

I met someone similar..he told me he smokes and I told him I don’t like men that smoke weed then he said he will change for me…he really think I’m a dummy 😂😂😂

[@quess2k]

Keep Going Coach TG.. you are setting many captives(naive women) free💯🙏🏾😇‼️

[@MissPetrina1]

God sent him to do the work that many fathers don't do with their own daughters.

[@TamBella80]

Louis Vuitton?? 🤣🤣 I cannot with Tony! Always bringing the real with a side of comedy 😂🙏🏽

[@Esther-hi6zh]

Another great quote to use on your shirts is "Point Blank Peri-yard" if you haven't already. 🙂

[@MsChrissyr]

It's like all men have a vice. Even good married men, I've seen don't cheat smoke or drink go to church but will spend the families last on a video game. They will cancel plans and everything bc of a video game. I just wanna stay happily single and focus on my three bs

[@thedopeconversationspodcast]

Wow

[@kayjeffs3741]

Yeah, but how good is he if the family's last is equivalent to the cost of a video gane?

[@MsChrissyr]

@@kayjeffs3741 well I've seen video collections and stuff. He might go into a video store and come out spent $3,000. And this is multiple times a month. The financial responsibility I've heard from multiple women. They earn but they spend. I will say their game rooms and setups are amazing. 10s of thousands in a setups alone

[@gapeach7814]

@@kayjeffs3741 rrrriiiigggghhhht lol

[@gapeach7814]

@@MsChrissyr wow! Just throwing money away.

[@naturallyawesomefitness1738]

Uncle Tony, I’d definitely buy the card deck from you!! It’s definitely needed in navigating people, please announce this when the sale approaches. ❤❤❤

[@TheCakediva08]

These are the hard core facts! I lived it! I learned to stay away from gambling,smoking,drinking porn addicts.

[@diamondjack-cooper5322]

I needed this message from pre-teen age to now,which I am 27. Thank you for teaching us Black women what our fathers and other men in our life didn't tell/teach us! AMEN,brother!

[@robinlewisart_1997]

A lot of men that do drugs keep that a secret, they will not admit to using drugs especially if they know you dont use or are totally aginst it. People take a lot of risk you just have to see what they are nd like you said ... Minimize the risk .

[@DeoneeEats]

😂😂😂 You would be a good comedian !! I took in every word. POWERFUL!!

[@MsEroca]

THIS!!! One of your best talks. Thank you.

[@PS-hi9os]

Omg I love your comment on how women and men don't view things the same. That's so true. When I was younger, I did party a bit too hard, but I am still a virgin. however, if i meet a man that's in his 30s and still dibbles and dabbles with drugs, I will judge him and stay away because I know we are not the same. 2 completely different people!

[@whatsupwithtorii]

I hope God protects the children from predators all over the world ❤

[@candacebenford1734]

Thank u so TG you have opened my eyes to the insights of Men. This has helped me so much🙏🏾

[@vchild]

Always bringing truth and wisdom. God bless you sir❤

[@jevonnamcadory5389]

😂 You be cracking me up with the plain Truth! Man I appreciate your honesty. You the business man!😂

[@toriambrr]

tony like the older brother i never had 😂🥰

[@shegotstandards]

Thank you Tony for sharing this information. You're right, evidently men don't value that third leg because they will give anybody that third leg that will receive it.😊

[@lisasmilez]

This was soo good! Thanks for this perspective, good insight, and wisdom

[@niki-mars955]

oooh, I love the idea of the deck of cards. I'm in!

[@denekamorgan4856]

Listen to Tony ladies !!

[@DeniseM4698]

Okay Tony got the tips on how to dress!!! Mrs Sheri definitely be dressing!! Thank you

[@meltes1]

Amazing, powerful worship. Thank alI for this I did not want this to stop🙏🏾

[@sarahberry792]

Thanks for still helping us even though you are a business man too

[@SelfLovewithAT]

Preach Tony‼️🙌🏾 My God! May God bless you to keep spreading the word ❤.

[@purplequail]

Card game sounds 🔥. I really liked the relationship quiz you did too!

[@yvettedarney4462]

Thank you so much for the work you do!! I appreciate you and your wife so very much for the work you do!! You are definitely doing the work of the The Most High to set his daughters free!! . May The Most High bless you!! . You also make me laugh so much!! You are funny!!

[@kelliew.4285]

You remind me of my father a lot, so I will listen and continue to watch your videos. Just met a nice man who smokes weed yesterday.

[@kingofglory2062]

I’m only 3 minutes in and I am shocked! Everything you are saying Tony, has hit me in the gut lol. I have to pause and absorb all this information and think about all the reckless guys I’ve dated with all their vices. Which now include my husband who has many. I believe the Lord put it on my heart to click on your videos since I’ve been contemplating divorce. Boy do I wish I had seen these years ago. I would have saved myself A LOT of trouble. Fortunately now I know what to look for moving forward. New subscriber 😊

[@Wealthybaby]

I need a t-shirt Tony 👕“ Nothing guarantee nothing” on the front 👕 minimized the risk “ On the back lol

[@chrissysam7949]

I absolutely was distracted by these TG words. Lol. Thanks for bringing me back to the messages TG 😅

[@MelissaGardnerRealtor]

Wow you just leveled me up! Thank you!

[@choiceone21]

I understand what you are saying. They say when someone copies us is the biggest form of flattery. Everything we get we get it from the Holy Spirit anyway so we all win in the kingdom.

[@christineporter9914]

Bro Tony this message is right on time 💯❤️🎯

[@Michellemybell739]

I’m ready for the cards Tony!

[@luellalowe6193]

Yes Mr.T G yesss you are so truthly oh my you are telling the truth

[@womanoftruth]

“Lisssaaannn!”😂Yes, I am listening, excellent advice and clothing, I love a crew-neck!

[@sherriflemming3218]

We are whom we associate with.

[@Salma_143]

This Dalai Lama situation disturbed me to my core!!!!!

[@keilayvonne2452]

IKR. That was crazy. I immediately prayed for that little boy and all the children around the world after seeing that.

[@Salma_143]

@@keilayvonne2452 me too!!! 🙏😔

[@beedavis3177]

God gon heal you Bro, The Transparency is Banana's, Don't like the train content but the truth is the truth. Keep freeing your Soul Mr. Tony, you definitely gonna help some people.

[@cynthia59665]

Congratulations Mr. Tony Gaskins Sir

[@SimplyMynz2683]

I LOVE THIS TONY & THANK YOU FOR ALWAYS GIVEN THE REAL REAL. CONGRATULATIONS ON ALL YOUR BLESSINGS AND SUCCESS. I WILL BE BUYING YOUR CARD GAME AND THAT SHIRT. AND LET'S ALL PRAY FOR THAT YOUNG CHILD THAT WAS😱HARMED BY THE D.L.. 🙏💛

[@godsgrace2187]

I signed up for one of your classes . Signing up for more! Great content 💪🏽🐐💯💪🏽

[@deesnuts90210]

Wow Tony… great perspective… I give up 😩

[@thedopeconversationspodcast]

Don’t give up on love

[@ThisIzKena]

"The reckonization...yeah we gone use that word"..lemme back it up to the beginning cause I'm already cracking up..😅😂😂

[@tequila1816]

Thank you I never knew this… I know better now, thank you again Jesus Christ is using you to help Women.. I thank Jesus Christ for you /wife and family.keep going Mr Tony God got your back!

[@brendahall5658]

Tony, thank you. You are a blessing.

[@deet340]

Waiting on the deck of cards

[@fishstickbio594]

Any type of addiction with anyone it’s not good to be married too …addictions are ….sex , porn , food , legal and illegal drugs , people , travel ,alcohol ,police records , heath conditions……mental heath , atttitude towards females and children and the list is huge …….

[@shen316]

“ he risking his booty hole” 😂😂😂😂

[@Wealthybaby]

I busted out laughing so hard 😂😂

[@Withyourbrokeass]

I’m in tears😭😭😭

[@shutit4024]

Time-stamp? Lol 😂

[@HoneyBlonde26]

😂😂😂

[@rtphotos4691]

@@shutit4024 - 11:15

[@blessedadjoa497]

I love the cards idea by the way. Can't wait📌

[@tangiemo]

You’re awesome! Thank you for sharing🙏🏽. Consistency Powerful! Waiting to purchase🙏🏽💕

[@bunkeepitmovingjoseph]

Tony brotha u r a funny guy ya nah....Man said "Alot of ya'll be stealing, but ain't got caught, some of ya'll watching this video".👀🤣The slow blinks done it for me😂 U ain't lying Tony, that's the realness👌🏾

[@JoannA-sweetly]

This is good! Thank you Tony! 🎯

[@godsgrace2187]

Big Facts 💯

[@Decor_Diaries24]

Not hunchin @ 5yrs old😂😂😂😂. Overall message received though. Thanks for your wisdom .

[@MsChandler7]

I would like Consistency Merch in black and white and even different colors. Mugs, hats and hoodies.

[@DeniseM4698]

Tony I’ll be broke giving you all my money….. shoot I’m already in the blessed tribe and pay my monthly subscription 😂😂😂 i gotta buy the cards, consistency shirt , and all that

[@phyllisdickerson9071]

Present, and taking notes!

[@ieshjust16]

Always 💯