When a man rejects you!

[@farfetched9296]

A man's rejection is PROTECTION AND A BLESSING..let him run someone else's blood pressure up🙂

[@sandybrown3373]

Are you saying if a man rejects you he's in the wrong? Everyone has a right to reject someone he isn't a bad person just because of that

[@btctothemoon7504]

Lmaoo girl u r right!

[@iramk1132]

😂😂😂😂

[@chelleholmes1012]

😂😂😂😂

[@kayr2918]

Yesssss!! lol....

[@iishalanae]

I rather be single than be with someone who doesn't value me.

[@maureenishabor8036]

BOOOOOM

[@ALABRASILIANA]

💯💯

[@jeangrey6278]

Im married. And it is hard.

[@karenmcgee1869]

Amen!

[@juliawhite7152]

👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@cassie101]

A man who rejects you is a man's protection from further abuse by him....Understand that ladies and let him go even if it pains your ❤

[@PermanentHigh]

Or maybe you ain't shit and a man doesn't want you. Stop thinking that you're perfect. If a man rejects you, or if multiple men reject you, maybe you're not up to THEIR standards. Instead of thinking you're God's gift to the earth, take a look inside you and figure out what about you isn't appealing to a man.

[@PermanentHigh]

You deleted your reply to me, but its contents still showed how little responsibility you'll take for yourself

[@cassie101]

@@PermanentHigh I didn't delete anything. I edited my reply to what it is currently

[@angelacrapps2905]

Exactly because the man I was with was a abusive person. He left me because he knew that and he let me know when he broke up with me that I am a good woman

[@PermanentHigh]

@@cassie101 Your reply isn't there

[@nontobekomncwabe4976]

Louis Vuitton and Prada never goes on sale. It costs what it costs. Never lower your standards for anyone. If a man rejects you/breaks up with you, then it's meant to be as long as God doesn't reject you.

[@haddi9555]

Exactly

[@ChristineMarie29]

Nontobeko Mncwabe Amen I AM a Gem!

[@lulub5059]

Best comment ⭐️

[@afrozeahmed6515]

I agree!!My ex fiance knowing full well what kind of woman I am asked me what I wanted for a wedding ring/engagement ring.He wasnt happy by what I asked for-made a HUGE deal-took away the happiness completely from that big step.Why ask me if you dont want to honour my request and more so try and force me to adhere to your standard?why not try to meet me on mine?or even try to get me half of what I asked and then upgrade thereafter.He said he will decide what to give me and i must just take it!One of many arguments about my standards!No thanks and goodbye.Thanks God for giving me the strength to walk away.

[@PermanentHigh]

@@afrozeahmed6515 What did you want for a ring? How much it cost?

[@TheTarynJ]

“People with standards, are waiting for people with standards.” So true

[@maformbone8459]

Preach!

[@kellyjones9573]

I am hand on and little old fashion

[@patriciaearley4177]

YES

[@Glamrocs]

It’s been years and I will continue to wait

[@adoringgalore5636]

Well said!

[@christinetomelden4337]

True, if a guy rejects you don’t force the issue, you will look pitiful, miserable, desperate, show this man who rejected you, he’s not the only man in the world!

[@breonnaw7708]

Exactly!🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

[@annagrace1159]

They using this tactic to trigger your levels of insecurity and co-dependence ON THEM! Learned this mess the hard way...its phycological warfare👀 Thats why these videos are a cure💉

[@morountodunokedara]

@@annagrace1159 facts !! so true !!

[@veebliss1266]

And he’s willing to humiliate you for an ego boost! YUCK!

[@chitown7110]

Y'all listen to this man ladies. He's telling the truth. As a man, no one has EVER told me my standards for a woman are too high, nobody ever shamed me when I was single, and nobody ever told me I'm too picky. I knew what I wanted in a woman and I held out for her, but in the meantime I kept my business to myself and elevated my life in order to be ready for her. As a man, I could never approach a woman of God with my hand out or ask her to build me. Now I've been blessed with my Queen👸🏾. Stay blessed ladies!!!

[@mssimone7147]

Wow thank you for sharing this

[@karenmcgee1869]

Amen! Awesome testimony.

[@lemonspring6425]

Thank you for sharing!

[@talkteawithtee1453]

Amen!

[@faithandfavor7418]

Amen and thank you for sharing.

[@toombs6287]

REJECTION IS GOD’S PROTECTION!!!!💯🤷‍♀️

[@samarapr4u962]

I need to see it that way💔😔

[@ladyd6545]

Right!!!

[@toombs6287]

Samara PR4u it takes time hang in there.❤️🙏

[@kizzylolo6491]

Loretta Toombs I’ve been protected four years 😭 and it’s getting frustrating

[@niccobernard3125]

I was rejected after two months before my wedding day i was devastated thing is deep down i knew he was a narcissist but that still didn't stop the pain

[@ellenringer5236]

Tony Gaskins is correct. Each and every time that I have lowered my standards, I received absolutely nothing. It is just a game and they do not care anything about you.

[@sassykat2000]

When you settle you will quickly find out you get even less than what you've settled for.

[@theresahayward5471]

I like that!! A grown man is “praying” for you! A grown boy is”preying” on you!

[@ladyfay7777]

And i am waiting on this man.

[@marymesk577]

@@ladyfay7777 wishing you the best on your mission to find this prince of yours girl amen

[@charlinegreene-robinson7494]

Ditto

[@charlinegreene-robinson7494]

Ditto

[@antionettemurray6389]

Facts on Facts.

[@lwhite474]

Yes he if rejects you and not putting any effort move on don’t waste your time

[@coachnatishamommatish144]

Amen

[@2611Lover]

Yup keep it moving

[@Melli510]

I got rejected and an I am still in love with him. I kept calling and texting like a fool he ignored me the whole time. Its hard to move on still trying. God help me.

[@andrealmorris8576]

@@Melli510 Yes it may hurt, but it is truly God's protection. You don't see it but one day God will reveal it. You going to be so grateful, that you dodge a bullet

[@nikkyshamz2696]

@GoldLoveee change your mind, change your life, you are giving it your attention hence the power the situation has over you, take away your attention and it's a wrap

[@irismac]

This guy is like the dad I never had, telling me the things I never heard from him 😭 thank you 🙏

[@ebonyeyed08ti]

Me and you both

[@keziahbrutus]

Same reason I'm here

[@goldenlifelove7251]

My father has never given me advice about men. I guess he was my example of what not to want in a man. He was a bad husband to all 5 of his ex-wives & not the best father.

[@lindamolyneux3536]

🙁

[@GoodVibesAffirmation]

Same

[@Dr.Elaine1]

“A grown man prays for you, not preys on you.“ TG. Be blessed. I made it!

[@shiquettawilliams2955]

That right there!

[@ladyfay7777]

Omg. I really needed to hear this.

[@marshaholmes8412]

I am in my fourties and I know what I bring to the table. I don't care if he never shows up, I will not lower my standards or my panties for a man who doesn't honor my standards. Nor will I be age shamed into being a lifetime housemate or friends with benefits.

[@GoodGrief101]

Marsha G. I love and appreciate your comment so much, thank you!

[@maryblue4587]

I'm with you! I'm good

[@marshaholmes8412]

@@GoodGrief101 💖

[@marshaholmes8412]

@@maryblue4587 💖

[@sinyab5844]

Someone give this woman a pulpit and a handkerchief!!!!

[@Cararenee93xo]

Some men do not directly reject you, though some of them very indirectly reject women, so you kinda have to figure it out yourself. That’s where having intuition comes in. Discernment is important

[@bre_s9164]

Ladies if you ever feel like you’re becoming dehydrated or about to fall in a thirst trap. Pray!! All you need is a sprinkle of Jesus. ❤️

[@cinnamonangel5506]

I love this comment!😁 But you are so right, anyone of us could get weak. Blessings!😊

[@bre_s9164]

cinnamon angel yes, yes! Blessings to you as well! ❤️

[@lilkathytaylor]

Amen 🙏👏🏾👏🏾

[@DynamicallyDC]

Love this comment!! ❤

[@americovaz1715]

Flawless Imperfection I need friends like you 😭❤️

[@motivationandmeditations7600]

If a man rejects you for having standards, let him go Sis!!!!

[@liahknowsbest5092]

We traveled, he took me shopping, we met each other’s family, was on the phone for hours at a time, talked about our future together, planned on moving in together, we talked about our goals in life, we wanted the same things so it seemed, He told me he wasn’t like the other guys I been with. I was played by a grown boy🤦🏽‍♀️ On a journey of healing from it 🙌🏽🙏🏽

[@alethiamillner5603]

No he was a narcissist

[@natashavaugn1018]

@@alethiamillner5603 !!!!

[@nikkitobin8356]

Damnnnnnn 😪

[@itzkaydayz5408]

Me currently! I just feel so damn stupid for letting him play me

[@charlottej.6032]

Same... He begged me to go back to school, paid my entire way through university... tuition and accommodation... that was a 3 year period and he broke up with me via text while i visited with my parents right after school was done... before i flew back home for us to ‘really start our life together’... i’ve not been the same since. I dont ever see myself trusting and being in another relationship... ever

[@ChocolateBabe_]

I’ve been rejected by a man who I really liked and it’s truly hurt my feelings. 1 year and some change later, I’m way better now then I was then. I got my body slayed, my mind right and my soul elevated. It’s hard but I’m worth the wait 💆🏿

[@theresahayward5471]

BEAN Me too love! But I’m healed now all by the blood of Christ Jesus! Be blessed Bean! I had gastric sleeve surgery, starting a second career, and learning more how to trust God every step of the way! We who are valuable ARE worth the wait is true dear! Be blessed and be safe all.

[@destinyb1293]

You go girl 👏👏👏

[@karenmcgee1869]

Amen!

[@nicolesmith7611]

This happened to me, I've always struggled with self esteem. I laid on my back 😔 but didnt stay long. After 1 encounter I walked away because all I felt was shame and guilt. I decided that I need to focus on self esteem and improving my life. Now I have no problem walking away and 15 pds from goal weight. Starting school for my passion in fall. I'm so happy and excited, I decline more dates than ever now.

[@detrixhogan6078]

💪🏿✊🏿

[@karenmcgee1869]

"You can't come down off your standards for somebody else's impatience." -Tony Gaskins. I love this.

[@Charwagara]

Absolutely!

[@mrlinklady]

Yes 👌

[@gwendolynn7314]

So true!!

[@sherrytee2962]

Be blessed, I made it🥳

[@karenmcgee1869]

@@sherrytee2962 Amen!

[@Eryn.Herndon]

At about 37 minutes, you mention the 90-day conversation rule. Please note, Cluster B personalities (narcs, sociopaths, and psychopaths) can keep their mask up for 3-4 months and seem like consummate gentlemen and ladies. Discernment and wisdom and a prayer life are KEY.

[@TODOMATIO]

What 90 day conversation rule?

[@JohnsonLee59]

You are so right about the cluster b personaitys

[@JohnsonLee59]

Theirs a lot of man with bipolar and other mental illness because if the drugs

[@JohnsonLee59]

Like this guy

[@rhondabrown3550]

YES! NARCISSISTIC PEOPLE ARE REAL! THANK GOD IM FREE NOW!

[@Karynwashere]

This was so needed for me today. I have experienced repeated romantic rejection from men. People don't really talk about when men reject women. What I have learned is men reject us emotionally, and I feel like that is more painful. Women reject men sexually. Men will mostly have sex with anyone, but they will be very selective about who they give their hearts to. As much as I try to believe that these men who have rejected/ghosted/objectified me are protection, It's been so constant that it has fractured my self-esteem. I mean I am the common denominator. I have done a lot of self-reflection as to why I have been attracted/entertain emotionally unavailable men... I envy those women who always have men fawning over them. I hope and pray that I will meet someone who will feel mutual desire.

[@theservinggirl]

I can totally relate, stay strong 💪🏾💕✨

[@Tyrah1120]

He is coming just wait for God to send him your way

[@Musicfreaklolduh]

Oh girl yes self-healing is a huge way to get to that next level. Stick to your guns and be the energy you want to attract.

[@Monfollowerofchrist]

Stay strong sweetie. You will know when God has sent you the right person. I too have experienced being there for someone emotionally all the time, however when the tables were turned I could not call on this person to be there for me emotionally. Personal tip: try to make sure that the person likes you more than you like them. Also do not give any goodies (materialistic or sex until he has confirmed that you are exclusive)

[@iloveangelmonroe4864]

Keep watching tony videos, I wish I read his books and found his YT 10 years ago... I could have prevented wasted time and rejection after rejection! You aren’t the only one. Try not to envy women who seem to have good. You never know what others go through to look like they got it good. Trust me! I’ve seen it all

[@princesswilson7907]

Women better WAKE UP! This is a Blessing! I Promise you God has sooo much better for YOU!

[@kenishalperkins]

Listening to this 2/3/4 times a day until I get it in my brain. I 👏🏿 did 👏🏿 not 👏🏿 lose 👏🏿 anythinggggg 👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿 !!!!!!!

[@anitrajohnson7789]

There are still women out here that don't smoke, drink, or use profanity nor sleeping with every one. Having standards for yourself is necessary for this dating scene.

[@OsutaCaroline]

Men get suprised when you tell them that you have not had sex for a long time 😂 they think everyone is like them

[@alliesdbg5092]

It's not rejection...it's redirection. Remember y women are the majority. It's our choices that create these wonderful relationships. Trust the process of meeting the right 1. He will accept you with open arms as you will accept him.

[@chanellove3482]

🙏🏾

[@redtigerlily8165]

My grandma used to say "consider the source" about everything. If a lowlife rejects you..

[@BellaLola26]

Wise woman your grandma! Bless her ❤️

[@Blahgirl283]

What does that mean?

[@t.y.6640]

@@Blahgirl283 if a low life rejects you it’s actually a blessing.

[@veebliss1266]

He’s not smart and a low life 😂

[@motivationandmeditations7600]

Don't judge a man by how much money he makes, judge him by his character and his ambition!!

[@georgebethea8911]

you are right

[@prettypoppin_552]

Yes women do need to judge by how much he makes now, especially black women. Doing the opposite is how we end up with dusties who won't or can't provide, but had "potential."

[@mejustbeingme1207]

No waayyy I need to see your bankroll. That will let me know if I should even waste my time to get to know your character. I have no time for a man that doesn't have his financial life in order and I'm not helping you get there especially if I have suffered to get where I am financially and status wise. They won't do for me so I'm not doing for them. PERIODICATIONALISM!!!

[@lindanormadelgado6118]

MeJustBeingMe 💯💯💯💯💯💯💯

[@eunicewachuka8439]

Sis on this one NO.

[@Anna-gg1wp]

When people show u who the are the first time - Believe them!!!!!

[@jazzy9282]

I want a man that doesn't want to sleep with me, I want a man that understands I work , im busy I don't have time to cheat. I want him to make love to my mind and emotions.. i want us to make time for each other.

[@alisonb3019]

Exactly!! Thank you!!

[@kevinashu1920]

Am here

[@kevinashu1920]

This media keeps confusing ppl it talk abut a lady at the other hand and a man in this hand. If u want a good man both of you should not believe on this . Because the theory kill ur real natural ability and it will let you to know where at the end

[@veronicamoore5443]

I gave this guy a huge surprise. He said, "I could never date a women with pets" my response was, "really! I have a dog and a bird. So I guess we won't be dating" he tried to retract the statement. Too late. I learned to listen.

[@nadinemartin9512]

Good for you

[@queenb5214]

Yep, whenever a man says that, I'm out!!! Tells me a lot about him. No more conversation.

[@bobate6030]

lol

[@lco09]

I love it!

[@healthright3657]

That’s weird he would even say that. What a weirdo. Who doesn’t like someone’s pets.

[@ericabostwick4033]

Tony you are so right! When I broke it off with my situationship he was big mad! I told him I was finally realizing that self love meant loving myself enough to let that go! I told him he didn’t know what to do with my heart so I took it back. Literally within a couple of months God sent my my new man and he is an amazing man of God that is perfectly fine waiting for me

[@nikkirowland]

Bosslady Pebbles 💕💕💕👏🏽👏🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽

[@kikikiki3216]

Bless you👏how did you meet your new man if you don't mind me asking... A few people keep telling me that am being picky, all I want is a Godly man.... But I see ladies cool with a guy who drinks, smokes weed, go clubbing and the whole lot.

[@coachnatishamommatish144]

Amen

[@E.Allen1]

Awesome 👍🤗

[@danaallen6946]

@@kikikiki3216 You don't need anything that is not of God, you're doing right. Just be patient and wait on Him😊

[@fayecrawley2466]

Whether you're in love or not, or even dating. Dont wait by the phone for him to call and chat. Stay busy. He'll call back. Dont appear to be needy. Uour value just increased

[@Itchpls]

What’s that saying “everything happens for a reason”.. just let it be known that God is doing it for a reason

[@ladyd6545]

Say it louder, so the people in the back can hear...😊

[@shumekarodgers]

I had to learn the hard way. I know now. I thought for some reason it was because of me. Not so!

[@samanthaadkins5551]

Yes!!!!

[@joyobessa1364]

Amen girl 👍👍👍

[@shiquettawilliams2955]

I had learned it and it wasn't nothing nice

[@Jasmyne444]

A grown man is praying for you not preying on you 👌🏾✨🙏🏾 that’s a WHOLE Word!

[@t.y.6640]

Really!

[@eveheart2876]

Amen 🙏

[@educateyourself2156]

I can take rejection but it when they try to flip it on you like you’re the problem. I just humble myself and kept it moving.

[@olivia4788]

The best feeling in the world is being able to say 🖐🏾🖐🏾 bye bye knowing you lost nothing. 😊 See you later!

[@coachnatishamommatish144]

Amen,amen& amen

[@CaramelKissez]

Destiny Jones facts

[@stephaniemensah1858]

Straaaaighhttt facts sis!!!!

[@brick_housedee6711]

😂😂😂😂

[@kelleybright3113]

Level up game on overload Boi bye hello grown man zone only

[@nicnaknewsome9650]

A man actually told me that “A man isn’t waiting til marriage for sex,” after having conversation with him for 2 days. Delete & Blocked!!

[@caddyscott5330]

Right on

[@Mrs.T305]

Most ppl aren't though. The majority of married ppl have already had sex with each other.

[@eimearquigley1020]

lol

[@jullierose]

@@Mrs.T305 true but it doesn't take 5 years to marry someone. If you haven't proven yourself worthy of marriage as a man in 6 months why would you be worthy of my body? Thats how I think about it

[@hereisayana8207]

Yep that shows you his character

[@naailayoung56]

Omgggg this is exactly what I’m going through and I’m glad I didn’t give in! I’m 28, in school for surgical technology, no kids and I will NOT lower my standards. First I was thinking it was my fault but this made me feel so much better.

[@feliciakayern]

If he is gonna ghost you, he is gonna ghost you, just don’t give him your peach cobbler to leave with😂. I’m blessed I made it!!!!!!!!

[@gods_child_8398]

Girlll! That's what I keep telling my self! Guys will ghost but at least I kept my dignity! 😊💪

[@kellys3296]

Dont give him your hot pockets neither!!

[@aS-qu1vp]

Yup and feels so good when you are ghosted and know that you have not done anything with him! Dignity is everything!

[@tlashai9902]

Amen

[@ebonyeyed08ti]

Lol

[@shumekarodgers]

Blessings! I think it's a blessing in disguise if a man rejects you!

[@Dtella55]

Exactly.... 💯💯

[@joyobessa1364]

Hallelujah Sis 😍😍😍 I feel soooo blessed after being abandoned and rejected by someone that I truly loved 🙏

[@janinec544]

What’s worse is when a man who isn’t that attractive rejects you

[@layna92]

Haha so true

[@Sherri_326]

​@obe3690Huh? Explain

[@faithing88]

😂😂😂

[@cindyluma4497]

@obe3690 nope sometimes u know they ugly but u decide to date dem cuz of character or consolation etc! Der are several reasons.The ugly ones usually have nice personality 😂 for d majority though

[@miriammumbi4351]

For real 😂😂😂😂

[@gloriavinez7674]

Lots of men are now feeling it. This state the world is in is not for the weak and any bad habits and ungrateful behaviors will be triggered. Mark my words.

[@mejustbeingme1207]

Baby gurrrr tell me about it. I'm up for it all.

[@patwilson1257]

For the ladies out there, who are not compromising. Not giving in to his games and lies, trying to get you to give up the prize. Keep holding on. You will reap in due season, if you hold on. Ladies, there is a difference in Holy and unholy, Clean and unclean. You can never go wrong following the Word of God. Fight on through the loneliness. When it’s YOUR time, he will come. In the MEAN time, get ready, get ready, get ready. God bless you, daughter of God.

[@yaelnadel]

Pat Wilson thank you for this 😢 the pain is real

[@patwilson1257]

I know, the pain IS real. But, after it’s over, the prize is too 🙌🏾

[@bevill72able]

Amen. Thk you!

[@jv_25_4eva]

Chile, yes! Men have some nerve trying to tell you what you should be doing with YOUR body. It's my body but you are going to trying to me feel guilty about what I do and don't allow with MY BODY.

[@patwilson1257]

Exactly!!!

[@fayecrawley2466]

Dont date because you're depressed and feeling needy. Work on getting yourself straight and beautiful for you.... Be confident in you. That's attractive to everyone especially your potential mate. He will know you're the one at Hello!

[@blossom86branche70]

I feel like anyone who tells you that your standards are too high or unrealistic, don't have standards themselves and aren't the kind of people to give you advice or to be entertained

[@blossom86branche70]

#imadeit

[@daphneycandy810]

Yesterday a boy I know said I was head strong woman. I want the best for myself

[@karenmcgee1869]

I Agree!

[@lemonspring6425]

Yessss

[@ShekinahWorshipCo]

Be blessed, I made it. Wrote a dear John letter the other day, because if he could go for a week without calling or texting me I told him to just go for another 51+ weeks.

[@christinam81]

I did the same thing. I had to email that bad boy because we already hadn't seen each other for a month and he kept pushing time with me aside for family and friends. I was laid off from my job due to COVID and he literally couldn't take time to check on me. It's okay though - I don't have to do anything. I'm going to sit back and let the Lord deal with him in his own perfect timing. What happened to me can happen to him too, except God told me back in December to stash some cash and he lives paycheck to paycheck. I have a year's worth of expenses in my savings and only 1 debt left after the Lord also allowed me to pay off 7 other debts in 2019. He has always had my back. I don't even have to touch my savings until next year if I don't have a job based on my expenses each month. I'm taking this time to follow my voice acting passion!

[@kenishalperkins]

Go head Sister 👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿

[@AyesheAlwaysLovely]

@@christinam81 I'm proud of u. Keep it up!

[@Kairos6081]

I love it! Good for you!!!

[@christinam81]

@@AyesheAlwaysLovely Thanks so much! God has been moving in my life big time!! I was given my full time job back with the same salary and was just called out of a 5 month furlough from my part-time job. Today was my first day working. I missed my co-workers. Thank God! I will still be able to become debt free on time too. Prayer and fasting have done so much in my life 🙌🏽😭😁

[@nbkg487]

This guy told me my standards were from the 1950s. Im like well thank you and goodbye.

[@juliawhite7152]

Shoot! I had one guy call me a old fashioned country girl, lmao.....because i wouldn't kiss him on the first date! He told me hes used to women giving it up to him.....i said well go get the hoes you're used to dealing with lol.

[@mindqueen2127]

I had a guy tell me it's the 21st century women should offer to pay for dates and paying 50/50. He also didn't like that I want a man who provides. He took providing as just money instead of providing a woman what she needs from her man in all aspects where it applies. He went silent I went and erased his number.

[@nbkg487]

@@mindqueen2127 I don't blame you.

[@k.d.6114]

@@mindqueen2127 oh heck’s no!! Lol

[@relisbetrel]

👏👏🤣

[@nikkirowland]

Tony I’ve been listening to your podcast since I woke up this morning just overloading my mind with the right info so that I won’t backslide again. I plan on doing this everyday until I feel like I’m good and am able to move through my days without having my mind thinking about someone that doesn’t deserve my time. We’re so blessed to have all this info right at the tip of our fingers. Thank you so much 🙏🏽

[@ericabostwick4033]

Nikki Rowland I’m proud of you for choosing you!!!

[@nikkirowland]

Bosslady Pebbles I appreciate that sis. You saying that really help validate that I’ve made the right choice. God bless you 🙏🏽

[@shar555]

Bosslady Pebbles yes! I always say I’m always going to choose myself and I’m not sinking myself.

[@nikkirowland]

Geniesha Griffin lets get it sis! 💕🙌🏽

[@marshellepayne4020]

Nikki Rowland I’m doing this too. Goodluck!!

[@mikaj6143]

HIGH STANDARDS ARE A MUST!🔥💯❤ I met a grown boy on a dating app and I wasted 6 months of my life. I compromised my standards thinking that he was my future husband. Thank God he walked out of my life! Thank you Tony for your words of wisdom. BE BLESSED, I MADE IT!❤

[@janiemaebeauty]

I'd rather block him because they try to argue and debate with you when you say you don't wanna talk anymore.

[@amandabailey1876]

It is hard being single, especially when GOD put in your heart to be the other half. Rejection is hard to accept. I understand rejection is GOD'S protection.

[@buzzingbee9499]

Yes true💔

[@kilimanjaro5537]

Ugh, I felt this.

[@reginam7771]

Exactly how I feel.

[@jeannetempest9127]

God made us whole, just He can fill us, but God can calls us for marriage.

[@disnalee]

Singleness is a blessing. Just stay busy and love will find you. Its healing time for you...

[@DynamicallyDC]

Dont rush anything & don't be scared to lose a man!! When you have self respect be fast to run a man off ASAP so you're not wasting your time with bums & lowering your standards!!

[@maggiecos2892]

QUEENS 👸. .. ACTIONS Speaks Louder than words. Stick to YOUR GODLY STANDARDS. 😇😇😇

[@ebonycurley6165]

Tony is the Big Brother I never had I love his advice he speaks truth

[@aliyahwilson8124]

Factss , I jus b taking heed like 😳

[@queenpeace17]

I thought I was the only one that felt that way. If I'm experiencing a personal issue .. I go to KZbin and can find a TG lesson about that topic. Tony's very insightful!

[@jackiek4159]

Rejection is the redirection we need in our life! It's always a positive ladies, once we master this concept, we master our lives! 💯🙌🏻

[@monicacooper3495]

I've learned sometimes rejection is God protecting you and in the end can be the biggest blessing💛

[@TRIPLEMLUXE]

Tony, you know my struggle, IM SINGLE AS A DOLLAR BILL! I don't smoke, I drink wine here and there but no liquor anymore, and I don't care to curse. I'm focused on following God's path for me, I'm going to continue maintaining my standards! Thank you for the message as always, Pray for me ✨

[@shawndora1]

Rejection is a blessing in disquise, you can't see it at first, but that person is doing you a favor. Never settle, because you will accept anything for the sake of having someone in your life.

[@JaneDoe-dn4wk]

Yes protect your heart because men need healing too. If he’s rejecting you you’re protected from how he would mistreat you and just bring you down to his level. I always say thank you to the ones that turn me down. I know I dodged a bullet everytime❤️💪🏾

[@msdecemberloveangel8236]

More men are empty than on full. Exactly true Tony. I see it everyday

[@livingmylife8005]

I’m at a point in my life where I wasted 9 years on someone who met someone right after our breakup on Tinder and married her in less than 8 months after ..that really woke me up made me do some self evaluation forgave myself for waisting my own time (red flags was there) and definitely set standards moving forward...life is too short I will NEVER do that to myself again..so the one that’s for me will stay other than that see ya 👋🏽 my life has to go on .. thanks Tony you help me tremendously grow as a woman

[@coachnatishamommatish144]

I fill ya sis!!! Stay encourage strong and prayed up!!! Ur husband is coming one day!!! In the 🙏💃Amighty time amen💪❤

[@livingmylife8005]

Momma Tish1 thanks love many blessings to you as well 💕🙏🏾

[@Queengemi5]

Living my Life baby he will be back trust and that’s when you apply Tony Advice bc he know he lost a real one. I’m in the same boat with you n Tony been helping me so much. Hang in there you’re husband is on your way💯🤞🏾🧡

[@Queengemi5]

Be blessed, I made it

[@joiagenae]

Bless you sis! Keep getting the knowledge and you will heal!

[@elisae4335]

Rejection is a blessing. It just happened to me. I was asked to be put on stand by in a friend zone in the meantime and I said NO. I really like this guy but he is in an open relationship and as romantic as it started what would it be for anyway on the long run, more hurt, lies, games, back and forth , hot and cold? If it stops now it is saving me from all this for later. I am sad about it but in the long run I would be devastated. I no longer will let the door open to this person. I know my worth. I set it in stone.

[@cathychombz7296]

Why would you want to date him when you know his already seening someone? It's not easy but queen up and let him go someone is waiting for you. I got ready of a guy even though l liked him l refuse to be second best and sex machine.

[@buzzingbee9499]

I appolagise I did not read this msg in full nvr been involved with someone taken ever. Guess I should read comments in full.

[@elizay.alvarez7760]

Same thing happened to me! Boy bye!

[@leylamenjivar7326]

I wish I had my dad talk to me like this I been hurt emotionally and now Im learning how to love myself first and walk away. Thank you for this video 🙏

[@christineporter9914]

Bro Tony Gaskins I've wasted 12 years of my life and time with a man .so these videos are truly full of wisdom and not to be taken for granted.

[@evolved93]

Rejection is protection💯 Consider it as a flaming bullet and you got tf out of dodge.

[@coachnatishamommatish144]

Yaaasss amen

[@ladyd6545]

Yep...

[@wavyblkqueen]

I wanna believe this statement every time I see it but my ex left me and got back with his baby mama so why was he removed from life to be in hers

[@UniquelyEm]

Am I the only one who is cracking up at the sense of humor 😂 and receiving good gems. Great Video really needed to hear this coming into a new season . 👏🏽

[@veelove2226]

When he rejects me I’m going to say I’m the best you never had!! Laugh and keep it moving

[@zeldapowers8094]

Comes off too narcissistic..

[@rosie273]

My ex husband to be makes it seem it's my fault why he left us to be with someone else. Now I see my worth and dont mind his rejection at all

[@evamcinnis7992]

Hes a narcissis

[@crystalglopez91623]

Rosie Ortiz my story exactly!! Let’s rejoice that these so called “women” (husband hunters) got their prize of a lying, cheating man. Good riddance!!!

[@JaneDoe76664]

You are telling my story.... but guess what the grass wasn't greener on the other side she cheated on him and stole money. He is on lockdown by himself now, I had to give him cooked food to keep warming up during lockdown. he is not welcomed back .My heart is not a revolving door. I know what and who I deserve now.

[@marlene7289]

Happend to me also

[@lateriaquionne2283]

Me too Im too good for him he was a grown boy leading us to nothing

[@annh1615]

Best advice ever. I am not going to lower my standards. I was blind once and it taught me a lot. It taught me to not be afraid to communicate my needs and if he is not able to level up to walk away quickly.

[@queenofthesouth4205]

MANS REJECTION...GODS PROTECTION. Ladies never, never allow a man to pressure you into something you know is wrong, "Don't RUSH nothing you hear me" in my Tony Gaskins voice.All these dating apps, people are living in confusion....TG understands all money is not good money #Standards

[@tywilliams3460]

What you’re saying is true about having standards and about how many woman are carrying themselves. It’s unfortunate!

[@coachnatishamommatish144]

Amen

[@joannadziokan3267]

I made it.......always watch to the end, thank you Tony. These days when I get confused about a man and don't get straight answers from him (I notice my breathing is heavy) I ask God 'please God remove this guy from my life if he is the wrong person for me' and it usually happens quickly, and I don't question anything after that. I love myself too much and just want to be happy.

[@phyllmeez]

The Bike and Back is soooo confusing to me

[@joannadziokan3267]

@@phyllmeez It's ok, you'll get used to it lol :)

[@godseed79]

Exactly!! If a man resorts to making a woman feel bad because of her standards, he can kick rocks! The faster the better. Next!! Same goes the other way around for men dealing with trifling women. ❤

[@agnespoku4993]

Sometimes I need to pause the video, let out a good laugh and then continue with it. "People think you got the 19 because you look sick from stressing over a no good man"

[@coachnatishamommatish144]

OOOKaAy!!!😭😂😌🤦‍♀️💃🙏💪❤

[@thatholygirl33]

This is my first time watching and I literally paused, busted out laughing and looked for this comment!!! lmbo not the "19"

[@akuasalaam490]

This man said, "Catching BALLS like a first baseman!!!"... 😫😫😫😫🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣!!! My chest hurt from laughing!

[@jackiemcbride833]

Better to be safe than sorry!! Let the protection of the lord protect u.

[@smohammed2821]

Ameen

[@ladyempress22]

*Thanking God everyday for his protection removing these " grown boys" &" narcissistic" like men. Tony's speaking the truth in his videos because I've peeped certain things last few months and cut off men quick instead of wasting my time!! I rather be single than be miserable and settling. Don't lower your standards people. Know your worth.*

[@ShiaGirl18]

Tony, you're correct! Rejection is protection! I remember when I was in college and I was an evening student, who wanted to transfer to day school. A classmate who had the same major as I did transferred to evening school, so I thought I could take his place in day school. I spoke with the principal about it and he was basically telling me that there are fewer students in evening school and the funds were needed there. I was not given permission to transfer to day school. As the rest of my college life went on I thanked God so many times. It was a blessing in disguise!

[@LadyTrucker43]

Dating apps are the devil. Lol 😆 I prefer organic. I catch his eye then he figures his approach. That’s exciting and unpredicted.

[@samarapr4u962]

I agree w u i met ppl on dating sites and i went thru bad experiences. Maybe 1 or 2 were nice but for the most part there r men in there just lookn to have a good time & not care about a relationship

[@TheFactsofLife237]

I'm also over the dating apps. Several yrs ago I met an excon who tried to lure me out to see him at night. I didn't go. When I refused to marry him after talking on the phone twice he started cursing me out! I told him bye broke convict. Blocked and deleted him!

[@depy2762]

Black women need to understand that the choices they make shakes the very foundation of our lives.

[@ladytosha15]

👌that’s 💯

[@jehannedufresne3998]

The dating apps are not the devil, they are just tools. The ppl with bad agendas using the dating apps are the ones in the wrong.

[@pytqueen]

Lowering your standards is what get u in trouble in the first place I had to learn this all over again so that's a No Go!!! Thank you Tony!!!

[@amandamagby3253]

Don't I know!! I had red STOP signs instead of flags!! Lol i knew this guy was trash and because he was my "type" i entertained him! Never lower your standards ladies!

[@CaramelKissez]

Say it!!!! The same thing you'll lower they would never!

[@shiquettawilliams2955]

Siiisssss, you know what, I do think I really had standards. I was just going with the flow and I went through a lot of unnecessary stuff. I was saying what I wouldn't accept and literally was faced with and dealt with it for years.

[@marshaspell5148]

Rejection is God's protection 🙏

[@BrittneySamoneSilver]

"Let 'No' be your vitamin." 💯

[@tremeekadonel9423]

Dont lower your Standards for somebody else's impatience...Ooweee I caught that nugget!!! Thank you Mr Gaskins ❤💯

[@reshaundaliv9176]

So true 😂😂😂, I had a grown boy tell I was going to be single for the rest of my life because I wouldn't accept his crap...I BLOCKED HIM FOR ETERNITY 😂😂😂

[@lynnjones644]

The higher the standards, the better you get!! Yes sirrrrr...

[@beckyvegalifecoach2481]

The higher your standards are. The better options you’re going to have ❤️ love this .

[@oscarwilliamson1264]

Becky Vega,your pretty smile ☺️ can make the news!

[@Lilsweetings]

I lost my virginity to a man that I was in love with (or thought I was) that I had been dating for 9 months. I know how that sounds. We broke up on Monday because he “was not ready”. Point blank period he didn’t want me, he was a narcissist. I thank god that he’s gone because it saved me from more pain and uncertainty. Staying off my back and being even more picky going forward

[@coachnatishamommatish144]

Amen, Good afternoon Blessed Tribe!!! REJECTION IS THE ALMIGHTY PROTECTION AMEN, DON'T LOOK BACK FOR NO ONE!!! STAY MOVING FORWARD IN YOUR PURPOSE!!! TKS BIGBRO TONY!!! BE BLESSED

[@ericabostwick4033]

Momma Tish1 yes indeed!

[@CaramelKissez]

Rejection is God's protection!!! I've been told by men my standards are going to keep me single. Funny thing is after I'm done dating them, they're the ones that can't let go. The come back not doing the needed changes. When ppl show you their colors, believe them the first time. Ppl do what you allow. I do my best to scare these grown boys from talking to me lol! They think it's me being hard to get, I won't them to be gone. (Let him earn you is the last video to view) be blessed I made it!

[@ericabostwick4033]

Caramel Kissez yes and amen!!!

[@CaramelKissez]

@@ericabostwick4033 🙏🏽🙏🏽

[@coachnatishamommatish144]

Amen sugas💋!!!💪🗣👂👩‍💻✍💪Stay strong!!!🤗

[@CaramelKissez]

Momma Tish1 you too luv! ❤️ 💜

[@AllThingsTiffanyTV]

Caramel Kissez yessss they always come back. Blowing the phone up and stalking on social media. They can’t handle it after they’ve been blessed with our spirit that God gave us.

[@tishatalks9527]

Well I’ve been told “I want to take my time getting into a relationship” when I hear that I think that another way of him telling me he don’t want a relationship with me. I always back up at that point.

[@margyiphillips4931]

RC Blakes mentioned your name in one of his messages and decided to look you up. Great choice!

[@rachelandrews5972]

This is how I found Tony too!!

[@LarennPBel]

I listen to them both as well. Check out KevHicks as well

[@missadug]

" Loose booty 901"😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣 Tony I think you are also a comedian!

[@Jasmyne444]

Ikr! I couldn’t at that point!! 😭🤣🤣🤣

[@couponoverflow]

Yes I agree. He is a comedian.

[@nikieshamcmaster2549]

Yessa he has his moments 🤣🤣🤣

[@joanna6570]

He’s so funny

[@7Mushrooms7]

He really is. I laugh a lot with some of his lines, and I totally lose it when he does his woman voice lmao

[@christinea6318]

Rejection does hurt, but it will change you in a positive way !

[@JustBeingSusieque]

I just really don't want to date anymore... no one's built to last or stand the test of time...

[@yvette9305]

Every time I thought I was being rejected from something good; I was being directed to something better. Learned this a long time ago so now I don’t worry if or when someone exits. I just say Be blessed!

[@ThinkingLikeAVIRTUOUSWoman]

This was HILARIOUS 😂 and so good. This is probably my fav video of yours. I always say, “the more I grow, the higher my standards go”. I love that you said the higher your standards are, the better you get and the medical analogy you used. SN: My talking standard is NOT every day lol. I don’t mind talking every other day or so and texting in between. I don’t necessarily need to talk on the phone every day. I just want consistency. Either way, he’s not getting none in 90 days. I’m waiting until marriage ❤️

[@livingmylife8005]

I am in tears 😭 I definitely hear the message but Tony keeps me laughing with his deliverance

[@Faithful2fashion]

I mean it was comedy all thru this message but I appreciate it!

[@saphinawest]

“Loosebooty1901” I just cannot 😂😂😂😂

[@celeblashes1353]

Right😂😂😂

[@joiagenae]

I had a grown boy tell me I'm a 23yr old in a 50 yr old body cause I didn't want a man that clubbed or got drunk.. then block me lol. I thanked God for it and moved on with my life. You gotta have standards ladies!

[@jazzy9282]

Sis I had a dude make a post about me and his homeboys chimed in saying damn she don't go to the club or do nothing the "B" must do crossword puzzles all day. Lol I must admit it was funny, but I guess people don't understand there is more to life than throwing it away.

[@thenaturalhuman9568]

I’ve accepted I may be alone. It’s ok I have never felt more close to God than when i was alone

[@ndm529]

🤣🤣🤣No you didn't say " Loose booty 901" Be blessed, I made it.