Too Emotional || Mayim Bialik

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Mayim Bialik

Mayim Bialik

7 жыл бұрын

Do you ever get accused of being "too emotional"? Happens to me CONSTANTLY. Here's my vlog about why it makes me nuts and what I finally learned to say to people when they get up in my face about it.
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You may know me as Amy Farrah Fowler from The Big Bang Theory, or from Blossom, but hopefully, these videos allow you to get to know me better as Mayim, too! Subscribe to my channel for video updates. I upload new videos every Thursday!
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About Mayim Bialik:
You ​might know me as Amy Farrah Fowler from The Big Bang Theory or from Blossom​ but there are so many other parts of me that you might not be aware of​!​​ I’m trained ​as a​ neuroscientist, ​I'm ​a passionate activist, an observant Jew, a​ perfectly imperfect​ mother, and ​I'm a complicated human being​ like many of you​. This is the place where I wear ​all of those hats - and none of them have a flower on them! ;)

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@Pogue4
@Pogue4 7 жыл бұрын
There are very few people I would love to sit down and have a coffee with you Mayim Bialik are one of them. :)
@aranmyracle7369
@aranmyracle7369 7 жыл бұрын
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@dennissecajamarca4342
@dennissecajamarca4342 7 жыл бұрын
Exactly ! 🤗
@iamduckii5786
@iamduckii5786 7 жыл бұрын
Same!
@singwisevocals
@singwisevocals 7 жыл бұрын
I've said the exact same thing!
@aarongallacher5548
@aarongallacher5548 7 жыл бұрын
ORANGE ZEN smooth don't be sorry you added you're my friend in me you're my friend hi goodbye
@EmziLou
@EmziLou 7 жыл бұрын
I'm actually crying while I watch this because it's like you just reached out of the screen and held my hand and said "Me too!". Thank you x
@venna1520
@venna1520 4 жыл бұрын
Emma Louise Same here😭
@ZP916
@ZP916 3 жыл бұрын
♥️
@samanthacampbell375
@samanthacampbell375 7 жыл бұрын
It sounds like you have the tremendous gift of empathy. I hear you for I too can be overwhelmed by what I feel. Years of being made fun of for it caused me to become jaded towards the gift empathy truly is. I'm making my way back. Thank you for the encouragement.
@sarahadams7206
@sarahadams7206 6 жыл бұрын
Samantha Campbell a tremendous gift of privilege
@Dowlphin
@Dowlphin 6 жыл бұрын
It took me a long time to realize that is one of my defining character traits and caused a lot of pain in my life starting from childhood. And I'm a man! That ... complicates things. Even today, because sorry, nope, I'm hetero. Still no mainstream support current.
@SynthApprentice
@SynthApprentice 7 жыл бұрын
Your appreciation for pretty color paperclips is so adorable!
@Dowlphin
@Dowlphin 6 жыл бұрын
I recently got a USB reader and was so happy that not just white was a color option, but also rose.
@ostblocklatina93
@ostblocklatina93 7 жыл бұрын
i know those feelings. i'm very sensitive
@ostblocklatina93
@ostblocklatina93 7 жыл бұрын
i had a lot of trouble in my last relationship because of that. i can't handle people with a stone heart.
@AusticHardOfHearingSinger
@AusticHardOfHearingSinger 7 жыл бұрын
portweinzecke Same. :)
@sleepypuppy29
@sleepypuppy29 7 жыл бұрын
portweinzecke I try to stop but I can't.
@littleblondemop
@littleblondemop 7 жыл бұрын
Yeah, that was the other word that came to mind as I watched this. I'm very sensitive too. It's not easy to be like that in this world. I'm also a peacemaker personality and can't stand drama. Always have been.
@sarahfara1539
@sarahfara1539 5 жыл бұрын
It sucks being told that you're "dramatizing" or "exaggerating" all the time just becaue you feel things the way you do. I've had the same problem, especially in relationships with much more "rational" partners to never feel validated for the way I perceive things... like, it's too "intense" for them, so it doesn't even really exist.
@zamora77786
@zamora77786 7 жыл бұрын
I know exactly what you are talking about Mayim. Thank you for making this video. ❤️
@Missannaiscoollike
@Missannaiscoollike 7 жыл бұрын
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@pixelatedDream
@pixelatedDream 7 жыл бұрын
The fact that you uploaded this just 3 days ago blows me away. Just a few nights ago I was incredibly upset because I dislike the fact that I feel so deeply about things. I get so emotional about so many things even things I see online, social injustices, mean things people say to other people. I get emotional at almost everything and I cry because of other emotions as well. I Cry when I'm sad, happy, mad, hurt or even just overwhelmed or frustrated and it's something I've always hated. I've had people tell me they were proud of me for "no offense, not acting like a baby" when I forced the tears down and forced a smile and acted with every bit of strength in me like I didn't care or hurt so much. This self-loathing for feeling emotions so strongly has been great for me especially lately as it's ramped up and has overwhelmed me at times. Hearing you talk about this makes me feel like I'm not alone and the message was incredibly uplifting. Thank you so much for taking the time to make this video.
@HighlySensitivePerson
@HighlySensitivePerson 7 жыл бұрын
Please don't hate yourself--there's nothing wrong with you. I urge you to look into the term "highly sensitive person".
@spotabee
@spotabee 6 жыл бұрын
You aren't alone. We're just not neighbours.
@talyah23
@talyah23 5 жыл бұрын
PixelatedDream I love what you wrote and can totally identify. I think we just need to remind ourselves that our "sensitivity" brings out empathy which helps us identify with others and reach out and help them and so in the end we're actually doing just fine xxx
@talyah23
@talyah23 5 жыл бұрын
@@spotabee your comment made me smile and warmed my oversensitive heart 😄😆
@janetzaretsky1821
@janetzaretsky1821 7 жыл бұрын
Thank you for posting this. This is beautifully expressed. I was ostracized in my own family for being too emotional, so I learned to stuff my feelings (literally-- with food). Then I was criticized for gaining weight. Thank God I found a program to let me know i was ok as I am, and now I cry with moving commercials, or simply when I am moved. I am grateful for the ability to empathize, love and express fully. It is ok for all of us. Thank you for using your celebrity to say that.
@melancholy7621
@melancholy7621 7 жыл бұрын
The Zenith Business I thought I was the only one ostracized (by my sisters) for being sensitive. I'm happy to know that you found a place that accepts you for who you are. I'm.hoping I find something of the same in the future ☺
@ari.loves_27
@ari.loves_27 7 жыл бұрын
The Zenith Business me too!
@deetress2382
@deetress2382 7 жыл бұрын
I'm a crybaby, but I don't get emotional in front of people. My mother doesn't even remember the last time she saw me cry (and I'm suffering from depression so I cry almost every day). There's nothing wrong in crying and being emotional near people, but I just can't do it. I don't know why but I can't.
@FloridaGrandma
@FloridaGrandma 7 жыл бұрын
I know exactly how you feel. I have been very depressed for the past few years due to severe health problems. It got so bad I couldn't hide it anymore so I quit being around people and stay home alone most of the time. No one sees me cry except my service dog and it upsets him greatly when I am upset. I hope you beat your depression. I hope we both do. Saying a prayer for you and everyone suffering with depression. ❤💚💜💙💛
@AvaLance
@AvaLance 7 жыл бұрын
My sister Cry's like one time a year.Its really weird to see her cry.
@May04bwu
@May04bwu 7 жыл бұрын
I can't do it either and I'm not even depressed anymore.
@abortion_worst_CRIME_inHISTORY
@abortion_worst_CRIME_inHISTORY 7 жыл бұрын
nothing maybe because they have comndened your feelings, so you are afraid to show them.
@karenannyoung3767
@karenannyoung3767 7 жыл бұрын
It makes me feel sad because of your ID, nothing. You aren't a nothing. I suffer from depression also and because my parents were embaressed if I cried in public, I try not to. Once I did in the dentist office and after that it got easier to cry in front of people. Mostly I cry alone. DH doesn't like it, but my stuffed animals and dolls do and I'm not ashamed that at 69 I have some really cool stuffed animals that I love!!! For all who suffer from depression, you aren't alone. Wish we could all get together and accept each other for who we are. We are special and important. Also, you might try art. I get a lot of pleasure out of it just for myself. Much love to you!!!
@Laineyslife
@Laineyslife 7 жыл бұрын
I'm am crazy emotional 😭 it's bad I cry at everything I was told to grow up ugh!! I've always been this way. I'm 57 now
@SueDNim
@SueDNim 6 жыл бұрын
Same way, same age. Have a high five, kindred spirit! ✋
@jaclynh9343
@jaclynh9343 5 жыл бұрын
Me too like crying somehow is immature like seriously.... clearly tears are unwelcome as we grow up bc we are taught to be adult is not to cry bc ppl associate crying with babies... its BS
@dasowle89
@dasowle89 7 жыл бұрын
There is nothing wrong with having a empathic heart! I wish more people in this world carried your sensitivity traits.
@RobSomeone
@RobSomeone 7 жыл бұрын
I absolutely despise and loath Big Bang Theory, but after finding this channel I absolutely love Mayim. So smart and well spoken; I can't help but see and understand things from her perspective and insight. Just fantastic.
@DMills-un1tl
@DMills-un1tl 6 жыл бұрын
Questionable Context I'm sure you have your reasons, but who doesn't love Big Bang? They are the cutest grown up kids on the planet.
@miriyumyum3590
@miriyumyum3590 3 жыл бұрын
@@DMills-un1tl I like tbbt but I do get why people maybe bot like that show.
@kkmmrew
@kkmmrew 7 жыл бұрын
when i was little i told my dad that i was to emotional after crying over a book i was reading. my dad said "your emotions are what make you human" i have never forgotten that.
@sandyciancanelli7324
@sandyciancanelli7324 7 жыл бұрын
Having "too many feelings" or "too emotional" is where it's at! Not having emotional reactions means you are numb and self absorbed! SO YOU GO GIRL!!!! LOVEEEEE YOU AND ALL YOUR FEELINGS!!!
@bibiabolacha
@bibiabolacha 7 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for this video, Mayim 💟 It really meant a lot to me!
@mrob997
@mrob997 7 жыл бұрын
She puts a smile on my face. I love to hear her speak A pleasure
@createplanprosper699
@createplanprosper699 6 жыл бұрын
Mayim, this means so much to me. I’ve tried to “control” my emotions for so long until the past couple years when I finally realized it IS a super-power. Not everyone can be as passionate as empathetic, appreciative, emotional people like us. It’s intense, but real.
@aliciam.3380
@aliciam.3380 7 жыл бұрын
Such a beautiful mind and heart!
@maribeldelatorre1269
@maribeldelatorre1269 7 жыл бұрын
Yes! I always thought of it as a super power...I love that someone else understands. I literally feel like my heart will implode... it's empathy
@sanitysquota937
@sanitysquota937 6 жыл бұрын
Am I the only one that appreciates how she moves around the room from moment to moment? It's like each move was an indent to separate paragraphs. It imprints structure and keeps the image we are looking at throughout the conversation interesting as well.
@MeanJoeNSGA1
@MeanJoeNSGA1 7 жыл бұрын
I know those feelings also and i'm a 58 year old man. For Christmas last year my wife got me a jacket with my Navy Ship on it and I started to tear up. So I know what you are going through. I like myself so you too must like yourself.
@Nikcholey
@Nikcholey 7 жыл бұрын
WOW. I have never though about this before!! TOTALLY changes how I will feel now when someone is uncomfortable with me showing emotion. It's because they can't handle there emotion in the situation. THANK YOU!!
@SoofiValencia
@SoofiValencia 7 жыл бұрын
You had me at crying at commercials. Thank you so much for this talk, I needed it.
@jorgenunez6275
@jorgenunez6275 7 жыл бұрын
Thank you, Mayim! It's tough being too emotional. Especially if you're a man and live in Mexico. But your words bring some comfort. 😊
@valeriepagendarm6376
@valeriepagendarm6376 7 жыл бұрын
If we lived next door to each other we would be best friends. Thanks for this vlog. I love to watch it. It touches me that someone like you, such an accomplished and beautiful person, would take the time and spend the effort to share something so personal and meaningful.
@MsLovableMuffin
@MsLovableMuffin 7 жыл бұрын
Mayim Bialik, you are the voice of everything that is true in this world. I can relate to this on so many levels. BTW, I actually have paperclips with a bunny decoration of them. I have tons of them in different colors, and glasses, and sweaters... and I never use them. They are just too cute.
@mariethatsme
@mariethatsme 7 жыл бұрын
Sharing on my FB LIKE page. "You're just gonna have to toughen up." was something I heard once from a distant family member who was giving me advice on how to handle my broken home. It rang in my ears for years because it was such empty advice. I didn't know how to not feel so hard...not be so sad for others. I never did toughen up and often felt like the rest of the world had numbed itself in a way I wasn't capable of. Now I'm a mommy to a little girl who oozes empathy for others. I'm glad she will be understood and not told "just to toughen up" as she's tossed into the fray.
@ip9111
@ip9111 7 жыл бұрын
I really enjoy listening to you Mayim. I get "Geez, it's only an animal" as I am a great lover of them. It makes me feel upset and confused that they don't feel the same.
@joannaskor316
@joannaskor316 7 жыл бұрын
I think you're a great version of being human.
@gluckmac
@gluckmac 6 жыл бұрын
I cry in public because of good things and bad things I have encountered or experienced. I’ve been told I have a tender heart, and that I care about people, even the toxic ones. While talking to a friend about his son who had turned his life around I started crying tears of joy. My friend hugged me, and thanked me for always caring and rejoicing about his son. I once cried because a friend of my fiancé died. I started crying, and she rebuked me by saying, “What are you crying for? You didn’t know her!” We didn’t get married
@Neenie67
@Neenie67 7 жыл бұрын
I'm 50 and still not comfortable in my own skin. You hit on so many issues- you're an inspiration.
@craftlover9702
@craftlover9702 7 жыл бұрын
THANK YOU! I've struggled with this ALL my life, always felt like the odd one out, been made fun of, etc because I'm tooooo emotional but through a lot of soul searching I have realized I am an empath and actually feel others' pain, not just my own. It has taken me a long time to understand it and I'm not grateful that I am in touch with my sensitive side because it makes me a stronger person in the long run....
@Annabelsong108
@Annabelsong108 7 жыл бұрын
you must be a cool mom
@funch357
@funch357 7 жыл бұрын
My thoughts exactly!
@shubh5614
@shubh5614 6 жыл бұрын
she is
@ellie-pandathelittlebears5550
@ellie-pandathelittlebears5550 7 жыл бұрын
How did I not know you had a channel! Highlight of my morning.
@6lack5ushi
@6lack5ushi 6 жыл бұрын
THANK YOU! idk why this resonated!!! because everything you've said I have had to learn. I suppressed myself to make myself more like everyone else. but i've realised its my feelings that make me make the art i make, make me stick with my dissertation even when I am working 16hour days! and its almost my super power! and Ive stopped trying to fit in and finding out where I fit in. I lost many 'friends' but gained soulmates just being me.
@BeekoKat
@BeekoKat 7 жыл бұрын
OMG the colored paper clips ... I too want to hold on to them and then dole out the ones in the color I like the least first.
@malloryreed4765
@malloryreed4765 7 жыл бұрын
This is brilliant and beautiful. Thank you for sharing your insight - I truly relate!
@pacrii
@pacrii 7 жыл бұрын
Mayim, can you talk about what it's like to be a scientist with emotions. I found in my field I had to train myself to reason through logic, not just feeling or intuition. The professors I worked with did not compute my feelings on theories or how experiments went. Did you struggle with this?
@cleo421
@cleo421 6 жыл бұрын
Yes, please Mayim! Even though I am a wildlife biologist my other colleagues are scientist in the field of microbiology, physics, IT, or other areas and I find it difficult to be around them because I am a very emotional person and I am also a non-atheist ... If you could do a video on how to manage rationality with emotion especially within our professional community that would be awesome!
@biancacolon3593
@biancacolon3593 6 жыл бұрын
This is extremely comforting to me. Being so emotional often causes me a great deal of anxiety and fear. However, watching this makes me realize its not a negative thing. Thank you
@RonWhitaker
@RonWhitaker 7 жыл бұрын
I cried like a baby when I watch this. Not pain but joy and glee for I too have finally arrived at comfort with my sensitive emotional being. Thanks for the video.
@jasondurham9034
@jasondurham9034 7 жыл бұрын
Mayim, thank you for this video. I'm afraid I can relate - but I've learned to accept it. In fact, it's because of that sensitivity I became a Messianic rabbi, so I could help others as a counselor.
@GTTNGTHR
@GTTNGTHR 7 жыл бұрын
It's SO nice to know I'm not broken like a lot of people make me feel. Thank you Mayim ❤️
@nahedjalloul8692
@nahedjalloul8692 7 жыл бұрын
People like you warm my heart, coming from a person who works with Parkinson's disease patients and mostly having a really hard time handling empathy in a way that it doesn't come off as pity.
@kerritrapp1092
@kerritrapp1092 7 жыл бұрын
I LOVE, LOVE, LOVE THIS!!! THANK YOU! I have been called crazy and unstable among other things because of my need to express my emotions about things that move me. Whether it be happiness or sadness.
@amycummingsirishdancemom8467
@amycummingsirishdancemom8467 7 жыл бұрын
Bahaha the colored paper clip part is so me
@JeffinerM
@JeffinerM 7 жыл бұрын
I know! I finally feel understood! (: I've gone out and bought ordinary paperclips when work got me colour paperclips, so I wouldn't have to use the colour ones!
@MsRandomnotes1
@MsRandomnotes1 7 жыл бұрын
I cry in private, but that's me. At least I do cry:)
@sssophie9292
@sssophie9292 7 жыл бұрын
Same. I don't think I've cried in public since primary school, and even then I just wanted to be alone.
@Muhalka
@Muhalka 5 жыл бұрын
Amen, sister. Finally has someone spoken out all this things I feel.
@angiem5636
@angiem5636 6 жыл бұрын
You just described me all the way! And BTW, Im crying to hear a smart, talented, humble and sensitive woman like you are, beautifully saying how much our feelings matters! God Bless Your Heart and your life always!
@2112jodi
@2112jodi 7 жыл бұрын
You are perfect just the way you are , thanks for sharing your life you emotions and all of you with us in this way!!
@loryd6047
@loryd6047 7 жыл бұрын
I thought I was the only one that cried when I saw a homeless person. Relieved I'm not. I'm extremely sensitive and hated being that way for years. I used to watch videos on how to be tough & strong. And for a while it worked but it wasn't me. I felt empty, living a lie just so I wouldn't be considered weak. Years later, Now I finally embrace my sensitivity. :-)
@alejandrasanchez7020
@alejandrasanchez7020 6 жыл бұрын
I'm crying in this moment, now that you mention it. I just watched your Hurts to be different video and it really touched me because that's basically my whole life
@holly27796
@holly27796 6 жыл бұрын
Yes. Just, yes. I feel this on so many levels. Thank you for saying all the things I could never put together myself! It feels so good to be not only understood, but appreciated!
@digitalghost1383
@digitalghost1383 7 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this. As a fellow Ph.D., I wonder if you experienced this particularly in academia. I know I did. I was always being told that the "appropriate" response to injustice or any number of problematic cultural realities was to intellectualize them and theorize about them--and never, _ever_ take it any farther. I was supposed to have thoughts about the world, but not feelings, and I was certainly not supposed to express those feelings among other academics. Did you experience this at all in your studies, and, if so, how did you handle it? How can we resist the pressure to feel less and less strongly when that pressure is communicated as a professional obligation?
@robinhays8779
@robinhays8779 7 жыл бұрын
W Dustin Parrott -- No one should have to give up their humanity for the sake of science! Science is a man-made construct designed to help us understand our world. We should be in control of it, since it is our creation, not the other way around!
@odsonic
@odsonic 5 жыл бұрын
the world today takes things too far at times
@vaneprospero
@vaneprospero 7 жыл бұрын
+Mayim Bialik - Awwww. Thank you! You talk with our souls.
@melanieknitsalot
@melanieknitsalot 7 жыл бұрын
This made me cry. Thank-you, Mayim. ❤ I, too, am sensitive and "too emotional." It is definitely a strength to be able to feel big emotions. It is, as you say, a super power. My son is the same way, and we are helping him learn to cope and understand those feelings. Your words are yet another tool for our tool box. Namaste.
@mariaagnesquinn2806
@mariaagnesquinn2806 6 жыл бұрын
This is what I needed! A giggle AND reassurance. So many things I relate to throughout all of the things we’ve been privileged to get a glimpse of!!! Helping with a rather big BPD meltdown that I’m having as of late.
@phenomenalpower3025
@phenomenalpower3025 3 жыл бұрын
I have tears right now after watching this video. She really touch my heart.
@drsupriyatiwari
@drsupriyatiwari 7 жыл бұрын
You are amazing Mayim. love all of your videos! 💕
@SouthpawElbowJabber
@SouthpawElbowJabber 6 жыл бұрын
I am just like you in this aspect. Thank you for sharing! You're the first person I've ever heard speak this way. I say this stuff about myself to only a couple select people and I don't know anyone who understands me in this way.
@kimberlycolleen1494
@kimberlycolleen1494 6 жыл бұрын
This video means more to me than anyone could ever know. Thank you so much!!💜 I've never heard anyone talk about this. I didn't know anyone else struggled with this issue. I've never really talked about this before other than a few close friends I have had through out my life. My whole life I've been told I'm too sensitive. I have been told I cry to much or I over react to everything. My mom could never handle how emotional I am and as ashamed as I am to admit it, often when I would cry she would hit me or throw whatever things she had around her at me and said some of the most horrible things to me that I can't bring myself to repeat... no matter what it was I was upset about... which just made it worse because I would get more upset and cry harder. (She never had this kind of relationship with my older brother or sister. Just me. She never hit or hirt them so as a kid I felt like there was something wrong with me and I felt like everywhere I was I was unwanted and I stayed in my head alot afraid to speak and annoy someone. I Still do It alot) It annoyed her when I cried or got upset. As I got older it turned into her beating the shit out of me if I'm being honest. I never hit or fought back other than one time when I got older and was already an "adult" I pushed her away from me and I never have forgiven myself. My sister made fun of me alot and she was always on my mom's side even though I always took her side. My brother just got super annoyed and pissed like my mom. It hurts because I love them so much and I could never hurt them the way what they do hurts me. I wouldn't ever want them to feel the pain that they have caused me. I let them run over me and treat me horribly and I just never stop loving them and trying to treat them kindly the way I wished they would do for me. (Honestly, i started trying to self medicate my problems away at the age of 12 with pills alcohol and pot etc. Cuz my mom didn't really care all that much but as I got older I turned to harder drugs and I do consider myself an addict. I'm trying to recover but I will always be an addict). Over time they all just started calling me a phyco or crazy and all kinds of other stuff like that when I would cry. They still do it constantly. (I can't stop myself from crying. I really can't. Mad, sad, anxious, happy, fustrated, etc. I cry.) I'm working on not letting it hurt me. I just can't help it. It makes relationships harder because the guy I'm with now, I've known him for 8 years (dated on and off but been together now for a few years) just about and even he sometimes gets fustrated and asks me why I'm over reacting etc. I've gotten to a place where at least with him I just tell him I'm not over reacting, I'm just reacting. This is how it has affected me and I can't help that. At least he tries to understand though. At least I have him. It's just scary to think I might get too emotional or something and he will leave. It's good to know I'm not the only one struggling with this and I'm not just some crazy phyco or whatever lol.
@carlaconce
@carlaconce 7 жыл бұрын
Thank you. Thank you so, so much.
@Shespoon
@Shespoon 7 жыл бұрын
This is awesome! My wife is so sensitive and I am not so I am going to show her this. And my daughter has a friend in high school that is given hell all the time for being so sensitive. I love your videos!!
@jefferyford5309
@jefferyford5309 7 жыл бұрын
My whole TED Talk is about how are differences make us special. Mayim truly incorporates her differences throughout her art and life and it makes her a truly beautiful human being. I LOVE this video!
@elysegambino1597
@elysegambino1597 7 жыл бұрын
I felt like you were speaking right to me. Feels so empowering to have part of me so articulated and celebrated- thanks for your words.
@crystalb.-atexaninaz4482
@crystalb.-atexaninaz4482 7 жыл бұрын
This is such a great, positive message!! Thank you.
@sarahsankey5460
@sarahsankey5460 7 жыл бұрын
💖💖we are so alike thank you for sharing this 💖 💖 i get very sad about abuse a child a animal old people 💖💖
@Lobstrique
@Lobstrique 7 жыл бұрын
i've rewatched this video for at least a dozen times over the past couple months. and i'm more thankful each time, cause it makes a great point and make me feel better about myself. it makes me feel like i have a superpower, too :)
@Brenia27
@Brenia27 7 жыл бұрын
I can definitely relate to this. I cry at least once a week. And they aren't all sad tears. I cry when I see a good acting performance or listen to a great song or read a well written book. It does make people uncomfortable, which has made me want to learn to reign in the emotions, even though my sensitivity is something I like about myself personally. So, thanks for video. It's exactly what I needed to hear.
@155Nikki
@155Nikki 7 жыл бұрын
Thank you. I mean it.
@Sabbathissaturday
@Sabbathissaturday 7 жыл бұрын
OMG!!! I must need therapy! I have way too many rescue dogs, I'm so upset over all of the kids in Foster care and waiting to be adopted right now! I cry over everything too. (Even more now, b/c I'm menopausal) I've never been told that I'm so sensitive though, b/c well I'd knock the crap out of them! lol I like your videos though :-) You go with your bad self!!! Stay Sensitive! It does make you a better person. I call it having a deeper conscious than most people.
@rarad.3793
@rarad.3793 7 жыл бұрын
E Wood therapy isn't needed ... you're human!!! and that's all that needs to be said!
@Sabbathissaturday
@Sabbathissaturday 7 жыл бұрын
Rara D. True that!! Besides, who needs therapy when I can self medicate with a good bottle of red wine ha! ;) HAPPY NEW YEAR!!
@ari.loves_27
@ari.loves_27 7 жыл бұрын
Legit crying watching this because THIS, THIS is exactly how I feel!!!!! So glad I found this video!!!
@laurabaker9521
@laurabaker9521 7 жыл бұрын
I'm so happy I discovered your channel a few days ago! You are so articulate and make me feel less alone in so many ways.
@kikutachan7885
@kikutachan7885 7 жыл бұрын
This made me really happy and understood. 😊❤
@VitruvianVision
@VitruvianVision 7 жыл бұрын
She is really great as a person. Seriously.
@paulinarittscher215
@paulinarittscher215 5 жыл бұрын
Before the end of the series, I didn't know you had these videos. I was so sad and depressed that the series had ended, a series that not only identified with me, but also with my husband and or marriage. The emptiness sensation wad so vast that I needed more, so I started to look at cast interviews, bloopers and other Big Bang stuff..... and then I found you..... WOW!!!! With your videos you started to describe me, exactly how I am. I had to show it to my husband because I was seriously astonished and wanted to be sure I wasn't seeing and hearing what I wanted and not what you were saying, I was right, thank GOD. There are many differences between us, of course, I'm obese you are not, you are famous and believe me, I am not, you are Jewish and I'm Christian (with a deep and profound love and respect to all the Jewish community around the world, you were, are and always will be GOD'S chosen people). Thank you for being you, and thank you for sharing you with me! Much love and ❤ and GOD bless you and your beautiful family❣🙏
@jamielashley6219
@jamielashley6219 5 ай бұрын
Other people's words have an impact on how we view ourselves and the world around us. Words can have multiple definitions. We have the ability to choose which definition of the words used to change our perception. And I am truly valuing this ability we all hold. You said it beautifully. Our minds are beautiful and the techniques it chooses to help us identify emotions to learn to transmute and understand situations better is quite remarkable. I choose to see my emotions as a teacher to help me understand life better. Personally, I admire your ability to express your emotions through crying, I actually find it difficult. But I am learning how to cry without needing suffering through visualization and connecting more deeply with myself. Changing my perception of words has been fun as well, through that of music. I am using this technique to view situations in life in a more neutral yet in a positive way. Just as you have learned to change your perception, it truly helps to find a deeper connection with life. Our empathy is definitely a gift and one that I value so much now. It's been helpful to teach my children how to accept their emotions and how to change their perceptions as well. I appreciate your words, empathy and emotions.
@orangetee5
@orangetee5 6 жыл бұрын
Your Best video so far. U made my day ! 😬👯
@MrThwor
@MrThwor 7 жыл бұрын
I am dead inside, so I don't get accused of being emotional, no.
@polinawroblewski8419
@polinawroblewski8419 7 жыл бұрын
Rodrigo de Toni I can relate to that so much.
@emiliommundsen6485
@emiliommundsen6485 7 жыл бұрын
yeah, same /:
@lilydarkmoore8769
@lilydarkmoore8769 7 жыл бұрын
I'm sorry to hear that you feel "dead inside." What a horrible thing to endure! To be unable to enjoy this amazing world we have around us, or to revel in the joys of beauty or humor or a kind act must be soul-crushing. I hope that you can find a really good therapist to help you rediscover your inner life, so that the world is more than just gray ash around you all the time, metaphorically speaking. I wish for you and the others who also feel "dead inside" much good luck recapturing your humanity.
@jclyntoledo
@jclyntoledo 7 жыл бұрын
That was beautiful. As someone who used to feel "dead inside" I can say that it is torture. It is essentially a version of hell being able to see everyone enjoy things that seem to not be able to penetrate your heart, and only feeling pain or numbness. I hope those people can get better and feel more connected to what's around them like I have; but unlike me, I hope the process isn't as long.
@CerberusProject
@CerberusProject 6 жыл бұрын
I'm not dead inside, but I can't comprehend emotionalism. I wish I could, I remember at one point I wasnt like this. The worst part is I can tell, somewhere deep down, those emotions are still there. I just cant access them anymore it seems, always just out of reach. I am a result of my accumulation of experiences.
@rae21evermore
@rae21evermore 7 жыл бұрын
Thank you!!! I have saved this and will go back and watch it every time someone tells me I'm to "sensitive" or "I only make fun of you cause I like you."
@christina56536
@christina56536 5 жыл бұрын
Yes! Thank you for putting words to what I couldn't say to those around me. Thank you for your empowering words!
@TomRipley7350
@TomRipley7350 7 жыл бұрын
Utterly wonderful, wise video.
@writerspen010
@writerspen010 7 жыл бұрын
This was a beautiful sentiment you discussed. Thank you :)
@emmae3219
@emmae3219 7 жыл бұрын
This woman is amazing and beautiful and touches my heart so much💚💚
@elibjo01
@elibjo01 6 жыл бұрын
The start was so cute❤️ I am sensitive too, I cry easily but I can also relate easily to people because I am sensitive, as a child people was so afraid of hurting me and was uncomfortable around me but now people come to me and talk to me about their problems because I can relate even though I might not have gone through the same. I can still feel what they feel and sometimes cry when someone talks to me because I can relate so deeply and people like that❤️ I love your channel❤️
@manahil4927
@manahil4927 7 жыл бұрын
My teacher showed us this video in math class
@anaclarahernandez3224
@anaclarahernandez3224 7 жыл бұрын
SprinklesOnTop thats so sweet❤ what a smart and wonderfull teacher
@DMills-un1tl
@DMills-un1tl 6 жыл бұрын
SprinklesOnTop Now thats awesome and a way cool teacher!
@rhsharp
@rhsharp 5 жыл бұрын
What a wonderful teacher!
@amandaword1664
@amandaword1664 7 жыл бұрын
You are perfect!
@daniellericklefs3188
@daniellericklefs3188 6 жыл бұрын
I used to struggle with my empathic gift until my pastor's wife said we share God's gift of tears! I feel such pride now.
@VRodz-11
@VRodz-11 5 жыл бұрын
I just recently found your channel and have been hooked since. I love that you share your strengths, weaknesses, thoughts, etc with us. I am an empath as well and can relate to everything you just said. P.s. please make more cooking videos
@Mrs_Guac_and_Glock
@Mrs_Guac_and_Glock 7 жыл бұрын
Yet another reason Mayim Bialik is a genius
@chadsknnr
@chadsknnr 7 жыл бұрын
Dear Dr. Bialik, :) :) :) U R Soooooo Sensitive!! :) :) :)
@PanEtRosa
@PanEtRosa 7 жыл бұрын
Saw this on a very good friend's FB page. Loved your description of how much you love colored paperclips so much, I ran over here to subscribe.
@karidouglas4137
@karidouglas4137 6 жыл бұрын
Can I just say THANK YOU! At least once day I'm told this. So thank you for making me feel like a normal person and not the only one that goes through this.
@goodi2shooz
@goodi2shooz 7 жыл бұрын
#twinsies! you remind me so much of me!
@theycallmecrazybyqueendemetria
@theycallmecrazybyqueendemetria 7 жыл бұрын
Can you stop to cut-jump fron right to left left to right? It is difficult to folloe if your eyes are just jumping from one side to another and what you talk about is pretty interesting. Thabk you
@silveremeralds
@silveremeralds 7 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this. I've always beat myself up for feeling this way. I added this to my favorites so I can remind myself.
@DeborahTrying
@DeborahTrying 7 жыл бұрын
This. This is it! Thank you very much for helping me explain something that I thought was so horribly weak of me when compared to all the others who don't cry or get upset at things that I do.
@cubsx3782
@cubsx3782 7 жыл бұрын
Chair to the left, chair to the right, a lot of chair shuffling!!!
@alimamacat1580
@alimamacat1580 5 жыл бұрын
Cubs x3 yes!!!! It’s driving me insane!!!
@jbk0507
@jbk0507 7 жыл бұрын
You are empathetic.
@cindytroxler2838
@cindytroxler2838 7 жыл бұрын
Aww you hit the nail on the head with me, I to cry a lot my husband often says just stop, but I can't control it. I've been like this since I was a teen This video was so helpful to me. Thanks so much
@garydietiker7846
@garydietiker7846 2 жыл бұрын
Your comments just show that you are a kind-hearted human being and you have empathy for those who are in one way or another suffering I thoroughly enjoy reading and watching your videos once again thank you
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