Top 17 Ways to Avoid Being a Crappy Man in 2024 (Ep. 548)

[@Mr.hackins]

i saw you on MikeForce and let me tell you, it was refreshing. it's so hard to find men in this head space; real men of God with a thirst and drive to be better. happy to subscribe

[@elquelpo]

God bless you Kyle. Sometimes I feel so alone having these “old values” in our modern world. I’m not the best at exemplifying them everyday but I try. It gives me hope to know there are others like you sharing this with the world. I hope you read this and know your work is valued in many ways.

[@wingandhog]

Good topics. I am 64 and have been practicing these things for many years after learning the hard way. Life is good when you do things right. But first and foremost when you walk with God

[@AJE-im6rr]

Great video Kyle and greetings from Liverpool, England. Spot on about the sports specifically, I'm committed to changing that this year!

[@BackwardsSociety]

Hopefully this will save some folks some time typing the list out for themselves. Great list Kyle, new listener here but this is exactly what I've been looking for. 17 Ways to Avoid being a crappy man in 2024 1. Become a weapon 2. Family Relationship “Think of yourself last” 3. Be Present - Get rid of your smartwatch 4. Make a Gratitude List 5. Don’t let sports ruin your night 6. Do incredibly difficult physical things 7. Get involved in a local Church 8. Study the bible - with other Men 9. Stop giving money to people that hate you and your values 10. No porn, no jerking off 11. Be known for what you are for, and against 12. Don’t pretend you know something that you don’t 13. Be extra nice to support staff 14. Don’t be late 15. Give everything a “Once Over” 16. Get involved locally in your community 17. Focus on Discipline not motivation

[@Recon-xm8vi]

New member to this Podcast. I saw you on Glover's podcast for the first time. Although there's a significant age difference between us, you're spot on and very relatable. Look forward to hearing more from you.

[@davidvanschubert9093]

Same. Found him on Glovers channel. I’m 18 and live in Canada. There aren’t many good guys telling us how to be masculine in the physical sense of the word😢.

[@leonthomas1444]

And I’m listening to you all the way from the Caribbean and my name is Daniel and a lot of guys need to listen to you .

[@danielalexander7557]

15:15 his own gratitude list for inspiration for my own

[@nwilson228]

100% agree to keep the "don't let sports ruin your night" every year. I was the same way for many years as most men can get watching sports. I am a big braves fan who lost to the cardinals playoffs in 2019 and I acted so stupidly breaking a chair on my back porch along with drinking. God revealed this to me and from then on stopped caring so much about sports. Still watch them and cheer for my "side" but I have no desire to act like that again and get mad cause men playing in a sport I have no control over when they make a mistake.

[@blakewickersham5410]

New to this podcast, I saw you on Mike Glovers Podcast and look forward to listening and learning.

[@floydwills8681]

This is so good! Thank you so much, Kyle. I am sending this to my son as well.

[@jg_jgjg]

Found you from Mike Glovers podcast. Subscribed.

[@DylanHughesPhotoVideo]

Also, admitting that you don’t know everything doesn’t make you look like an idiot. Intellectually curious people naturally ask a lot of questions and understand that no one knows everything, and that the only way to learn more is by actually being honest a key what you do know. The only reason someone pretends to know everything is because, their tiny little ego is more important to them than truth and the pursuit of knowledge. I’m fortunate to have never had this particular issue, because I actually want to learn more than I want people to think highly of me for unearned wisdom.

[@Jeremy-j9f]

Thank you for this episode 🙏🏼 It’s a perfect encouragement for me today

[@therecoverytabernacle]

Thank you for your ministry

[@aaronwhite3298]

1. Become a Weapon- I know Tae Bo 2. Think of myself last- I don't think about myself at all. I'm last at anything and everything. 3. Give the person in front of me my full attention - I'm too poor for a smart watch 4. Make a gratitude list- I'm thankful for the crap I have 5. Don't let sports ruin your night - Sports are pointless, I'm safe 6. Do incredible difficult things- I work with people that test my limits everyday and it's increasingly difficult to not losing my mind and temper, but I haven't... Yet! 7. Get involved in a local church - I work nights and all the programs are at night, my apologies! 8. Study the Bible with other men- I don't know other men, it's weird 9. Stop giving money to people that hate you - My wife does the shopping, can't control her where she goes shopping. 10- No porn no jerking off- That's a private thing 11. Known for what I'm for and against - no one listens to me, so it doesn't matter 12. Don't pretend to know something that I don't - I don't know anything so I have no problem, I'm always an idiot 13. Be nice to service providers - ONLY if they provide good service 14. Don't be late- No one cares if I'm late. 15. Start giving things a once over- I have autocorrect, I'm safe 16. Figure out what's going on locally - I'm in California, it's a losing battle. 17. Focus on discipline - I'm always tired, I wish I could have the energy to have discipline! Overall, not a crappy man, thanks 👍

[@leonthomas1444]

Hello Kyle I have been looking and listening to other podcasts but I wasn’t getting that good word I was look for but as soon as I listen to your podcast and how you speak and just let every thing out on the table I knew you were the guy I need to listen to and I’m happy that your doing this

[@leonthomas1444]

And I’m listening to you from the Caribbean and my name is Daniel and trust me a lot of guys need to hear you.

[@maxwilliams13]

#5: Don't let sports ruin your night... man that one convicted me. Being from Alabama, that's a tough one to swallow

[@brokenfish7]

Hey brother! Love what you’re doing! Just wanted to point out that the slash in URLs is a forward slash and not a back slash. Godspeed!

[@Freedom_And_Fire]

How many came over from Mike Glover's podcast? Good stuff, subscribed!

[@germangastelumjr7228]

Love the content, on point!!!

[@ChristKrew-Rev1.8]

Thoughts on topical studies we can do together with other men? I do not mind book by book and ch. by ch. but men are dying spiritually with issues of this time at this moment in time.

[@Shuberger]

11:00 does this mean there is a Timex T66801 undaunted life collaboration coming?

[@MrBrandosauce]

Bro, first time listening to this podcast. Great job getting rid of the immature, toxic fandom crap. I find that stuff disgusting and foolish.

[@dreamsaresharedhere_]

I pray that your content reaches men lost from all around the world and especially this country. So that we all may benefit from your message which is healthy masculinity and the most important message of all: Jesus Christ dying for the sins of the world.

[@austinmoore7078]

I needed to hear this

[@synergates1]

Thank you for spreading the message I've been banging the drum on for years. If Conservative men won't draw the line at child mutilation and infanticide, then they have no line. Daily Wire and Black Rifle Coffee are fertile ground for other moral discussions. But regardless, strong work!

[@OneGold_777]

On the sports thing, if you're that invested into "your" team, and they happen to lose, Your testosterone takes a hit as well

[@nateb9135]

New to your channel. You spoke about going to church. But since all these denominations don't truly exist per the Bible. What church should I be going to?

[@Kodijensen7]

The church that’s best for you. There is no answer. Go to many churches and find one that aligns with your values.

[@BiblicalMan-613]

I'll have to admit, sometimes the results of grabbler football leave me feeling grumpy and uneasy. I do have to work on that. Great video, thank you.

[@jerimiahbethel4619]

Good Call with LOGOS BIBLE

[@emptylabs2993]

I will second this. First time I had heard of it and even without putting any money out, this seems like an incredible resource for digging deeper.

[@zzconmanzz1]

You should really look into black rifle coffee before the recommendation.

[@alienspy08]

God first, others second, you last.

[@RabidFox33]

On the subject of shop our values, I need to plug EveryLife diapers. All of the major diaper brands are huge supporters of abortion. EveryLife diapers believe every life matters!

[@jcstroble91]

Netflix stopped getting my money over cuties

[@DylanHughesPhotoVideo]

Porn is bad, but that argument you made was invalid… you also don’t have sex (Within the confines of your marriage) in a business meeting, not because it’s bad, but because it’s inappropriate to do so. It’s intimate and private, like all things sexual should be. You also don’t defecate in the middle of a business meeting… because that’s not the time and place. Lol. I’m nit picking…your point is valid; The example was poorly thought out. Just some constructive criticism.

[@DylanHughesPhotoVideo]

Also, your example about addiction shows you clearly don’t understand the nature of addiction whatsoever. You have choice, but your will is greatly compromised and your body and brain chemistry is altered. So it’s not as simple as you stated to stop. I know this from experience, having struggled with addiction to it, and many other things. Things in life are not so simple… Jocko Willink’s solutions don’t always work at scale, as much as tough guys would like to think they do.

[@Kodijensen7]

I think this comment is Cope. Addiction is something I struggle with. It IS as simple as stopping the action. Just stop. There will be days where you struggle and the urge kicks in harder but you can do so many other things besides the ONE thing your brain is telling you to do. Anything else but that one thing.

[@Exitnextright2]

Make that phone call to a brother.