TOP 4 THINGS TO STOP DOING TO YOUR HAIR! | HAIR DONT'S |

[@shakane95]

Ladies I found satin pillow cases at Dollar Tree !!!

[@TMarieAus24]

Those are the best ones!!!!! Buy 4 at a time

[@dinas1825]

And they have micro fiber towels!

[@bettinaorevil5056]

Lucky

[@anestiasiamillingen8707]

Same I have a black one

[@satoriadillon7784]

Me to black and white pillowcase

[@AccordingToBrii]

I’m extra like Kelsey. I sleep in a scarf, a bonnet, and use a satin pillowcase. The trifecta! Lol 😂

[@Alyssaluv22]

Same! I don't want my hair touching my pillowcase AT ALL!

[@corlettehilton2953]

Giiiiiirrrrrrlllll me too

[@marissa3821]

Me too girl but it still falls off sometimes lol

[@Monicaizpeace]

Same!

[@MsHoneybabe2025]

So a du rag isnt silky?

[@StaceyValdez]

I side eye people who skip deep conditioning 😭😭 Ya curls are looking amazing 😍

[@Alyssaluv22]

I've deep conditioned for *every* wash for over 4 years now.

[@MileydisH]

Traveler86 Love Exactly. I don’t ever refresh my curls and only deep condition when needed. 🤷🏽‍♀️

[@JenLuvs16]

Traveler86 Love Right! Surprisingly my hair has been in better condition since I’ve stopped DCing so much. I just make sure I’m using a good conditioner.

[@sewintoit7040]

🤣😂Kelsey: " you know your hair too tight if the meat gather" So relatable

[@kiwicov]

But why when she said it I envisioned it😂

[@sewintoit7040]

@@kiwicov lol..I know right

[@sewintoit7040]

@Nyesha Harris 🤣not the knocker balls with the loud borretts when u shake your head.

[@eVaniwithaV]

Literally the reason i started deep conditioning overnight consistently was because of you guys! lol And yes I gotta put on 2 "plastic caps" aka grocery bags and then a beanie and then I go to sleep!

[@OzariaGrace]

Be careful with doing this! Keeping your hair wet for hours and hours overnight is the number one way to cause hygral fatigue (or moisture overload) as your cuticles are swollen and open for long long periods of time, which eventually leads to the protein bonds in your hair breaking down. So it’s actually not healthy for your hair in the long run or continuously :)

[@zzzCUPcake123]

Grace Agreed! Experience this and took forever to recover

[@OzariaGrace]

Mirta Craft that’s true the balance is so important! But after a certain amount of time your hair would have absorbed all it can, that’s why directions normally tell you how long to leave it on for as adding extra hours isn’t necessary. If it hasn’t penetrated into your hair after the suggested time then the formula isn’t for your hair.

[@OzariaGrace]

zzzCUPcake 123 yeah it’s just as bad as protein overload :(

[@aprilt.3868]

@@OzariaGrace I sit under the hair dryer. Let it cool down for an hour. Then wash it out.

[@jewelsjewels3655]

Kendra's hair looks sooo good, healthy and dense. And the layers 😍😍😍

[@812BrownSugar]

So fluffy today!

[@collegekidd100]

Kelsey: Stop neglecting your hair at night Me: *laying in bed, watching this video with nothing on my head*

[@kerinabrown2071]

So me lol

[@halymam3485]

Mannnnn this is the hardest for me

[@collegekidd100]

@@halymam3485 right, finally got myself a bonnet

[@beverlycharles6534]

Ugh I just can't!!! I don't even like the way my bare hair feels on the pillow. I have to have my scarf, in an emergency I just grab a plastic bag, ANYTHING!

[@tatyanna408]

I’ve been watching them for so long these don’ts, do not apply to me because I’ve been taught to know better. 😌

[@jasminejackson4877]

I dont even look at deep conditioning as optional like its basically a part of routine

[@kyleychanel5574]

It literally takes 3-5 business days to do our hair 😂😂😭

[@jasminejackson4877]

@@kyleychanel5574and that's facts 🤣

[@mariahhicks6098]

Deep conditioning is mandatory every wash day!

[@shannonarmstrong6364]

For me 💯

[@cristallatus]

Thank you for telling the people.. 🗣🗣im tired of seeing ppls thoughts braided up in cornrows!!

[@chesneectp]

😂🤣

[@jayannadanielle7118]

Fa real 😂😭😂😂😂

[@jewelsjewels3655]

😂😂😂☠☠

[@Monicaizpeace]

Hollering!

[@cristallatus]

I mean hope's, dreams and history.. microbraided... I mean.. why

[@shelbybrown5296]

I’m guilty of wearing a bun 70% of the time will stop immediately thanks loves💕💕

[@WILSONMEDIALYNN]

I had to stop playing in my hair. LOL! Just leave it alone.

[@Kesha.Sharee]

I love sleeping with a satin pillow case. Tj max and marshals has satin pillow cases for a decent price.

[@blackbutterfly233ify]

Is it authentic satin or is it polyester?

[@blackbutterfly233ify]

Also, how much are they?

[@Kesha.Sharee]

I bought it from them a long time ago, so I don’t remember the exact price but I do remember them being a decent price and not too expensive. When I bought them the packaging said satin pillow cases. I didn’t read the inside tags of the pillow cases to see what the exact materials it’s made out of.

[@cristallatus]

Kelsey: Stop neglecting your hair at night Me: 😒😑 ok, I feel attacked.

[@iamshe3275]

Yes, I felt she was talking right at me 😃

[@cristallatus]

@@iamshe3275 I know right. I wear a bonnet and I have a satin pillow case but thats it.. as dry as my hair is i need to loosen the pony tail and moisturize or something. 😂😂

[@khristalkhri8640]

Lol🤣

[@nhills505]

😂😂😂

[@francescapowell1538]

🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@Simplylockd]

I bought my satin pillow case from Sally’s. 3 years ago! It’s been washed & dried several times and no rips, tears, or fraying. $10!

Wow thanks. How may came in a pack for that?

[@tarynmishael]

I needed to hear the part about deep conditioning. I don’t do it and I need to start

[@curlygirlleskie2646]

Because of you guys deep conditioning has become an IMPORTANT part of my wash routine , I never skip it and I encourage everyone to do it once a week.

[@dezpeaceify]

Im a true believer that deep conditioning is a life saver !!!

[@preciouslafleur5390]

I just realized that one of the reasons why my hair is not progressing is because I don't use a deep conditioner or hair masque though I do deep condition, but I deep condition using a conditioner and not a deep conditioner. I do everything else and that one thing is preventing hair growth and retention. Thank you soooo much for the video. You girls look amazing as always. Keep up the good work.🤗

[@weedneydesmornes1466]

I’m a lazy natural but I’m working on the weekly maintenance 🥴. Thanks for the tips!! ♥️

[@morgan.greene]

14 minutes and 30 seconds of pure TRUTH! Preach!

[@cheresethedaringhalfofme6762]

#1 is why I stopped going to the African hairbraiders. I got some micros and while the lady was braiding she kept yanking on my head and I told her she was braiding that particular spot too tight. When I took the braids out two of them took my hair out down to the scalp. That part of my hair no matter what I do to it now does not grow like the rest of my hair.

[@FawnShea]

I got lazy and instead of re-purchasing my deep conditioner after running out, I started using a rinse out conditioner instead and there was a noticeable difference in the health of my hair (for the worse). I recently bought some more deep conditioner and I already see huge changes in how shiny and moisturized my hair is. Like my curls are poppin and all I use is cream 🙌🏽

[@relaxinghour578]

I was just about to skip deep conditioning too 😂 let me go put some in

[@briathomas5310]

I get my satin pillow cases from the Dollar Store! 🤣 Them thangs are really cheap!

[@Liimoncello]

Because of you two I deep condition every week. I will wait patiently for the day you release your own hair line and especially deep conditioner 🤎

[@ayomidebalogun2500]

Their " yeah " rhymes... it's so cute 💖

[@nadaalfatih967]

Kendra’s hair though ♥️♥️

[@dijanaepolite-moody9449]

I would like to see a weekly hair routine for Kendra !

[@NaturallyLatrice]

All if my slick pillowcases are from Walmart and I’ve had them for years. No damage from washing.

[@teachingwithliz]

Man I needed this video! My hair literally started shedding. 😭😭😭 I have 4c hair and it’s a constant struggle for me to keep it moisturized 😭😭

[@beamgeorges3607]

You might need a protein treatment too. That helps with my breakage tremendously

[@rionell412]

Same here. If you have high porosity hair like me then protein is your friend

[@ShadesofSage]

Love the tips ladies! I went Natural because of y'all 10 years ago and been following your routines for years so it definitely works! Thank you!!!

[@sheplansshebudgets507]

More deep conditioning, utilize satin pillowcase and focus on healthy hair. Thank you for the tips! 🤗💖

[@kathleenharris8824]

I have worn a high bun all week long. Also, out of laziness I keep the bun at night underneath my satin slap. Now, I will switch it up to a low bun and mud bun in one week.Great list!

[@deelaw7692]

This shows that even twins don't have the same 'type' of hair because one of the ladies took a longer time to recover from heat damage. Thanks for the tips. 🤩

[@KynKouture]

I rarely sleep with a scarf or bonnet on and I felt very seen when y’all were talking about sleeping with a bonnet on so much that I got out my bed to go put mine on 😩😂

[@twill1007]

Lol well that’s a start that you got up 👍🏽

[@NaturallyTilly]

I can always count on my girls for the BEST hair tips 🥰 Thanks for this ❤

[@nathaliemora4933]

Deep conditioning is something I do not skip!!! That definitely makes a huge difference!!!! But I do have to stop doing tight buns!! Love these tips!

[@mizjazT]

I always forget to put my bonnet on or I’m just lazy and go to sleep, but I’m going to get my life together and make it a habit to put it on.

[@Liz-ic6jb]

@Jasmine T. A tip I learned to remember the night bonnet: put it on your bed under your pillow. You're welcome ☺️

[@SKYYLOVE]

*this video is gonna blow up.*

[@temi1207]

I’ve never slept on a satin/silk pillow case, but that’s about to change now...thank you ladies 🤗

[@lexigloup2284]

I agree with all of this so much. Another thing that I actually think helps is not going protective style crazy, maybe 1-3x a year tops. Also do not do the protective styles back to back let the hair breathe in between! I have to tell my coworkers this all the time.

[@brittaney7599]

Great video! I had to start using oil only for my scalp instead of all over my hair. Most leave-in and stylers have oils in them already & adding extra oil on top dried my hair out. Thank you for the tips again :)

[@retrootaku15]

Love this, sometimes when I am being lazy and hate sitting under a dryer, I warm up a hot towel, I wrap my hair up with a plastic cap with deep conditioner, then I wrap it again in the hot towel and put another plastic bag, and then a turbie twister to help deep conditioning haha. it's a lot, but it works :)

[@jennipassrush5468]

Sis, you out here saving lives right now! 🙌🏽

[@ladyschatze9159]

We have many silk bonnets and I brought silk pillow cases from Amazon in different colors. This was really helpful.💯👍🏾Thanks!!!

[@ladyt4062]

I was wondering ,what are y'all doing to stay busy during the pandemic? . My 15 year old twin daughters volunteer at the Children museum one day a week,and I walk outside or at the mall for my exercise . Of course we wear our mask!!

[@almondiefrancis9451]

"When?" I said it at the same time lol. I do all the "do's". Been natural all my life. I love you ladies...you all get more and more beautiful 😍

[@nhills505]

I don't know why I like when they unintentionally say the same thing at the same time or repeat instantly what the other said lol. Super cute 💛😂👍🏽

[@desireecoleman1432]

I’m guilty for not deep conditioning.😞 I committed to adding this into my routine starting this week. So, I’ll be on the hunt for a favorite deep conditioner.

[@torithomas3228]

I recommend Mielle rosemary mint dc. $10 and it makes my hair feel amazing.

[@gaby5930]

They have satin pillow cases at dollar tree! $1 can’t beat that

[@blackbutterfly233ify]

That's not real satin. Real satin doesn't cost a dollar. That's polyester satin

[@gaby5930]

Carrie .Blanding yes! But a lot of people that buy pillow cases go for affordable ones that are typically $5-15 that are polyester satin anyways. And even if it’s polyester satin you’re not gonna get breakage and your hair dried out like you would if you had cotton pillows. So for those on a tight budget I think it’s worth it

[@hey_cherry_hey]

Y'all have taught me sooooo much about taking care of my hair, and different products to try...I'm happy I found Y'all channel.......love you both💚💜💚💜

[@itssamaria]

Damn, I was today years old when I heard about most of these. Thank you for making this lol. We need more “hairducation”!!

[@AngelaG2015]

I deep condition overnight but I need to try using heat to penetrate my shafts. Just purchased the scrunches and pillow cases. Thanks for sharing! ❤️

[@Handfullofsmiths]

Kelsey: “...when I straighten my hair I’m trying to make it last.” Me: 🗣 starts singing Keith Sweat, “Make It Last Forever” 😂

[@MissJocie2U]

🤣🤣🤣

[@azurewinged4088]

Lol

[@leleedaniels2413]

I’ve been doing most of them on my head but I make sure I take care of my daughters hair!

[@bujub5542]

The best regimen is my deep conditioning w my heating cap.

[@tanishiahicks]

This is so helpful!!! I did know about the satin pillowcase I just needed some suggestions on a better ones thanks you guys!!

[@SunshineKK99]

Trying to finesse my wash and go routine for the summer. I'll keep trying. Thanks for the tips of course yall hair are gorg as usual!! 😍😍

[@MzDami]

I sleep with my deep conditions overnight. I rarely add heat to my deep condition routine but I will definitely add that to my routine.

[@shantiw9416]

After 30 minutes it don’t work anymore. Sleeping with it overnight is pointless

[@MzDami]

@@shantiw9416 oh wow I didnt know that. Thank you for sharing

[@CornygirlL7]

Kendra! Your hair is growing and looks thicker! 😍

[@ForeverBrianaM]

You guys hit the nail on the head. During the end of last year and beginning of this year I have been getting protective styles (feed in braids, box braids, etc) to give my hair a break cause I had got really bad heat damage and once I took the braids out the final time I noticed soooo much breakage. Some pieces are so short and broken off near my scalp I was so sad. This quarantine has been he time I really needed to start taking better care of my hair. Now I have a routine and stick to it and my hair is getting better. Still not where it was but I am sure with consistency it will get there.

[@Liz-ic6jb]

@Nyesha Harris It's not the stylist fault. Those braids are damaging to hair and hair follicle. My edges started thinning from the tightness & gel.

[@jennifersneed2655]

I so agree with the leaving your hair alone and just letting it do it’s thing. I have a friend who did and her hair grew so long because she left it alone. Thanks ladies for the other tips

[@BlackAmethyst2]

That deep conditioning rule is absolutely true! While I was transitioning I stuck to my regimen and even after my hair grew to where it is now. I then got soooo lazy with my hair and it hasn't grown past under my bra strap. Every time I start to wonder why, I remember, "girl start dc again"!

[@june1stgemini]

COME THROUGH ladies!!! I'm trying to get my curls back popping!!

[@BarbieeXlove]

❤️Can you gorgeous ladies please do a video on how you keep your hair detangled/how you both detangle your hair? Loved watching your video as usual ❤️❤️❤️!

[@TheEliottFamilyof7]

Heyyy tall tgank you for your endless knowledge you both help the Elliott family of 7 keep up with these long hair kids 🥰

[@jmacknaturalista]

Definitely here for this, I’m late but here!!! Love the tips. I used to do the ponytails a lot when younger too!!! Now not so much! My hair is more free. And yes yes yes to deep conditioning. I started weekly when I transitioned and now I’m fully natural and celebrating my 3 years at the end of this month! My hair is always moisturized for the most part, unlike at the beginning (transitioning phase and big chop phase), I didn’t understand why my hair was so dry. Natural hair doesn’t have to always be dry, great tips!!! I always sleep in mine! I put my shower cap and put a t shirt over it😅I put my bonnet on as soon as I get home, lol. Bra off, bonnet on! Period! Lol. I use a silk bonnet and a silk pillow case. Just in case! You can get silk pillow cases for $1 at the dollar tree, in black. At SOME dollar trees!!! My mom found them! I purchased my scrunches at Tjmaxx or Marshall’s like 10 for $5.99, all black, satin scrunchies...anywho I do all dis...so I’m on the road to long hair!!! You ladies are hair goals!!!🥰😍😘

[@marseawilson5603]

Adding a little heat to the deep conditioner... game changer! I experience excessive breakage from a versatile sew in & literally after deep conditioning with a little oil added and after two months, my hair had completely filled back in

[@ItsKalyn]

When I'm deep conditioning now I stopped putting my hair in a high bun and I put it in a low bun and I've noticed my ends being more moisturized. Also, my denim brush is my friend😂 really getting in and smoothing my hair has really helped my curls clump and not to be Tangled. Also hold your denim brush straight up and not to the side when brushing your hair.

[@adowri82]

These tips are much needed. Thank you for sharing.

[@elizabethjohnson6773]

I'm loving the volume in your hair Kendra!!

[@TheTyreeFoster]

I enjoyed this video! Happy to say I learned NOT to do each of these “dont’s” over the last few years from watching all of your hair videos! I grew my hair out to the longest length it’s ever been about 4 years ago (bra strap length) and I kept a good wash schedule BUT I forgot how vital it was to deep condition each time for my 4b/4C hair and all of my growth progress broke off in a matter of weeks (lost 5 inches of length). I was discouraged but now years later I have the length back and I never miss a deep condition now! ❤️ Also last week I discovered I have low porosity hair. I did the water cup test in which my hair strand floated on top (means that moisture doesn’t penetrate normally for me) and then once I deep conditioned and blow dried it, I took another strand and this one sank to the bottom of the water cup in no time. This let me know how the deep condition process allows moisture to penetrate the hair which allows it to be healthy and less brittle

[@sonnydraper653]

Hi I'm still not sure if I'm low porosity or high please share how to do the test on my hair thank you your hair is pretty hope you can help

[@JazminMoniqueDR]

I thought I was deep conditioning enough, but I'm clearly not. I was the once a week shorty, but I'm going to kick it up a notch now. I also need to stop washing all my hair and just wash my scalp. Thank you for this great advice.

[@GlamTam]

This video helped so much 🙌🏽 I noticed a small line of breakage from doing high puffs in the same spot, I’ll definitely try switching the position! Thank you 👏🏽💗🥰

[@JansLifeTV]

Awesome tips. I've started co-washing more and washing with shampoo a little less, and have noticed a big difference from that as well. And of course, I learned that from y'all too, lol.

[@LaVondaTravelQueen]

yesss I braid my own hair never too tight and I retain my length

[@zurierae2106]

Ok ladies I have had silk pillow cases in and out online carts. Im.pulling the plug. I definitely used to be once and month or once in a while type of deep conditioning type of person, but since watching yoir.videos over the last year I do it twice a.montj and have noticed a huge difference in my daughter and I hair. So thank you for the advice and product recommendations!! Missed yall content. Keep it comming!!!

[@loriallen503]

Yes...I will be getting some silk/satin scrunchies. Thank you. Love you.💛💛

[@MieshaMarie]

😂 😂 “don’t worry about it looking ugly”

[@kimberlykyles4697]

Thanks an I agree you ladies curls so healthy looking

[@miasmith7061]

Thank you for this ladies, so informative. Please continue coaching and inspiring us! 👑👑

[@rhondamiddleton4140]

Over nite works for me. Love deep conditioning.

[@yoshekarefour1749]

Hi ladies, I’m taking 📝 Thanks for sharing‼️🤗

[@beautywithbrinxx9515]

Kelsey I love how extra you are!!! 😂

[@mrs.neshia8857]

Great tips Ladies because I see a lot of edges gone

[@mrs.wheatly7612]

All items are in my Amazon cart 😊

[@jasminpou-reed9238]

just ordered my pillowcase. Thx

[@karonedwards1038]

Hello Twins! I ran across you 2 beauties while researching hair growth. I too am a Twin and I was for one researching mainly for my Twin who just had to shave her head bald months ago because she has cancer. I also wanted the info because my hair has fallen out over the years as well. I believe it's a combo of old age and chemicals from past relaxers & meds from surgeries. Both my Twin and I, at one time, had hair like you both and we want it back! And we didn't do most of the things you've recommended, especially the part about bonnets and scarfs. Simply because us O.Gs did not use those techniques back in the day because of the "male factor". It wasn't the most sexy look at night LOL! Now that times have changed we'll incorporate your dos and don'ts, along with the products I have seen you recommend on your older posts. Thanks so much and I'll keep you posted on our journey ;-)

[@kenyak2959]

Velvet scrunchies are good too I got the velvet on amazon

[@marilyncobb4469]

I just got my satin scrunchies today. I threw away all ouchless scrunchies that rip out my hair .

[@coaluck]

The dollar store has silk pillow cases too. I wear a bonnet but I have to admit I stopped using my pillowcase because it’s hot pink and my bedding is so nice and doesn’t match. That’s corny I know but I definitely need to invest in a soft pink one, grey blue or grey . Good video ladies

[@amberlane1808]

Great tips, my hair ins't as long as yalls but I want to start using those scrunchies for when I pull up my mini twists.

[@jogianna]

I should commit to deep conditioning regularly

[@iesha9844]

I wear my hair in a bun on the top of my head 90% of the time. Recently I noticed that I had a lot of breakage around my crown area! Was thinking I had a health condition until stumbling across this video ( I don’t feel like Ill so must be the tension) thanks ladies will change it up and see if it helps x

[@RondaSmith144Empress]

I'm anal about my satin or silk EVERYTHING, deep conditioning, pincurls after my winter only Dominican roller set, and only a wide tooth comb😁. Great reminders queens😍

[@JOS..]

I am not consistent with my sleep routine. I be tired. Alot on my plate, but def will work on it! I’m obsessed with conditioners and my hair doesn’t like protective styles. Rocking a twa for now. Its easy

[@inspirejanel]

I will correct changing my ponytails around because I notice breakage in one spot. I always wear a durag at night before going to bed!

[@Ohmybeautyartistry]

I don't deep condition 😭 I promise to start thou. This was a very helpful video!

[@f.u.noseyassstalker7147]

I found satin pillow cases from Dollar tree here in Portland, OR. 1$ - HON!!!!👌👌👌

[@monetsodopee]

I still can’t believe Kendra cut her hair 😍!