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Hi everyone, In this video I will break down the top 5 effects of growing up in an enmeshed relationship with your parent.
Here are the top 5 ways mother enmeshment affects you in your adulthood.
1) Mental Health Issues aka personality disorders like borderline personality disorder, or bipolar personality disorder
2) Self esteem issues because of lack of identity and years of being humiliated by the enmeshing parent.
3) Boundary issues and this is huge one with those who suffered enmeshment because they grew up in an environment where their boundaries were violated 24/7 - 365 by their own parent or parents in some cases.
4) Unstable adult relationships because of the instability they encountered during their childhood.
5) Victim mentality- When an enmeshed parent refuses to take responsibility for their actions and enmeshing behaviors , not only is the child walking around with a confused state of mind , almost like in a fog, like I said earlier, but it also teaches the child to be just like them and walk with a victim mentality that’s filled with shame. This is especially true if there is elements of parentification involved in the child-parent relationship.